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  • Ashish Ranjan is an ex-ISRO, ex- BARC Scientist. He has spent the past 5 years writing a book on his experience of getting selected and working in India's Nuclear program and how he worked his way up into India's space program despite his poor academic background. Ashish had scored 53/100 in Mathematics and 61/100 in Physics on his 12th boards. He had even failed Physics in his 11th Standard. Ashish never got admitted to top universities for his B.Tech. like IITs or NITs. Yet, he made his way into India's two of the largest research organizations as a Scientist. He has recently published a Book, "The Boy Who Did Not Sign" which is a fictional story inspired by a true event in Ashish's life in BARC. The book is about pursuing a dream career despite our limitations and disadvantages, about relationship dynamics we all face, about doing the right thing, and much more. The Boy Who Did Not Sign is now published worldwide (Paperback + eBook).
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    ⭐️ Qualifications of Ashish Ranjan:
    ➡ Mechanical Engineer
    ➡ BARC 2017: Selected & Joined
    ➡ Degree in Nuclear Science & Engineering from BARC Training School
    ➡ Former Scientific Officer at the Department of Atomic Energy
    ➡ IIT Bombay RA AIR-10: Selected for Master in Mechanical Design
    ➡ Indian Space Research Organization 2018 AIR-4
    ➡ Former ISRO scientist
    ➡ Podcasts: ART & Momentum
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  • @ashishtorq
    @ashishtorq  ปีที่แล้ว +7

    📙 Get a copy of Ashish's Book, to get more juicy insights about Relationship dynamics: amzn.eu/d/2YQzUxi

    • @BishalSarkar-001
      @BishalSarkar-001 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro I’m in serous problem… I don’t know what to do
      Im preparing for NEET and also in a relationship with a girl she is also preparing for the same… while she is good in her studies I’m not. I was never that studious guy but she was the school topper… but the fact is I am trying now at least I want to try now don’t know I will succeed or not… I understand studies but the problem is I don’t study at all… what should I do I’m very confused should I continue the relationship or I leave it and try on my studies… or any third option to get things done side by side???

    • @janvi2816
      @janvi2816 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@BishalSarkar-001 leave it to the best!!

  • @venkateshpattan2702
    @venkateshpattan2702 4 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    The 1st sentence was so dope that it made me watch it till the end😂

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😜

    • @vaishnavprakash5898
      @vaishnavprakash5898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashishtorq I love your all videos and in just 2 days i have seen most of your videos like whole i see your videos ....It gives me pleasure and you're so cool and Osm and so honest like i have no words for you i would only say you're great and you're the best and i have never seen anyone like you ......but i will try to become like you : )

    • @sanias4195
      @sanias4195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@ashishtorq love you yrrr😂😂😁😅

    • @Pushpa-wc2xw
      @Pushpa-wc2xw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sanias4195 😂😂 every one loves him siso

    • @ASushii__11
      @ASushii__11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ending .. 😂😂Jo ek bar khatam ho gya wo bar bar khatam hoga so use bar bar chalu krne se koi fyada nhi hai👍🏻😆😆

  • @HEYTHERE-ko6we
    @HEYTHERE-ko6we 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    After destroying 7 years in these things, finally m back on track. In d age between 21-28 , it's a complete process one should invest only in oneself, in order to be mature enough to understand d peaceful reality of wat love is and not waste ds 7-8 years on anyone else.

    • @sombohare3132
      @sombohare3132 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How was the result

    • @Tr_e_x
      @Tr_e_x 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same

  • @aceallen2505
    @aceallen2505 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    1. Always market your attitude
    2. Always focus on yourself and your goals

  • @shraav1478
    @shraav1478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    "Tumhe kaise pata?
    Experience, bro" 😂👏🏼

  • @shiVam01242
    @shiVam01242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I am going through phase 1 for last 10-15 days.. and everything you said is 110% true.. I invest 3+ hrs while chatting with her daily, in order to impress her... Thank God, I got this video of yours in my recommendation before any disaster as I m in my fourth year of engg, and now I have uninstalled whatsapp .. and will not chat with her.. Thankyou so much Ashish Sir , salute to you. Bacha liya aapne mujhe, kyuki dosto se share karo to wo to aur aage badha dete hain and parents se ab aisi baat share kar nhi skte.. bss aapne samjha hum logon ka dukh. Thanks once again

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're welcome Shivam... I'm glad you took the right decision at right time 😊

    • @shiVam01242
      @shiVam01242 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ashishtorq ❤

  • @arthere09
    @arthere09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The moral...Always look forward..
    And ...jo hota hai ache k liye hi hota hai..🎉

  • @harshalichitre4696
    @harshalichitre4696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Loving animals especially dogs, helps to reduce the urge of wanting partner. + animals help us to reduce stress levels during competitive exam preparation. This may sound weird to some people but its true.

  • @sujitkumardash5650
    @sujitkumardash5650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Awwww! The way he explained ....
    Felt like my best friend was advising me.

  • @shreeyashrasal8574
    @shreeyashrasal8574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    😂😂it reminds me that even einstein had 10 extra marital affairs..
    Leaving aside above thing I think everyone goes through this phase and understand the importance along with time and situations.
    Amazing topic discussed.
    Katwake to sab aate hai sirf sambhalta kon jaldi hai uspe success depend karta hai😀

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You're welcome 😊

  • @IGIMF
    @IGIMF 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I travelled 5 years in past to watch this video would you please travel to heart it?

  • @surabhimishra6864
    @surabhimishra6864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The most fun & actually the most needed video for all the students out there...👌👌 the funny thing is I too went through all the 3 stages & applied the same methods to revive myself back from all the negativity going around & really I am at peace now...😇 Distractions will be there but its upto the individuals if they wanna come out of that stage or remain there & regret later....!

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's amazing Surabhi, that you saw it all first hand and came through 😊

  • @sonalikrishav8880
    @sonalikrishav8880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thankyou Ashish. I have recently started recovering from depression, thankfully I was at home and it was all bcz I had invested 4 yrs of my life preserving a rltnship moreover cz I hd faith in it. The reason although provided to me was nothing, absolutely nothing. However, I blv it all happens for good and I am eager to work in the field of mental health. Btw you are really grounded and I benefit from your videos. Thankyou.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're welcome Sonali😊
      You'll do great 👍🏻

    • @skysachdev6263
      @skysachdev6263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am commenting here just bcos i was also in the relationship for 4yrs and frst i was frnd with her for 1 year i spend 5 years with her after that 2 years have passed and as sir told bar bar jane se bhi kuch ni hoga mai 2-4 bar uske pas gaya finally block kia hu nd she also didn't gave the reason of leaving... infact i tried a lot but she never came

  • @Xamsabha
    @Xamsabha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Bro i am preparing for UPSC CSE and i am very thankful to you such a awesome suggestion.I also became stage-3 patient but know I realized 🙏🙏

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You're welcome Niranjan, glad I could help.

    • @Xamsabha
      @Xamsabha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks bhai

    • @nageshsahu4964
      @nageshsahu4964 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Current update?😅

  • @shubhamaashu1778
    @shubhamaashu1778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Nothing is permanent I.e the fact and people will not going to accept this until they suffer... 3rd case happened with me just before 22 days of my mains exam, that is the worst case guys the person on which you trust the most will leave you because you don't have time...and after the result whole world will blame you and they are correct also because at last it's whole your mistake.... I had 8 years of relationship from my school days, if it can happen with me it can happen with anyone so plz concentrate on your carrier because it is the only thing which will be with you always after your parents... Good lock

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true bro 😊

  • @manishakumari9117
    @manishakumari9117 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    I noticed one thng, durng d whole vdo he was blushing..... May be apne purane din yad aa gye the....
    💔💔💔😂😂

  • @khushi_K9
    @khushi_K9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You’ve created an amazing video, explaining everything so thoughtfully. Unfortunately, I watched it today after 5 years, and for the past 3 and a half years, I’ve been sabotaging my own career. It only hit me now after someone abused, disrespected, and even take advantage from me then ghosted me, leaving me in confusion and a really tough phase. I feel deeply sorry for the time I wasted, aaram se katva rhi thi, kitni dumbest thi, upar se mai emotional fool ofcourse it hurts and feel very bad with lots of guilts .....but now, thanks to your videos, I’m learning and improving!!!

  • @AshishKumar-lt6cu
    @AshishKumar-lt6cu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +445

    Video dekhne ke baad relationship wale saar pakad ke baithe hai, aur singles like pe like thok ke maje lee rhe hai.
    Brilliant topic sir, hats off to you.👌👌👌👌.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Hahahahah 😂😂

    • @amitnaskar8575
      @amitnaskar8575 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

    • @animeshkumar8802
      @animeshkumar8802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁😁😁😁😁😍😍

    • @amitnaskar8575
      @amitnaskar8575 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂🤦🤦🤦🤦😥😥😥😥😭😭😭😭

    • @Krishna-wz8mz
      @Krishna-wz8mz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kuch bhi relationship wale bhi like kr the he

  • @046shrinivasnarkhede2
    @046shrinivasnarkhede2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Accha hua bhaiya apne ye topic choose kiya kyonki sabki prblm hoti hai pr batata koi nahi. Thanks for sharing experience 👍🏻.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're welcome Shrinivas....I knew it is a problem for a lot. 😊

  • @sejalvidyarthi
    @sejalvidyarthi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bhaiya ne jab bola ....sab ka experience hai apne ko 😂😂😂😂bhaiya mind-blowing

  • @RohitKumar-nd1sw
    @RohitKumar-nd1sw 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    After 9 min is very important talking about every students.

  • @christnchimchim39
    @christnchimchim39 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I seriously can't believe that u are soo talented I mean how how..??? With this type of personality u just changed the meaning of topper ❤️❤️🔥

  • @sricharanreddy784
    @sricharanreddy784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    bro apart from studies, I like your video editing skills.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Thanks, I glad you noticed, I love editing and put a lot of creativity in editing😊

    • @bhanubkv248
      @bhanubkv248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashishtorq Bro please send your whatsapp number once

    • @aviralpruthi4240
      @aviralpruthi4240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashishtorq bro can you make one video on editing
      How to start it??
      It helps a lot

  • @coolboys585
    @coolboys585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hey Ashish continue your video because I see myself in you as same energy in starting of my collage days but then I depressed but now I am gaining confidence again after seeing you

  • @kapilmotwani7742
    @kapilmotwani7742 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Yes Mene bhi Same feel kia tha, But Fir Smj aaya Phle Career bnao Baad me relationship me aao. At the End mene BARC 2019 Crack kr lia.

  • @ayushinayak2917
    @ayushinayak2917 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Tat first line is hilarious😂😂
    I agreed totally that at such precious time one need to focus on themselves & in their studies rather tan distracting their minds in this stuff!!
    Thanx for making video on this topic i hope that it can b an eye opener for some students & help them to be on right path .

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad you liked it Ayushi😊

  • @sachin4001
    @sachin4001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This guy is former scientist 😂🤣😂

    • @jahnwic
      @jahnwic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣😍

  • @Hi_Mansi
    @Hi_Mansi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +469

    Unexpected topic😂
    Kuch log mst katwa rahe h... hilarious

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Hehehehe... That's my thing... Being unexpected 😁

    • @Ankit-mq6em
      @Ankit-mq6em 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mansi hisab se hahaha

    • @deepak-sr8yz
      @deepak-sr8yz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashishtorq sir plss tell me aapke channel name ka kya mtlb hai.. kuch
      Interesting lg rha h

    • @SumitMishra-bu3ct
      @SumitMishra-bu3ct 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Heehe

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@deepak-sr8yz I've made a video "what does 4712 mean, go through it"

  • @vineethchacha3614
    @vineethchacha3614 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I'm on safe side bro and really enjoyed this video and felt happy that I am having a best half of life and able to go through study also decent manner.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Happy for you bro 😊

    • @vineethchacha3614
      @vineethchacha3614 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashishtorq I I have to say one thing for this girl I have wasted 2 years time during my intermediate and engineering also. But at that time I have excuse to myself about career but now I have to push my back towards Scoring good marks else everything I have imagined will be just broken. And I want all the motivation and dedication towards this.

  • @ervikasbhagat9922
    @ervikasbhagat9922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    '' Career agar kharab hua toh bo tume nhi ayenge bacchaneye''. Best line.

  • @anupamamaurya2512
    @anupamamaurya2512 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm 17and half years old (2020), first attempt of neet. First and second thing exactly happened with me(2019) but may be I learnt so soon in my life and look expected marks in neet 2020 is 684. And the only strategy behind this was ... Meko carrier bnana h uske baad I'll do all this. Totally and literally avoided those dishearted thoughts after continuous 2 breakups.
    Btw I'm your new subscriber on 2 channels💙

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome to the channel😊

    • @Inspectorakvlogs
      @Inspectorakvlogs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ashishtorq
      She was a neet aspirant also. Rejected me previous day...😊
      But you got heartbreak in 17½ years?🙊

  • @shashankb3028
    @shashankb3028 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ye advice sabse important thi ,that how to handle or i can say pyar vs career me kise choose krna h ....thank u for this video
    Lot of them stuck on these situations.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome 😊

    • @shashankb3028
      @shashankb3028 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      U r really awesome 😁

  • @gameryashmandarin
    @gameryashmandarin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I DONT KNOW ABT OTHERS, BUT U THE WAY U HANDLE THE STUDENT PROBLEMS AND GUIDE US IS PHENOMENAL. Pomodoro Schedule
    (30min Study + 10mins Break for your videos)
    THE BEST COMBO WHERE WE SATISFY BOTH HARDWORK AND RELAXATION MIND

  • @vatsalraj8945
    @vatsalraj8945 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    So much thank you sir... This is a really important part which no mentor actually highlights... This is such an honest and real approach by you..🙌🙌🙌

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your welcome bro 😊

  • @215gulivindalaneelima9
    @215gulivindalaneelima9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One thing is very good that he will reply for every comment it is the best quality 👍👍✨

  • @amruthavarshini9433
    @amruthavarshini9433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks a lot ...3 Rd stage completed ..after 2 yrs in engineering preparing for gate Feb 2021 ...u r vedios are amazing ! Loads of love 😍❤️

  • @AnkitKumar-iq3mw
    @AnkitKumar-iq3mw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haan srtuosl bhaiya bht relatable hai mai 11th ka londa hu jo ki isme apna 7 mahine badbad kr chuka hai mai ek bht sushil kanya ki peeche pda hu keh skte hain pr iss vid k baad sb hold ....ar pdhai pe focus only... after clearing jee sb phr wapas lane qqki agr mai uske liya saachi mai important hu toh wait kregi ni toh jae teel lene🥲🙂....nd much love from Bihar ❤️

  • @rishithkumarvogeti3818
    @rishithkumarvogeti3818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Good to hear your brother speech both technical and general topic. Very informative in a cool manner ..😊

  • @akchhitakumari7387
    @akchhitakumari7387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Itna honestly kv koi nh bola..! Sachhi! Thnx bhai!!

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome 😊

  • @safeer6853
    @safeer6853 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    From beginning to end the video is so much fun.😁Enjoyed so much.
    Hats off Ashish..

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks
      Enjoyed making it 😊

  • @rachanakumari5332
    @rachanakumari5332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Mane unaccedmy pr Apka interview dekha, you are great personality

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Rachna😊

  • @gaurav4605
    @gaurav4605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Seedhi sachi baat he
    Pyaar vyar sabh dokha he padhle abhi bhi mauka he.Nhi toh katwa te raho jab tak hosla he😂😂😂.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hehehhe....🤣

  • @neharai4927
    @neharai4927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    As your classmate in b. Tech I know you were really hardworking. But nice talk dude. Both ppl in the relationship should be understanding otherwise everyone is doomed before they pick themselves up from the emotional upheaval. Stay strong guys. Nice talk Ashish

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thanks Neha... Very true 😊
      I know you're speaking by experience 😉

    • @virendrayadav4610
      @virendrayadav4610 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ranjan sir kaha se h?

    • @RamaLakshmiG-wi5rt
      @RamaLakshmiG-wi5rt ปีที่แล้ว

      @@virendrayadav4610 ranchi

  • @arthe_Analyst
    @arthe_Analyst 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's good that you initiated this topic.... it's much needed right now actually....I was also one of them..but now I think have somehow learn to balance these emotions - LOVE & UPSC .. currently preparing for.
    I think not only our names but certainly a lot of things matches between us... looking forward to your new thoughts & experiment..
    Thank you...
    Forgot to add..... love what you are doing...it needs courage & strong mentality to do all these.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks bro 😊

  • @Zwaidmohammad
    @Zwaidmohammad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    main apni jindagi main kisi ka bhi fan nhi hua pr sir u r MY HERO SIR.......

  • @medlifewithshivu2287
    @medlifewithshivu2287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are genius Ashish and I always motivated by your video

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 😊😊👍🏻👍🏻

  • @harshitasharma1544
    @harshitasharma1544 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You are seriously too cute 😅 but more importantly you are my inspiration and I have learned many things from you and now I'm more confident about my dream of becoming an ISRO scientist 😊

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're welcome😊

  • @SatyaPrakash-hp2bx
    @SatyaPrakash-hp2bx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Hariyali dikhi Aur piche pad Gaye.
    It's really funny line😀😀😀
    Pure video me bahut hansi aai yarrr😁😁😁😁

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehehhe...I know 😁

  • @theshadow8900
    @theshadow8900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Most indian kids (teenagers) when they end up at the age of 24, they may have gone through everything essential which our society offers to them or they have achieved a place where they can stand say "okay what I have done is what I wanted now it's time for find a partner and settle down".
    I know most kids end up with as described in first scenario, they get experienced.
    But it's always possible to be wise and chose what's most appropriate thing to do. Sometimes we dont have anyone to guid so we lost touch on things and it leads us to most horrible aspect of life. When you're standing at the cliff, you dont really have any choice to make other than do what is crucial for you and your future. I am 24 years older. i recommend these kids to focus on what they want in life...marriage is not what you think at this age. Life is totally different as you get older. Just keep moving , some days might feel gloomy and terrible but life isnt as bad as you think. Choose wisely be free, make lots of mistakes so you don't forget to learn and live.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @vamshidherramelli4371
    @vamshidherramelli4371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    #3 one of the best video ever,
    need few more capsuls to stable the increased ENTROPY😎

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nice... Technical reference. 😎

    • @vamshidherramelli4371
      @vamshidherramelli4371 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashishtorq thank you scintiest 🙏

  • @NeetJeeNcertBites
    @NeetJeeNcertBites ปีที่แล้ว +2

    While whole video I huge smile just sticked to my lips even though I did not do anything but This power of imagination all that create problems even that person cant even imagine ki sometimes kitna he exist into my mind.
    Thankyou so much I thought ki jo pdhney vale focused log hote h unke ye problems nhi hoti I started doubting on muself but now I know its just part of life, we just don't need to give ot our all attention, & the mistake I did try to supress it my feelings gor someone forcefully is also not great way to deal it, the best way just accept it but don't do any action till youbare in postion ki kl ko dil tuut gya toh psychologisyt, trip ka kharcha hona chahiye 😅.
    Right now I have some mantras I used:
    Whenever I fwel like that
    : I just ask one question to myself shaadi krni h abhi toh jaa bol de, vrna focus on the goal(As I am afraid of marriage I see how it's tied a girl own freedom to decide what see want to do), & also philosphy behind this of mine, Jo chiij kharidni nhi uske dukaan ke bahar khade hokar usey niharana is wate of time
    2.Dil se nhi khelna kisi ke , The boy sees each & every gurl like siddha jaanat se utr ke aye hum is unki habit, dont take that look seriously
    3.Mera dil kamzor h, this games are not for me.
    4.Film line: mujge sirf apna career bnana h itna solid bnana h ki kisi bhi chij ke liye kisi pe depend na rhna pde koi regert nhi rhe jo krna chahti thi vo nhi kr payi
    I did above but all doesnot work well
    The best solution I get now:
    i made lord krishma my crush, I tell my all feelings to him, like he is seeing me & try to not do things which can make him feel bad or jealous I know it stupid sa but thats work for me, ek gopi mein bhi add hogyi unke toh I dont think so he mind❤😅
    Only thing jiska drr h knhi mein serious na ho jaun unko lekr ki inn future mein kisi or ko accept na kr pauun as we girls are emotional fool since childhood 😅 but tb ka tb dekhenge.
    Tum hi tum song reminds me this & I just love this solution.

    • @TIYA-cl2yf
      @TIYA-cl2yf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U share amazing thoughts 🙌🏻
      I have some questions please suggest me: mai 4 din phele relationship Mai aayi phir aaise videos dekh rhi how to manage relationship with study pdhai k time bhi uske bare mai sochna phir sochti thoda text kr lu phir ye sochna ki itne lmbe time tk kya ye long distance relationship chlega wo bhi mai government exam ki preparation start ki hu jo ki bhot important hai meri family k liye papa nhi hai mere so many reasons glti meri hai mujhe relationship Mai aana nhi chahiye but aa gyi hu to kya kru ab

  • @karantamboli9367
    @karantamboli9367 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Going through the 3rd phase.. Thanks for the motivation bro ... Its really helpful...
    You make really amazing videos.. Just keep making the videos.. You inspire us alot....

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your most welcome😊

  • @shivangisrivastava1123
    @shivangisrivastava1123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please bring more such eye opening videos on people ruining career for relationship.

  • @kishorkmrsahu1443
    @kishorkmrsahu1443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I cross third stage
    And now I am focused on gate....
    5 year of my life is totally wasted 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Nice, at least it's only 5 years of your life wasted and not your whole life wasted. 😊

    • @adityajaiswal2696
      @adityajaiswal2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Mera 8 saal waste hua 😂😭😭😭😭😭

    • @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo
      @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      *Mera 6 saal..!!!* 🤣🤣

    • @anoopkumarverma390
      @anoopkumarverma390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sandy-ei4vm 😂😂😂

    • @yinglin6550
      @yinglin6550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME 5 dry years

  • @ady_raut
    @ady_raut 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Bro you motivated me thanks. I am doing job in IT MNC but I don't wanna spend my life in IT.I also wanna do something amazing that people can recognize me.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great bro 😁👍🏻

  • @AbhishekK-hn4gd
    @AbhishekK-hn4gd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yes bro..you are saying the reality bcoz everything is a matter of situation ,time and on priority basis.
    The thing which is an extremely important at first phase need to be achieved first and when goal is achieved..
    Then start on second phase of your life for whatever you are crazy for..😂😂
    given condition fortunately if she/he still there for you...and I think that is the best way one can plan everything in two consecutive phases..that's all!!!

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true brother 😊

  • @nkitaM
    @nkitaM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:28""EXPERIENCE HAI BRO"🔥🔥🔥🔥.. Masallah apki expression.😂

  • @avinashverma2024
    @avinashverma2024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Best line with emotion : wo to chali gayi bhai!!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @bemananamarbachonbhongi657
    @bemananamarbachonbhongi657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you are really honest. i am toouch thankfull to you.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome 😊

  • @BetterSachet
    @BetterSachet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It was lit 😂😂...
    BARC Nikala na maine✋🏻
    ISRO Nikalna maine ✋🏻..
    Truly itna pyaar se koi nahi samajya 😂😂😂thanx Ashish bro

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome😎

  • @bindiyaaabindiyaa6475
    @bindiyaaabindiyaa6475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Aasa halat sirf hamara Bharat desh ka hai"... Sahi pàaakde🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @s.k1127
    @s.k1127 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What about sir 😅 agr r
    everse psychology kaam kr jaye toh kya ktre?
    Jissey avoid krte indirectly notice ho jaatey h, mind mein fight hoti h nhi sochna toh pura aata hii h..
    Meri life ki happy ending mein krungi. it will be a succes story. ❤❤❤

  • @sunainakumari6962
    @sunainakumari6962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Straight forward talking and really this is the best advice...I like it...keep it up👌👍

  • @zoronewbie2759
    @zoronewbie2759 ปีที่แล้ว

    seasonal depression turns volatile; pent up grief towards the indifferent world. Been raised by my single mother[recently been diagnosed w stage 3 cancer] even my beloved who left my deprecated body at shore; convulsed hopelessness, I've even the lost feel of my limbs to stand up back; swimming is a long shot. welp probably u might not see this, I've to Ace my entrance n unable to deplore any chapter in, im tired n struggling/fighting everyday to not kill myself, man im lost; she was my only home.

  • @esiva3952
    @esiva3952 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks bro... I was about to start that journey... But stopped literally after watching your video.. 😁😁... Well I am at my peak of my banking exam .. . May God bless me ... 😄😄😄

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome 😊

  • @prangyapani466
    @prangyapani466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I HV my exams in Feb 2020.. n I just started my preparations ... Going through a bad phase in my life...almost had a breakup... But what you said is all on point... It all depends on us.. no one will care for you, until u do it so... And yes if it's over, then just make him out of your life completely...Ty for Ur suggestions

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome. Glad you understood.

    • @DilipMaurya08
      @DilipMaurya08 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prangya Pani which one IIT-JAM.?

    • @prangyapani466
      @prangyapani466 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DilipMaurya08 yeah...

  • @vaishnavprakash5898
    @vaishnavprakash5898 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your all videos and in just 2 days i have seen most of your videos like whole i see your videos ....It gives me pleasure and you're so cool and Osm and so honest like i have no words for you i would only say you're great and you're the best and i have never seen anyone like you ......but i will try to become like you : )

  • @Rupsachatterjee4321
    @Rupsachatterjee4321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mere sath bhi same thing hua tha bhaiya... Pata hi nhi chal raha tha ki galti kaha kr rhe the... First, second third sem me college topper the hum.. Lekin ek ladki ko sach me pyar kr baithe the.. Obviously it wasn't fruitful..lekin hum abhi wosab situation se nikal chuke hai. And definitely i am going to crack GATE in 3rd year...uski ghar se, upar se wo bhi bohot kuch bolke mereko dukh pauchayi thi... Lekin haan problem uska bhi tha bohot.. Lekin Pehle khud ka career banayenge.. Tab dekhenge... U r my inspiration.. Although I am a civil engineering student, I used to prepare as per ur strategy...

  • @AjayKumar-ob2cn
    @AjayKumar-ob2cn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I watch this more than..10 times again and again... always I get.new lassion..✔️🧡

  • @Daisy_s_pace
    @Daisy_s_pace ปีที่แล้ว

    Knowing all this.. that its all timepass.. it will lead me nowhere i got into a relationship an year back.. the time that relation took was nothing in front of the time wasted after breakup.. its a constant battle going in ur head.. ur thoughts doesnt let u breathe.. i went in depression. And after a long struggle i came back on track after i spoiled my first year .. that all was needed. That hurt, coz I wasn’t at right place. ..
    good video bhaii…
    Also .. i have got a topper in my class and got to know she is in relation since many years😒. Idk how ppl manage

  • @Alfalfa0502
    @Alfalfa0502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Been there, done that. xD
    "Dil cheez kya hai aap mera, career tabah kijiye..." will always happen agar struggling phase mein ye sb chakkar mein pd gye.

  • @DrxShorts01
    @DrxShorts01 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep making videos like this!!❤❤

  • @srushteesawant4983
    @srushteesawant4983 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Imagine having a crush on this guy 😅

  • @ajtiwari7279
    @ajtiwari7279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *200% Shi baat khi Ashish Bhai tmne👌👌

  • @fauziaarshad7650
    @fauziaarshad7650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my God starting line was hilarious....😂😂it made me watch till the end!!

  • @harshdeepsingh4994
    @harshdeepsingh4994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm medical student and totally agree with you.. and it's feels like yhe to mere tarf ka hi hai... To jada relateble lagta hai....

  • @nandinimoviesmaniac3375
    @nandinimoviesmaniac3375 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bt the distractions for me are the dramas' that I watch.. All the stories, fairies. Well I'm far away from these distractions bt I am still watching.
    I got solution even before falling in problem.

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Eliminate them from your life

  • @HarshSharma-uf8jc
    @HarshSharma-uf8jc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think it is the topic which lurks somewhere in our mind, but we are too hesitant 😂

  • @RakeshKumar-ro3ws
    @RakeshKumar-ro3ws 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for share your experience

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome 😊

  • @akatsukigaming18
    @akatsukigaming18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bhaiya....class 12th k bad
    1) pyar chor ke chala gya...
    2) best friend ko iiser Mil gya ab vo mujhse bat nhi karti ...
    3) jee mains me 88% tile aya iit kya nit bhi nhi ho paya
    4) guilt and regrets se khatam ho ja rhi hu main
    5) parents upset hae itni investment ke bad bhi kuch na ukhar pyi....kuch kmi nhi chore the ...Maine misuse kiya....
    6) itni sharam arhi hae ki Maine kisi bhi school friends se connection nhi rakha ...unko accha college mil gya..
    Iit was my dream since class 9th...is fake relationship me itna time invest kar diya ke iit gawa diya

  • @002012syedsaim
    @002012syedsaim 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Greatly inspired by this video, that girl ruined my whole night... I was calling her continuously ,texting her till 5 in the morning...
    But she didn't care, I had to study the whole day... Thanks brother for making this video..

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you learned

  • @PapuaCold
    @PapuaCold ปีที่แล้ว

    why is he alwys so relatable yaaaaaaar 😭😭

  • @triptirbauddh2003
    @triptirbauddh2003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Kuch log toh mast katwa rahe hai 😂😂😂.
    Are are bhaiya.. Hadd se jyada mja aaya.. Gajab bolte ho 🤣🤣🤣.

  • @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo
    @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    *Suddenly I hear after seeing the thumbnail....*
    *Kuch log to mast katwa rahe hai.....*
    *I was laughing like hell..!!!* 😂😂
    *And last one was epic..... Experience hai broooo..!!*
    *Take a bow sir...!!!*

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😁🤘

    • @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo
      @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashishtorq *Sir i want to meet you after clearing upsc cse..!!!*
      *Because you are my inspiration and mentor too..!!!*

  • @technokartik
    @technokartik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bhai kya video B'nai hai apne...gajab ...me to fan ho gya tumhara...

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehehehe.... Thanks Kartik, jo experience kia vo bol dia

  • @Aviyanshsarma
    @Aviyanshsarma 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir mne apka video kush tym phle dekha tha
    Jab ma relationship ma thi
    Aur aab mra breakup bi ho gya ha
    To mujhe dukh hua
    Isliye mne yh video dubra dekha
    Thnkz for your guidence❤️

  • @AshishGupta-be2yz
    @AshishGupta-be2yz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a topic sir ji💯

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Ashish 😊

  • @adarshkumarkr
    @adarshkumarkr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just needed this video 😂
    Thank God
    I am not in relationship
    Now I can focus on goals ☺️

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re most welcome 😁

  • @harshalichitre4696
    @harshalichitre4696 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    See its simple logic , agar sach mein pyaar hai toh he/she will wait till ur entrance and selection is over. If he/she cannot wait, then just understand its timepass. Baadme BARC/ISRO and other prestigious positions Milne ke baad we can get more avenues on this front...

  • @iamraushan-s3s
    @iamraushan-s3s 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aap Ka ye video mujhe Positive thinking de rha hai😍😍

  • @ankurvishwakarma5513
    @ankurvishwakarma5513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bro I am in the third category 😅.
    I am preparing for UPSC CSE... I am focused now towards my goal...

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good bro 👍🏻

  • @SwatiTiwari-oi7kx
    @SwatiTiwari-oi7kx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this was great i m not into this stuff but watched this as facing issues like attraction with someone

  • @ashishbhaskarak5029
    @ashishbhaskarak5029 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So relatible video Ashish sir...you guiding like friend I mean funtastic .. thanks.

  • @ManishKumar-xb1fi
    @ManishKumar-xb1fi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    intresting to listen ur experince, mine story is similar to urs again and agian falling in a relationship and ruining my time but now i am stable i need not any giri until i am satisfied with my carrer, right now i have a job in indian railway and preparing for isro - jan 2020 exam.. u r champ bro...

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes 😁👍🏻

  • @akankshajoshi5367
    @akankshajoshi5367 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hehe.. ISRO, I. S. R. O. ho gya.. really nice that you take the feedback effectively. :D
    And also..the video is too good and topic is also the uncommonly common one.😁 Glad that someone came up with it. Thankyou. :)

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome 😊

  • @Adarshxojha
    @Adarshxojha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir aap lagbhag sbhi logo k comment ka jwab dete h.
    Thanq you very much sir aap hamlogo k liye itna time nikalte h👍👍love from BIHAR💓💓💛💖

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome bro.
      Love to Bihar♥️

    • @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo
      @LOKESHKUMAR-sg3bo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashishtorq *Are you from bihar..????* 🤨🤨

  • @RohitYadav-dg2of
    @RohitYadav-dg2of 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Amazing video sir...
    But plz make a video regarding standard books for ese plus gate and questions.
    Nice video

  • @mohnishshukla9600
    @mohnishshukla9600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks bhai 👍🏻.
    Best practical advice.

  • @forest9682
    @forest9682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a very true vedio and experience...people should take lessons from this...Nd this phase of yours was also very perfect 😎as always....And funny also..😃
    Aise hi motivate rahe dhanyawaad....🤗😍

    • @ashishtorq
      @ashishtorq  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure... Thanks Shreya😊

    • @forest9682
      @forest9682 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My pleasure....😊

  • @rashminaphade223
    @rashminaphade223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My partner is very understanding 🥰 he is may inspiration for my ies study