I can really really respect the different viewpoints at the table, I can relate more to the woman in braids...THE ONE THING that I am afraid of with marriage is the level of commitment...I don't want to fight so hard to be with someone and make our relationship work...I am the type of person that if it's not working then we have to just walk away...and when you're LEGALLY MARRIED it's not that easy to walk away...I don't know if I want that level of commitment...bcuz then I feel like I'm FORCED to be with him...if that makes sense
Marriage isn’t an achievement insofar as you figure things out and then you’re coasting. That’s not the nature of love or marriage. Marriage and love are a journey and with that comes unforeseeable problems but love fuels you to work through it. John Gottman says most of the problems in a marriage are unresolvable because they are problems of personality quirks of the partner. It’s about how you handle and respond to these issues.
Read the work of John Gottman, Eli Finkel , Sue Johnson and Esther Perel. Anecdotal evidence is unreliable and often the sample size is too small. We know more about love and what makes a healthy marriage than ever before.
Thanks for always being so transparent and just sharing your raw thoughts! I love that about you 💕
I can really really respect the different viewpoints at the table, I can relate more to the woman in braids...THE ONE THING that I am afraid of with marriage is the level of commitment...I don't want to fight so hard to be with someone and make our relationship work...I am the type of person that if it's not working then we have to just walk away...and when you're LEGALLY MARRIED it's not that easy to walk away...I don't know if I want that level of commitment...bcuz then I feel like I'm FORCED to be with him...if that makes sense
This conversation went so left for me 😅 ..but I appreciate hearing different perspectives, even if I find some of them to be wilddd 😂
Thanks ladies, thoroughly enjoyed!
This hit home😢 thank you for the podcast
Marriage isn’t an achievement insofar as you figure things out and then you’re coasting. That’s not the nature of love or marriage. Marriage and love are a journey and with that comes unforeseeable problems but love fuels you to work through it.
John Gottman says most of the problems in a marriage are unresolvable because they are problems of personality quirks of the partner. It’s about how you handle and respond to these issues.
I like y’all a lot!!
Love this conversation🤍
Love this show but I wish it was on TV
Read the work of John Gottman, Eli Finkel , Sue Johnson and Esther Perel. Anecdotal evidence is unreliable and often the sample size is too small. We know more about love and what makes a healthy marriage than ever before.