You both have been through so much at such a young age. I totally get it. I'm glad you both are back to becoming friends and you both can sleep in the same bed and co-exist for the boys. That is truly so mature of you both. I think now that Ezrah is home, things will start to get easier. I think joint therapy will help too. The trauma you both have been though. The things you've experienced. Things you have seen. I can't imagine. I pray both of you can get into a better place, as it seems things are on the right track. And if it's meant to be, I hope you and Brax will be together again. If not, I think you both are wonderful people and wonderful parents and that won't change. God Bless you all!
I’m a nicu nurse and I have so much admiration for parents like you guys who put your kids first and do the best you can. We see parents at their worst and most stressed and vulnerable and that is a serious strain on relationships. In the end, your kids just need to feel safe and loved and you guys are doing exactly that! And I’m with you… pumping is the worst lol 😂 you’re doing great mama!❤
Relationships difficulties are very common with multiples and medically complex kids...it's a LOT to handle. I'm glad you guys are having a healthy coparenting relationship and communicating. The boys are well loved and they'll see their parents working together and that matters so much!
Genuinely the fact you can still be mature and be there for the kids and getting back to being friends 🙌 you guys freaking rock! The boys have amazing parents 💙💙💙🌻
Becoming parents is insanely hard on relationships, whether you are married or not. Add in THREE medically complex kids and it's no surprise that your relationship was put on the back burner. My husband and I have just one kid, who was a preemie but not medically complex, and we went to marriage counseling 2.5 years in because it's HARD. Thinking about you and Braxton and I hope your relationship, whether that is friendship or getting back together, gets to a place you are both happy with. Happy but separate parents are much better for kids than unhappy together parents.
When you said their second birthday is coming up I was FLOORED. I cannot believe they are going to be 2 soon. You guys have gone through so much and hopefully someday these first two years will feel like a blip on their timeline.
My husband and I had our medically complex children several years into our marriage. I don't know if we'd have survived as a couple if it had happened when we were significantly younger and still dating. People don't get how traumatizing it is to have children in the hospital long term. Constantly bracing yourself for the news your child isn't going to make it. I felt so many feelings for so long I became numb at some point. It's hard.
I don’t blame you for checking out of the relationship. It’s nobody’s fault but man dealing with such a huge change can test even the strongest relationships. ❤
I’m super glad to hear your big medical bills are covered by your insurance. My neighbor had only one baby in the NICU and she said they are still paying off medical bills 8 yrs later!! And I think you should definitely pursue NICU RN as a career! You could be such a support and comfort to others since you walked in their shoes already.
I love that you said no one could have done a better job than you guys. I agree! The boys thrive with mom and dad. Lady, you guys have come so far!!! Beautiful
Had a 32 weeker in 2015 7 weeks in NICU and he came home unable to be flat with a feeding tube and the strict feeding schedule. For 5 months my husband was just another set of hands who I saw for maybe an hour a day. Survival mode just takes over when you have preemies and or medical kids and once that storm passes it's like oh! I forgot you were here. Glad you two can put the boys first and be amicable with each other.
New to your story and I am so happy to be following and rooting you along. You are inspiring to ALL moms and you have done a fantastic job embracing motherhood. As a RN myself, hands down you have the smarts, personality and strength to be a NICU Nurse when that door opens for you. Praying that your goals will become reality, for your family to be strengthened and for the boys to continue to get grow stronger every day! 🙌🏻
I’ve been impressed with you throughout this journey. Looking for help. Putting one foot ahead of the next. It has been a lot and I hope you are proud of yourself too. So exciting to see your boys growing, learning and enjoying life!
My kids are 21, 19 and 15 this year. I cannot imagine how tired you both are. The worry and stress. You both are doing The Best Job with them, absolutely! You are inspiring. I enjoy seeing how happy they are and how loved. When they learn new things 💛💛💛
I'm so happy you have decided to let people who have asked and really want to help you guys with money and gifts be able to help you. Never ever let anyone make you feel bad about doing this because there some very kind and generous people who love you and care about you and really want to help now will be able to. 🥰❤❤❤
This is Linda! You are the perfect mom for these boys and I admire you and Braxton so much. My daughter was very I’ll for a month and it was awful. I really can’t imagine all you have been through. One day at a time and keep up the great work!
I’m at home with my 2 months old , he came out early at 33 weeks and was at the NICU for like 2 weeks. It was draining for my husband and I. He’s home now, and we are still trying to have a routine and trying our best to at least have some us time. It’s hard, and I can’t imagine you guys with 3. You got this 🎉
When you said, “No one could have done it better”… I agree!! I’m a Mom to a micropreemie and I remember how stressful and painful it was.. trying to imagine all of that x3 and I’m speechless. Your family is truly incredible ❤️ Love and prayers for many more miracles for Ezra, and blessing for your whole family 🙏
Thank You so much for bringing up going back on meds. I think most people think you take your first pill and you feel much better. When in reality it can take weeks for them to work & they are not a cure, they just help take the edge of it. And also they can make you feel worse than you originally felt before they start working. I think you’re a brilliant mum & advocate for mental health & for navigating break ups, so both parents feel comfortable around each other. And because it’s amicable the kids aren’t affected. Love your family, sending big hugs to you all xxxxx
Y'all real are built for what you've been through I really think god put you two together & prepared y'all for this journey y'all really have handled it very well & you're family support is above average
I think that was very wise of you to let Braxton move back in with you. Your sons need allot of time/care right now...and having their father under the same roof will be very good for your children, and it should help you out with the children as well. Many couples grow apart and int ime find their way back to one another. If that happens it would be great: but I wish you the best regardless of that. You are a terrific mother...Keep up the good work...Your boys are so precious 🙂
I think you would make a fabulous NICU nurse, you are in the depths of managing your boys complex medical issues. I know there are many different situations and complexities the amazing NICU staff deal with, you are so informative and organised, its really impressive 💖🌸
Happy parents that can communicate & work with each other is an awesome thing. Y'all have been thru so much. You're doing a great job raising those three little cuties.
I love this so much. Getting to see you and your family flourish after such an uphill battle has been so special. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing with all of us!
Loved the Q&A. It’s sad to hear, that your dad is not seeing the babies, since he seemed to be super happy about your pregnancy. But I wish you all the best and are excited for the next videos ❤️
I am glad you let him have a relationship with the boys. Just because ya'll are not together doesn't mean the boys don't want there daddy!! I am very proud of you guys!!! It your life, a relationship and a family is a lot, I am glad you have decided to take time to yourself while letting Brax keep a relationship with the kids!! I hope you and Brax will be back together when the time is right!!!
I would have checked out of the relationship too. You give your ALL to your sons and there is nothing else to give!! A romantic relationship in itself is already SUCH a time commitment and involves so many sacrifices. Once things calm down with the boys’ health challenges, then maybe you can explore a romantic relationship again. I know you have to be SO exhausted with all you are dealing with everyday to be such an incredible mother!!
Honestly I respect you guys so much for working together for the kids & not bad mouthing family members. We are not so far removed from when people who were disabled were hid away from others. The social trauma from that bleeds into our generations now & it makes me sad. My sister has severe CP & she’s always been nothing but my sister & my best friend. We even got separate rooms when I was little & we didn’t like it. We had to go back to sharing rooms because we were so so close. We also have sticky situations with family members being around her. I can’t even IMAGINE thinking about excluding her. I can’t do it. I can’t think like those people. I respect y’all so much for being honest about everything while also not over sharing & upsetting everyone…. Yet also being factual about who is around the boys.
I love watching you love your children, they know they're loved, and they're smart too, just like their parents are! I was hoping you'd mention Braxton's art, I would love to see it, thank you for your honesty and kindly explaining yourself and your life now, I'm excited to see what's in store for The Fuller Five 💗💙🧒🧒🧒❤
You have both had so much going on at such a young age, that you didnt plan on. I think your priorities of getting yourselves and your friendship stronger is definitely the best way forward, but I do hope you make it as a couple in the future. You are both great parents and they say that these things only happen to those that can handle it, good luck for the future x
You have had to grow up super quick and I think you've both done an amazing job and you don't have to define, explain, apologise for anything you do. You do you, the best you can be and you be happy.
If it's meant to be, it will be. Most couples will never experience your challenges. You're growing through these struggles. If you learn to start growing together, these will just be difficult chapters in your love book. I have hope for you 2❤️💛✨️
You both are so Blessed. We've been married for 36 years. When our kids were born, we were Mom & Dad first. You both are doing a Wonderful job with the cards you have been dealt. Your 3 Boys are so very Precious and Loved. May God Bless you all.💕🙏🏻
I wish you the best for your family. You’re such a strong young women! Prayers and hugs. Ignore the haters as best as you can. They’re the unhappy ones in the world.
Thank you so much for sharing. It is very easy for parents to become like hospital coworkers with an ill child. You guys were in a constant state of stress, which strangles relationships. Good for you for recognizing it! Sending prayers and love. Regardless of what happens, you will need to find an identity aside from mom and dad!
Bless your hearts! You've been amazing, both of you! Your parents are gems!! No matter what,the babies know they're loved! Big hugs from Blue Springs 💙💙💙
I’m currently at home with my 5 month old son and he is a typically developing full term baby. He was also a wanted pregnancy with my husband. And it has been SO hard on our marriage and I really feel that sentiment of missing what your relationship once was. I feel you, but also have no idea what you guys have been through. Stay strong chick
I know the rates of separating after multiples is super high. Add medically complex; I’m sure it’s super high. I’m a nurse and have been a NICU nurse. You would make a fantastic nurse. I’m proud of you and Braxton.
You would be the best nicu nurse ever having lived through what you’ve lived through and dealt with it so capably. Lived experience has given you the best insight . My wish would be that all medical issues will eventually be resolved for the boys and that you and Braxton find your best relationship that works for all of you. You are looking healthier and better Aubrey, glad you are getting some time for yourself.😍
The boys look so happy 😊 . That shows what a great mom you are. You all have definitely been given a lot to deal with and you are handling it with such dignity and intelligence and they are so happy and it's such a beautiful thing to see. You all are inspiring. I pray that GOD blesses you all and keeps you all in HIS perfect peace ❤🙏🏻❤
You are wise beyond your years. I'd love for you to have a really good therapist to help you unload some of your pain. You're already a great nurse. Get that degree and shine💖
I brought my son home from the NICU over a year ago, and broke down while thinking about it as recently as last night! I’m thinking that particular hurt in my heart may always be there, pushed down most of the time because like you said - can’t really go back to that place! 17:11
I can’t thank you enough for sending money for his equipment. Thank you so much. 🤍 your kind words mean more than you know & your encouragement for our family.
You are doing amazing! The boys are thriving, Be proud.😊Continue to take care of yourself. Ignore the negative comments. No one has a right to judge you let them try and walk in your shoes for a day. Keep doing you. 🌺
You have been through so.much. You amaze me. You are doing what you need to do for your family. I totally admire you. Trust yourself and take care of you! You are an amazing Mum. You will have learnt so much over the last two years. Studying nursing will be a walk in the park!
Amazing job! NICU mom here too! Only one- so can only imagine what you felt. It was one of my darkest times too. Glad you are doing better, finding your co-parent groove, and best of all that the boys are home and thriving. That is due you ya'lls love and devotion to them and glory to God! Praying for your family.
I just found your channel, haven’t watched any other videos besides this one yet, of course seen pictures of family on videos which drew me too you. So glad I have watched this video first and got to know your beautiful soul first.. can’t wait to get into from the beginning after starting at most recent..bless you all.. lovelovelove ❤️🌸✌🏻
Just wanted to say you’re killing it with your videos! I followed you for the triplet content but love all the new things you’re including like books, etc! Keep on sharing! 🥰
Where do you get your energy? Outstanding Mom, a great partner, have a wonderful mother and support ❤️ and still has time to make videos... Wow appreciate your life and openness. Please find time for yourself, you are important!
I've Heard that re: Nic Unit ( other families) is such a terrible situation or journey. Sad to hear it. I'm sure it's rough and tough in many ways. I'm sorry you've dealt with that one and many more things. I want to say I love watching you and your boys. This is my time for myself and I couldn't be happier to watch/ spend it with you. If I lived near you. I'd help you, be friends with you. I think your one terrific person. I love who you are. I like your opinions, style and course of things you do. I feel we have tons in common. Mikalyn Daugherty WPB FLORIDA.
No one's business about your relationship.. you need not explain. As long as it's mutual and he's involved in their lives... it's all good. These children deserve both parents as all kids do. He should help take care of his children. As long as y'all are good... Dont worry what other folks say but also keep in mind.. you are on social media with your business.. Dont tell folks everything. Keep some things to yourself. God bless your adorable family!
I always thought that Croix and Daxon were the twins, because they basically look identical! :) But I know I’ve heard you say something before to Ezrah about Daxon being his twin, I just never put 2&2 together until this Vlog when you answered the question..lol That being said, isn’t it crazy how much Croix and Daxon look alike if they’re not twins then? Well, they are triplets, so not that crazy, I guess. Haha Anyway, you do a phenomenal job!! They’re lucky little guys to have such an amazing Mama! God Bless!! 👍🙏🏼✨
You both are amazing parents. Having to do all the trach changes and gastro feeds I just don’t know how you do it, so much to learn. Very proud of you both.
Awesome video! You should be soooo proud of where you are right now. I cwouldnt want to see anyone else be those boys mom. You are smart, loving, carrying and most of all true to your boys❤️❤️❤️
In one of your pre-Christmas videos, you said Ezra’s going to need hearing aids. There are times you call his name and he seems to respond which makes me wonder if he still needs them? Keep on keepin’ on! Sending loads of love from South Texas.
Such a great question! He has mild hearing loss in his right ear and mild to moderate in his left but only on one pitch (low pitch) so if I speak in a higher pitch he’s more likely to hear me and respond. He does have hearing aids right now actually but they were fitted for him in the nicu and sadly they keep having issues where they won’t stay in and they screech. He needs a new mold so we are getting one later this month or early next!
Girl you are so strong and brave. God new what he’s was doing when he picked you and Braxton to be there mommy and daddy. I’m so glad that your taking time for you and working on you because those 3 sweetie’s need a healthy Mama cause before you know it you’ll be chasing them all over. I’m so sorry to hear about y’all’s break up but if it’s meant to be God will handle it. I think y’all make a good team but sometimes taking a break to re access you is what you need most. My prayers are with y’all. Just stay strong remember to take time for you and trust all in God. We love y’all and your great parents! 💙💙💙
You guys rock putting your kids before anything else...Amazing co-parenting...i hope(know) that you're gonna be together again someday, this kind of splitup relationship always end up with being back together even after years of being apart ...hope you are all Healthy and well🙏🏻
The good thing you have on your side is youth! Your young you have a lot you can still do. I know a lot of people think 60-70 your over the hill but I retired at the age of 58 from a great career and started a new lucrative business. We have traveled since our 3 girls were very young. You will adjust to their disabilities trust me. Remember a lifetime partner is so much more than having a sexual relationship it’s more about the family and your partner being friends and having fun together with a goal of going out of town and taking your kids with you. You and Braxton will find each other again as you do your life. Your right breast feeding is your own decision but I won’t do it again. That’s my opinion Having 3babies and going threw nic time and postpartum is way so much it is a lot of mental crap and your doing great! Very proud of you guys trying life together. Do your life and Braxton will do his whether it be together or not. Please read you will love medical because you will read a lot.❤
I had my 2nd daughter 2013 and she has special needs I was only 21 yrs old it was very hard in the beginning back and fourth in the hospital every other month even weeks but thank the most high she's barely in the hospital now I know her condition like the back of my hand I learned so much over the years she's 9 yrs old and progressing very good she do have a G tube your boys will be Just fine and your a great mother from what I've seen
My child was 7 weeks premature and I had a hard time pumping the drs shamed me that I wasn't giving enough and what not but never gave me any advice on how to produce more milk AND TBH 7 yrs later certain sounds make me think of when she was in the NICU I did it not that long ago idr where I was or what I was doing but my brain instantly just went to memories of her in the NICU and seeing videos on TH-cam of a baby in the NICU just makes me cry and even the word las Vegas I'm like yeah no I don't want to go to Vegas because all I think about are the trips to and from when I'd go see my baby it was hard on me for sure like mentally physically and emotionally draining
You guys hv done a fantastic, amazing job with your boys,they are such beautiful boys,and you would make a fantastic nurse,you are one anyway without the license, thanks for being so honest about your feelings and life,the best to you and your family 😀
Do whatever works for you guys and don't listen to the negative comments. I think you sound like you have figured out what works for your family. Stay safe ❤
I think as a family with your mom& kids dad it'll be helpful for y'all to have some therapy sessions together y'all need to heal together but I'm sure that's baby steps wishing y'all the best❤️☺️
My mother in law has a child who had all the same diagnoses as Ezra. She had a double stroller just for him where one seat plus the bottom was just for his equipment.
You answered all the questions so so well. You are both amazing parents, work so hard and care so much. I admire your dedication to your beautiful ❤️💕❤️ triplets. I send much love and all good wishes for the future as your little boys get stronger, from the UK.
I love how you fill us in on so much of your families life and applaud the job you are doing so amazing. I just was wondering if you worry about power outages with the boys equipment requiring electric?
I decided not to have kids for multiple reasons so I can't relate to being a mother but as someone who grew up in an abusive home that was made much worse by parents who were in a toxic unhappy marriage I can promise you that it's a MILLION times better for everyone involved if the parents split versus staying together just because of some stupid outdated belief 🤷🏻♀️ Never understood people who push that shit and shame others who don't do it. If someone isn't happy on a personal level, isn't happy in their relationship, etc then how in the world can they properly take care of their kid(s)? They can't and their issues will cause issues for the kid(s).. so ignore the people who say otherwise 🤦🏻♀️
Agreed 100%! Although we are making strides to working through things, my parents divorce was the best thing that ever happened to my sister and I. Our lives changed drastically and for the best. When they separated we actually built closer bonds with our parents and worked through so many things together. Plus, We love our stepdad so much!
You both have been through so much at such a young age. I totally get it. I'm glad you both are back to becoming friends and you both can sleep in the same bed and co-exist for the boys. That is truly so mature of you both. I think now that Ezrah is home, things will start to get easier. I think joint therapy will help too. The trauma you both have been though. The things you've experienced. Things you have seen. I can't imagine. I pray both of you can get into a better place, as it seems things are on the right track. And if it's meant to be, I hope you and Brax will be together again. If not, I think you both are wonderful people and wonderful parents and that won't change. God Bless you all!
I’m a nicu nurse and I have so much admiration for parents like you guys who put your kids first and do the best you can. We see parents at their worst and most stressed and vulnerable and that is a serious strain on relationships. In the end, your kids just need to feel safe and loved and you guys are doing exactly that! And I’m with you… pumping is the worst lol 😂 you’re doing great mama!❤
Aren't they amazing ❤❤❤
They sure are amazing!!
Relationships difficulties are very common with multiples and medically complex kids...it's a LOT to handle. I'm glad you guys are having a healthy coparenting relationship and communicating. The boys are well loved and they'll see their parents working together and that matters so much!
Genuinely the fact you can still be mature and be there for the kids and getting back to being friends 🙌 you guys freaking rock! The boys have amazing parents 💙💙💙🌻
Becoming parents is insanely hard on relationships, whether you are married or not. Add in THREE medically complex kids and it's no surprise that your relationship was put on the back burner. My husband and I have just one kid, who was a preemie but not medically complex, and we went to marriage counseling 2.5 years in because it's HARD. Thinking about you and Braxton and I hope your relationship, whether that is friendship or getting back together, gets to a place you are both happy with. Happy but separate parents are much better for kids than unhappy together parents.
Me and the hubs are thinking about counseling 18 mos after a baby, i agree. Having a baby puts a toll in your marriage.
When you said their second birthday is coming up I was FLOORED. I cannot believe they are going to be 2 soon. You guys have gone through so much and hopefully someday these first two years will feel like a blip on their timeline.
Glad you and Braxton are amicable and taking care of your boys together! ❤❤❤😊😊😊
My husband and I had our medically complex children several years into our marriage. I don't know if we'd have survived as a couple if it had happened when we were significantly younger and still dating. People don't get how traumatizing it is to have children in the hospital long term. Constantly bracing yourself for the news your child isn't going to make it. I felt so many feelings for so long I became numb at some point. It's hard.
I don’t blame you for checking out of the relationship. It’s nobody’s fault but man dealing with such a huge change can test even the strongest relationships. ❤
I’m super glad to hear your big medical bills are covered by your insurance. My neighbor had only one baby in the NICU and she said they are still paying off medical bills 8 yrs later!! And I think you should definitely pursue NICU RN as a career! You could be such a support and comfort to others since you walked in their shoes already.
I love that you said no one could have done a better job than you guys. I agree! The boys thrive with mom and dad. Lady, you guys have come so far!!! Beautiful
Had a 32 weeker in 2015 7 weeks in NICU and he came home unable to be flat with a feeding tube and the strict feeding schedule. For 5 months my husband was just another set of hands who I saw for maybe an hour a day. Survival mode just takes over when you have preemies and or medical kids and once that storm passes it's like oh! I forgot you were here. Glad you two can put the boys first and be amicable with each other.
New to your story and I am so happy to be following and rooting you along. You are inspiring to ALL moms and you have done a fantastic job embracing motherhood. As a RN myself, hands down you have the smarts, personality and strength to be a NICU Nurse when that door opens for you. Praying that your goals will become reality, for your family to be strengthened and for the boys to continue to get grow stronger every day! 🙌🏻
Thank you so much 🥹🤍
You are incredible. Both of you are a cut above the rest. Your selflessness is something seldom seen. Bless you all always.
I’ve been impressed with you throughout this journey. Looking for help. Putting one foot ahead of the next. It has been a lot and I hope you are proud of yourself too. So exciting to see your boys growing, learning and enjoying life!
My kids are 21, 19 and 15 this year. I cannot imagine how tired you both are. The worry and stress. You both are doing The Best Job with them, absolutely! You are inspiring. I enjoy seeing how happy they are and how loved. When they learn new things 💛💛💛
I'm so happy you have decided to let people who have asked and really want to help you guys with money and gifts be able to help you. Never ever let anyone make you feel bad about doing this because there some very kind and generous people who love you and care about you and really want to help now will be able to. 🥰❤❤❤
Proud of you for being open and honest I know that can be really hard to do glad to see you happy and looking bright& beautiful 🌻
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This is Linda! You are the perfect mom for these boys and I admire you and Braxton so much. My daughter was very I’ll for a month and it was awful. I really can’t imagine all you have been through. One day at a time and keep up the great work!
I’m at home with my 2 months old , he came out early at 33 weeks and was at the NICU for like 2 weeks. It was draining for my husband and I. He’s home now, and we are still trying to have a routine and trying our best to at least have some us time. It’s hard, and I can’t imagine you guys with 3. You got this 🎉
When you said, “No one could have done it better”… I agree!! I’m a Mom to a micropreemie and I remember how stressful and painful it was.. trying to imagine all of that x3 and I’m speechless. Your family is truly incredible ❤️ Love and prayers for many more miracles for Ezra, and blessing for your whole family 🙏
Thank You so much for bringing up going back on meds. I think most people think you take your first pill and you feel much better. When in reality it can take weeks for them to work & they are not a cure, they just help take the edge of it. And also they can make you feel worse than you originally felt before they start working. I think you’re a brilliant mum & advocate for mental health & for navigating break ups, so both parents feel comfortable around each other. And because it’s amicable the kids aren’t affected. Love your family, sending big hugs to you all xxxxx
I'll be praying for you two& y'all find your purpose in life together and individually ❤️
Y'all real are built for what you've been through I really think god put you two together & prepared y'all for this journey y'all really have handled it very well & you're family support is above average
I think that was very wise of you to let Braxton move back in with you. Your sons need allot of time/care right now...and having their father under the same roof will be very good for your children, and it should help you out with the children as well. Many couples grow apart and int ime find their way back to one another. If that happens it would be great: but I wish you the best regardless of that. You are a terrific mother...Keep up the good work...Your boys are so precious 🙂
I can see y'all getting a million subscribers soon & you're brand taking off❤️☺️👏🏼
That would be amazing 🥹🫶🏼
I think you would make a fabulous NICU nurse, you are in the depths of managing your boys complex medical issues. I know there are many different situations and complexities the amazing NICU staff deal with, you are so informative and organised, its really impressive 💖🌸
Rockstar parents both of ya. Great emotional maturity and so young. You are creating a beautiful life for the kids. ❤
Happy parents that can communicate & work with each other is an awesome thing. Y'all have been thru so much. You're doing a great job raising those three little cuties.
I love this so much. Getting to see you and your family flourish after such an uphill battle has been so special. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing with all of us!
Loved the Q&A. It’s sad to hear, that your dad is not seeing the babies, since he seemed to be super happy about your pregnancy. But I wish you all the best and are excited for the next videos ❤️
I am glad you let him have a relationship with the boys. Just because ya'll are not together doesn't mean the boys don't want there daddy!! I am very proud of you guys!!! It your life, a relationship and a family is a lot, I am glad you have decided to take time to yourself while letting Brax keep a relationship with the kids!! I hope you and Brax will be back together when the time is right!!!
I would have checked out of the relationship too. You give your ALL to your sons and there is nothing else to give!! A romantic relationship in itself is already SUCH a time commitment and involves so many sacrifices. Once things calm down with the boys’ health challenges, then maybe you can explore a romantic relationship again. I know you have to be SO exhausted with all you are dealing with everyday to be such an incredible mother!!
Honestly I respect you guys so much for working together for the kids & not bad mouthing family members. We are not so far removed from when people who were disabled were hid away from others. The social trauma from that bleeds into our generations now & it makes me sad. My sister has severe CP & she’s always been nothing but my sister & my best friend. We even got separate rooms when I was little & we didn’t like it. We had to go back to sharing rooms because we were so so close. We also have sticky situations with family members being around her. I can’t even IMAGINE thinking about excluding her. I can’t do it. I can’t think like those people. I respect y’all so much for being honest about everything while also not over sharing & upsetting everyone…. Yet also being factual about who is around the boys.
I love watching you love your children, they know they're loved, and they're smart too, just like their parents are! I was hoping you'd mention Braxton's art, I would love to see it, thank you for your honesty and kindly explaining yourself and your life now, I'm excited to see what's in store for The Fuller Five 💗💙🧒🧒🧒❤
You’ll always be an important part of each other’s lives…
You have both had so much going on at such a young age, that you didnt plan on. I think your priorities of getting yourselves and your friendship stronger is definitely the best way forward, but I do hope you make it as a couple in the future. You are both great parents and they say that these things only happen to those that can handle it, good luck for the future x
You have had to grow up super quick and I think you've both done an amazing job and you don't have to define, explain, apologise for anything you do. You do you, the best you can be and you be happy.
If it's meant to be, it will be. Most couples will never experience your challenges. You're growing through these struggles. If you learn to start growing together, these will just be difficult chapters in your love book. I have hope for you 2❤️💛✨️
So proud of you and how you are thriving as a Mother. ❤
You both are so Blessed. We've been married for 36 years. When our kids were born, we were Mom & Dad first. You both are doing a Wonderful job with the cards you have been dealt. Your 3 Boys are so very Precious and Loved. May God Bless you all.💕🙏🏻
I'm thrilled to hear that you are reading again. Trying to. Happy you find a bit of " self" time. Good for you. I journal every day. It helps me.
Come on fuller fam team let's get Ezra his portable needs😇❤️💪🏼
I wish you the best for your family. You’re such a strong young women! Prayers and hugs. Ignore the haters as best as you can. They’re the unhappy ones in the world.
Thank you so much for sharing. It is very easy for parents to become like hospital coworkers with an ill child. You guys were in a constant state of stress, which strangles relationships. Good for you for recognizing it! Sending prayers and love. Regardless of what happens, you will need to find an identity aside from mom and dad!
Bless your hearts! You've been amazing, both of you! Your parents are gems!! No matter what,the babies know they're loved! Big hugs from Blue Springs 💙💙💙
She has a KC shirt on, is she from KC? I live in Olathe.
I’m currently at home with my 5 month old son and he is a typically developing full term baby. He was also a wanted pregnancy with my husband. And it has been SO hard on our marriage and I really feel that sentiment of missing what your relationship once was. I feel you, but also have no idea what you guys have been through. Stay strong chick
Well I'm glad you two are working together being great parents!!
I know the rates of separating after multiples is super high. Add medically complex; I’m sure it’s super high. I’m a nurse and have been a NICU nurse. You would make a fantastic nurse. I’m proud of you and Braxton.
That's good y'all can work on yourself that y'all are Mature enough to know that❤️
Thank you 🫶🏼
You would be the best nicu nurse ever having lived through what you’ve lived through and dealt with it so capably. Lived experience has given you the best insight . My wish would be that all medical issues will eventually be resolved for the boys and that you and Braxton find your best relationship that works for all of you. You are looking healthier and better Aubrey, glad you are getting some time for yourself.😍
Completely understand the whole relationship ordeal. Very mature of you both honestly most people older then you too act far worse. Loved this video
The boys look so happy 😊 .
That shows what a great mom you are. You all have definitely been given a lot to deal with and you are handling it with such dignity and intelligence and they are so happy and it's such a beautiful thing to see. You all are inspiring. I pray that GOD blesses you all and keeps you all in HIS perfect peace
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You are wise beyond your years. I'd love for you to have a really good therapist to help you unload some of your pain. You're already a great nurse. Get that degree and shine💖
I brought my son home from the NICU over a year ago, and broke down while thinking about it as recently as last night! I’m thinking that particular hurt in my heart may always be there, pushed down most of the time because like you said - can’t really go back to that place! 17:11
If anyone can get to those 5 year goals it’s you. Sending ❤(Cheree B.)
I can’t thank you enough for sending money for his equipment. Thank you so much. 🤍 your kind words mean more than you know & your encouragement for our family.
@@thefullerfam my pleasure
Hi The Fuller five, you will both figure things out in time. Ya'll are great parents love you guys. 🧑👧👶👶👶🥰
You guys are awesome! Praying things will work out which ever God has planned for you all 🙏❤️
You are doing amazing! The boys are thriving, Be proud.😊Continue to take care of yourself. Ignore the negative comments. No one has a right to judge you let them try and walk in your shoes for a day. Keep doing you. 🌺
You have been through so.much. You amaze me. You are doing what you need to do for your family. I totally admire you. Trust yourself and take care of you! You are an amazing Mum. You will have learnt so much over the last two years. Studying nursing will be a walk in the park!
Cannot believe they will be two soon! Y'all are doing a great job! ❤️
Amazing job! NICU mom here too! Only one- so can only imagine what you felt. It was one of my darkest times too. Glad you are doing better, finding your co-parent groove, and best of all that the boys are home and thriving. That is due you ya'lls love and devotion to them and glory to God! Praying for your family.
I just found your channel, haven’t watched any other videos besides this one yet, of course seen pictures of family on videos which drew me too you. So glad I have watched this video first and got to know your beautiful soul first.. can’t wait to get into from the beginning after starting at most recent..bless you all.. lovelovelove ❤️🌸✌🏻
This made my night! Thank you for your kind words 🤍
Just wanted to say you’re killing it with your videos! I followed you for the triplet content but love all the new things you’re including like books, etc! Keep on sharing! 🥰
Where do you get your energy? Outstanding Mom, a great partner, have a wonderful mother and support ❤️ and still has time to make videos... Wow appreciate your life and openness. Please find time for yourself, you are important!
You do what you have to. Your kids are beautiful..
I've Heard that re: Nic Unit ( other families) is such a terrible situation or journey. Sad to hear it. I'm sure it's rough and tough in many ways. I'm sorry you've dealt with that one and many more things. I want to say I love watching you and your boys. This is my time for myself and I couldn't be happier to watch/ spend it with you. If I lived near you. I'd help you, be friends with you. I think your one terrific person. I love who you are. I like your opinions, style and course of things you do. I feel we have tons in common. Mikalyn Daugherty WPB FLORIDA.
No one's business about your relationship.. you need not explain. As long as it's mutual and he's involved in their lives... it's all good. These children deserve both parents as all kids do. He should help take care of his children. As long as y'all are good... Dont worry what other folks say but also keep in mind.. you are on social media with your business.. Dont tell folks everything. Keep some things to yourself. God bless your adorable family!
Great job flying through those but giving great honest feedback and advice! I wish the best for all of you!
I always thought that Croix and Daxon were the twins, because they basically look identical! :) But I know I’ve heard you say something before to Ezrah about Daxon being his twin, I just never put 2&2 together until this Vlog when you answered the question..lol That being said, isn’t it crazy how much Croix and Daxon look alike if they’re not twins then? Well, they are triplets, so not that crazy, I guess. Haha Anyway, you do a phenomenal job!! They’re lucky little guys to have such an amazing Mama! God Bless!! 👍🙏🏼✨
I totally get your relationship. Families aren't like a cookie cutter sort of thing. What ever works is perfect!!
Whoo hoo another video! Thank you souch!
Continued love, hugs, and prayers.
I’m praying for you guys and your sweet babies. ❤🙏
You both are amazing parents. Having to do all the trach changes and gastro feeds I just don’t know how you do it, so much to learn. Very proud of you both.
Awesome video! You should be soooo proud of where you are right now. I cwouldnt want to see anyone else be those boys mom. You are smart, loving, carrying and most of all true to your boys❤️❤️❤️
In one of your pre-Christmas videos, you said Ezra’s going to need hearing aids. There are times you call his name and he seems to respond which makes me wonder if he still needs them? Keep on keepin’ on! Sending loads of love from South Texas.
Such a great question! He has mild hearing loss in his right ear and mild to moderate in his left but only on one pitch (low pitch) so if I speak in a higher pitch he’s more likely to hear me and respond. He does have hearing aids right now actually but they were fitted for him in the nicu and sadly they keep having issues where they won’t stay in and they screech. He needs a new mold so we are getting one later this month or early next!
Girl you are so strong and brave. God new what he’s was doing when he picked you and Braxton to be there mommy and daddy. I’m so glad that your taking time for you and working on you because those 3 sweetie’s need a healthy Mama cause before you know it you’ll be chasing them all over. I’m so sorry to hear about y’all’s break up but if it’s meant to be God will handle it. I think y’all make a good team but sometimes taking a break to re access you is what you need most. My prayers are with y’all. Just stay strong remember to take time for you and trust all in God. We love y’all and your great parents! 💙💙💙
You guys are awesome! ❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
You guys rock putting your kids before anything else...Amazing co-parenting...i hope(know) that you're gonna be together again someday, this kind of splitup relationship always end up with being back together even after years of being apart ...hope you are all Healthy and well🙏🏻
Today I'm going to send PRAYERS AND LOVE FROM OKLAHOMA
Praying for you. Many couples don't make it with children with disabilities. I am sorry your relationship has not sustained. ❤❤❤
You Both Are Super Parents God Bless YOU ALL.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
The good thing you have on your side is youth! Your young you have a lot you can still do. I know a lot of people think 60-70 your over the hill but I retired at the age of 58 from a great career and started a new lucrative business. We have traveled since our 3 girls were very young. You will adjust to their disabilities trust me. Remember a lifetime partner is so much more than having a sexual relationship it’s more about the family and your partner being friends and having fun together with a goal of going out of town and taking your kids with you. You and Braxton will find each other again as you do your life. Your right breast feeding is your own decision but I won’t do it again. That’s my opinion Having 3babies and going threw nic time and postpartum is way so much it is a lot of mental crap and your doing great! Very proud of you guys trying life together. Do your life and Braxton will do his whether it be together or not. Please read you will love medical because you will read a lot.❤
I’ve never heard the word Croix pronounced the way you say it as Kuh-Roy. Very interesting. Used to always vacation in St Croix. ❤
Being from Canada, we pronounce it Cr-oah. And roll the tongue during the Cr
We named our son a bit different than others would but I wouldn’t change it ❤ different families, different pronunciations. Potato, poah-totto
I had my 2nd daughter 2013 and she has special needs I was only 21 yrs old it was very hard in the beginning back and fourth in the hospital every other month even weeks but thank the most high she's barely in the hospital now I know her condition like the back of my hand I learned so much over the years she's 9 yrs old and progressing very good she do have a G tube your boys will be Just fine and your a great mother from what I've seen
You are an amazing mum! God bless you!❤️
My child was 7 weeks premature and I had a hard time pumping the drs shamed me that I wasn't giving enough and what not but never gave me any advice on how to produce more milk AND TBH 7 yrs later certain sounds make me think of when she was in the NICU I did it not that long ago idr where I was or what I was doing but my brain instantly just went to memories of her in the NICU and seeing videos on TH-cam of a baby in the NICU just makes me cry and even the word las Vegas I'm like yeah no I don't want to go to Vegas because all I think about are the trips to and from when I'd go see my baby it was hard on me for sure like mentally physically and emotionally draining
You guys hv done a fantastic, amazing job with your boys,they are such beautiful boys,and you would make a fantastic nurse,you are one anyway without the license, thanks for being so honest about your feelings and life,the best to you and your family 😀
Do whatever works for you guys and don't listen to the negative comments. I think you sound like you have figured out what works for your family. Stay safe ❤
I think as a family with your mom& kids dad it'll be helpful for y'all to have some therapy sessions together y'all need to heal together but I'm sure that's baby steps wishing y'all the best❤️☺️
My mother in law has a child who had all the same diagnoses as Ezra. She had a double stroller just for him where one seat plus the bottom was just for his equipment.
We love you too.
You really got me beat your amazing at time management I have one son and haven't put out a video you have 3 and making videos every week💪🏼😅😭👏🏼
You answered all the questions so so well. You are both amazing parents, work so hard and care so much. I admire your dedication to your beautiful ❤️💕❤️ triplets. I send much love and all good wishes for the future as your little boys get stronger, from the UK.
I love how you fill us in on so much of your families life and applaud the job you are doing so amazing. I just was wondering if you worry about power outages with the boys equipment requiring electric?
I love u and ur family, ur such an amazing mom and dad!!!!
Yes . . . very mature approach
Prayers n Love sent your way!!
You both are great parents
I decided not to have kids for multiple reasons so I can't relate to being a mother but as someone who grew up in an abusive home that was made much worse by parents who were in a toxic unhappy marriage I can promise you that it's a MILLION times better for everyone involved if the parents split versus staying together just because of some stupid outdated belief 🤷🏻♀️ Never understood people who push that shit and shame others who don't do it. If someone isn't happy on a personal level, isn't happy in their relationship, etc then how in the world can they properly take care of their kid(s)? They can't and their issues will cause issues for the kid(s).. so ignore the people who say otherwise 🤦🏻♀️
Agreed 100%! Although we are making strides to working through things, my parents divorce was the best thing that ever happened to my sister and I. Our lives changed drastically and for the best. When they separated we actually built closer bonds with our parents and worked through so many things together. Plus, We love our stepdad so much!