Lacy Cavalier - Cheating On U (Lyric Video)

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    I wrote this song a little over a year ago and honestly never thought it'd be something I'd release. It felt too invasive. But the more i lived with it, the more i realized that there's no way i can be the only person that has had these thoughts. This song means so much to me. These emotions were a reality for me for so long and this song perfectly encompasses that season of my life. It was important to me to make it a vlog style video rather than a single release. I wanted it to feel like a one on one conversation. Because this is an uncomfortable, honest conversation that ive wanted/needed to have for a long time. I wrote these words and I filmed/edited this video. This is me. I really do hope you enjoy it. If you went through something similar and overcame it then i hope you feel a warm understanding. And if you're currently going through it then i hope it makes you feel less alone. So yeah, here's my heart haha.

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  • @kaitlyndelossantos9679
    @kaitlyndelossantos9679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6578

    when she says “on the days that I really wanna forgive you I think about all the other girls touching you and honestly it’s left me with some body issues” I felt that

  • @vanessavillagrana930
    @vanessavillagrana930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4777

    Being cheated on is one of my worst fears. Giving in all your time, love, and soul to one person just to be betrayed. I pray that whoever is going through this is strong and this makes me so sad and scared to fall in love.

    • @DuyTran-sh3oi
      @DuyTran-sh3oi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      If that's always in the back of your mind you need to somehow get over it there's no relationship without trust!

    • @kelsiemae3480
      @kelsiemae3480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Vanessa Villagrana trust me it’s not fun being cheated on.im still getting over my ex who cheated on me but when I see pictures of him and his new girl it brings back memories

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Vanessa Villagrana I was cheated on by someone I supported and did everything for for 5 years. And believe me, it wasn’t as bad as I thought it would be. Best thing that ever happened to me. Just always have it in the back of your mind. Everyone is an individual with the capability to be disloyal. Also, make sure you love yourself and put yourself first. Once you can do that, you can coast thru anything. Once that relationship was over, I got into another relationship that was much better and more passionate than the one that ended. Don’t give up 👍🏾

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Vanessa Villagrana I hate to say this but sometimes being cheated on benefits you cos a veil lifts off your face and you realize the world isn’t a fantasy land. It will also teach you a lot about yourself and a lot about relationships. Being cheated on can be a blessing.

    • @billjones7955
      @billjones7955 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sad

  • @OtherRealmMusic
    @OtherRealmMusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1929

    "and still I wonder why I didn't leave then" is such an honest but painful line

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      🖤

    • @hannahfowble9496
      @hannahfowble9496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It really is. 5 years I stayed even after the abuse.

    • @DevSingh-lb3zv
      @DevSingh-lb3zv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@lacycavalier just found ur music n love it❤️

    • @MalachiMachiavelli
      @MalachiMachiavelli 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hannahfowble9496I heard this song four years ago and I stayed.. regretfully 😢 I left but came back

  • @kimmieann316
    @kimmieann316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

    “Jealousy was never something I believed in ...until you let random girls in the bed I sleep in ...” I felt this part of the song so deeply.😕

    • @squeezedelf9334
      @squeezedelf9334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Change the words from girls to guys. Hits hard for me:(

  • @Crystalon195
    @Crystalon195 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2024

    Not gonna lie I was skeptic cause of the title but I stg I wasn’t ready for this heartache 😭

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      🖤🖤

    • @KHelen-oi9nt
      @KHelen-oi9nt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lacycavalier your pretty

    • @brotherskeepers8303
      @brotherskeepers8303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think ur beautiful

    • @marmarsenpai2421
      @marmarsenpai2421 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@puipui_ralte swear to god

    • @kellyclark-easley5590
      @kellyclark-easley5590 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That voice, the depth of her soul. Wow, nothing can piss on this song. Beautifully expressed. Boi, if I could sing I wouldn't have taken her golf clubs an wrote it in our convertable. Bahaha! I'm good. I should have wrote a song an sold the car. This voice, this song. Chills when I heard it.

  • @brianagonzales1017
    @brianagonzales1017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1847

    The one time I will thank TH-cam for putting this on my recommendations ! Beautiful!

    • @domelishesd948
      @domelishesd948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      thanks so much 🖤

    • @zemoria63
      @zemoria63 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Perfect!

    • @tahermed20223
      @tahermed20223 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Briana Gonzales ok

    • @donnadonna7013
      @donnadonna7013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @KimCaputo
    @KimCaputo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    omg this is fricken incredible. wow.

  • @stephaniebarrett6692
    @stephaniebarrett6692 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Hearing this 3 yrs later still gets me in my feelings love her voice

  • @CallOfDuty4Fr3ak
    @CallOfDuty4Fr3ak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +795

    I'm a Marine Corps veteran, and a guy, and while I was deployed my (now ex) wife was unfaithful for a year, maybe more. One of the lowest points of my life, the thoughts consume you. This song hits home so thank you.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @viteshparmar6332
      @viteshparmar6332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      CallOfDuty4Fr3ak
      Mate I know what your going throw 😢
      Please keep strong

    • @am2009hecht
      @am2009hecht 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      CallOfDuty4Fr3ak I’m so sorry

    • @cindyst-jean-lamarre1131
      @cindyst-jean-lamarre1131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm sorry for what you've been throught..you deserve better and I hope you find the strenght to realise a real woman wouldn't do it to her husband, especially when he is away working his ass off for his country and to make sure her ass have everything she needs at home. And I hope you fine the strenght to find love again to fall in.love like it is the first time in your life xxx

    • @_SeewhatGodsees
      @_SeewhatGodsees 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sending Prayers! God's love is the only love that has never ever failed me. I hope he heals and restores all your hopes and dreams. ❤❤❤❤🙏

  • @karlierenee6613
    @karlierenee6613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1775

    this song is going to change youre life. I am in love w you and this song.

  • @taekk3244
    @taekk3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    “so why does it feel like I’m cheating on you”when you cheated on me.
    it’s so relatable it hurts me even more.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🖤🖤

    • @taekk3244
      @taekk3244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lacycavalier I love your music❤️

  • @tyannachocalas8022
    @tyannachocalas8022 4 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Wasted 7 years with someone who threw it all away for someone who couldn’t hold a candle to me. Ended almost 2 years ago and I still feel this way 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      sending you all the love

    • @mischa1834
      @mischa1834 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Almost 14 years..and, same situation (cheated on) with the town w****🤷‍♀️

    • @giannapoirier3799
      @giannapoirier3799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mischa1834 :-(

    • @sandrathomas1848
      @sandrathomas1848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So this doesn't get better?? :(

    • @heatherlproctor6122
      @heatherlproctor6122 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your are so brave

  • @nz9562
    @nz9562 5 ปีที่แล้ว +600

    Anyone else feel like they want to cuddle up w her drink wine and cry together?
    Edit: when she said “I wish I should’ve shown up late” to spare the heartache...
    I felt that !

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ❤️

    • @OneTrueWarHeart
      @OneTrueWarHeart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me! God, it's been a year since me and my ex, of 8 years, spilt up and this song is making me cry!

    • @courtney6137
      @courtney6137 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same! After my boyfriend cheated on me I left him, but he came back and I don’t know how I feel cause I’ve gotten to the point where when he threatens to leave I no longer cry over him but I honestly think about how different everything would be if I just missed that moment and never met him

  • @miajordan5301
    @miajordan5301 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1239

    My boyfriend of 2 years I found cheating on me 2 months ago. And although I am finding amazing people it does feel wrong going on dates with other people. Although we broke up and I have no desire to get back with him I guess I spent so much time with him and my love and loyalty remains with him. Thank you for giving me something to relate to
    Update: I’ve managed to genuinely tell him I don’t want him anymore. What he did hurt me a lot but I’m moving on with my life and found someone. It looks promising. Being cheated on is one of the worst feelings. Take time to heal but remember it’s not forever. You’ll find something healthier and gain your confidence and self love again❤️
    ANOTHER UPDATE:
    He left me for someone else. Just love yourself.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      🖤🖤

    • @joshcastaneda1152
      @joshcastaneda1152 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Like Steve Harvey said...”all men can change and all men will change but they’ll only change for one.” He wasn’t the one.

    • @hastiv
      @hastiv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel you. And I know how that feels.

    • @hastiv
      @hastiv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      nadia daniella mine cheated on me with his sister

    • @stephyslife1245
      @stephyslife1245 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      My ex also cheated on me after being together almost for 3 and he lied to me when I would confront him. He would have different girls while being with me, and after I broke up with him he would call me rude names and made me feel like it was my fault but now I’m working on myself only☺️

  • @toritomlinson7701
    @toritomlinson7701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I’ve been struggling with this for five years for someone who doesn’t deserve it. Thank you for sharing this. It meant the world to me knowing I’m not the only one.

    • @nomdeplume2213
      @nomdeplume2213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same... but unfortunately we are the majority, not the minority. Youve got this girl!!! Keep pushing forward, i know it feels like your soul is imploding and you're too scarred to survive or find contentment much less happiness but keep going... you'll find it in yourself, not in someone else. ❤ Im so sorry you're having to go through this. I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy. Its debilitating but when you finally reach the other side where your thoughts dont betray your needs and linger back to him incessantly, when you see him and feel nothing, IT FEELS AMAZING haha & you'll get there, i promise. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. Broken trust and constant paranoia drove me to places i thought id never go and whilst there i thought id never find myself again. Took some time but i got there... never doubt yourself or the fact that you deserve better.

    • @beautifulwaterfall9931
      @beautifulwaterfall9931 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been going through this too for many years; met him when I was 15. I'm in my 40's now. Big problem is he wouldn't know the truth or admit it if it was on video 😥

  • @cherrychells7363
    @cherrychells7363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Imagine being this pretty yet still not enough for that one person. Hell. 😭

  • @sarahmoon1737
    @sarahmoon1737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +945

    "Jealousy was never something i believed in. Till u let random girls in the bed i sleep in" i can relate to a lot of what u've said 💔.. this entire song is touching my heart,it gave me chills~ . Ps the way this video was made from the intro till the end is just so unique and different. keep on doing what u're doing and what makes u happy u have such a beautiful voice~💕

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      thanks so much 🖤

    • @gwenlowe381
      @gwenlowe381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I going through this right now ...

    • @ashsparkle4283
      @ashsparkle4283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same girl, I was never a jealous person until my ex made me feel that way by giving others what should have been reserved for me...then I went through a huge spiral....still feel like a broken person

    • @lynnnettemarie6179
      @lynnnettemarie6179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me either that verse hit me the hardest bc I've never been jealous I hate what hes done to me, changed me

    • @whitneykirkpatrick7660
      @whitneykirkpatrick7660 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      💗💗😭😭

  • @barbaracastano9491
    @barbaracastano9491 5 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    I’m not sure how I ended up here, but I’m glad I did. On repeat !

  • @Rae.ell03
    @Rae.ell03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Y'all girls in these comments talking about your experiences are heartbreaking!! Idk who needs to hear this but GIRL YOU GOT THIS YOU'RE STRONG AND YOU'RE WORTHY. keep. Doing you bbyg, no man is worth your precious tears 💟!!!!

  • @charlotterose665
    @charlotterose665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “Ain’t moved on in case things change at all” I’ve never related to anything more. Piece of advice: move on and find the happiness you deserve. They’ll realize the mistake they made one day (and annoyingly try to come back🤦🏼‍♀️)

  • @hannaw4290
    @hannaw4290 4 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    This song captures the emotions women feel in this situation perfectly. It’s quickly become an all time favorite of mine.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      thanks so much 🖤

    • @charmelizabeth8584
      @charmelizabeth8584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Not just women. Men too.

    • @charliebrown6962
      @charliebrown6962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I felt this and am a man

    • @noaht5950
      @noaht5950 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men feel the same way, at least when they actually have a heart and some kind of feels for their former significant other.

  • @Spdjddeudj
    @Spdjddeudj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Verse 1
    You told me people can only fall in love once
    Then you told me you loved me, after 2 months
    So i just assumed I was the one
    Jealousy was something i never believed in
    Till you let random girls in the bed that I sleep in
    And i still wonder why i didn’t leave then
    Pre-chorus
    It’ll be 3 year in, 3 days since
    I met you at the opry backstage
    Leaning against that doorway
    Sometimes i wish i would’ve shown up late
    Chorus
    I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
    Still it don’t really feel like this is done
    When i’m out here on dates
    Tryna find new love, find new love
    Yeah it’s been a month or 2
    Since we said that we were through
    So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
    Cheating on you, you
    Verse 2
    Aint moved on in case things have changed at all
    I still talk to your cousin and your sister in-law
    I know they probably wondering what’s going on
    On the days that I really wanna forgive you
    I think about all the other girls touching you
    And honestly it’s left me with some body issues
    Pre-chorus
    Now I’m, blank staring at some new face
    Can’t help but compare everything
    I’m sure your at some chick’s place
    Doing what you do with no shame
    Chorus
    I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
    Still it don’t really feel like this is done
    When i’m out here on dates
    Tryna find new love, find new love
    Yeah it’s been a month or 2
    Since we said that we were through
    So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
    Cheating on you, you
    Bridge
    Thing is when I look back
    U always need control
    And now I see that
    You just want to make me feel bad
    And it’s kinda working aint that sad
    Chorus
    I wish i didn’t feel like ur the one
    Still it don’t really feel like this is done
    When i’m out here on dates
    Tryna find new love, find new love
    Yeah it’s been a month or 2
    Since we said that we were through
    So why does it feel like i’m cheating on you?
    Cheating on you, you
    Cheating on you, you

    • @TheHottier101
      @TheHottier101 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Still hits like home. I love the music

  • @jeremybolton8936
    @jeremybolton8936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I felt this. More then I’d like to admit.

  • @BurnPhoenix135
    @BurnPhoenix135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When I heard this song, it brought me back to a place in my life years ago when I stayed with an unfaithful partner. I think this song encapsulates the feeling so well and does it so vividly. It’s ironic how they’re the ones cheating constantly and with no remorse, yet even when we’re broken up, we constantly feel guilty for being with someone else. Even though we weren’t the ones who cheated. It just goes to show how if we can feel guilt despite being faithful, how ruthless someone is when they cheat and with no remorse at all.

    • @toshiapallesen9152
      @toshiapallesen9152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true everything you said. Bottom line is we feel like we are cheating moving on after they cheated on us is because we really loved and the one that cheated didnt at all it was a total facade a lie from the beginning. Karma is a bitch tho. Time helps the moving on process where you dont feel like your cheating anymore its been almost 7 mon for me and its gotten alot easier to date at the 6 mon but it still bothers me a little. He cheated and knocked his mistress up and this happened after he almost died in a motorcycle accident 2 yrs ago and i had to quit my career and do in home care 24 hrs a day for him he was in a hospital bed and in a wheel chair for 5 months i wiped his ass even. For a year i helped him to walk again and he cheats on me and knocks her up takes her to church twice a wk as a married man and then gets her a huge home. Yeah fuck love is what i say!

    • @giannapoirier3799
      @giannapoirier3799 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sniff :-(

    • @BurnPhoenix135
      @BurnPhoenix135 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@toshiapallesen9152 oh gosh, that sounds so emotionally taxing to go through especially after everything you sacrificed for him. you're strong and i'm glad you're healing

  • @rainacooke9505
    @rainacooke9505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +471

    Read the title, and then actually listened to it and this was not what I was expecting. Made me cry like a baby #relatable

  • @sabarinadrina7762
    @sabarinadrina7762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    girl it's been almost 4years, but whenever I meet a new guy, feel like cheating on you. the feeling is so real

  • @thushsooriyaarachchi1861
    @thushsooriyaarachchi1861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such depth and hurt attached to the lyrics....if only words could kill! 😭

  • @Kms263
    @Kms263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This song should be top hits

  • @chocoblondee
    @chocoblondee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    „sometimes I wish I would’ve shown up late“ is what’s most relatable to me. Like showing up late would’ve spared me lot of heartache 😫
    Great song, keep going

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️

    • @thatwhite5.0L
      @thatwhite5.0L 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have mutual feelings about that. Wish I would have been late.

    • @megperkins848
      @megperkins848 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😰😥😪😫😓😭😭😭😭😢😤🤯🤮🤬👿🙇‍♀️🙇‍♂️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️💀💀🙀😿😧😨😩🤯😬😰😱🤒🤒🤒🤒🤒🤒

    • @megperkins848
      @megperkins848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My ex of going on 9 yrs, snapped, AND was not who I met at all!! Got in trouble, was gone about4 yrs, left on baaddd termsz,& said we r not the same ,ill give u one more chance, but he took more than 9 lives, 500 chances & more,pre.meditated getting revenge on me csuse I didn't stay by him, 4 one never thought that I WOULD finally have had enough, as in the passed b4 I met him! I cannot believe he & others underistmated my life AND intelect,also, known that I was only one there ever after he was disowned by his mom @9, AND had bad abusive childhood, & blood siblings COULDN'T stand 4 him 2 be happy,,sooo @ court for taking blame for brother judge says stay away from ur brothers AND I saw the signs too, & one had obsession over me,AND was trying to come between ,he didnt believe!! I had finally decided to stay away, my self esteem was better, had health ISSUES that were brought on from STRESS from him,& cut him out, unless he proved difff, but my Aunt has bad binge drinking AND refuses 2 show my grandparents will, estates , bank accounts left for her oldest heir,AND my deasceased mother's half,AND my share,& my greatgranmother,too left me bonds,& im thinking funds to have at certain age,.& other bonds,disapeared that i had to sign, cashing a few for vacation $$, my whole life she has kept family srcrets AND was drunk,
      telling me I had an annuity too!! I never knew, she said a lot I never knew until passed 2 yrs! AND I have had chest pains& stress soo much , prob silent heart attacks , she stressed my Gran into early grave in 1992, AND tried to boss my mother soooo much she had enough, Idk what toxicology sayys ,but @17,, I had intuition something life changing was about to happen, 1st my Father fell @ a local grocery,AND shattered hip& pelvis region,AND i was @ work,AND got to take off early,AND go pick my gramma up, AND rush to regional er, he had tears pouring out, it had been long enough to realize no hear trauma, snuck into room nurses AND doc were discussing sit. & begged plz ive never seen my father tears of horrible physical pain , & duh no head injury onway to er knew cause was left in produce 45 mins b4 anyone acknowledged he slipped on Their property,,so relieved him some pain, but I was worried about him staying @ bad rep. Hosp that told gramma in 90s. Idk if i put ur husband back properly durin suergery early 90's. Luckily it was outta of their realm such intricate surgery AND rushed to wayyy more professional one overnight, so I could worry y momz phn was off ringer, gramma taking care of dad, didn't wanna bother anyone coming out of town to be there for gramma,(I shoulda, & feel horrible,), but knew that something wasn't right my FRIEND stsyed night & her & I both said shes dead,in her apt. Dead, y WOULD her only sister not get fire dept., national guard kick door open, I was 17,, I would have done welfare check but didnt know , i could have done that!! I was right, I had tried to visit my father & after gonna run to find my mother,had a key,but @17, my then (abusive everway imaginable was selfish AND had baaad prob with drugs,but I didnt know cause,covered well, we were first loves,but he took some of his momz nerve medicines,& anthing else,im sure,cause he turned into raging.alchoholic, but not a drop of alcohol AND didn't take all this SERIOUSLY, so I left visting father in tractions, AND had planned on checking on mom b4 but ahole drove there& was going to leave me stressed sbout my mom,& told him night b4 days b4,& was trying to ask patients leaving he had $2000 thought he was partying, cause he thought/in an unrealistic frame of mind, & WOULD let him drive my car to go on crazy part of town to get robbed, shot, put me in danger & ask for random drugs he had never seen & overdose!! I had list of stuuff i was going to bring my father , thought I WOULD be able to leave, or ride 25 minz or least to get my mother , i knew I
      WOULDa been able to save her or have closure!! He refused WOULDNT shut up take me home repeatedly like a 2 yr old,AND about wrecked us. STOPPED ME FROM MY DADS NEEDED HELP, & SAVING MOM. I WAS FURIOUS WITH HIM, & CRIED SO MUCH HE DIDNT UNDERSTAND!!!!!! AROUND 2-3PM ,.2 days later maybe3,
      AUNTS NAME IS ON CALLER ID 2ND RING 3RD,I PICKEP UP "SHES DEAD CAME OUT" yes drunken aunt responds,I was in shock,,so I was luckily with sober boyfriend AND another couple I was close tooo, so this was 17 yrs ago, weird how aunt never said what toxicology report said , in drunken slurr said she's gone!!she'd been so mean, I COULDN'T deal with her&mom supposedly was dead around 48 hours in time frame id been trying to get her,,,to check. 1hour 15-20 to her residence,especially unfamiliar, with area & hosp dad was @ & 1 hour 15-30 minz depending on traffic, I think @ times didn't my girlfriend & I have gone see 1st night,,dad was taken to hosp., CHRIS WAS AHOLE,HE BLEW ME OFF SO HE COULD USE.SHOCKED I WAS OFF EARLY,& HE WAS AVOIDING ME, BESTFRIEND WAS 19,,ALMOST 20, IM 17, AND WE WERE WORRIED, & THOUGHT SHE SINCERELY IS WORRIED TOO , BEEN BLOWING HER ONLY SIS. MY ONLY siblingTO MOM passed!!

    • @camidenning1415
      @camidenning1415 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      oof this just broke my heart

  • @vortex_wolf2555
    @vortex_wolf2555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2184

    Imagine being the one to cheat on her...man big loss

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      haha thank u

    • @xara_ninanile
      @xara_ninanile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Vortex_wolf
      I like this 😊
      I wrote a song called *Wanted* by ninanile. I hope you enjoy the song, share it and subscribe to my channel. I’m an aspiring artist. This would mean a lot to me ✨

    • @F0URL34FCL0V3R
      @F0URL34FCL0V3R 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@xara_ninanile I'll check it out!❤

    • @christpoetry
      @christpoetry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      we’d all be a big loss👏🏽👏🏽💛

    • @jeramydyer7602
      @jeramydyer7602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      For real ain't that the truth!

  • @andbriwaslike
    @andbriwaslike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “on the days when i really wanna forgive you, i think about all the other girls touching you.”
    i’m so glad she wrote this song.

  • @compostwise
    @compostwise 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't take into unborn days all the ill from days gone by, smile and run into life for the unknown people and pleasures yet to arrive. From all the pain and tears we are afflicted with in those younger years, we often find clarity without regret in a happier place just a little further down the road. From our learning by ache, the reward for our hurt is the wisdom we gain and the love we find which is more amazing than any before... Best Wishes.

  • @Rayley64
    @Rayley64 5 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Stumbled across this song on my homepage and I am so glad I did. It resonates with me so damn much. It’s been 18 months since my ex and I broke up after he cheated on me. I still think about him daily. Thank you for this song, Lacy.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much ❤️

    • @AshleeWhatevs
      @AshleeWhatevs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rachel Leyshon Does it every get better? 😢

    • @Rayley64
      @Rayley64 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      AshleeWhatevs YES!!!! SOOOO much easier hun, just have to give yourself the time and allow yourself to go through the motions. Also, talk and think about him as much as you need to. That’s important, it’s part of the healing. And one day you’ll just wake up and it won’t hurt as much anymore. The scar will still be there, but it won’t hurt to touch. When that day comes, it’s a great feeling. You got this ❤️ and remember - ITS NOT YOUR FAULT ❤️

    • @Malaiya_
      @Malaiya_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rachel Leyshon I’m so sorry sweetie ❣️

    • @abiazamora1010
      @abiazamora1010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Heeeyy, I feel you. It's been four years since we broke up, and I still haven't moved on

  • @vanessabunag8394
    @vanessabunag8394 5 ปีที่แล้ว +475

    I have never commented on a youtube video before, but I just have to because this is one of the most beautiful and raw music videos I have ever seen. Really happy this came up in my recommended, the lyrics are so relatable it is genius how you described the feeling of a new break up.

  • @charlesgatton3505
    @charlesgatton3505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My husband passed a year ago and I just found a man who is damn near perfect and this song hits so hard.

  • @skylynnblue1647
    @skylynnblue1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    over a year later and this is the song I come back to countless of times. so beautiful 🥺

  • @user-iq6jv3xf6i
    @user-iq6jv3xf6i 5 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    I’m baffled by the fact I haven’t heard of you before. You sound amazing

  • @natalien8626
    @natalien8626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +274

    This is my fave song by you wow it’s vulnerable. Get it on Spotify ASAP girl!

  • @poetrylover2487
    @poetrylover2487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Someone tell me why I'm only hearing this now!? This is a beatiful work of art💕

  • @joelarisca3033
    @joelarisca3033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aaahhh this song is "something"!

  • @bayleehunter836
    @bayleehunter836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    This song just gets better and better every time I play it😩

  • @jordanromanchuk75
    @jordanromanchuk75 5 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    Very creative song.
    Deep down, every girl can completely relate to this.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤️

    • @bieberthefewer
      @bieberthefewer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jordan Romanchuk yes

    • @rebeccajmurray5872
      @rebeccajmurray5872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      agreed xx

    • @tclavlsl
      @tclavlsl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      .. And the good guys whose ex did the dirt feel it too...... I'm in that club.

    • @saumyaverma6832
      @saumyaverma6832 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not every. #singlegirlsquad

  • @amj1733
    @amj1733 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thx for this song and your video...wow... perfect timing...

  • @jessehoeper3187
    @jessehoeper3187 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ma’am just had to swing back in years later and say this is still in my top five songs of all time.

  • @laureneasley5339
    @laureneasley5339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    SPOTIFY. this is the JAMMMM

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks so much! it's up there now :)

  • @yesno3395
    @yesno3395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Wow ....just wow , you can tell shes hurt but shes still strong enough to put this on here and I'm glad she did 💛 this is my new favorite song atm

  • @jay-jaycastelano30
    @jay-jaycastelano30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hugs 🫂 with Prayers 🙏🏼

  • @jrawr7924
    @jrawr7924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I seriously love this song! I keep replaying it over and over. Tears keeps running down my cheek. Apparently I’m still with my baby daddy who cheated on me before I was pregnant and even through my whole pregnancy. Right now I’m still confused why I’m still with him.. I deserve so much more. Listening to this song is opening my eyes. Thanks for this song! 🙏🏼❤️

  • @KindaADorkable
    @KindaADorkable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    God I feel your whole heart. Guys dont understand how bad this affects us. Much love. This is beautiful.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank u :)

    • @neilrichey2657
      @neilrichey2657 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some of us do. Experience is understanding. 😢😢😢

  • @massy96100
    @massy96100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    Watch how fast he runs back when he finds out how many views this song has 🤣

    • @austinsummersofficial631
      @austinsummersofficial631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Kim Gow even if she wasn't beautiful.. she deserves everything. everyone with a good heart does. its no about whether or not someones beautiful.. everyone deserves something special.

  • @dhaviecuizon940
    @dhaviecuizon940 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I started listening to this song April of 2019. I still can't stop getting emotional every time I play this song. I hope I can find a karaoke version of this song of yours.

  • @emmayanaauguli2228
    @emmayanaauguli2228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "I wish i didn't feel like you are the one." .... was stack in this feeling two years after it ended when i found him with some other lady. Gosh... what a beautiful song. Thank you.

  • @CindyAg
    @CindyAg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    I do not know why I clicked on your video, but I did not regret it. Keep up this great work.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks so much!

    • @myblackisbeyoutiful7824
      @myblackisbeyoutiful7824 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. Accidently came across this but I LOVE it!!! Yessss this is soooo beautiful!!!💜

  • @kristenhenry8663
    @kristenhenry8663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    I’ve never been more happy that I clicked on a suggested video ❤️

  • @safreenzara5653
    @safreenzara5653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Listening to this while driving your car in a windy day on a long road. *Feels.*

    • @albertnaffy7436
      @albertnaffy7436 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And just crack open just a tiny wee bit of the passenger window..the breeze teleports you to Neverland😭😭

  • @dm-hulikiki7969
    @dm-hulikiki7969 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I still don't know how i get here, but... i'm thankful, this song is such a masterpiece

  • @heliana
    @heliana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I've been listening to this song nonstop for the past 3 weeks...

  • @hr7072
    @hr7072 5 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    I saw your music on my recommendations and was hesitant to click. I’m glad I did.

  • @Lea-zr7nj
    @Lea-zr7nj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And this just proves you deserve way better. Love can be blind

  • @jeremyshearer
    @jeremyshearer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow this video really got too me. Cheaters suck and I’m really sorry for anyone whose dealing with the aftermath of another person who broke your heart. Such a touching video thank you fir making this

  • @ILoveYouAlejandraPrincesa
    @ILoveYouAlejandraPrincesa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    The saddest, most real, I have heard for a while... I Love the video it literally makes me cry Everytime, not in a bad way, but kinda... Still Inspirational 💛

  • @sbower1985
    @sbower1985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The sad truth that there will always be that one guy who holds a special part of you, and no matter the hell he put you through there is still always some form of hope that he changes or that things could be different. This song hits home in a lot of ways.

  • @PhatCity76
    @PhatCity76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I come back to this song all the time.

  • @eatemup298
    @eatemup298 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can't believe someone would cheat on you your very beautiful woman and your music is on fire 🔥

  • @paytonsky7554
    @paytonsky7554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I have went through a terrible breakup & this is honestly the song i’ve been looking for!!! Great job, this is the best🤩

  • @bigsky445
    @bigsky445 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Every woman that has experienced a 1st love, can relate to this song! Thanks for sharing! The reason you care, is because you still have love for him. Your 1st really does stick FOREVER! Your beautiful! God Bless!

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank u 🖤

    • @bigsky445
      @bigsky445 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      On that note- you can & WILL move on to BIGGER & BETTER! I waited for my 1st love for almost a decade.. true story! My now husband, is my everything. I prayed for him for 3 years. God answered every single request (in HIS own ways) I couldn't be happier. I honestly thought I was meant to be alone forever & I was OK with it. He got married & had a family. I was still single just "trying out" different guys. I told God, if my forever was REAL, I wanted this&this& that. I made a list, if God didn't meet the asking price, I was OK with being alone. God put this AMAZING man in my life, gave me everything I asked for (in unexpected ways) I never thought I could ever love MORE than I loved my 1st love. Boy! was I wrong! I am so madly in love with my now husband. I do think of MY 1ST LOVE. But I just really wish him happiness & light full of life, but my hubby is who I pray for most. He is my everything! There is LOVE & LIFE after your first love! ❤❤ I PROMISE! Give it to your Creator, He knows you better than you know YOU! He has your FOREVER waiting for you in the PERFECT timing. Trust in Him& He WILL DELIVER! This is my LOVE story! Hope to encourage someone & challenge God, he knows you better than you know YOU! Trust in HIM! He wants you to be in LOVE & to be LOVED! He delivered my prince charming! It took over a decade, but he DELIVERED & I have never been happier! Jesus is LORD! AMEN!!!!

  • @sanamuhammad97
    @sanamuhammad97 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I used to love this song, can't believe it's been 5 years

  • @emalay2152
    @emalay2152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I first listened to this song a year ago I must’ve liked the way it sounded. A year ago I had never been cheated on, fast forward to now and this song resonates so deeply with me. I’m so happy I came across this again.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sending u all the love 🖤

  • @kierrarankins
    @kierrarankins 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    You go girl! We've all had a toxic ex that made their actions seem smaller than they are. Keep writing, your voice is beautiful and the lyrics are amazing.

  • @Sasha-fw1jk
    @Sasha-fw1jk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Why is my heart breaking 😭💔 “been a month or two since we said we’re through, why does it feel like I’m cheating on you” truly loving someone sucks !!!

  • @NGlitchesFTW
    @NGlitchesFTW 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    This is gold🔥

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank u 🖤🖤

    • @raymondmcclary5315
      @raymondmcclary5315 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know what that's like the was with my baby's momma for 11 years and she started disappearing then ended it by texting and saying she had feelings for someone else . I am poor but have never stoled lied or cheated and I was letting her rob me blind of my paycheck every week from my job

  • @cheriecarter5901
    @cheriecarter5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I skipped to the song....Wow! Hit me deep down. I could definately relate to the real, touching and original lyrics. Great sound.

  • @onelove5953
    @onelove5953 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I have actual chills, the pain in the lyrics. Wow x

  • @ashleykessler2819
    @ashleykessler2819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Ok, I am officially responsible for at least 1K of these views! This is a masterpiece. The song & lyrics coupled with your mannerisms is the outward expression of what's been so hard for me to articulate for years. I feel this deeply and it is staying on repeat. Thank you for your art Lacy.

  • @tesinoble5917
    @tesinoble5917 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow shes married now 😢🥰 i love this for her

  • @Mom2boys91
    @Mom2boys91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just heard this song. And its so nice to know I'm not the only one struggling to move on. Its been about 1 1/2 since we ended things. After 4 1/2 years and 2 amazing kids together we ended things. And its been so hard to date and not compare him to everyone. And having to see him every couple of days to pick up our kids it feels like the knife in my heart gets pushed in a little deeper.

  • @lacycavalier
    @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +592

    Thanks to your response to this song it is now available everywhere (Spotify, Apple Music, Amazon, iTunes)!! Y’all have made me feel so loved, heard, understood, empowered, & GRATEFUL. can we all drink Malbec & cry happy tears plz??? 😭😂

    • @shareenaborja568
      @shareenaborja568 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for making this song possible, I got cheated but still haven't had that closure. Stay strong! Keep looking forward. You have a bright future and a voice.

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shareenaborja568 thanks so much. u as well ❤️

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Nevaeh McMillan i feel u. glad this song found u ❤️

    • @samanthadederichs1560
      @samanthadederichs1560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is.. this is incredible.. I can’t even put it into words how good this is..

    • @amym7280
      @amym7280 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy tears love😘 absolutely beautiful 👏👏👏💕

  • @lilchela92
    @lilchela92 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I can relate to this song so much...
    “Trying to find new love.. feeling like I’m cheating on you..” 💔... 😔

  • @cheese7985
    @cheese7985 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    HOW COULD SOMEONE CHEAT ON THIS AMAZING GIRL 🥺 THANKYOUUU TH-cam FOR THIS RECOMMEMDATION 💖

  • @maryadkins5071
    @maryadkins5071 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    To be in a relationship and be cheated on can make you feel like you are completely worthless and this song hits the emotion of it all

  • @haleycox380
    @haleycox380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Your voice is so unique and beautiful and this song is so raw, emotional and is a legit jam. I love it. You should not have felt ashamed or weird about releasing this! It’s SO good.

  • @lizethink
    @lizethink 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Wow. This song is so deep. I randomly found this song and I’m glad I did. You’re amazing!

  • @joelewis0686
    @joelewis0686 ปีที่แล้ว

    16yrs and a young handsome 15yr old son later, the woman I swore to God I would love and respect through good times and bad through sickness and in health walked away.. she can act so strong and independent and proud of herself! While she rides her high horse she overlooks the 8 other cowards she chased around for temporary satisfaction while having a family at home begging for an ounce of what others are given free of charge.
    ( the one who knows that enough is enough will always have enough!

  • @alyp5212
    @alyp5212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I agree with everyone else! You should definitely put it on Spotify/iTunes. :)

    • @audreynhupham2877
      @audreynhupham2877 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      PLEASE DO!!!!!!

    • @evuletserwaa8635
      @evuletserwaa8635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yea she definetly should , its such a Jam 🎶

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you!! it's out everywhere now :)

  • @medoriepetersen-woodburn3927
    @medoriepetersen-woodburn3927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I honestly needed this song like a year ago, but I'll settle for having it now.

  • @jessicaledoux3912
    @jessicaledoux3912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope that everyone getting cheated on, leaves. You deserve more than that. Someone would live for you. Don’t waste your life on a fool. ❤️ It’s too short.

  • @jeannielawrence7001
    @jeannielawrence7001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There really are no words to describe the hurt of a broken 💔. Knowing you were being misled,lied to,& cheated on by a man you loved with all your heart & gave him all of time & attention is a hard pill to swallow. It takes a STRONG woman to tell that man it's over! I wasn't that strong & continued to let him hurt me so many times. I loved him ....wanted him to change so badly ..& I believed all of his "I'm sorry" . I finally left him but he did his damage. I'm so untrusting to other guys I've dated. I know that's not fair, but when a heart has been broken like mine.... It's just a way to protect myself,I guess.

  • @LolaLina7
    @LolaLina7 5 ปีที่แล้ว +908

    Who’s ur ex? I just wanna talk.

  • @jaidenitiss1651
    @jaidenitiss1651 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You are beautiful and that man didn’t deserve you .

  • @kfields80
    @kfields80 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This song still gives my whole body chills. Hurts so good

  • @esangquett6899
    @esangquett6899 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    where am i four years ago??? what a shame i wasn't able to listen to this. 😭

  • @tjsoulsurfer45
    @tjsoulsurfer45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Damn Im feelin this one.

  • @jennagrainger5411
    @jennagrainger5411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    literally just found the ONE song that i can actually relate to. i love this sm

  • @cherylhoward5790
    @cherylhoward5790 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't even describe how much this song means to me. I discovered it right after I left my abusive ex. This song captured my feelings so perfectly I used to cry and listen to this song. I'm 1 year and 8 months out (was with him 10 years) doing better.

  • @WorldWideWonder360
    @WorldWideWonder360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whoever broke your heart caused you to make amazing songs so im happy for that. Not the fact that he cheated and was a control freak but the fact that it made you create an amazing song.

  • @jennxoxo9064
    @jennxoxo9064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Story of my life ❤... loving someone who doesn't love you back ... all the energy you put into the relationship. So sad that they don't know what their losing. All for what.. another girl....

  • @freddymurphy1564
    @freddymurphy1564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Girl you should release this song

  • @oliviad7392
    @oliviad7392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    When you find out that the person you’ve been trusting and loving the whole damn time is for someone else is hurtful and this song related to it,I wish falling out of love in this situation was easy as falling in.

    • @sasukechan89
      @sasukechan89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Olivia D 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @starlalanier262
      @starlalanier262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Keith hale you tried to take what's left of my heart and I wont let you,

  • @bjanderson6128
    @bjanderson6128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's been a year since I left my fiancee who cheated on me. I do miss her but song like this help.
    Absolutely stunning and thank you for sharing that small piece of your heart with those of us that truly need it. Thank you

    • @lacycavalier
      @lacycavalier  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sending you all the love

  • @yaranassar4190
    @yaranassar4190 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This has my heart, so relatable and raw.❤️