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  • @PerezHilton
    @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

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  • @itsdian1
    @itsdian1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I guess Ben relapsed and JLO does not want him relapsing around her children, thats why he moved out, and his mom is there to keep him sober, im rooting for Ben and Jlo, Jlo loves him and took him back despite his shortcomings, hope Ben gets better and healed, praying for the two of them

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Rooting for him too!

    • @itsdian1
      @itsdian1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PerezHilton Do you think they are going to get a divorce? I hope not, please not, I'm rooting for them!

    • @lindsaymcnicholas301
      @lindsaymcnicholas301 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am rooting for them 😊

  • @anamoscoso5693
    @anamoscoso5693 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    He needs to be accountable for his actions.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Agree.

    • @iralray9656
      @iralray9656 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      After all he is the accountant

  • @libabygurl8879
    @libabygurl8879 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Thats part of loving an addict. You have ups and downs ❤

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sigh.

    • @juleshiggins-ellicott2222
      @juleshiggins-ellicott2222 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      exactly. relapse is part of addiction or can be. would make sense

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ewww 😂

  • @itsdian1
    @itsdian1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Thats why his mother is there staying with Ben to make sure he is not drinking. No wonder he is back smoking a lot and having fast food

    • @lanebashford3982
      @lanebashford3982 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He's already a 3 pack a day smoker...has been for years. I know someone in makeup who's worked with everyone and said he's one of the worst smokers. Hope he's not drinking again, too.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Good mother!

  • @bivi9844
    @bivi9844 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Maybe for that reason Ben's mother is living with Ben ,also JLo is there with his kids . WE DONT REALLY KNOW

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Possibly!

  • @mmmmlllljohn
    @mmmmlllljohn 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Addictions are very tough … for the addict and his loved ones. I’m routing for him. His sobriety is the most important thing right now. Good for Jen. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @seriouslyjoking2
    @seriouslyjoking2 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Anyone with addictions are attracted to others with "issues." The addiction is the cover for the lack of responsibility in making healthy choices. Remove the addiction & work on your issues, Ben. Alcohol is not your friend.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What's her addictions?

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PerezHilton "being in love""

  • @therealgigi_
    @therealgigi_ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    I hope he gets the help he needs.

  • @Dragon24Lee
    @Dragon24Lee 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Perez, thank you for making that clear cuz it’s easy for people to blame others when addiction’s ugly head resurfaces!! Appreciate your compassion too ❤❤

  • @rhondaharmon724
    @rhondaharmon724 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    That is a big no for me. I would never get involved with a man that had abuse issues. Been there, done that and guess what they don’t change. If they do, it is because they are doing something else to excess. We will find out shortly what is going on. She may be leaking that to save face. Who knows.

    • @dancingkay2604
      @dancingkay2604 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s up to him to get help, there’s tons of recovering Hollywood people. I mean, look at the pressures of just walking his kids to school, paparazzi all over him…he’s always hated the Fame part. Wish them the best.

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dancingkay2604 Robert Downey, Jr. is an example.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That's you.

    • @hart3254
      @hart3254 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ok maybe this is true. But let's not forget what he's said. It was like waking up from a fever dream and that if he could file divorce on the grounds of insanity he would. Sounds to me like he's done with Jlo sober or drunk. He said he felt trapped when he was married to Garner and that's why he drank. This guy can't be in a committed relationship.

  • @moniquesykes8351
    @moniquesykes8351 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I WANTED THEM TO WIN❤😢IM PRAYING FOR THERE FAMILY

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They can!

  • @edreid7872
    @edreid7872 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    JLo had no memory of why they split in the first place… Even if he sobers up, it would be a mistake to go back…every time he relapses, she leaves?.. It's over..she needs to wish him well, and move on.. And keep her business private, and not make a movie and album about it.. Added pressure..

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I hope they can make it work!

    • @lauradiaz1888
      @lauradiaz1888 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She did not leave him he is the one that moved to a new place close to his children. He started drinking again so he needs to get himself together and so does she. Hopefully they work it out. Maybe it will not be the decision we would make but I wish them well. ❤❤❤

  • @JN-pf8jl
    @JN-pf8jl 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Let's not forget the uproar when Ben blamed his marriage to Jen Gardiner for his sobriety! With that logic, nobody can now blame Jen Lopez.

  • @maidinmanhattan7820
    @maidinmanhattan7820 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So sad I wanted them to win

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They may still!

  • @medyjavier8107
    @medyjavier8107 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I think he is not, maybe it's jlo who is now drinking delola because she cannot accept Ben left her.

  • @justathought274
    @justathought274 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He’s been with her a very short time if this is what it’s driven him to. No judgement. Neither look happy anymore. Maybe they’re just not right for each other. If that’s the case, they gave it everything and won’t have the unease of always wondering. Whatever’s going on they’re “making it nice” for the kids on all sides. Life is not easy no matter anyone’s means.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It did not drive him to drink.

    • @justathought274
      @justathought274 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PerezHilton you’ve misread my comment. I have not said that. Although no one but Ben and those close to him know what is actually going on. Something has driven him to move out. Something has driven him to this. He’s a newly wed. He is clearly unhappy and something is up. That is what I am referring to.

  • @vilmavega2689
    @vilmavega2689 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I had an alcohol problem. I admitted im an alcoholic . Currently 1 year sober. I remnber saying to my husband, "you can drink, but i wont. Im done."
    He replied: "i quit too"
    For somwone with alochol problems, having your partner fully aupportting you helps so much. We stopped going to places, evemts that would trigger me wanting to drink.
    Evem we had to stop, hanging out with some frirnds that wanted to drink.
    I must say, staying away from places, scenes, people that drink helps. Because certian resturants, food will make me want to have a glass of wine and then another... So we literally had to change our prior lifestyle.
    Im not completely free though. I just have be careful.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Amazing work!

  • @dancingkay2604
    @dancingkay2604 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Sending Ben ❤, He’s got a lot of support from Hollywood (AA) if he wants it bad enough. Sending JLo ❤too, it’s hard when a love one is drinking. PS, just watched that JLo, making the movie Movie, where she opens up about her insecurities, I really like this movie! Thanks Perez for all your work🙏🏼

  • @gawging
    @gawging 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Ben needs Yeshua in his life.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Who is that?

    • @dianamcmahon8704
      @dianamcmahon8704 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@PerezHilton Hebrew name for Jesus.😊

  • @JojoBean-zo7nx
    @JojoBean-zo7nx 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I also remember at the golden globes jlo took a shot of alcohol with gayle king and had alcohol in her bag as she said ahe had a lul something with her then later made out with Ben ...aby alcoholic knows that can be a trigger..not blaming looez but she certainly doesn't know how to handle being w a alcoholic

  • @Nisha_xo
    @Nisha_xo 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Have they even figured out what is the cause of his drinking in the first place ??

    • @anamoscoso5693
      @anamoscoso5693 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It is an addiction. It is like any other disease. He is an alcoholic. It changes your brain chemistry. It is very hard to overcome addiction

    • @seriouslyjoking2
      @seriouslyjoking2 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      His father was an alcoholic. He has many relatives who were addicts or alcoholics. It's a coping mechanism for underlying issues. The body acclimates to the addiction & changes the brain.

    • @vanillashake5495
      @vanillashake5495 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Maybe pre disposed? He said he’s dad was an alcoholic

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Addiction.

    • @Nisha_xo
      @Nisha_xo 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PerezHilton yeah but I’m saying could there be another reason that makes him want him to drink like his mental health or something

  • @JojoBean-zo7nx
    @JojoBean-zo7nx 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Kyle Marissa Roth said he was drinking a long time ago tho....it was obviously an I believe Jlo knew

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She was never a credible outlet of info.

  • @LuisRodriguez-bo4xg
    @LuisRodriguez-bo4xg 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ever since I heard the rental house is in Brentwood, I knew it wasn't a/b divorce. Because Brentwood checks off 2 boxes: a) being near where his kids live b)many rehab centers are around that area or in Malibu area. And just because he might be getting treatment, does not mean he fell off the wagon cuz the boy is looking fit, i.e. not bloated or hung over.

  • @angelbaby8472
    @angelbaby8472 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are 💯 on Ben drinking. He’s always been a drinker with or without JLo. Prayers to Ben 👼

  • @comelitekang8873
    @comelitekang8873 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I knew she’s not to be blamed for this, he just seems like he needs someone’s attention 24/7. He needs a mommy and Jen’s G was that for him.
    He aged her with his addition, he never wanted to divorce her. Why cos he new she’ll be the only woman putting up with his infidelity and addition.
    She should have left the moment the infidelity came out. You can’t stay around a mentally ill person for tge sake of your children. You need to get that person help and get yourself and your kids to a stable, healthy environment.
    One can see how controlling Ben is, he’s angry at the paparazzi😮. Yes, they are over bearing but celebrities knew thus comes with the territory.
    Go be an account, doctor, engineer, teacher if you want privacy.

  • @Adam-tu3iv
    @Adam-tu3iv 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Would "friends" ever report this to the press? Take it with a pinch of salt. It's all crap

  • @000_x9
    @000_x9 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I heard that JLo shared deeply personal letters he wrote to her dating back to their first relationship with friends and he was upset by it. Like he can't trust her a d felt betrayed that she would share this so casually with whomever.

  • @Takatukata
    @Takatukata 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    But whoever is together with an alcoholic is a codependant!

  • @katjaxxx7353
    @katjaxxx7353 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Perez, please I hope he is not drinking.
    On the other hand I could understand that he relapsed because he thought that JLo maybe loves him so much that she would be less public.
    From JLos documentary I’ve learned that she actually is very insecure and thinks she “is never enough”
    What broke the camels back is that she showed his intimate letters to her whole team and you can see in the documentary that felt betrayed.
    She did that to herself and Ben can move on. It just won’t work, they are too different.
    💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I hope so too!

  • @dianamcmahon8704
    @dianamcmahon8704 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Best of luck to him...There by the grace of God could go any of us.🙏❤

  • @Rosa-cr8re
    @Rosa-cr8re 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Talking about respect? He humiliate JLO to many times.He never show respect for her. We all see that. How can she handle that for so long .I'm Happy that soon it is going to be over.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He loves her.

  • @niceplayground
    @niceplayground 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    JLO has no respect though, she recently made a commercial for alcohol

    • @anamoscoso5693
      @anamoscoso5693 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I don’t understand what does that have to do with Ben drinking again! That is no excuse, he is not a child for crying outloud.

    • @itsdian1
      @itsdian1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Thats not JLO's fault, she has had delola business in the making even before they were together

    • @JojoBean-zo7nx
      @JojoBean-zo7nx 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yea but she drank in front of him​@@anamoscoso5693

    • @dancingkay2604
      @dancingkay2604 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Believe it or not, some can socially drink, while others have struggles, his dad was an alcoholic, if I recall…. Family DNA can have something to do with addiction.

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And?

  • @vanillashake5495
    @vanillashake5495 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Most people have triggers, things that set them off. It’s a lifetime struggle till the end. Some
    Ppl are shopping addicts, food addicts. Ect ect. But I agree, some of us have to constantly go against the urge to…. JLo is addicted to fame, how does she have time for her kids? She’s also a self described “love addict”

  • @velocitygirl8551
    @velocitygirl8551 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen!!

  • @Bwill44
    @Bwill44 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He probably looked her in the eye. That isn’t allowed.

  • @anamoscoso5693
    @anamoscoso5693 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Unfortunately, he has Jennifer Gardner and Ben’s Mother that are at his command when he behaves poorly and yes, Jennifer Lopez did not deserve this! 😡
    It is time he takes accountability for his actions and decisions.

  • @A-xz3or
    @A-xz3or 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Maybe she is the cause of the relapse.

  • @ec_143
    @ec_143 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ya but she is responsible for not having her own program for holding the gun in diddys purse lying about it to a grad jury and having some money elsewhere go to jail. She is responsible for all the rude behavior being reported all over tik tok. And she is absolutely responsible drinking consistently around her sober alcoholic husband who still OBVIOUSLY battles. She is responsible for making him attend social functions he hates. Yes he is responsible but who did NOT see this coming with her demands.

  • @filipepedro8272
    @filipepedro8272 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People will still blame JLo on this...sadly

  • @azukarzuchastux8066
    @azukarzuchastux8066 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He’s a mamma’s Boy. So sad it will never work out for Jen Lopez. Leave those mamma’s boys alone Ladies!!

  • @Pr1ncesaPR
    @Pr1ncesaPR 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen Perez! 💕

  • @juleshiggins-ellicott2222
    @juleshiggins-ellicott2222 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    his mom may be a sober companion

  • @katiejo1095
    @katiejo1095 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Hmmmmmm.

  • @chauminh
    @chauminh 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Merci

  • @marilynantilla7968
    @marilynantilla7968 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sadly, history keeps repeating itself with Ben.

  • @Model_Roe
    @Model_Roe 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You can tell Ben is drinking he looks so miserable I really hope he gets therapy and finds healing he does not look happy

  • @elfdelamer
    @elfdelamer 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I like your theory and it’s probably the most likely actually

  • @user-qe8sr8zb1r
    @user-qe8sr8zb1r 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Saint jlo ? 😮

  • @pauletteispassingiton943
    @pauletteispassingiton943 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He is a chain smoker…not good…

  • @dogmom4965
    @dogmom4965 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    she is not to blame but she is bad influence when she started alcohol drink sales knowing he had a problem with alcohol she didnt look out for his best interests jus sayin🫤

    • @PerezHilton
      @PerezHilton  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      She is just profiting by selling booze. Doubt she's drinking around him.

  • @comelitekang8873
    @comelitekang8873 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I knew she’s not to be blamed for this, he just seems like he needs someone’s attention 24/7. He needs a mommy and Jen’s G was that for him.
    He aged her with his addition, he never wanted to divorce her. Why cos he new she’ll be the only woman putting up with his infidelity and addition.
    She should have left the moment the infidelity came out. You can’t stay around a mentally ill person for tge sake of your children. You need to get that person help and get yourself and your kids to a stable, healthy environment.
    One can see how controlling Ben is, he’s angry at the paparazzi😮. Yes, they are over bearing but celebrities knew thus comes with the territory.
    Go be an account, doctor, engineer, teacher if you want privacy.