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I had a male client who was drawn to me and he told me lots of nice things about his home life. When I met his parents they were in tears as, they had no idea that their autistic son was aware of so much, and they never knew that he could or would communicate outside of using visual cues. I'd say my main skill I use with all clients is simple introduction. 4 of the 6 clients respond to respect and boundaries. He also had a great sense of humor especially with irony on a higher level than most.
I've recently self diagnosed at 35. It was like a light bulb moment for me and everything finally made sense. The masking, the stimming that I wasn't even truly aware of, the sensory stuff especially with lights and needing to always wear a coat despite it being 60-70 degrees lol, the eye contact is so hard for me, maintaining friendships and small talk is very difficult as well. Being super sensitive as a kid and needing to always be held. I don't like light touch and have personal space issues but I crave deep pressure etc. I have a very high IQ and am female. I definitely feel like my autism went undiagnosed so I'm seeking a professional diagnosis just for validation.
This is THE BEST explanation of autism by a non-autistic professional that I have ever seen! Thank you Dr Snipes 🙏 I was undiagnosed for 47 years and this will be a great resource to explain my condition to my family 💕👏💕
@DocSnipes This is exactly what I was coming to say. I've never heard an allistic describe autism so well. There were a few small hiccups, but nothing offensive 😊 overall 9/10 😁
Doc Snipes, you're helping me get through grad school. Every time I watch one of your videos, I just want to sit down and have a 4-hour conversation about these topics. Much gratitude for you!
28:20 - ASD can definitely worsen with age if you are undiagnosed. I was only diagnosed because I had a complete breakdown from masking for decades. I find that now I’ve lost a lot of skills which I had managed to develop prior to becoming burnt out and overloaded with trying to compensate.
That might explain what has been a life-long mystery for me: every time some major event in life really affected me it seemed I'd lose an ability I'd had prior to the event...there'd be a thing I could once do that i was entirely unable to recover. I'm undiagnosed...I did take the AQ test. Back in the 60s autism doesn't seem to have been on the radar. I guess it's been 4 years since I started relating to stuff I heard on videos, the titles of which woukd draw me in for a closer look. In my family, growing up, my mother's emotional state made it a sink or swim situation so the trouble I was having i kept to myself. Huh. Thanks for sharing that.
This is how I became aware of my autism and adhd at 36 y/o. I'm 13 month post burnout and barely able to care for my self. My special interests are reading and cooking. I lost the ability to read for 6 months and still struggling to complete books when I use to read about 300 books/year with ease. Managing cooking became near impossible. I lost skills in driving and had my only accident in my life. And I'm still largely unable to carry conversations or even getting words out of my mouth, with 15 minutes of even DESIRED conversation shuts down my brain and body
Early intervention helps a child with autistic traits develop strong communication skills. The goal should not be to "mask" autism as their autism can help them be good at things neurotypicals aren't. Instead, we should focus on communication skills, conveying feelings, lessen frustration, communcating needs, wants and show affection. When my son was diagnosed, my focus was to communicate with him, not change him. I love him just the way he is :)
So perfectly said! 👏 I award you an educated in autism award! 😊 Please help us out by spreading your knowledge far and wide! There's too many clueless allistics out there and it's causing us real harm 😢
You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=autism
34 year old female here. I just discovered I am autistic last year. I cried for three days. I can't afford formal diagnosis :( I need help. I have three children. They are happy, thriving and healthy but they see me struggle. I wish more help was available for tha average income family.
I take issue with "may have difficulty taking perspectives". The default perspective is an uncommon one, but in my life experience very few people can fluidly take on different perspectives especially when their cultural hangups come into play.
I agree with you. I think what is meant by this is that it is difficult for the autistic person to take the perspective of a neurotypical person. Diagnostic criteria is going to be biased on what is observable by others, not based on the subjective experience of the person being screened.
Sudden ending indicates that there was more to show, not in this TH-cam video. Appreciate the missing parts in DSM 5 TR, which you indicated on the slides and the extra commentary. Most people do not have simple nice families. In my career as a community social worker (Australia), most real people are not known to TH-cam, and there mental health professionals. Most people live long traumas from many causes. This video discussed don't environmental causes; especially they mother's stress before the birth of the child. This video also knows that cultural differences can affect "symptoms", such as she contact. This is missing from many academic discussions. Thank you.
I can’t go back and fourth sometimes in a conversation with people especially when I’m nervous. I also have trouble with asking too many questions or not asking anything at all. I have trouble regulating my emotions and I feel so sad when someone is sad but I don’t know how to show it. I was misdiagnosed with vulnerable narcissism by a social worker. That’s why I changed my name to introverted narcissist. Trying to find humor in a diagnosis that nearly got me killed.
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I definitely don’t do well with changes in my day. I like to have an idea of the plan and stick to it! It really bugs me when I have to divert from routine. Also, My “special interest” is consciousness, spirituality, meditation and yoga, quantum physics, and religion all interrelated (imo) but it’s my favorite area of interest!! I didn’t hear this mentioned yet but I also get fixated on a certain band for years. I was OBSESSED with Circus Contraption Band for literally 15 years!! I have moved on to the Butthole surfers now lol. They are my new favorite. I’m in my 40’s. Idt they knew enough to diagnose autism when I was young in the late 80’s and on.
Thank you so much for sharing that! It sounds like you’ve gained a lot of insight into how your brain works, especially around routines and special interests, which is such an important part of self-awareness. Many people on the autism spectrum feel exactly like you do when it comes to change-it can feel really unsettling when things don’t go according to plan. Having structure can be comforting, so it makes sense that diverting from that would feel challenging. Your special interest in consciousness, spirituality, meditation, quantum physics, and religion is fascinating! The way you see connections between those areas shows such deep, creative thinking. Special interests can bring so much joy and meaning to life, and it's awesome that you've found something you're passionate about. And I love that you’ve had such strong connections to bands, too-it’s amazing how music can capture our attention in such an intense way. Your passion for Circus Contraption Band for 15 years and now Butthole Surfers is a great example of how our interests evolve while still being a huge part of who we are. It’s true that autism was not as well understood when we were younger, especially in the late ’80s and ’90s, and many people didn’t get the diagnosis or support they needed at the time. It’s great that we now have more knowledge, so adults who didn’t receive a diagnosis earlier can still explore it later in life and find a sense of validation. It sounds like you’ve really embraced your interests and your unique way of experiencing the world, and that’s something to be proud of! Also, if you’re interested in more tips on this topic or want to explore my full video library, feel free to use my Ai: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.
As an person with Aspergers, it is deeply frustrating that these are all combined when they truly are different. Neurodivergent individuals are wired differently which she states correctly. Most are highly intelligent and capable. The broad generalizations created by such an umbrella term does not help us. Yes, there are areas where the difficulties are shared such as social struggles or eye contact. We have little trouble connecting with one another and having social function together.
I think we got rid of labels like _Aspergers_ and terms like: "low functioning" v.s. "high functioning" because those arbitrary labels (they're arbitrary because if you've met someone with autism -- you've met one person with autism. We're all different, so those empty labels only further divide our society into subgroups within subgroups) By merging them all into a single spectrum -- we can better help one another based on our strengths and weaknesses. By reducing the isolation people feel; in terms of a person's social functioning, it puts our society in a better position to give/receive assistance to everyone of us...and not just some of us. Sadly, terms like "Aspergers" makes people feel superior in some way to those with slightly different forms of Autism and those of us deemed "low functioning" can feel even lonelier and less integrated than before. I guess I have to ask myself why some of us feel the need to differentiate ourselves in that way -- when you and I both know that a word you choose to call yourself isn't going to change who you are inside. However, dropping that and joining the greater community has the power to change the ways our society sees and treats people with autism. I also grew up with "Aspergers" as a label for myself and that became a major part of my identity -- but letting that go was a small price to pay for meaningful social change. By seeing people with disorders as individuals on a spectrum, we fight against stereotypes by forcing others to see and treat us as people...and not our diagnosis. If we can make life a little easier for autistic folks in the future, isn't it worth me getting over myself and my ego's need to know how special I am? Besides, out of all of us we have the fewest challenges and many of us are quite gifted. 😄 Don't we have a responsibility to use our talents to help make our world a better place to be socially awkward in? ....a place where everyone can thrive because society won't be built around a single type of person anymore. _It's about helping everyone feel like they TRULY do belong in this world._
You argument for having them stay separate is essentially "I don't want to be associated with *those* people" This is ableist Autism, all autism, varies deeply from person to person. There is no need to have them be different diagnoses
You mention that autistics often think in pictures/video instead of words. Can you explain how someone thinks in words?! Im autistic and I have aphantasia but I definitely do NOT think in words. If I had to explain it, I’d say I think in concepts/feelings. Im extremely interested in an explanation of how thinking in words would even work?!
I had to pause vid. I knew I didn't like hugs, but until you said it, I didnt realize that was part of why I would cry when my brothers would sing to me. It was torturous for me, to the point if I hear some of those songs now, I have to turn it off
Thank you for sharing that. It’s not uncommon for people to recognize aspects of themselves in information about autism, especially if they’ve never been formally diagnosed. Understanding more about how you experience the world can be empowering and validating. If you’re curious about a diagnosis or want to explore this further, speaking with a professional could provide more clarity. Also, if you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes. Either way, gaining insight into how your brain works can be a big step toward self-acceptance and finding strategies that work best for you. I’m glad the video resonated with you!
1. Do you know the name of one high functioning woman with autism who can take care of every last matter? Is there an autistic lady who handles every matter in her life autonomously? 2. Richness and meaning.....for people who did not receive eye contact, connection, breast feeding from mother: does this have to do with the caregivers being mean and focusing on riches, and thus neglecting the child, after taking advice of Doctor who claims bottlefeeding a child achieves the same results as breastfeeding? Could the "richness and meaning" be why nowadays there is a tremendous focus on autism? I am trying to understand the origin of this, condition, and if it is "curable." 3. What would a cure look like? 2013 DSM changes, yes i find curious too
Thanks for the questions, and detailed input. Due to time constraints, I am just not able to answer all questions here. I have options at DocSnipes.com to schedule a cognitive behavioral education appointment, or submit a contact form for a detailed response. Thanks for understanding. I appreciate all my viewers and the interaction! 😀
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I had a male client who was drawn to me and he told me lots of nice things about his home life. When I met his parents they were in tears as, they had no idea that their autistic son was aware of so much, and they never knew that he could or would communicate outside of using visual cues. I'd say my main skill I use with all clients is simple introduction. 4 of the 6 clients respond to respect and boundaries. He also had a great sense of humor especially with irony on a higher level than most.
A little bit of respect goes a long way in every human interaction.
Thanks so much for sharing those observations.
I've recently self diagnosed at 35. It was like a light bulb moment for me and everything finally made sense. The masking, the stimming that I wasn't even truly aware of, the sensory stuff especially with lights and needing to always wear a coat despite it being 60-70 degrees lol, the eye contact is so hard for me, maintaining friendships and small talk is very difficult as well. Being super sensitive as a kid and needing to always be held. I don't like light touch and have personal space issues but I crave deep pressure etc. I have a very high IQ and am female. I definitely feel like my autism went undiagnosed so I'm seeking a professional diagnosis just for validation.
I’m 42 and male and feel exactly that same way.
This is THE BEST explanation of autism by a non-autistic professional that I have ever seen! Thank you Dr Snipes 🙏 I was undiagnosed for 47 years and this will be a great resource to explain my condition to my family 💕👏💕
That is SO nice of you to share. Thanks for watching and sharing.
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@DocSnipes This is exactly what I was coming to say. I've never heard an allistic describe autism so well. There were a few small hiccups, but nothing offensive 😊 overall 9/10 😁
Doc Snipes, you're helping me get through grad school. Every time I watch one of your videos, I just want to sit down and have a 4-hour conversation about these topics. Much gratitude for you!
well message me anytime! support@allceus.com I am happy to talk psych!
28:20 - ASD can definitely worsen with age if you are undiagnosed. I was only diagnosed because I had a complete breakdown from masking for decades. I find that now I’ve lost a lot of skills which I had managed to develop prior to becoming burnt out and overloaded with trying to compensate.
That might explain what has been a life-long mystery for me: every time some major event in life really affected me it seemed I'd lose an ability I'd had prior to the event...there'd be a thing I could once do that i was entirely unable to recover.
I'm undiagnosed...I did take the AQ test.
Back in the 60s autism doesn't seem to have been on the radar.
I guess it's been 4 years since I started relating to stuff I heard on videos, the titles of which woukd draw me in for a closer look.
In my family, growing up, my mother's emotional state made it a sink or swim situation so the trouble I was having i kept to myself.
Huh.
Thanks for sharing that.
This is how I became aware of my autism and adhd at 36 y/o. I'm 13 month post burnout and barely able to care for my self. My special interests are reading and cooking. I lost the ability to read for 6 months and still struggling to complete books when I use to read about 300 books/year with ease. Managing cooking became near impossible. I lost skills in driving and had my only accident in my life. And I'm still largely unable to carry conversations or even getting words out of my mouth, with 15 minutes of even DESIRED conversation shuts down my brain and body
I fear this is what's happened to me. Was diagnosed a.d d. A long time ago and have an asd assessment next year.
Early intervention helps a child with autistic traits develop strong communication skills. The goal should not be to "mask" autism as their autism can help them be good at things neurotypicals aren't. Instead, we should focus on communication skills, conveying feelings, lessen frustration, communcating needs, wants and show affection. When my son was diagnosed, my focus was to communicate with him, not change him. I love him just the way he is :)
He is diagnosed with high functioning Autism and Adhd, he's extremely bright and bubbly! ☺
So perfectly said! 👏 I award you an educated in autism award! 😊
Please help us out by spreading your knowledge far and wide! There's too many clueless allistics out there and it's causing us real harm 😢
Thank you for your effort in using inclusive language and using the most relevant information related to ASD.
So nice of you. Thanks a lot for watching and commenting. 😀
Thank you for taking the time and effort to record and post this educational video.
You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at th-cam.com/users/DocSnipessearch?query=autism
34 year old female here. I just discovered I am autistic last year. I cried for three days. I can't afford formal diagnosis :( I need help. I have three children. They are happy, thriving and healthy but they see me struggle. I wish more help was available for tha average income family.
I take issue with "may have difficulty taking perspectives". The default perspective is an uncommon one, but in my life experience very few people can fluidly take on different perspectives especially when their cultural hangups come into play.
I agree with you.
I think what is meant by this is that it is difficult for the autistic person to take the perspective of a neurotypical person.
Diagnostic criteria is going to be biased on what is observable by others, not based on the subjective experience of the person being screened.
Sudden ending indicates that there was more to show, not in this TH-cam video.
Appreciate the missing parts in DSM 5 TR, which you indicated on the slides and the extra commentary.
Most people do not have simple nice families. In my career as a community social worker (Australia), most real people are not known to TH-cam, and there mental health professionals. Most people live long traumas from many causes. This video discussed don't environmental causes; especially they mother's stress before the birth of the child.
This video also knows that cultural differences can affect "symptoms", such as she contact. This is missing from many academic discussions. Thank you.
You’re so very welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it.
I can’t go back and fourth sometimes in a conversation with people especially when I’m nervous. I also have trouble with asking too many questions or not asking anything at all. I have trouble regulating my emotions and I feel so sad when someone is sad but I don’t know how to show it. I was misdiagnosed with vulnerable narcissism by a social worker. That’s why I changed my name to introverted narcissist. Trying to find humor in a diagnosis that nearly got me killed.
Sorry to hear. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
This was so informative and organized. Ty so much
You’re so welcome. Thanks for watching
Is this to say that neurotypicals do NOT think in pictures or video?
What do you mean by think in words?
Thanks
Dr. Snipes, thank you for another amazing lesson. May God continue to use you in this capacity! You are so amazing and inspiring!!
Wow, thank you!
Bless you.
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@@DocSnipes Thank you for letting me know. My husband and I have been more intentional about our walk with God. I love forward to your new channel! God bless you and your family!!
I definitely don’t do well with changes in my day.
I like to have an idea of the plan and stick to it! It really bugs me when I have to divert from routine.
Also, My “special interest” is consciousness, spirituality, meditation and yoga, quantum physics, and religion all interrelated (imo) but it’s my favorite area of interest!!
I didn’t hear this mentioned yet but I also get fixated on a certain band for years. I was OBSESSED with Circus Contraption Band for literally 15 years!! I have moved on to the Butthole surfers now lol. They are my new favorite.
I’m in my 40’s. Idt they knew enough to diagnose autism when I was young in the late 80’s and on.
Thank you so much for sharing that! It sounds like you’ve gained a lot of insight into how your brain works, especially around routines and special interests, which is such an important part of self-awareness. Many people on the autism spectrum feel exactly like you do when it comes to change-it can feel really unsettling when things don’t go according to plan. Having structure can be comforting, so it makes sense that diverting from that would feel challenging.
Your special interest in consciousness, spirituality, meditation, quantum physics, and religion is fascinating! The way you see connections between those areas shows such deep, creative thinking. Special interests can bring so much joy and meaning to life, and it's awesome that you've found something you're passionate about. And I love that you’ve had such strong connections to bands, too-it’s amazing how music can capture our attention in such an intense way. Your passion for Circus Contraption Band for 15 years and now Butthole Surfers is a great example of how our interests evolve while still being a huge part of who we are.
It’s true that autism was not as well understood when we were younger, especially in the late ’80s and ’90s, and many people didn’t get the diagnosis or support they needed at the time. It’s great that we now have more knowledge, so adults who didn’t receive a diagnosis earlier can still explore it later in life and find a sense of validation.
It sounds like you’ve really embraced your interests and your unique way of experiencing the world, and that’s something to be proud of! Also, if you’re interested in more tips on this topic or want to explore my full video library, feel free to use my Ai: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.
As an person with Aspergers, it is deeply frustrating that these are all combined when they truly are different. Neurodivergent individuals are wired differently which she states correctly. Most are highly intelligent and capable. The broad generalizations created by such an umbrella term does not help us. Yes, there are areas where the difficulties are shared such as social struggles or eye contact. We have little trouble connecting with one another and having social function together.
Thanks for sharing and watching.
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I think we got rid of labels like _Aspergers_ and terms like:
"low functioning" v.s. "high functioning"
because those arbitrary labels (they're arbitrary because if you've met someone with autism -- you've met one person with autism. We're all different, so those empty labels only further divide our society into subgroups within subgroups)
By merging them all into a single spectrum -- we can better help one another based on our strengths and weaknesses. By reducing the isolation people feel; in terms of a person's social functioning, it puts our society in a better position to give/receive assistance to everyone of us...and not just some of us.
Sadly, terms like "Aspergers" makes people feel superior in some way to those with slightly different forms of Autism and those of us deemed "low functioning" can feel even lonelier and less integrated than before.
I guess I have to ask myself why some of us feel the need to differentiate ourselves in that way -- when you and I both know that a word you choose to call yourself isn't going to change who you are inside. However, dropping that and joining the greater community has the power to change the ways our society sees and treats people with autism.
I also grew up with "Aspergers" as a label for myself and that became a major part of my identity -- but letting that go was a small price to pay for meaningful social change.
By seeing people with disorders as individuals on a spectrum, we fight against stereotypes by forcing others to see and treat us as people...and not our diagnosis.
If we can make life a little easier for autistic folks in the future, isn't it worth me getting over myself and my ego's need to know how special I am?
Besides, out of all of us we have the fewest challenges and many of us are quite gifted. 😄 Don't we have a responsibility to use our talents to help make our world a better place to be socially awkward in?
....a place where everyone can thrive because society won't be built around a single type of person anymore.
_It's about helping everyone feel like they TRULY do belong in this world._
You argument for having them stay separate is essentially "I don't want to be associated with *those* people"
This is ableist
Autism, all autism, varies deeply from person to person. There is no need to have them be different diagnoses
This very helpful! My son is 6 and on the spectrum
You mention that autistics often think in pictures/video instead of words. Can you explain how someone thinks in words?!
Im autistic and I have aphantasia but I definitely do NOT think in words. If I had to explain it, I’d say I think in concepts/feelings. Im extremely interested in an explanation of how thinking in words would even work?!
I know that when I read a book or listen to music it plays like a movie in my head. I'm not sure if that's what she's talking about or not.
Thank you! I cannot wait to catch this. 🙂
😀
I had to pause vid. I knew I didn't like hugs, but until you said it, I didnt realize that was part of why I would cry when my brothers would sing to me. It was torturous for me, to the point if I hear some of those songs now, I have to turn it off
I am sorry about that. Thank you for watching. What is the most helpful tip from the video?
basically me. ive never been diagnosed but believe im a high functioning aspie 😊
Thank you for sharing that. It’s not uncommon for people to recognize aspects of themselves in information about autism, especially if they’ve never been formally diagnosed. Understanding more about how you experience the world can be empowering and validating. If you’re curious about a diagnosis or want to explore this further, speaking with a professional could provide more clarity. Also, if you're interested in more tips on the topic or if you want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes. Either way, gaining insight into how your brain works can be a big step toward self-acceptance and finding strategies that work best for you. I’m glad the video resonated with you!
Persons suffering also can get into drugs to compensate....this is very bad
1. Do you know the name of one high functioning woman with autism who can take care of every last matter? Is there an autistic lady who handles every matter in her life autonomously?
2. Richness and meaning.....for people who did not receive eye contact, connection, breast feeding from mother: does this have to do with the caregivers being mean and focusing on riches, and thus neglecting the child, after taking advice of Doctor who claims bottlefeeding a child achieves the same results as breastfeeding?
Could the "richness and meaning" be why nowadays there is a tremendous focus on autism? I am trying to understand the origin of this, condition, and if it is "curable."
3. What would a cure look like?
2013 DSM changes, yes i find curious too
Thanks for the questions, and detailed input. Due to time constraints, I am just not able to answer all questions here. I have options at DocSnipes.com to schedule a cognitive behavioral education appointment, or submit a contact form for a detailed response. Thanks for understanding. I appreciate all my viewers and the interaction! 😀