The story of the broken me.

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  • @mi9573
    @mi9573 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3375

    Oscar, the fact you have kept your friends and family throughout this process is a true show of your character. Despite the traumatic situation forced upon you, you have stayed graceful this whole time.
    The world is literally yours, you deserve it.

    • @KaitlynxBabe
      @KaitlynxBabe 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      THIS!

    • @cassandrag0th819
      @cassandrag0th819 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I wouldn’t say forced, they both said that they both made the decision

    • @morganhubert6681
      @morganhubert6681 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

      @@cassandrag0th819it’s pretty clear they made it because his ex wanted it made.

    • @addienelson179
      @addienelson179 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amazing editing skills!!! You have a true talent!

    • @topsi91
      @topsi91 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yey update from Oscarr!!! You are doing good man, but you need to have the kids for longer than the weekend.. you dont want the bad example their mom is giving them and kids are like sponges, they will become like the envierment they are in and you dont want that.. Be more adamant, take the kids for 2 weeks in a month if possible. We are on your side!!!!!! TEAM OSCAR!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE the inner voice edits!

  • @nylal493
    @nylal493 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5160

    Oscar, you’ve handled this entire situation with such grace and maturity, it’s admirable. You dodged a massive bullet, you’re now free to find the person who will treat you how you deserve. I admire your strength, congrats on your accomplishments this year! Onto the next (better) chapter, you deserve it❤

    • @river8760
      @river8760 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Well said.

    • @chasemctavish1822
      @chasemctavish1822 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I agree 🎉

    • @AClassroom
      @AClassroom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Sometimes you don't need anyone that you are better person maybe at some point yes but you are better on your own aswell❤

    • @aliciap106
      @aliciap106 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙌🏻👏🙌🏻

    • @wild_flower_345
      @wild_flower_345 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@AClassroomcompletely agree!

  • @gracenmarandola5301
    @gracenmarandola5301 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1556

    From all the people who have been watching since just baby Levi… WE ARE PROUD OF YOU OSCAR!!!! Keep doing great things for yourself and the babies ❤

    • @charmainbora6042
      @charmainbora6042 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely this. Such a wonderful young man/father

    • @thecheeseburglar8544
      @thecheeseburglar8544 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Honestly yeah. He’s come a long way.

  • @gingerrogers5062
    @gingerrogers5062 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1084

    You have always been so likable. I remember back when you took that job stocking things, waking your partner up with a “wakey, wakey, eggs and bacee.” You’re a very valuable individual and always have been.

    • @1998babybunny
      @1998babybunny 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Hey I remember the exact same thing! How emotional :/

    • @jhonaleegardner3094
      @jhonaleegardner3094 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      I remember this too. I started watching shortly after the channel was created. I remember him working in the warehouse and all that.

    • @Chellex93
      @Chellex93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      "wakey wakey eggs and bakey" is what my dad would say to wake me up when I was a kid

    • @mittag983
      @mittag983 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He's so cute a shame what the ex did

    • @Ailijul
      @Ailijul 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙌

  • @no-more-mercyy1888
    @no-more-mercyy1888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +807

    "I see color but I feel like I'm living in black and white" wow Oscar... Just a powerful statement and makes total sense... I hope you find everything you could ever want. You truly deserve it, and you didn't deserve anything you've been put through. Keep being you Oscar ✨

    • @franchescamarquez1108
      @franchescamarquez1108 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Relatable

    • @badluckbrenda
      @badluckbrenda 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When he said that, it got me tearing up because I’ve also felt like that before 😔

  • @xoxoPilar
    @xoxoPilar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1298

    Oscar is consistently being someone his kids can rely on and look up to. The maturity we've seen from him is amazing! He's always deserved better then what he had.

    • @GenXtothe7thPower
      @GenXtothe7thPower 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      He should have primary custody

    • @mariegutierrez8880
      @mariegutierrez8880 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Totally

    • @thequirkykittymeow6038
      @thequirkykittymeow6038 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@GenXGranny Lol as if he doesn't even see his kids 🤣. He went from 50/5 0 to weekend to when its convenient.

    • @roguetribal8915
      @roguetribal8915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      ​@thequirkykittymeow6038 You know what SHE has shared. Who do you think had the kids every time she took her new play bit on holiday?
      SHE IS TOXIC

    • @angelgarlinger6370
      @angelgarlinger6370 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen girl he definitely does!!

  • @harleighstringer
    @harleighstringer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +419

    i feel like men’s mental health isn’t talked about enough but i feel like this video will speak to SO MANY. thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing 🤍

    • @ShockResistor
      @ShockResistor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Men need to discuss it but they often don't. That's on them.

    • @Eleniluh
      @Eleniluh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@ShockResistorwe can’t really but all the blame on them when society plays a big role in them “acting tough” and “showing no emotions”. Have you seen how many male celebrities were turned into memes for simply being vulnerable online?

    • @TastyFarts5
      @TastyFarts5 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@ShockResistormen aren’t often listened to, and the problem is usually put back on us, yes men individually often don’t say much but as a collective the voice has been strong, women have not really met men’s issues well, For example one of the top reasons my take irreversible decisions is due to relationship break down(sometimes I was worried about Oscar’s mental health because he has to put on such a strong frame, if he let emotionality win over logic then you’ll have 2 bad parents, that burden of taking the high road is uniquely a male experience, a man involved in the family court system’s is much more likely to do something bad to him, that can’t be undone. Men need to understand who women’s love is conditional and stop expecting the same depth of love that a man is uniquely capable of giving, part of the love men receive is conditional on the fact that they can provide something, that’s not really love like a man dedicating his life to protect and provision for a woman and her offspring

    • @adelaideviolet2385
      @adelaideviolet2385 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Eleniluhbut sadly that’s also 90% of men saying that to other men… which is damaging

  • @lonihanson9124
    @lonihanson9124 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +203

    My ex hub of 10 yrs left me and my 5 year old daughter while I was 20 weeks preg out of NOWHERE. It completely shattered me for 7 years!? I am finally there but I related with you on SO many levels. Looking back…it gave me the opportunity to know God, Christ, and myself! Wouldn’t take it back! And my kids….the most beautiful humans with gratitude and compassion always!

  • @JeonLife93
    @JeonLife93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +329

    Oscar 😢 this was probably one of the most important videos you've done. Men's mental health is something that's still not talked about, men feel the need to suppress and "man up", but that's just not true! Your kids are honestly lucky to have a father like you! You're a beautiful soul I'm so sorry you've been hurting, I can only imagine the pain you've felt and I just hope that life is kinder to you, that things continue to go up! You deserve the world! And we are here cheering you on every step of the way! Love you dude! ❤

  • @katsrandomness4567
    @katsrandomness4567 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +800

    Oscar buddy, we all know you didn't deserve any of this.
    You've handled this with so much maturity and have been honest from day one. Your life is going to be so good.
    Also plz get your kids back 50/50 so she doesn't get you later on.

    • @Jo-Anna90
      @Jo-Anna90 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes, yes !

    • @catarinaoliveira7457
      @catarinaoliveira7457 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      it's not her fault

    • @ChristinaLovesKpop1
      @ChristinaLovesKpop1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      @@catarinaoliveira7457it actually is her fault. And even if it wasn’t she never deserved Oscar

    • @catarinaoliveira7457
      @catarinaoliveira7457 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ChristinaLovesKpop1 i don't think you guys need to find a "villan" for this one hahaaah relationship end, most of them dont work out, they werent happy together, she was just the one to have the courage to end things, even if it meant she would have to take stupid crap from people on the internet.

    • @ChristinaLovesKpop1
      @ChristinaLovesKpop1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@catarinaoliveira7457 she was always very mean and with such attitude towards Oscar. Always whining always being the most annoying person to him! I’m moslty referring to that as well

  • @healinghashis
    @healinghashis 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    holy crap Oscar. This is so introspective and emotionally mature. Truly 99% of people can't be vulnerable like this and face their fears alone. Amazing, man.

  • @emilyward4388
    @emilyward4388 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +377

    In the end, you did this the right way. You should be proud of yourself for that. You’re figuring your shit out for you and your kids, taking your time and really setting a foundation for you and your children. That is super inspiring and admirable

  • @AA-qv8vw
    @AA-qv8vw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +403

    Can we just give a huge thank to his mom/siblings/cousins/all his friends/ and his kids. All the people in his life that I’m sure made going through this situation a whole lot easier. Imagine living in utah where you have no family, little support. And you can’t see your kids on top of that. Phew … you deserve all the support from everyone. And your editing skills are amazing! Take care!

  • @anthonyfalcone5605
    @anthonyfalcone5605 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    And I'll say it again, " Oscar Morales is the Nicest guy on TH-cam!"

  • @Llllillilililililillll
    @Llllillilililililillll 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Oscar we used to be friends in high school. It's crazy to see how far youve come. I am proud of you bro. Stay strong, God loves you. Church is a great place to make loyal, life long friends. Wishing you the best, stay positive through the storm, theres a rainbow coming.

  • @ester-cs2uo
    @ester-cs2uo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +337

    Oh Oscar, you’re an amazing person and an amazing dad. You will get through this and you will find someone who truly loves you and respects you

  • @rachelbayless3538
    @rachelbayless3538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +440

    Oscar, this video is the most important one you’ve ever posted. Declines in mental health in men is overlooked, not talked about enough, and quite frankly looked down upon. I’m so incredibly proud of you for not only recognizing you need help, but for speaking out and sharing your story 💙

  • @mireyaflorentino3045
    @mireyaflorentino3045 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +299

    You were in a relationship for so long from such a young age you had forgotten what you were like as a person alone & it seems like you have found YOU & you seem so much happier, as a long time subscriber of OKBABY I’m so proud of you & can’t wait to see what’s in store for you in the future! ❤

  • @kimland8838
    @kimland8838 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +317

    This is a good representation of mental health and smiling through the pain until the darkness comes over. I’m glad you found a passion that made is giving you your own identity. It’s tough but acknowledging that something isn’t right is hard but then choosing to do something about it is the hardest. Taking it one day at a time and good luck.

    • @HappyBlueButterfly
      @HappyBlueButterfly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Congratulations Oscar❤. What a fine example you are setting for other you
      No men! God bless❤

  • @nicoleg8676
    @nicoleg8676 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    “Don’t worry about people God has removed from your life. He heard conversations you didn’t. Saw things you couldn’t and made moves you wouldn’t.” Sending love and light to you Oscar amen.💕💪🏽

    • @kimberlysantos4085
      @kimberlysantos4085 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said Nicole, God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @frochaa
    @frochaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1080

    We’re proud of you Oscar. This is truly what it means to “find yourself”.

    • @donnamarie-
      @donnamarie- 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @britneykatutu460
      @britneykatutu460 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @jgirl982
      @jgirl982 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes!

    • @sutiniselametsikun3510
      @sutiniselametsikun3510 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly when people said I want to find “myself “ this is what they supposed to do dealing with what wrong finding peace/ purpose fix what wrong and be a better person “ oh I want to find myself “ and the next day stealing your besties husband get a boobs job drinking travelling and leaving your kids blaming your parents past like don’t you see what wrong girls you’re for the streets for real😂 and please spare your children’s I hope oscar is wise enough for Levi to learn from and strong enough to protect his 3 little princess to break the cycle pray for you oscar

    • @juliat1024
      @juliat1024 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes

  • @marceloturner6841
    @marceloturner6841 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    just please get a lawyer, you got all the proofs that shes not a stable person to take care of 4 kids.

  • @monkat15
    @monkat15 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +243

    Oscar.. you didn’t lose everything. Your life path has rerouted. You’re a good dad. You’re a good person. Keep pushing homie, it continues to get better ❤

    • @carmenfarine3580
      @carmenfarine3580 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your wierd

    • @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126
      @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know you don’t mean to but this is toxic positivity. He kind of did lose everything. Has he risen above it? Yes. But did he lose everything? Also yes. And to no fault of his own.

    • @alisha8586
      @alisha8586 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@introvertednotsoyoutuber6126 he didn't lose everything. That's a toxic statement.

    • @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126
      @introvertednotsoyoutuber6126 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@alisha8586 it’s reality. Positivity can be toxic too.

    • @alisha8586
      @alisha8586 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@introvertednotsoyoutuber6126 lol ok sure. He didn't lose everything he's doing just fine better off then he was before

  • @alesia2372
    @alesia2372 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +991

    Still can't believe she did this to you and your family. Stay strong Oscar.

    • @twylahcunningham
      @twylahcunningham 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What happened??

    • @ashantigreen7385
      @ashantigreen7385 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      @@twylahcunninghamkyra cheated on him with his best friend

    • @alesia2372
      @alesia2372 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      @@ashantigreen7385 and now she's engaged 🤦‍♀️

    • @regal222
      @regal222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@alesia2372girl no she is not 🤢

    • @sonias6340
      @sonias6340 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      @@regal222 yes she is with her friends ex husband

  • @MXZFUN
    @MXZFUN 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +839

    See, there’s not one bad comment about you Oscar. Just goes to show who’s the bigger and better person in the whole drama scandal y’all he going on last year. You have a whole army of supporters that will always be there for you, no matter the situation. Stay strong and know that you will win this❤

    • @bhardway3909
      @bhardway3909 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yessssss 💗💗💗

    • @Bresheadintheclouds
      @Bresheadintheclouds 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes maaaam. I was an ok baby fan for yearsssss. Not anymore.

  • @seesoosaw3070
    @seesoosaw3070 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    I’m going to be real honest, this made me bawl. As someone who’s watched since Levi’s was a baby, seeing you like this truly breaks my heart. I would’ve never guessed Someone as positive as you was struggling like that. I really hope it gets easier for you and thank you for sharing the downs with us. We will always support you and your accomplishments. You’re not a failure in anyway and I hope it gets easier for you. Thank you again for being you.

    • @dreamylifeofaidan
      @dreamylifeofaidan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here… I just finished watching and I’m crying.

    • @Lheensayleen
      @Lheensayleen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just saw this now, but I hope you are feeling better now Oscar. We are so proud of you!

  • @jordancollins184
    @jordancollins184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    "I look around and I see color but I've been feeling like I'm living through black and white" - man I cried when you said that and my heart just broke for you. I'm so proud of you for all that you've overcome and are still working hard to get through. You're doing amazing and I know that your kids are grateful for you not giving up either. Congratulations on your new license and love the new look!

  • @AbiScotn
    @AbiScotn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +664

    Oscar! Your resilience and determination is something to be admired and celebrated.

  • @caitlynnluz6410
    @caitlynnluz6410 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

    Oscar, you didn’t deserve anything that has happened in the last year. You are an amazing dad to the kiddos! Don’t ever doubt yourself. We missed your vlogs 🩷

  • @dogmomma4019
    @dogmomma4019 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I had never heard of you, your ex, or your family channel until last week while I circled back to Josh and his channel, "the dad challenge " that I will watch for a few days every 4 or 6 months. So I really don't know anything about you or your situation other than what I watched on Josh's channel. Which simply means I DONT KNOW or THINK I KNOW anything, so take this comment with a grain of salt. BUT I am a 40 year old woman who does know the qualities of a good man and a mature man when I hear words from his own mouth and more importantly when I watch that man's actions because we all know that it is actions that speak volumes, right? You, Oscar Morales are going to be just fine! You are going to be so much more than just fine! You from everything I have seen and heard out of your own mouth, show the world that you are one of the very rare, dying breed of GOOD MEN in this crazy world and society we live. I just subscribed to your channel altogether something tells me you are not really about having a channel on a social media platform. I subscribed to do what little I can do from afar (bay area California native here) to say I support you in your next chapter for however long support from a stranger who is older and wiser in the only ways age can make one wise. You are going to be just fine!!! Embrace the next chapter that you are entering into because it will only make you that much stronger and better in the long run @!

    • @mercyorbit9351
      @mercyorbit9351 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes and amen! Thanks for sharing your wisdom and encouragement.

  • @RealWorldEndedIn2012
    @RealWorldEndedIn2012 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Oscar. Your editing is PHENOMENAL. There has always been something great about it since Levi was born. Please look into doing that as well, perhaps?
    You are a gem, your mother did not fail you. She is genuine and so are you. I know it doesn’t feel like it but you are just beginning this life of such success.

  • @babybx3
    @babybx3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +365

    Oscar us true Bug Buddies have always been proud of you. I’m glad you found something to give you your spark back. You deserve to be happy. So happy your back. Missed ya!

  • @hippychick420
    @hippychick420 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    You are not broken. You are changing. Change isnt a bad thing.

  • @dominiquevazquez13
    @dominiquevazquez13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    I’ve been watching you since you first had Levi. You have handled your emotions online with such maturity. As many of us would have not done. Feeling alone is very normal especially in the position you are in. You are not a failure but yet you are learning so many lessons. This will bring you to the top to be your absolute best self. We stan you!!!!

  • @Meshelle559
    @Meshelle559 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    He did an AMAZINGGGG respresentation of depression using his editing skills. Im not gonna lie and say I been here since day one. But I been peeping their videos throughout the years and Oscar has truly matured so much. Im genuinely happy he is doing so much better. ❤

  • @careip
    @careip 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    I bawled my eyes out throughout this video. The authenticity and vulnerability you show! The rawness. The talent of putting that all together. Oscar you had me at the warehouse wnen Buggy was a baby. You busted your ass for your family. You give it everything you have. That's you. No Dad loves their kids like Oscar Morales. You are THERE. 1000%. I support you whatever you do for you and your littles. Proud doesn't begin to describe. God bless you ❤ and yours.💕 💕.

  • @makaylashaye1348
    @makaylashaye1348 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Oh Oscar 😔💔 my heart!.. we all knew you were hiding your real feelings. You deserve the absolute best! Keep being amazing 🫶🏻

  • @shericehudgins226
    @shericehudgins226 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a 55-year-old black woman from California married with five children I have never felt compelled so strongly to respond and comment on a video Oscar I have been watching you since before your first child was born I have always been impressed by you as a man and you as a father my husband knew how much I adored your family and you drove me to Los Angeles for your first meet and greet we took pictures I enjoyed the day got to meet your first born son and see the new baby in the belly that was a blessed day you are a survivor you will make it you have plenty to offer to yourself to your children and to whomever you allow into your life the healing that you're doing internally for yourself is the best thing to do before jumping into another relationship I'm proud of you and I absolutely adored this video blessings

  • @Itsjocyyy
    @Itsjocyyy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    You’re an amazing father , friend , son , content creator. You deserve nothing but the best in this life . We are all very proud of you ♥️

  • @caseysmith6352
    @caseysmith6352 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +520

    You being so open with your emotions is such maturity. Youre a real man Oscar. You didnt deserve a second of what you went/are going through

    • @Nope-s
      @Nope-s 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely 💯

    • @karie3
      @karie3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He will have a great future. He is a good person and deserves the world.

  • @phoeniix2
    @phoeniix2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +391

    High five Oscar. So proud of you. Your kids love you no matter what happens. What you were put through was devastating and unfair.

  • @Rafafafafafafafa
    @Rafafafafafafafa 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    a woman can do so much damage to a man its not always men

  • @shahntahoare7349
    @shahntahoare7349 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Keep pushing. You've been extremely mature throughout this. Being alone sucks. We're human and simply not supposed to be alone. Your friends and family clearly love you dearly. This video was also really well made and edited. Always so creative!

  • @Gohappygirl
    @Gohappygirl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +294

    Your editing skills are a whole other level, Oscar!
    It’s so healthy and powerful to admit you were struggling and get help! ESP to talk about it online 💔 I hope you’re okay now
    We are so proud of you and all you have accomplished!

  • @megane9356
    @megane9356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +197

    Your kids will be so proud of you one day! To know their Dad stayed close to them during such a hard time, rather than leaving them to be with family in California. It shows such strength. I wish you every success in life!!

  • @Hippieskippie
    @Hippieskippie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Your ex truly has no idea of the great man she gave up. ❤

  • @kayleeadams8736
    @kayleeadams8736 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Oscar, we are all SO PROUD of you. It takes a real man and real dad to be strong for himself and his kids and to admit when he can’t do it alone. I know everyone watching wishes you nothing but joy and love and an amazing life with your babies. 💜

  • @britneyog9537
    @britneyog9537 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    This is EXACTLY what dad challenge has been saying. GET a LAWYER, Oscar!! You are going to lose custody of those babies.
    You have to grab some control of your life, bud. Luv ya.

    • @julese3881
      @julese3881 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      why would he lose custody?? he hasnt done anything wrong

    • @londonjoy1545
      @londonjoy1545 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He won't lose custody.... Even drug addicts dont lose custody

    • @christoperaaron8218
      @christoperaaron8218 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@julese3881 from what I understand its known that women have more power in courts during things like this 😢 even if they are “safe”

    • @briannacharlton9865
      @briannacharlton9865 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Proud of you. I had been praying for you during your time away, and I’m happy you’re back!

  • @megannicole1892
    @megannicole1892 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    This broke my heart! Oscar you will find a good woman one day. I’m sorry K did what she did to your family. This ripped you apart, we all knew this. It was obvious. Those babies need you. Your going so far. You have went so far since the split even though I’m sure it don’t feel that way. We are all team Oscar and know you can do this. Hopefully you can full custody of your kids one day.

    • @T-M-M
      @T-M-M 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Sad situation but why does he need full custody?

    • @_karadanvers
      @_karadanvers 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@T-M-Mbecause as far as i know he only gets the kids for the weekend while K gets them monday-friday, and honestly that doesnt seem fair

    • @tammykroll5645
      @tammykroll5645 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Cause he was always the better parent. K was always all about her an stepping out.

    • @caro9258
      @caro9258 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@T-M-Mhis baby momma is an alcoholic and spiraling down with her meat head fiancée. The kids are constantly being exposed to that very toxic lifestyle. They would thrive with Oscar and his family ❤️

    • @T-M-M
      @T-M-M 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@_karadanvers wasn’t that his idea to become a realtor?

  • @Moonphoria97
    @Moonphoria97 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Oscar is a great person, once he's ready and healed, he'll find someone perfect for him, he's a keeper, and im excited for him to find that love one.

  • @TheMarleeMae
    @TheMarleeMae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Back again after seeing the post with your new girlfriend! We are so proud of you, Oscar.
    I think I can speak for everyone when I say we are so excited for you! ❤

  • @jazzysmovies
    @jazzysmovies 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    Ugh my god...is there another soul more pure than his? How authentic and raw. Thank you for getting up every day, even when it is lonely and hard. You have so many people rooting for you. I wish you all the best Oscar. You deserve it and your babies are lucky to have you as their Dad.

  • @emilynewcomer2013
    @emilynewcomer2013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    Takes a lot of courage to open up to people about your mental health but takes even more to open up about it on the internet. We got your back Oscar!

  • @gorkemalkan867
    @gorkemalkan867 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It was hard to watch for me because I feel the same way, abandoned. Hope I find my way to heal and hope you find happiness again.

  • @luckofthedru
    @luckofthedru 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +292

    As a father, I'm so proud of you for handling this situation maturely. I know your kids know and will look back and see how much a great Dad you are and how much you cared. I hope you continue to evolve and find the happiness you are in search of and deserve.

  • @partsop1
    @partsop1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    As a fan since Levi’s birth, I couldn’t be more proud of you, Oscar. Your charisma, amazing work ethics, wonderful editing skills, genuine authenticity, and love for your children have always brightened my day.
    It’s heartbreaking to see such a caring, sweet person like you feeling and thinking like that due to who was once believed to be in your life forever. I know it’s tough to see it from a third person’s point of view when you are in the eye of the storm, but you are heading to the right direction with your four mini you’s. I’m so proud of you for being you!
    Thank you so much for sharing your raw emotions and moments with us. It helps a lot of us going through a tough time in life as well. Its okay to cry, share your genuine feelings/emotions, take a break, or be upset. It’s part of life. Although I hope there’s nothing but sunshine in your future. We’re here with you, Oscar.

    • @E.M185
      @E.M185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Beautifully said

    • @maritoh.6710
      @maritoh.6710 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @morgansmith5259
    @morgansmith5259 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Dude, the editing is awesome!

  • @adrikeogh
    @adrikeogh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the way you filmed and edited this. Going between what was happening externally and internally, seemed so honest and open and even kind of informative on how some people deal with emotions (or don't deal with them). Good for you coming out the other side 😊

  • @abbyhoneywaffles
    @abbyhoneywaffles 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    OSCAR!!!! Congrats on your real estate license. I'm so sorry you have been dealing with all this hardship & emotions, it's even more inspiring that you achieved your license amidst all that. You're 1000% justified in feeling what you've been feeling, anybody would after having done to them what was done to you. You're doing amazing, can't wait to see what comes next for you.

  • @aliBee909
    @aliBee909 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +500

    The bravery, the courage you have is envious. A real man. How you’ve dealt with everything is so, so inspiring. You’re kids, especially Levi, will know one day how strong you are. Every single person is behind YOU. Bettering yourself in times you feel the worst takes a lot, but you did it. I’m so proud, and I don’t even know you:)

    • @Miszally23
      @Miszally23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Literally took the words out of my mouth

  • @LynQuez
    @LynQuez 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for opening up! We all struggle with those kind of problems. The best part is, if we get through it, we are so proud of ourselves to accomplish what felt on our weakest time - unbelievable.

  • @NovaJackson84
    @NovaJackson84 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m so proud of you! Life changes can throw us into a depression we’ve never felt . I’m glad you sought out help! That’s a huge step in healing !

  • @kayleedarling1255
    @kayleedarling1255 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    When I tell you I RAN to my living room to watch this I mean it!!
    So so happy to see that you posted. I hope you’re doing well. We’ve missed you Oscar🫶🏼

  • @iiAmYourbOossXx3
    @iiAmYourbOossXx3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    Oscar, this was DEEP. I teared up as I can only imagine the emptiness you felt inside for so long. You were hurt for so long and it got to you. I’m glad you sought help and you are here to see your babies grow. Remember it’s not your fault or their fault.

  • @kristendreamy
    @kristendreamy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oscar you need to come back! Your life is about to champion, you dont even realize how adored you are.

  • @reynalazalde1577
    @reynalazalde1577 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oscar, showing us your vulnerable side says a lot about you, and the fact you are trying to heal is incredible. It cannot be very easy to get out of a dark place, but slowly you will be back to yourself soon. Keep it going, and we will always be here rooting for you !!

  • @arruda.wakening
    @arruda.wakening 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    This video and this person is what all young audiences of these influencers should see. This is how you face your emotions head on, get the help you need, find positive distractions, and eventually get out of a rut. This is so healthy to see, Oscar. Thank you. We are all rooting for you and nothing but success and happiness is in your future. We all know that and you deserve that.
    Please have a lawyer at hand just in case. Do not let toxic people that shall not be named take anything more from you.

  • @ushabrahma2657
    @ushabrahma2657 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    I never comment but Oscar we are all PROUD OF YOU!!!!
    Years down the line you will realize you dogged a bullet. You are an amazing person and doing great in Life.
    I’m glad you found yourself 🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @ishapandey28
      @ishapandey28 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes 🥲💙

  • @YolaniG43
    @YolaniG43 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I may or may not have balled my eyes out.. I’m glad you have been able to work thorough almost all of the feelings. Also, congratulations, it’s a huge achievement!!

  • @AN-eo9su
    @AN-eo9su 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was so well edited and shows the stages of grief in such a unique way. You should be proud of yourself Oscar.

  • @BrittaniNP
    @BrittaniNP 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Damn, Oscar. You are truly an artist. You are definitely not hopeless, just went through some really hard shit. Any one of us would’ve felt lost. But, so happy you are working through it. You should be proud of yourself, for real!

  • @mollyb.7834
    @mollyb.7834 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    The footage of him crying, and hugging the unicorn made me cry like a baby. 😭 Thank you for these raw emotions and the important message behind this Oscar!! Especially raising awareness for mental health issues! You are brave, strong, inspiring, creative and a truly kind hearted man! ❤❤

  • @WS-by5cl
    @WS-by5cl 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are a good man, Oscar. You will get through this! I am glad that a friend invited you to church; Christ is the only thing that brought me through a similar tough situation.
    And if being in the actual church building makes you uncomfortable (because Christians can certainly be judgy), know that Christ doesn’t only dwell in a church. He is in all of us, waiting to make us the person we were made to be. We just have to allow him in, to mold us into God’s image.
    You are getting there. It’s tough. It’s doubly tough with little ones in tow; believe me I understand. But you are doing the hard things NOW to be the person that God made you to be. Good on you for facing your problems head on, and not sweeping them under the rug.
    “You will make known to me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.”
    (Psalm 16:11)

  • @user-rd4lp9iw5j
    @user-rd4lp9iw5j 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s evident to me now that you’re the reason I always came back to your previous channel and videos; I adore seeing you embracing your creative side through your videos now x

  • @mirandamariiie
    @mirandamariiie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +145

    This makes me so emotional. As someone who also went through a split with the other parent of my child, the person I thought I'd spend a life with, these feelings are so incredibly real and raw and valid. Hearing how hard it hit you, I understand that all too well. Feelings comes in strong waves, but especially when you find yourself in the house alone, there's no tiny human running around, or little arms reaching to hug you. At night I crawl into where my daughter sleeps, there is an indescribable feeling of emptiness, and sadness.
    I think I speak for everyone when I say we are so proud of you, and you publicly expressing these emotions and how you are working through them is something to respect because majority of men would never show themselves in such a raw state of vulnerability, but it's the true human experience. No fillers or filters. Just, human.
    I've also found myself diving into things that can give me a purpose, currently enrolling into school and getting certifications. I also dabbled in religion a bit. I was raised in the church, I understand that feeling of trying to find somewhere where there is a community of people where you feel like you have a purpose and belong in those times when you are feeling overwhelmed or alone or without direction.
    I hate that you have had to go through something so personal and life altering in front of such a huge audience, but just know you're also helping people like me going through similar things, feeling those deep emotions and questioning everything, and you taking the time to speak about it helps me feel not as alone and that these feelings are normal and it's okay to feel lost sometimes.
    Oscar you are doing wonderfully. I even saw you sold your first home!! How amazing!!
    Keep your head up, things happen for a reason, even shitty things unfortunately, and I've learned they usually always work themselves out in the end. Sending you lots of strength and positivity. You've got this!!!! All my love to your family and "framily" (hehe) and everyone who has been there to support and love you through this in your life, cherish them. xx

  • @euphoria5606
    @euphoria5606 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +302

    I usually don’t comment on TH-cam videos but I’ve been watching Oscar for years now. It makes me so emotional to see him so down and upset. I wish him and his babies nothing but the best. You’re awesome Oscar!💜

  • @meayuu9281
    @meayuu9281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This video is so brilliantly edited and the message behind it is eye opening. I have been following your journey since 2015 and to say that I'm proud of you is an understatement!

  • @jesspie
    @jesspie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This hit me hard. So beautifully spoken. You WILL get through this and be so much happier than you were with her. I promise you 💛 therapy, working out, journaling, and mediation have helped me so much. Praying for you

  • @Sierra_Huber64
    @Sierra_Huber64 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +235

    We love you Oscar!!! Missed seeing you!!! 🫶🏻
    You are NOT alone!! You are an inspiration to us all!!! You are a fighter, stronger than you even know!!! You are a light for all of us!! 💕

    • @ellyne3863
      @ellyne3863 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Agreed 🥰 we have your back Oscar - we're praying for you, cheering you on, sending you all the good vibes ❤

  • @x.Kristen.x
    @x.Kristen.x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    Welcome back! We’ve missed you! You deserve the world Oscar! You’re such a great father, you’re strong and resilient! Look at you getting your real estate license! Selling your first house! That’s amazing.

  • @helensmith278
    @helensmith278 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You were the popular one not Keira..
    Jeezo…
    You are successful!!

  • @BrittyK19
    @BrittyK19 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Just wanted to wish you luck on this new chapter in life. I struggle with pretty severe depression and can relate. Just with different circumstances. We sold our house to full time rv and now feel stuck in it. Just feels like glamorized homelessness to be honest. I had a brain infection a few years back and couldn’t go back to work so it really messed up my credit. So I’m basically stuck doing this for now until we can figure something out. You got this. Glad to see you getting your spark back. I hope I’ll get there one day to. I’ve felt so down I haven’t even wanted to record videos on TH-cam either. God bless.

  • @OurAdventure
    @OurAdventure 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +164

    You got this Oscar
    Idk where you stand with God
    But he’s the only that helped me through the roughest times of my life
    Sure there’s friends but they can’t be there when we lay awake late at night wondering “why”

    • @pennyg777
      @pennyg777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Truth ~ Amen & Amen ❤❤❤

    • @Streamscream9
      @Streamscream9 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen Amen and AMEN!!

    • @kimmersaur
      @kimmersaur 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen to this!! He is always with you even in the darkest of times! It may not seem like it but He will bring peace !

    • @leighahoisington1415
      @leighahoisington1415 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen to this

    • @makennamae
      @makennamae 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      this !!

  • @josieliftsthings
    @josieliftsthings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +387

    Thank you so much for being so open and vulnerable Oscar. As someone who watched you back when Buggy was born and kind of fell off when the girls were born, coming back to all of this, you didn’t deserve what happened to you but I know you will get through it. This is so, so brave of you.

    • @sidhasilanayak6994
      @sidhasilanayak6994 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg Hi Josie, you watch him too . Lots of love from 🇮🇳

    • @peterrabbitn787
      @peterrabbitn787 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same, I stopped when the girls were born

    • @josieliftsthings
      @josieliftsthings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sidhasilanayak6994😁🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @TopangaPierce
    @TopangaPierce 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am soooo out of the loop to say the least! But from someone who started watching you back in 2016 when I first became pregnant with my son, I just want to say that I absolutely admire the strength it must’ve took to not only film this video but to share it with all of us. I’m sure you’ll never see this comment, i usually never comment, but felt the need to this one time to tell you how much this video has touched my heart. Thank you for being vulnerable & trusting us enough to share your struggles. I can relate more than you could ever know.. it’s not exactly the same situation as yours, but it has some similarities.. long story short, the love of my life passed away in 2018, when our son was only 18 months old. Just like you, I suppressed those emotions & just kept “living life”. That quote in the beginning really hit home with me, cause it really is 1000% the truth. I learned the hard way too. After practically dissociating for almost 4 years without even realizing, I just snapped back into reality one day & I was like oh my god. This needs to end now. You’re not being your authentic self, & that changes now. I’m sorry this is so long, but I just wanted you to know that I get it. & I want you to know that I am so unbelievably excited to watch this next chapter of your life, whatever you decide to share with us. I think it’s going to be really amazing for you ❤

  • @joshuathomas043
    @joshuathomas043 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking dapper my dude, wishing nothing but happiness and joy for you man. You got a lot going for you, the world aint ready but you are!

  • @mady.g
    @mady.g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    It breaks my heart that Kira is living as if she’s on top of the world being newly engaged, while this poor man suffers the loss of his family that meant the world to him. Kira is going through everything with her partner (aka Oscar’s ex best friend) while Oscar has to face this brutal reality on his own. What a strong and beautiful soul Oscar has. Life has better things in store for him.

    • @ellyne3863
      @ellyne3863 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      couldn't agree more.

  • @Darcy4697
    @Darcy4697 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    Oscar, in the wake of the news about Angus Cloud (RIP

  • @Amandapanda888
    @Amandapanda888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Oscar I can’t begin to explain how proud I am of you and all you’ve accomplished. Flowers grow from the rainiest of days. Thank you for sharing even your vulnerable moments. Sending you all my love and support. So excited to see where you go next!

  • @kimhart882
    @kimhart882 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s crazy to think I’ve been in the background watching your family channel for so so long and things can change so quickly and not what we hoped for but I really do wish nothing but the BEST for you and your channel, your success , mental health and future. You’ve hit rock bottom but now it’s nothing but good things brought your way. Never feel ashamed . Men especially for reaching out for mental health support . You guys are just as important as anyone and no one is judging . I 100% support as I’m a Health care aide and worked in a addiction facility and I’ve learned so much regarding mental health and addictions and unfortunately there’s a lot of underlining issues where men don’t feel they should reach out or they deserve to or they think it’s not right because they are tough and shouldn’t but trust me having support and a sponsor to call at anytime just like the mental health line is so important so don’t be afraid to💗💗💗 can’t wait to see you grow and eventually everything will fall in line and hopefully you can see your kids more and travel more and be the dad you want to be . Your kids are the most important and through these hard times and them trying to understand what is happening and different that they can reach out for their feelings as well it’s the transition phase and your doing everything right . Focusing on them and you and getting stable in every area before anything else and I applaud you for that ❤❤🇨🇦

  • @faithswanson5851
    @faithswanson5851 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    This shattered my heart into a thousand pieces. You’re such a wonderful person and dad and it pains me to see you struggling. You’re so amazing for opening up

  • @Misskellyb22
    @Misskellyb22 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    This is so touching . It’s so much easier to fall into another relationship than to work on yourself . He is doing the hard work . The man your becoming will make your kids so proud . They so blessed to have you as their father .

    • @christinak.1357
      @christinak.1357 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I agree with this 100 percent .

    • @alyb5666
      @alyb5666 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I really think it's because he started to believe he was the problem after being told over and over by her that he is.

  • @user-gt6zf1mg4l
    @user-gt6zf1mg4l 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow… this was so well done. I’m literally crying… keep healing. Day by day.

  • @aliciar8205
    @aliciar8205 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oscar you remind me so much of my husband who passed away by car accident at 27 and any women would be blessed to have you and the initiative you have. Always remeber that. It has been very hard for me to move on and despite my best efforts Im happy being a mom for now. That someone will come.

  • @_xoxoanna
    @_xoxoanna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    i cant stress this enough but oscar deserves the absolute most happiness ever hes such an honest and genuine person he didn’t deserve what he was put through it’s actually so upsetting.

  • @marinaventura2174
    @marinaventura2174 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

    It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable online! I’m glad you’re finding your own path in this new phase of life. The beginning might be hard but remember, you can do anything you put your mind into! 5 years from now you’ll look back and see how much you’ve accomplished.

  • @celestejimenez416
    @celestejimenez416 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Always loved your personality 🥹🤍 so happy to see you healing and growing. Sending you lots of love blessings and positive vibes for you and your little ones !

  • @nonapoppy2563
    @nonapoppy2563 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey handsome..haven't watched you in a minute. So so happy to see you back and healthier..mentally. All break ups are a tough thing to go thru. Many of us have been in your shoes. Loneliness..issolation..depression..lack of self worth..to name just a few are horrible feelings to go thru especially all at once and feeling your circumstances literally crushing the life out of you. But look at you now Mr. Real-estate man! Your up..your standing..your facing it all and carving out a new life for yourself. I promise once you feel 100% your true authentic self again everything will fall into place. You'll be a better man for it. You'll be a better daddy for it. And we who love you out here are here for you and along for the ride. So very proud of you Oscar. ❤ Kepp the videos coming. We love seeing you grow into this new found happiness and well being. And Congradulations on passing the exam! Baby steps Oscar. ❤

  • @Livsalazar
    @Livsalazar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +215

    This was beautiful, man. I’ve always been an Oscar fan. Your editing is unmatched, you put so much thought and work into your content. You’re going to do amazing things. I’m so happy for you, for finding what fulfills you.

  • @selas3214
    @selas3214 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Proud of you for not only confronting how you were hiding from your emotions but also being brave enough to share about and work on it. Setting a great example for your kids on the importance of validating feelings and working through the hard ones!!!! Happy to see you posting more as well