Assalamualaikum. Hi everyone. I hope you get good inputs from this video. The bad ones, just leave it here okay? Till then, NL. #sistersshare #wesharebecausewecare
Hi wawa , I'm literally crying listen to u guys :') Setuju sangat dengan apa yg korg ckp : Hidup ni bukan fairytale , we need to face reality We need to cherish every single thing , kebahagiaan itu adalah pinjaman . We learnt in the hard way , happiness is fragile . Broken family thought us , is to be careful dgn siapa org yg Kita nak berkawan . Kita akan belajar utk sangat bersabar . I might not as strong & independent as me now . It is good to have support , u sendiri kena kuat . U cannot put your happiness on someone's hand . U will see the world in different in other perspectives , banyak benda kita belajar . Kita tahu yg Kita boleh face benda² lain sebab Kita boleh face benda ni , so why not ? Thank you for also reminding me to not to salahkan parent's mistake , bcoz it is our choice to do or not and not to blame others :) mistake dorg , mistake dorg , mistake Kita is mistake Kita . Not to blame your parents , still kena hormat . When ayah cerita buruk mak , I akan backup mak , vice versa . I tried to be neutral . ( and what I do was , I tak cakap siapa betul siapa salah , but for me dedua ada salah , dedua ada betul , so kita sebagai org matang , buang yg buruk amik yg jernih ) ( But in my situation , my mom was not very well . So when I did that my mom will get more emotional & mengamuk .. So actually it's effect me , myself & my siblings . In other way , I know that all of us was hurt and we depressed inside . But I'm glad that my brother's take care of us well , my siblings relationship was good :) even everyone jealous on us but they don't know that we're jealous on them for having a complete family I'm become more sensetive & cepat moody ( I'm the one yg happy go lucky person , but sometimes I akan tetibe jdi sedih and diam ) , i'm still struggling to cope with this situation even it happens almost 8 years long time ago . Do pray for me :) May Allah bless you guys ❤️ To people out there , jangan malu datang dari broken family . Find your support system , if you couldn't find any , I'll pray may Allah send you helps & happiness always :) Lastly , percayalah setiap yg berlaku pasti ada hikmahnya 🥰
I literally crying watching this video. Everything you guys said in this video is 💯. And thats what totally i felt during those days :( My parents divorce when i was 12, and my 2 younger brothers were just 7 & 3 years old 😞 sometimes rasa kesian sangat kat diorg sbb diorg tak pernah rasa a truly happy complete family.... at first mmg i salah kan parents, i salahkan takdir. But as years goes by, i slowly accept this qadha’ and qadar and lama lama hati i redha and percaya everything happened for a reason. And as I’m growing baru la i nampak yg my parents did their best too, but it just dah takde persefahaman and diorg asyik gaduh, so i pun rasa separate is the best way. It was hard for me, sbb i anak sulung and i rasa pressure sangat. Everyone likes weekend, tapi everytime weekend i akan serabut sbb weekend la ayah i akan dtg rumah kitorg utk amik kitorg. But the thing is everytime my parents berjumpa, diorg akan bergaduh and it was really really stressful moment 😭 i stress gila sbb bila dgn my mom, my mom akan burukkan my dad, and bila dgn my dad , my dad akan burukkan my mom. I sayang dua dua, tapi i selalu diam je sbb i tak nak bergaduh. Tapi selalu air mata dah bergenang time ni. I tak tahu nk cerita kat siapa, sbb i anak sulung, and my friends diorg semua ada a complete happy family. If i cerita kat diorg, diorg takkan faham and i takut diorg judge i. Sbb orang yg tak lalui, diorg takkan faham the real pain and struggle what broken family been thru. And i malas nk dgr org kata “apa apa pun diorg still mak ayah kau”. It hurts everytime i pergi shopping mall, family day, i see a complete happy family. Mata i akan automatically bergenang sbb rasa sebak, sedih sangat bcs I’ll never feel that again. Happiness is really really fragile. Parents i bergaduh teruk after divorce, bfr divorce diorg bergaduh juga tapi diorg sorokkan dari anak anak especially me, sbb i tgh nak upsr and psra. My mom told me yg diorg dh divorcer after i habis upsr and psra, masa tu 2009. And it has been 10 years ago, but i can still cry like it just happened yesterday. It was killing me inside, but everyday I’ll go to school and be happy with my friends, enjoy and focus the good things in life. I mmg tak boleh tengok parents i bergaduh depan i , sbb hati i akan jd hancur sgt sgt , sedih sgt sgt 😞 pernah satu kes ni diorg gaduh teruk sangat. I mmg tak tahan, i ckp apa tah pastu i lari masuk bilik and nangis, and i call kawan i, i tak cakap apa, i just nangis. I tak tahu nak luah kan kat siapa. I rasa yg paling faham situation i time tu hanya lah Allah swt :’) But all those things makes me stronger, makes me want to prove something, that even if you’re from broken family you can be successful. I workd hard for my pmr and Alhamdulillah i masuk asrama masa form 4, so mcm i dh kurang sikit nampak drama weekend huhu. Waktu form 5 ayah i kahwin lain , and yeah macam you guys cakap they deserve to be happy too. And i okay je ayah i kahwin lain as long as he’s happy bcs he’s human too. So i ada step mom and also step siblings. At first kitorg mcm rapat okay la, but now tak sangat dah. Plus i skrg tak study kt msia, so mcm dah jarang jumpa. And i pun jarang balik msia. But afterall , from my opinion is, i tak salah kan my parents, because diorg pun hanyalah manusia biasa, and manusia tak sempurna. I pun tak sempurna, and everybody makes mistake. I pun defensive about my mom, dgn siapa dia berkawan etc, but at the end of the day i just nak dia happy :’) i sayang my parents dua dua, tak kurang tak lebih, setiap lepas solat i selalu doakan diorg :’) and i know they’ve tried their best. But thisbis reality, there’s no fairytale in this world. But Alhamdulillah i look things in positive ways, I managed to get good results in every big exams despite i come from a broken family. And i sangat sangat marah dgn orang yg guna excuse as parents divorce tu as obstacles utk diorg success walaupun waktu i tak excell ujian ujian pun i guna the same excuse 😂 but the thing is, everything depends on ourselves. How we see things, if you see this broken family as and obstacles for you to success, benda tu akan jadi sgt sgt susah. But if you see this broken family as a challenge for you to prove smthg, and benda tu akan jd a big motivation for you to achieve your goals. And Alhamdulillah i pun tak tahu mcm mana i keep sane during those days but Alhamdulillah i take that as motivation. And yeah dont put happiness in the hand of others. My mom selalu ckp “kalau rasa apa yg kita lalui ni dah teruk, ingatlah ada org lalui lagi teruk dari ni” . So everytime i rasa family i ni dah teruk, i selalu fikir at least i still ada parents, dari orang yg takde parents langsung. So benda tu akan buat i rasa grateful. Tapi bila stress tu mmg stress lah 😂 And i pun nampak kadang kadang mcm my dad compensate dgn bagi i barang barang yg branded. Tapi biasalaha ayah kan diorg ada ego sendiri kan haha. But Alhamdulillah I’m grateful where I’m now. My life is not perfect, i grew from a broken family, but my parents tak pernah lupakan our needs. And i see they’ve tried their best dalam membesarkan kitorg. And even kita rasa kita adalah anak yg disakiti, tapi diorg pun sakit juga. Like you guys said, it takes a lot for them to decide that, and i takes a lot more to tell their kids. Tapi tu semua yg build who am i now, kalau tak, i takkan jadi sekuat sekarang, and i takkan jadi se berdikari sekarang. The point is , look at your problem as a challenge to motivates you, dont look your problem as obstacles for you to achieve your goals. Like Dr Amalina said, focus on your goals, not obstacles. Okay i rasa dah panjang sangat i type, but yeah if you tak jumpa anyone to reach out, you menangis kat Allah sbb He’s the only one yg truly understands you. And Allah takkan uji hambaNya, lebih dari apa yg hambaNya mampu. And jangan sesekali tinggal solat 5 waktu, it really really helps you to soothe your heart. And jangan salahkan parents kita, sbb diorg pun hanyala manusia biasa yg buat kesilapan. And these things will make us a better person in the future, insya’ Allah. Doakan i habis medical school on time, 2 years more insya’ Allah . And to anyone who’s struggling, trust me , after a heavy rain, they’ll come a beautiful rainbow. One fine day, you’ll smile at your past and proud of yourself . Trust me, better days are coming. Dont lose hope, dont harm youself okay!! Channel your sadness to something good like sports and so on. And biarlah orang nak cakap apa pasal kita sbb at the end of the day, kita yg hadap semua ni, diorg tak tahu apa apa pun. And biarlah diorg cakap apa apa pun, bukan diorg yg kasi makan minum hidup kita pun. Live your life to the fullest, appreciate all those little things in life because we never know what the future holds ☺️✨
A Girl stay srong awak!! This too shall pass! Always think positive okayy 😘 masa i tulis ni pun meleleh air mata huhu. My pleasure 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
having a broken family ni sebenarnya perlu hati yg sado.. dulu time parents cerai.. aku fikir benda akan jadi lebih baik.. sbb drg akan tinggal separate dah.. tkde da smua gaduh2 kat rmh.. smua akan okay lh.. itu apa ada dlm fikiran saya.. tapi benda lain pla berlaku.. lepas je parents cerai.. masalah bru pula dtg.. blm sempat heal dri luka parents cerai.. dah kena face masalah baru.. bgi aku lh.. statement yg mention psl problem akan settle lps parents cerai tu adalah salah.. percayalh.. lps je drg cerai tu.. byk bnda lagi masalah yg akan dtg.. dan masalah tu akan lebih berat untuk d tanggung..
I love this topic. Tak ramai yg nak share psl broken family kan. Bcs its big issue tau. Semua nya dtg dari family. Family is number 1. Yg lalui broken family je faham mcm mane perit nya. Srsly dia sangat lah berkait dgn mental. Tak semua bole survive. Luar je senyum dalam hanya diri sendiri tahu. Bila ade broken family sy lost tau supporter. Sangat lah susah utk walk alone. I know we have Allah but support from people we love yg kita rapat, darah daging kita tu hmmm.
Ade certain anak dr broken family, org akn nmpk kita takde masalah ceria je, snng je hidup. Tp sbenarnya mereka simpan kesedihan utk mereka sndiri. Yeahhh being in broken family make me more stronger and independent in my life. Setiap yg berlaku pasti ada hikmah. Yakin. Thank you #sistersshare for this video.
Betul , kadang ad yg tngok broken family nih mesti anak2 nya akan terabai atau anak2 akan jd mangsa. Sebenarnya tak tau , kita sbg anak2 kena pandai main peranan . Mungkin ad sebab kenapa dorang harus berpisah kan ? Kita sbg anak2 kena kuat .
Kalo parents aq lak , dorang tak bercerai dr aq kecik tau tp dorang still duduk sebumbung tp tdk sebilik and kalo bertembung tuh mcm api tembung api . Nanti aq akan jd serabut au dngr dorang gaduh bising2 salahkan antara 1 sma lain sampai dah bsr nih pon still tak bercerai . Berbelas tahun dorang takda persefahaman and then masing2 ikut cara hidup sndiri tp pilih utk 1 bumbung dan masa lepas raya 2018 mak aq buat keputusan pergi mahkamah(sbnrnya ad jgk time aq kecik g mahkamah tp bila sampai kes tuh mak aq jd tak sampai hati mungkin pk anak2) Okay blk pd td mak aq pergi mahkamah lps raya , turun naik mahkamah tp bapak aq ttp taknak prgi dia cuma kata "ko yg pandai2 bukak kes ko sndri settlekan aq tkkn prgi" and dalam masa 3 sebelum tamat eddah mak aq tnya bapak aq "dah nak hbs eddah nih ko nak rujuk ke nak cerai" and bapak aq just kata , "sp suruh ko prgi mahkamah aq tak suruh pon" Selepas tamat eddah mak aq still duduk rumah tuh and tnya bapak aq berkali kali taknak rujuk ke . And after one week mak aq koma dekat hospital . Seminggu dekat hospital bapak aq menangis mcm orang gila tknk makan minum tknk blk siap nangis2 "shidah bngn lah aq janji kita rujuk" So bila mak aq meninggal aq jd mcm takut au aq mcm trfikir sepanjang dia habiskan hidup dia dia sentiasa sedih . And mak aq prnh pesan lah kita kena kuat dan kena tahu ap yg kita nak buat atau akan buat. Sebab kadang ap yg kita buat tkkn sama ap yg kita fikir . Orang tkkn fhm kita hnya kita yg fhm kita . Broken family atau ap dorang tetap prnh sayang antara 1 sama lain
So sorry to hear this.. semoga arwah ditempatkan bersama orang beriman. Al Fatihah.. Lifes must go on, u jgn dendam dgn your father. Take this as your pengalaman hidup.. walaupun sakit, but still u share kisah ni. Sedikit sebanyak beri impak kepada pasangan yang berada dalam dilema.. Betul kata pepatah "bila ada tak dihargai, bila dah tiada baru nak tercari-cari" Semoga semuanya baik2 saja 👍
@@ezfreak0159 Amiiinnn. In Sya Allah, utk ap berdendam kalo diri sndri yg sakit. Jd kan itu sbg pengajaran utk kita bljr menghargai seseorang. Jngn sbb ego tinggi melambung kita menyesal di kemudian hari. 🤗 sy kongsi sbb sy nk org tahu sbnrnya ramai yg alami hal yg sama cuma kisah yg brbeza.
My parents divorced when i am 15 and i am 15. My first action when the time my dad cakap ‘abah akan pisahkan mama’ i answered him ‘oh kenapa’ and he told me the reason y. I answered him oh bcs I don’t want him to feel sad by knowing I’m sad. But actually i cried a lot. Every time my dad pick me up from school and send me to my mom house. I LEGIT CRYING AFTER I CLOSE THE DOOR AND WATCH MY DAD PERGI BALIK RUMAH MY GRANDPA bcs i was thinking macam ‘ hmm he used to be living in the same house w me ‘. After that i used to fought a lot w my mom bcs im a useless child. I cried my mom also cried. But i know crying didn’t help me out of that bubble. So i stand w all the ‘hand’ help such as my mom my aunties my friends and cousin or whoever helped me. So all in all maturity is very important when your parents divorced. When the maturity is not there everything yg stuck in ur head will control u. Plus MENANGIS IS OKAY BCS SOMETIME NANGIS PENENANG YANG BAGUS. NO DOUBT and don’t put all the pressure to ur parents lagi lagi yg baru bercerai. Plus , don’t dreaming yg everything will be the same when parents divorced , everything will change and u have to be prepare. So that is all my 2sense
Kuatnya korang ni.. I rs kalau i ditempat korang, bercerita tentang mak ayah, dh berambu2 air mata keluar. Hihi.. But semua yg korang lalui tu jadikan korang org yg sgt kuat.. Good sharing!! Semoga uolls sentiasa happy dan dilindungi.. Aminn
Alhamdulillah for this video, a video I can relate to. I think broken family is not only to divorced parents, ada parents tapi one parent is absent pun is a form of broken family. But I do get you guys punya point and it’s heartbreaking seeing our family jadi mcmni. To you guys yang ada broken family, don’t be shy to shine okay.I totally agree with points: 1) happiness is fragile. Semua tu pinjaman, cherish it before it’s gone 2) own up to our own mistake. Jangan asyik selalu guna alasan kesilapan parents as an excuse to be an ass 3) you are your own happiness 4) support system is very crucial 5) I personally think parents tak patut burukkan one another dekat anak anak. After all, they are still your children’s parents. And thank you for bringing this up. Sebab a lot of us can relate to you guys! Thanks for always giving us positive inputs through your video! Kita suka! I’ve always been a silent reader, tapi on this topic, dah tak jadi silent reader. Hehe hai najwa and siblings!
Allah, Syukur saya sebab diberi masa untuk saya menonton siaran ini bersendirian. Air mata saya tetap gugur walaupun saya cuba untuk menahannya. Inilah siaran yang paling terkesan kepada saya sebab saya bersyukur setiap kali saya menasihati pasangan yang ingin bercerai yang saya jumpa inilah yang saya cuba ketengahkan agar masing masing berfikir kembali in depth before choosing last result. Tetapi segalanya ketentuanNya maka benarlah Qadaq dan Qadar. Allah, walaupun saya masih tiada rezeki bercahayamata tetapi saya rasakan kamulah permata beharga buat ibu dan ayah kamu percayalah until end. Kamu sangat bertuah kerana ujian ini dapat kamu laksanakan dengan baik yang kamu mampu. Ayah dan ibu kamu berbangga dengan kamu. Saya doakan agar kamu semua dilindungiNya dalam lindunganNya sentiasa InShaaAllah. Apa apa pun tetap AllahuAkbar. Siaran ini memang terkesan untuk diri saya dan saya akan guna untuk bagi tayangan kat anak anak yang mempunyai ujian seumpama kamu, boleh kan? Tq n take care All of you. Semoga Allah merahmati kita semua dalam RahmatNya sentiasa dan lindungi kita semua dalam lindunganNya sentiasa InShaaAllah.
Pengalaman meluaskan minda seseorang. Saya dan 3 adik lelaki saya jugak mengalami peristiwa yang sama. Cuma waktu tu, saya berumur 7 tahun dan saya melihat sendiri kejadian tersebut. Terpaksa laa saya berdikari pada umur yang muda dan menjaga adik² saya. Kami tinggal bersama ibu kami. Thankyou for sharing (:
I cant really related this..😢 almost become from broken family but alhamdulillah..,😭 stay strong to those from broken family I know how it feels..you are not alone..if you need help..just go find someone..to let all you heart's burden..if you need consult..go meet counselor since it is their responsibility to keep your secret..do something..don't let it harm yourself.. dlu time parent ada problems..I sama tmpt mcm Wa n Kak Ika.. I saw everything and knew everything..but Now Alhamdulillah since they know they cant live w/out each other..
Allahu sebaknya, saya pun dari broken fam jugak since darjah 3, now i'm 18 and saya sulung betul yang paling terasanya sulung and yea jujurnya ada effect dekat anak anak bila parents bercerai ni kecik lagi and senang terpengaruh sbb waktu tu dah faham sikit rasa nak memberontak tu ada semua la kan, tipula kalau tak sedih tapi paksa diri kuat sbb adik adik, lagi yang last tu waktu tu umur dia 5 tahun jadi mesti dia lagi kurang dapat rasa kasih sayang ibu sbb kami duduk dengan ayah. kadang ada rasa nak macam orang lain complete fam but fikir balik ada orang yang anak yatim piatu so that part i really bersyukur still boleh jumpa even jarang. i just want to say to those yang rasa sama ni, Allah dah plankan yang terbaik untuk korang, so keep going, He knows whats best for you, even rasa kurang kasih sayang ibu, Dia bagi rasa kasih sayang tu dari orang sekeliling and i'm thankful sbb selalu dikelilingi oleh orang orang yang baik thank youuuu for this vid love ittt!!!!
25:20, I really felt that and somehow terlintas jugak it will be good kalau Allah kurniakan at least adik lelaki or seorang abang for this family untuk jaga ibu diorang bila semua adik beradik perempuan dah berkahwin. But then, everything happened for a reason ✨Semoga family ini dirahmati selalu 🙆
Thank you for this sharing. We have same situation. I keep blaming my parents sbb sometimes rasa jeles dekat keluarga orng lain yng lagi bahagia dri keluarga sendiri. My siblings pon sometimes lack of communication.. Now i sedar takde sape yng boleh ubah diri jadi lebih kuat drpd orang lain except yourself! Everythings happen for reason.. Thanks again for this sharing🤗
It’s nice of you to put this video up like this. Im glad of who i become now. Im glad that i dont ruin myself before even tho i cakap banyak kali dekat my parents yg im soooo gonna ruin myself if they ever fight again. Mama i and abah i dua2 buat silap but at the same times, diorang pun ada kebaikan jugak. My parents divorced waktu i umur 17 tahun. It was so hard to act strong. I was the one yg found out everything, i was the one jugak yg revealed everything. Tiap2 malam i nangis fikir macam mana nak set things back to normal before things jadi lagi teruk. Tapi i failed. Malam sebelum tidur i nangis teruk, pergi sekolah nangis. Hidup i penuh dengan nangis je. I takde sape2 waktu tu. I cuma bergantung harap dekat kawan i. And masa sebulan nak spm, hidup i macam neraka. Kena tengok my parents gaduh depan mata, nak study pun tak tenang. I toreh kaki toreh tangan so many times macam orang takde akal. I lari rumah banyak kali. Until 2 weeks sebelum spm i banyak spend time rumah aunty i. And survived spm. Bawak diri sambung diploma. At the same times i mula faham and mula belajar. Now im glad that i dont ruin my life before. I fokus nak jaga adik2 i so that diorang bahagia je in the future. Thanks for the video. It means a lot to me😘💕
Thank you for sharing miss najwa. And this happend to me also ,I also come from a broken family . But true it taught me a lot . And I've learned that semua Ada hikmahnya . And for me , my parents was divorced when literally I was 16 years old. My dad and my mom always fight and all. But then miracle do happend , so here I am now 21 years old , before my dad passed away this year , arwah ayah and my mom menjadi semakin rapat my mom Jaga arwah ayah before he passed away.because masa arwah ayah sakit , arwah ayah selalu je nak mak menziarah dia. They become close like best friends they also share their story and talked about us their children And I'm so thankful, So yeah. , There is up and down but everything do happend for a reason. May Allah ease Everything for us . #shareurlove
Assalammualaikum. Recently I tgk you all punya Talks and Discussions based on you all punya experiences. I suka sgt! 😁👍 I dari negara jiran, org Singapore. Just to share with you all that my Final Syariah Court Case coming soon this 30th. I got a son who's 2yo, going 3yo on January. Bila you all touch on Anak Tunggal, I berharaplah sgt anak I kuat di kemudian hari bila dia da mula faham. Amin.. Amin.. This topic really come on the right time when I still got my last 4days to be an Official Single Mum. Thank you, you all! 😘😘😘😘
One word for you guys. Respect. You guys adalah salah satu contoh mcm mana pun sekali mak ayah kita buat kat kita, buruk mana pun dorang, you guys still jaga aib mak ayah you. You guys still anggap still respect them. Susah nak ada perasaan tu, attitude. Respect. 🙌🏻
Thanks for the good input, memang membantu I lagi kuat untuk hidup insyaAllah. Yang datang dari broken family dan juga seorang anak tunggal, betul sangat bila akak2 cakap nak berkawan pon jadi choosy, tak semua orang kita boleh share (bukan sbb tak percaya tapi dah pernah lalui saat dimana sesetengah orang tak boleh relate dengan apa yg kita lalui) tapi kita still keep in touch je with everyone gituu. Dan yes belajar untuk independent from a young age. Buatkan kita lagi kuat dan sabar walaupun ada hari kita emotionally and physically drained, kita tahu takde choice lain but for us to pick ourselves up n get better everyday. Dan cabaran sebagai anak luar nikah pulak, cabaran dia lagi kuat.. tapi takde pilihan lain selain sentiasa belajar dan ambik contoh2 yang baik.. ada hari terjatuh tetap kena bangun jugak kan.. apa apa pon alhamdulillah untuk semua rezeki2 yang Allah kurniakan dan setiap pengalaman yang diberi peluang untuk merasai.. Tq for sharing! Love you my sisters. Moga terus sukses #sistershare ❤️❤️
I pegang satu perkara. Setiap perkara yang berlaku kat diri kita atau sekeliling kita ialah untuk mengajar kita menjadi seseorang yang lebih baik. Samada ianya something good or bad yg jadi. Kita boleh ambil pengajaran.. org bijak belajar dari sejarah, orang bodoh belajar dari pengalaman. Kerana org bodoh tidak mengambil iktibar dari sejarah maka dia kena hadapinya sebagai pengalaman utk dia jadi lebih bijak
Btw nak gtau ni ,jiha i hope u see this comment..u lookin so beautiful in this vid and do have confidence in yourself k ..abg tgk awk cantik dek..pedulikan mereka2 yang ngate awk tu tau..caiyok2 jiha
Honestly, first is tq sgt buat video dan korang sangat jujur. Baaaanyak sgt lessons even bukan dr broken family. Bukan senang nak cari video yg kupas psl isu ni dgn elaboration sgt terbaik. Dlm video ni semua nampak matang..best sgt. N plg suka dgr kak iza cakap. Rasa tenang n jelas je. :) Papepun, byk kn lg video bermanfaat utk kitorang. Will support 😍
Yes, betul...buat apa kita nak halang2 mak ayah kita nak kawin ke berkawan ke. Jgn main reject je semua org. Diaorang perlukan partner n peneman..anak2 nanti akn ada family sendiri. Nanti mak/ayah kita mcm mana? Sunyi hati ni takkan boleh sama/diisi dgn ank2/cucu2 shja. Diaorang perlukan partner. Tak boleh selfish. Diaorang tetap manusia biasa.
im not from broken family but what were you talked about is very true . ya aku bukan dari broken family tapi family aku jenis kucar kacir . but even kucar kacir , aku tahu benda ni ada hikmah dia . aku jadi lebih bersabar dan redha apa yg jadi dlm family . thankyou for the excellent advices sisters !
Lain orang lain cerita, ada family dah cerai dah bahagia ada yang cerai tapi tak bahgia seterusnya kehidupan. Kisah manusia semua berbeza. Ada parents jenis abuse, kaki arak dan macam2 kisah. Tak kisah kau pangkat apa ustaz or ustazah boleh kena. Tapi trauma dan depresi dalam family sesorang akan ada. Itu perit yang ada broken family. Sebab itu jangan judge pada manusia luaran nampak jahat ke apa mereka ada kisah tersendiri. Aku banyak kawan2 brken family masa study dulu mostly baik dari perangai munafik. Cuba bayangkan sesorang tu ada masalah broken family, tapi dia jumpa pasangan tu sakitkan hati dia. Manusia apa macam ni, sumpah aku kesian gila rasa nak sepak manusia skitkan orng ada brokn family ni. Memang takde perasaan ek? Abang doakan adik2 luar sana jumpa pasangan hidup yang bhgia dapat hilang rasa sakit kisah dulu, tempat luah dan faham dan berkasih sayang semula. Amin 🤲🏻
Start dari awal sampai habis bergenang air mata 😂 i pun dari broken family jugak. And I believe everything happens for a reason, right :,) do more sistersshare! Luv it ♥️
Almost all da thing u get through same wid my family. But at last Alhamdulillah, even mak ayah saya bercerai hubungan adik beradik kami sgt kuat even dgn adik2 belah ayah n mak tiri. Kisah lama mak ayah kitorg, kitorg biar berlalu, walaupun agak sakit tapi bila makin membesar, semua makin matang ada hikmahnya juga. Tapi bezanya, ayah masih pentingkan kami adk beradik, masih menjadi wali utk kami dan masih boleh dtg ke kenduri nikah dan kawen kitorg adk beradik dan being a part dalam kenduri tu. Thnx wawa n sibling share this topic. Kdg penceraian bukan benda yg terburuk dlm hidup, mungkin itu permulaan utk mereka merasa lebih bahagia.
Its ok wawa no need to be soo sad, there is people more sadly their life, at least u guy hv each other.. If people know what i have been through, surely ramai yg x sanggup hadapi
Tgk jgk tahap broken nya tu.. Mgkin broken fmily yg ad pendapatan tetap,hdup ada ada, cra didikan so fmily tu mgkin stabil. Brlainan plak dgn broken fmily yg kna mental tocture,melarat,trhimpit dll...
kenapa sy sebak watching tis video kali ni :') i am a mom of 1 n almost nk divorce with my hsbnd last ramadhan due to some crisis but alhamdulillah our rship dpt diselamatkan. n masa almost nk divorce tu baby girl sy baru je 8 mths. tq u guys mnyedarkan sy yg happiness tu fragile. i learnt that if nak happy kan pasangan jgn tangguh, happy kan je terus we nvr know what wud happen later on kan. ank2 hasil divorced parents, dont be sad. Hidup harus diteruskan. Dont blame our parents, some dgn brcerai, hdup lebih bahagia. Kita sbg anak, appreciate both mom & dad. Tq again kak iza, kak ika, wawa & jiha :') Doakan sy , hsbnd n anak bhgia smpi hujung nyawa. Semoga u all juga bahagia brsama fmly masing2 :)
You know, sometimes things have to go wrong in order for us to realize yang kita pun manusia biasa, ada silap. Yang penting adalah how we grow, and change, because Tuhan tu tahu yang terbaik. Be strong, although i know it's easier for me to said it, but you'll be just fine, inshaAllah. You're a great mom. So stay great --- Ika
Sebak sebab ada juga lalui fasa macam ni. Basicly saya setuju semua idea korang. Lama2 anger & frustration semua tu kita boleh let go, bila mak/ayah cerita buruk each other pun kita try jadi natural. Kita mula terima semua yg jadi. Fikiran pun makin matang. Takut nak kahwin tu lama2 pun hilang sebab makin sedar how life works. Setiap kesalahan kita pandang sebagai pengajaran untuk kita dan dah tak judge lah broken family atau kawan2 yang dalam fasa nak bercerai/gaduh. Tapi, (ye ada tapi haha) (+ sebab nampak macam korang avoid to highlight this things) saya nak keluarkan pendapat ni-- saya tak boleh terima kalau nak kahwin dengan suami orang lagi2 kalau secara senyap atau kahwin di Siam sana. Kalau betul nak kahwin juga dengan lelaki yang berstatus suami orang, dah cinta mati/tak boleh buat apa/susah gila nak move on-- senang cerita kalau nak jadi wanita yang berpoligami- buatlah dengan cara yang betul dan baik. Sama lah lelaki pun jangan bercinta/berkawan dengan isteri orang- it could be wrong, yes, really wrong. Try not to be that kind of person. Tak judge, tapi nasihat awal. Peace! Thanks for sharing this sensitive topic with us. Keep strong & ganbatte. xx 💛
I wish i can have a great sister like kak ika , kak wawa 😭😭😭😭 she such a good advisor . Actually all of you are a good advisor and i love you guys so much !!!
Ye betul tu.. cuma satu je nk tambah. Anak ayah kita Dr keluarga lg satu tu jugak adik beradik kita dan ada darah daging kita. Alangkah baiknya kalau kita dapat berkawan dgn adik beradik Dr keluarga lg satu tu sama mcm kita berkawan rapat dengan adik beradik kita seibu sebapa ni. Memang susah nk terima pada mulanya tp percaya la kita akan dapat rasa kebahagiaan yg kita x pernah rasa dalam hubungan adik beradik yg pernah kita rasa sekarang. Cuba fikirkan kita ada kawan rapat. Yg boleh kongsi mcm2 benda malah adik beradik kita pon kita x kongsi benda tu. Org yg kita betul-betul percaya sebagai sahabat rapat. Dan cuba bayangkan kalau sahabat rapat kita tu adalah adik-beradik Dr ibu lg satu. Trust me korang akan rasa bahagia yg amat klu korang ada sahabat mcm tu. Sebab Sy dh lalui dan percaya la dia la yg paling rapat dlm semua kawan yg korang ada. Klu korang dalam susah x semua adik-beradik korang akan bersusah-payah bantu korang sebab adik beradik kita ni dorg ada satu kepercayaan yg dorg fikir kita mampu hadapi kesusahan yg Kila lalui sebab dorg fikir dorg lebih kenal kita dr org lain. Jd benda tu la buat adik beradik kita rasa x risau mana pon kalau kita susah. Bukan maksud sy semua adik beradik mcm tu tp ye kebanyakan mcm tu la. Tp kawan rapat dengan adik beradik dr ibu yg lain ni perasaan dorg lain tau. Malah kita sndri pon rasa mcm tu. Sebab kita x hidup depan mata dorg mcm mana kita hidup dengan adik beradik kita. Jd bila kita rasa sesuatu yg pelik atau rasa adik beradik dr ibu lg satu ni dalam kesusahan kita punya tahap risau tu lain tau. Situ la timbul rasa sayang dalam hubungan adik-beradik tu. Mcm tu la jugak dorg rasa pada kita. Malah kita akan tanya berkali kali dia ok ke x. Walaupun dia ckp dia ok. Mcm tu la jugak dorg rasa pada kita. Hubungan sahabat yg ada pertalian darah ni memang salah satu keajaiban dr yang maha esa. Masa tu la korang akan rasa sayang nya Allah pada kita. Sebab tu jangan marah kalau ayah kawin lg satu. Allah maha mengetahui. Kita pulak nak mengajar Allah pasal takdir. Tiada apa pon akan berlaku tanpa izin Allah. Jd yakin la ayah kawin lg satu tu Allah izin tanda nya yang Allah sayangkan kita. Memang susah nak lalui tp mcm Wawa ckp la kan semua tu mengajar kita jadi lebih kuat. 😊
what i've got from this videos, just be a positive one no matter how hard we had to faced. just be true of yourself and positive always. at the end of the day, everything will be going fine and smooth.
Suka dengan uguys. Very positive. Lepas ni boleh share mcm mana uguys pergi mana or holiday, mcm mana korang arrange kewangan. Kongsi ke mcm mana ka. I hope sangat uguys boleh bt video psl ni. Tq so much😊
Dengar sambil buat esaimen pastu tutup esaimen sambung dengar hahahaha. Sebab faham sangat perasaan Najwa and siblings. My anak fruit alami semua tu and I feel sorry for her. May Allah make her strong like you all :)
Currently having a relationship with someone who's having a family problem (not broken) and I once being questioned for her insecurities.. I love her so much and really are doing my best and all attention goes for her and our future. I just want to say that, pls don't make us (ppl like me) as victims of your insecurities. It's okay to not feel okay or suspicious about a person but we have been together for quite some time now, you should already know well your partner and where we are heading. Pls don't make it hard for us, what else shall we do to prove it to you? Your insecurities may probably reanimate the mistakes that your parents have done. Hence, pls jgn letak tekanan berat pd kami sebelum apa2 jadi pun. Cukup ingatkan kami utk x buat perkara2 tertentu. Tu dah cukup sbg panduan kita bersama utk x buat benda x masuk akal. Dan masalah family tu bkn dtg dari satu pihak saja tapi dua2. So dua2 perlu berjaga bkn kami shj. K babes? (In general la haha) Teamwork k tq
When i see kak wawa nangis , mmg terasa sebak . But still cannot nangis jugak even dah repeat video ni berkali kali . Yes , im also from a broken family . But my parents meninggal setahun before upsr and setahun before spm . I have ramai adik beradik , 4 brothers and 1 sister and 1 younger sister . Termasuk saya number 6 so total 7 , but kitaorg tak pernah duduk serumah . We all have my own conflict . So yah , even raya pun semua akan raya dgn family masing masing . Sbb mostly my brothers and my sister dah kahwin . Yang tinggal hanya saya and my younger sister yg skrg ni umur 10 tahun . Betul kak jiha cakap ada yang datang dari broken family baik baik je dan itulah yg saya dan adik saya sedang lakukan . Wish me luck in my spm :)
Betul klu bapa nk pujuk or nk btlkan keslhn dya bg kemewahan....n bila kena dngr cerita buruk antara dua pihak rasa mcm berslh nk tegur cara dia org ckp....
sory wawa lambat harini..tak dapat jadi yang terawal tengok awak baby..tadi tengah tulis2 lagu..tak perasan lak notification..semoga cuti2 ni wawa tak main hujan tak main panas..tu suara tak baik lagi..ok sayang😘🤭
Wawa same cam sy.. dr broken family dr sy umoo 12.. n.. adik beradik sy 4 orng all gurls.. hehe.. alhamdulillah.. kami 4 beradik berjaya n semua da kawen.. n target skng nk wat mak happy je hehe
I used to always fastforwarding all videos I watched, tp this video doesnt deserve a fastforwarding 😘😘 fact I've been watching this for the third time now 💪🏿
"Happiness is fragile" thanks for share this word💗💗 End I have Questions for sister's share.❤️❤️. Ahaha.. How u all rapat dengan daddy you all right now...boleh share tak serapat mana u all skrng dgn u all daddy... 💘💘...
Hai kak najwa !! saya tringin la nak tgk kak najwa buat video lagu cintamukabuku , lgu kak najwa yg lama dulu . tlg reaction that song dgn siblings kak wawa . And how your feel tgk mv sendiri 😂 sorry saje je nk tgk
goshh could relate to all situation 😂 lagi2 part being defensive when it comes to our mom 😂 me and adik beradik pon also like that lol . sesi soal menyiasat tuh wow ahahha im sorry mom but i just cant😂
Bila bab wali.. i cant brain your father dont want to be your sisters wali. Sy yg xde kena mengena pun rs nk nangis.. apatah lg korang kan.. stay strong..
I love to see forth of you more after watching this episode ! 😊 and yeah, Allah will not burden a soul with more than it can bear. You guys are very strong. Hee Couldn't wait for the next episode tho!
Ika, loya buruk blh tahan, tapi padangan Ika pon blh tahan jgk ni.. Balance.. 😂 Korang punye perspective terhadap topic ni, adalah waras dan positive. Jgn skali2 pikir broken family cannot be mend sbb kite ade glue..🤣🤣...kk lame gurau2. Sbbnye ada contoh dari 4 beradik ni. May Allah bless us, protect us, make things easy for us and guide us always to the truth. ✌️
New sister share!!! I have a friend that comes from broken family tapi tak pernah tanya in depth how their relationship with their family . Banyak belajar from today's sister share . Thank u semua 💕
"happiness is fragile" thank you for sharing :")
Hi wawa , I'm literally crying listen to u guys :') Setuju sangat dengan apa yg korg ckp :
Hidup ni bukan fairytale , we need to face reality
We need to cherish every single thing , kebahagiaan itu adalah pinjaman .
We learnt in the hard way , happiness is fragile .
Broken family thought us , is to be careful dgn siapa org yg Kita nak berkawan .
Kita akan belajar utk sangat bersabar . I might not as strong & independent as me now .
It is good to have support , u sendiri kena kuat . U cannot put your happiness on someone's hand .
U will see the world in different in other perspectives , banyak benda kita belajar .
Kita tahu yg Kita boleh face benda² lain sebab Kita boleh face benda ni , so why not ?
Thank you for also reminding me to not to salahkan parent's mistake , bcoz it is our choice to do or not and not to blame others :) mistake dorg , mistake dorg , mistake Kita is mistake Kita .
Not to blame your parents , still kena hormat . When ayah cerita buruk mak , I akan backup mak , vice versa . I tried to be neutral .
( and what I do was , I tak cakap siapa betul siapa salah , but for me dedua ada salah , dedua ada betul , so kita sebagai org matang , buang yg buruk amik yg jernih )
( But in my situation , my mom was not very well . So when I did that my mom will get more emotional & mengamuk ..
So actually it's effect me , myself & my siblings . In other way , I know that all of us was hurt and we depressed inside . But I'm glad that my brother's take care of us well , my siblings relationship was good :) even everyone jealous on us but they don't know that we're jealous on them for having a complete family
I'm become more sensetive & cepat moody ( I'm the one yg happy go lucky person , but sometimes I akan tetibe jdi sedih and diam ) , i'm still struggling to cope with this situation even it happens almost 8 years long time ago . Do pray for me :) May Allah bless you guys ❤️
To people out there , jangan malu datang dari broken family . Find your support system , if you couldn't find any , I'll pray may Allah send you helps & happiness always :) Lastly , percayalah setiap yg berlaku pasti ada hikmahnya 🥰
I literally crying watching this video. Everything you guys said in this video is 💯. And thats what totally i felt during those days :(
My parents divorce when i was 12, and my 2 younger brothers were just 7 & 3 years old 😞 sometimes rasa kesian sangat kat diorg sbb diorg tak pernah rasa a truly happy complete family.... at first mmg i salah kan parents, i salahkan takdir. But as years goes by, i slowly accept this qadha’ and qadar and lama lama hati i redha and percaya everything happened for a reason. And as I’m growing baru la i nampak yg my parents did their best too, but it just dah takde persefahaman and diorg asyik gaduh, so i pun rasa separate is the best way. It was hard for me, sbb i anak sulung and i rasa pressure sangat.
Everyone likes weekend, tapi everytime weekend i akan serabut sbb weekend la ayah i akan dtg rumah kitorg utk amik kitorg. But the thing is everytime my parents berjumpa, diorg akan bergaduh and it was really really stressful moment 😭 i stress gila sbb bila dgn my mom, my mom akan burukkan my dad, and bila dgn my dad , my dad akan burukkan my mom. I sayang dua dua, tapi i selalu diam je sbb i tak nak bergaduh. Tapi selalu air mata dah bergenang time ni. I tak tahu nk cerita kat siapa, sbb i anak sulung, and my friends diorg semua ada a complete happy family. If i cerita kat diorg, diorg takkan faham and i takut diorg judge i. Sbb orang yg tak lalui, diorg takkan faham the real pain and struggle what broken family been thru. And i malas nk dgr org kata “apa apa pun diorg still mak ayah kau”. It hurts everytime i pergi shopping mall, family day, i see a complete happy family. Mata i akan automatically bergenang sbb rasa sebak, sedih sangat bcs I’ll never feel that again.
Happiness is really really fragile. Parents i bergaduh teruk after divorce, bfr divorce diorg bergaduh juga tapi diorg sorokkan dari anak anak especially me, sbb i tgh nak upsr and psra. My mom told me yg diorg dh divorcer after i habis upsr and psra, masa tu 2009. And it has been 10 years ago, but i can still cry like it just happened yesterday. It was killing me inside, but everyday I’ll go to school and be happy with my friends, enjoy and focus the good things in life.
I mmg tak boleh tengok parents i bergaduh depan i , sbb hati i akan jd hancur sgt sgt , sedih sgt sgt 😞 pernah satu kes ni diorg gaduh teruk sangat. I mmg tak tahan, i ckp apa tah pastu i lari masuk bilik and nangis, and i call kawan i, i tak cakap apa, i just nangis. I tak tahu nak luah kan kat siapa. I rasa yg paling faham situation i time tu hanya lah Allah swt :’)
But all those things makes me stronger, makes me want to prove something, that even if you’re from broken family you can be successful. I workd hard for my pmr and Alhamdulillah i masuk asrama masa form 4, so mcm i dh kurang sikit nampak drama weekend huhu. Waktu form 5 ayah i kahwin lain , and yeah macam you guys cakap they deserve to be happy too. And i okay je ayah i kahwin lain as long as he’s happy bcs he’s human too. So i ada step mom and also step siblings. At first kitorg mcm rapat okay la, but now tak sangat dah. Plus i skrg tak study kt msia, so mcm dah jarang jumpa. And i pun jarang balik msia.
But afterall , from my opinion is, i tak salah kan my parents, because diorg pun hanyalah manusia biasa, and manusia tak sempurna. I pun tak sempurna, and everybody makes mistake.
I pun defensive about my mom, dgn siapa dia berkawan etc, but at the end of the day i just nak dia happy :’) i sayang my parents dua dua, tak kurang tak lebih, setiap lepas solat i selalu doakan diorg :’) and i know they’ve tried their best. But thisbis reality, there’s no fairytale in this world.
But Alhamdulillah i look things in positive ways, I managed to get good results in every big exams despite i come from a broken family. And i sangat sangat marah dgn orang yg guna excuse as parents divorce tu as obstacles utk diorg success walaupun waktu i tak excell ujian ujian pun i guna the same excuse 😂 but the thing is, everything depends on ourselves. How we see things, if you see this broken family as and obstacles for you to success, benda tu akan jadi sgt sgt susah. But if you see this broken family as a challenge for you to prove smthg, and benda tu akan jd a big motivation for you to achieve your goals. And Alhamdulillah i pun tak tahu mcm mana i keep sane during those days but Alhamdulillah i take that as motivation.
And yeah dont put happiness in the hand of others. My mom selalu ckp “kalau rasa apa yg kita lalui ni dah teruk, ingatlah ada org lalui lagi teruk dari ni” . So everytime i rasa family i ni dah teruk, i selalu fikir at least i still ada parents, dari orang yg takde parents langsung. So benda tu akan buat i rasa grateful. Tapi bila stress tu mmg stress lah 😂
And i pun nampak kadang kadang mcm my dad compensate dgn bagi i barang barang yg branded. Tapi biasalaha ayah kan diorg ada ego sendiri kan haha.
But Alhamdulillah I’m grateful where I’m now. My life is not perfect, i grew from a broken family, but my parents tak pernah lupakan our needs. And i see they’ve tried their best dalam membesarkan kitorg. And even kita rasa kita adalah anak yg disakiti, tapi diorg pun sakit juga. Like you guys said, it takes a lot for them to decide that, and i takes a lot more to tell their kids.
Tapi tu semua yg build who am i now, kalau tak, i takkan jadi sekuat sekarang, and i takkan jadi se berdikari sekarang. The point is , look at your problem as a challenge to motivates you, dont look your problem as obstacles for you to achieve your goals. Like Dr Amalina said, focus on your goals, not obstacles.
Okay i rasa dah panjang sangat i type, but yeah if you tak jumpa anyone to reach out, you menangis kat Allah sbb He’s the only one yg truly understands you. And Allah takkan uji hambaNya, lebih dari apa yg hambaNya mampu. And jangan sesekali tinggal solat 5 waktu, it really really helps you to soothe your heart. And jangan salahkan parents kita, sbb diorg pun hanyala manusia biasa yg buat kesilapan. And these things will make us a better person in the future, insya’ Allah.
Doakan i habis medical school on time, 2 years more insya’ Allah . And to anyone who’s struggling, trust me , after a heavy rain, they’ll come a beautiful rainbow. One fine day, you’ll smile at your past and proud of yourself . Trust me, better days are coming. Dont lose hope, dont harm youself okay!! Channel your sadness to something good like sports and so on. And biarlah orang nak cakap apa pasal kita sbb at the end of the day, kita yg hadap semua ni, diorg tak tahu apa apa pun. And biarlah diorg cakap apa apa pun, bukan diorg yg kasi makan minum hidup kita pun.
Live your life to the fullest, appreciate all those little things in life because we never know what the future holds ☺️✨
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Such a touching story sis, Insha Allah urusan sis utk study medical school dipermudahkn dan memperoleh keputusan yg cemerlang…… Aamiin
Yusuf Badrul hisham insya’ Allah Aminnnn.... terima kasihhh 🥺
A Girl stay srong awak!! This too shall pass! Always think positive okayy 😘 masa i tulis ni pun meleleh air mata huhu. My pleasure 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
We need to cherish every single thing.
So many lesson learnt. Thank you for sharing walaupun topik ni sensitif.
having a broken family ni sebenarnya perlu hati yg sado.. dulu time parents cerai.. aku fikir benda akan jadi lebih baik.. sbb drg akan tinggal separate dah.. tkde da smua gaduh2 kat rmh.. smua akan okay lh.. itu apa ada dlm fikiran saya..
tapi benda lain pla berlaku.. lepas je parents cerai.. masalah bru pula dtg.. blm sempat heal dri luka parents cerai.. dah kena face masalah baru.. bgi aku lh.. statement yg mention psl problem akan settle lps parents cerai tu adalah salah.. percayalh.. lps je drg cerai tu.. byk bnda lagi masalah yg akan dtg.. dan masalah tu akan lebih berat untuk d tanggung..
I love this topic. Tak ramai yg nak share psl broken family kan. Bcs its big issue tau. Semua nya dtg dari family. Family is number 1. Yg lalui broken family je faham mcm mane perit nya. Srsly dia sangat lah berkait dgn mental. Tak semua bole survive. Luar je senyum dalam hanya diri sendiri tahu. Bila ade broken family sy lost tau supporter. Sangat lah susah utk walk alone. I know we have Allah but support from people we love yg kita rapat, darah daging kita tu hmmm.
Pegang satu sahaja dalam hidup, “Setiap apa yang berlaku pasti ada hikmahNya”
Ade certain anak dr broken family, org akn nmpk kita takde masalah ceria je, snng je hidup. Tp sbenarnya mereka simpan kesedihan utk mereka sndiri. Yeahhh being in broken family make me more stronger and independent in my life. Setiap yg berlaku pasti ada hikmah. Yakin. Thank you #sistersshare for this video.
Betul , kadang ad yg tngok broken family nih mesti anak2 nya akan terabai atau anak2 akan jd mangsa. Sebenarnya tak tau , kita sbg anak2 kena pandai main peranan . Mungkin ad sebab kenapa dorang harus berpisah kan ? Kita sbg anak2 kena kuat .
Kalo parents aq lak , dorang tak bercerai dr aq kecik tau tp dorang still duduk sebumbung tp tdk sebilik and kalo bertembung tuh mcm api tembung api . Nanti aq akan jd serabut au dngr dorang gaduh bising2 salahkan antara 1 sma lain sampai dah bsr nih pon still tak bercerai . Berbelas tahun dorang takda persefahaman and then masing2 ikut cara hidup sndiri tp pilih utk 1 bumbung dan masa lepas raya 2018 mak aq buat keputusan pergi mahkamah(sbnrnya ad jgk time aq kecik g mahkamah tp bila sampai kes tuh mak aq jd tak sampai hati mungkin pk anak2)
Okay blk pd td mak aq pergi mahkamah lps raya , turun naik mahkamah tp bapak aq ttp taknak prgi dia cuma kata "ko yg pandai2 bukak kes ko sndri settlekan aq tkkn prgi" and dalam masa 3 sebelum tamat eddah mak aq tnya bapak aq "dah nak hbs eddah nih ko nak rujuk ke nak cerai" and bapak aq just kata , "sp suruh ko prgi mahkamah aq tak suruh pon"
Selepas tamat eddah mak aq still duduk rumah tuh and tnya bapak aq berkali kali taknak rujuk ke . And after one week mak aq koma dekat hospital . Seminggu dekat hospital bapak aq menangis mcm orang gila tknk makan minum tknk blk siap nangis2 "shidah bngn lah aq janji kita rujuk"
So bila mak aq meninggal aq jd mcm takut au aq mcm trfikir sepanjang dia habiskan hidup dia dia sentiasa sedih . And mak aq prnh pesan lah kita kena kuat dan kena tahu ap yg kita nak buat atau akan buat. Sebab kadang ap yg kita buat tkkn sama ap yg kita fikir . Orang tkkn fhm kita hnya kita yg fhm kita . Broken family atau ap dorang tetap prnh sayang antara 1 sama lain
So sorry to hear this.. semoga arwah ditempatkan bersama orang beriman. Al Fatihah..
Lifes must go on, u jgn dendam dgn your father. Take this as your pengalaman hidup.. walaupun sakit, but still u share kisah ni. Sedikit sebanyak beri impak kepada pasangan yang berada dalam dilema..
Betul kata pepatah "bila ada tak dihargai, bila dah tiada baru nak tercari-cari"
Semoga semuanya baik2 saja 👍
@@ezfreak0159 Amiiinnn. In Sya Allah, utk ap berdendam kalo diri sndri yg sakit. Jd kan itu sbg pengajaran utk kita bljr menghargai seseorang. Jngn sbb ego tinggi melambung kita menyesal di kemudian hari. 🤗 sy kongsi sbb sy nk org tahu sbnrnya ramai yg alami hal yg sama cuma kisah yg brbeza.
@@diellamusa26 alright 👍 tq for sharing
kali ni kak izah bnyak cakap myb sbb die anak sulong n she know everything. sedih tgok wawa nangis. i cry too 😭
My parents divorced when i am 15 and i am 15. My first action when the time my dad cakap ‘abah akan pisahkan mama’ i answered him ‘oh kenapa’ and he told me the reason y. I answered him oh bcs I don’t want him to feel sad by knowing I’m sad. But actually i cried a lot. Every time my dad pick me up from school and send me to my mom house. I LEGIT CRYING AFTER I CLOSE THE DOOR AND WATCH MY DAD PERGI BALIK RUMAH MY GRANDPA bcs i was thinking macam ‘ hmm he used to be living in the same house w me ‘. After that i used to fought a lot w my mom bcs im a useless child. I cried my mom also cried. But i know crying didn’t help me out of that bubble. So i stand w all the ‘hand’ help such as my mom my aunties my friends and cousin or whoever helped me. So all in all maturity is very important when your parents divorced. When the maturity is not there everything yg stuck in ur head will control u. Plus MENANGIS IS OKAY BCS SOMETIME NANGIS PENENANG YANG BAGUS. NO DOUBT and don’t put all the pressure to ur parents lagi lagi yg baru bercerai. Plus , don’t dreaming yg everything will be the same when parents divorced , everything will change and u have to be prepare. So that is all my 2sense
Kuatnya korang ni.. I rs kalau i ditempat korang, bercerita tentang mak ayah, dh berambu2 air mata keluar. Hihi.. But semua yg korang lalui tu jadikan korang org yg sgt kuat.. Good sharing!! Semoga uolls sentiasa happy dan dilindungi.. Aminn
Sama lahh... Dengar video ni pun mata dah mengalir airnya.. 😂
Alhamdulillah for this video, a video I can relate to. I think broken family is not only to divorced parents, ada parents tapi one parent is absent pun is a form of broken family. But I do get you guys punya point and it’s heartbreaking seeing our family jadi mcmni. To you guys yang ada broken family, don’t be shy to shine okay.I totally agree with points:
1) happiness is fragile. Semua tu pinjaman, cherish it before it’s gone
2) own up to our own mistake. Jangan asyik selalu guna alasan kesilapan parents as an excuse to be an ass
3) you are your own happiness
4) support system is very crucial
5) I personally think parents tak patut burukkan one another dekat anak anak. After all, they are still your children’s parents.
And thank you for bringing this up. Sebab a lot of us can relate to you guys! Thanks for always giving us positive inputs through your video! Kita suka! I’ve always been a silent reader, tapi on this topic, dah tak jadi silent reader. Hehe hai najwa and siblings!
i'm crying watched this. i pun datang dari family broken :( im just sad bila tengok org lain ada happy family lagi lagi time convo :(
Allah, Syukur saya sebab diberi masa untuk saya menonton siaran ini bersendirian. Air mata saya tetap gugur walaupun saya cuba untuk menahannya. Inilah siaran yang paling terkesan kepada saya sebab saya bersyukur setiap kali saya menasihati pasangan yang ingin bercerai yang saya jumpa inilah yang saya cuba ketengahkan agar masing masing berfikir kembali in depth before choosing last result. Tetapi segalanya ketentuanNya maka benarlah Qadaq dan Qadar. Allah, walaupun saya masih tiada rezeki bercahayamata tetapi saya rasakan kamulah permata beharga buat ibu dan ayah kamu percayalah until end. Kamu sangat bertuah kerana ujian ini dapat kamu laksanakan dengan baik yang kamu mampu. Ayah dan ibu kamu berbangga dengan kamu. Saya doakan agar kamu semua dilindungiNya dalam lindunganNya sentiasa InShaaAllah. Apa apa pun tetap AllahuAkbar. Siaran ini memang terkesan untuk diri saya dan saya akan guna untuk bagi tayangan kat anak anak yang mempunyai ujian seumpama kamu, boleh kan? Tq n take care All of you. Semoga Allah merahmati kita semua dalam RahmatNya sentiasa dan lindungi kita semua dalam lindunganNya sentiasa InShaaAllah.
Pengalaman meluaskan minda seseorang.
Saya dan 3 adik lelaki saya jugak mengalami peristiwa yang sama. Cuma waktu tu, saya berumur 7 tahun dan saya melihat sendiri kejadian tersebut. Terpaksa laa saya berdikari pada umur yang muda dan menjaga adik² saya. Kami tinggal bersama ibu kami.
Thankyou for sharing (:
I struggle gila hadap family broke tambah i study sampai depress 😌 but Allhamdulillah I managed it.
yeah sis ❤
nf0.0 But depress ni takkan hilang dia akan datang balik 💔
@@serpihanbulan u know, even kita nampak cam okay tapi nanti down balik. almost everyday
@@serpihanbulan i know u can beat it.. 💪💪
I cant really related this..😢
almost become from broken family but alhamdulillah..,😭
stay strong to those from broken family I know how it feels..you are not alone..if you need help..just go find someone..to let all you heart's burden..if you need consult..go meet counselor since it is their responsibility to keep your secret..do something..don't let it harm yourself..
dlu time parent ada problems..I sama tmpt mcm Wa n Kak Ika..
I saw everything and knew everything..but Now Alhamdulillah since they know they cant live w/out each other..
Allahu sebaknya, saya pun dari broken fam jugak since darjah 3, now i'm 18 and saya sulung betul yang paling terasanya sulung and yea jujurnya ada effect dekat anak anak bila parents bercerai ni kecik lagi and senang terpengaruh sbb waktu tu dah faham sikit rasa nak memberontak tu ada semua la kan, tipula kalau tak sedih tapi paksa diri kuat sbb adik adik, lagi yang last tu waktu tu umur dia 5 tahun jadi mesti dia lagi kurang dapat rasa kasih sayang ibu sbb kami duduk dengan ayah.
kadang ada rasa nak macam orang lain complete fam but fikir balik ada orang yang anak yatim piatu so that part i really bersyukur still boleh jumpa even jarang. i just want to say to those yang rasa sama ni, Allah dah plankan yang terbaik untuk korang, so keep going, He knows whats best for you, even rasa kurang kasih sayang ibu, Dia bagi rasa kasih sayang tu dari orang sekeliling and i'm thankful sbb selalu dikelilingi oleh orang orang yang baik thank youuuu for this vid love ittt!!!!
Hi Imratul Najwa.
Much Love ❤️❤️❤️
Im from broken family too.
Parents saye berpisah masa saye umur 18tahun. 😊
25:20, I really felt that and somehow terlintas jugak it will be good kalau Allah kurniakan at least adik lelaki or seorang abang for this family untuk jaga ibu diorang bila semua adik beradik perempuan dah berkahwin. But then, everything happened for a reason ✨Semoga family ini dirahmati selalu 🙆
Thank you for this sharing. We have same situation. I keep blaming my parents sbb sometimes rasa jeles dekat keluarga orng lain yng lagi bahagia dri keluarga sendiri. My siblings pon sometimes lack of communication.. Now i sedar takde sape yng boleh ubah diri jadi lebih kuat drpd orang lain except yourself! Everythings happen for reason.. Thanks again for this sharing🤗
"Appreciate honesty"....I'm touching😭u guys are so strong...salute
I pun takut nak kahwin. Finding the right guy isnt easy. And nak kawan pun i sgt berhati2. So mmg org ckp memilih sgt but idk bhaaaa x nak fikir.
Ini lah lumrah kehidupan.. suka dengan ayat ni "happiness is fragile" :")
It’s nice of you to put this video up like this.
Im glad of who i become now. Im glad that i dont ruin myself before even tho i cakap banyak kali dekat my parents yg im soooo gonna ruin myself if they ever fight again.
Mama i and abah i dua2 buat silap but at the same times, diorang pun ada kebaikan jugak. My parents divorced waktu i umur 17 tahun. It was so hard to act strong. I was the one yg found out everything, i was the one jugak yg revealed everything. Tiap2 malam i nangis fikir macam mana nak set things back to normal before things jadi lagi teruk. Tapi i failed. Malam sebelum tidur i nangis teruk, pergi sekolah nangis. Hidup i penuh dengan nangis je. I takde sape2 waktu tu. I cuma bergantung harap dekat kawan i. And masa sebulan nak spm, hidup i macam neraka. Kena tengok my parents gaduh depan mata, nak study pun tak tenang. I toreh kaki toreh tangan so many times macam orang takde akal. I lari rumah banyak kali. Until 2 weeks sebelum spm i banyak spend time rumah aunty i. And survived spm. Bawak diri sambung diploma. At the same times i mula faham and mula belajar. Now im glad that i dont ruin my life before.
I fokus nak jaga adik2 i so that diorang bahagia je in the future. Thanks for the video. It means a lot to me😘💕
Thank you for sharing miss najwa. And this happend to me also ,I also come from a broken family . But true it taught me a lot . And I've learned that semua Ada hikmahnya .
And for me , my parents was divorced when literally I was 16 years old.
My dad and my mom always fight and all. But then miracle do happend , so here I am now 21 years old , before my dad passed away this year , arwah ayah and my mom menjadi semakin rapat my mom Jaga arwah ayah before he passed away.because masa arwah ayah sakit , arwah ayah selalu je nak mak menziarah dia. They become close like best friends they also share their story and talked about us their children And I'm so thankful,
So yeah. , There is up and down but everything do happend for a reason. May Allah ease Everything for us .
#shareurlove
For some reason whenever kak ika becakap i automatically angguk2 kepala..😄
Assalammualaikum. Recently I tgk you all punya Talks and Discussions based on you all punya experiences. I suka sgt! 😁👍 I dari negara jiran, org Singapore. Just to share with you all that my Final Syariah Court Case coming soon this 30th. I got a son who's 2yo, going 3yo on January. Bila you all touch on Anak Tunggal, I berharaplah sgt anak I kuat di kemudian hari bila dia da mula faham. Amin.. Amin.. This topic really come on the right time when I still got my last 4days to be an Official Single Mum. Thank you, you all! 😘😘😘😘
One word for you guys. Respect. You guys adalah salah satu contoh mcm mana pun sekali mak ayah kita buat kat kita, buruk mana pun dorang, you guys still jaga aib mak ayah you. You guys still anggap still respect them. Susah nak ada perasaan tu, attitude. Respect. 🙌🏻
Eee suka lah kak izaa 😍 kak iza pandang je camera macam pandang kami yang menonton nih 😍 me love you sister share ❤️😘😘
Thanks for the good input, memang membantu I lagi kuat untuk hidup insyaAllah.
Yang datang dari broken family dan juga seorang anak tunggal, betul sangat bila akak2 cakap nak berkawan pon jadi choosy, tak semua orang kita boleh share (bukan sbb tak percaya tapi dah pernah lalui saat dimana sesetengah orang tak boleh relate dengan apa yg kita lalui) tapi kita still keep in touch je with everyone gituu.
Dan yes belajar untuk independent from a young age. Buatkan kita lagi kuat dan sabar walaupun ada hari kita emotionally and physically drained, kita tahu takde choice lain but for us to pick ourselves up n get better everyday.
Dan cabaran sebagai anak luar nikah pulak, cabaran dia lagi kuat.. tapi takde pilihan lain selain sentiasa belajar dan ambik contoh2 yang baik.. ada hari terjatuh tetap kena bangun jugak kan.. apa apa pon alhamdulillah untuk semua rezeki2 yang Allah kurniakan dan setiap pengalaman yang diberi peluang untuk merasai..
Tq for sharing! Love you my sisters. Moga terus sukses #sistershare ❤️❤️
Bila bercerita bkaitan keluarga memang akan rasa sayu dan sedih .. but kita kuat melebihi apa yang kita tahu 😊
I pegang satu perkara.
Setiap perkara yang berlaku kat diri kita atau sekeliling kita ialah untuk mengajar kita menjadi seseorang yang lebih baik.
Samada ianya something good or bad yg jadi. Kita boleh ambil pengajaran.. org bijak belajar dari sejarah, orang bodoh belajar dari pengalaman. Kerana org bodoh tidak mengambil iktibar dari sejarah maka dia kena hadapinya sebagai pengalaman utk dia jadi lebih bijak
Btw nak gtau ni ,jiha i hope u see this comment..u lookin so beautiful in this vid and do have confidence in yourself k ..abg tgk awk cantik dek..pedulikan mereka2 yang ngate awk tu tau..caiyok2 jiha
💯 agree
@@zafirahnani9429 kannn jiha cantik je celah mane x cantik x tahu la tah pape je sape yang kate dia x cantik tu
@@xavierxav3850 let's just accept the fact yg jiha mmg cute……never debate about it
@@Thecomingman4869 true bro...just ade certain people yg tah pape je keep on judging..she is cute gile tak kiut..sopan lak tu
@@xavierxav3850 yeah, you're right
Honestly, first is tq sgt buat video dan korang sangat jujur. Baaaanyak sgt lessons even bukan dr broken family. Bukan senang nak cari video yg kupas psl isu ni dgn elaboration sgt terbaik. Dlm video ni semua nampak matang..best sgt. N plg suka dgr kak iza cakap. Rasa tenang n jelas je. :) Papepun, byk kn lg video bermanfaat utk kitorang. Will support 😍
😍😍😍😍 suka sgt ngn video wawa.. byk ibrah
We watch because we love it 😅 teruskan buat sharing wawa. I support u. Take care selalu
Yes, betul...buat apa kita nak halang2 mak ayah kita nak kawin ke berkawan ke. Jgn main reject je semua org. Diaorang perlukan partner n peneman..anak2 nanti akn ada family sendiri. Nanti mak/ayah kita mcm mana? Sunyi hati ni takkan boleh sama/diisi dgn ank2/cucu2 shja. Diaorang perlukan partner.
Tak boleh selfish. Diaorang tetap manusia biasa.
Again, never regret watching this! Very impressing! Luckily I've met you guys!
Done tengok !
Sometime our parents divorce because they had too not they want too .... Ya.. Me also came from broken family... ❤️♥️
Biasa senyum je...kali ni nangis pla😭
Saya doakan korang semua kuat.💪💪
im not from broken family but what were you talked about is very true . ya aku bukan dari broken family tapi family aku jenis kucar kacir . but even kucar kacir , aku tahu benda ni ada hikmah dia . aku jadi lebih bersabar dan redha apa yg jadi dlm family . thankyou for the excellent advices sisters !
💕💕💕 I'm feel u guys.. dan sentiasa ada hikmah dgn setiap kejadian yg berlaku
Lain orang lain cerita, ada family dah cerai dah bahagia ada yang cerai tapi tak bahgia seterusnya kehidupan. Kisah manusia semua berbeza. Ada parents jenis abuse, kaki arak dan macam2 kisah. Tak kisah kau pangkat apa ustaz or ustazah boleh kena. Tapi trauma dan depresi dalam family sesorang akan ada. Itu perit yang ada broken family. Sebab itu jangan judge pada manusia luaran nampak jahat ke apa mereka ada kisah tersendiri. Aku banyak kawan2 brken family masa study dulu mostly baik dari perangai munafik. Cuba bayangkan sesorang tu ada masalah broken family, tapi dia jumpa pasangan tu sakitkan hati dia. Manusia apa macam ni, sumpah aku kesian gila rasa nak sepak manusia skitkan orng ada brokn family ni. Memang takde perasaan ek? Abang doakan adik2 luar sana jumpa pasangan hidup yang bhgia dapat hilang rasa sakit kisah dulu, tempat luah dan faham dan berkasih sayang semula. Amin 🤲🏻
Love the way how Kak Iza & Kak Ika spoke, so humble
Suka betul aku tengok adik beradik ni... Tambah² ika tu.. Good luck wawa..
Kak ika paling banyak cakap n bgi nasihat..like it so much..memotivasikan
Start dari awal sampai habis bergenang air mata 😂 i pun dari broken family jugak. And I believe everything happens for a reason, right :,) do more sistersshare! Luv it ♥️
Betul! Whatever it is, Allah knows best. Be safe! -- Xx Kak Ika
Almost all da thing u get through same wid my family. But at last Alhamdulillah, even mak ayah saya bercerai hubungan adik beradik kami sgt kuat even dgn adik2 belah ayah n mak tiri. Kisah lama mak ayah kitorg, kitorg biar berlalu, walaupun agak sakit tapi bila makin membesar, semua makin matang ada hikmahnya juga. Tapi bezanya, ayah masih pentingkan kami adk beradik, masih menjadi wali utk kami dan masih boleh dtg ke kenduri nikah dan kawen kitorg adk beradik dan being a part dalam kenduri tu. Thnx wawa n sibling share this topic. Kdg penceraian bukan benda yg terburuk dlm hidup, mungkin itu permulaan utk mereka merasa lebih bahagia.
Wslm mashallah I'm. So happy to see next season Cam Islam 🙏😂😀 and I'm so proud to see my sisters thank you so much
Thank you for the sharing. I really need it right now. 😭
Its ok wawa no need to be soo sad, there is people more sadly their life, at least u guy hv each other.. If people know what i have been through, surely ramai yg x sanggup hadapi
Subhanallah thank you adik beradik Wawa. Sharing yang sangat berguna dan I can feel this
Tgk jgk tahap broken nya tu..
Mgkin broken fmily yg ad pendapatan tetap,hdup ada ada, cra didikan so fmily tu mgkin stabil. Brlainan plak dgn broken fmily yg kna mental tocture,melarat,trhimpit dll...
trueee
kenapa sy sebak watching tis video kali ni :') i am a mom of 1 n almost nk divorce with my hsbnd last ramadhan due to some crisis but alhamdulillah our rship dpt diselamatkan. n masa almost nk divorce tu baby girl sy baru je 8 mths. tq u guys mnyedarkan sy yg happiness tu fragile. i learnt that if nak happy kan pasangan jgn tangguh, happy kan je terus we nvr know what wud happen later on kan. ank2 hasil divorced parents, dont be sad. Hidup harus diteruskan. Dont blame our parents, some dgn brcerai, hdup lebih bahagia. Kita sbg anak, appreciate both mom & dad. Tq again kak iza, kak ika, wawa & jiha :') Doakan sy , hsbnd n anak bhgia smpi hujung nyawa. Semoga u all juga bahagia brsama fmly masing2 :)
You know, sometimes things have to go wrong in order for us to realize yang kita pun manusia biasa, ada silap. Yang penting adalah how we grow, and change, because Tuhan tu tahu yang terbaik. Be strong, although i know it's easier for me to said it, but you'll be just fine, inshaAllah. You're a great mom. So stay great --- Ika
@@syafikalatif2371 tq kak ika. Pls keep motivating us esp yg dah kawin ni. Tq again for yr kind words
Sebak sebab ada juga lalui fasa macam ni. Basicly saya setuju semua idea korang. Lama2 anger & frustration semua tu kita boleh let go, bila mak/ayah cerita buruk each other pun kita try jadi natural. Kita mula terima semua yg jadi. Fikiran pun makin matang. Takut nak kahwin tu lama2 pun hilang sebab makin sedar how life works. Setiap kesalahan kita pandang sebagai pengajaran untuk kita dan dah tak judge lah broken family atau kawan2 yang dalam fasa nak bercerai/gaduh.
Tapi, (ye ada tapi haha) (+ sebab nampak macam korang avoid to highlight this things) saya nak keluarkan pendapat ni-- saya tak boleh terima kalau nak kahwin dengan suami orang lagi2 kalau secara senyap atau kahwin di Siam sana. Kalau betul nak kahwin juga dengan lelaki yang berstatus suami orang, dah cinta mati/tak boleh buat apa/susah gila nak move on-- senang cerita kalau nak jadi wanita yang berpoligami- buatlah dengan cara yang betul dan baik. Sama lah lelaki pun jangan bercinta/berkawan dengan isteri orang- it could be wrong, yes, really wrong. Try not to be that kind of person.
Tak judge, tapi nasihat awal. Peace! Thanks for sharing this sensitive topic with us. Keep strong & ganbatte. xx 💛
I wish i can have a great sister like kak ika , kak wawa 😭😭😭😭 she such a good advisor . Actually all of you are a good advisor and i love you guys so much !!!
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Ye betul tu.. cuma satu je nk tambah. Anak ayah kita Dr keluarga lg satu tu jugak adik beradik kita dan ada darah daging kita. Alangkah baiknya kalau kita dapat berkawan dgn adik beradik Dr keluarga lg satu tu sama mcm kita berkawan rapat dengan adik beradik kita seibu sebapa ni. Memang susah nk terima pada mulanya tp percaya la kita akan dapat rasa kebahagiaan yg kita x pernah rasa dalam hubungan adik beradik yg pernah kita rasa sekarang. Cuba fikirkan kita ada kawan rapat. Yg boleh kongsi mcm2 benda malah adik beradik kita pon kita x kongsi benda tu. Org yg kita betul-betul percaya sebagai sahabat rapat. Dan cuba bayangkan kalau sahabat rapat kita tu adalah adik-beradik Dr ibu lg satu. Trust me korang akan rasa bahagia yg amat klu korang ada sahabat mcm tu. Sebab Sy dh lalui dan percaya la dia la yg paling rapat dlm semua kawan yg korang ada. Klu korang dalam susah x semua adik-beradik korang akan bersusah-payah bantu korang sebab adik beradik kita ni dorg ada satu kepercayaan yg dorg fikir kita mampu hadapi kesusahan yg Kila lalui sebab dorg fikir dorg lebih kenal kita dr org lain. Jd benda tu la buat adik beradik kita rasa x risau mana pon kalau kita susah. Bukan maksud sy semua adik beradik mcm tu tp ye kebanyakan mcm tu la. Tp kawan rapat dengan adik beradik dr ibu yg lain ni perasaan dorg lain tau. Malah kita sndri pon rasa mcm tu. Sebab kita x hidup depan mata dorg mcm mana kita hidup dengan adik beradik kita. Jd bila kita rasa sesuatu yg pelik atau rasa adik beradik dr ibu lg satu ni dalam kesusahan kita punya tahap risau tu lain tau. Situ la timbul rasa sayang dalam hubungan adik-beradik tu. Mcm tu la jugak dorg rasa pada kita. Malah kita akan tanya berkali kali dia ok ke x. Walaupun dia ckp dia ok. Mcm tu la jugak dorg rasa pada kita. Hubungan sahabat yg ada pertalian darah ni memang salah satu keajaiban dr yang maha esa. Masa tu la korang akan rasa sayang nya Allah pada kita. Sebab tu jangan marah kalau ayah kawin lg satu. Allah maha mengetahui. Kita pulak nak mengajar Allah pasal takdir. Tiada apa pon akan berlaku tanpa izin Allah. Jd yakin la ayah kawin lg satu tu Allah izin tanda nya yang Allah sayangkan kita. Memang susah nak lalui tp mcm Wawa ckp la kan semua tu mengajar kita jadi lebih kuat. 😊
what i've got from this videos, just be a positive one no matter how hard we had to faced. just be true of yourself and positive always. at the end of the day, everything will be going fine and smooth.
Suka dengan uguys. Very positive. Lepas ni boleh share mcm mana uguys pergi mana or holiday, mcm mana korang arrange kewangan. Kongsi ke mcm mana ka. I hope sangat uguys boleh bt video psl ni. Tq so much😊
Ep sistershare kali ni rasa sebak je. Tau² nangis sendiri. Semoga Wawa n family sentiasa kuat ye 😔
Video macam nilah bagus...BERFAEDAH👍
Dengar sambil buat esaimen pastu tutup esaimen sambung dengar hahahaha. Sebab faham sangat perasaan Najwa and siblings. My anak fruit alami semua tu and I feel sorry for her. May Allah make her strong like you all :)
thank you sm!! #sistersshare 😭❤
Wawaa pls buat sister shareee lagiii . I tengah ade family probelm but after seeing this video i felt better. Thank u
Currently having a relationship with someone who's having a family problem (not broken) and I once being questioned for her insecurities.. I love her so much and really are doing my best and all attention goes for her and our future. I just want to say that, pls don't make us (ppl like me) as victims of your insecurities. It's okay to not feel okay or suspicious about a person but we have been together for quite some time now, you should already know well your partner and where we are heading. Pls don't make it hard for us, what else shall we do to prove it to you? Your insecurities may probably reanimate the mistakes that your parents have done.
Hence, pls jgn letak tekanan berat pd kami sebelum apa2 jadi pun. Cukup ingatkan kami utk x buat perkara2 tertentu. Tu dah cukup sbg panduan kita bersama utk x buat benda x masuk akal. Dan masalah family tu bkn dtg dari satu pihak saja tapi dua2. So dua2 perlu berjaga bkn kami shj. K babes? (In general la haha) Teamwork k tq
Terima kasih kak wawa utk video ni . Much appreciated 😊
When i see kak wawa nangis , mmg terasa sebak . But still cannot nangis jugak even dah repeat video ni berkali kali .
Yes , im also from a broken family . But my parents meninggal setahun before upsr and setahun before spm . I have ramai adik beradik , 4 brothers and 1 sister and 1 younger sister . Termasuk saya number 6 so total 7 , but kitaorg tak pernah duduk serumah . We all have my own conflict . So yah , even raya pun semua akan raya dgn family masing masing . Sbb mostly my brothers and my sister dah kahwin . Yang tinggal hanya saya and my younger sister yg skrg ni umur 10 tahun . Betul kak jiha cakap ada yang datang dari broken family baik baik je dan itulah yg saya dan adik saya sedang lakukan . Wish me luck in my spm :)
haruhiko simichi take care and goodluck💪🏼❤️
@@sitinuraliabintizulkiflira562 thank you :))
Pengorbanan ibu membela 4 orang anak yg berjaya, SYABAS!
Betul klu bapa nk pujuk or nk btlkan keslhn dya bg kemewahan....n bila kena dngr cerita buruk antara dua pihak rasa mcm berslh nk tegur cara dia org ckp....
Tbaeek..pkongsian pdapat yg baik dn matang 👍🏻
sory wawa lambat harini..tak dapat jadi yang terawal tengok awak baby..tadi tengah tulis2 lagu..tak perasan lak notification..semoga cuti2 ni wawa tak main hujan tak main panas..tu suara tak baik lagi..ok sayang😘🤭
i sgt kagum, cam mane le kome cerita tnpa nangis. aku lenjut woii
Wawa same cam sy.. dr broken family dr sy umoo 12.. n.. adik beradik sy 4 orng all gurls.. hehe.. alhamdulillah.. kami 4 beradik berjaya n semua da kawen.. n target skng nk wat mak happy je hehe
I love you guys 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️
sedih sikit video kali ni...good sharing guys
I used to always fastforwarding all videos I watched, tp this video doesnt deserve a fastforwarding 😘😘 fact I've been watching this for the third time now 💪🏿
"Happiness is fragile" thanks for share this word💗💗 End I have Questions for sister's share.❤️❤️. Ahaha.. How u all rapat dengan daddy you all right now...boleh share tak serapat mana u all skrng dgn u all daddy... 💘💘...
Hai kak najwa !! saya tringin la nak tgk kak najwa buat video lagu cintamukabuku , lgu kak najwa yg lama dulu . tlg reaction that song dgn siblings kak wawa . And how your feel tgk mv sendiri 😂 sorry saje je nk tgk
Keluarga bercerai hkikatnya mmg sakit tp fake kan diri dmi menahan kesakitan
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Im the only child and thank you so much for making this video ❤❤
Feel this thing this year haih
goshh could relate to all situation 😂 lagi2 part being defensive when it comes to our mom 😂 me and adik beradik pon also like that lol . sesi soal menyiasat tuh wow ahahha im sorry mom but i just cant😂
omg..thank you for sharing..it is indeed hard to share
suka tgk kak iza ,ckp dkt sini pun mcm cikgu2😂
Good sistersshare😭👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Bila bab wali.. i cant brain your father dont want to be your sisters wali. Sy yg xde kena mengena pun rs nk nangis.. apatah lg korang kan.. stay strong..
Jiaa looks stunning
Aku tengok video ni dan baru dapat relate dengan lagu hilang yang najwa pernah nyanyi dulu
I love to see forth of you more after watching this episode ! 😊 and yeah, Allah will not burden a soul with more than it can bear. You guys are very strong. Hee Couldn't wait for the next episode tho!
We are not as strong, but we learn. Thank youuu. -- Kak Ika
@@syafikalatif2371 Okay kak Ika ♥️. I love the way you speak too! Funny but motivating
Rasa nak cry pula hanya orang alami yang faham situasi ni ...
Ika, loya buruk blh tahan, tapi padangan Ika pon blh tahan jgk ni.. Balance.. 😂 Korang punye perspective terhadap topic ni, adalah waras dan positive. Jgn skali2 pikir broken family cannot be mend sbb kite ade glue..🤣🤣...kk lame gurau2. Sbbnye ada contoh dari 4 beradik ni. May Allah bless us, protect us, make things easy for us and guide us always to the truth. ✌️
Thankyou for this sharing :)
Emotional video kali ni...
Selamat Pengantin Baru Wawa !
Carilah diri sebenar diri.. Carilah Allah. itulah jln penyelesaian dan ketenangan terbaik, InsyaAllah
Indeed :) -- Ika
good advice and matured
I'm crying...
New sister share!!! I have a friend that comes from broken family tapi tak pernah tanya in depth how their relationship with their family . Banyak belajar from today's sister share . Thank u semua 💕