I used a number generator and chose Pile 1 for this video. What was interesting is I ended up on your, “What are people currently saying about you?” Video from 11 months ago randomly when I clicked on the current video. In that video it was said about living a luxurious lifestyle, having a provider male, being born into this lifestyle due to my Father, etc. - which the majority of this was true! However; the current video for number one is complete opposite. People assume because they think I’m highly attractive and I work so hard + covering all of my financial responsibilities that I’m dating several men who I allow not to provide for myself or child. And that if I were holding these men accountable, then I wouldn’t have to work so hard to take care of myself, responsibilities, and child. I provide, my son is well taken care of, and I’m not delayed on bills. 🙅🏽♀️ If so, I’d ask for help. I’d never allow my child and I to intentionally struggle due to my lack of prioritizations. When the truth is, I was previously celibate for 8 years before becoming engaged and meeting my son’s Father. Once having my son, he became emotional, mentally abusive - exposed for being a narcissist and his family confirmed it. I left with my son as a form of protection and have dated other men on and off, but never turned into committed relationships as I cut it off when I notice manipulation, gas lighting behavior, non-provider tendencies, attempts to not being treated fairly…and I often hear people say a person of my caliber + looks should have men taking care of their needs as women who are on a lesser caliber and looks have men taking care of their needs and children. I have a decent job, savings account, I’m not on government assistance, and I don’t ask for handouts. My son is 3 years old. I’m trying maneuver this dating scene as I desire to be married. It gets discouraging a bit and I’ve been trying to learn the new dating scene as I’ve only really known to be in committed relationships. But I don’t give men any money, materials, or try to buy their love to be with me.
I feel that. Any this is what people are saying not what is actually true. People will always speak. Even when they don’t know anything. You’re doing great sweetie. I see you. I love you. And keep going. The dating scene is a mess right now but there are and always will be amazing people in the world. Just continue to use your discernment. It takes time and a lot of trial and error but it’s always worth it in the end.
I used a number generator and chose Pile 1 for this video. What was interesting is I ended up on your, “What are people currently saying about you?” Video from 11 months ago randomly when I clicked on the current video.
In that video it was said about living a luxurious lifestyle, having a provider male, being born into this lifestyle due to my Father, etc. - which the majority of this was true!
However; the current video for number one is complete opposite. People assume because they think I’m highly attractive and I work so hard + covering all of my financial responsibilities that I’m dating several men who I allow not to provide for myself or child. And that if I were holding these men accountable, then I wouldn’t have to work so hard to take care of myself, responsibilities, and child. I provide, my son is well taken care of, and I’m not delayed on bills. 🙅🏽♀️ If so, I’d ask for help. I’d never allow my child and I to intentionally struggle due to my lack of prioritizations.
When the truth is, I was previously celibate for 8 years before becoming engaged and meeting my son’s Father. Once having my son, he became emotional, mentally abusive - exposed for being a narcissist and his family confirmed it.
I left with my son as a form of protection and have dated other men on and off, but never turned into committed relationships as I cut it off when I notice manipulation, gas lighting behavior, non-provider tendencies, attempts to not being treated fairly…and I often hear people say a person of my caliber + looks should have men taking care of their needs as women who are on a lesser caliber and looks have men taking care of their needs and children. I have a decent job, savings account, I’m not on government assistance, and I don’t ask for handouts. My son is 3 years old.
I’m trying maneuver this dating scene as I desire to be married. It gets discouraging a bit and I’ve been trying to learn the new dating scene as I’ve only really known to be in committed relationships. But I don’t give men any money, materials, or try to buy their love to be with me.
I feel that. Any this is what people are saying not what is actually true. People will always speak. Even when they don’t know anything. You’re doing great sweetie. I see you. I love you. And keep going. The dating scene is a mess right now but there are and always will be amazing people in the world. Just continue to use your discernment. It takes time and a lot of trial and error but it’s always worth it in the end.
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