when she says “on the days that I really wanna forgive you I think about all the other girls touching you and honestly it’s left me with some body issues” I felt that
Being cheated on is one of my worst fears. Giving in all your time, love, and soul to one person just to be betrayed. I pray that whoever is going through this is strong and this makes me so sad and scared to fall in love.
Vanessa Villagrana trust me it’s not fun being cheated on.im still getting over my ex who cheated on me but when I see pictures of him and his new girl it brings back memories
Vanessa Villagrana I was cheated on by someone I supported and did everything for for 5 years. And believe me, it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Best thing that ever happened to me. Just always have it in the back of your mind. Everyone is an individual with the capability to be disloyal. Also, make sure you love yourself and put yourself first. Once you can do that, you can coast thru anything. Once that relationship was over, I got into another relationship that was much better and more passionate than the one that ended. Don’t give up 👍🏾
Vanessa Villagrana I hate to say this but sometimes being cheated on benefits you cos a veil lifts off your face and you realize the world isn’t a fantasy land. It will also teach you a lot about yourself and a lot about relationships. Being cheated on can be a blessing.
Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
That voice, the depth of her soul. Wow, nothing can piss on this song. Beautifully expressed. Boi, if I could sing I wouldn't have taken her golf clubs an wrote it in our convertable. Bahaha! I'm good. I should have wrote a song an sold the car. This voice, this song. Chills when I heard it.
I'm a Marine Corps veteran, and a guy, and while I was deployed my (now ex) wife was unfaithful for a year, maybe more. One of the lowest points of my life, the thoughts consume you. This song hits home so thank you.
I'm sorry for what you've been throught..you deserve better and I hope you find the strenght to realise a real woman wouldn't do it to her husband, especially when he is away working his ass off for his country and to make sure her ass have everything she needs at home. And I hope you fine the strenght to find love again to fall in.love like it is the first time in your life xxx
Anyone else feel like they want to cuddle up w her drink wine and cry together? Edit: when she said “I wish I should’ve shown up late” to spare the heartache... I felt that !
Same! After my boyfriend cheated on me I left him, but he came back and I don’t know how I feel cause I’ve gotten to the point where when he threatens to leave I no longer cry over him but I honestly think about how different everything would be if I just missed that moment and never met him
"Jealousy was never something i believed in. Till u let random girls in the bed i sleep in" i can relate to a lot of what u've said 💔.. this entire song is touching my heart,it gave me chills~ . Ps the way this video was made from the intro till the end is just so unique and different. keep on doing what u're doing and what makes u happy u have such a beautiful voice~💕
Same girl, I was never a jealous person until my ex made me feel that way by giving others what should have been reserved for me...then I went through a huge spiral....still feel like a broken person
I’ve been struggling with this for five years for someone who doesn’t deserve it. Thank you for sharing this. It meant the world to me knowing I’m not the only one.
Same... but unfortunately we are the majority, not the minority. Youve got this girl!!! Keep pushing forward, i know it feels like your soul is imploding and you're too scarred to survive or find contentment much less happiness but keep going... you'll find it in yourself, not in someone else. ❤ Im so sorry you're having to go through this. I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. Its debilitating but when you finally reach the other side where your thoughts dont betray your needs and linger back to him incessantly, when you see him and feel nothing, IT FEELS AMAZING haha & you'll get there, i promise. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. Broken trust and constant paranoia drove me to places i thought id never go and whilst there i thought id never find myself again. Took some time but i got there... never doubt yourself or the fact that you deserve better.
I have been going through this too for many years; met him when I was 15. I'm in my 40's now. Big problem is he wouldn't know the truth or admit it if it was on video 😥
My boyfriend of 2 years I found cheating on me 2 months ago. And although I am finding amazing people it does feel wrong going on dates with other people. Although we broke up and I have no desire to get back with him I guess I spent so much time with him and my love and loyalty remains with him. Thank you for giving me something to relate to Update: I’ve managed to genuinely tell him I don’t want him anymore. What he did hurt me a lot but I’m moving on with my life and found someone. It looks promising. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings. Take time to heal but remember it’s not forever. You’ll find something healthier and gain your confidence and self love again❤️ ANOTHER UPDATE: He left me for someone else. Just love yourself.
My ex also cheated on me after being together almost for 3 and he lied to me when I would confront him. He would have different girls while being with me, and after I broke up with him he would call me rude names and made me feel like it was my fault but now I’m working on myself only☺️
Stumbled across this song on my homepage and I am so glad I did. It resonates with me so damn much. It’s been 18 months since my ex and I broke up after he cheated on me. I still think about him daily. Thank you for this song, Lacy.
AshleeWhatevs YES!!!! SOOOO much easier hun, just have to give yourself the time and allow yourself to go through the motions. Also, talk and think about him as much as you need to. That’s important, it’s part of the healing. And one day you’ll just wake up and it won’t hurt as much anymore. The scar will still be there, but it won’t hurt to touch. When that day comes, it’s a great feeling. You got this ❤️ and remember - ITS NOT YOUR FAULT ❤️
I have never commented on a youtube video before, but I just have to because this is one of the most beautiful and raw music videos I have ever seen. Really happy this came up in my recommended, the lyrics are so relatable it is genius how you described the feeling of a new break up.
„sometimes I wish I would’ve shown up late“ is what’s most relatable to me. Like showing up late would’ve spared me lot of heartache 😫 Great song, keep going
My ex of going on 9 yrs, snapped, AND was not who I met at all!! Got in trouble, was gone about4 yrs, left on baaddd termsz,& said we r not the same ,ill give u one more chance, but he took more than 9 lives, 500 chances & more,pre.meditated getting revenge on me csuse I didn't stay by him, 4 one never thought that I WOULD finally have had enough, as in the passed b4 I met him! I cannot believe he & others underistmated my life AND intelect,also, known that I was only one there ever after he was disowned by his mom @9, AND had bad abusive childhood, & blood siblings COULDN'T stand 4 him 2 be happy,,sooo @ court for taking blame for brother judge says stay away from ur brothers AND I saw the signs too, & one had obsession over me,AND was trying to come between ,he didnt believe!! I had finally decided to stay away, my self esteem was better, had health ISSUES that were brought on from STRESS from him,& cut him out, unless he proved difff, but my Aunt has bad binge drinking AND refuses 2 show my grandparents will, estates , bank accounts left for her oldest heir,AND my deasceased mother's half,AND my share,& my greatgranmother,too left me bonds,& im thinking funds to have at certain age,.& other bonds,disapeared that i had to sign, cashing a few for vacation $$, my whole life she has kept family srcrets AND was drunk, telling me I had an annuity too!! I never knew, she said a lot I never knew until passed 2 yrs! AND I have had chest pains& stress soo much , prob silent heart attacks , she stressed my Gran into early grave in 1992, AND tried to boss my mother soooo much she had enough, Idk what toxicology sayys ,but @17,, I had intuition something life changing was about to happen, 1st my Father fell @ a local grocery,AND shattered hip& pelvis region,AND i was @ work,AND got to take off early,AND go pick my gramma up, AND rush to regional er, he had tears pouring out, it had been long enough to realize no hear trauma, snuck into room nurses AND doc were discussing sit. & begged plz ive never seen my father tears of horrible physical pain , & duh no head injury onway to er knew cause was left in produce 45 mins b4 anyone acknowledged he slipped on Their property,,so relieved him some pain, but I was worried about him staying @ bad rep. Hosp that told gramma in 90s. Idk if i put ur husband back properly durin suergery early 90's. Luckily it was outta of their realm such intricate surgery AND rushed to wayyy more professional one overnight, so I could worry y momz phn was off ringer, gramma taking care of dad, didn't wanna bother anyone coming out of town to be there for gramma,(I shoulda, & feel horrible,), but knew that something wasn't right my FRIEND stsyed night & her & I both said shes dead,in her apt. Dead, y WOULD her only sister not get fire dept., national guard kick door open, I was 17,, I would have done welfare check but didnt know , i could have done that!! I was right, I had tried to visit my father & after gonna run to find my mother,had a key,but @17, my then (abusive everway imaginable was selfish AND had baaad prob with drugs,but I didnt know cause,covered well, we were first loves,but he took some of his momz nerve medicines,& anthing else,im sure,cause he turned into raging.alchoholic, but not a drop of alcohol AND didn't take all this SERIOUSLY, so I left visting father in tractions, AND had planned on checking on mom b4 but ahole drove there& was going to leave me stressed sbout my mom,& told him night b4 days b4,& was trying to ask patients leaving he had $2000 thought he was partying, cause he thought/in an unrealistic frame of mind, & WOULD let him drive my car to go on crazy part of town to get robbed, shot, put me in danger & ask for random drugs he had never seen & overdose!! I had list of stuuff i was going to bring my father , thought I WOULD be able to leave, or ride 25 minz or least to get my mother , i knew I WOULDa been able to save her or have closure!! He refused WOULDNT shut up take me home repeatedly like a 2 yr old,AND about wrecked us. STOPPED ME FROM MY DADS NEEDED HELP, & SAVING MOM. I WAS FURIOUS WITH HIM, & CRIED SO MUCH HE DIDNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!! AROUND 2-3PM ,.2 days later maybe3, AUNTS NAME IS ON CALLER ID 2ND RING 3RD,I PICKEP UP "SHES DEAD CAME OUT" yes drunken aunt responds,I was in shock,,so I was luckily with sober boyfriend AND another couple I was close tooo, so this was 17 yrs ago, weird how aunt never said what toxicology report said , in drunken slurr said she's gone!!she'd been so mean, I COULDN'T deal with her&mom supposedly was dead around 48 hours in time frame id been trying to get her,,,to check. 1hour 15-20 to her residence,especially unfamiliar, with area & hosp dad was @ & 1 hour 15-30 minz depending on traffic, I think @ times didn't my girlfriend & I have gone see 1st night,,dad was taken to hosp., CHRIS WAS AHOLE,HE BLEW ME OFF SO HE COULD USE.SHOCKED I WAS OFF EARLY,& HE WAS AVOIDING ME, BESTFRIEND WAS 19,,ALMOST 20, IM 17, AND WE WERE WORRIED, & THOUGHT SHE SINCERELY IS WORRIED TOO , BEEN BLOWING HER ONLY SIS. MY ONLY siblingTO MOM passed!!
Thanks to your response to this song it is now available everywhere (Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon, iTunes)!! Y’all have made me feel so loved, heard, understood, empowered, & GRATEFUL. can we all drink Malbec & cry happy tears plz??? 😭😂
Thank you for making this song possible, I got cheated but still haven't had that closure. Stay strong! Keep looking forward. You have a bright future and a voice.
Heard this when it first came out and loved it.....played it everyday for weeks. Well done. Amazing how we put trust in someone and we even feel loved when all we got is played. U r beautiful, don't look back
Verse 1 You told me people can only fall in love once Then you told me you loved me, after 2 months So i just assumed I was the one Jealousy was something i never believed in Till you let random girls in the bed that I sleep in And i still wonder why i didn’t leave then Pre-chorus It’ll be 3 year in, 3 days since I met you at the opry backstage Leaning against that doorway Sometimes i wish i would’ve shown up late Chorus I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one Still it don’t really feel like this is done When i’m out here on dates Tryna find new love, find new love Yeah it’s been a month or 2 Since we said that we were through So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you? Cheating on you, you Verse 2 Aint moved on in case things have changed at all I still talk to your cousin and your sister in-law I know they probably wondering what’s going on On the days that I really wanna forgive you I think about all the other girls touching you And honestly it’s left me with some body issues Pre-chorus Now I’m, blank staring at some new face Can’t help but compare everything I’m sure your at some chick’s place Doing what you do with no shame Chorus I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one Still it don’t really feel like this is done When i’m out here on dates Tryna find new love, find new love Yeah it’s been a month or 2 Since we said that we were through So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you? Cheating on you, you Bridge Thing is when I look back U always need control And now I see that You just want to make me feel bad And it’s kinda working aint that sad Chorus I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one Still it don’t really feel like this is done When i’m out here on dates Tryna find new love, find new love Yeah it’s been a month or 2 Since we said that we were through So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you? Cheating on you, you Cheating on you, you
When I heard this song, it brought me back to a place in my life years ago when I stayed with an unfaithful partner. I think this song encapsulates the feeling so well and does it so vividly. It’s ironic how they’re the ones cheating constantly and with no remorse, yet even when we’re broken up, we constantly feel guilty for being with someone else. Even though we weren’t the ones who cheated. It just goes to show how if we can feel guilt despite being faithful, how ruthless someone is when they cheat and with no remorse at all.
So true everything you said. Bottom line is we feel like we are cheating moving on after they cheated on us is because we really loved and the one that cheated didnt at all it was a total facade a lie from the beginning. Karma is a bitch tho. Time helps the moving on process where you dont feel like your cheating anymore its been almost 7 mon for me and its gotten alot easier to date at the 6 mon but it still bothers me a little. He cheated and knocked his mistress up and this happened after he almost died in a motorcycle accident 2 yrs ago and i had to quit my career and do in home care 24 hrs a day for him he was in a hospital bed and in a wheel chair for 5 months i wiped his ass even. For a year i helped him to walk again and he cheats on me and knocks her up takes her to church twice a wk as a married man and then gets her a huge home. Yeah fuck love is what i say!
@@toshiapallesen9152 oh gosh, that sounds so emotionally taxing to go through especially after everything you sacrificed for him. you're strong and i'm glad you're healing
Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
Vortex_wolf I like this 😊 I wrote a song called *Wanted* by ninanile. I hope you enjoy the song, share it and subscribe to my channel. I’m an aspiring artist. This would mean a lot to me ✨
The saddest, most real, I have heard for a while... I Love the video it literally makes me cry Everytime, not in a bad way, but kinda... Still Inspirational 💛
I first listened to this song a year ago I must’ve liked the way it sounded. A year ago I had never been cheated on, fast forward to now and this song resonates so deeply with me. I’m so happy I came across this again.
You go girl! We've all had a toxic ex that made their actions seem smaller than they are. Keep writing, your voice is beautiful and the lyrics are amazing.
Your voice is so unique and beautiful and this song is so raw, emotional and is a legit jam. I love it. You should not have felt ashamed or weird about releasing this! It’s SO good.
Ok, I am officially responsible for at least 1K of these views! This is a masterpiece. The song & lyrics coupled with your mannerisms is the outward expression of what's been so hard for me to articulate for years. I feel this deeply and it is staying on repeat. Thank you for your art Lacy.
Every woman that has experienced a 1st love, can relate to this song! Thanks for sharing! The reason you care, is because you still have love for him. Your 1st really does stick FOREVER! Your beautiful! God Bless!
On that note- you can & WILL move on to BIGGER & BETTER! I waited for my 1st love for almost a decade.. true story! My now husband, is my everything. I prayed for him for 3 years. God answered every single request (in HIS own ways) I couldn't be happier. I honestly thought I was meant to be alone forever & I was OK with it. He got married & had a family. I was still single just "trying out" different guys. I told God, if my forever was REAL, I wanted this&this& that. I made a list, if God didn't meet the asking price, I was OK with being alone. God put this AMAZING man in my life, gave me everything I asked for (in unexpected ways) I never thought I could ever love MORE than I loved my 1st love. Boy! was I wrong! I am so madly in love with my now husband. I do think of MY 1ST LOVE. But I just really wish him happiness & light full of life, but my hubby is who I pray for most. He is my everything! There is LOVE & LIFE after your first love! ❤❤ I PROMISE! Give it to your Creator, He knows you better than you know YOU! He has your FOREVER waiting for you in the PERFECT timing. Trust in Him& He WILL DELIVER! This is my LOVE story! Hope to encourage someone & challenge God, he knows you better than you know YOU! Trust in HIM! He wants you to be in LOVE & to be LOVED! He delivered my prince charming! It took over a decade, but he DELIVERED & I have never been happier! Jesus is LORD! AMEN!!!!
"I wish i didn't feel like you are the one." .... was stack in this feeling two years after it ended when i found him with some other lady. Gosh... what a beautiful song. Thank you.
“Ain’t moved on in case things change at all” I’ve never related to anything more. Piece of advice: move on and find the happiness you deserve. They’ll realize the mistake they made one day (and annoyingly try to come back🤦🏼♀️)
I know what that's like the was with my baby's momma for 11 years and she started disappearing then ended it by texting and saying she had feelings for someone else . I am poor but have never stoled lied or cheated and I was letting her rob me blind of my paycheck every week from my job
This vid was in my feed and I was curious! After I heard the song I felt so surprised. I might not know you, but this song is really good. It is different from the songs these days and the lyrics are filled with emotion. I am fan!
This is exactly what I feel like...I really feel like this song is written for me... This is exactly my story!! You've done a great job Lacy. I felt like it was straight from your heart and that could be seen.. It's beautiful!
Why is my heart breaking 😭💔 “been a month or two since we said we’re through, why does it feel like I’m cheating on you” truly loving someone sucks !!!
Don't take into unborn days all the ill from days gone by, smile and run into life for the unknown people and pleasures yet to arrive. From all the pain and tears we are afflicted with in those younger years, we often find clarity without regret in a happier place just a little further down the road. From our learning by ache, the reward for our hurt is the wisdom we gain and the love we find which is more amazing than any before... Best Wishes.
this is amazing. my boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago now and i still feel bad for wanting to like someone else. these feelings are all too familiar but your voice is beautiful! thank you for being open and sharing, especially in a song. you have a beautiful voice xx
I felt like that at first too! But being away from him has made me a stronger person and I’m in love with who I am now not who I was a couple months ago when he left me ❤️
I started listening to this song April of 2019. I still can't stop getting emotional every time I play this song. I hope I can find a karaoke version of this song of yours.
@Kim Gow even if she wasn't beautiful.. she deserves everything. everyone with a good heart does. its no about whether or not someones beautiful.. everyone deserves something special.
This song...I dont even know where to begin. I have been going through it with my husband and I splitting up not too long ago and this song hit the nail on the head of my feelings. I love it!
I just heard this song. And its so nice to know I'm not the only one struggling to move on. Its been about 1 1/2 since we ended things. After 4 1/2 years and 2 amazing kids together we ended things. And its been so hard to date and not compare him to everyone. And having to see him every couple of days to pick up our kids it feels like the knife in my heart gets pushed in a little deeper.
Y'all girls in these comments talking about your experiences are heartbreaking!! Idk who needs to hear this but GIRL YOU GOT THIS YOU'RE STRONG AND YOU'RE WORTHY. keep. Doing you bbyg, no man is worth your precious tears 💟!!!!
This video popped up on my recommended and I’m glad it did! This song is so raw and beautiful, great job with it and thank you for sharing something so personal that is actually really relatable! Love it 💜
Girl I have been trying to put into words what you just sang to how I feel every day for the last 3.5 years with my man. I feel so broken. We’ve both have seen other people and have lied and hurt one another. Though he is constantly pointing fingers, telling me what I’m always doing wrong and what I need to do to fix us. Beg for his forgiveness as though he’s been perfect. Last two weeks I’ve just needed him and or even a friend. A best friend or a relationship that wants to build us up or build me up individually making me feel more secure about myself. But this guy constantly puts me down to the point I feel helpless and lifeless. He only does something nice for me if he reeps the benefits. I’m beyond broken and battling for my life. I am in addictive addiction and just want to live. Why can’t I let a guy like this go...? When we are a part I’ve met amazing men who want to give me the world and make me feel like I’m the most beautiful woman in the world. But being with them even though I am single. I’m out of my mind feeling guilty as though I’m cheating On him. When he is out doing the exact same with multiple girls playing each other. Glad I’m not alone... sorry to ramble but thanks for reading this. I’m desperate for help. Suggestions please
There will come a time when enough is enough my dear and you will have that strength to move on. It may not be now and it could take a few years but at some point you will have that courage to finally walk away. Its taken me 7 years including a year of being married, to finally find the courage and the strength to walk away from something that could have killed me. It hasnt been easy at all but with love and support from the people that care about you, its bearable and you can be at peace.
16yrs and a young handsome 15yr old son later, the woman I swore to God I would love and respect through good times and bad through sickness and in health walked away.. she can act so strong and independent and proud of herself! While she rides her high horse she overlooks the 8 other cowards she chased around for temporary satisfaction while having a family at home begging for an ounce of what others are given free of charge. ( the one who knows that enough is enough will always have enough!
This is now like my 20th time listening and watching this and I love it more and more each time!! It must have taken so much bravery to put a song this real out there and I just want to say you officially have me as a fan for life! Your talent is undeniable!! Great job Lacy!!
Whoever broke your heart caused you to make amazing songs so im happy for that. Not the fact that he cheated and was a control freak but the fact that it made you create an amazing song.
I think I've probably written like 2 comments on TH-cam in my entire life, but this song has moved me to write you! This song and video are so beautiful, so raw, so humanizing. So many parts of this song hit home for me, as I know it did with so many other girls. Thank you for putting into words things that I've never been able to. This song truly encompasses the magic of songwriting and music. This is a #1!
You made me tear up, I have never felt more connected and witnessed something so pure and raw. You are 100% perfect as you are, you bring a realness into this world with your music and I hope more and more people start seeing the full potential of what you do. You are a rock star and a role model ❤ Thank you for just being you and taking the pain of the past and turning it into something beautiful and meaningful. You are the best, I hope you have a great day/night and realize just how amazing you are. #keeponsinging 💖❤❣
Omg 😮 I am so glad you did the intro for some of the backstory and that song just touched my soul you have a beautiful voice I’m kind of going through the same thing right now
If those first lyrics didn't just send me into a blank stare of memories I wish I hadn't triggered. Giiirl. Amazing song. Captured that feeling way too well.
I seriously love this song! I keep replaying it over and over. Tears keeps running down my cheek. Apparently I’m still with my baby daddy who cheated on me before I was pregnant and even through my whole pregnancy. Right now I’m still confused why I’m still with him.. I deserve so much more. Listening to this song is opening my eyes. Thanks for this song! 🙏🏼❤️
when she says “on the days that I really wanna forgive you I think about all the other girls touching you and honestly it’s left me with some body issues” I felt that
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Yeahh so painful 😖
YES. chills
Damn
That lyric gets me every single time
"and still I wonder why I didn't leave then" is such an honest but painful line
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It really is. 5 years I stayed even after the abuse.
@@lacycavalier just found ur music n love it❤️
@@hannahfowble9496I heard this song four years ago and I stayed.. regretfully 😢 I left but came back
@@hannahfowble9496my hurts for you I pray you heal 🩶❤️🩹😭
Being cheated on is one of my worst fears. Giving in all your time, love, and soul to one person just to be betrayed. I pray that whoever is going through this is strong and this makes me so sad and scared to fall in love.
If that's always in the back of your mind you need to somehow get over it there's no relationship without trust!
Vanessa Villagrana trust me it’s not fun being cheated on.im still getting over my ex who cheated on me but when I see pictures of him and his new girl it brings back memories
Vanessa Villagrana I was cheated on by someone I supported and did everything for for 5 years. And believe me, it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Best thing that ever happened to me. Just always have it in the back of your mind. Everyone is an individual with the capability to be disloyal. Also, make sure you love yourself and put yourself first. Once you can do that, you can coast thru anything. Once that relationship was over, I got into another relationship that was much better and more passionate than the one that ended. Don’t give up 👍🏾
Vanessa Villagrana I hate to say this but sometimes being cheated on benefits you cos a veil lifts off your face and you realize the world isn’t a fantasy land. It will also teach you a lot about yourself and a lot about relationships. Being cheated on can be a blessing.
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“Jealousy was never something I believed in ...until you let random girls in the bed I sleep in ...” I felt this part of the song so deeply.😕
Change the words from girls to guys. Hits hard for me:(
Definitely felt been there unfortunately the bed the car we share every thing beyond hurtful 💔
The one time I will thank TH-cam for putting this on my recommendations ! Beautiful!
same
thanks so much 🖤
Perfect!
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Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
this song is going to change youre life. I am in love w you and this song.
thank u so much ❤️
OMG Karlie
THATS HOT
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Not gonna lie I was skeptic cause of the title but I stg I wasn’t ready for this heartache 😭
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@@lacycavalier your pretty
I think ur beautiful
@@puipui_ralte swear to god
That voice, the depth of her soul. Wow, nothing can piss on this song. Beautifully expressed. Boi, if I could sing I wouldn't have taken her golf clubs an wrote it in our convertable. Bahaha! I'm good. I should have wrote a song an sold the car. This voice, this song. Chills when I heard it.
Hearing this 3 yrs later still gets me in my feelings love her voice
I'm a Marine Corps veteran, and a guy, and while I was deployed my (now ex) wife was unfaithful for a year, maybe more. One of the lowest points of my life, the thoughts consume you. This song hits home so thank you.
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CallOfDuty4Fr3ak
Mate I know what your going throw 😢
Please keep strong
CallOfDuty4Fr3ak I’m so sorry
I'm sorry for what you've been throught..you deserve better and I hope you find the strenght to realise a real woman wouldn't do it to her husband, especially when he is away working his ass off for his country and to make sure her ass have everything she needs at home. And I hope you fine the strenght to find love again to fall in.love like it is the first time in your life xxx
Sending Prayers! God's love is the only love that has never ever failed me. I hope he heals and restores all your hopes and dreams. ❤❤❤❤🙏
Anyone else feel like they want to cuddle up w her drink wine and cry together?
Edit: when she said “I wish I should’ve shown up late” to spare the heartache...
I felt that !
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Me! God, it's been a year since me and my ex, of 8 years, spilt up and this song is making me cry!
Same! After my boyfriend cheated on me I left him, but he came back and I don’t know how I feel cause I’ve gotten to the point where when he threatens to leave I no longer cry over him but I honestly think about how different everything would be if I just missed that moment and never met him
"Jealousy was never something i believed in. Till u let random girls in the bed i sleep in" i can relate to a lot of what u've said 💔.. this entire song is touching my heart,it gave me chills~ . Ps the way this video was made from the intro till the end is just so unique and different. keep on doing what u're doing and what makes u happy u have such a beautiful voice~💕
thanks so much 🖤
I going through this right now ...
Same girl, I was never a jealous person until my ex made me feel that way by giving others what should have been reserved for me...then I went through a huge spiral....still feel like a broken person
Me either that verse hit me the hardest bc I've never been jealous I hate what hes done to me, changed me
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I’ve been struggling with this for five years for someone who doesn’t deserve it. Thank you for sharing this. It meant the world to me knowing I’m not the only one.
Same... but unfortunately we are the majority, not the minority. Youve got this girl!!! Keep pushing forward, i know it feels like your soul is imploding and you're too scarred to survive or find contentment much less happiness but keep going... you'll find it in yourself, not in someone else. ❤ Im so sorry you're having to go through this. I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. Its debilitating but when you finally reach the other side where your thoughts dont betray your needs and linger back to him incessantly, when you see him and feel nothing, IT FEELS AMAZING haha & you'll get there, i promise. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. Broken trust and constant paranoia drove me to places i thought id never go and whilst there i thought id never find myself again. Took some time but i got there... never doubt yourself or the fact that you deserve better.
I have been going through this too for many years; met him when I was 15. I'm in my 40's now. Big problem is he wouldn't know the truth or admit it if it was on video 😥
This song captures the emotions women feel in this situation perfectly. It’s quickly become an all time favorite of mine.
thanks so much 🖤
Not just women. Men too.
I felt this and am a man
Men feel the same way, at least when they actually have a heart and some kind of feels for their former significant other.
My boyfriend of 2 years I found cheating on me 2 months ago. And although I am finding amazing people it does feel wrong going on dates with other people. Although we broke up and I have no desire to get back with him I guess I spent so much time with him and my love and loyalty remains with him. Thank you for giving me something to relate to
Update: I’ve managed to genuinely tell him I don’t want him anymore. What he did hurt me a lot but I’m moving on with my life and found someone. It looks promising. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings. Take time to heal but remember it’s not forever. You’ll find something healthier and gain your confidence and self love again❤️
ANOTHER UPDATE:
He left me for someone else. Just love yourself.
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Like Steve Harvey said...”all men can change and all men will change but they’ll only change for one.” He wasn’t the one.
I feel you. And I know how that feels.
nadia daniella mine cheated on me with his sister
My ex also cheated on me after being together almost for 3 and he lied to me when I would confront him. He would have different girls while being with me, and after I broke up with him he would call me rude names and made me feel like it was my fault but now I’m working on myself only☺️
Read the title, and then actually listened to it and this was not what I was expecting. Made me cry like a baby #relatable
Omg me too
thank u!! 🖤🖤
Kaieleah Bullock exact same thing I was thinking! 😭
Back here after 4 years, n it still went on repeat, her voice bruh...❤
I’m not sure how I ended up here, but I’m glad I did. On repeat !
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Stumbled across this song on my homepage and I am so glad I did. It resonates with me so damn much. It’s been 18 months since my ex and I broke up after he cheated on me. I still think about him daily. Thank you for this song, Lacy.
Thanks so much ❤️
Rachel Leyshon Does it every get better? 😢
AshleeWhatevs YES!!!! SOOOO much easier hun, just have to give yourself the time and allow yourself to go through the motions. Also, talk and think about him as much as you need to. That’s important, it’s part of the healing. And one day you’ll just wake up and it won’t hurt as much anymore. The scar will still be there, but it won’t hurt to touch. When that day comes, it’s a great feeling. You got this ❤️ and remember - ITS NOT YOUR FAULT ❤️
Rachel Leyshon I’m so sorry sweetie ❣️
Heeeyy, I feel you. It's been four years since we broke up, and I still haven't moved on
omg this is fricken incredible. wow.
thank u 🖤🖤
“so why does it feel like I’m cheating on you”when you cheated on me.
it’s so relatable it hurts me even more.
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lacycavalier I love your music❤️
I have never commented on a youtube video before, but I just have to because this is one of the most beautiful and raw music videos I have ever seen. Really happy this came up in my recommended, the lyrics are so relatable it is genius how you described the feeling of a new break up.
thank u so much ❤️
Vanessa Bunag right!!
„sometimes I wish I would’ve shown up late“ is what’s most relatable to me. Like showing up late would’ve spared me lot of heartache 😫
Great song, keep going
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I have mutual feelings about that. Wish I would have been late.
😰😥😪😫😓😭😭😭😭😢😤🤯🤮🤬👿🙇♀️🙇♂️🙇♀️🙇♂️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤷♀️💀💀🙀😿😧😨😩🤯😬😰😱🤒🤒🤒🤒🤒🤒
My ex of going on 9 yrs, snapped, AND was not who I met at all!! Got in trouble, was gone about4 yrs, left on baaddd termsz,& said we r not the same ,ill give u one more chance, but he took more than 9 lives, 500 chances & more,pre.meditated getting revenge on me csuse I didn't stay by him, 4 one never thought that I WOULD finally have had enough, as in the passed b4 I met him! I cannot believe he & others underistmated my life AND intelect,also, known that I was only one there ever after he was disowned by his mom @9, AND had bad abusive childhood, & blood siblings COULDN'T stand 4 him 2 be happy,,sooo @ court for taking blame for brother judge says stay away from ur brothers AND I saw the signs too, & one had obsession over me,AND was trying to come between ,he didnt believe!! I had finally decided to stay away, my self esteem was better, had health ISSUES that were brought on from STRESS from him,& cut him out, unless he proved difff, but my Aunt has bad binge drinking AND refuses 2 show my grandparents will, estates , bank accounts left for her oldest heir,AND my deasceased mother's half,AND my share,& my greatgranmother,too left me bonds,& im thinking funds to have at certain age,.& other bonds,disapeared that i had to sign, cashing a few for vacation $$, my whole life she has kept family srcrets AND was drunk,
telling me I had an annuity too!! I never knew, she said a lot I never knew until passed 2 yrs! AND I have had chest pains& stress soo much , prob silent heart attacks , she stressed my Gran into early grave in 1992, AND tried to boss my mother soooo much she had enough, Idk what toxicology sayys ,but @17,, I had intuition something life changing was about to happen, 1st my Father fell @ a local grocery,AND shattered hip& pelvis region,AND i was @ work,AND got to take off early,AND go pick my gramma up, AND rush to regional er, he had tears pouring out, it had been long enough to realize no hear trauma, snuck into room nurses AND doc were discussing sit. & begged plz ive never seen my father tears of horrible physical pain , & duh no head injury onway to er knew cause was left in produce 45 mins b4 anyone acknowledged he slipped on Their property,,so relieved him some pain, but I was worried about him staying @ bad rep. Hosp that told gramma in 90s. Idk if i put ur husband back properly durin suergery early 90's. Luckily it was outta of their realm such intricate surgery AND rushed to wayyy more professional one overnight, so I could worry y momz phn was off ringer, gramma taking care of dad, didn't wanna bother anyone coming out of town to be there for gramma,(I shoulda, & feel horrible,), but knew that something wasn't right my FRIEND stsyed night & her & I both said shes dead,in her apt. Dead, y WOULD her only sister not get fire dept., national guard kick door open, I was 17,, I would have done welfare check but didnt know , i could have done that!! I was right, I had tried to visit my father & after gonna run to find my mother,had a key,but @17, my then (abusive everway imaginable was selfish AND had baaad prob with drugs,but I didnt know cause,covered well, we were first loves,but he took some of his momz nerve medicines,& anthing else,im sure,cause he turned into raging.alchoholic, but not a drop of alcohol AND didn't take all this SERIOUSLY, so I left visting father in tractions, AND had planned on checking on mom b4 but ahole drove there& was going to leave me stressed sbout my mom,& told him night b4 days b4,& was trying to ask patients leaving he had $2000 thought he was partying, cause he thought/in an unrealistic frame of mind, & WOULD let him drive my car to go on crazy part of town to get robbed, shot, put me in danger & ask for random drugs he had never seen & overdose!! I had list of stuuff i was going to bring my father , thought I WOULD be able to leave, or ride 25 minz or least to get my mother , i knew I
WOULDa been able to save her or have closure!! He refused WOULDNT shut up take me home repeatedly like a 2 yr old,AND about wrecked us. STOPPED ME FROM MY DADS NEEDED HELP, & SAVING MOM. I WAS FURIOUS WITH HIM, & CRIED SO MUCH HE DIDNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!! AROUND 2-3PM ,.2 days later maybe3,
AUNTS NAME IS ON CALLER ID 2ND RING 3RD,I PICKEP UP "SHES DEAD CAME OUT" yes drunken aunt responds,I was in shock,,so I was luckily with sober boyfriend AND another couple I was close tooo, so this was 17 yrs ago, weird how aunt never said what toxicology report said , in drunken slurr said she's gone!!she'd been so mean, I COULDN'T deal with her&mom supposedly was dead around 48 hours in time frame id been trying to get her,,,to check. 1hour 15-20 to her residence,especially unfamiliar, with area & hosp dad was @ & 1 hour 15-30 minz depending on traffic, I think @ times didn't my girlfriend & I have gone see 1st night,,dad was taken to hosp., CHRIS WAS AHOLE,HE BLEW ME OFF SO HE COULD USE.SHOCKED I WAS OFF EARLY,& HE WAS AVOIDING ME, BESTFRIEND WAS 19,,ALMOST 20, IM 17, AND WE WERE WORRIED, & THOUGHT SHE SINCERELY IS WORRIED TOO , BEEN BLOWING HER ONLY SIS. MY ONLY siblingTO MOM passed!!
oof this just broke my heart
Thanks to your response to this song it is now available everywhere (Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon, iTunes)!! Y’all have made me feel so loved, heard, understood, empowered, & GRATEFUL. can we all drink Malbec & cry happy tears plz??? 😭😂
Thank you for making this song possible, I got cheated but still haven't had that closure. Stay strong! Keep looking forward. You have a bright future and a voice.
@@shareenaborja568 thanks so much. u as well ❤️
@Nevaeh McMillan i feel u. glad this song found u ❤️
This is.. this is incredible.. I can’t even put it into words how good this is..
Happy tears love😘 absolutely beautiful 👏👏👏💕
Heard this when it first came out and loved it.....played it everyday for weeks. Well done.
Amazing how we put trust in someone and we even feel loved when all we got is played. U r beautiful, don't look back
Verse 1
You told me people can only fall in love once
Then you told me you loved me, after 2 months
So i just assumed I was the one
Jealousy was something i never believed in
Till you let random girls in the bed that I sleep in
And i still wonder why i didn’t leave then
Pre-chorus
It’ll be 3 year in, 3 days since
I met you at the opry backstage
Leaning against that doorway
Sometimes i wish i would’ve shown up late
Chorus
I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
Still it don’t really feel like this is done
When i’m out here on dates
Tryna find new love, find new love
Yeah it’s been a month or 2
Since we said that we were through
So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
Cheating on you, you
Verse 2
Aint moved on in case things have changed at all
I still talk to your cousin and your sister in-law
I know they probably wondering what’s going on
On the days that I really wanna forgive you
I think about all the other girls touching you
And honestly it’s left me with some body issues
Pre-chorus
Now I’m, blank staring at some new face
Can’t help but compare everything
I’m sure your at some chick’s place
Doing what you do with no shame
Chorus
I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
Still it don’t really feel like this is done
When i’m out here on dates
Tryna find new love, find new love
Yeah it’s been a month or 2
Since we said that we were through
So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
Cheating on you, you
Bridge
Thing is when I look back
U always need control
And now I see that
You just want to make me feel bad
And it’s kinda working aint that sad
Chorus
I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
Still it don’t really feel like this is done
When i’m out here on dates
Tryna find new love, find new love
Yeah it’s been a month or 2
Since we said that we were through
So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
Cheating on you, you
Cheating on you, you
Still hits like home. I love the music
Wow ....just wow , you can tell shes hurt but shes still strong enough to put this on here and I'm glad she did 💛 this is my new favorite song atm
thanks so much 🖤
I do not know why I clicked on your video, but I did not regret it. Keep up this great work.
thanks so much!
Same. Accidently came across this but I LOVE it!!! Yessss this is soooo beautiful!!!💜
When I heard this song, it brought me back to a place in my life years ago when I stayed with an unfaithful partner. I think this song encapsulates the feeling so well and does it so vividly. It’s ironic how they’re the ones cheating constantly and with no remorse, yet even when we’re broken up, we constantly feel guilty for being with someone else. Even though we weren’t the ones who cheated. It just goes to show how if we can feel guilt despite being faithful, how ruthless someone is when they cheat and with no remorse at all.
So true everything you said. Bottom line is we feel like we are cheating moving on after they cheated on us is because we really loved and the one that cheated didnt at all it was a total facade a lie from the beginning. Karma is a bitch tho. Time helps the moving on process where you dont feel like your cheating anymore its been almost 7 mon for me and its gotten alot easier to date at the 6 mon but it still bothers me a little. He cheated and knocked his mistress up and this happened after he almost died in a motorcycle accident 2 yrs ago and i had to quit my career and do in home care 24 hrs a day for him he was in a hospital bed and in a wheel chair for 5 months i wiped his ass even. For a year i helped him to walk again and he cheats on me and knocks her up takes her to church twice a wk as a married man and then gets her a huge home. Yeah fuck love is what i say!
Sniff :-(
@@toshiapallesen9152 oh gosh, that sounds so emotionally taxing to go through especially after everything you sacrificed for him. you're strong and i'm glad you're healing
This is my fave song by you wow it’s vulnerable. Get it on Spotify ASAP girl!
thanks so much! it's up there now :)
wait there is more......
girl it's been almost 4years, but whenever I meet a new guy, feel like cheating on you. the feeling is so real
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I’m baffled by the fact I haven’t heard of you before. You sound amazing
Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
sending you all the love
Almost 14 years..and, same situation (cheated on) with the town w****🤷♀️
@@mischa1834 :-(
So this doesn't get better?? :(
Your are so brave
Very creative song.
Deep down, every girl can completely relate to this.
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Jordan Romanchuk yes
agreed xx
.. And the good guys whose ex did the dirt feel it too...... I'm in that club.
Not every. #singlegirlsquad
Imagine being the one to cheat on her...man big loss
haha thank u
Vortex_wolf
I like this 😊
I wrote a song called *Wanted* by ninanile. I hope you enjoy the song, share it and subscribe to my channel. I’m an aspiring artist. This would mean a lot to me ✨
@@ninanile I'll check it out!❤
we’d all be a big loss👏🏽👏🏽💛
For real ain't that the truth!
God I feel your whole heart. Guys dont understand how bad this affects us. Much love. This is beautiful.
thank u :)
Some of us do. Experience is understanding. 😢😢😢
over a year later and this is the song I come back to countless of times. so beautiful 🥺
I saw your music on my recommendations and was hesitant to click. I’m glad I did.
love it ❤️
Same
The saddest, most real, I have heard for a while... I Love the video it literally makes me cry Everytime, not in a bad way, but kinda... Still Inspirational 💛
thank u 🖤
I felt this. More then I’d like to admit.
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Really ?
Keith hale you dont feel shit
I’ve never been more happy that I clicked on a suggested video ❤️
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@@lacycavalier
Can relate ! 😊
Same.... I was doing dishes and couldn't skip, now she's on repeat
Sameeee ♥
I have went through a terrible breakup & this is honestly the song i’ve been looking for!!! Great job, this is the best🤩
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I've been listening to this song nonstop for the past 3 weeks...
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I first listened to this song a year ago I must’ve liked the way it sounded. A year ago I had never been cheated on, fast forward to now and this song resonates so deeply with me. I’m so happy I came across this again.
sending u all the love 🖤
You go girl! We've all had a toxic ex that made their actions seem smaller than they are. Keep writing, your voice is beautiful and the lyrics are amazing.
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I agree with everyone else! You should definitely put it on Spotify/iTunes. :)
PLEASE DO!!!!!!
yea she definetly should , its such a Jam 🎶
thank you!! it's out everywhere now :)
Your voice is so unique and beautiful and this song is so raw, emotional and is a legit jam. I love it. You should not have felt ashamed or weird about releasing this! It’s SO good.
thank u so much
Listening to this while driving your car in a windy day on a long road. *Feels.*
And just crack open just a tiny wee bit of the passenger window..the breeze teleports you to Neverland😭😭
SPOTIFY. this is the JAMMMM
thanks so much! it's up there now :)
Wow. This song is so deep. I randomly found this song and I’m glad I did. You’re amazing!
thanks so much!
Ok, I am officially responsible for at least 1K of these views! This is a masterpiece. The song & lyrics coupled with your mannerisms is the outward expression of what's been so hard for me to articulate for years. I feel this deeply and it is staying on repeat. Thank you for your art Lacy.
love it
My husband passed a year ago and I just found a man who is damn near perfect and this song hits so hard.
I have actual chills, the pain in the lyrics. Wow x
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Every woman that has experienced a 1st love, can relate to this song! Thanks for sharing! The reason you care, is because you still have love for him. Your 1st really does stick FOREVER! Your beautiful! God Bless!
thank u 🖤
On that note- you can & WILL move on to BIGGER & BETTER! I waited for my 1st love for almost a decade.. true story! My now husband, is my everything. I prayed for him for 3 years. God answered every single request (in HIS own ways) I couldn't be happier. I honestly thought I was meant to be alone forever & I was OK with it. He got married & had a family. I was still single just "trying out" different guys. I told God, if my forever was REAL, I wanted this&this& that. I made a list, if God didn't meet the asking price, I was OK with being alone. God put this AMAZING man in my life, gave me everything I asked for (in unexpected ways) I never thought I could ever love MORE than I loved my 1st love. Boy! was I wrong! I am so madly in love with my now husband. I do think of MY 1ST LOVE. But I just really wish him happiness & light full of life, but my hubby is who I pray for most. He is my everything! There is LOVE & LIFE after your first love! ❤❤ I PROMISE! Give it to your Creator, He knows you better than you know YOU! He has your FOREVER waiting for you in the PERFECT timing. Trust in Him& He WILL DELIVER! This is my LOVE story! Hope to encourage someone & challenge God, he knows you better than you know YOU! Trust in HIM! He wants you to be in LOVE & to be LOVED! He delivered my prince charming! It took over a decade, but he DELIVERED & I have never been happier! Jesus is LORD! AMEN!!!!
"I wish i didn't feel like you are the one." .... was stack in this feeling two years after it ended when i found him with some other lady. Gosh... what a beautiful song. Thank you.
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“Ain’t moved on in case things change at all” I’ve never related to anything more. Piece of advice: move on and find the happiness you deserve. They’ll realize the mistake they made one day (and annoyingly try to come back🤦🏼♀️)
I know exactly how you're feeling this song is so beautiful and your voice is so angelic ty for posting ❤️
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This is gold🔥
thank u 🖤🖤
I know what that's like the was with my baby's momma for 11 years and she started disappearing then ended it by texting and saying she had feelings for someone else . I am poor but have never stoled lied or cheated and I was letting her rob me blind of my paycheck every week from my job
This vid was in my feed and I was curious! After I heard the song I felt so surprised. I might not know you, but this song is really good. It is different from the songs these days and the lyrics are filled with emotion. I am fan!
thank u 🖤
I second that! Awesome @Lacycavalier
Someone tell me why I'm only hearing this now!? This is a beatiful work of art💕
This is exactly what I feel like...I really feel like this song is written for me... This is exactly my story!! You've done a great job Lacy. I felt like it was straight from your heart and that could be seen.. It's beautiful!
thank u 🖤🖤
Such depth and hurt attached to the lyrics....if only words could kill! 😭
Why is my heart breaking 😭💔 “been a month or two since we said we’re through, why does it feel like I’m cheating on you” truly loving someone sucks !!!
Don't take into unborn days all the ill from days gone by, smile and run into life for the unknown people and pleasures yet to arrive. From all the pain and tears we are afflicted with in those younger years, we often find clarity without regret in a happier place just a little further down the road. From our learning by ache, the reward for our hurt is the wisdom we gain and the love we find which is more amazing than any before... Best Wishes.
I honestly needed this song like a year ago, but I'll settle for having it now.
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this is amazing. my boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago now and i still feel bad for wanting to like someone else. these feelings are all too familiar but your voice is beautiful! thank you for being open and sharing, especially in a song. you have a beautiful voice xx
Thanks for sharing ur story!! Appreciate the love ❤️
His actions are not your fault; you can now live free.
I felt like that at first too! But being away from him has made me a stronger person and I’m in love with who I am now not who I was a couple months ago when he left me ❤️
I started listening to this song April of 2019. I still can't stop getting emotional every time I play this song. I hope I can find a karaoke version of this song of yours.
Thx for this song and your video...wow... perfect timing...
“on the days when i really wanna forgive you, i think about all the other girls touching you.”
i’m so glad she wrote this song.
Watch how fast he runs back when he finds out how many views this song has 🤣
@Kim Gow even if she wasn't beautiful.. she deserves everything. everyone with a good heart does. its no about whether or not someones beautiful.. everyone deserves something special.
This song...I dont even know where to begin. I have been going through it with my husband and I splitting up not too long ago and this song hit the nail on the head of my feelings. I love it!
Rebecca Boley 🖤🖤
I just heard this song. And its so nice to know I'm not the only one struggling to move on. Its been about 1 1/2 since we ended things. After 4 1/2 years and 2 amazing kids together we ended things. And its been so hard to date and not compare him to everyone. And having to see him every couple of days to pick up our kids it feels like the knife in my heart gets pushed in a little deeper.
Y'all girls in these comments talking about your experiences are heartbreaking!! Idk who needs to hear this but GIRL YOU GOT THIS YOU'RE STRONG AND YOU'RE WORTHY. keep. Doing you bbyg, no man is worth your precious tears 💟!!!!
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Wow....ive felt this way before...this song just brings back those memories...damn..great work!!
thank u!!
Need this on Spotify, absolutely love it!! Love from London Xx
thanks so much! it's up there now :)
where am i four years ago??? what a shame i wasn't able to listen to this. 😭
Wow this song is so deep, it can make me feel everything and every feeling that I was trying to avoid or ignore.. you are amazing! 💚💚
thanks so much ❤️
This video popped up on my recommended and I’m glad it did! This song is so raw and beautiful, great job with it and thank you for sharing something so personal that is actually really relatable! Love it 💜
Thank u so much!!
I can relate to this song so much...
“Trying to find new love.. feeling like I’m cheating on you..” 💔... 😔
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Ma’am just had to swing back in years later and say this is still in my top five songs of all time.
beautiful beyond your words. i felt this. took me back to this feeling last year.
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I can relate to this song on a personal level. Thank you for putting into words what I've never been able to.
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Girl I have been trying to put into words what you just sang to how I feel every day for the last 3.5 years with my man. I feel so broken. We’ve both have seen other people and have lied and hurt one another. Though he is constantly pointing fingers, telling me what I’m always doing wrong and what I need to do to fix us. Beg for his forgiveness as though he’s been perfect.
Last two weeks I’ve just needed him and or even a friend. A best friend or a relationship that wants to build us up or build me up individually making me feel more secure about myself. But this guy constantly puts me down to the point I feel helpless and lifeless.
He only does something nice for me if he reeps the benefits. I’m beyond broken and battling for my life. I am in addictive addiction and just want to live.
Why can’t I let a guy like this go...? When we are a part I’ve met amazing men who want to give me the world and make me feel like I’m the most beautiful woman in the world. But being with them even though I am single. I’m out of my mind feeling guilty as though I’m cheating On him. When he is out doing the exact same with multiple girls playing each other.
Glad I’m not alone... sorry to ramble but thanks for reading this. I’m desperate for help. Suggestions please
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There will come a time when enough is enough my dear and you will have that strength to move on. It may not be now and it could take a few years but at some point you will have that courage to finally walk away. Its taken me 7 years including a year of being married, to finally find the courage and the strength to walk away from something that could have killed me. It hasnt been easy at all but with love and support from the people that care about you, its bearable and you can be at peace.
16yrs and a young handsome 15yr old son later, the woman I swore to God I would love and respect through good times and bad through sickness and in health walked away.. she can act so strong and independent and proud of herself! While she rides her high horse she overlooks the 8 other cowards she chased around for temporary satisfaction while having a family at home begging for an ounce of what others are given free of charge.
( the one who knows that enough is enough will always have enough!
This is now like my 20th time listening and watching this and I love it more and more each time!! It must have taken so much bravery to put a song this real out there and I just want to say you officially have me as a fan for life! Your talent is undeniable!! Great job Lacy!!
thank u so much
Definitely looked to buy this on iTunes, should put it on there!
it's on there now! :)
This song still gives my whole body chills. Hurts so good
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Whoever broke your heart caused you to make amazing songs so im happy for that. Not the fact that he cheated and was a control freak but the fact that it made you create an amazing song.
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@@lacycavalier thx for the heart
I think I've probably written like 2 comments on TH-cam in my entire life, but this song has moved me to write you! This song and video are so beautiful, so raw, so humanizing. So many parts of this song hit home for me, as I know it did with so many other girls. Thank you for putting into words things that I've never been able to. This song truly encompasses the magic of songwriting and music. This is a #1!
i appreciate it so much. means the world to me
Girl you should release this song
out everywhere now :)
It honestly made me cry.
Too good
Also the lyrics ♥️
thanks so much
Imagine being this pretty yet still not enough for that one person. Hell. 😭
And this just proves you deserve way better. Love can be blind
You made me tear up, I have never felt more connected and witnessed something so pure and raw. You are 100% perfect as you are, you bring a realness into this world with your music and I hope more and more people start seeing the full potential of what you do. You are a rock star and a role model ❤ Thank you for just being you and taking the pain of the past and turning it into something beautiful and meaningful. You are the best, I hope you have a great day/night and realize just how amazing you are. #keeponsinging 💖❤❣
wow, what a kind kind kind comment. i appreciate this more than you know!
Anytime! 😊🤩 You deserve to go far, and I'm behind you all the way 💖
“Cheating On U" available everywhere now thanks to y'all!!
Stream/download now: lacycavalier.lnk.to/kimdone
lacycavalier yesss!!
i came back to listen to this again and was pleasantly surprised to see this comment❤️❤️❤️ thank you!!
Can’t believe how much power and emotion you put into this...😓
@@brittneymacraee ❤️
@@vidanevideo thank u ❤️
Wow shes married now 😢🥰 i love this for her
literally just found the ONE song that i can actually relate to. i love this sm
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Omg 😮 I am so glad you did the intro for some of the backstory and that song just touched my soul you have a beautiful voice I’m kind of going through the same thing right now
If those first lyrics didn't just send me into a blank stare of memories I wish I hadn't triggered. Giiirl. Amazing song. Captured that feeling way too well.
Same here two years later and I still feel like I'm cheating
I seriously love this song! I keep replaying it over and over. Tears keeps running down my cheek. Apparently I’m still with my baby daddy who cheated on me before I was pregnant and even through my whole pregnancy. Right now I’m still confused why I’m still with him.. I deserve so much more. Listening to this song is opening my eyes. Thanks for this song! 🙏🏼❤️
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Damn Im feelin this one.
thank u 🖤