But regardless of the age topher has been taking care of anita so he should have just been bold enough and say his age, if she doesn't want him anymore because of age then it's her lose cus topher has really been taking care of anita emotionally and physically in that house. A man is a man regardless of his age as long as he's performing his manly duties and not playing or toiling with your emotion and time as a child.
My take here is that Glory should be part of this show or big brother or Ebuka should be listening to her videos. They really make sense and I believe they will be able to right there wrongs
Not only you Glory,Topher was the one stressing and draining Anita and myself ,I was even tired sef….😂 Topher should learn how to communicate and be brave when having a chat…. I didn’t blame Anita having a tone on Topher because she was really draining and manipulating him…..
It is not always easy to let out your age as a guy especially when the lady in question you like is a bit older than you. Most Nigerian women don't like the fact that they are older than whoever it's they are dating only a few of them can agree and so i understood Topher's struggle cos I have been there.
I’m sorry ppl but I’m among those who think Topher is boy. There’s never been a time on this season i felt topher a man, yes he seems to be matured mentally but he still gives off boyish vibes. That’s my perspective anyway.
@@hedgaf107Your assumption! You don’t know me but have made your conclusions based on pre conceived notions you have about women and money. Must everything be narrowed down to money? Well, whatever floats your boat.
@@hedgaf107 no seriously no, i don’t know if you are married but if you are married you will understand with me that body physiology of a woman is different from a man.
The honest truth about True Love is that it has nothing to do with Age, Religion, Tribe, Nationality or Race no matter how much the situation may be. Anita having known from onset that she can’t date a younger person, she should have done her homework properly before she felt in love with the young guy. Moral Respect is what matters in any Relationship. Anita was not being fair to the boy.
Topher ironically is mature for his age, he even carries himself better than most of the other guys in the house. Where the issue will be is that Anita might be looking at settling down and Topher might want to wait a bit. They should have a proper discussion when they're out of the house
Anita is too smart to be draining her brain cells with someone who's not forthcoming coming....... "You're saying a lot but saying nothing"😂😂😂😅; ahhhh.....Anita was on fireeee🔥🔥💯
You are right. All of them whispers. As for Topher is literally annoying. He doesn’t even open his mouth when speaking. He speaks in codes. Anita , Ben, Shaun, Wanni all of them. If they won’t use the rule book fine but then they should end the show cos it’s very boring now .
finally the video I was waiting for is here,tell me y you could hate Glory Elijah she always spills the tea.As for age for me it matters I can't date someone younger than me it's a no no for me
Gloria, can u please get biggie make sure that the viewers hear the communications of these housemates. Viewers can't hear anything this season even when they are gossiping. It's so frustrating. U are so ryt Gloria. Now u have become ears and it also frustrates u.
This conversation stressed me 😩😩😩 To me though during that particular conversation from my own perspective Anita tried to make it easier for Topher to come clean. But Topher wasn’t forth coming with it. For the whispering in the house I’ve given up
I am on the verge of quitting watching this season 9 BBN. It is very frustrating when you can not hear or make sense of housemates conversations. In fact, the majority of the house is guilty, especially Shaun,Ben,Chizoba,Victoria, Torpha,Sooj, OMG😲 ALL the housemates whisper some times but these ones do it the most.
Age is just a num but he shouldn't HV stressed out to answer BC hm being 24 he is more matured but all the same he was surely afraid to loose Anita n Anita the oda side should take it slowly on toph n enjoy her self
From my experience, I once dated a guy who was 3years younger than me and I must say, that relationship was one of the best I've had. His maturity was exceptional. You wouldn't even guess I was older. On the flip side, I also dated a man who was 10 years older than me, and believe me, that was my worst relationship. He lacked communication skills, had zero maturity, and his ego was quite annoying. Age to me is a number. The conversation between Anita and Topher was a hard one to watch
It’s because he scared of losing her that’s why else he would have let go of her. For me Anita was was acting too proud and arrogant for me.because she can really tell the guy likes her
It's understandable that Anita felt deceived, especially in a setting where trust and authenticity are key. For some, age difference can be a significant concern, and it’s clear from their conversation that this could be an issue for them outside the house. While love is said to conquer all, this situation highlights the importance of honesty and open communication.
For this Anita and topher situation it can work if she removes from her head that age Thot BCOS already she really has a deep feeling for him so if she can move pass that limit she has placed in her head it would possible.
Glory I have a message for big brother.please tell him to tell those housemates to STOP looking at the cameras.Handi. Wanna and Shaun ohhhh myyy it's very frustrating to see because we don't know if they are acting for the cameras or it's what they would do.please!
It seems cameras make either a sound when turning to these pipo , a light, or something we dont know....bkoz its not only these 3.... I ve ever seen others even like Nelly, Kassia....etc I think cameras shud just be a little hidden
To me age don't matter and pls don't like to me about age.. I have meet a guy that is 24yrs 8yrs younger than his wife but looks and behave like an 35yrs for even older so matured in his thinking and approach to life and business that when he married his wife that was 8yrs older people say alot about him been a gold digger and she been a sugarmummy to him, but that was not true cos thou he was d younger one but he was richer not by family wealth but by his hard work as an engineer that started working hard at age of 18yrs made his millions at that age 18yrs so he was richer than his wife but people knows his wife as a wealthy woman because she was d type that was out there. The guy is not a out going guy so no one knows about him at much so it made people to think that he was not rich that him been younger one he is a gold digger. Now the couple have 3 beautiful kids and they are still married together for 12yrs now.
Honestly age is just but a number. But also a big age gap " man to woman" is not good abeg. Let's talk the truth. IMO at least 2 years, when it comes to 3yrs I can try and close my one eye 😂
Miss glory why don't you also advise your shortstory website when you are doing your intro or just talk about it🤷 I'm going to ask this one until you reply direct
Glory, Ben instigated this matter I dont even knw if Ben is man enough Why is he following through the corners He doesn't like Chizoba, he likes Anita that's why he really wants to manipulate this topher n anita relationship It's really annoying
It is not always easy to let out your age as a guy especially when the lady in question you like is a bit older than you. Most Nigerian women don't like the fact that they are older than whoever it's they are dating only a few of them can agree and so i understood Topher's struggle cos I have been there.
Glory my question is what is the reasonable or an acceptable age difference between couples? Ladies Gentlemen I know and understanding it depends on individuals. I feel Tophet should hv just bern honest with Anita .
But regardless of the age topher has been taking care of anita so he should have just been bold enough and say his age, if she doesn't want him anymore because of age then it's her lose cus topher has really been taking care of anita emotionally and physically in that house. A man is a man regardless of his age as long as he's performing his manly duties and not playing or toiling with your emotion and time as a child.
Topher is a clown
Anita : How old are you
Topher: with you I'm ageless😂😂
I've never been more stressed by a conversation in my life fr
This conversation was so frustrating and tiring yesterday that Kayode had to change it sef😂😂😂
Kayode even stayed too long on the conversation. I had to change my TV😤
Gloria low-key makes me invest in this show . Keep it going dear one ❤😊
My take here is that Glory should be part of this show or big brother or Ebuka should be listening to her videos. They really make sense and I believe they will be able to right there wrongs
Am sure they pay attention subtly and remotely. Glory is always on point.
I concur
Topher was like ommo let me not take my hand and break this thing oh 😂😂😂
Not only you Glory,Topher was the one stressing and draining Anita and myself ,I was even tired sef….😂
Topher should learn how to communicate and be brave when having a chat….
I didn’t blame Anita having a tone on Topher because she was really draining and manipulating him…..
Topher and Anita are so perfect 4 each other Abeg two calm and beautifull people❤🎉🎉🎉
I'm officially Aces fan 😂😂
I just learnt something from Glory today. " To restrict to flow of information is called Noise". Thank you teacher Glory.
Honestly thank you
I love their relationship and I hope it’s get better from here, Age is just a number but then everyone has their own take on Age difference..
I was so frustrated yesterday, I had to put of my tv and go to bed, Ben is always found of whispering
It was funny and frustrating at the same time😂
Why can't he be open because Ebuka will expose him soon ,no need to lie to someone that u u clam to love
I rushed here because the two gave me HBP last night😅😂😂😂😂😂
How hard could it be to say”I am 24”, besides u would hardly know his Gen-z because of how mature and reserve he is.
He is not 24 he is 26.
he likes her na why
It is not always easy to let out your age as a guy especially when the lady in question you like is a bit older than you. Most Nigerian women don't like the fact that they are older than whoever it's they are dating only a few of them can agree and so i understood Topher's struggle cos I have been there.
@@richmanoti8439 exactly.
Topher started it he did not even say he is younger. He is still not telling the truth.
@@ayandammabatho6903 I think he is older than 24 he just don’t want to say it on national tv
@sodipeadijat9039 He's 24, it even on his BBN bio
@@sodipeadijat9039 still he must tell Anita the truth .
I’m sorry ppl but I’m among those who think Topher is boy. There’s never been a time on this season i felt topher a man, yes he seems to be matured mentally but he still gives off boyish vibes. That’s my perspective anyway.
I concur
He acts too boyish
Way too boyish
@@kuyetyawas553 Topher is 24 according to the housemates'profile on Africa Magic
As a woman, it is not my preference. I would not do it. Age matters to me.
Yes o, age matters
If the man is a billionaire. You wouldn’t say that🤣
@@hedgaf107Your assumption! You don’t know me but have made your conclusions based on pre conceived notions you have about women and money. Must everything be narrowed down to money? Well, whatever floats your boat.
@@hedgaf107 no seriously no, i don’t know if you are married but if you are married you will understand with me that body physiology of a woman is different from a man.
15:53 this one it’s in Ghana too
To me age is just a number but everyone has right to their choice on age preferences
I slept off waiting for this conversation last night, I was like, what’s this??? Talk jor
At least they gave us something to talk about because imagine watching people count beans 😂
😂
The honest truth about True Love is that it has nothing to do with Age, Religion, Tribe, Nationality or Race no matter how much the situation may be. Anita having known from onset that she can’t date a younger person, she should have done her homework properly before she felt in love with the young guy. Moral Respect is what matters in any Relationship. Anita was not being fair to the boy.
Much awaited video 😋😋😋😋
Tonita ship forever
Now that you've explained the theory of respect in Nigeria, it makes sense why she was speaking to him like that 😭😭
Topher ironically is mature for his age, he even carries himself better than most of the other guys in the house. Where the issue will be is that Anita might be looking at settling down and Topher might want to wait a bit. They should have a proper discussion when they're out of the house
Anita is too smart to be draining her brain cells with someone who's not forthcoming coming....... "You're saying a lot but saying nothing"😂😂😂😅; ahhhh.....Anita was on fireeee🔥🔥💯
😴Honestly whispering has been a thing this season...I end up not hearing most conversations...
Yeah they whisper alot
Shaun I never even bother to listen
You are right. All of them whispers. As for Topher is literally annoying. He doesn’t even open his mouth when speaking. He speaks in codes. Anita , Ben, Shaun, Wanni all of them.
If they won’t use the rule book fine but then they should end the show cos it’s very boring now .
Ben is their ring leader
@@mbchronicles8406me too all I see teeth and tongue and eyes popping
Topher told Anita she was on the hot seat, yet he ended up being on the hot seat.
I was frustrated 😠 waiting for him to speak up.
Topher could have owned it and say it out. Let d worst happen. We move on. Life no end there. Topher be a Man
She will definitely find out when she’s out and it will be more devastating
I almost cried out my frustration yesterday 😭😭
Me personally I can’t date a man younger never
That's your point of view 😊
@@MerveilleTamegne That's why she said "personally" 😂
@@majestymaurice3239 🤣 yes you are right
@@majestymaurice3239😂 tell am ooh
I can’t even try it lai lai 5yrs is way too much 😢
GE....i just❤ you......ypu are always super duper on ppint❤❤❤❤❤
finally the video I was waiting for is here,tell me y you could hate Glory Elijah she always spills the tea.As for age for me it matters I can't date someone younger than me it's a no no for me
Me no dey bother myself again ooo about the whispering. As far as I know say my dear Glory will do the analysis. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Gloria, can u please get biggie make sure that the viewers hear the communications of these housemates. Viewers can't hear anything this season even when they are gossiping. It's so frustrating. U are so ryt Gloria. Now u have become ears and it also frustrates u.
Guys is just a number as long both partners get along and be in the same age group...life goes on together...
OMG Glory I was soo frustrated especially Ben who is always whispering..
Favs😂😂 they stresssed me yesterday hah
Thank you Glory❤ for the Lords doing.
My opinion, i dont think age should be problem in any relationship.
I’m so tired of Ben he told Anita before topher would say it him self 😭
Thanks for talking to BB l hope he sees this video
Same but also not too old
Thank you glory for the update❤
13:19 big brother this whispering don vex madam Glory
It wasn’t easy at all 😂 I was just shaking for my guy 😂 Buh they are good tho
Anita and Topher's conversation🤦🏾♀️Omó I slept off because They were not making sense.
Glory my fave🥰😘
Gloria pls talk about the Ozee or Ocee and KellyReal's altercation
I don't even understand pign English thank you gloria for this .
This conversation stressed me 😩😩😩
To me though during that particular conversation from my own perspective Anita tried to make it easier for Topher to come clean. But Topher wasn’t forth coming with it.
For the whispering in the house I’ve given up
Especially Ben,he likes whispering alot,and its really annoying.
I never knew Anita was older, she’s got a baby face
It was so annoying to watch Topher should have just mentioned how old he was than going all around the circle..
I am on the verge of quitting watching this season 9 BBN. It is very frustrating when you can not hear or make sense of housemates conversations. In fact, the majority of the house is guilty, especially Shaun,Ben,Chizoba,Victoria, Torpha,Sooj, OMG😲 ALL the housemates whisper some times but these ones do it the most.
😂 Anita is voting. 😂 Sinking ship forsure😮.They more focussed on ships ❌
It’s a difficult conversation to have because Anita had said she least she will do is a 2 years older.
Age is just a num but he shouldn't HV stressed out to answer BC hm being 24 he is more matured but all the same he was surely afraid to loose Anita n Anita the oda side should take it slowly on toph n enjoy her self
From my experience, I once dated a guy who was 3years younger than me and I must say, that relationship was one of the best I've had. His maturity was exceptional. You wouldn't even guess I was older. On the flip side, I also dated a man who was 10 years older than me, and believe me, that was my worst relationship. He lacked communication skills, had zero maturity, and his ego was quite annoying. Age to me is a number. The conversation between Anita and Topher was a hard one to watch
It’s because he scared of losing her that’s why else he would have let go of her.
For me Anita was was acting too proud and arrogant for me.because she can really tell the guy likes her
I like this ship
I feel like he still didn't tell her his real age, he's probably afraid of losing her.
Yes he told her 27 and she feels it’s just 2 yrs and she can take it
When she finds out it’s actually 24 it will be devastating
Age is only a number the important thing is love.
VOTE WXH TO THE FINAL
Ben need to go home and ebuka must ask him why his so obsessed with topher and Anita’s relationship
It's understandable that Anita felt deceived, especially in a setting where trust and authenticity are key. For some, age difference can be a significant concern, and it’s clear from their conversation that this could be an issue for them outside the house. While love is said to conquer all, this situation highlights the importance of honesty and open communication.
Ben always restricting Anita from having fun he needs to go
But topher should just tell her his real age
Gloria no not the two but just topher doing like mumu 😅talk na the guy eh haba Anita is such a good girl GOD
Especially Ben when he is gossiping
It matters to me...I don't want see finish
For this Anita and topher situation it can work if she removes from her head that age Thot BCOS already she really has a deep feeling for him so if she can move pass that limit she has placed in her head it would possible.
Yeah
12:26 at this point I knew Glory was pissed. BIGGIE YOURE WARN 🫵
Glory I have a message for big brother.please tell him to tell those housemates to STOP looking at the cameras.Handi. Wanna and Shaun ohhhh myyy it's very frustrating to see because we don't know if they are acting for the cameras or it's what they would do.please!
It seems cameras make either a sound when turning to these pipo , a light, or something we dont know....bkoz its not only these 3.... I ve ever seen others even like Nelly, Kassia....etc
I think cameras shud just be a little hidden
@@Lalasophix6266 yeah the cameras should be hidden haekhona!
Topper behaves 35,,mature his behavior is very demure
@@masikawinnie8036 😄😄😄😄😄😄
I agreed with u Gloria. Topher gave me headache
Topher will spoil the remaining friendship left between them when Anita finds out he lied. He could have just said the truth
My dear 😂😂😂 their conversation was jarring 😂😂
Dude was talking a lot and saying nothing 😂
To me age don't matter and pls don't like to me about age.. I have meet a guy that is 24yrs 8yrs younger than his wife but looks and behave like an 35yrs for even older so matured in his thinking and approach to life and business that when he married his wife that was 8yrs older people say alot about him been a gold digger and she been a sugarmummy to him, but that was not true cos thou he was d younger one but he was richer not by family wealth but by his hard work as an engineer that started working hard at age of 18yrs made his millions at that age 18yrs so he was richer than his wife but people knows his wife as a wealthy woman because she was d type that was out there. The guy is not a out going guy so no one knows about him at much so it made people to think that he was not rich that him been younger one he is a gold digger. Now the couple have 3 beautiful kids and they are still married together for 12yrs now.
Honestly age is just but a number. But also a big age gap " man to woman" is not good abeg. Let's talk the truth.
IMO at least 2 years, when it comes to 3yrs I can try and close my one eye 😂
He dey takk like small pikin na 😂😂😂
Please like the video ❤
Miss glory why don't you also advise your shortstory website when you are doing your intro or just talk about it🤷 I'm going to ask this one until you reply direct
Topher and Anita is getting Intresting
To your question, it depends. Because some 40yr olds act like 20yr Olds
BEN MUST GO!!!!period… and stand that guy
I dont even see him as funny he is just annoying
@@peggynsangi5708 thank you that boy is just annoying
E Dey waka like person wey breeze Dey blow.
Ben wrote Tophers age on his hand and showed Anita his age so she was already angry with topher
And what will Anita do with Tophers age. Anita has not been forthcoming in that ship.
I literally had to yell at biggie to take the camera off them , make I no go loose my home training..abeg
😂😂😂😂😂
Glory, Ben instigated this matter
I dont even knw if Ben is man enough
Why is he following through the corners
He doesn't like Chizoba, he likes Anita that's why he really wants to manipulate this topher n anita relationship
It's really annoying
Gloria is very true. Morning
Age matters. Adekunle n Venita anybody?
Smiles
Lovely
Topher just say 28
Its a game don’t b too invested
It is not always easy to let out your age as a guy especially when the lady in question you like is a bit older than you. Most Nigerian women don't like the fact that they are older than whoever it's they are dating only a few of them can agree and so i understood Topher's struggle cos I have been there.
Glory my question is what is the reasonable or an acceptable age difference between couples?
Ladies
Gentlemen
I know and understanding it depends on individuals.
I feel Tophet should hv just bern honest with Anita .
First here ❤… Buen dia ma’am Glory ❤
You look beautiful