taking myself on a date

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  • @catherinegua
    @catherinegua 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for being so honest and vulnerable and breaking down the stigma of mental health. Only issue is that betterhelp is a really shady company with very unreliable therapy care. You can find countless Reddit threads about how bad this company really is.

  • @poppycalliope
    @poppycalliope 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I feel like so many people struggle with mental illnesses nowadays and yet there are still people who judge, criticize and are against of therapy. I think therapy is the best and we should all try it at some point in our lives ,thank you for opening up and supporting therapy. I myself have struggled for years with anxiety attacks and panic attacks ,these situations are scary, but we can get better and live happily ❤ it was lovely that you took yourself on a date and even though you felt a bit awkward at times I'm sure you had fun ✨️

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i couldn't agree more!! much love 4 u💗 xx

  • @odalystaylor
    @odalystaylor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    really love your videos! needed this one bc I'm starting to vlog but I find myself alone most of the time. you've made me feel better about spending time in my own company and showing the little moments! I'll definitely make sure to go out and have fun on my own :) thank you for this

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank u so much!!💗 yes finding comfort in being alone can be really hard sometimes but when you do it’s beautiful

  • @iriswellen
    @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hi my loves!!🕊how are you guys doing? sending you all much love!
    make sure to use betterhelp.com/iris for 10% off your first month xx

  • @Sophia_Elena23
    @Sophia_Elena23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video, Iris! Being able to realise what your body is truly asking for (alone time to recharge) is a real blessing X

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      it really is!!💗

  • @beacollection
    @beacollection 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love how you spent time with yourself even though you haven't really done this before, proud of you!! Also loved your outfit❤

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      aww thank u so much bea 💗

    • @beacollection
      @beacollection 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iriswellen 💓💓

  • @pauline3559
    @pauline3559 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally recognized myself in this video! I'm the same kind of introvert and even though I enjoy spending time by myself I often find that I'm not doing much bc I'm super self-conscious of going to places alone, so it was super motivating to see you overcome it even though it felt awkward in the beginning. Super proud of you for doing this and I hope I'll do the same soon! lots of love

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      aww thank u so much it means the world to me ❤️❤️

  • @MzLashawn1
    @MzLashawn1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Iris! You described me to a T! I’m a Pisces and introvert. Thank you for sharing your experiences and being vulnerable with us. I find it very hard most times with being social and outgoing. So I usually stay locked away with my thoughts and alone time. Definitely gives me anxiety.

  • @itsnanatv
    @itsnanatv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super leuke vlog!! I love these kinda chill vlogs so much!! 💗💗💗

  • @sheillalimn
    @sheillalimn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this feeelss like a breeze🌳✨ cant believe youre an infj too🫣🧡! that maybe explains why i feel like im always gravitating towards your videos! make more of this seriess im enjoying it so much🤍

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      yess my infj sister 🌸

  • @Edie_
    @Edie_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heyyy iris i rlly love ur videos.. just to chill or when i feel good 😊 like catching up w/ a friend! I’m an enfp so i really admired how structured your day in a life videos! spending time alone in cafe or restaurant in london is easy for me, i guess its different for more i-types. Before i thought everyone is judging me but now im ok with it - you get used to it if you do more often and realised nobody really cares hahah ;)

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you so much!!💗 yes i think you are right! also think that it’s different in a big city like london. i think i would have no problem with it at all in amsterdam too but where i live it’s a bit different i guess…

  • @andriafernando9624
    @andriafernando9624 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found your channel yesterday and I really like your content!
    Lots of love from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰 ❤

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank u so much!! 💗💗

  • @madilynmiller
    @madilynmiller 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    such a wonderful idea!!!! loved this so so much! your channel is so motivating! so happy i found your channel, i just subscribed!! 🤍

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      aww thank u!! much love 💗

  • @WillsCamera
    @WillsCamera 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    1. okay betterhelp ad!!! 👏🤩
    2. 0:45 playmobil was genuinley my entire childhood

  • @nickdupreez1579
    @nickdupreez1579 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so cool! I was like i also struggle with anxiety and I also have a fear of calling and then wait what i stay en den bosch and i love nom nom 🤣🤣

  • @kristinaarsenic5842
    @kristinaarsenic5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im a scorpio and an infj and everything you said about yourself is also me 🥰 i love that red shirt so muuchh

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      it's probably a water sign thing heheh💗

    • @kristinaarsenic5842
      @kristinaarsenic5842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iriswellen team water sign 💕

  • @libbyroberts1394
    @libbyroberts1394 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your videos are always amazing 💕

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you angel 💗

  • @senayldz74
    @senayldz74 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just discovered your channel. Your videos are very beautiful, I wish you to come to more beautiful places, greetings from Turkey😊

  • @uku3603
    @uku3603 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the interesting content 👍✨
    I love watching your posts, your videoes are really good ❤️✨

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank u so much ❤️

  • @mikeskylark1594
    @mikeskylark1594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10:45 #SerialMonogamy

  • @mysterioushedgehog3563
    @mysterioushedgehog3563 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like we are the same person haha I understand so much your need to spend some time alone to recharge!

  • @BridgetJ
    @BridgetJ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so cute 🌹

  • @jinijerin4516
    @jinijerin4516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello

  • @pearcheese455
    @pearcheese455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello,I hope you have a beautiful day,you are super cute,I loved the video it was very interesting,love you 💜

  • @valentinavasconcelos
    @valentinavasconcelos 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    can i ask y what do u work with? or what r your degrees?

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i have a master's degree in environment & society studies and i work as an innovation designer 🌸

  • @DarlinMarleneVeVo
    @DarlinMarleneVeVo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍❤

  • @kindramunerlyn1227
    @kindramunerlyn1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you ever get anxious around David?

    • @iriswellen
      @iriswellen  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sometimes yes, but he really knows what to say and how to calm me down 🥰

    • @kindramunerlyn1227
      @kindramunerlyn1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iriswellen that’s so beautiful

  • @ibrahiminatolyesi9833
    @ibrahiminatolyesi9833 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏👍