Is It Time to Let Go?

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  • #datingadvice #love #dating
    Is it time to let go? Let's talk about it!
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  • @major_kei
    @major_kei 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    “When you let go you realize they weren’t even holding on” .. that’s a whole word

  • @angelaconnor9731
    @angelaconnor9731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Cutting off instant access to me has been one of my best and smartest moves to date. It removed a few people out of my daily space and I’m so glad I did it.

    • @trinap.8904
      @trinap.8904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. Im not the emotional go to anymore.

  • @m.lowery
    @m.lowery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "If people are robbing you of your joy; robbing you of your peace, then they're too expensive." That hit home for me. The job, the friend, the bf..all have robbed me of that peace. I can see that now.

  • @dawnestate9999
    @dawnestate9999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I have been set apart and it's been peaceful. Attracting and accepting kingdom connections only and will only be a few when they do come!

  • @kdotnichole
    @kdotnichole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I just internally screamed when you’re talking about the social butterflies staying in drama. You are describing my life, had to separate myself from people who are determined to misunderstand me

  • @paulashipman8281
    @paulashipman8281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Man I really needed this today. Confirmation of me doing the right things concerning my peace and boundaries. Thank God for you WOG🙏🏾❤️

  • @peaceful_and_blessed2879
    @peaceful_and_blessed2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Heyyy Rebecca!! I discovered you last year and I knew right away that you are a beautiful soul. 2020 was my ultimate year of healing.. I’ve learned to be at peace and yes that comes from alot of reflection and ALONE time! 🙌🙏🏻

  • @masmodiba
    @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The timing of this video is just incredible 🤧🙌🏽❤

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I said the same girl!! Thank God for love and guidance...

    • @masmodiba
      @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@QueenOfPrinciple God is so faithful! Wow 🙏🏽❤

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I kno right some these videos are dead on and what we r going threw the video comes strong

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@masmodibaGirl he is always right on time!!

    • @masmodiba
      @masmodiba 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Arizona_lilly It's honestly all of them for me 😂

  • @joanecajuste9800
    @joanecajuste9800 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sometimes When you let go, you may realize you were the only one holding on. Chile.....🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @THATGIRLCHELSEAS
    @THATGIRLCHELSEAS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl same. I had girls literally hate me because their boyfriends whom I never even interacted with liked me 😭

  • @missgoodenergy
    @missgoodenergy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yesssssss!!!!! “You can’t base choices on what used to be”. 💎 💎 💎 💎

  • @QueenOfPrinciple
    @QueenOfPrinciple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    STOP FANTASIZING!!! People often get involved in these situationships, because they feel need love, it feels good temporarily, they are hopeful on a relationship and they also fed into that point of not being too serious, not having expectations and using no labels.

  • @scooby1970m
    @scooby1970m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yep, yep, yep! The lack of intentionality is what has kept me in a profession for 2 decades. Easy to get in then complacent and then it is like "what the hell happened?" "how did I get here". Love the truth you tell Ms. Pope! Keep up the amazing work.

  • @leahw4187
    @leahw4187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow! Wow! Wow! Everything you just said I had to find out the hard way and boy does it hurt. The best part is that it is drawing me closer to the Lord. Keep it coming. We so desperately need to hear real talk. Thank you. Be blessed.

  • @damonadams3853
    @damonadams3853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RLP THE NEW PHENOMENON OF WISDOM & INTELLIGENCE!!![999]

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have to have my PEACE. We must understand that everyone that smiles in your face is not a friend.....sometimes its family too.

    • @Stainless009
      @Stainless009 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Harsh reality unfortunately

  • @sangel8079
    @sangel8079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This natural hair is soo good. You took off 10-15 years from the straight look!

  • @jadelesidi
    @jadelesidi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for walking in your purpose and blessing us with your content. It is ALWAYS on time and on point.🎯❤️👏🏾

  • @la_julz
    @la_julz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your transformation over the years, you look amazing! ❤️

  • @runndiva
    @runndiva 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so excited about the healing class. Looking forward to the new future with a healed heart , soul mind. It's time to live abundantly 💪🏽

  • @char19661
    @char19661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I've been in situations I end up taking care of the man too many time I'm 54 and I will not put up with crap anymore . I'd rather be alone then being miserable and not being respected or getting what I need also . Emotional support . The last man I was with I finally blew up and told him to get out and don't come back . I do everything my self anyway so I missed be alone I don't need you !!!!

  • @shotmaking
    @shotmaking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video spoke to my soul. This is definitely your calling. I enjoyed you!

  • @rosehamilton2665
    @rosehamilton2665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Power to him for being true to himself and her so In that case he protect both of them yes she is gonna feel hurt but in the long run she will get over it and respect him for being honest to her wish big man was like that they spend so much times lying and playing games with woman feelings and their heart

  • @sangel8079
    @sangel8079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The story about your son is great. I just hope we openly applaud girls/women who are open about not wanting to wait until marriage too.

  • @priscillajones7105
    @priscillajones7105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another great message! Thank you Rebecca! ❤

  • @LadySharae
    @LadySharae 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Keeping it real with Rebecca Lynn Pope! I truly do love and appreciate you staying consistent in going live! I enjoy your lives!

  • @christienagel9605
    @christienagel9605 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessings & Abundance Mrs Pope!..

  • @dleveston
    @dleveston 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was confirmation on several things for me today. I'd been avoiding watching this video for a while because I was too afraid to hear the truth. Lol. Thank you, RLP!

  • @knowsbest6926
    @knowsbest6926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not the pony tail 😂😂😂🤣 love you Rebecca

  • @greatfulthankful1716
    @greatfulthankful1716 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    At 21:43. Yes Mrs. Pope! Thank you. Bring back the peace.

  • @char19661
    @char19661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your raising him wonderfully momma teaching him right good job mamma

  • @farfromaverage_5333
    @farfromaverage_5333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was a serious GOLD NUGGET. Thank you so much for the valuable information.(:

  • @char19661
    @char19661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh good boy tell him to stay that way . He's honest isn't hiding what he think s that most guys to. I'm proud of him

  • @mildredbethea613
    @mildredbethea613 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lawd help me! Rebecca's you've said two things that got me hollering. When we get too many folks together, it's always some ish going to jump off and explaining myself to folks who really aren't trying to hear me know way! That right there...thank you maam

  • @Kamcyokw
    @Kamcyokw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are such an angel❤️Thank you for this

  • @ms.whitt2054
    @ms.whitt2054 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keeping It Real With Rebecca! I like it!❤️✨

  • @Mo-bz6zf
    @Mo-bz6zf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You the truth 💯AMEN God bless you sis🥰🥰

  • @DS-br1wn
    @DS-br1wn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good topic. This is often what causes people to stay too long in bad relationships. BTW,, Her smile looked different in the beginning of this video. Snapchat???🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @MsJMeBaby
    @MsJMeBaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video was right on time. It really hit home! 🥰

  • @edwinvaldivian1941
    @edwinvaldivian1941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Rebecca

  • @missgoodenergy
    @missgoodenergy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    the ponytail 🤣

  • @ceebatheroyal3092
    @ceebatheroyal3092 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much 🙌💙

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your brows are they mirco blade are filled in ... ?

  • @char19661
    @char19661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you girl your very right

  • @kedrick71
    @kedrick71 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking great as usual

  • @ourownbeautiful423
    @ourownbeautiful423 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 preach

  • @reneeholzbach7269
    @reneeholzbach7269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @Maxmellow94
    @Maxmellow94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I never get the live notifications just the uploads

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm live on Instagram. Www.instagram.com/rebeccalynnpope

  • @alexisagginie4574
    @alexisagginie4574 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you!

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful hair love the colors can we see the baby pug hez silly

  • @ms.reilife2378
    @ms.reilife2378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right on time.

  • @kishacalhoun6414
    @kishacalhoun6414 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow at 18 hes awesome

  • @char19661
    @char19661 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES exactly

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do feel about Botox? I am keeping myself moving forward...

  • @MrsLC-tp8oj
    @MrsLC-tp8oj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow why u are always talking to me lol. I Got about 52 missed calls this weekend that I missed on purpose actually. I’m trying to let go move on this is why I left on fri didn’t come back til sun late dodging. My Mom and Dad raised me I believe I was raised pretty well. Things I did or got into was my own doing men I’ve dealt with that were abusive 2 men and others were players all me. My Dad is not a saint but I feel they raised me the best they knew how at the time. This I s why when people say the reason a woman deals with a certain type of man is because she doesn’t love herself or childhood trauma. I just would like to hear a different perspective sometime like why isn’t it just the lady choose the wrong man and the man is just a player and immature. I hear therapist psychiatrists all day it’s alot to do with childhood trauma. It’s as though when a man or a woman or whoever has been deceived hurt or abused the victim is mainly to blame. I understand of why it’s not good to keep the victim mentality but I just would like to sometime hear that the persons doing the wrong held accountable.

  • @nafeesahtharpe6813
    @nafeesahtharpe6813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    She said letting go of the ponytail lol

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is purchasing a badge?

  • @jaden4050
    @jaden4050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Video is not playing

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How come I never see the Live alerts anymore?? Hmm 🤔

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I go live on ig. instagram.com/rebeccalynnpope

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebeccaLynnPope Oh ok. Why not live on TH-cam?

  • @melaninandaura9713
    @melaninandaura9713 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I remember you did a live like a year ago where you mentioned a book that was a good read. Someone in the chat mentioned the book and you co-signed saying it was very good. I believe there was also a sequel that you mentioned. I can’t remember the title and I can’t even remember what video you mentioned it in. But the title alone sparked something in me and know I need to read it. The book I think offers perspective on God, religion and some form of human psychology. Ugh. If you know what book I’m talking about please advise. Or even just share what books you have read that have given you more perspective and expansion? I need to read more and while of course the Bible is the BEST book ever written IMO I also want to read more books for enlightenment. And not just enlightened to eroticism lol. Anyone who reads this please feel free to advise as well. Thank you in advance! 🤗

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's called a Course in Miracles Made Easy by Alan Cohen

    • @melaninandaura9713
      @melaninandaura9713 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebeccaLynnPope YEP that’s exactly it!!! 🤗🤗🤗🌹🌹🌹 THANK YOU! 🙏🏽

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So how do go on these lives?

  • @justme_1111
    @justme_1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you please do another investing for beginners video, and dumb it down a bit more for those of us trying to get started with investments in this economy?

  • @rhiggins0868
    @rhiggins0868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Rebecca. I'm currently separated from my wife but I am trying to be hopeful that God will reconcile and restore what the enemy has stolen. This podcast has confirmed something that I am trying to put into practice..."I am trying to see if she will come after me". This is my challenge...As a man, living in a society that says that a man is supposed to pursue the woman...how does/should a man maneuver to allow a woman to make a consistent effort to show that she is all in? I feel that my wife uses the "male role" thing to not be responsible for initiating or being responsible for anything. Everything falls on me...I always feel like I'm carrying ALL of the weight in the marriage. I love my wife but I'm tired. Can you do a podcast on how a good man can still show interest in a woman without carrying ALL of the weight and responsiblity so that he can know that the woman is truly ride-or-die for him...through her actions?

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ok, I will

    • @RebeccaLynnPope
      @RebeccaLynnPope  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please send this message to live@rebeccalynnpope.com so I don't forget

    • @rhiggins0868
      @rhiggins0868 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RebeccaLynnPope Thank you. I appreciate you. ❤

  • @GEMINI_THE_BES89
    @GEMINI_THE_BES89 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My Birthday is Tomorrow

  • @Godsgirl804
    @Godsgirl804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come on!!!

  • @awlaboratoriesinc
    @awlaboratoriesinc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A lot of men play on a woman's emotions on purpose.

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ...is it inrealic to think or think or raise the conscience of sex b4 message is now taboo ...do parent change thier teachings due to the culture of the time even though God word says different...I just trying to be open minded and obedient and find a win win???

  • @hadiyamascoll8305
    @hadiyamascoll8305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Rebecca i must say u look super cute today.

  • @chikwanadmakasa7263
    @chikwanadmakasa7263 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So what if you started out great...

  • @jameslewis9441
    @jameslewis9441 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Are you Janet Jackson's long lost sister?? 🙂🙂

  • @zyrianaarenee453
    @zyrianaarenee453 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No one ever replies on this site mummm

  • @randaawatson8751
    @randaawatson8751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😯😯😯😯

  • @lovinglifehighpriestess11
    @lovinglifehighpriestess11 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi