I hope this video is helpful!! If you have any questions at all, don’t hesitate to ask! If you have attended a military ball, please feel free to share your best tips and advice! I’d love for this to be an informative and encouraging resource for the girlies not knowing what to expect 🥰
Army wife here, I think your tips are great! Elegant is definitely the goal. You can tell spouses from girlfriends usually by the level of appropriateness to the attire. Also I would add for the army at least, make sure that you can go from sitting to standing without adjusting the dress or shape wear because that is what you do the whole ball is sit down then stand up, over and over and you don’t want to me messing with your dress every time.
There’s definitely a ton of sitting/standing at our balls too!! I didn’t even think to mention shape wear! That’s definitely something you don’t want to be adjusting all night!
My husband is a USMC veteran. We attended several balls while he was active duty, but he’s been out for a few years now. We were extended an invite from a local command for this year and I’m SO excited to get to attend again 😁
I feel so much better about attending now! This will be our first ball, so I’m super excited for the experience having a better idea of what to expect and thank you also, for sharing the traditions and for all the tips! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕
This helped so much😅I’ve been so nervous with no clue what to expect other than the few details my boyfriend has told me. So descriptive and much appreciated!
Couldn’t be more excited for this year’s Ball! These past two years completely robbed us of one of the most significant traditions we have. Your advice was spot on baby! Great job. ☺️
My boyfriend invited me to go with him this year and I’m starting to get nervous because it’s the first time I’m meeting his friends/coworkers so I don’t want to look bad. Plus I’m meeting his bosses too so I need all the tips 😅
Don’t be nervous!! It’s a lot of fun and there’s always others going for their first time / meeting others for the first time too ☺️ knowing that always gives me a bit more peace!
Hi! I’m a new military s/o and this will be our first ball. We’re here in San Diego so luckily it won’t be too cold. I’m really excited, but I’ve also been nervous. This video is so informative thank you for the tips!
I was nervous to attend the first time too! I promise the nerves will subside once you get there and it ends up being a lot of fun ☺️ I’m also so glad you found this video informative!! I tried my best to break it all down and be as detailed as possible.
Husband USMC veteran CH-53 pilot. Saw the title of your video and was curious. We have enjoyed the balls in years passed and miss our time in the Corps. Semper Fi and thank you.
Thank you so much for posting this video!!! This literally helped me a lot as I am a Japanese who was born and raised in Japan. I had no idea what to expect and wasn’t ready for the ball until I watch the video. Now, I feel more confident about my dress and how I should act ❤ have a great time there!
Thank you so much for this comment! I love knowing others find value in the content I share. I’m so glad this video was helpful for you!! I hope you have the best time as well ❤️
This is so helpful! My boyfriend is in the Air Force and he invited me to an Air Force ball in a few months, and I'm stressing over what the dress code exactly is! Definitely don't want to embarrass him!
Going to the ball first time ever with my boyfriend next month, I was so stressed out because of the ball and the dress code(plus I had no idea what is it at first lol) the red dress u shared is amazing, I’m gonna get a similar red velvet off shoulder one🥰
It's good to know a slit is ok. I have my eye on an emerald green dress and the slit is a little high. It's probably similar to the green dress you showed at the end and I wasn't sure if it was appropriate. Definitely going to buy it now. Thank you!
I feel like it’s sooo hard to even find a dress without a slit these days! But yeah, nothing to worry about as long as the overall look is appropriate and looks put together! I’m also obsessed with emerald green right now, so good color choice 😍
Thank you. See I’m super nervous about what to wear to my my boyfriends army dinner. He hasn’t told me what the dress code is supposed to be but I assumed it has to be formal since they can bring their significant others. I don’t know, if so I’m still concerned about the dress that I have because it’s the only dress that I have on hand right now🙄.
Have him get more info for you on the dress code! Dinners can vary and may be different from ball attire! If it is a formal event, I think the dress you described would be fine!
I am going to my first Marine Corps Ball in October this year and this video was very helpful. I am just curious if backless is allowed or if that would be too inappropriate for this event?
Good question! Backless is allowed! People typically say to follow the “one detail” rule. It’s not really a rule, just a way to be mindful. Basically - choose one detail to show off. So if you choose a backless dress, maybe make sure the chest is more modest.
My boyfriend has a military ball coming up and this is our first time going… he’s a Marine and I have a dress and everything but I’m not sure how to do my hair that’s 4c and I have on a nose ring so I’m not sure if some items are restricted …
I just wanna reconfirm what you said about the bright pink dress in the DO NOT wear, the only issue is the color? I’ve got a dress picked out similar to it’s style but in black and was afraid it would be seen as informal bc there was no shoulder coverings and the slit and I heard that they normally want you to wear some kind of sleeve to the ball😅thank you so much for posting this though it was really helpful on what to expect
Correct! The bright pink dress (second to last one mentioned), the only issue would be the color. I think that style of dress in black would look classy! Also, there aren’t any rules about shoulder coverings so that may be outdated information. I have seen that info being shared too, but it’s never been my experience or something I’ve heard of until recently. My guess is someone’s command was much more strict or it’s just super outdated information - either way, I wouldn’t worry about it because that’s not a rule or expectation across the board.
There is some mesh portions! But I will definitely message you some pictures! My friend says it’s tasteful and not too revealing but she has never attended a MCB.
Good question! There aren’t any rules for dress colors! I’ve seen yellow dresses worn before! I think a muted yellow is fine, but I’d avoid anything super bright or neon. With a loud color like yellow, make sure the overall look is balanced and mature! Avoid dress styles that look too “prom” or juvenile ☺️
So this is my first/ only marine corps ball with my boyfriend, and I have been nervous with looking at dresses. Is having a slit in the skirt of the dress ok, yes or no? Just curious because if not it’s been hard finding some without.
New marine corps girlfriend here and I’ve been stressing out over my dress it’s beautiful floor length it’s black with green detailing and i feel like I’m going to stand out to much… I’m also very much an introvert
Your dress sounds beautiful! From how you described it, I don’t think you’ll stand out too much! Keep in mind that I showed more “subtle” dress styles in this video simply as example. You can message me a picture on Instagram if you’d like my opinion on your dress! Ultimately, you want to be comfortable and confident.
Hi, I got invited to my first marines ball. I found two dresses that I like but they have sequences. Would sequences be okay? I also have one that’s more form fitting would that be okay also?
Sequins and form fitting are completely fine! All that matters is that the dresses are appropriate and fit the overall requirements of a formal / black tie event! 😊
I have a beautiful white dress with a gold sequin pattern all over, it’s v neck, long, and appropriate. the only thing i’m concerned about is the back of the dress, my back will be out a bit but i also have very long hair that will be covering it, should i look for other options?
Is the v neck a deep cut? If it’s not super revealing, and the only deep/dramatic cut is the back, it sounds fine!! If you want, you can send me a picture of the dress on Instagram and I can let you know what I think from seeing it!
Do you have recommendations for military graduation? My husband will be graduating officer candidate school in the winter and i don’t know what to wear!
Good question!! Graduations are much less formal, but you still want to look put together! Girls tend to wear dresses, but more along the lines of what you’d wear to church. Not super casual, but not formal!
If they are attending the ball for their unit, they will wear their uniform. But if they are attending another ball as somebody’s guest, they can wear a dress!
Hi I’m heather and this is my very first time and I’m so nervous i have no idea what I’ll be doing with my hair and what dress to wear like I don’t know what kind type dress style to wear just know the color navy blue😭💗
I think burgundy sequins would be perfect!! Burgundy isn’t super loud. As long as the cut of the dress is classy, I think you’re good. One of my options for this year is burgundy sequins 😊 (USMC wife of 12 years).
As long as your service member approves of the dress and feels like it’s appropriate for the occasion and their command, don’t feel like you need to strictly follow what I suggest!
Hi Marissa! This is perfect since I’m getting ready for the ball soon :) I haven’t gotten to catchup on your videos lately because I’ve been so busy. But GIRLL when I saw your name pop up it made me so happy!! 🥲 it’s feels like I’m talking to a friend !! My husband has been gone for a few weeks on a ship op so I’ve been in my feelings for a while 😂 your videos make me feel like if someone else can make it past the tough parts of being a Military wife then I can too ♥️♥️
Thank you so much for this comment!! 😭 this literally made my entire day and I appreciate it so much! I hope the time apart flies by for you and your husband ❤️
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I hope this video is helpful!! If you have any questions at all, don’t hesitate to ask!
If you have attended a military ball, please feel free to share your best tips and advice! I’d love for this to be an informative and encouraging resource for the girlies not knowing what to expect 🥰
Could the female marines wear dresses?
@AngelicaGabriellaAllen if they are attending as guests, yes! If it’s their ball for their unit, they will wear their uniform.
@@xomarissalee Thank you for your response and your video!
Meer 👋
Army wife here, I think your tips are great! Elegant is definitely the goal. You can tell spouses from girlfriends usually by the level of appropriateness to the attire. Also I would add for the army at least, make sure that you can go from sitting to standing without adjusting the dress or shape wear because that is what you do the whole ball is sit down then stand up, over and over and you don’t want to me messing with your dress every time.
There’s definitely a ton of sitting/standing at our balls too!! I didn’t even think to mention shape wear! That’s definitely something you don’t want to be adjusting all night!
My husband is a USMC veteran. We attended several balls while he was active duty, but he’s been out for a few years now. We were extended an invite from a local command for this year and I’m SO excited to get to attend again 😁
That’s so awesome!
I’m curious to know how many of you are fellow Marine Corps spouses/girlfriends?!
Right here!👋🏻
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Marine girlfriend 😊
I feel so much better about attending now! This will be our first ball, so I’m super excited for the experience having a better idea of what to expect and thank you also, for sharing the traditions and for all the tips! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕
Yayyy I’m so glad you found this video helpful!! I’m so excited for you!!
This helped so much😅I’ve been so nervous with no clue what to expect other than the few details my boyfriend has told me. So descriptive and much appreciated!
I’m so glad you found it helpful!!
My Marine son invited me. I'm so blessed.
How sweet! You’ll have the best time! ❤️
Couldn’t be more excited for this year’s Ball! These past two years completely robbed us of one of the most significant traditions we have. Your advice was spot on baby! Great job. ☺️
I’m excited too!! 🎂
My boyfriend invited me to go with him this year and I’m starting to get nervous because it’s the first time I’m meeting his friends/coworkers so I don’t want to look bad. Plus I’m meeting his bosses too so I need all the tips 😅
Don’t be nervous!! It’s a lot of fun and there’s always others going for their first time / meeting others for the first time too ☺️ knowing that always gives me a bit more peace!
Sameee 😂
Wonderful video! Very helpful especially for first timers. Thank you!
I appreciate the feedback! Thank you!
Hi! I’m a new military s/o and this will be our first ball. We’re here in San Diego so luckily it won’t be too cold. I’m really excited, but I’ve also been nervous. This video is so informative thank you for the tips!
I was nervous to attend the first time too! I promise the nerves will subside once you get there and it ends up being a lot of fun ☺️ I’m also so glad you found this video informative!! I tried my best to break it all down and be as detailed as possible.
Hey! My first ball also, and we are in San Diego, too! Good to know I am not the only newbie! Lol
Husband USMC veteran CH-53 pilot. Saw the title of your video and was curious. We have enjoyed the balls in years passed and miss our time in the Corps. Semper Fi and thank you.
Im a spouse to a marine we live in the Camp Pendleton area and I’m going to the ball this year and I’m so excited but nervous but I cannot wait !!
That’s so exciting!! You’ll have so much fun! Also this comment really brought me back.. I miss our Pendleton days 🥲
Thank you so much for posting this video!!! This literally helped me a lot as I am a Japanese who was born and raised in Japan. I had no idea what to expect and wasn’t ready for the ball until I watch the video. Now, I feel more confident about my dress and how I should act ❤ have a great time there!
Thank you so much for this comment! I love knowing others find value in the content I share. I’m so glad this video was helpful for you!! I hope you have the best time as well ❤️
I’m going to Vegas for my hubby’s ball in a couple days I’m so excited! ❤️
I’ve always heard the balls in Vegas are so fun!!
This is so helpful! My boyfriend is in the Air Force and he invited me to an Air Force ball in a few months, and I'm stressing over what the dress code exactly is! Definitely don't want to embarrass him!
So glad you found this helpful! 🫶 let me know if you have any questions!
Girl, I’m going with a glitter high slit spaghetti strap dress. My husband saw the dress and we both fell in love with it.
I’m sure you’ll look great! This video was only meant to be a baseline 💗 those details can definitely be done together in a tasteful way!
Thank you for your video! I will be attending one in Lejune with my boyfriend. He invited me and I'm so excited. This video is a blessing ♡
I’m so glad this video was helpful for you!! Thank you so much for the feedback, I really appreciate the sweet comment. I hope you enjoy the ball!!
Thank you so much this video was so helpful! Getting ready for my first Marine Corp ball! What would you recommend for shoes?
Any heels you can walk in 🤪
I feel like if you don’t do rhinestone or sequins on the dress, do it on the shoes. And like you said in a balanced way
Ooo yes great tip!! I love the way a detailed shoe looks with a simple/ understated dress!
Going to the ball first time ever with my boyfriend next month, I was so stressed out because of the ball and the dress code(plus I had no idea what is it at first lol) the red dress u shared is amazing, I’m gonna get a similar red velvet off shoulder one🥰
Red velvet.. STUNNING!! Also loooove an off the shoulder moment!! You’re going to look amazing 💕 hope you have fun!
@@xomarissalee aww thank you so much 🥰
It's good to know a slit is ok. I have my eye on an emerald green dress and the slit is a little high. It's probably similar to the green dress you showed at the end and I wasn't sure if it was appropriate. Definitely going to buy it now. Thank you!
I feel like it’s sooo hard to even find a dress without a slit these days! But yeah, nothing to worry about as long as the overall look is appropriate and looks put together! I’m also obsessed with emerald green right now, so good color choice 😍
Thank you!! This will be my first ball, since covid limited the celebration over the last few years!
Yay I’m excited for you!! We’ve definitely missed attending the ball these last couple of years 🥲
Thank you!! I’m going to my first ball next month this helped a ton! New subscriber ❤
That’s exciting!! I’m so glad this video was helpful and thank you so much for subscribing ☺️☺️
Thank you. See I’m super nervous about what to wear to my my boyfriends army dinner. He hasn’t told me what the dress code is supposed to be but I assumed it has to be formal since they can bring their significant others.
I don’t know, if so I’m still concerned about the dress that I have because it’s the only dress that I have on hand right now🙄.
My dress style looks like the bright pink one but without the slit but it’s a pale lavender color with glitter do you think that’ll be appropriate?
Have him get more info for you on the dress code! Dinners can vary and may be different from ball attire! If it is a formal event, I think the dress you described would be fine!
Update I was so concerned and the attire is Christmas sweaters, ugly Christmas sweaters😑🤣.
Hahahaha hey, at least that’s easy!! 😂
I am going to my first Marine Corps Ball in October this year and this video was very helpful. I am just curious if backless is allowed or if that would be too inappropriate for this event?
Good question! Backless is allowed! People typically say to follow the “one detail” rule. It’s not really a rule, just a way to be mindful. Basically - choose one detail to show off. So if you choose a backless dress, maybe make sure the chest is more modest.
This was very informative! Thank you
Good, I’m glad!!
Thx for this Video.. going to the ball Friday..i'm german..Will be my first military ball..Just got my dress today..sooo nervous
Don’t be nervous!! It’s so much fun! Take lots of pictures and enjoy the evening ❤️
My boyfriend has a military ball coming up and this is our first time going… he’s a Marine and I have a dress and everything but I’m not sure how to do my hair that’s 4c and I have on a nose ring so I’m not sure if some items are restricted …
No restrictions on face jewelry! And do your hair however you like it best!! Whatever makes you feel pretty and confident!
@@xomarissalee Thank you!
this video was really helpful. I am concerned about slits though. I have one in my dress do you think this is okay. I am stressing out.
its navy its the same style as the right pink one im just concerned the slit is to high
I think I just responded to your message on insta!! ☺️ your dress is beautiful!
What about a “dining out” event? Less formal but not sure what the best attire is?
This girl gives me hope for Americas future.
I just wanna reconfirm what you said about the bright pink dress in the DO NOT wear, the only issue is the color? I’ve got a dress picked out similar to it’s style but in black and was afraid it would be seen as informal bc there was no shoulder coverings and the slit and I heard that they normally want you to wear some kind of sleeve to the ball😅thank you so much for posting this though it was really helpful on what to expect
Correct! The bright pink dress (second to last one mentioned), the only issue would be the color. I think that style of dress in black would look classy! Also, there aren’t any rules about shoulder coverings so that may be outdated information. I have seen that info being shared too, but it’s never been my experience or something I’ve heard of until recently. My guess is someone’s command was much more strict or it’s just super outdated information - either way, I wouldn’t worry about it because that’s not a rule or expectation across the board.
Anyway I can show you my dress? It’s backless & I’m panicking a bit 😭. It is navy & I believe it’s pretty elegant.
You can message me a picture on Instagram!! Is there any revealing details besides being backless? If it’s just that, it’s likely fine!
There is some mesh portions! But I will definitely message you some pictures! My friend says it’s tasteful and not too revealing but she has never attended a MCB.
Hi Marissa! This will be my first marine corps ball. Would yellow be an okay color to wear?
Good question! There aren’t any rules for dress colors! I’ve seen yellow dresses worn before! I think a muted yellow is fine, but I’d avoid anything super bright or neon. With a loud color like yellow, make sure the overall look is balanced and mature! Avoid dress styles that look too “prom” or juvenile ☺️
Thank you!!
Of course!! ☺️
Im literally going to throw up from nervousness. My lowkey HAVE to go
Aww I promise it’s so much fun!! Once you get there, the nerves will subside!
So this is my first/ only marine corps ball with my boyfriend, and I have been nervous with looking at dresses. Is having a slit in the skirt of the dress ok, yes or no? Just curious because if not it’s been hard finding some without.
Totally fine! As long as the slit isn’t too high that it becomes revealing!
New marine corps girlfriend here and I’ve been stressing out over my dress it’s beautiful floor length it’s black with green detailing and i feel like I’m going to stand out to much… I’m also very much an introvert
Your dress sounds beautiful! From how you described it, I don’t think you’ll stand out too much! Keep in mind that I showed more “subtle” dress styles in this video simply as example. You can message me a picture on Instagram if you’d like my opinion on your dress! Ultimately, you want to be comfortable and confident.
Hi, I got invited to my first marines ball. I found two dresses that I like but they have sequences. Would sequences be okay? I also have one that’s more form fitting would that be okay also?
Sequins and form fitting are completely fine! All that matters is that the dresses are appropriate and fit the overall requirements of a formal / black tie event! 😊
@@xomarissalee if they are off the shoulder would that be okay also?
@@AlexaC24 yes! I love off the shoulder dresses 😊
@@xomarissalee thank you so much for your help!
@@xomarissalee this video is really helpful 😊
I have a beautiful white dress with a gold sequin pattern all over, it’s v neck, long, and appropriate. the only thing i’m concerned about is the back of the dress, my back will be out a bit but i also have very long hair that will be covering it, should i look for other options?
Is the v neck a deep cut? If it’s not super revealing, and the only deep/dramatic cut is the back, it sounds fine!! If you want, you can send me a picture of the dress on Instagram and I can let you know what I think from seeing it!
My bf is in the marines and I have my first ball coming up next month and I am so nervous 😭
Don’t be nervous!! I promise it’s such a fun night ☺️
Hello, I am a girlfriend of someone in the army at Fort Drum. I really appreciate the informational video!
Thank you, I’m so glad ☺️
Do you have recommendations for military graduation? My husband will be graduating officer candidate school in the winter and i don’t know what to wear!
Good question!! Graduations are much less formal, but you still want to look put together! Girls tend to wear dresses, but more along the lines of what you’d wear to church. Not super casual, but not formal!
Do you know if the female Marines can wear dresses? Thankyou
If they are attending the ball for their unit, they will wear their uniform. But if they are attending another ball as somebody’s guest, they can wear a dress!
@@xomarissalee thank you for your response!
Are there any restrictions on tattoos? I have a tattoo sleeve and don’t know if that’s appropriate or I need to wear long sleeves
Good question! There aren’t any restrictions on tattoos!! 💗
As it is a formal setting/ball is it required for me to also know formal dining etiquette too?
Good question!! No, most Marines don’t know formal dining etiquette anyways 🤪 Basic etiquette and manners is all you really need!
watching this before attending this 11th
Hope you have so much fun!!
Hi I’m heather and this is my very first time and I’m so nervous i have no idea what I’ll be doing with my hair and what dress to wear like I don’t know what kind type dress style to wear just know the color navy blue😭💗
Do whatever makes you feel confident!!
What about guests having tattoos. Do they have to cover-up if the tattoos are on the arm?
As far as I know, there aren’t any restrictions on guests with tattoos! This may be different across branches/units though, not sure!
My friend invited me but I don’t like dresses so they said I can wear a suit.
Yes a suit is still appropriate!
@@xomarissalee yay lol now I gotta find one and get it and hope it’s the right size measuring is very hard
Would I be able to wear sandals? Im not much of a high-heel girl…
Of course!
I was looking at a dress similar to the black dress with sequence but it’s like a burgundy and I want to make sure it won’t be too much. :(
That should be fine! You can message me a picture on Instagram if you want and I can give you my opinion!
I think burgundy sequins would be perfect!! Burgundy isn’t super loud. As long as the cut of the dress is classy, I think you’re good. One of my options for this year is burgundy sequins 😊 (USMC wife of 12 years).
What if my dress is like the pink bright one spaghetti strap slit on thigh but in color red
That should be fine!! ☺️
@@xomarissalee omg thank u🥹 I was so worried I have the military ball this weekend!
Aww have fun!! You’ll look great ☺️
Can I dm you on insta and get help??? I’m so torn bc it’s my first ball and I have no idea if this dress would be fine or not can I send pics?
Of course! I just responded to your message!! 🥰
Anyone going to the Marine military ball in Germany this month? 😅 I need gfs 🙃
I wish I was going to the ball in Germany 😂
Why can't they hold hands to me that's dumb
Haha it’s so their hands are free to salute when needed ☺️
Yikes. I think the dress I have my eye on wouldn’t make your cut. 🥴🥴🥴
As long as your service member approves of the dress and feels like it’s appropriate for the occasion and their command, don’t feel like you need to strictly follow what I suggest!
Hi Marissa! This is perfect since I’m getting ready for the ball soon :)
I haven’t gotten to catchup on your videos lately because I’ve been so busy. But GIRLL when I saw your name pop up it made me so happy!! 🥲 it’s feels like I’m talking to a friend !! My husband has been gone for a few weeks on a ship op so I’ve been in my feelings for a while 😂 your videos make me feel like if someone else can make it past the tough parts of being a Military wife then I can too ♥️♥️
Thank you so much for this comment!! 😭 this literally made my entire day and I appreciate it so much! I hope the time apart flies by for you and your husband ❤️