Women: "You shouldn't judge someone on their weight and body shame them." Men: "Does height matter when dating a man?" Women: "Yes, who wants to date a short guy."
Exactly, you can change your weight but can't change your height, is rare listen those women talking like this in the equal genres rights land, not so equal here
Same in Germany. I work in Banking sector. My office is full of open border Green voting Gutmensch type activists, who live in most homogeneous parts of the town, and barely a single one is in Interracial relationship.
@@val-schaeffer1117 , exactly. Der gleiche Unsinn mit der Transideologie. Alle sagen Transfrauen sind Frauen aber jeder Mann , der es sagt, will dennoch eine biologische Frau. Überall Regenbogenflaggen aber die meisten sind dennoch abgef*ckt davon. xD
100% she's from Hong Kong and was able to learn a high quality American accent that can go unnoticed by many people. High IQ she has. Hong Kong scores the highest
She is the best for me in my opinion. :) The way how she responds shows why foreign men love Asians to be their wives. They will be like your quality life partner (but not perfect) while Swedish woman will be like your "co-man" partner... But that is fine. I just like her perspective on how she can view all of these, something that Swedes or similar won't understand and look at it negatively.
@@regaeontop6021 she didn't stay in Sweden for the sole reason of dating, maybe she has work or business in there it just so happen that she had a swedish bf. So why go back to HK just bcoz she doesn't fit their dating expectation .. too shallow
My god, I'm from sweden and what the girl from hong kong is saying is completely true. I've found the dating scene here to be absolutely awful simply by the fact that I'm more introverted, and it's more draining for me to go out with friends constantly.
@@jessicawolf5669 Introverted to the point where you don't really talk to strangers aye, but when there's alcohol or if you are around friends people can be super extroverted.
omg so trueee. I have the same the struggle outside of sweeden. It's like you have to be partying every week and up for a drink if you want to match with someone. The introverts don't seem allowed to have a dating life.
@@jessicawolf5669 It's not introversion as much as people are easily suspicious and the social norm is to leave people alone and not bother them in any way.
It’s all about the size of your house and the value of your cars man,I’m Asian my whole live...born and live here my whole live with different race group of Asian.
Agreed, and she’s definitely right. Dating and getting into a relationship with someone goes beyond than their looks and height. If that person has shitty personality or doesn’t have emotional intelligence then it’s a complete turn off, no matter how hot that person is 🤷🏽♂️
Loved the HK chick’s response the best too!! She’s highly emotionally intelligent! Her responses and questions were definitely much more thought provoking than the others.
He is trying to twist/manipulate the asian girls opinion but i am glad she stand up for herself and dont be agreeable to him just because he is white ... she is nice but assertive ... so asian submissive stereotype is not always true
My father was 5'5" (165 cm) and my mother 5'8" (172.7 cm); they had a good marriage that lasted 57 years. We kids grew up in a household where a shorter father and a taller mother was an everyday fact of life, so we didn't have the male-taller preference that seems to rule much of society.
@@lemonlime257 but the thing is that women are rejecting men taller than themselves lol. You see 5'2 women rejecting 5'7 men for being "too short".. like, what?
OMG that last girl at the end. She is so smart and builds her arguments very well. I am happy I have surrounded myself with such women. I don't know if we have similar ideologies or not, however it is really awesome to interact with such people.
Yeah, so she seems. Until her logic fails her by saying "I guess preference for taller men is a society norm". No, it is not a societal norm like waiting in a queue or not littering on a street. The preference for taller stronger males is so hard-wired into our DNA that you need a lot of brainwashing to change that.
5’7 American here. I joined tinder in 2018 and when I started getting matches women would message me and then ask me “By chance how tall are you” or oddly on one occasion a girl asked if I could touch the ceiling with my hand without jumping. I then posted my height on my profile and I went from 4-5 matches a week to about 1 match every 4 months.
I don't get this though. I am 5'7 and live in london and the average female height here is 5'4 so I am taller than the girl yet they would reject me lol. If I am taller than you why should height matter lol. If you put a 6ft man next to the great khali he would look tiny. Girls need to stop comparing with other men and see if her man is at least same height or taller than her then it's all good. Otherwise us men can also say ah look that girl is slimmer than you with better boobs and butt.
Frank Rijkaard true but I’d rather meet with a woman that has that knowledge beforehand and if they’re still willing to meet me, it’s all the better. That means she’s less shallow. I’ve had friends/family set me up on blind dates and just when I think I’d wowed the girl(no kids, never before married) with humor and good conversation, I get the whole “you’re a great guy but you’re just not what I’m looking for but my friend Kimberly(three kids) or Elina(fat and smokes cigs) are single I can put a word in” type of crap. My cousin’s wife once set me up for a date with one of her college friends and this happened. My cousin’s wife then apologized to me because she did not realize that her friend was so shallow. At the end of the day I wasted time & money, so now I put my height out there to save me the hassles.
Frank Rijkaard my cousin’s wife told me that her friend told her to only match her with taller guys going forward, guys like my cousin who is 5’10. It was the first time I started to realize women could be just as shallow as men. There’s nothing wrong with it, but it helped me in being smarter/confident about dating and saving my self time and money. My recent girlfriend of two years broke up over money issues, she wanted to live in a more expensive apartment just to impress her friends.
@@shazanchaudhry men already judge women on boobs and butt. The difference is we aren’t butt hurt like men. We actually ask eachother “is he a boob or butt guy” and laugh about it. Smh.... let women have their preferences!
@Dhaumya23 well I live in London and here many girls are my height or taller than me. Most guys range between 5'10 and 6'4 so I feel kinda like a midget at 168/170 cm. No girl has overtly rejected me for my height but u can sense when u talk to them and they aren't interested. In terms of looks and personality I'm average maybe slightly above average just need less body and face fat, personality most day its good, can hold a convo and have a sense of humour. But yhh height is very important as a man for dating in the west specially if the girl is your height or above.
My favorite was that girl from Hong Kong. She has a sense of humor. “I have no problem pushing you around.” Not PC, but she’s cool. Totally honest, doesn’t hold anything back.
Cope! She bluepilled the camera so she doesn't seem shallow! Asian women prefer 6ft4 (or just taller than her) WHITE men, and are repulsed by unnatractive short men, especially of their own race! The blackpill is true!
@@domrramos I'm white Albanian and and I'm 5ft8. Asian women are desperately looking for white men or basically every other race of men except their own. Now about your height... Obviously men's height matters to women a lot when it comes to attractiveness, but sometimes you can luck out if u find a rare woman that doesn't mind a few inches shorter. I think that might be the case for you, but other than that anything that is below 6ft, is considered as manlet or short height by most women.
@@noelliebtsie I'm not trying to make this into a competition but you being able to "enhance yo face" sounds like a hell of an advantage. I'm a straight guy, I freshen up and work with what I got, makeup isn't an option for me. I think it comes down to an individual's attitude, you can be your own best friend or worst enemy. I choose to work on myself and accept where I'm at right now.
That Asian woman was the definition of attractive both inside and out. She was assertive and was* gentle at the same time. And she was telling the truth.
I dont agree. She was wrong also. If she cant meet someone in Sweden, so, star making friends. And Tinder is no only image, you can know a lot from a persona by the kind of photos that person upload
God how narrowminded you are. A girl from Hong Kong disclosed a very important sociological issue regarding both dating and generally and you failed on giving her any response to that because you wanted to hear more about 'height'...... seriously?
And shes absolutely right about it. Not only Sweden but in many other European and Asian Countries most people tend to date through their social circles. Social Limit. Its like a Pyramid
While HK girl is right about social circles, it has more to do with how we approach strangers in Sweden. It is considered strange to talk to people on public transport or stop and talk to your neighbor (mostly in the cities). So if there is a girl/guy you like in a social circle/at work/at school it is easier to get to talk to her without being looked as weird. Also, 9.8/10 you have to be the one to approach the girl, but it HAS to be in the correct setting. Approaching someone in public and started talking to them, in a everyday setting, you will get strange or suspicious looks if you don't have a good excuse for it. Its not just in Sweden we act like this though. When I went backpacking in Australia for a year, every girl I met (Swedish) wanted to talk in Swedish, even while there were other nationalities in that setting. Its all about being feeling safe and comfortable - feeling at home. It has nothing to do with race. That being said, going abroad made me realize that Swedish women are (at least those I've dated before) very entitled and bullheaded. I met French, Canadians, Brits, Spanish, Italians, Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, Russians, Ukranians, Dutch, Irish, Danish, Germans.. They were all laid back and more approachable, definitely interested in talking to me first, rather than other way around. It could be the atmosphere of hostels and backpacking, since most of them are alone or with a friend in a similiar setting as you, there to meet people. But, in general, it felt very different and easy to talk to approach them or just hang out with them overall.
I like that most of them think a man being shorter than them is bad, but being shorter, in general, is not. I'm 177cm tall and girls who are under 160 think I'm too short for them.
@@kiralight4212 Yea, but they do. That's the point. It's getting ridiculous. Everyone under 180 is short, for any woman, short or tall. I'm talking about social networks, I don't know that many women in person.
@1VanteBecause she came with a well thought, structured argument, while the interviewer didn't want to discuss it any further. Probably because his English is worse than hers, so he doesn't feel comfortable discussing beyond asking simple yes/no/why questions
I think this video shows the one Swedish obsession: norms. You must stay within the norms. The norm says he has to be taller, so you go for the tallest, so you are not konstig, weird. Swedes are no revolutionary people. They love being told what to do and they do it knowing that following the norms gives rewards and admiration. That’s Sweden in a nutshell. And finally they end up being tremendously shallow in relationships because they don’t consider the real reasons why two people should live together. Norm does not says so. Norm says what is not weird to be looked at. 14 years in that country, I think nothing in this video is shocking, and the HK girl, I wish her the best of luck. She is in one of Europe’s toughest producers of bricks in the wall.
It's super interesting that you mentioned the Swedish adherence to norms. I think it's true in every aspect of Swedish life because a few months ago I was reading an academic paper on the political history of Sweden and the author basically acknowledged how Swedish society had always obediently followed the royal decrees despite being reluctant to do so in many cases.
It’s interesting, cause where I live in Sweden it hasn’t been much like that at all. More like some people are like that and some aren’t. I definitely think Sweden has different mindsets depending on where you are in the country which is interesting, and that comes from someone who has traveled around here and lived abroad quite a lot.
mmm even though you may be right. i have another theory. women hate accountability, all women over the world, not just the swedish ones. they have to go arround the sun and make excuses on what they do or prefer in order to look as less bad as possible. in this case their excuse is "the norm" to disguise their personal preference for taller men. but if the norm was to date same height or shorter i bet they would't just gladly follow the norm but go against it at a passionate level instead. it is not different when a girl has a handsome tall boy friend that treats her like shit, and she justify by saying "i dont know what happend to me, i just fell in love". and when a short not handsome guy treats her well and wants to be her boyfriends she says something like "he is a good friend, i like him but just as a friend, i dont feel the same as him".
I feel so sad about the girl who was last seen in the video. I feel like the guys who interviewed her felt inferior to her for whatever reason and they were trying to make her feel bad. The way they’re laughing in the background thinking they’re right and she’s wrong just screams beta. However she did make a valid point! That’s all, thanks :)
not really, its definitely not beta, its just unprofessional, which is why some of the interviewed got a little aggressive at some points, as its clear the interviewers dont really know how to interview, it feels more like sort of a half argument at some points, so i guess you could say they did have some points where it felt more accusatory but to straight up say that they were setting her up is abit too imaginative and not probable, though what you are right on is the fact that what they did was in fact not ideal
@@nothing-jl2dz The truth is that divorces are happening so much in the Newer generation, becouse now women have a say in it. If you notice the studies about divorce, you will find out that the extreme-vast majority of the divorces are initiated by women. Which is something that women couldn't do in the past becouse they had no rights, and even their own mother would say stuff to them like " Go back to your husband and don't ruin your family and your house, endure it". This mentality is gone now, women don't have to endure a bad husband, an abusive husband , a cheating husband. Back then, a cheating husband was the standard thing... "they are men, they get to do that". And the woman had to just accept it and move on. And an extra example : The grandmother of my girlfriend told us multiple times that if her relationship, her marriage happened in our era, she would've ended way before ... So no, people are not shallow, quite the opposite... it's just that women don't have to accept the shit that they used to accept in the older generations.. And it hurts the beta-male andrew tate followers-inferior men so much that they spit anger in the comments... and i am loving it xD
You can clearly see the problem with the first two girls. There are some women that genuinely don’t care about height which is great, but then their friends pressure them to prefer taller guys or they openly make fun of guys who are shorter. Obviously if girls are convinced by their friends that certain men are less attractive, they are going to choose others.
I think its a case of ideal preferences vs reality.. Im sure both girls would prefer a taller guy, but in reality there are so many other factors that are more important.. Id prefer a very beautiful women, but Id take an average looking women who is great to be around any day
@@MaMastoast I swear, I don’t find Scandinavians attractive at all!! This thought was formed when I visited these countries. They are too pale, built heavy, and age awfully. This is just my honest opinion.
I will say this, if you think that there is some kind of non-bias in relations in Europe, you are mistaken. Women usually want - tall, smart, absolutely healthy men with an average income or higher. It's kind of like the reproductive instincts, women choose a man so that their children have more chances in life. These are instincts. There is equality and tolerance in Europe, but not as much as you think haha.
And men want fit, smart and healthy women with an income of their own.. People are interested in generally put together people, its not a woman thing, its a human thing. Everyone wants a partner who is capable. And just because we all have preferences and ideals doesnt mean a potential partner has to meet all of them. As far as Im aware, most of my friends make less than their girlfriends and its not really an issue at all.
Why do I get this feeling that the interviewer planned this. Its like the asian caught him red handed when he said "we went sidetracked for a minute, but lets get back to the main question". Other than that I love the Asians input, Shes so georgous and he personality is amazing. Thats the kind of a girl you need for life.
He already hates her after she has opinion based on her observation on swedish dating lives while actually living on Sweden(how dare u have opinion about my country after living here !!) yet he tries to convince her about his opinion of hongkong dating eventhough he never lives there Lmaooo 🤣🤣they said all swedish are open minded
Honestly this is probably more of a swedish cultural thing than women heightshaming men. Swedes are pretty tall in general so finding short men in general would prove to be a challenge. However the hong kong woman nailed it on the head with the social analysis
The important thing to realize is that the use of dating apps, and social media, is making our culture and society more superficial, which is particularly accelerated by young children starting to use them too. It's too late to debate whether it's good or bad - we have to deal with the consequences
The social media and dating apps do not make you superficial, we are the content of those apps! We are all superficial if you have not realised until now!
@@MshTchdont let the system fool you, media have change society and we can see nowadays the consequences, booth men and women are more lonely than ever before
@@newleft2254 When they use that preference to betlittle another, then you can absolutely criticise the women who hold ridiculous standards. Especially those who want 6+ feet. 10% of men are 6 foot or over.
@@thecaynuck4694 You sound very sensitive. I've never heard women "belittle" men while claiming to want 6ft+. Men just FEEL belittled because they are ... little. And don't make the mark. You have your preference they have theirs. Deal with it.
@@newleft2254 there's a lot of women belittle short dudes. They exist. Just because you cannot see one, it doesn't Mean that it didn't exist. Researches and tinder experiments proved you wrong.
@@zackariasevertson7733 Why? I find it hard to believe that Swedish women are shallow. I'm sure if you're having a hard time it's not because of your height.
This is just wrong. If you're a guy who isnt above "6'3" (that seems to be the ideal height in a man for some reason here). Dont you ever let any women make you feel less because of it; cause that may be her beauty idealizations, but reality isnt made of it. And if you ever meet a women that cares about it, then runaway, cause that probably means they're shallow and cares too much about what other thinks of her. And I asure you there will always be plenty of beautiful women around the world who will simply dont care about this, cause there are a lot of other more atractive things in men than his height, like charisma, inteligence, sense of humor, talents, etc. Ps: In Latin america height Standards for men are lower, cause women tent to be shorter. So dont worry, the world is too big!
@Subhuman Manlet No, not at all. Im currently single, but I've dated all Kinds of heights, including similar to mine, even though thats not totally "average" in men, since im 1,58 cm.
i am a very short guy, and can confirm the struggle . Main problem is that they are so set on this that simply asking why or for a more in depth reason will most likely end you up as blocked. But also its like talking to a toddler who is set upon not liking something, even if he/she has never tasted it before. It is possible to show them that they may be wrong, but that will take time, and effort and nothing is guaranteed.
It's called preference, get over it, and don't act like you don't have any. You may find yourself single for a long time or like the other dude said, seeing prostitutes.
@@a.y3075 So by me telling about my personal experience, you have the odasity to sit there and tell me what I should and should not feel.. Fucking cry baby generation.. No wonder the only thing you sell are dignity for the price of a happy meal and 10000 words to define 2 genders :P
Confidence and outlook [and financial secure] goes a long way. I'm considered tall (for a women at 174cm), dating men 162cm to 198cm. I've come across men that think I'm too tall for them, and that's ok. Try to learn to let it go and find someone who's not set on height. Alot of women only date guys that are 6' and up, like my sister and she's shorter than me. Men care about being taller too, but women care more about height.
The girl from Hong Kong*: Provides an interesting insight about Sweden’s dating system that leads to its socioeconomic Interviewer: (cringes) You, Asian, Asians, don’t talk, correct? The girl: That is absolutely not true The interviews: Anyways, back to men’s height and me lecturing you afterwards how you should feel about men’s height...
Yup he felt like he got slapped in the face, as if he only get the knowledge about asian people based on media and stereotypes that all asians are submissive, meek, robotic, forgetting that each asians are individual and have their own minds and opinion
i love how the interviewer is like: I CANT BELIEVE THIS WOMAN!!! SHE SPEAKS THE TRUTH!! AND ITS NOT IN MY PLAN!!!! I HATE HER!!!! lmao i can feel that guy screaming like that in his head lmao
or find a intress. I not sure I ever found a date from socal circle ever in sweden and if it can count os socal circle is just becouse we share the same intress and hang out due to we all dance or something like that. meet up on the dance
I found that asian women 100 times more attractive than all the other girls. She was thoughtful, smart, and wise. That made her more attractive than anyone else
Just like you have your reasons to like the asian girl 100 times more, the rest of the women there have their reasons to like tall guys. it's all about personal taste, and noone has the right to intefere your personal opinion or theirs.
@@akhsdenlew1861 His reasons to like the asian girl more is because of her thought process, her morals and she's clearly shown to be relatively intelligent The women's reasons to like something dudes have no control over is because it gives a false sense of 'security' and 'social norms'.... lol
I think this guy's French, though. The accent sounds like that. That's also the reason the interview is performed in accented English, to include him in the conversation...
@Stando Powa yes they’re common...but they’re still considered tall there, just not as tall as it is in other countries if That makes sense? I think 190cm there is 1 in 10 guys or so? But yeah, 190cm is universally tall everywhere in the world...188cm is also debatable tho, and 185cm is above average everywhere.
@D if you’re really 183cm barefoot then my man you’re decently tall! There is no country on earth where 183cm would be considered short...at the worst it’s average in Netherlands! But to be above average everywhere you need to be 185cm+
@@jasonhondakker9231 no 190cm is pretty much around 6’3(it’s 6’2.8 to be specific) like I said 6’3 is solid tall there in Sweden but not very tall! Very tall there is more like 6’4+ But a legit barefoot 6’3 In most western countries(who average 5’9 or 5’10) 6’3 would be considered start of very tall IMO! I’m 6’2 barefoot and average where I live is around 5’10(5’9.75 to be specific)...and I gotta say is I do feel solidly tall here...At times I even feel very tall...most people have no idea just how tall a real 6’2/6’3 guy is...I get guessed at 6’4 a lot because everyone lies about their height these days!
The Irony is that women don't know what they want. They are mostly attracted to masculinity. Traits like being a leader, assertive, decisive and ambitious. Instead of putting them on the pedestal, see them as just humans. Hong Kong girl stood out the most
Women in general prefer taller guys. It's a crude fact of life. However, in Europe I think it also depends a little on the region. I know that in the north the average height is higher, so culturally they may be more used to it. While in the south there are more shorter men so women may be a little more accepting, but not that much more.
@DLO 06 "Height is never a issue unless you worried about it " -> Hey idiot! FEMALES ARE THE CHOOSERS, AND THEY ARE THEY ONES WORRIED ABOUT A MAN'S HEIGHT!!!!
It's stupidity. Never date a woman who cares about height. It bespeaks huge levels of insecurity, immaturity, and insipidity. If you're dealing with someone that vapid, chances are she's a bubblehead who doesn't think for herself and is easily influenced by the media and whatever her social circle says is "popular".
I didn't want to watch this video because I already knew that heightist discrimination would be rampant throughout the video, but I still clicked. Brutal for me.
I would think Swedish girls prefer tall boys because they are tall themselves. Asian girls would also prefer tall boys, but not as tall as Swedish girl's requirement. As long as the boys are taller than the girls it's fine.
Asian girls prefer tall guys too, it's a biological preference, that's why humans in general have been getting taller, Asians too, in fact we might have the most tallest population
@@Hhhh22222-w Asians are known to be shorter than the average... I don't know how they are suddenly the tallest. But I heard that Japanese people's height has skyrocketed in recent years due to a change in diet. Whatever they were eating before probably wasn't the beneficial for growth
Hi, i honestly do agree with you, she needs to do it differently or get to do something else entirely, however my name is Elizabeth just curious if you can text me on hangout libbymifalani@gmail.com
Wtf why do girls need to explain themselves if they don't want a small guy. That's sexual selection. It's similar with beauty. Most women want a guy with a nice jawline and that's a sign of good genetics, so of course women want a tall chad and not a small average looking guy. Everybody who says looks doesn't matter is lying or is a ugly person. Good looking people have the superior genetics. They are very healthy. Men with a bad jawline, receding chin and so on are probably mouthbreathers. Men with a trained body are stronger and probably healthier than men with a big stomach. So normally people always go for the good looking ones, because these individuals are the most healthy ones with good genetics.
True, its only natural. Men only want beautiful white women too. Since they cant get them they simp for the average white women. No women want ugly men, and no men want ugly women. A men can improve by working out, good skin care, beeing well dressed. (Same goes for women) Of course, personality is Important too. (Maybe 30%) Money can replace both, looks and personality.
I am quite a short man and my height has never been an issue when dating women, even those who claim that height matters to them. The thing is women often don't know themselves what they want at first. And when they meet someone for real there are a lot of other aspects that count and that they may find more important than height. And also, it seems that it is weight and proportions that matter as well.
I'm a short 165 cm guy and never had any problems with girlfriends, some were taller and some shorter. I just felt confident and picked up and got on well with alot of girls. I think a guys confidence goes a long way and his ability to hold a sincere conversation.
but where they white like your? or cheat and went with others? because then, that's why it was easier to you, anyway, I don't find success in saying girlfriends, that just sound you have a problem
Man at first I didn't think the Asian girl was that attractive but as she was speaking I got little by little attracted to her somehow. Wish her all the best! :D
@Edward Smith It doesnt matter if you think it's weird, it's still ok. Weird just means unusual. Like i said, most women just dont wanna date shorter guys
Commander Cullen Sure, but they’re picky for the wrong reasons: “He’s too short.”, “He’s too fat.”, “He’s bald”, “He’s in a wheelchair”. Good luck with your handsome abusive future boyfriends bitches!
If you are a short guy then you need to have a commanding/take charge personality and you will get a girl, even a tall girl. I am 6' tall woman and I used to get guys on the shorter side trying to date me. I usually dismissed them but not always. If the guy was self assured and had a strength about him I considered him. I ended up marrying a guy who is exact same height as me but I dated one or two guys shorter than me, and several taller which was what I was looking for initially. Short guys do have a chance but not if you are timid.
It depends. A short guy has to be careful. Many times when a short guy has a commanding/take charge personality, a lot of women will criticize him as having a "Napoleon Complex".
@@patrisio3 LOL yeah, but that's because he's acting like a jerk. Exuding strength doesn't mean being a commanding jerk, it means having confidence and inner strength like not being fazed at all by being with someone taller, not feeling threatened, making the woman feel safe. Stuff like that is what I meant.
@@vaskylarkyoure victim blaming. just say you want to date tall guys. thats not a issue. dont look for reasons to put down short guys to validate your preferences
I don't know why there are a lot of offended comments of men. I mean if the boys always want a short girl why girls can't say her preference for tall boys.
@@ellu26 huge nose isn't a french thing. It's an armenian or georgian thing for 5000%! But french accent - agree. You can't hide it. It's the most recognisable accent out there.
I like how everyone in the comments refuses to accept that this is the way SWEDISH women behave, not all women in general. Everyone on the internet glorify Sweden to an absolute absurdity, and fail to realize this
I love small men, but I am 6'1 and woman... Most of the guys have problem in relationship, when they are smaller than their dove. And most of the women have problem, when the man is smaller than them It's sad, but it's truth. By the path of the life, I learned that height DOESN'T matter. The heart does. Shout-out to everyone, who have problem with height of the partner. I know, people have preferences and that's okay. But please, do not not start relationship JUST because somebody is smaller or taller than you and everything else is amazing on them. You will loose the perfect one, just because of their height? Hell no!
@@metaleroloquendero12 well in my country, you are slightly taller than average, but not BIG tall. (if you are female) but if you are male, than this is average height.
The woman from Hong Kong is 100% correct about people being too comfortable in their social circles in Sweden. I'm Swedish and have lived here my whole life. I don't have many friends so getting a girlfriend is extremely difficult. It's also difficult to get new friends unless you study at a university or something. Therefore it's quite easy to feel lonely and get depressed here :(
I am sorry to hear that. I hope things will be better in the future, I have always admired the Nordic countries, they have a lot of good things and I have always been curious to know what the snow and extreme cold feels like. Is there any way to make friends more easily?
Interviewer asks above average attractive women why they won’t date less traditionally attractive men. Why does no one ever harass men for this?! We don’t ask leo decaprio why he only dates young models why he doesn’t date lesser attractive women but we grill a woman over wanting a guy a little taller?! Should women have no preferences or standards and date any man who wants them?! This is short guy complex stuff and that attitude is far more ugly than being short ever will be. It’s the same with men who have small penises. When your personality is around negativity then you will of course get less interest. No one wants to date someone who is super aggressive and awful acting on top of being traditionally unattractive.
'Interviewer asks above average attractive women why they won’t date less traditionally attractive men. Why does no one ever harass men for this?!" We do in the United States. If men vocally express that they want a woman who is pleasant to be around, not fat, and hasn't slept with dozens of guys (which is basically all that most men are looking for), he's shamed and ridiculed for it. Especially on the last point. Somehow, if a man considers it a dealbreaker because a woman slept with dozens of men, then he's a bad person.
Woman: I wouldn't find a shorter man unattractive Interviewer: have you dated a man shorter than you? Woman: no Interviewer: why? Woman: (creatively explains shortness is unattractive)
She's mocking guys for putting their heights in the bio and then gets all flustered when the interviewer points out that they're just trying to meet her standard and her friend immediately confirms that she swipes on that basis.
Only dates guys who are +190 cm tall. But she doesn't think a lot about it, or she does... Nah she sees more than height but she swipes right if she thinks you are 190 cm tall, anyways she isn't THAT interested on height. The girl from Hong Kong was so sure and confident about her arguments, props to her😎👉👈
Well let me say it this way, I'd easily trade a scandinavian girl for a hong kong girl. Scandinavian women arent the fault, its the scandinavian culture projecting here. We are obsessed with self image, materialism and destructive hierarchies.
@@CrimsonsDeath12 I guess it's a sociological and historical thing. Yk, scandinavian countries have never had this amount of wealth equally delivered. 100 years ago most common workers were farmers and fishermen. There was this oil boom, long story short. I understand the pressure most youngs have to maintain its statuses and with that, the image one self shows. But it can destroy our mental stability to blend it all. TW: su&€¡de. A few years ago, the biggest problem for Norway and Sweden was to decrease the sui.cidal rates amongst young adults. But well... Thanks for your response. Where are you from?
I think what's happening is people are starting to realize that high body counts from dating apps is flaming out. It looks like a lot of people are too smart for that bs, and they just want someone, anyone, to share their lives with.
I don't see anything wrong with these Swedish women's personal preferences. Women prefer men who are taller than themselves and men prefer women are not taller than themselves. Call this superficial, but, at the end of the day, it is just a natural preference.
@@viniciusmagnoni6492 Exactly! For every man who doesn’t like it, just aim for a shorter woman. The world 🌍 is filled with women of all shapes and sizes and a myriad of preferences.
@@arthur2056 Nobody said they were dumb, but you can tell pretty damn quickly by the depth of someone's thinking and quickness of how she articulated herself so well compared to the rest that she's almost certainly got the highest verbal IQ.
This is universal with most woman being a short man around 5.6 I noticed it. Even short woman who were 5' tall were only attracted to very tall guys because they didn't like being short so they wanted to have kids who were tall. I remember one girl telling a friend who set me up on a date with her I over heard her saying "He's so short!!". I did marry a girl who liked short guys she even said her friends told her she was weird for always dating short men. She is Scandinavian but has no attraction to Scandinavian men, tall men, or blond hair men. She only dates dark hair, and dark skinned shorter men.
Yeah some people really have intense attraction to people outside their race, this is how humans can flourish by combining and recombining different genes.
Does she know that her kids will be short anyway because of her short, inferior genes that she will pass on? Short women should be forbidden to procreate.
I swear, I don’t find Scandinavians attractive at all!! This thought was formed when I visited these countries. They are too pale, built heavy, and age awfully. This is just my honest opinion.
8:07 the girl from Hongkong made a better topic and statement that this shallow. I sense about height ? Who cares? Social circle dating sounds more interesting and complex , what are the codes? Who is with who and how ? Or why?
@@supersagarsagar play silly games, win silly prizes. Always makes me laugh wuen these girls choose to date toxic asshole men then run crying when said asshole punches them or chests on them. If you go into the ring with a tiger, you cant act surprised when it tears your arm off
Yeah you can't beat evolution. It's like telling peahen not to choose the peacock with the most beautiful feathers, it just doesn't happen. Society is obsessed in telling people that looks doesn't matter when that's just go against our very DNA.
Pfft if those women from Sweden saw similar people like the actor that plays as John snow , or Tom cruise , or other short men i’m sure they would change their mind.. smh ..
What people in this comment section don't get when saying "both, looks and personality matter" is that, for men, this split is pretty much equal: 50% looks and 50% personality. Maybe even 40% looks. Basically, it's good enough if the woman looks atleast average. This is enough for most men. For women, the split is different. Not only do they consider about 80% of men "below average" as survey data indicates (look it up), but it also matters to them a lot more, it's probably around: 80% looks and 20% personality. Hence why you will often see women chasing some attractive jerk, instead of an average-looking nerd.
So what you're saying is that women are more visual than men and 80% of men aren't up to standard? You're right. Women aren't attracted to men who don't shower, brush their teeth, their hair and who don't dress nicely. Women aren't into smelly gamers.
Not true at all I've seen disabled, obese and short men coupled with attractive women, most women don't care about good looks and pay attention to things like height, status, money, feelings.
People gotta let people have preferences. It's not racist if you prefer a colour skin It's not sexist if you're gay It's not transphobic if you're super-straight It's not heightaphobic if you only want short / tall people :D Everyone has different tastes and that's why there's someone for everyone. As a guy I don't like tall girls and tall for me is most of Europe as I'm 5'7 lol so I'm less attracted to girls who are taller than me. I prefer Asian skin over black/white. I prefer straight women and wouldn't date a trans person. I still love all those other people who aren't my ideal partner though the same.
@@readisgooddewaterkant7890 , dont want to have sex with a transperson who identifys as the gender you normally want to have sex with eg. a man wants just to have a biological woman and no trans woman.
since everywhere in the world - I repeat: everywhere in the world - most men are taller than women, most women will answer "yes, I want a man who is taller than me" and men will say "yes, I want a woman who is shorter than me" duh...
I think if we all accepted we've got standards this type of videos would be unnecessary, I don't get all this 'you should like everyone regardless of their looks' mentality.
There is nothing wrong with having standards. However, these standards are often set by our society and the media and not by the person itself. This is the reason those types of videos excist in first place. A girl told me once that she wouldn't date a shorter guy, because she was afraid her friends would judge her or that people would stare at her.
Women: "You shouldn't judge someone on their weight and body shame them."
Men: "Does height matter when dating a man?"
Women: "Yes, who wants to date a short guy."
No cap
Truth
And wieght u can change not height
Exactly, you can change your weight but can't change your height, is rare listen those women talking like this in the equal genres rights land, not so equal here
@cody austin I'm 5'2 and It's all a mentality my brother. You can be strong physically or mentally.
Swedish people always say very politically correct things on camera, but what they say and what they do rarely match up.
Yes, But they didn't lie.
You could say that more to the HK girl, But I felt honesty in her, I really value that
Same in Germany. I work in Banking sector. My office is full of open border Green voting Gutmensch type activists, who live in most homogeneous parts of the town, and barely a single one is in Interracial relationship.
@@val-schaeffer1117 verfickte grünen
Same sh*t in Germany.
@@val-schaeffer1117 , exactly. Der gleiche Unsinn mit der Transideologie. Alle sagen Transfrauen sind Frauen aber jeder Mann , der es sagt, will dennoch eine biologische Frau. Überall Regenbogenflaggen aber die meisten sind dennoch abgef*ckt davon. xD
last girl was the smartest one by far and most reasonable.
asian people generally better thinkers
Hey Matthew where are you from am from United States
@@h0rk3d their men have low T
100% she's from Hong Kong and was able to learn a high quality American accent that can go unnoticed by many people. High IQ she has. Hong Kong scores the highest
Yet the interviewer hates her 🤣🤣
The girl from Hong Kong spit some real facts, I've lived in Sweden for almost my whole life and she's so right
So Swedish really don't date outside of their own social circle?
@@y.k.2143 Depends but most people in Sweden do that.
So you say that I cant just come to Sweden and start dating hot swedish man?I have to be their circle which is not possible to enter?
Sheesh, how so foreigners survive in Sweden then
@@sabotaje4174 I wonder that too. I think most of them have at least one friend that is from Sweden that introduce them to a bigger group of people.
the HK girl owned the interviewer's leading questions...
The interviewer was trying to put words in peoples mouths, didn't work out did it?
I believe he exposed how confused she is about her experiences in the world. She should adopt " it is what it is" and move on back to Hong kong!
She is the best for me in my opinion. :) The way how she responds shows why foreign men love Asians to be their wives. They will be like your quality life partner (but not perfect) while Swedish woman will be like your "co-man" partner... But that is fine. I just like her perspective on how she can view all of these, something that Swedes or similar won't understand and look at it negatively.
@@regaeontop6021 she didn't stay in Sweden for the sole reason of dating, maybe she has work or business in there it just so happen that she had a swedish bf. So why go back to HK just bcoz she doesn't fit their dating expectation .. too shallow
@@micronotsoft6891 she should go back!
My god, I'm from sweden and what the girl from hong kong is saying is completely true. I've found the dating scene here to be absolutely awful simply by the fact that I'm more introverted, and it's more draining for me to go out with friends constantly.
Isn’t being introverted normal in scandinavic countries?
@@jessicawolf5669 Introverted to the point where you don't really talk to strangers aye, but when there's alcohol or if you are around friends people can be super extroverted.
omg so trueee. I have the same the struggle outside of sweeden. It's like you have to be partying every week and up for a drink if you want to match with someone. The introverts don't seem allowed to have a dating life.
She's Hot!
@@jessicawolf5669 It's not introversion as much as people are easily suspicious and the social norm is to leave people alone and not bother them in any way.
The Asian girl's way of thinking is just fantastic!!!!
Geo Zepol most girls in Hongkong are actually.
People on HK are awesome in general.
I am from Asia, Women here out here rejecting men for being too tall, more than for being too short,😂
@Sound Engineer Тенист and?
She’s so prettyyyy
It’s all about the size of your house and the value of your cars man,I’m Asian my whole live...born and live here my whole live with different race group of Asian.
I liked the girl from Hong Kong. She was more perceptive.
Jasdne R Same. That’s how most women should be. But do note that people in Hong Kong / China / Asia are generally shorter, also men.
I'm from hk🤠
Agreed, and she’s definitely right. Dating and getting into a relationship with someone goes beyond than their looks and height. If that person has shitty personality or doesn’t have emotional intelligence then it’s a complete turn off, no matter how hot that person is 🤷🏽♂️
Totally agree, the others were just vapid
Most Chinese men are short.
Loved the HK chick’s response the best too!! She’s highly emotionally intelligent! Her responses and questions were definitely much more thought provoking than the others.
Hi beauty .Let me know you!
You can’t expect intelligent answers from dumb blonds.
yeahp
indeed, the first one to the right and the second one who look like latina/asian with the dewlap look as dump as their responses
this guys was terrible with the young lady from Hong Kong. She has a great sense of who she is.
He got butthurt because she was telling him the truth about his culture.
The interviewer is a fucking idiot. He never left Sweden. He is very mean to Hong Kong girl.
He is trying to twist/manipulate the asian girls opinion but i am glad she stand up for herself and dont be agreeable to him just because he is white ... she is nice but assertive ... so asian submissive stereotype is not always true
he should have said he would introduce her to his friends, she was new there looking for people
lol
Yeah, what an asshole.
My father was 5'5" (165 cm) and my mother 5'8" (172.7 cm); they had a good marriage that lasted 57 years. We kids grew up in a household where a shorter father and a taller mother was an everyday fact of life, so we didn't have the male-taller preference that seems to rule much of society.
It's not thay much a society thing I believe. More like a "i want to feel feminine" thing
@@lemonlime257 but the thing is that women are rejecting men taller than themselves lol. You see 5'2 women rejecting 5'7 men for being "too short".. like, what?
Good for you lil buddy
Wow. It seems like your father is a joke
My mom was also taller than my dad. I think its normal for girls to want to feel feminated by being shorter
OMG that last girl at the end. She is so smart and builds her arguments very well. I am happy I have surrounded myself with such women. I don't know if we have similar ideologies or not, however it is really awesome to interact with such people.
Yeah, so she seems. Until her logic fails her by saying "I guess preference for taller men is a society norm". No, it is not a societal norm like waiting in a queue or not littering on a street. The preference for taller stronger males is so hard-wired into our DNA that you need a lot of brainwashing to change that.
The Chinese girl is the only one who made the video worth watching!
Kudos!
Hey, she is from Hongkong
@@ASO_ASHISH Chinese.
@@dang0s804 Hongkong is a different country. Don't mix them ignorantly
@@ASO_ASHISH they’re still in china so yeah.
@@hyamick7584 uhm no, Hong Kong doesn't belong to China. fuck the ccp
5’7 American here. I joined tinder in 2018 and when I started getting matches women would message me and then ask me “By chance how tall are you” or oddly on one occasion a girl asked if I could touch the ceiling with my hand without jumping. I then posted my height on my profile and I went from 4-5 matches a week to about 1 match every 4 months.
I don't get this though. I am 5'7 and live in london and the average female height here is 5'4 so I am taller than the girl yet they would reject me lol. If I am taller than you why should height matter lol. If you put a 6ft man next to the great khali he would look tiny. Girls need to stop comparing with other men and see if her man is at least same height or taller than her then it's all good. Otherwise us men can also say ah look that girl is slimmer than you with better boobs and butt.
Frank Rijkaard true but I’d rather meet with a woman that has that knowledge beforehand and if they’re still willing to meet me, it’s all the better. That means she’s less shallow. I’ve had friends/family set me up on blind dates and just when I think I’d wowed the girl(no kids, never before married) with humor and good conversation, I get the whole “you’re a great guy but you’re just not what I’m looking for but my friend Kimberly(three kids) or Elina(fat and smokes cigs) are single I can put a word in” type of crap. My cousin’s wife once set me up for a date with one of her college friends and this happened. My cousin’s wife then apologized to me because she did not realize that her friend was so shallow. At the end of the day I wasted time & money, so now I put my height out there to save me the hassles.
Frank Rijkaard my cousin’s wife told me that her friend told her to only match her with taller guys going forward, guys like my cousin who is 5’10. It was the first time I started to realize women could be just as shallow as men. There’s nothing wrong with it, but it helped me in being smarter/confident about dating and saving my self time and money. My recent girlfriend of two years broke up over money issues, she wanted to live in a more expensive apartment just to impress her friends.
@@shazanchaudhry men already judge women on boobs and butt. The difference is we aren’t butt hurt like men. We actually ask eachother “is he a boob or butt guy” and laugh about it. Smh.... let women have their preferences!
@Dhaumya23 well I live in London and here many girls are my height or taller than me. Most guys range between 5'10 and 6'4 so I feel kinda like a midget at 168/170 cm. No girl has overtly rejected me for my height but u can sense when u talk to them and they aren't interested. In terms of looks and personality I'm average maybe slightly above average just need less body and face fat, personality most day its good, can hold a convo and have a sense of humour. But yhh height is very important as a man for dating in the west specially if the girl is your height or above.
My favorite was that girl from Hong Kong. She has a sense of humor. “I have no problem pushing you around.” Not PC, but she’s cool. Totally honest, doesn’t hold anything back.
that asian girl spoke the truth
Cope! She bluepilled the camera so she doesn't seem shallow! Asian women prefer 6ft4 (or just taller than her) WHITE men, and are repulsed by unnatractive short men, especially of their own race! The blackpill is true!
@@alex_6911 probably the ones that live in the West mostly.
@@domrramos I'm white Albanian and and I'm 5ft8. Asian women are desperately looking for white men or basically every other race of men except their own. Now about your height... Obviously men's height matters to women a lot when it comes to attractiveness, but sometimes you can luck out if u find a rare woman that doesn't mind a few inches shorter. I think that might be the case for you, but other than that anything that is below 6ft, is considered as manlet or short height by most women.
@@alex_6911 it's so stupid that an average height of men is still lower than that in asia
@@GGG-hh5jo Average height is considered between 5ft8 - 5ft10. Average height in Asia is 5ft4 - 5ft5
The asian girl make me believe in love again. The swedish girls make me question why I am straight
Men will have demands for your looks... trust, sweetie! lmao ^_^
Gay men are even more demanding! LMBAO!
@@blackalien6873 well and if you're female you can't just look good you have to spend half your time removing body hair and enhancing yo face.😅
You wouldn't want gay dating. It is definitely much more superficial and difficult. Trust me.
@@noelliebtsie I'm not trying to make this into a competition but you being able to "enhance yo face" sounds like a hell of an advantage. I'm a straight guy, I freshen up and work with what I got, makeup isn't an option for me.
I think it comes down to an individual's attitude, you can be your own best friend or worst enemy. I choose to work on myself and accept where I'm at right now.
That Asian woman was the definition of attractive both inside and out. She was assertive and was* gentle at the same time. And she was telling the truth.
The others were more beautiful.
@@ryvyvexbyhcrvtybcrtctubyxr5167 no.
I dont agree. She was wrong also. If she cant meet someone in Sweden, so, star making friends. And Tinder is no only image, you can know a lot from a persona by the kind of photos that person upload
Lmao you're wrong.
@@ryvyvexbyhcrvtybcrtctubyxr5167 she is pretty good looking but she has some wired makeup it's like she was trying to lighten her original skintone
God how narrowminded you are. A girl from Hong Kong disclosed a very important sociological issue regarding both dating and generally and you failed on giving her any response to that because you wanted to hear more about 'height'...... seriously?
so true even the way he speaks sounds braindead af
Read the damn title...
@@freckley dating apps are the primary source of heightism...makes logical sense to why he brought it up
@@freckley whatever you say man lol
@@illahee24 Oh really?!! Gosh my bad.
she(asian girl) is the most brilliant creature i've ever witnessed today,
And shes absolutely right about it. Not only Sweden but in many other European and Asian Countries most people tend to date through their social circles. Social Limit. Its like a Pyramid
Where are you from
@@icemanchambers1207 if someone has no friends then they don't get to date?
Strange thing for a follower of the pedophile prophet to say.
EVER witnessed TODAY. I have never even once cheated on my wife today.
While HK girl is right about social circles, it has more to do with how we approach strangers in Sweden. It is considered strange to talk to people on public transport or stop and talk to your neighbor (mostly in the cities). So if there is a girl/guy you like in a social circle/at work/at school it is easier to get to talk to her without being looked as weird. Also, 9.8/10 you have to be the one to approach the girl, but it HAS to be in the correct setting. Approaching someone in public and started talking to them, in a everyday setting, you will get strange or suspicious looks if you don't have a good excuse for it.
Its not just in Sweden we act like this though. When I went backpacking in Australia for a year, every girl I met (Swedish) wanted to talk in Swedish, even while there were other nationalities in that setting. Its all about being feeling safe and comfortable - feeling at home. It has nothing to do with race.
That being said, going abroad made me realize that Swedish women are (at least those I've dated before) very entitled and bullheaded. I met French, Canadians, Brits, Spanish, Italians, Koreans, Japanese, Chinese, Russians, Ukranians, Dutch, Irish, Danish, Germans.. They were all laid back and more approachable, definitely interested in talking to me first, rather than other way around. It could be the atmosphere of hostels and backpacking, since most of them are alone or with a friend in a similiar setting as you, there to meet people. But, in general, it felt very different and easy to talk to approach them or just hang out with them overall.
How old are you? If you don't mind me asking
Wow these Sample on video looked nightmarish to deal except the hong kong girl.
The honk kong girl say a lot of bs. It’s obvious that she like weak and not muscle boys how is in his country.:)) just go to the gym guys
@@romanianhustler3309 give those wallets back sandu
@@romanianhustler3309 the fact you said gym said it all
I like that most of them think a man being shorter than them is bad, but being shorter, in general, is not. I'm 177cm tall and girls who are under 160 think I'm too short for them.
Dude you've been talking to the wrong girls lol. If they are barely 160cm they are in no position to call your height short.
@@kiralight4212 Yea, but they do. That's the point. It's getting ridiculous. Everyone under 180 is short, for any woman, short or tall.
I'm talking about social networks, I don't know that many women in person.
@@DepressedLemur9 Oh that makes more sense if you met them on social network. It's full of bitches like that
My god it is
Lmao wtf? 177cm is short? For 'em chicas? I'm only 165cm. Tell me if I should commit suicide already =_=
The interviewer was just stuck on height and found someone who had a brain. Hong Kong owned his ass and he had to stop the questions 😂
He got owned lmao.
He didn't even get to understand her answer
She was based
@1VanteBecause she came with a well thought, structured argument, while the interviewer didn't want to discuss it any further. Probably because his English is worse than hers, so he doesn't feel comfortable discussing beyond asking simple yes/no/why questions
I think this video shows the one Swedish obsession: norms. You must stay within the norms. The norm says he has to be taller, so you go for the tallest, so you are not konstig, weird. Swedes are no revolutionary people. They love being told what to do and they do it knowing that following the norms gives rewards and admiration. That’s Sweden in a nutshell. And finally they end up being tremendously shallow in relationships because they don’t consider the real reasons why two people should live together. Norm does not says so. Norm says what is not weird to be looked at. 14 years in that country, I think nothing in this video is shocking, and the HK girl, I wish her the best of luck. She is in one of Europe’s toughest producers of bricks in the wall.
It's super interesting that you mentioned the Swedish adherence to norms. I think it's true in every aspect of Swedish life because a few months ago I was reading an academic paper on the political history of Sweden and the author basically acknowledged how Swedish society had always obediently followed the royal decrees despite being reluctant to do so in many cases.
It’s interesting, cause where I live in Sweden it hasn’t been much like that at all. More like some people are like that and some aren’t. I definitely think Sweden has different mindsets depending on where you are in the country which is interesting, and that comes from someone who has traveled around here and lived abroad quite a lot.
Agree with the "being told what to do". I knew a couple of Scandinavian girls closely and noticed that.
mmm even though you may be right. i have another theory. women hate accountability, all women over the world, not just the swedish ones. they have to go arround the sun and make excuses on what they do or prefer in order to look as less bad as possible. in this case their excuse is "the norm" to disguise their personal preference for taller men. but if the norm was to date same height or shorter i bet they would't just gladly follow the norm but go against it at a passionate level instead. it is not different when a girl has a handsome tall boy friend that treats her like shit, and she justify by saying "i dont know what happend to me, i just fell in love". and when a short not handsome guy treats her well and wants to be her boyfriends she says something like "he is a good friend, i like him but just as a friend, i dont feel the same as him".
Yes, and the Swedish girls interviewed here were creepy. Beautiful but boring af
I guess I fell in love with that Hong Konger girl. Her humor and the way she expressed the truth was amazing. :)
I feel so sad about the girl who was last seen in the video. I feel like the guys who interviewed her felt inferior to her for whatever reason and they were trying to make her feel bad. The way they’re laughing in the background thinking they’re right and she’s wrong just screams beta. However she did make a valid point! That’s all, thanks :)
Nany
That’s a really wild accusation
Fr
wild imagination
not really, its definitely not beta, its just unprofessional, which is why some of the interviewed got a little aggressive at some points, as its clear the interviewers dont really know how to interview, it feels more like sort of a half argument at some points, so i guess you could say they did have some points where it felt more accusatory but to straight up say that they were setting her up is abit too imaginative and not probable, though what you are right on is the fact that what they did was in fact not ideal
Now that I am older, I understand why so many people get a divorce and things dont work out....
What do you mean at all?
@@wellingtoncarvalho7023 many ppl are shallow and get together for shallow reasons it's not enough to make it work
@@nothing-jl2dz The truth is that divorces are happening so much in the Newer generation, becouse now women have a say in it.
If you notice the studies about divorce, you will find out that the extreme-vast majority of the divorces are initiated by women.
Which is something that women couldn't do in the past becouse they had no rights, and even their own mother would say stuff to them like " Go back to your husband and don't ruin your family and your house, endure it".
This mentality is gone now, women don't have to endure a bad husband, an abusive husband , a cheating husband.
Back then, a cheating husband was the standard thing... "they are men, they get to do that".
And the woman had to just accept it and move on.
And an extra example : The grandmother of my girlfriend told us multiple times that if her relationship, her marriage happened in our era, she would've ended way before ...
So no, people are not shallow, quite the opposite... it's just that women don't have to accept the shit that they used to accept in the older generations.. And it hurts the beta-male andrew tate followers-inferior men so much that they spit anger in the comments... and i am loving it xD
@@akhsdenlew1861 One more radical feminist who thinks that every single problem in the world is due to "patriarchy" LOL
You can clearly see the problem with the first two girls. There are some women that genuinely don’t care about height which is great, but then their friends pressure them to prefer taller guys or they openly make fun of guys who are shorter. Obviously if girls are convinced by their friends that certain men are less attractive, they are going to choose others.
I think its a case of ideal preferences vs reality.. Im sure both girls would prefer a taller guy, but in reality there are so many other factors that are more important.. Id prefer a very beautiful women, but Id take an average looking women who is great to be around any day
@@MaMastoast I swear, I don’t find Scandinavians attractive at all!! This thought was formed when I visited these countries. They are too pale, built heavy, and age awfully. This is just my honest opinion.
I will say this, if you think that there is some kind of non-bias in relations in Europe, you are mistaken. Women usually want - tall, smart, absolutely healthy men with an average income or higher. It's kind of like the reproductive instincts, women choose a man so that their children have more chances in life. These are instincts. There is equality and tolerance in Europe, but not as much as you think haha.
And men want fit, smart and healthy women with an income of their own.. People are interested in generally put together people, its not a woman thing, its a human thing. Everyone wants a partner who is capable. And just because we all have preferences and ideals doesnt mean a potential partner has to meet all of them.
As far as Im aware, most of my friends make less than their girlfriends and its not really an issue at all.
Why do I get this feeling that the interviewer planned this. Its like the asian caught him red handed when he said "we went sidetracked for a minute, but lets get back to the main question". Other than that I love the Asians input, Shes so georgous and he personality is amazing. Thats the kind of a girl you need for life.
UMM- BEING HONEST, NOT AS PRETTY AS THE RIGHT FIRST SWEDEN GIRL THO--
THE SWEDEN GIRL ON THE RIGHT IS GORG--
You missed an opportunity to discuss things further with that Asian girl
Hi girl
He got butthurt lmao
I know right. She just explained a key difference between Swedish and Honk Kong dating culture and the dude was like “jA bUt wHaT aBoUt hEiGhT?” lol
He already hates her after she has opinion based on her observation on swedish dating lives while actually living on Sweden(how dare u have opinion about my country after living here !!) yet he tries to convince her about his opinion of hongkong dating eventhough he never lives there Lmaooo 🤣🤣they said all swedish are open minded
@@noorclean2915 lol they are the most closed minded people
It's interesting to see the contrast between the Hong Kong girl and the other girls, I mean, she dwarves everyone else in terms of knowledge.
Honestly this is probably more of a swedish cultural thing than women heightshaming men. Swedes are pretty tall in general so finding short men in general would prove to be a challenge.
However the hong kong woman nailed it on the head with the social analysis
Yes its accurate im 6’3 and i have never been called very tall
@@Elliork cap af that's tall everywhere except balkans
No they're not I've never met a swede over 6ft1
@@gabz3872 well you dont live in sweden so how would you know?
@@Elliork i met over a hundred swedish tourists only met a few taller than mr and im only 6ft3
The important thing to realize is that the use of dating apps, and social media, is making our culture and society more superficial, which is particularly accelerated by young children starting to use them too. It's too late to debate whether it's good or bad - we have to deal with the consequences
The social media and dating apps do not make you superficial, we are the content of those apps! We are all superficial if you have not realised until now!
@@MshTchdont let the system fool you, media have change society and we can see nowadays the consequences, booth men and women are more lonely than ever before
I love how the Asian girl ended up interviewing the interviewer and he didn't even realize it.
Being a very short man is one of the most powerful social stigmas that exists and it is rarely denounced.
True. And if one complain about that they just are welcomed with laugh. Hypocritical society.
You cant criticise someone for a PREFERENCE.grow up.
@@newleft2254 When they use that preference to betlittle another, then you can absolutely criticise the women who hold ridiculous standards. Especially those who want 6+ feet. 10% of men are 6 foot or over.
@@thecaynuck4694 You sound very sensitive. I've never heard women "belittle" men while claiming to want 6ft+. Men just FEEL belittled because they are ... little. And don't make the mark. You have your preference they have theirs. Deal with it.
@@newleft2254 there's a lot of women belittle short dudes. They exist. Just because you cannot see one, it doesn't Mean that it didn't exist. Researches and tinder experiments proved you wrong.
"It hasn't happened"
Yeah, you can barely find a short dude in Sweden let alone date one.
😂
They've all been "naturally" pruned out (due to selection) lol
I’m Swedish and I’m hella short, and yeah it’s a rare case which makes it even worse..
@@zackariasevertson7733 Why? I find it hard to believe that Swedish women are shallow. I'm sure if you're having a hard time it's not because of your height.
@@youtubeaccount1718 1,68cm
This is just wrong. If you're a guy who isnt above "6'3" (that seems to be the ideal height in a man for some reason here). Dont you ever let any women make you feel less because of it; cause that may be her beauty idealizations, but reality isnt made of it. And if you ever meet a women that cares about it, then runaway, cause that probably means they're shallow and cares too much about what other thinks of her. And I asure you there will always be plenty of beautiful women around the world who will simply dont care about this, cause there are a lot of other more atractive things in men than his height, like charisma, inteligence, sense of humor, talents, etc.
Ps: In Latin america height Standards for men are lower, cause women tent to be shorter. So dont worry, the world is too big!
@Subhuman Manlet No, not at all. Im currently single, but I've dated all Kinds of heights, including similar to mine, even though thats not totally "average" in men, since im 1,58 cm.
You made a fantastic point and am so impressed. Fernanda my name is Kelvin i hope to hear from you .
@@kelvinpeters1047 Thanks Kelvin. Hope you're doing great!. Greetings ✨.
@@Fernandapazlolas You looks beautiful woman.let me know you. I am a tall man , serious and kind.
Oh yeah
190cm??? bro even dutch average male height isn't that tall
she said over 190cm
Swedish men are only like a cm shorter in average
That's just absurd ... Rejected 90% population in a second unless it's their favourite actor... 🙂
@@pussyslayer3571 so are croatian, serbian, bosnian etc...
@@Mr.Amberman much much more than 90% ....6ft is still understandable. 6'3" are giants
i am a very short guy, and can confirm the struggle . Main problem is that they are so set on this that simply asking why or for a more in depth reason will most likely end you up as blocked. But also its like talking to a toddler who is set upon not liking something, even if he/she has never tasted it before. It is possible to show them that they may be wrong, but that will take time, and effort and nothing is guaranteed.
Same here. Glad prostitution is legal.
Welcome to reality brother, women operate in the same way as toddlers!
It's called preference, get over it, and don't act like you don't have any.
You may find yourself single for a long time or like the other dude said, seeing prostitutes.
@@a.y3075 So by me telling about my personal experience, you have the odasity to sit there and tell me what I should and should not feel.. Fucking cry baby generation.. No wonder the only thing you sell are dignity for the price of a happy meal and 10000 words to define 2 genders :P
Confidence and outlook [and financial secure] goes a long way. I'm considered tall (for a women at 174cm), dating men 162cm to 198cm. I've come across men that think I'm too tall for them, and that's ok. Try to learn to let it go and find someone who's not set on height. Alot of women only date guys that are 6' and up, like my sister and she's shorter than me. Men care about being taller too, but women care more about height.
Girl from Hong Kong has a cute behaviour....oh and a nice attitude at all.
Welcome
@@jouj9963 thank you
@@jouj9963 what do you want
@@jouj9963 I don’t see the purpose behind your actions but I’m quite sure you are a troll. So farewell
@@Zazinikki yess
The girl from Hong Kong*:
Provides an interesting insight about Sweden’s dating system that leads to its socioeconomic
Interviewer: (cringes) You, Asian, Asians, don’t talk, correct?
The girl: That is absolutely not true
The interviews: Anyways, back to men’s height and me lecturing you afterwards how you should feel about men’s height...
Yup he felt like he got slapped in the face, as if he only get the knowledge about asian people based on media and stereotypes that all asians are submissive, meek, robotic, forgetting that each asians are individual and have their own minds and opinion
I love you
i love how the interviewer is like: I CANT BELIEVE THIS WOMAN!!! SHE SPEAKS THE TRUTH!! AND ITS NOT IN MY PLAN!!!! I HATE HER!!!!
lmao i can feel that guy screaming like that in his head lmao
Yeah he even cut off the video at the end hahahahahaha
Yeah thats just white people for you, they hate to see themselves being wronged by PoC.
Videos like this help me focus on what my long term life goals should be. Thank you. 😊
Dating in Nordic countries is hard. You have to have a social circle and even then you have to compete.
or find a intress. I not sure I ever found a date from socal circle ever in sweden and if it can count os socal circle is just becouse we share the same intress and hang out due to we all dance or something like that. meet up on the dance
I thought you could go to a pub and start speaking and hitting on any guy alone standing up at the bar.
@@carlotagarcia2939 Different for a woman. Woman make the rules after all. That is why it's hard for men
@@Pyovali should i get latin or filipina girlfriend
Damn what's with the hate of short men
Hahaha, even the men hate on short.
How was this hateful?
@@MrMuaythai84 r/niceguys
I'm short af, and if they hate short men then we can hate fat women its fair
Kevin I really don't like short men
I found that asian women 100 times more attractive than all the other girls. She was thoughtful, smart, and wise. That made her more attractive than anyone else
Just like you have your reasons to like the asian girl 100 times more, the rest of the women there have their reasons to like tall guys.
it's all about personal taste, and noone has the right to intefere your personal opinion or theirs.
@@akhsdenlew1861 His reasons to like the asian girl more is because of her thought process, her morals and she's clearly shown to be relatively intelligent
The women's reasons to like something dudes have no control over is because it gives a false sense of 'security' and 'social norms'.... lol
Asian women usually have better mindset than European women. And also more wifey material because they care more about family values…
I really like the honesty and sincerety of the last woman talking... Thank you, dear stranger! :)
Didn't know Harry Potter was Swedish.
🤣
LOL! Hahaha yeah he looked like Harry Potter hahaha!
Once I saw a guy looking like Daniel Radcliffe working as a clerk in a Swedish grocery store. He spoke Swedish without an accent, though...
I think this guy's French, though. The accent sounds like that. That's also the reason the interview is performed in accented English, to include him in the conversation...
Yup, he's french. I wanted to include him in the conversation.
0:25 optimal height is 190 cm??? Girl you better date Yao Ming then.
Bruh that's exaggerated af..and then women say guys are harsh...smh
@Stando Powa yes they’re common...but they’re still considered tall there, just not as tall as it is in other countries if That makes sense?
I think 190cm there is 1 in 10 guys or so?
But yeah, 190cm is universally tall everywhere in the world...188cm is also debatable tho, and 185cm is above average everywhere.
@D if you’re really 183cm barefoot then my man you’re decently tall!
There is no country on earth where 183cm would be considered short...at the worst it’s average in Netherlands!
But to be above average everywhere you need to be 185cm+
Isn’t that just barely above 6’2? It doesn’t seem that crazy to me :0
@@jasonhondakker9231 no 190cm is pretty much around 6’3(it’s 6’2.8 to be specific) like I said 6’3 is solid tall there in Sweden but not very tall! Very tall there is more like 6’4+
But a legit barefoot 6’3 In most western countries(who average 5’9 or 5’10) 6’3 would be considered start of very tall IMO!
I’m 6’2 barefoot and average where I live is around 5’10(5’9.75 to be specific)...and I gotta say is I do feel solidly tall here...At times I even feel very tall...most people have no idea just how tall a real 6’2/6’3 guy is...I get guessed at 6’4 a lot because everyone lies about their height these days!
The Irony is that women don't know what they want.
They are mostly attracted to masculinity. Traits like being a leader, assertive, decisive and ambitious.
Instead of putting them on the pedestal, see them as just humans.
Hong Kong girl stood out the most
how do they not know what they're attracted to lol
Women in general prefer taller guys. It's a crude fact of life. However, in Europe I think it also depends a little on the region. I know that in the north the average height is higher, so culturally they may be more used to it. While in the south there are more shorter men so women may be a little more accepting, but not that much more.
@DLO 06 "Height is never a issue unless you worried about it " -> Hey idiot! FEMALES ARE THE CHOOSERS, AND THEY ARE THEY ONES WORRIED ABOUT A MAN'S HEIGHT!!!!
@DLO 06 🖕🏾
It's stupidity. Never date a woman who cares about height. It bespeaks huge levels of insecurity, immaturity, and insipidity. If you're dealing with someone that vapid, chances are she's a bubblehead who doesn't think for herself and is easily influenced by the media and whatever her social circle says is "popular".
The Hong Konger is incredibly smart
I didn't want to watch this video because I already knew that heightist discrimination would be rampant throughout the video, but I still clicked.
Brutal for me.
This girl from Hong Kong is a wife material!
I would think Swedish girls prefer tall boys because they are tall themselves. Asian girls would also prefer tall boys, but not as tall as Swedish girl's requirement. As long as the boys are taller than the girls it's fine.
Asian girls prefer tall guys too, it's a biological preference, that's why humans in general have been getting taller, Asians too, in fact we might have the most tallest population
@@Hhhh22222-w Asians are known to be shorter than the average... I don't know how they are suddenly the tallest. But I heard that Japanese people's height has skyrocketed in recent years due to a change in diet. Whatever they were eating before probably wasn't the beneficial for growth
They should prefer a Tree, light pole, or electric pole instead of a guy with 190 cm 😂🤣
You short guys funny lol
😂😂😂😂👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
The Burj Khalifa is their match
How about Mount Everest,🤣
The Asian girl was so pretty and smart
Girls don’t want a guy that’s shorter than them. I’m a gay guy over 6ft and I don’t want a guy smaller than me
@@turquoisebaddie9885 That's not true my friend got married with a guy who is shorter than her.
Asian chick was lying and seemed drunk lmao he should have asked her if she has ever dated anyone shorter than her. I bet it’d be “no”.
Bro if you are insecure about your height, don't project your vision and insecurity on other people, it's just sad
@@turquoisebaddie9885 You should be more concerned about HIV than height
The Girl from Hong Kong is really cool. ❤👍🏼
Hi, i honestly do agree with you, she needs to do it differently or get to do something else entirely, however my name is Elizabeth just curious if you can text me on hangout libbymifalani@gmail.com
Wtf why do girls need to explain themselves if they don't want a small guy.
That's sexual selection.
It's similar with beauty.
Most women want a guy with a nice jawline and that's a sign of good genetics, so of course women want a tall chad and not a small average looking guy.
Everybody who says looks doesn't matter is lying or is a ugly person.
Good looking people have the superior genetics.
They are very healthy.
Men with a bad jawline, receding chin and so on are probably mouthbreathers.
Men with a trained body are stronger and probably healthier than men with a big stomach.
So normally people always go for the good looking ones, because these individuals are the most healthy ones with good genetics.
True, its only natural. Men only want beautiful white women too. Since they cant get them they simp for the average white women. No women want ugly men, and no men want ugly women.
A men can improve by working out, good skin care, beeing well dressed. (Same goes for women)
Of course, personality is Important too. (Maybe 30%)
Money can replace both, looks and personality.
Facts 💯🌟
I am quite a short man and my height has never been an issue when dating women, even those who claim that height matters to them. The thing is women often don't know themselves what they want at first. And when they meet someone for real there are a lot of other aspects that count and that they may find more important than height. And also, it seems that it is weight and proportions that matter as well.
My experience as well.
Are you 160 cem tall??
@@elkapas9254 168.
It's not that they don't know what they want
@@1675loof it is
I'm a short 165 cm guy and never had any problems with girlfriends, some were taller and some shorter. I just felt confident and picked up and got on well with alot of girls. I think a guys confidence goes a long way and his ability to hold a sincere conversation.
@Cristiano Ronaldo Well i am happy with my fair hair and blue eyes.
but where they white like your? or cheat and went with others? because then, that's why it was easier to you, anyway, I don't find success in saying girlfriends, that just sound you have a problem
You probably don't live in Sweden and probably have a good looking face/hair.
@@jacktorrance9688 and probably also a good looking wallet 👌
@@jacktorrance9688 I have been to Sweden and I am of Nordic decent.
Man at first I didn't think the Asian girl was that attractive but as she was speaking I got little by little attracted to her somehow. Wish her all the best! :D
Why can’t these women be honest and say they don’t like short men? Most of the guys in the comments must be short too, btw.
Hello How are you today?
Will you post men talking about dating taller women?
Yes. I don't have enough footage yet but I will do that topic too.
For a guy to date a taller woman it would take a woman willing to date a shorter guy. So wouldnt that contradict this video lol
@Edward Smith It doesnt matter if you think it's weird, it's still ok. Weird just means unusual. Like i said, most women just dont wanna date shorter guys
I’m 5’7 and I’ve tried to date women up to 5’9 in person or online and each time I’ve been shut down.
Even the single moms that size don’t respond.
@@Ardante11 sorry bro
The girl from Hong Kong very smart and love her energy!
I’m short but I’ve got skills. Don’t under estimate the short guy
Swedish women. Some of the most beautiful women in the world. But also the most shallow.
@Smoove really broooo
@Smoove look who's shallow now?
Well when you're that pretty, you can afford to be picky about who you choose to date.
Commander Cullen Sure, but they’re picky for the wrong reasons: “He’s too short.”, “He’s too fat.”, “He’s bald”, “He’s in a wheelchair”. Good luck with your handsome abusive future boyfriends bitches!
@@Steve-wf3vv you sound really bitter and insecure. No wonder you're probably going to die alone
He should have interviewed the Asian girl for much longer. She was the most interesting of all the girls.
Can you ask Swedish guys do you prefer short petite girls or talk women
Yeah, I'm planning to do that too.
This is interesting, my ex boyfriend is Swedish and is 6ft 3, Im only 5ft1... ♥️
Swedish guys don’t care about the height. Only Swedish girls care about it
@@gustafsvensson5840 jajemän
hi
If you are a short guy then you need to have a commanding/take charge personality and you will get a girl, even a tall girl. I am 6' tall woman and I used to get guys on the shorter side trying to date me. I usually dismissed them but not always. If the guy was self assured and had a strength about him I considered him. I ended up marrying a guy who is exact same height as me but I dated one or two guys shorter than me, and several taller which was what I was looking for initially. Short guys do have a chance but not if you are timid.
It depends. A short guy has to be careful. Many times when a short guy has a commanding/take charge personality, a lot of women will criticize him as having a "Napoleon Complex".
@@patrisio3 LOL yeah, but that's because he's acting like a jerk. Exuding strength doesn't mean being a commanding jerk, it means having confidence and inner strength like not being fazed at all by being with someone taller, not feeling threatened, making the woman feel safe. Stuff like that is what I meant.
@@vaskylarkyoure victim blaming. just say you want to date tall guys. thats not a issue. dont look for reasons to put down short guys to validate your preferences
@@samuraijosh1595 I wasn't. I was trying to give shorter guys hope. I wasn't victim blaming at all. Victim? wtf Are short guys victims?
@@vaskylark I was reacting to how you responded to the Napoleon comment
I don't know why there are a lot of offended comments of men. I mean if the boys always want a short girl why girls can't say her preference for tall boys.
The problem is that he only asked tall girls. I'm a short Swedish girl (156 cm tall), and I do not like dating guys who are taller than 175 cm.
that guy looks like Harry potter actor...….3:17
Yeah the hair colour and everything maybe becouse he's not Swedish by heritage
@@ilqar887 He was french 100%. The accent in english was french+the huge nose
@@ellu26 he wasn't Swedish .that's for sure (at least fully)
@@ilqar887 Fuck me you guys have some serious superiority complex
@@ellu26 huge nose isn't a french thing. It's an armenian or georgian thing for 5000%! But french accent - agree. You can't hide it. It's the most recognisable accent out there.
Imagine if they interviewed guys saying they only date girls under 100 pounds/50kg.....imagine the outrage.
I like how everyone in the comments refuses to accept that this is the way SWEDISH women behave, not all women in general. Everyone on the internet glorify Sweden to an absolute absurdity, and fail to realize this
Yeah, they don't mention other scandinavian countries like Norway and Denmark, it's always Sweden that people constantly worship
I love small men, but I am 6'1 and woman... Most of the guys have problem in relationship, when they are smaller than their dove. And most of the women have problem, when the man is smaller than them
It's sad, but it's truth. By the path of the life, I learned that height DOESN'T matter. The heart does.
Shout-out to everyone, who have problem with height of the partner. I know, people have preferences and that's okay. But please, do not not start relationship JUST because somebody is smaller or taller than you and everything else is amazing on them. You will loose the perfect one, just because of their height? Hell no!
im 5.9 im a midget?
@@metaleroloquendero12 well in my country, you are slightly taller than average, but not BIG tall. (if you are female) but if you are male, than this is average height.
The woman from Hong Kong is 100% correct about people being too comfortable in their social circles in Sweden. I'm Swedish and have lived here my whole life. I don't have many friends so getting a girlfriend is extremely difficult. It's also difficult to get new friends unless you study at a university or something. Therefore it's quite easy to feel lonely and get depressed here :(
I am sorry to hear that. I hope things will be better in the future, I have always admired the Nordic countries, they have a lot of good things and I have always been curious to know what the snow and extreme cold feels like. Is there any way to make friends more easily?
@@rodrigoazcona6525 Be very good looking, and in a Swedish kind of way. Otherwise, forget it
Interviewer asks above average attractive women why they won’t date less traditionally attractive men. Why does no one ever harass men for this?! We don’t ask leo decaprio why he only dates young models why he doesn’t date lesser attractive women but we grill a woman over wanting a guy a little taller?! Should women have no preferences or standards and date any man who wants them?! This is short guy complex stuff and that attitude is far more ugly than being short ever will be. It’s the same with men who have small penises. When your personality is around negativity then you will of course get less interest. No one wants to date someone who is super aggressive and awful acting on top of being traditionally unattractive.
Leonardo DiCaprio is a world-class, wealthy, movie star. A lot of these girls are very average.
@@kevinreily2529 that was just an example so that everyone could understand the main point, which seems like you managed to miss
'Interviewer asks above average attractive women why they won’t date less traditionally attractive men. Why does no one ever harass men for this?!"
We do in the United States.
If men vocally express that they want a woman who is pleasant to be around, not fat, and hasn't slept with dozens of guys (which is basically all that most men are looking for), he's shamed and ridiculed for it. Especially on the last point. Somehow, if a man considers it a dealbreaker because a woman slept with dozens of men, then he's a bad person.
Woman: I wouldn't find a shorter man unattractive
Interviewer: have you dated a man shorter than you?
Woman: no
Interviewer: why?
Woman: (creatively explains shortness is unattractive)
She's mocking guys for putting their heights in the bio and then gets all flustered when the interviewer points out that they're just trying to meet her standard and her friend immediately confirms that she swipes on that basis.
Only dates guys who are +190 cm tall.
But she doesn't think a lot about it, or she does... Nah she sees more than height but she swipes right if she thinks you are 190 cm tall, anyways she isn't THAT interested on height.
The girl from Hong Kong was so sure and confident about her arguments, props to her😎👉👈
Well let me say it this way, I'd easily trade a scandinavian girl for a hong kong girl. Scandinavian women arent the fault, its the scandinavian culture projecting here. We are obsessed with self image, materialism and destructive hierarchies.
@@CrimsonsDeath12 I guess it's a sociological and historical thing. Yk, scandinavian countries have never had this amount of wealth equally delivered. 100 years ago most common workers were farmers and fishermen. There was this oil boom, long story short.
I understand the pressure most youngs have to maintain its statuses and with that, the image one self shows. But it can destroy our mental stability to blend it all.
TW: su&€¡de. A few years ago, the biggest problem for Norway and Sweden was to decrease the sui.cidal rates amongst young adults.
But well... Thanks for your response. Where are you from?
@@augusTJ I'm from Norway
I think what's happening is people are starting to realize that high body counts from dating apps is flaming out.
It looks like a lot of people are too smart for that bs, and they just want someone, anyone, to share their lives with.
Men are becoming more Conservative and women are more sexual. Thats what I noticed.
I don't see anything wrong with these Swedish women's personal preferences.
Women prefer men who are taller than themselves and men prefer women are not taller than themselves.
Call this superficial, but, at the end of the day, it is just a natural preference.
It's just biology
@@viniciusmagnoni6492
Exactly!
For every man who doesn’t like it, just aim for a shorter woman. The world 🌍 is filled with women of all shapes and sizes and a myriad of preferences.
@@truthbird1527 No need to get mad, just fall in where you fit in.
@@truthbird1527 foreign men? Even Swedish themselves are not as tall as she wants. Around
The problem isn't that, but the way they try to dance around it, it's incredibly unattractive, just say you don't like short guys
@9:07
The answer to this question is the same reason you want to date as attractive of a woman you can find:
*Offspring*
We all need a female like that Asian girl who we can share intellectual ideas with like that.
Definitely has the highest IQ in this video although I do feel like she was a bit insincere
@@redblue2358 highest IQ lol you saying the others girl are dumb
@@arthur2056 Nobody said they were dumb, but you can tell pretty damn quickly by the depth of someone's thinking and quickness of how she articulated herself so well compared to the rest that she's almost certainly got the highest verbal IQ.
No loss anyways, most Swedish women also prefer Africans and Black guys anyways.
I don't think the interviewer is smart enough to handle the interview with that Hong Kong girl.
This is universal with most woman being a short man around 5.6 I noticed it. Even short woman who were 5' tall were only attracted to very tall guys because they didn't like being short so they wanted to have kids who were tall. I remember one girl telling a friend who set me up on a date with her I over heard her saying "He's so short!!". I did marry a girl who liked short guys she even said her friends told her she was weird for always dating short men. She is Scandinavian but has no attraction to Scandinavian men, tall men, or blond hair men. She only dates dark hair, and dark skinned shorter men.
Yeah some people really have intense attraction to people outside their race, this is how humans can flourish by combining and recombining different genes.
@@syasyaishavingfun no that reflourishing thing is pure bs, that's not how humans have flourish
Does she know that her kids will be short anyway because of her short, inferior genes that she will pass on? Short women should be forbidden to procreate.
I swear, I don’t find Scandinavians attractive at all!! This thought was formed when I visited these countries. They are too pale, built heavy, and age awfully. This is just my honest opinion.
That chic from Hong Kong is absolutely beautiful physically and she has a amazing point of view
8:07 the girl from Hongkong made a better topic and statement that this shallow. I sense about height ? Who cares? Social circle dating sounds more interesting and complex , what are the codes? Who is with who and how ? Or why?
Hong kong girl is freaking smart
This is the best video I've seen in a long time
The part that the girl missed was that people still choose based on height even when they see them in person, and know their personality.
Then complain when turn out abusive
@@supersagarsagar play silly games, win silly prizes. Always makes me laugh wuen these girls choose to date toxic asshole men then run crying when said asshole punches them or chests on them. If you go into the ring with a tiger, you cant act surprised when it tears your arm off
Yeah you can't beat evolution. It's like telling peahen not to choose the peacock with the most beautiful feathers, it just doesn't happen. Society is obsessed in telling people that looks doesn't matter when that's just go against our very DNA.
@@harrypike5140that makes you laugh?
younger people tend to be more superficial in their standards/preferences bc 1. they have more options 2. biological instincts
Pfft if those women from Sweden saw similar people like the actor that plays as John snow , or Tom cruise , or other short men i’m sure they would change their mind.. smh ..
I was just thinking that!
No they wouldn't women generally don't like short men. It's the truth.
What people in this comment section don't get when saying "both, looks and personality matter" is that, for men, this split is pretty much equal: 50% looks and 50% personality. Maybe even 40% looks. Basically, it's good enough if the woman looks atleast average. This is enough for most men.
For women, the split is different. Not only do they consider about 80% of men "below average" as survey data indicates (look it up), but it also matters to them a lot more, it's probably around: 80% looks and 20% personality.
Hence why you will often see women chasing some attractive jerk, instead of an average-looking nerd.
Fascinated girl/boy who own sexier hormone,we love that!
*tips fedora* m'lady
So what you're saying is that women are more visual than men and 80% of men aren't up to standard? You're right. Women aren't attracted to men who don't shower, brush their teeth, their hair and who don't dress nicely. Women aren't into smelly gamers.
Not true at all I've seen disabled, obese and short men coupled with attractive women, most women don't care about good looks and pay attention to things like height, status, money, feelings.
@@akatsukicloak LOL sure....
The HK woman is very reasonable, smart answers.
Hey beauty. You are beautiful. I can't believe my eyes.let me know you!
People gotta let people have preferences.
It's not racist if you prefer a colour skin
It's not sexist if you're gay
It's not transphobic if you're super-straight
It's not heightaphobic if you only want short / tall people :D
Everyone has different tastes and that's why there's someone for everyone.
As a guy I don't like tall girls and tall for me is most of Europe as I'm 5'7 lol so I'm less attracted to girls who are taller than me. I prefer Asian skin over black/white. I prefer straight women and wouldn't date a trans person. I still love all those other people who aren't my ideal partner though the same.
Wft is Super straight
@@readisgooddewaterkant7890 a progressive-crafted bullshit term.
@@readisgooddewaterkant7890 , dont want to have sex with a transperson who identifys as the gender you normally want to have sex with eg. a man wants just to have a biological woman and no trans woman.
*yellow
@@readisgooddewaterkant7890 if you don't understand it, you're probably not worthy of getting an explanation about it :)
since everywhere in the world - I repeat: everywhere in the world - most men are taller than women, most women will answer "yes, I want a man who is taller than me" and men will say "yes, I want a woman who is shorter than me"
duh...
I think if we all accepted we've got standards this type of videos would be unnecessary, I don't get all this 'you should like everyone regardless of their looks' mentality.
There is nothing wrong with having standards. However, these standards are often set by our society and the media and not by the person itself. This is the reason those types of videos excist in first place.
A girl told me once that she wouldn't date a shorter guy, because she was afraid her friends would judge her or that people would stare at her.
@@dave-ld8mo “the invention of lying” put this kind of things into a movie. 😂