What a beautiful story. Got me tearing up here. Made me miss my MIL and mom so much. When I married my husband, my mom had already passed, but my MIL loved me like her own. I was so spoiled by her. She and my FIL both died in a car accident 6 months ago and I miss them so very much. Thanks for sharing your story.
OMG! This mother-in-law is so cruel just like my mother-in-law. She and her older sister opened my suit case when I wasn't home and mocked me for not having much inside when we married my husband. She knew I was an orphan but didn't have any compassion. I was so embarrassed and shocked by their cruelty. 😢😢 I'm now a nurse and have all the things that I was lacked of when I was young. I'm disappointed that you treated her very badly in the beginning 😢😢😢
A humble beginnings is the best lesson for people to succeed in life. These people learned how to be tolerant to others and endure hardship. USA is the land of opportunity. You can go from dirt poor to multi millionaire if you work hard enough.
What a double blazes mother in law? This mother is prejudice and rude. How come Hmong people always choose rich people to marry. This mother only wants rich people in her life. How come this mother has the nerve to tell her narrow mind here.
Wow! You have the audacity to ask her what her family gave her as wedding gifts and for you to complaint about how much you paid for her head? Shame on you! Hope you learn something from your daughter-in-law.
Good thing your son Peng didn't listen to you and made his own wise decision regarding his choice of wife, and shame on you for prejudging your nyab Peng purely on the family she came from. Never pass judgement on an individual until after you've come to know them and only judge them on their own merit.
To the story owner: I'm shocked that this MIL even had the guts to tell her story. If I were this MIL, I would be very ashamed to have this story told... instead of having it told like this, I would be on here apologizing hard to the DIL for judging her, how much and what she received for the wedding gifts and being mean/cruel to her because MIL assumed DIL was from a poor family based on her home life. This MIL is the typical selfish, greety, mean, disrespectful, and cruel, OG MILs who have never been in the DIL's shoes, but think they are perfect and is okay to judge others without looking inside her own box . These are the types of people who like to live life for shows-n-tail, glory of reputations, and gossip.
U have to thank your son for marrying her against your wishes. If he have listened to u n not marry your daughter in law, u won't have known such a beautiful hearted person like her. She gave u the gold necklace cus she believed that it's better to give than to receive. U r blessed to have a wonderful daughter in law like her. Please treasure n love her forever cus she loves u like her own mother. Glad that u changed your atittude towards her. Wish u n daughter in law good health n a long prosperiou life.
There's no right to call someone poor regardless. She had to buy your love. In return, right before your eyes.....you seen true love! You're so evil n heartless.
Nobody knows the life one has lived through, she can't afford for herself yet she cherished you to buy for you..I'm glad to hear you see the reality and you've learn to think twice before disrespecting one...
Niam poj hmoob nyob teb chaw meskas ces sawv daws muaj ib yam xwb koj nim muaj npaum cas thiab mas hais lus g saib neeg os niam poj hmoob aw pab koj txaj muag dhau lm os
Cov nyiaj POB PHIJ yuav tsis kav ntev..vim kuv pom los lawm...kuv kiag thaum kuv lub neej cov nyiaj POB PHIJ $70.00 Hos cov Kwvtij pab tau $150.00 xwb ho..niam no wb ob niam txiv lub neej kuj nyob noj li lub teb Chaw lawm thuab ma..Tusiab vim Txoj Kev Txom Nyem ntawm Tiag..❤❤😂
Peb ua neeg nyob peb yuav tau ua siab loj siab dab. Luag txom txom nyem los luag twb tsis tuaj thov nej noj nej haus. Luag nyob luag vaj luag tsev. Glad your son isn’t heartless like you. Kuv mas ntxub cov niag niam pog zoo li koj tshaj. My ex mnl is like this too. Plays favoritism all the time.
Nej cov nyab yuav tsum hlub ib yam...nej twb tsis paub tias thaum nej da quav da zis es tu twg thiaj li yuav hlub nej tiag tiag....yog nej xaiv neeg hlub lub caij nej da quav zis thaum nej txaj muag nawb....tu nyab nej hlub nws tsis xav yuav nej os.
ib tug niam pog twg coj li koj no vim ntshai rwg niam tais yawm txiv ntawm nws tus nyab thov khawv yeej tsis haum taus rau ib tsoom txheeb ze ntawm nws tus kheej. Cov niam pog coj li no suav txheeb vim tsis muaj coob tus thiab. Cov niam pog suav tsis txheeb lawm tsis lam tau lam hais lus siab rau tej txheeb ze nws los yog nws tej nyab los sis puas tej tis nyab twg li.
Nej cov niam pog OG ko mas tos niaj hnub no mag xa nyob tsev laus los ntshe yog thaum pib ces siv lub maib ko ntag vim tsis muaj txhua tus nyab txawj xav li koj tus ko.
Ua li cas nej ho ntxub tu nyab pluag na lo....pluag thiab muaj lo yog niam thiab txiv lub neej xwb nev....tej me tub me ntxhias ua neej yuav tsis pluag li niam thiab txiv pob...vim nyias nqa nyias hmoov lo ua neeg...lo yog nej yeej paub hais tias tag nrho lawv tsev neeg nqa ib daim ntawv lo yog koom ib txoj hmoo lo ua neej xwb nab....ho thuam neeg mob npaum li nej yog luag lub neej zoo lawm no ces ho txaj muag li nej tiag Ua neeg nyob lawv nyuam qhuav ua neej xwb txhob rawm thuam.
You did your Nyab wrong. I don’t understand why older generations will treat their nyab badly because they didn’t receive large money or things from the nyab side of the family. That’s so stupid how you will be treated on how much you bring into your husband family.
Tsk u are or were the only bad person in this story, not humble one bit….if anything u didn’t deserve such a pure nice nyab like that………but im glad her life is good and getting better and stay being a good one to her…….we shouldn’t judge ppl based on their status or who they are, nobody chooses to be poor in life or an child with no biological mother….life happens so stay humble lady
Wow, what mother in law asks for a 5 npaj gold necklace knowing how poor your daughter in law is! Then happily accepts it after knowing she worked so hard to scrape that money to get one for you. Buying the dil a necklace too doesn’t justify the greed. Sorry just my 2 cents.
Tus niam Pog no ua cas tsis paub txaj muag es tseem yuav muaj zaj dag neeg hais rau sawvdlawg 😂😂😂😂 zaum no leejtwg pom niam Pog with her gold necklace..... Oh damn that the necklace she got from her daughter in law. For the daughter in law was you trying to please your mother in law? Was it your husband her son that is also encouraging you? Might as well get her something $1 and be known as nyab pluag forever..... You just overdid it by buying the necklace and then created issues between your sister in laws. Tau niam Pog li no tsis hlub los tsis ua cas os. Unless you depends on your in-laws then you feel in debts to them. My late in-laws done nothing for me.
What a terrible niam pog. You only loved her because you learned about her past. So what if she wasn't an orphan? Would you still love and respect her? Og and their judgemental mindset. Not everything is materialistic too.
Your face is to thick to even come on and tell this to the world. If your nyab did be patient with you and make money, you wouldn't even get a dame S.... about her. Ntsej muag mas tuab tiag2!!! Thov kom lwm tiam koj tau los ua ntsuag li koj tu nyab es koj thiaj paub.
What a beautiful story. Got me tearing up here. Made me miss my MIL and mom so much. When I married my husband, my mom had already passed, but my MIL loved me like her own. I was so spoiled by her. She and my FIL both died in a car accident 6 months ago and I miss them so very much. Thanks for sharing your story.
Good daughter in law, but greedy mother in law.
This is a tear jerker story! So glad you gave her all the motherly love she longed for.
OMG! This mother-in-law is so cruel just like my mother-in-law. She and her older sister opened my suit case when I wasn't home and mocked me for not having much inside when we married my husband. She knew I was an orphan but didn't have any compassion. I was so embarrassed and shocked by their cruelty. 😢😢
I'm now a nurse and have all the things that I was lacked of when I was young. I'm disappointed that you treated her very badly in the beginning 😢😢😢
Niam pog koj txom nyem kawg koj thiaj ntshaw khoom phij cuam. yog koj plua nuj mas koj yeej tsis ntshaw cov lawv Phil cuam li os.
Txhob saib tsis taus luag tej Neeg txom nyem thaum kawg luag yog Tus zoo nawb Cov mi Niam Pog aw
Grew up an orphan myself..
Listening to this story
cannot hold back the tears 😭😭
so similar to my story
Nej cov ua niam ua txiv los thov hlub peb cov nyab txom txom nyem thiab nawb 😢😢
Wow tus nyab no mas thiaj li yog nyab siab zoo tiag2 li os koj yog tus niam pog koj yuav tau hlub nws heev li nawb yog
Glad you changed & love your nyab. Some mil don’t change. Happy for you both.
A humble beginnings is the best lesson for people to succeed in life. These people learned how to be tolerant to others and endure hardship. USA is the land of opportunity. You can go from dirt poor to multi millionaire if you work hard enough.
Lub neej tiam no cas nej pheej need kom lawv pij cuam xwb lau cas txim ntxub tshaj nplaws lau
What a double blazes mother in law? This mother is prejudice and rude. How come Hmong people always choose rich people to marry. This mother only wants rich people in her life. How come this mother has the nerve to tell her narrow mind here.
I would love to have some daughters in law like that, just like my wonderful wife.
Let's not judge this mil. No one is perfect, but to learn and grow wiser is something we should command. Be happy for her her son's family.
Wow! You have the audacity to ask her what her family gave her as wedding gifts and for you to complaint about how much you paid for her head? Shame on you! Hope you learn something from your daughter-in-law.
Didn't judge the book it covers until you know the person's heart. Tus tibneeg zoo txog twg los yeej zoo. Good heart is conquer all.
This story brings tears and opens my mind.
Beautiiiful story aunty❤️❤️❤️
Good thing your son Peng didn't listen to you and made his own wise decision regarding his choice of wife, and shame on you for prejudging your nyab Peng purely on the family she came from. Never pass judgement on an individual until after you've come to know them and only judge them on their own merit.
😢😪😭😢😥
Tus nyab pluag tabsis hlub yus zoo tshaj tus nyab muaj tabsis “1-2-3 Get Out!”
Thanks you
At least you willing to listen and change to love her, accept who she is.
Cov niam pog siab dev zoo lis koj yog kuv. Kuv yeej tsis hlub 😂
To the story owner: I'm shocked that this MIL even had the guts to tell her story. If I were this MIL, I would be very ashamed to have this story told... instead of having it told like this, I would be on here apologizing hard to the DIL for judging her, how much and what she received for the wedding gifts and being mean/cruel to her because MIL assumed DIL was from a poor family based on her home life. This MIL is the typical selfish, greety, mean, disrespectful, and cruel, OG MILs who have never been in the DIL's shoes, but think they are perfect and is okay to judge others without looking inside her own box . These are the types of people who like to live life for shows-n-tail, glory of reputations, and gossip.
U have to thank your son for marrying her against your wishes. If he have listened to u n not marry your daughter in law, u won't have known such a beautiful hearted person like her. She gave u the gold necklace cus she believed that it's better to give than to receive. U r blessed to have a wonderful daughter in law like her. Please treasure n love her forever cus she loves u like her own mother. Glad that u changed your atittude towards her. Wish u n daughter in law good health n a long prosperiou life.
Nco tsoov tias tus neeg zoo ua koj saib tsis tau thaum kawg tus ntawv yog tus ua hlub koj, pab koj.
Yog kuv ses kuv txaj muag hais tawm rau neeg ntiaj teb paub txog koj lub siab phem yom.
There's no right to call someone poor regardless. She had to buy your love. In return, right before your eyes.....you seen true love! You're so evil n heartless.
Nobody knows the life one has lived through, she can't afford for herself yet she cherished you to buy for you..I'm glad to hear you see the reality and you've learn to think twice before disrespecting one...
I feel sorry for this nyab. Glad she was able to find a decent man that stands up for her.
Greedy, immature, though less mother-in-law!!
Niam poj hmoob nyob teb chaw meskas ces sawv daws muaj ib yam xwb koj nim muaj npaum cas thiab mas hais lus g saib neeg os niam poj hmoob aw pab koj txaj muag dhau lm os
Qhov tseeb niamcov neeg muaj nyiaj tseem qia dub tshaj thiab ntshaw nyiaj tshaj cov txom nyem
Kuv mas ntxub cov niam pog xav tau cov nyab nplua nuj dhau lawm especially nyob miskas teb na.
Cov niam pog zoo li koj ntxim ntxub tshaj
The mother was mean to her daughter in law, but she learned her lessons and turned a new leaf.
You are a terrible mother inlaw. You treated her terribly in the beginning . Your words are so mean .
Très belle histoire... belle leçon de vie 🥰
Cas yuav ntshaw nyiaj ua luaj
Txhob thuam tus nyab pluag os yuav tus nyab siab zoo hlub tus tus tub thiab hlub yus tsev neeg xwb thiaj yog ib tug niam pog zoo
Peb cov niam coj kom zoo txhob coj li tus niam pog no nawb tsam yus txaj muag rau yus tus kheej nawb
You a bad mother in-law, you choose your favorite Nyab!
Cov nyiaj POB PHIJ yuav tsis kav ntev..vim kuv pom los lawm...kuv kiag thaum kuv lub neej cov nyiaj POB PHIJ $70.00 Hos cov Kwvtij pab tau $150.00 xwb ho..niam no wb ob niam txiv lub neej kuj nyob noj li lub teb Chaw lawm thuab ma..Tusiab vim Txoj Kev Txom Nyem ntawm Tiag..❤❤😂
Peb ua neeg nyob peb yuav tau ua siab loj siab dab. Luag txom txom nyem los luag twb tsis tuaj thov nej noj nej haus. Luag nyob luag vaj luag tsev. Glad your son isn’t heartless like you. Kuv mas ntxub cov niag niam pog zoo li koj tshaj. My ex mnl is like this too. Plays favoritism all the time.
Nej cov nyab yuav tsum hlub ib yam...nej twb tsis paub tias thaum nej da quav da zis es tu twg thiaj li yuav hlub nej tiag tiag....yog nej xaiv neeg hlub lub caij nej da quav zis thaum nej txaj muag nawb....tu nyab nej hlub nws tsis xav yuav nej os.
ib tug niam pog twg coj li koj no vim ntshai rwg niam tais yawm txiv ntawm nws tus nyab thov khawv yeej tsis haum taus rau ib tsoom txheeb ze ntawm nws tus kheej. Cov niam pog coj li no suav txheeb vim tsis muaj coob tus thiab. Cov niam pog suav tsis txheeb lawm tsis lam tau lam hais lus siab rau tej txheeb ze nws los yog nws tej nyab los sis puas tej tis nyab twg li.
Nej cov niam pog OG ko mas tos niaj hnub no mag xa nyob tsev laus los ntshe yog thaum pib ces siv lub maib ko ntag vim tsis muaj txhua tus nyab txawj xav li koj tus ko.
What a bad mil. If you didn’t get that necklace you would’ve still judge her. Glad the nyab proved you wrong.
Greedy mil! Imagine if the nyab wasn’t like that. She’ll probably be super mean and look down on the nyab.
Koj yog niam pog koj twb saib tsis taus koj tus nyab nws thiaj ua zoo Kom koj txaj muag ntag niam pog siab phem li ko
Koj tus niam pog ko cas yuav tsis yog kuv tus poj niam ne cas yuav ntxim ncaws taw ntag npaum li o
Why hmong people need money 💰 😢
Evil mother in law you don’t deserve such a nyab!!!!
yog tia qhia niam pog paub ua ntej tshe twb tsi pub yuav thiab o niam pog ww
Tsi txhob tiag yu yog niam pog zoo o yog tu phem xb sav
Koj yog 1 tug niam pog siab phem kawg, koj tsuas muaj qhov ntshaw nyiaj xwb koj yeej tsis txhawb koj tus nyab li txawm nws yuag kiag koj tus tub koj nrog kiag nws nyob los koj yeej txhawb thiab qhuas koj cov nyab hlob xwb nws twb los yuav koj tus tub tau 3 xyoos los koj twb tsis quav ntsej paub txog nws lub neej koj yeej tsis hlub nws li vim tias nws yog neeg txom nyem yog nws tsis yuav txoh hlua kub loj 2 rau koj ces koj yeej tsis pom nws li peb ua neeg nyob mas tsis Txhob ntsia tus muaj nyiaj thiab tus muaj niam muaj txi hlub xwb peb cov hmoob mas muaj qhov lim 2 hiam tsis hlub cov pluag thiab cov megnuam ntsuag li….tabsis ntuj yeej txawj tig ko diav rau 1 leeg 1 zaug ov…
Koj tseem muaj phlus coj koj lub qe tsw lwj tuaj qhia ntiaj teb paub thiab…
Cov niam pog siab phem saib tsis taus cov nyab li koj ntag laus tos li muaj 1 civ nyab ntxub2 tsis yuav niam pog os....txhob lam saib tsis taus cov nyab txom2 nyem nawb cov ntawv yog cov siab dawb siab zoo hos. Koj mas yog 1 leej niam pog siab phem kawg.
Phem npaum li koj ea cas ho tsis txaj muag txais nws txoj hluas kub na
Koj tsis rhuav koj cov nyab li cas koj ho rhuav koj tus nyab yau nab.
Ua li cas nej ho ntxub tu nyab pluag na lo....pluag thiab muaj lo yog niam thiab txiv lub neej xwb nev....tej me tub me ntxhias ua neej yuav tsis pluag li niam thiab txiv pob...vim nyias nqa nyias hmoov lo ua neeg...lo yog nej yeej paub hais tias tag nrho lawv tsev neeg nqa ib daim ntawv lo yog koom ib txoj hmoo lo ua neej xwb nab....ho thuam neeg mob npaum li nej yog luag lub neej zoo lawm no ces ho txaj muag li nej tiag
Ua neeg nyob lawv nyuam qhuav ua neej xwb txhob rawm thuam.
You did your Nyab wrong. I don’t understand why older generations will treat their nyab badly because they didn’t receive large money or things from the nyab side of the family. That’s so stupid how you will be treated on how much you bring into your husband family.
Tsk u are or were the only bad person in this story, not humble one bit….if anything u didn’t deserve such a pure nice nyab like that………but im glad her life is good and getting better and stay being a good one to her…….we shouldn’t judge ppl based on their status or who they are, nobody chooses to be poor in life or an child with no biological mother….life happens so stay humble lady
this mother in law, ahould be embarrassed to share this story. So greedy.
Yog koj tus tub lubNeej xwb, cia koj tus tub xaiv nws tus pojniam
Wow, what mother in law asks for a 5 npaj gold necklace knowing how poor your daughter in law is! Then happily accepts it after knowing she worked so hard to scrape that money to get one for you. Buying the dil a necklace too doesn’t justify the greed. Sorry just my 2 cents.
Tus niam Pog no ua cas tsis paub txaj muag es tseem yuav muaj zaj dag neeg hais rau sawvdlawg 😂😂😂😂 zaum no leejtwg pom niam Pog with her gold necklace..... Oh damn that the necklace she got from her daughter in law.
For the daughter in law was you trying to please your mother in law? Was it your husband her son that is also encouraging you? Might as well get her something $1 and be known as nyab pluag forever..... You just overdid it by buying the necklace and then created issues between your sister in laws.
Tau niam Pog li no tsis hlub los tsis ua cas os. Unless you depends on your in-laws then you feel in debts to them. My late in-laws done nothing for me.
Koj kuj yog ib tug niam pog phem kawg li yom. Es phem li koj es koj puas txaj muag thiab nab. Ntshe koj tus niam pog ko twb tsis paub hlub koj niam pob.
These OG miL R so judgmental… they always need proof b4 they obey.
This is one of the reasons i dislike about hmong culture, some family judge the daughter in law based on her dowery.
How would the mother in law not know? I don’t believe this story
Koj hneev lov kiag lawm lau yom. Txoj kev uas muaj2222 plhus os. Koj mas koj hais tias koj yog 1 tug niam pog zoo no tab sis kuv hais tias koj yog tug neeg phem lim hiam tshaj plaws. Vim koj yeej tsis tau paub txog tias neeg zoo muaj2222 siab muaj2222 ntsws os.
What a terrible niam pog. You only loved her because you learned about her past. So what if she wasn't an orphan? Would you still love and respect her? Og and their judgemental mindset. Not everything is materialistic too.
It's not the daughter in law to buy the mother in law a gold necklace.....to the mother in law is a greedy botch....
Your face is to thick to even come on and tell this to the world. If your nyab did be patient with you and make money, you wouldn't even get a dame S.... about her. Ntsej muag mas tuab tiag2!!! Thov kom lwm tiam koj tau los ua ntsuag li koj tu nyab es koj thiaj paub.
So money humbled you all. Hmmm I see. 😂