Swedish doesn't have one word for PLEASE

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  • @sayitinswedish
    @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Remember, this video could be even longer showcasing other Swedes's opinions on the matter as well as different scenarios and even more phrases. Hopefully this can give you some of my own rules of thumb. Some Swedes might say other things and disagree about what's polite and not. This is not a straightforward topic. Please, don't quote me 😜

  • @eck2x
    @eck2x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    The title of the video could not be more perfect, so many ways to say please.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah, politeness in Swedish is tricky.

  • @galinalastovkina5587
    @galinalastovkina5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is really helpful for beginners, so we don't have to learn things "the hard way". LOL. I love the way you explain nuances and really try to get the point across. The style of the video helps me absorb material better, as it's not too long and systematically broken down into sections (unlike when my boyfriends tried to teach me a million of things all at once). Tack så mycket!

  • @broo994
    @broo994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Har du något emot" translates better into "Would you mind?" Tack Habibi.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're right, I translated it more literally here for teaching purposes, so that you would understand how Swedes think, Habibi.

  • @Xx-xk7xu
    @Xx-xk7xu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I stop myself from using tack by replacing it with a small nod and a smile. The motion helps me since “please” is ingrained in my brain.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's how you are polite in Swedish: you act nicely and extend your syllables!

  • @OaktownGirl
    @OaktownGirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your videos are so informative, and I appreciate what you do so much. I became a Patron today!
    Language differences are so funny. If my boss asked me if I "had something against making coffee" I'd want to burn the whole building down for his impertinence!

  • @dickjohnson7156
    @dickjohnson7156 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much! I was taught to basically never use snälla as it was something only a child would use. This makes much more sense than just don’t use it!

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sounds like I'm on the right track then!

    • @herrbonk3635
      @herrbonk3635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Snälla is also used to demonstrate irritation: _Men snälla [du]..._ with emphasis on snälla. However, the same phrase could also mean something like _Men kära vän!_ (But, dear friend!), depeding on tone.

  • @Simpleton_X
    @Simpleton_X 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoy the context you give for word choices. Learning apps don't make it obvious HOW you use the words in context. I'm sure any American learning Swedish would be destined to use "tack" for every request without this insight.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Probably, and that's fine! I mean, it doesn't affect the understanding, but it might sound unidiomatic.

  • @alihassen6086
    @alihassen6086 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    am learning Swedish and the way you teach is the best I can tell with full confident , tack .

  • @italianwithgiulia
    @italianwithgiulia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tack lärare! En hälsningar från italien! Ha en bra dag!!!!!! 💙🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪🇸🇪😎🇮🇹

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Buongiorno!

    • @italianwithgiulia
      @italianwithgiulia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayitinswedish buongiorno a lei 😁 grazie mille (jatter tack)

  • @ennis773
    @ennis773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My favorite way of asking someone for a favor is "Skulle du vara så gullig och…". It just sounds really sweet

  • @johngustafsson2067
    @johngustafsson2067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your videos are always so good, educational, and yet entertaining!

  • @dupain514
    @dupain514 ปีที่แล้ว

    just the video I needed, thank you! :)

  • @mrmatt1165
    @mrmatt1165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hej Joakim, tack så mycket för din hjälp! :)

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hej! Kul att videon kunde vara till nytta :)

  • @AriatiArmen
    @AriatiArmen ปีที่แล้ว

    I keep watching your video trying to learn more about Swedish language. and I watch your video each day thank you for making this video. hoping I am be able to speak Swedish one day

  • @dasia7920
    @dasia7920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you are a life saver. TACK SÅ JÄTTE MYCKET!! 🙏🙏

  • @arindamb
    @arindamb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This vid made me all warm and fuzzy inside bra jobbat!

  • @jakoblangenberg
    @jakoblangenberg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very informative video 👌 Tack 😊 Could you explain the differences between "var så god, ingen orsak och ingen fara" in some of the future videos? (sorry if you have already) :)

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good suggestion!

    • @MarcusH...
      @MarcusH... 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      varsågod is you're welcome
      ingen orsak/ingen fara is basically "no worries"

    • @jakoblangenberg
      @jakoblangenberg 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MarcusH... I know, but what I meant is that ingen fara/orsak can be sometimes used as an alternative option for varsågod.

    • @MarcusH...
      @MarcusH... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jakoblangenberg Exactly, just like an aussie would say "no worries mate" instead of you're welcome

    • @MarcusH...
      @MarcusH... 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      another example would be "don't mention it"

  • @kanelbulle8289
    @kanelbulle8289 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This Is the Best YT channel I've found in years 💙

  • @faabmu1769
    @faabmu1769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i was looking for such kind of learning and u r best in teaching

  • @kurtcobain7095
    @kurtcobain7095 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know why this came up in my recommended as i already know Swedish but I enjoyed the video, very informative.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha, tack för att du kollade ändå 😂👊

  • @kianascorner
    @kianascorner 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is such a brilliant video, very well done and detailed!!

  • @eurovision50
    @eurovision50 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would say the equivalent of "varsågod och sitt" is "you're welcome to sit". (In fact it's pretty much as close to a word-for-word translation as you can get!) You're asking someone to do something without it being an order.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "You're welcome to sit" has another ring to it for me. It's a word by word translation, but "var så god och sitt" sounds more like a request than a suggestion.

  • @Dignaren
    @Dignaren 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Hinner du" seems like "Would it hinder you/would it be a problem for you...?" so I think it might actually have a more direct translation than one might think. I just started learning and your videos are so helpful!

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's an interesting way to think about it but it would kind of mean the other way around and it's not related to the word "hinder" at all. But if it helps YOU remember, that's all good! "Hinna" is actually related to "hunt", so if you "hinner" you kind of hunt/catch the time, so to speak.

    • @Dignaren
      @Dignaren 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish awesome! Thank you!

  • @KJKP
    @KJKP 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ancient Swedes never learned to say, “Bring out the gold or we’ll burn the town to the ground, please.”

  • @miqueldiaz3042
    @miqueldiaz3042 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tack för den här video! Jag är ny på kanaler och jag älskar det!
    After demonstrating my poor level of Swedish, here goes my question: I have always used “var så god” as a substitute for “by all means, suit yourself”, like in the context:
    -Kan jag sitter här? -Var så god!
    Is it correct?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, that's what I explain at the end of the video. You can also just say "ja visst" or "absolut" or whatever :)

  • @TheGhostOfFredZeppelin
    @TheGhostOfFredZeppelin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know if this is a regional thing to never say please/tack but I always do it when ordering something or getting any kind of service whether it be from waiters/waitresses, cashiers or whatever.

  • @andyranus514
    @andyranus514 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'd be soo worried about being impolite! I'm so cautious about offending anybody! The plus side for me is, I don't drink coffee, but do...eat food...so the coffee thing is out! Lol
    Ever since that new movie "Midsommar" is coming out, I've been so fascinated with Sweden!(I was never afraid of Sweden or Swedish people when I wanted to see the movie, and I won't be after; just a horror fan) Well, I was already a little bit intrigued because one of my favorite bands, The Flower Kings are Swedish, so I hear them say things in the language sometimes...
    This was so fascinating and so informative! Thank you! ☺🖒

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't worry, if you don't speak perfect Swedish, you're not expected to behave like a Swede either, and as you can take with you from this video, it's hard to be impolite when you have good intentions.

    • @andyranus514
      @andyranus514 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish Cool! ☺ That takes a lot of pressure off! That's very good to hear! This video was EXTREMELY helpful! Thanks! ☺🖒

  • @marciachi2487
    @marciachi2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    En av mina favoriter video... Förklara mig mycket.taaaaaaaaaack ton, från en brasiliansk som har borde i Sverige 2 är☺️👍👍👍👍👍

  • @Shuuuky
    @Shuuuky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a well made and informative video. Very interesting !

  • @toveessayman5144
    @toveessayman5144 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video!

  • @ezah8574
    @ezah8574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    hey! i was wondering if the sentence “jag skulle vilja har en kaffe” would be appropriate if i were ordering a coffee,
    would it be better (and more direct) if i were just to stick to “hej, jag tar en kaffe” ?
    Thank you!

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can definitely use that :)

  • @jameshumphreys9715
    @jameshumphreys9715 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When, I was living in a residential FE college that have speak and language problem, what Swedes from Örebro and I read, they don't use the word please, and I said this, someone missed understood as, they don't say it.

  • @faiths.349
    @faiths.349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What about using tack as thanks?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's the word for thanks, yes.

  • @lsorbo1
    @lsorbo1 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mormor taught us to say "var så gud" if someone else said "tack". Like English "you're welcome". Is that old-fashioned or not done now?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Var så god" is the appropriate phrase to use!

  • @herrbonk3635
    @herrbonk3635 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There are single words for it as well: Please = _snälla_ (informal) or _vänligen_ (formal).

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So you didn't watch the video. It's not that simple.

    • @herrbonk3635
      @herrbonk3635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish Jo, det gjorde jag faktiskt. Tyckte bara titeln var lite missvisande.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@herrbonk3635 Inte alls, du kan inte bara säga snälla och vänligen utan det finns specifika fall, där man gör det. Man kan inte bara översätta "please" rakt av. Det är det videon handlar om, så det är din kommentar som är missvisande bror.

    • @herrbonk3635
      @herrbonk3635 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish Menade inte att din video var särskilt missvisande. Det var som sagt titeln jag syftade på. Videon hade flera vettiga poänger, rörande tonfall och mångfald av uttryck.
      Men att våra traditioner och stilnivåer gör att man inte alltid kan översätta "please" rakt av är faktiskt inte samma sak som att vi inte skulle ha ett ord för det. Kan du vänligen acceptera det? Snälla, gör det! ;)

  • @manaralghanem7864
    @manaralghanem7864 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hej lärare,
    Should I drop the “please” overdose if I am speaking to a Swede in English?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No? Swedish is Swedish, English is English.

    • @the-bruh.cum5
      @the-bruh.cum5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Probably when your in Sweden don't say please alot
      And when your in your country
      Do
      But I dunno I don't know Swedish culture too well

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@the-bruh.cum5 English is another language, where please is more common. The point is that we use other constructions which are basically rewritten with please in English.

    • @manaralghanem7864
      @manaralghanem7864 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish But the way you described it sounded more cultural than lingual. In summary, just put in a smile and more wording. So why is "Can I have a cup of coffee?" with a smile, not as good as "kan jag tar en kopp kaffe?" with a smile?. Dropping a please in the English version sounds like a suck-up for not speaking Swedish.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's both cultural and lingual. I was trying to cover as many ways as possible in this lesson is not only for native English speakers. It's for everyone. So if some of these things don't apply in your native language, then so be it. This is about Swedish and it's for you to use this information as you see fit. I haven't said that anything you say in English would be worse or better. But fact is that a lot of times Swedes are seen as rude and I've heard from people seeing the video that they now for instance understand their Swedish partner, because they thought they were rude for not using please. This stuff easily spill over into the foreign languages we speak, so sure it's cultural in a way, but if you would say "tack" all the time, it would sound weird in Swedish, so I'm giving you the appropriate alternatives for saying please in Swedish here.

  • @michaelshort2388
    @michaelshort2388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hej Joakim. Snälla, kan du förklara varför det är "en kaffe" istallet för "ett kaffe"?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ett kaffe = the kind of coffee
      en kaffe = a portion, a cup of coffee
      same goes with beer - ett öl / en öl

    • @michaelshort2388
      @michaelshort2388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@sayitinswedish Tack förklaringen. :D

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It was a very good question. Probably worth a video.

  • @SierVR
    @SierVR 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    swedish word for please has a special new swedish letter like å ä ö but this is how you say it snälla

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can't translate "please" with "snälla" directly. It very much depends on the context... That's the whole point of the video.
      Also Å, Ä, and Ö are in no way new.

  • @markusosenius5317
    @markusosenius5317 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'll have a coffee in Finnish would be in the shortest form kahvi. Nothing else. Politeness is nice. But not necessary.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      True! It works similarly over there :)

  • @annadonahue4119
    @annadonahue4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yikes! TY!

  • @magdalenaberglin4933
    @magdalenaberglin4933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:38 vi hade krig 1809

  • @marciachi2487
    @marciachi2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hur människor vet eller kan prova vi har en positiv aura?🤪🤭🌷🇸🇪

  • @the-bruh.cum5
    @the-bruh.cum5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it wierd when forienors use tack too much?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, but since you can mostly hear it on their accent, it doesn't really matter. But yes, overuse would generally be weird.

    • @the-bruh.cum5
      @the-bruh.cum5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sayitinswedish tack

  • @TimothyOBrien1958
    @TimothyOBrien1958 ปีที่แล้ว

    There's that damn Swedish telepathy. Used to drive me crazy. I had to tell my first Swedish gf, after some mistakes, that I don't do psychic. Then, the other two, I preemptively warmed them that, though I knew a lot of Swedish social norms, I'm sure I don't know them all.

  • @the-bruh.cum5
    @the-bruh.cum5 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So I can say please just not snälla or tack

  • @user-sl6ou3qb9l
    @user-sl6ou3qb9l 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hej hej monika

  • @judyrikansrud1600
    @judyrikansrud1600 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do people use "Tack för sist" anymore?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tack för senast is what we usually say

  • @KaisaKylakoski
    @KaisaKylakoski 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweden had its last war 200 years ago, not 300. The one after the one where you lost Finland.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're right. The one in Norway was the last one. I just picked a very bad general number.

  • @wolfgangnitschke5392
    @wolfgangnitschke5392 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How about, vär så god??

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Var så god" means "here you go/here you are", so it's not really in the scope of this video.

  • @the-bruh.cum5
    @the-bruh.cum5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please I beg of you please stop saying pleade pleaseeeee stop
    Us swedes want to say pleaseee stop saying please
    Crap now I sound Һ|gһ
    Sояяу

  • @simbasfo
    @simbasfo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    what about Norway in the past 300 years? :D

  • @Ynysmydwr
    @Ynysmydwr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hej, J!
    4:49 -- "It might come off as rude" should really be "It might come across as rude" or "It might come over as rude".
    I hope I didn't come across as exceptionally rude in being so bold as to point that out! 😉

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I missed that, however I can't police my language too much or there would be a video with only uhms. English isn't my native language. You got what I wanted to say though, so that's good enough.

    • @Ynysmydwr
      @Ynysmydwr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish -- I know. I was only pulling your leg. Förlåt!

    • @baxterandcotton
      @baxterandcotton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "come off as" is a totally normal phrase in English, it's fine to use :)

    • @Ynysmydwr
      @Ynysmydwr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@baxterandcotton OK. I've never heard it used in that sense -- where I live (GB) it's used in phrases like "the plan didn't come off as expected" -- but I've no reason to doubt your word that it's used differently elsewhere. (The penalties of speaking a "worldwide" language!) Mais revenons à nos moutons suédois... 😜

    • @erexford
      @erexford 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's very common here in the U.S. to say, "It might come off as rude". That is definitely not a mistake of any kind in my opinion.

  • @punmije
    @punmije 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if i say make me a coffee bro will it work?

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      you'd probably not get any coffee

  • @avernion
    @avernion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ah, the language where using please and thank you is seen as rude.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Uh what?

    • @avernion
      @avernion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish Like when you use it wrong. ”Kan du SNÄLLA hjälpa mig” annoys me every time it happens.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avernion that's not wrong

    • @avernion
      @avernion 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sayitinswedish it depends a lot on the tone. If you are stressed when you say it or don’t smile, it really sounds demanding.

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@avernion sure

  • @RioCattio
    @RioCattio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In swedish u say snälla

  • @djperryboy
    @djperryboy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I constantly use Snälla. I don't know why you have a lacking behaviour

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not lacking behaviour, we just don't express politeness with one word, which I have explained in this video.

  • @fei3841
    @fei3841 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    please is Swedish: snälla du
    used google translate. i found it odd

    • @sayitinswedish
      @sayitinswedish  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Watch the video, and you'll understand.

  • @TimothyOBrien1958
    @TimothyOBrien1958 ปีที่แล้ว

    People always knew I was not native to Sweden, so, I'm sure that they made allowances. Of course, my experience is from the mid-1980s. Things, I'm sure, have changed a wee bit.