I don’t normally comment but after reading some of these self righteous comments on this video I wanted to thank you Jill for putting up cleaning motivation for the people that appreciate it and come here to watch your content, not come here to compare themselves to you and criticize you to make themselves feel better about themselves. Yes they may “never let their children make messes like that” but I am glad you are teaching your children not to run others down to make themselves feel better like the example some of these people are setting for their children in the comments by criticizing you. I know you are going through a lot right now. Most of us appreciate that you are still taking the time to give us great cleaning content since that is what most of us watch cleaning channels for after all who wants to watch someone clean an already clean house? Keeping you and your family in my prayers ❤
@@n.s.c_ I don't understand how people live like this they throw their clothes on the floor they don't clean up after themselves and then they have an overwhelming mess I guess I was taught differently growing up If every day you straighten out put your clothes away hang up the clothes that you're not using put your dirty clothes in laundry make your bed throw garbage out to your dishes your house will never I look like this all her videos she has a mess all the time in all her rooms after she worked so hard to clean you think it would stay clean for a while I would rather do other things with my time than have to do all this cleaning How do you live in that mess I'm talking about all the rooms numerous times she has done videos and it's always the same a mess
I clean my kids rooms EVERDAY and it doesn’t even last 5 minutes 🫠 people that judge usually are the ones that don’t have kids, or are ashamed of the way their house looks! Great job ❤
Hi Jill First I want to tell you that you are very awesome and honest to show us your home and your life as it is and share it with us. I love the way you live, clean and motivate others. Please don’t feel sad for these comments of sick people, it’s your life so be brave and live it the way you want. I feel so motivated and happy when I watch your videos. God bless you and your family. Love you ❤
I just hope that all the women that are criticizing you never have to go through watching someone with cancer! You have a lot on your plate. I know, I’ve been there. ❣️
I’m watching your new video and I had to come back here and tell you, you are one of my favorite TH-camrs. Honey do not take in the haters comments. You know your worth and all of us know your heart and your struggles. I’m praying for you and your family. Unfortunately I know what your going through with your dad. It’s so fricking hard and I’m so thankful you are spending all your time with them. Hang in there my friend many of us are sending lots of love and prayers. 🙏❤️
Thank you 💗💗 I appreciate people like you 💗 I think I will be turning my comments off from now on to preserve my mental health…. It’s just a bummer that I won’t be able to get the supportive comments anymore either….
Don't take it personally, remember that the hater's comments are not a reflection of you, but rather a reflection of their own insecurities and issues so Ignore if necessary If the hater is being completely unreasonable or offensive, it's best to simply ignore them and move on. Don't waste your time and energy on negativity. Stay Strong Stay Blessed and keep it up you worked hard to establish your channel Jill that's all I would say.
I like the transformation but I agree with another follower. I would have had the girls in there helping. If they take responsibility, they make keep their space in order. It just takes a couple of minutes every day to clean up. Kids will be kids but they can be great helpers too!
They do clean their room every day but it was getting out of control which is when I come in and get rid of a bunch of crap without them in here or else they will not let me get rid of their junk. They get attached to junk.
Great job! I love the beds all bunked together so they have more space!! Any plans to finish their floors or molding/baseboards? Think it would really finish the room!🥰🙏🏻
When you moved the dresser and suddenly there is a little kid back there I couldn't help but laugh out loud 😹 Oh the things we find when we deep clean our kids rooms, right ?! Hahahaha
Hey, watching your new video and I heard you say you were trying to get lipgloss off the fabric of your sofa. Try Murphy’s Oil Soap, and rinse with warm water. It should help break down the oils from the lip gloss ❤ Great job shutting down the haters, those who love watching you will understand 🥰
It's amazing how judgemental someone can be when their not the ones filming their homes. All you haters take a step back and really think about what would people say if it was your home being filmed for TH-cam. No one is perfect! So before judging jill how about you really take a good look and look at your own homes and judge yourself. As for you Jill keep your head up you are doing an amazing job and don't ever let anyone dispute that!!!!
From watching other you tubers, I would keep decluttering all the toys with small pieces. It’s too much work to maintain. But either wise it must feel good to have a clean out.
Jill I think your a great mum and doing a great job looking after your family its bound to get messy kids are kids and I see them cleaning up in lots of your videos you take care hope your soon feeling better people can be so nasty don't take any notice x
Great job girls!! You are doing awesome. I think Rich is hesitant to switch rooms since he's afraid that if you go down that rabbit hole it will end up like the livingroom and suddenly you are all switching rooms all the time. ;) Or maybe he just likes your room. However, it's very annoying with these nasty comments. I hope you will be able to turn on comments again. I am always rooting for you and cheering you on from my little corner of the world. A lot of love to you and your big family. Many hugs! /Rebecka
Hello...I am new here. Natasha from India. Just a suggestion why not let your eldest princess make the "walk in " her room ?love your videos ...you are awesome...
Why because someone has an opinion and you don't like it because I said the God's honest truth don't make videos and put it out there if people are not able to respond She has clean this bedroom numerous times and every single time it was a disaster you think you would learn after the 1st time don't let it get this Bad
@@AtHomeWithJill Jill I am not looking to fight with you I have watched your videos in the past and I've always enjoyed them I wish I had your strength and energy you amaze me with all that you could get John but I had an opinion and that's all this is about if you don't like what I say then don't put the contact out there that's it
Man some ppl & their comments are so rude & no help. I love how it turned out! Especially w/a lot of company things may not stay perfect but what matters is you maintain what you can & it's so sweet your neice was awesome at helping!! Great job & kudos for having that energy!! I need to get to that level 😊 also a thought while reading these--idk if u do this already, & I'm sure the girls already practice their chores, but when you do start seeing clothes and blankets pile up perhaps ask them to come in or gentle remind of 'where does this belong' or 'where do we put it when we're done?' & have a stand up hamper in the corner? I find having an easy home nearby they can put it in & those gradual reminders can be helpful at forming habits (rather than some ppl here suggesting to just stand & yell until it's gone). Without an easy home to put it in & practice, it can easily start to pile up in a small space & be overwhelming. Or even a 10 minute power timer of 'I spy' to see who can find the most small things to put away so it's more fun & saves on the back from picking things up 😆 Again GREAT JOB!! Thank you for sharing esp. given how busy things are!!
I like Jill's videos but I thought this was very overwhelming how could you have the children even sleeping in the room there wasn't one spot to even walk on not even in back of the bed under the bed all kinds of c*** I think the children if they can't straighten out after they play that they shouldn't have all those things in the room to each their own Everybody has an opinion and then again if she didn't have a room a mess what video was she going to make who wants to see someone cleaning and already clean room but of course the room was more than cluttered it was a pig's die how do the children sleep at night with that mess
@@ImaOKay522 Like everyone else I'm only saying my opinion if you do not want to hear anything they shouldn't make these these videos I didn't say anything wrong I only said the room was a pig's Sty I have watched her videos a long time and I always enjoy them but when I saw the room like this and the children had to sleep in it I just put and believe There wasn't even room to walk
@Josette Lisella understood, we all have our opinions. I hear the part about overwhelm, but given how many ppl & the nature for why there's so many ppl in a small space rn I think it's always good to give kindness & grace. If ppl are feeling low or just overwhelmed it can spiral out, so I think it's great for her to say enough and continue to try to make change and have help when you need. I know my mom would not have this, but I also know we have different struggles and are at different parts of our journey. I think that's why ideas or critique are appropriate because straight criticism can be defeating. I can see some frustration can also come from a place of care to succeed or concern to try to prevent it from getting to this point again in the future, otherwise it's tiring to change the results over and over and not the cause of these occurring. Especially during this time I feel we can all benefit from rooting for each others progress and success regardless of our feelings for how we would have it. Easier said than done sometimes lol
@@pyrobunnymaniac She has cleaned this bedroom numerous times in the past if you look at her videos and every single time the room was a disaster you think after the 1st time and you work so hard you would never get it to that point you would say girls as we have to clean the room up I think she makes this contact to make money off the videos who lives like that Even the other rooms in our house are a mess all the time
Im sorry to see some of these comments, Jill. As you put this content up for free and don’t have to give a window into your life. Thinking they are from people who haven’t watched for a while.
I too feel protective of you. You are going through a lot. When my dad was sick, I had to stop doing public art shows; it was just too much for me to handle emotionally with everything going on. I love the content that you share with us and I also deeply respect whatever boundaries you need to set at this time. I will be here as a subscriber no matter what you need to do for your well being right now. Sending love.🥰
I get so overwhelmed with my childrens things, and things that family members have left behind. I just wish I had help to declutter things that are too much work to sort out by myself. The clutter has made my anxiety and sometimes depression get the best of me. I don't want my kids to think it's ok to live in a mess of clutter or just things everywhere. My mom was a hoarder and I don't want myself or family to fall into that hole of comfort of haording things forever. Seems like I have things here from 20yrs ago. It's just so difficult to sort items that don't belong to me yet the owners won't come help sort or remove it .. what advice can you give me. I'm loosing myself in this mess. 😕
My heart goes out to you! First, I would suggest getting rid of other peoples items they left with you- our adult children left so much when they bounced back home a few times and treated our house and garage as an unpaid storage unit. We sent them an email saying that if they don’t come and get their stuff it would be brought to the landfill by a certain date (we emailed them on May 1st, gave them until June 30th and loaded a trailer and bed of our truck 3 times on August 1st) best $75 we spent as doing this cleared up 3/4 of our huge 2 car garage and shop. Once you do this, and you have to leave the guilt and emotion out of it, then empty a drawer and clean it out and throw away what you decluttered. Basically, it’s like eating an elephant, one bite at a time. Focus on ONE are in ONE room and keep at it each day for 30 minutes a day until that room is done. The thing I had to do is be ruthless with myself, there we things in boxes for 11+ years I never went through, so I made sure their were no photos or valuables and trashed the rest, I went from having no room in drawers and closets to having a few empty closets and drawers in each room- it took over a year but it happened. Also, once you get rid of other peoples things, keep your kitchen sink and counters clean, don’t decluttered anything in there just maintain dishes daily, it kind of gave me a mental boost to tackle one trouble spot. Pick the area that has tears flowing the most and focus on just that area until it’s done, like I said, it took me a year to decluttered and about 10 years later I had to do it again but it didn’t take nearly as long like 4-6 months and that was because I emptied the entire room, painted and put new flooring in and as I was bringing things back in, I determined if it really needed to go back into the room or even stay in the house, each room got the same attention from spring to late fall. One bite at a time.
You did a good job it looks a lot better I was just wondering how many kids do you have I watch a few different people clean, declutter and organize and I have either forgotten or I'm mixing it up who has how many kids 1 has two and one on the way another has 5 another has four and one on the way so I was wondering how many do you have and how many are boy and girls
@@AtHomeWithJill Ok that's a lot of kid's but you can get the older one's to help out some so that's good I have 1 daughter she lives with her dad and grandma and she just turned 20 last September and my man has 3 girls that don't live with us 2 are adults and 1 is a teen so we have no kids living with us but we do have 7 dog's and 3 cat's that are our fur baby's
@@AtHomeWithJill wow! My kids have had theirs for 2 years and they’re still in great condition. My kids especially my three boys aren’t gentle with things either. Not trying to compare but trying to figure out why they didn’t hold up?
Her bedding is all still on there but she piles a million blankets on her bed during winter….. the lights fell off one day and we just haven’t put them back up….. something on the never ending to do list
Have you ever thought of swapping rooms with the girls? It's almost impossible to fit them in that smaller room, lol. Too bad you couldn't close in office for a bedroom.
I think some of you read a rude comment and then think ..hmm..🤔 I’m leaving one too. Everybody else is doing it!! Learn to be a leader, not a follower. All of the negative comments are just ridiculous! I’ve seen tons of way worse rooms than these! 🙄
Honestly, I would’ve left the top bunk where it was. She’s getting older an won’t want to keep climbing up there. Also, in an emergency, she’s way up there.
@@AtHomeWithJill are the older girls old enough to work together to change the sheets, especially if she wants to be up there maybe they can take over that chore? Just a thought.
@@judykhaleck8034 I know you weren’t trying to be mean. I’ve done this too. I one time asked someone and made them uncomfortable, maybe they were and didn’t want to announce yet or maybe they weren’t. I’ve had people ask me and I was just bloated. So I’ve just picked up from the younger generation that they don’t ask these questions.
I would never allow this I would take other toys out and only give a minimum clothes until they're old enough to keep the room clean this is a pig sty I would have them in that room seeing the mess and I would be screaming like a maniac that they don't keep the room clean and your girls are old enough to do so
Me, too! I can't imagine letting those girls trash their room like that...Teach them to pick up their stuff and put it away....Towels, clothes toys, all on the floor? It does not do them a service to let them do this!
@@nancybudka3282 Thanks. I know sometimes there might be set ups, but in this case, they aren't teaching the children much...We have seen this room before, and it has looked like this before.
Guys, stop watching my channel if this bothers you…… my girls do clean and help every single day but their room always gets out of hand because they tend to hoard a bunch of junk they don’t need and my 5 year old is obsessed with cutting up coloring books. It’s been extra messy now with 10 other kids staying with us which is why I decided to go in there one day without my girls because they just beg me not to get rid of anything. Good grief you all think you KNOW ME and you don’t. Bye!!!
I don’t normally comment but after reading some of these self righteous comments on this video I wanted to thank you Jill for putting up cleaning motivation for the people that appreciate it and come here to watch your content, not come here to compare themselves to you and criticize you to make themselves feel better about themselves. Yes they may “never let their children make messes like that” but I am glad you are teaching your children not to run others down to make themselves feel better like the example some of these people are setting for their children in the comments by criticizing you. I know you are going through a lot right now. Most of us appreciate that you are still taking the time to give us great cleaning content since that is what most of us watch cleaning channels for after all who wants to watch someone clean an already clean house? Keeping you and your family in my prayers ❤
Thank you so much 😭😭😭
Don't make videos if you don't want to hear the truth everybody has an opinion that you may not like
Don't make videos if you're not allowed to comment Everyone Has an opinion I have a right to my opinion Just as you Have a right to yours
Real life cleaning videos. If there's no real messes why are we watching. Love this video 😍
@@n.s.c_ I don't understand how people live like this they throw their clothes on the floor they don't clean up after themselves and then they have an overwhelming mess I guess I was taught differently growing up If every day you straighten out put your clothes away hang up the clothes that you're not using put your dirty clothes in laundry make your bed throw garbage out to your dishes your house will never I look like this all her videos she has a mess all the time in all her rooms after she worked so hard to clean you think it would stay clean for a while I would rather do other things with my time than have to do all this cleaning How do you live in that mess I'm talking about all the rooms numerous times she has done videos and it's always the same a mess
I’m 16 and I love watching cleaning videos I thought this was very motivating. Keep it up ❤
I clean my kids rooms EVERDAY and it doesn’t even last 5 minutes 🫠 people that judge usually are the ones that don’t have kids, or are ashamed of the way their house looks! Great job ❤
Hi Jill
First I want to tell you that you are very awesome and honest to show us your home and your life as it is and share it with us. I love the way you live, clean and motivate others. Please don’t feel sad for these comments of sick people, it’s your life so be brave and live it the way you want. I feel so motivated and happy when I watch your videos. God bless you and your family. Love you ❤
Watching you and your niece working on a project together was the sweetest. ❤️ The room looks wonderful.
I just hope that all the women that are criticizing you never have to go through watching someone with cancer! You have a lot on your plate. I know, I’ve been there. ❣️
I think the room looks great! Your niece was sweet to help you! What a blessing.
Thank you!!!!
She has been a huge blessing to me!!!
The room turned out great! You and your niece did amazing! Don't let the rude people get you down. You are an inspiration to so many! Much love💕
I’m watching your new video and I had to come back here and tell you, you are one of my favorite TH-camrs. Honey do not take in the haters comments. You know your worth and all of us know your heart and your struggles. I’m praying for you and your family. Unfortunately I know what your going through with your dad. It’s so fricking hard and I’m so thankful you are spending all your time with them. Hang in there my friend many of us are sending lots of love and prayers. 🙏❤️
Jill, I'm so sorry that you are getting these comments! You are going through so much right now on top of "normal" life. Praying you feel better soon!
Thank you 💗💗 I appreciate people like you 💗 I think I will be turning my comments off from now on to preserve my mental health…. It’s just a bummer that I won’t be able to get the supportive comments anymore either….
Don't take it personally, remember that the hater's comments are not a reflection of you, but rather a reflection of their own insecurities and issues so Ignore if necessary If the hater is being completely unreasonable or offensive, it's best to simply ignore them and move on. Don't waste your time and energy on negativity.
Stay Strong Stay Blessed and keep it up you worked hard to establish your channel Jill that's all I would say.
Also, I love the stacked bunks! Makes the rest of the room feel so open!
Thank you!
Hi Jill , nice to see your niece helping you ❤️
I like the transformation but I agree with another follower. I would have had the girls in there helping. If they take responsibility, they make keep their space in order. It just takes a couple of minutes every day to clean up. Kids will be kids but they can be great helpers too!
They do clean their room every day but it was getting out of control which is when I come in and get rid of a bunch of crap without them in here or else they will not let me get rid of their junk. They get attached to junk.
I love how your niece pays attention to detail when she’s making the beds. 😊
Yes!
I noticed that too. So loving; you can see she is having fun making it nice to the littler ones.🥰
She is amazing. Me and my kids went to co-op one day with our homeschool group and when I came home she had cleaned the whole kitchen and pantry
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What a great niece to help! Great bonding ❤️ love it Jill
What a lovely niece! I was overwhelmed with what you had to do but you did it! Well done both 🇬🇧🤓💐💖
It's always so amazing how many tiny little things our littles collect!! What a difference you made!
It really is! Thank you!
Great job! I love the beds all bunked together so they have more space!! Any plans to finish their floors or molding/baseboards? Think it would really finish the room!🥰🙏🏻
Loved this motivational video. My kids room is the same. Only thing that bothered me is the shoes on the clean bed and house lol
Super proud of you turning off comments in your new video 💪
When you moved the dresser and suddenly there is a little kid back there I couldn't help but laugh out loud 😹
Oh the things we find when we deep clean our kids rooms, right ?! Hahahaha
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Girl I was the same way 🤣🤣🤣
Hey, watching your new video and I heard you say you were trying to get lipgloss off the fabric of your sofa. Try Murphy’s Oil Soap, and rinse with warm water. It should help break down the oils from the lip gloss ❤ Great job shutting down the haters, those who love watching you will understand 🥰
It's amazing how judgemental someone can be when their not the ones filming their homes. All you haters take a step back and really think about what would people say if it was your home being filmed for TH-cam. No one is perfect! So before judging jill how about you really take a good look and look at your own homes and judge yourself. As for you Jill keep your head up you are doing an amazing job and don't ever let anyone dispute that!!!!
From watching other you tubers, I would keep decluttering all the toys with small pieces. It’s too much work to maintain. But either wise it must feel good to have a clean out.
I got rid of almost ALL the little pieces! Felt so nice!
Jill I think your a great mum and doing a great job looking after your family its bound to get messy kids are kids and I see them cleaning up in lots of your videos you take care hope your soon feeling better people can be so nasty don't take any notice x
❤❤❤ your videos motivate me- thank you!
My kids literally destroy my house daily 🥴 it is what it is 🤣 great job ❤️
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Looks great! Do you plan on finishing the bones of the room (moulding, finishing the drywall and painting)?
Eventually but our home Reno money is going towards bathrooms right now
You both did a fantastic job, it looks great
Thank you!!!
You guys did so well!
Thank you!!!
Great job girls!! You are doing awesome. I think Rich is hesitant to switch rooms since he's afraid that if you go down that rabbit hole it will end up like the livingroom and suddenly you are all switching rooms all the time. ;) Or maybe he just likes your room. However, it's very annoying with these nasty comments. I hope you will be able to turn on comments again. I am always rooting for you and cheering you on from my little corner of the world. A lot of love to you and your big family. Many hugs! /Rebecka
Hello...I am new here. Natasha from India. Just a suggestion why not let your eldest princess make the "walk in " her room ?love your videos ...you are awesome...
Wow. What a great transformation. Inspiring.
Thanks so much!
It was cute when u moved the dresser and I saw a baby there.
❤❤❤. Saludos desde MEXICO … WOW YOU HAVE AMAZING FAMILY SUPPORT…… Besos 😘
Jill, I’m sorry there are so many nasty people. You don’t deserve to be treated this way.
Why because someone has an opinion and you don't like it because I said the God's honest truth don't make videos and put it out there if people are not able to respond She has clean this bedroom numerous times and every single time it was a disaster you think you would learn after the 1st time don't let it get this Bad
Josette is bored out of her mind. She has been in my comment section for days just typing her life away
@@AtHomeWithJill Jill I am not looking to fight with you I have watched your videos in the past and I've always enjoyed them I wish I had your strength and energy you amaze me with all that you could get John but I had an opinion and that's all this is about if you don't like what I say then don't put the contact out there that's it
But @Josette why can’t you have an opinion without using it to hurt people? I just do not understand why.
@@josettelisella9513 no because you’re being very rude and there’s no need. Just shut your pie hole. Now look I’m being rude like you.
Jill stop throwing dollies away !!! 😂😂 💐
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Man some ppl & their comments are so rude & no help. I love how it turned out! Especially w/a lot of company things may not stay perfect but what matters is you maintain what you can & it's so sweet your neice was awesome at helping!! Great job & kudos for having that energy!! I need to get to that level 😊
also a thought while reading these--idk if u do this already, & I'm sure the girls already practice their chores, but when you do start seeing clothes and blankets pile up perhaps ask them to come in or gentle remind of 'where does this belong' or 'where do we put it when we're done?' & have a stand up hamper in the corner? I find having an easy home nearby they can put it in & those gradual reminders can be helpful at forming habits (rather than some ppl here suggesting to just stand & yell until it's gone). Without an easy home to put it in & practice, it can easily start to pile up in a small space & be overwhelming. Or even a 10 minute power timer of 'I spy' to see who can find the most small things to put away so it's more fun & saves on the back from picking things up 😆
Again GREAT JOB!! Thank you for sharing esp. given how busy things are!!
I like Jill's videos but I thought this was very overwhelming how could you have the children even sleeping in the room there wasn't one spot to even walk on not even in back of the bed under the bed all kinds of c*** I think the children if they can't straighten out after they play that they shouldn't have all those things in the room to each their own Everybody has an opinion and then again if she didn't have a room a mess what video was she going to make who wants to see someone cleaning and already clean room but of course the room was more than cluttered it was a pig's die how do the children sleep at night with that mess
@@ImaOKay522 Like everyone else I'm only saying my opinion if you do not want to hear anything they shouldn't make these these videos I didn't say anything wrong I only said the room was a pig's Sty I have watched her videos a long time and I always enjoy them but when I saw the room like this and the children had to sleep in it I just put and believe There wasn't even room to walk
@Josette Lisella understood, we all have our opinions. I hear the part about overwhelm, but given how many ppl & the nature for why there's so many ppl in a small space rn I think it's always good to give kindness & grace. If ppl are feeling low or just overwhelmed it can spiral out, so I think it's great for her to say enough and continue to try to make change and have help when you need. I know my mom would not have this, but I also know we have different struggles and are at different parts of our journey. I think that's why ideas or critique are appropriate because straight criticism can be defeating. I can see some frustration can also come from a place of care to succeed or concern to try to prevent it from getting to this point again in the future, otherwise it's tiring to change the results over and over and not the cause of these occurring. Especially during this time I feel we can all benefit from rooting for each others progress and success regardless of our feelings for how we would have it. Easier said than done sometimes lol
@@pyrobunnymaniac She has cleaned this bedroom numerous times in the past if you look at her videos and every single time the room was a disaster you think after the 1st time and you work so hard you would never get it to that point you would say girls as we have to clean the room up I think she makes this contact to make money off the videos who lives like that Even the other rooms in our house are a mess all the time
@@ImaOKay522 No just speaking the truth you don't like to hear it
Good job jill and niece love the video. ❤😊👍
Im sorry to see some of these comments, Jill. As you put this content up for free and don’t have to give a window into your life.
Thinking they are from people who haven’t watched for a while.
Thanks girl, I think I’m gonna turn my comments off. It’s what is needed for my mental health
I too feel protective of you. You are going through a lot. When my dad was sick, I had to stop doing public art shows; it was just too much for me to handle emotionally with everything going on. I love the content that you share with us and I also deeply respect whatever boundaries you need to set at this time. I will be here as a subscriber no matter what you need to do for your well being right now. Sending love.🥰
Thank you thank you thank you 😘😘😘😘😘
@@AtHomeWithJill 🥰
I get so overwhelmed with my childrens things, and things that family members have left behind. I just wish I had help to declutter things that are too much work to sort out by myself. The clutter has made my anxiety and sometimes depression get the best of me. I don't want my kids to think it's ok to live in a mess of clutter or just things everywhere. My mom was a hoarder and I don't want myself or family to fall into that hole of comfort of haording things forever. Seems like I have things here from 20yrs ago. It's just so difficult to sort items that don't belong to me yet the owners won't come help sort or remove it .. what advice can you give me. I'm loosing myself in this mess. 😕
My heart goes out to you! First, I would suggest getting rid of other peoples items they left with you- our adult children left so much when they bounced back home a few times and treated our house and garage as an unpaid storage unit. We sent them an email saying that if they don’t come and get their stuff it would be brought to the landfill by a certain date (we emailed them on May 1st, gave them until June 30th and loaded a trailer and bed of our truck 3 times on August 1st) best $75 we spent as doing this cleared up 3/4 of our huge 2 car garage and shop. Once you do this, and you have to leave the guilt and emotion out of it, then empty a drawer and clean it out and throw away what you decluttered. Basically, it’s like eating an elephant, one bite at a time. Focus on ONE are in ONE room and keep at it each day for 30 minutes a day until that room is done. The thing I had to do is be ruthless with myself, there we things in boxes for 11+ years I never went through, so I made sure their were no photos or valuables and trashed the rest, I went from having no room in drawers and closets to having a few empty closets and drawers in each room- it took over a year but it happened. Also, once you get rid of other peoples things, keep your kitchen sink and counters clean, don’t decluttered anything in there just maintain dishes daily, it kind of gave me a mental boost to tackle one trouble spot. Pick the area that has tears flowing the most and focus on just that area until it’s done, like I said, it took me a year to decluttered and about 10 years later I had to do it again but it didn’t take nearly as long like 4-6 months and that was because I emptied the entire room, painted and put new flooring in and as I was bringing things back in, I determined if it really needed to go back into the room or even stay in the house, each room got the same attention from spring to late fall. One bite at a time.
Great Advice. Thanks
I feel exactly the same way. The anxiety and depression are no joke, they are here and present 24/7.
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You did a good job it looks a lot better I was just wondering how many kids do you have I watch a few different people clean, declutter and organize and I have either forgotten or I'm mixing it up who has how many kids 1 has two and one on the way another has 5 another has four and one on the way so I was wondering how many do you have and how many are boy and girls
I have 4 and a bonus step son. But my sister is here staying with us and she has 10
@@AtHomeWithJill Ok that's a lot of kid's but you can get the older one's to help out some so that's good I have 1 daughter she lives with her dad and grandma and she just turned 20 last September and my man has 3 girls that don't live with us 2 are adults and 1 is a teen so we have no kids living with us but we do have 7 dog's and 3 cat's that are our fur baby's
Amazing difference!! You definitely need Beddys now!!
See other comment about beddy’s!!! Been there done that!
I wanted them sooooooo bad too
@@AtHomeWithJill I don’t see the other comment. What happened?
It’s kind of a long story but basically we had them and they did not hold up. They ripped and had huge holes in them after a year
@@AtHomeWithJill wow! My kids have had theirs for 2 years and they’re still in great condition. My kids especially my three boys aren’t gentle with things either. Not trying to compare but trying to figure out why they didn’t hold up?
I thought you got her new bedding and lights and stuff for her area. What happened to all that stuff? Just curious
Her bedding is all still on there but she piles a million blankets on her bed during winter….. the lights fell off one day and we just haven’t put them back up….. something on the never ending to do list
Emily is the best bunk bed maker ever. 💖 You should time how long it takes for the girls to mess it all up. 🤣 Love the garbage full of rubbish. 🤩
They’ve been keeping it up every day!!!!!
@@AtHomeWithJill Well done girls 🥰
Have you ever thought of swapping rooms with the girls? It's almost impossible to fit them in that smaller room, lol. Too bad you couldn't close in office for a bedroom.
I’ve been begging Rich to let us swap rooms but he doesn’t like the idea
I was literally coming to say the same thing!
@@eing20 As the girls get older and bigger-that rooms not going to work anymore?
I agree with the others swapping rooms with the others boys beds could go under each black lamp . Could you try it for a weekend or a week ?
I want to swap rooms but no one else is on board yet…
Since your girl’s share rooms. Have you ever considered updating their dresser drawer to a much larger ☝️?
I think some of you read a rude comment and then think ..hmm..🤔 I’m leaving one too. Everybody else is doing it!! Learn to be a leader, not a follower. All of the negative comments are just ridiculous! I’ve seen tons of way worse rooms than these! 🙄
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Honestly, I would’ve left the top bunk where it was. She’s getting older an won’t want to keep climbing up there. Also, in an emergency, she’s way up there.
She begged to be up there
It won’t last long cause I hate changing the sheets up there
@@AtHomeWithJill are the older girls old enough to work together to change the sheets, especially if she wants to be up there maybe they can take over that chore? Just a thought.
Do your girl’s have there owned bathrooms?
Yes
@@missmustache4207Thank You so much for replying to me. It’s mean a lot. ❤😘
👋 Jill, How are you? How was your weekend? How are you feeling mentally and physically? I got a question for you. Are you expecting another kids?
Nope guess I’m just getting fat, thanks for noticing…..
Though you probably meant well. We don’t talk about a lady’s body now a days, we don’t know what they are going through.
I hope I am not being rude but you are such a nice mom,hoping you are or will have more babies soon
@@missmustache4207I wasn’t trying to be mean. Maybe it was the shirt-dress she was wearing that I thought of it that way.
@@judykhaleck8034 I know you weren’t trying to be mean. I’ve done this too. I one time asked someone and made them uncomfortable, maybe they were and didn’t want to announce yet or maybe they weren’t. I’ve had people ask me and I was just bloated. So I’ve just picked up from the younger generation that they don’t ask these questions.
I'm so happy you moved their beds that is great, cause I was afraid they will get electrocuted great job
One word: Beddy’s
They all 3 had beddies and they all 3 had the bottom sheet get holes and fall apart. My boys have beddies on their beds.
@@AtHomeWithJill Okay. I just realized how much they cost too. I was shooting from the hip.
🤣🤣 all our girls got them for Christmas one year with Black Friday and then the next year we got the boys them and then the girls’ started ripping
You need to get rid of everything they leave on the floor it’s just to much for you to keep up on ❤
Use it and look after it or lose it ❤
I would never allow this I would take other toys out and only give a minimum clothes until they're old enough to keep the room clean this is a pig sty I would have them in that room seeing the mess and I would be screaming like a maniac that they don't keep the room clean and your girls are old enough to do so
Me, too! I can't imagine letting those girls trash their room like that...Teach them to pick up their stuff and put it away....Towels, clothes toys, all on the floor? It does not do them a service to let them do this!
I hear some cleaning TH-cam channels let their homes go out-of-control so they have more impactful “cleaning” content to film.
@@nancybudka3282 Thanks. I know sometimes there might be set ups, but in this case, they aren't teaching the children much...We have seen this room before, and it has looked like this before.
Guys, stop watching my channel if this bothers you…… my girls do clean and help every single day but their room always gets out of hand because they tend to hoard a bunch of junk they don’t need and my 5 year old is obsessed with cutting up coloring books. It’s been extra messy now with 10 other kids staying with us which is why I decided to go in there one day without my girls because they just beg me not to get rid of anything. Good grief you all think you KNOW ME and you don’t. Bye!!!
There’s 3 little girls in a small room, it would get like this quick.