@@Tanjirokamado_19 the french accent is better than the Arabic accent, Indian accent. In the west, arabic accent is not considered nice, the french accent is
I am a Muslim girl, I do cover but it disgusts me how Muslim men consider themselves obliged to do character assassination of non-hijabi woman as if she is bad, I have seen some Hijabi girls in my life who are literally worst, there was a girl in my class who was hijabi and she had a bf and she even flexed about her encounter with him which was little physical, and my jaw dropped, I told her we are Muslims, how can u do that but she looked at me as if I have said something cringe, and I have seen some non-Hijabi women who are not into friendship with non-mehram and keep themselves away from such things, so making this whole assumption about someone that hijabi women is good and non-hijabi is bad is just too vile, there are women out there in my own relatives who don't show themselves in front of non-mehram but u will find many bad behaviors among them like back biting, jealousy etc etc
Allah knows best, as a Muslim man revert i too find this distressing and honestly confusing. Insha’Allah, we should focus on ourself and love ourself and search for someone who too loves themselves and loves Allah. Salaam
@onlygaming6698 ur perceptive is shaped by exterior observation and based on that you 'saying' she is mostly bad is not right. Based on your observation, it seems u deem the life of female lesser and their sins much higher than any big ones(irrespective of gender)
Many women who dont cover their heads have more hijab than those who do cover their heads. Some who dont cover their heads are dressed modestly for the rest of their bodies whereas many "hijabis" wear tight clothing revealing their curves and bodies. Also some of the first group have hayya and lower their voice whereas the fake hijabis with their headscarves talk to men and have loud voices. So we should see hijab as a total package and not headscarve only. I would rather marry a woman who is shy and dresses modestly without headscarve than a fake hijabi who reveals her whole body. The first woman only needs to add her headscarf and that will be easy. As for the second one the change would not be easy since her inner hijab and behavior is rotten, no shame etc so thats way harder to change.
This should have more likes. Only comment I’ve seen with common sense on here. “The first one only needs to put a head scarf on, the second one has a lot more work to do”.
This is literally what I have been saying this whole time, thank you for restoring my faith in the men of our Muslim community. At least there are some intelligent ones out there. I cover my body modestly and practice everything else but struggle with hijab due to illness, I still sometimes try to wear it but because of my illness sometimes I can’t do it properly. But these men call me a “s1ut” or a wh0re. Just because I don’t cover my head properly, even though I wear very lose modest clothing, and at least lower my voice etc. They judge me without even knowing my story and how I am none of that. I wish people had your mindset.
@maariyah1668 The ˹true˺ servants of the Most Compassionate are those who walk on the earth humbly, and when the foolish address them ˹improperly˺, they only respond with "salam". (25:63)
dont ignore this please, you'll need this on the Day of Judgement. complete your daily Dhikr, recite these:
Subhanallah 3x Astagfirullah 3x Alhamdulillah 3× Allahu Akbar 3x La illaha ilallah 3× Allahuma ajirni Min'an Naar 7× Allahuma inni as'aluka Al Jannah wa Audoobika Min'an Naar 12x Allahumma inni as'aluka husnal khatimah 3× Allahumagh fir lil Muslimina Wal Muslimat Wal Muminina Wal muminat x3 May Allah (S.W.T.) grant us Jannat-al-Firdous Ameen
Just to add for the men, if you want a woman who wears hijab, marry a woman who wears the hijab. Don’t marry a woman who doesn’t and force her. Hijab is worn for Allah , not cuz the husband forced them (forcing is not allowed in Islam)
@arbazmazumder2284 sure but what if the wife refuses? you are not allowed to beat her to force her into a submission to wearing it. I m trying to be realistic. That's why if a man wants to have a wife who wears niqab/hijab, he should let the lady know beforehand so that both the husband and wife share the same value. This goes for other values, too. Wearing hijab is indeed proper but due to personal reasons (health, personal safety and more), not all Muslim women will wear it. We can try to encourage them. But in things like marriage, a religious man who wants a religious woman should let the woman know what he wants a is a religious woman who wears hijab
I am a hijabi and I believe all Muslim women should wear hijab but Muslim men talking like this about them makes me disgusted, just so you all know(Muslim men who talks bad about women who don’t wear hijab) you have no right to say anything like this to anyone, you are not god to judge your words are so bad that when I get effected by it
It’s sad because I had and still have an illness, which causes me to not be able to wear it properly and all these men accuse me of being a bad mulsim even though I practice everything else. They run their mouths without even knowing my full story. But to them I am a dirty bad woman. I hope Allah shows them how it feels to have my illness and be judged unjustly like this. I still try but it’s not good enough for them, even though it physically and mentally affects me. Please pray for me and my illness to go away, then I can wear it properly.
@@Xuja-r3xand labelling her as “destined for hell” and giving her bad labels is also haram, which sheikh also said. Stop categorising all women who don’t wear hijab in one and judging her whole personality when you don’t even know the story to why she doesn’t OR can’t wear it yet. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but yes thanks so much for encouraging people to shun and abandon us. I’ll leave it in the hands of Allah to deal with all of you, who are so insensitive about our illness and judge us based off of struggling to wear a cloth on our head properly, even though when i try it causes physical damage.
@@Xuja-r3x he should but he shouldn’t talk bad about her, we don’t have the right for that, I also don’t like satanic people but I don’t say anything bad or good about them because I’m no person to talk about them, Allah is the judge and the creator he have all the rights for he is their creator, I’m just another creation so I just don’t talk about them
Yh sadly 90% of the Muslim men in this comment section blocked that part out and are calling non-hijabis names like “s1ut”. I’m starting to lose faith in people. I struggle with illness that makes me not wear it properly sometimes and they judge my whole character, calls me names etc. Words can’t describe how disgusted I am at all the men here and ashamed. I am embarrassed for them, imagine if a new convert reads all of this. It’s so pathetic. They only listened to the first half of this video and ignored how sheikh said not to character assassinate, which is exactly what they are doing.
@@Craftnite maybe learn how to read English, I am talking about the whole comment section and how it is full of only muslim men, calling non-hijabis slurs and calling me a “disgusting woman” for not being able to wear hijab on my head due to my illness. An ILLNESS I CANNOT CONTROL. Maybe you should confront them, instead of someone they targeted. You are part of the problem. If calling a person who is already trying to wear a hijab even though it affects them “disgusting” and “s1ut” is ok to you, then please don’t waste my time harassing me like them. Allah will deal with all of you.
@@Craftnite maybe learn how to read. I said most of the men in the comments are like this. Not the ones I hang around lol. Calling me disgusting due to my illness making hijab on my head hard for me. They call me names for having an illness I cannot control. Maybe harass the people who are causing harm than the people who they target which is me. No need to be so offended if this doesn’t apply to you.
@@lalallaaaaa whomever you are, these things are part of the Islamic rituals. As far as I know, I do my research in regards to the beards. Some people and even scholars say its Wajib lol. If it's a sunnah, it means you can shave it as it's not compulsory, yet people say its a sin. Surely they got that information from somewhere, so which is it then? Lol facts please
@@ashaulmiah5688The beard isn't comparable to the Hijab lol. Hijab is serious bro she is uncovered. There isn't even a difference of opinion on Hijab other than feet vs no feet and ofcourse some saying she should have hijab. Beard has a variety of opinions even a few heavy weight scholars saying shaving is makruh not haram I.e in shafiqi fish. It is a terrible comparison in all honesty
@@khalidnoor7735 Well then Muslims can't lie and say there's no compulsion in Islam, because there is compulsion. In regards to beards and hijabs, there is rulings behind it. After all it's about covering private parts. I never heard anyone say shaving is Makruh, where's the evidence?
@@lalallaaaaa who told u kid that beard is sunnah... There is consensus among scholars and whole Muslim Ummah, 4 Imams, and hadiths that Beard is Fard to keep and shaving it is sinful.. Read rulings properly bro
Brothers who are willing to marry women of the book, shouldn't object too much. She could always put a Hijab later on and improve her relationship with Allah. But a wearing a Hijabi in the west, is especially a good sign. There's obviously more to it then that though.
The topic is being made such a big deal when there are many hijabi women who are committing other major sins like backbiting, disobeying their husbands, etc. Many non-hijabi women are very devout and well-mannered, principled, and behave better than many hijabi ones. I am not justifying not to wear the hijab but it is important to look at both sides and the social context rather than just a plain black and white ruling as Islam is also a religion of intelligence, mercy and understanding. Maybe one day Allah will guide her to wear the hijab if she is not currently doing so as it did take a while before the Hijab ruling came into place as it is not easy for everyone.
if a non hijab was devout she'd put on the hijab, just cause there are hijab doing bad things is not an argument. Not wearing the hijab is just as bad, why are you kidding yourself?
@@user-us7el6ss2l Exactly but if they're hijabi you know one aspect is met, then thats when you see her character. But if she is not Hijabi you are missing a part of modesty. Both need to be met
His tone toward women wearing a hijab is so much harsher than when a man shaves his beard. It took him to mention the man’s equivalent sin to soften down and become more empathetic. Honestly Allah knows us best. Beard or nor beard, hijab or no hijab - we all have our pros and cons and none of it is determined by our outer appearance.
@@srvntofAllah987 same goes for you. Don't get involved every time it's bout a girl's hijab not for other godly sins. you so hell bent towards girls. what's ur parent teach you?
A man with beard might not have that much deen but A man of deen will have beard. Same here. A hijabi or niqabi might not have that much Deen but a girl that's deeni will wear hijab or niqab
Someone needs to ask him and all muslim men where in the quran does it degrade non hijabis and where in the quran is the character of a woman questioned if she doesnt wear it . The verses about jilbaab were to protect women from harassment and the verse about khimar was refering to covering the bosom [privates] . Khimar was pre islamic clothing . So the verse wasnt literally forcing a uniform on to women .
People who say that are liars or they give up too soon. Yes, it’s not as easy as in other western countries, but the one who wants to wear it will find no difficulty in it.
In my humble opinion; If a woman doesn't fear الله enough to cover her aura, she may not fear الله in other aspects of life too. It may lead to her contradiction with husband's future decisions for his family; Discord. So for a practicing Muslim male, he better choose a like-minded girl (and vice versa). Bcz Hijab is a major aspect of deen, not a minor one that can be ignored.
Good opinion; But I've seen more hijabis commiting zina widespread rather than girls who don't wear the hijab because the girls with hijab tends to think that they have the validation to do everything.
In my humble opinion, your opinion sounds like a trash! So, let me get this straight-you're saying a woman who doesn’t wear a hijab automatically lacks fear of الله and is likely to cause ‘discord’ in her marriage? What a shallow and ignorant take. Wearing a hijab doesn’t make someone a perfect Muslim, just like not wearing it doesn’t make them a bad one. Fear of الله is reflected in actions, character, and sincerity-not just by covering your head. Maybe instead of obsessing over what women wear, you should reflect on your own arrogance and judgmental mindset. That’s a bigger contradiction in deen than anything else.
People are so stupid in the comments. There are many Muslims that don’t pray that are really nice people, would you marry them? Not wearing Hijab is a sin so just accept that you will be judged for not wearing the uniform of a Muslim. Also if you’re married to someone and they died sinning would that not bother you?
There are some ignorant people in the comment section trying to ruin the picture of hijabi women, they are wayyyyy better than a non hijabi women whether they like it or not. Fear Allah in yourself those words may Land you in hellfire
@@Musa31344 it's doesn't matter where she belongs from the reality is that she is muslim and believe in Allah so needs to follow Quran and Allah's things you make her understand calmly but never force because allah said never force hijab on women
It's so funny. I wear modest western clothes but no hijab, but this means i am characterless, according to some me at least, even though i never had any romantic relationship. But the funny part is, almost 80% of hijabi girls i met had boyfriends, went on dates. One regular burka wearing 16 year old girl in my sister's class even had a bit physical relationship with her own uncle!!! she wasn't molested, she actually liked the guy!!! And her uncle has a fiancee who he's going to marry soon and she still liked him!! The uncle in question is very hujur type with beard and panjabi but clearly disloyal. Moral of the story, don't be tricked by a garment.
Wow, you conveniently ignored the fact in my story the girl was committing jina with a hujur type grown man with a fiancee, like he has no responsibility to be a man of good character. Technically the man is committing a bigger crime as he is committing jina and cheating on his fiancee but you only see the young girl's fault.
Do these girls have relationships with each other? No, they have relationships with men. So be equally disappointed with both of the gender, let men take some of the responsibilities too.
Hijab is not only for women and also self control. All muslim people, men and women should act as islam says. Muslim Men should wear what islam says. And also muslim women should have hijab and follow islam. Hijab is not only covering hair.
Covering your head doesn’t automatically mean you’re destined for heaven, just like not covering it doesn’t mean you’re going to hell. Faith isn’t just about appearance; it’s about your heart, your actions, your prayers, and your character. I have many friends who wear the hijab but don’t pray, don’t fast, and even smoke. Yet, they are labeled as ‘good Muslims’ just because of their hijab. It’s honestly frustrating how men reduce women’s faith to something so superficial. Their small minds always oversimplify things!
A woman who doesn't respect herself before marriage will hardly respect herself after marriage. I have rejected many marriages simply because a woman dresses like a disbeliever and I don't want to take risks as I live in a mixed country where there are Muslims and Christians living together and most of the time you can't tell one from other. I'd rather not cross the road when the light is amber.
I hate it when i state that i wouldn’t want to marry a woman if she doesn’t wear the hijab and get met with ‘you are just insecure’. I would believe that as a child but now i understand that my innate sense of masculinity would be destroyed if i see the woman i choose feel satisfaction from other men’s gaze. If a woman has a hard time fighting her attention seeking nature how can i trust her to be satisfied and fulfilled in our relationship. It’s either full commitment or respectfully don’t waste my time.
So, in your delusional world, women who don’t wear hijab are just walking around craving male attention? Wow, your brain really outdid itself with that one. Newsflash: Not everything women do revolves around your fragile masculinity. If your so-called 'sense of masculinity' can’t handle a confident, independent woman, maybe you’re the problem. With this shallow mindset, the only person wasting your time is you-because no self-respecting woman would even consider you.😂 I feel sorry for the woman who ends up marrying you actually. Imagine spending a lifetime with someone who reduces their partner’s worth to clothing and their imaginary 'need for male attention.' You don’t want a wife-you want a possession. Maybe take a long, hard look at your insecurities before blaming women for them. Good luck finding someone who tolerates this mindset, because you’re going to need it.
Some people here are getting all offended because he’s genuinely worried about this problematic situation. No matter how much you try to justify not talking bad or saying something about hijab, the fact is that you can judge something that is openly being done. We are allowed to do that as Muslims. You are not supposed to judge from what you do not know. If you do know, you’re not supposed to expose someone’s sins openly if it is hidden
I would like to add , if a women has a medical condition due to hair or scalp and she needs to remove her hijab , its permissible for her to do so and she wont occur any sins , until this condition clears up then she can go back to wearing hijab. Also I am not condoning not wear hijab , everyone has something they struggle with but I have met alot of hijabis who are doing more sin than the non hijabi, they hide them self by wearing hijab while committing sins . I noticed to alot of these people are reverts who use these huge big words after reading them and not knowing what the text of the word is. Even some born muslims dont they just speak with out knowledge .
Tbh I think people shouldnot follow this Cheikh religiously his opinions are usually very much his own opinion, I suggest people should read quran learn thesunnah and make conclusion by their own logic like these Cheikhs didn't invest Islam So asking him is almost like jumping god and mohamed just to get information from a random man Sorry no offence to him personally he is probably a good person
I am a Muslim woman who has very short hair like a man and I wear very modest clothing, which is not attractive to most straight men. The way I present myself in the public protects me from the gaze of men in North America, but anywhere in the Middle East, a hijab protects you, and that is what I would wear. The hearts of men are always dissatisfied with a woman's presentation, depending on where you go, so it's a dance you do to be under the radar.
So what is all this talk that "a woman decides weather or not she wears a hijab"??? Here we can hear clearly that it is THE MAN who has the job to persuade a woman to wear hijabi!!! And THEN everyone has to say "oh, SHE chose to wear the hijabi"!!!
The word dayooth is so casually thrown away by all these insta men who think they’re some sort of religious supremes and who think they are high above everything. May allah swt guide them to not insult anyone like that.
Some people are quick to judge. I''ll assume a man needs to at least try to grow a beard to be a good man I'll accept that just to save time. There's a condition that makes people hairless.
Exactly, and I have a condition on my head that makes it hard to constantly wear hijab, I do everything else and try to cover my head a lot but struggle due to my illness. I am a virgin and I try to follow everything else in Islam. However, these men judge me and call me names like “s1ut” in the comment section. This is making me slowly lose faith in the men of our Muslim community. How are they so closed minded? They are literally ignoring the second half of the video and character assassinating all non-hijabis. They haven’t even met me but label me such insulting names. They don’t even know my story and why I can’t wear it properly and how I can’t even control this.
@@Moore321 it is. My point is, not to judge. Some hijabis, are just hijabis for outer garment. In reality, they curse n use the F word and more. The be busy memorizing Rihanna lyrics than the Quran. Im a sister myself. I know other sisters who r like tt. Ofcourse not all. Jz simply don't judge. Tts all.. and in my honest opinion, according to my experience, i wld trust a non hijabi sis than a hijabi. Allah knows best
All the men in the comments ignoring sheikh when he said to not character assassinate non-hijabis. You all clearly blocked that part out and only listened to the beginning didn’t you? Labelling me horrible names, even though I’m trying to wear hijab but am struggling due to my illness. You insult me, label me as a bad Muslim. Even though I practice everything else but struggle due to my illness to wear hijab properly. You don’t even know my story but you label me as this dirty woman even though I am a virgin and went to an all girls school my whole life. May Allah guide all of you. I trust Allah to teach and deal with all of you horrible men in the comments, insulting a person with illness calling her dirty. But you call me these names because my scarf is not on right? Ignoring and sinning just like sheikh told you not to. May Allah guide you all.
@maariyah1668 so in general you're right. only allah knows your situation and i as a man feel ashamed for every man who judges women by her look. some of the most beautiful women have their beauty in their heart, rather than showing it by their appearance. but you shouldnt say, "I have lost faith of most men in the Muslim community." because the muslims are 2 billion. There are idiots everywhere and it doesnt have to do with religion. Yeah so the statement is very general and i think you should separate the reality from some people who type their opinion under a video. May Allah guide us all to the right path.
@@mari20400 sister this is not the point if someone is unable to wear it due to illness then it's not sinful noone can or should judge her we are referring to those who do it for no reason other than their own desire it is a command from allah In the Qur'an afterall you should ignore these comments they do not refer to you I am sure you are a pious woman and every Muslim has to guard his own faith and make his own judgement vas d on circumstances
@@mari20400 "There is no blame on the weak, the sick, or those lacking the means ˹if they stay behind˺, as long as they are true to Allah and His Messenger. There is no blame on the good-doers. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful" 9:91
@@mari20400 "Blame is only on those who seek exemption from you although they have the means. They preferred to stay behind with the helpless, and Allah has sealed their hearts so they do not realize ˹the consequences˺." 9:93
Arab and southeast Asians put way too much emphasis on hijab smh. Imagine not marrying a woman who dresses modestly, pleases her husband, is patient, always helps others and does the 5 pillars. Does that sound like a bad Muslim?
What if she wears a hijab and does all the other bad deeds. Or what if he has a beard and judges Muslim women and does all the bad deeds himself? Will that make them a good person and worthy of marrying you?! Think of it yourself....
For people who are learning about islam from youtube there are 100s of scholars some new some old so knowledgable some not so much and some of them are very very Good scholars, but when you listen to them they are so so so Stricted, if you make smallest mistake you will goto hell fire, Love marriage absolute haram no place in hell, thats why i prefer scholars like Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem who describes issues as they are and not make big drama of them
I love it when their is diversity! Imagine everyone having the same voice? all man voice 1 and all girls voice 2? Alhamdullillah this diversity I love it
The punishment for not wearing the hijab is not explicitly outlined in Islamic teachings. However, it is believed that disobeying Allah’s command to observe hijab may result in punishment from Allah. While it is not certain whether a woman who does not wear hijab will enter Hell, she may face consequences from Allah for disobedience. Ultimately, Allah’s judgment is based on His knowledge, and humans are cautioned against speaking about matters beyond their understanding. The severity of Allah’s punishment serves as a deterrent for Muslims, emphasizing the importance of obedience. Conversely, those who obey Allah’s commands, including observing hijab, are hoped to attain Paradise and salvation from Hell’s torments.
contrary to popular belief; hijab tells you NOTHING about a person. I know non-hijabi's who pray 5 times a day and niqabi's who drink and wear more than a sailor.
I am Muslim girl, I don't want to get married to man who doesn't lower his gaze and or doesn't refrain from looking at non-mehram women, but the truth about muslim men is no such men exist, they keep on talking about Hijabi wives but won't hesitate checking out other women who are not their wives, so I have made promise to myself that I won't ever get married because no man fulfills this demand of wife to not look at other woman, I pray to ALLAH everyday that plz keep me single forever, never want to get married because Muslim men never fail to disappoint
@@unsaali4201 The claim that more than 500 million Muslim men are not lowering their gaze and are constantly looking at women is simply incorrect. How was this conclusion reached? How many men did you observe or speak to in order to substantiate such a claim? What evidence is there to support the assertion that every Muslim man looks at women and that none of them ever lowers their gaze? Even if we accept this assumption momentarily, I would argue that it is an unsound basis to criticize all Muslim men for the following reasons. Firstly, Islam teaches that God forgives all sins. If a man, recognizing his weakness, acknowledges that looking at women is a mistake and actively tries to avoid it, this is better than a man who looks without any intention of refraining. Secondly, no one, including yourself, is perfect. In a marriage, can you guarantee that you will always satisfy your husband, prepare the best food, obey him, always dress modestly, or never cause frustration? Just as you cannot promise perfection, it is unreasonable to demand it from others. Furthermore, unintentional actions should not be confused with intentional wrongdoing. For instance, if a man unintentionally notices a woman while walking on the street and then quickly looks away, the initial glance-which was not deliberate-is not considered sinful in Islam. This type of jealousy over unintentional actions is irrational and will make you miserable in the long run.
@@tataa51 I have seen women in my life who are miserable just because of their husbands, so I would better be without children and intimacy rather than being abused
As long she allows me to fulfill my deen and my role to be a good father. I will forever be thankful to her. God I pray, I am deserving for a women like that in my future.
well if someone says hijabi muslims are most pure women in the world , wallahi i invite you to my country Bangladesh , or you can can visit in india or pakistan too😂😂
@@syedaummekulsum5154not because you chose to follow your wills and desires as a god that you should refrain other people from leaving a meaningful life worshipping the one who created them
@@User412-f5x you worship muhammad and a puppet named allah . and its my opinion and if dont want to follow it dont follow it . its funny muslim are talking about not following their desiers when your ideal muhammad married his sons wife out f lust purely. stay delusional.
I'm curious to know what ppl mean when they say "hijab" because do they only mean the head scarf or the full abaya/burqa as well? Because I wear the hijab and cover my hair, neck and chest properly and have worn it since age 11, but I don't wear the abaya as my dresses don't go all the way to my feet
Those women who despise the hijab or don’t wear it or look down upon women ho wear it are committing a sin and are performing an act that is haram. “Such is the Seizure of your Lord when He seizes the (population of) towns while they are doing wrong. Verily, His Seizure is painful (and) severe. This is another verse from the Quran that states that those women who go against and rebel against Allah will be dealt severely for the actions that will have consequences. The reward of wearing a hijab is abundant for a woman, just like how a woman who chooses not to wear it will be punished severely. Allah has and always will be all-forgiving. It is never too late to turn towards the right path and seek and ask for forgiveness. Wearing a hijab pleases Allah greatly, and you shall be rewarded with the best and the greatest of things in this life and the hereafter. However, women who chose to disobey and rebel will be punished as not wearing a hijab is considered haram.
The tradition of hijab being mandatory originates with the ancient Assyrians. Assyrian women wore veils as a sign of piety and modesty, whereas prostitutes and non-Assyrian women were forbidden to do so. It’s not an Islamic idea, it’s just a tradition that has been a part of every religion in that region from the ancient pagans, Zoroastrians, Jews to Muslims. The Hajj was also a pagan ritual first established by ancient Yemenites, as is the mythological being known as a Djinn. This is all just ancient traditions that originate in pagan times, there’s really no need to take it so seriously in 2024. To worry about such minutia in the face of so many larger and more consequential problems is utterly silly.
My brother, you have to have basic standards that need to be fulfilled by a woman you want to marry, and one of them has to be HIJAB. That is one of the priorities.
@@JeeyaW371 and what has that got to do with not judging someone by their cover? Don’t judge someone’s whole character based off of one sin, which is something many of you men in this comment section are doing. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but you all call me a s1ut and judge my whole character even though I practice everything else and dress modestly. How is this right? Why act so prideful and act like you know the future of that woman just by looking at her? Is hell written on her fourhead? You could be promised hell and she could be promised heaven, you never know. You never even knew I had an illness before I told you but I’m sure if you just saw me with my hijab not on properly because of this, then you would think bad of my WHOLE character and judge me. You are no one to judge, you can advise but stop judging. Sheikh literally said this was a sin but you have all conveniently forgotten this part of the video. May Allah guide all of you.
@@mari20400 calm down !!! I didnt judged you ,I just said the right thing. Those who do not wear it without any reason ,for them this is a sin and they are accountable for this ,bcz its still a sin .A real pious woman will never show her hair .But those who do not wear it doesnt mean they are totally bad ,but they are not obeying one of the important deed in Islam
Because avoiding zina is a very important goal of Islam. It's better to marry a christian rather than doing zina. And Islam considers different circumstances. There might be times or places when muslim men can't find a muslimah to marry..
@@marah_33 No, because in all Abrahamic religions, the man is the head of the family. For example, christianity forbids divorce in all cases but adultery. However islam allows divorce for many more cases. A christian husband can easily deny the God given rights of a Muslimah.
@Neurogenesis1251 That's a very reasonable answer, though if Christianity forbids divorce, it wouldn't be beneficial for a muslim man to marry a christian woman who believes that divorce is a sin (in case something happens which leads him to want to divorce her). No real Christian woman would leave her religious principles. It won't matter whether the man is seen as the head of the household cause God comes first. So it's better for Muslims to just marry each other to avoid religious conflicts, in my opinion.
I have been withheld from my children for 833 days, hijabi women took them away. Being hijabi doesn't make you a good person, being non hijabi doesn't make you a bad person. It's character that truly matters. An atheist told me that even he would not do such a horrible thing as taking away someone's kids by force.
Answer clearly, you are giving ans here and there,should someone marry a non hijabi woman? Tell yee or no.if no give explanation.Don't make confusing answer
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If the sheikh will claim that a person can go to hell over a piece of cloth then so much for the loving and forgiving god you all try to show the world .
It's simple. If it bothers you that she is not wearing the hijab, it will continue to bother you after you marry her so don't.
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This is so true.
Actually it will bother EVEN MORE because married men gets jealous when their wife shares her beauty with other men.
Who are the other two people Allah doesn't look at?
that's not the question
The heaviest french accent I've ever heard
Yeah😂
I prefer french accent english than indian accent english 😂
@@Tanjirokamado_19 you mean the bhenchodterimaakichut accent?🤣
? You must not have heard many french people buddy. That was standard
@@Tanjirokamado_19 the french accent is better than the Arabic accent, Indian accent. In the west, arabic accent is not considered nice, the french accent is
I am a Muslim girl, I do cover but it disgusts me how Muslim men consider themselves obliged to do character assassination of non-hijabi woman as if she is bad, I have seen some Hijabi girls in my life who are literally worst, there was a girl in my class who was hijabi and she had a bf and she even flexed about her encounter with him which was little physical, and my jaw dropped, I told her we are Muslims, how can u do that but she looked at me as if I have said something cringe, and I have seen some non-Hijabi women who are not into friendship with non-mehram and keep themselves away from such things, so making this whole assumption about someone that hijabi women is good and non-hijabi is bad is just too vile, there are women out there in my own relatives who don't show themselves in front of non-mehram but u will find many bad behaviors among them like back biting, jealousy etc etc
Exactly , but after marriage she must cover.
I have seen lot of girl who wears hijab in relationship with boys
Allah knows best, as a Muslim man revert i too find this distressing and honestly confusing. Insha’Allah, we should focus on ourself and love ourself and search for someone who too loves themselves and loves Allah. Salaam
True.. many hijabi girl i know as well cant imagine how bad they r.. .
May Allah save and forgive all of us.
Stupid comparison, both are not practicing modesty.
Brothers a practicing Hijabi is ideal but don't judge a women based on her clothing these days. Hijab doesn't tell you the whole picture.
Whatever but hijab is must if you believe Islam
@@usaif2761 whatever you say delulu peep
@@usaif2761You can still wear a hijab and still be an asshole. Hijab doesn’t determine a good in person.
@onlygaming6698 ur perceptive is shaped by exterior observation and based on that you 'saying' she is mostly bad is not right. Based on your observation, it seems u deem the life of female lesser and their sins much higher than any big ones(irrespective of gender)
@hamzaalberta8335, "never judge a book from its cover".
Many women who dont cover their heads have more hijab than those who do cover their heads.
Some who dont cover their heads are dressed modestly for the rest of their bodies whereas many "hijabis" wear tight clothing revealing their curves and bodies.
Also some of the first group have hayya and lower their voice whereas the fake hijabis with their headscarves talk to men and have loud voices. So we should see hijab as a total package and not headscarve only.
I would rather marry a woman who is shy and dresses modestly without headscarve than a fake hijabi who reveals her whole body.
The first woman only needs to add her headscarf and that will be easy. As for the second one the change would not be easy since her inner hijab and behavior is rotten, no shame etc so thats way harder to change.
This should have more likes. Only comment I’ve seen with common sense on here. “The first one only needs to put a head scarf on, the second one has a lot more work to do”.
@@Nt-qv9bt but Hijab is not only about a headscarf
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This is literally what I have been saying this whole time, thank you for restoring my faith in the men of our Muslim community. At least there are some intelligent ones out there. I cover my body modestly and practice everything else but struggle with hijab due to illness, I still sometimes try to wear it but because of my illness sometimes I can’t do it properly. But these men call me a “s1ut” or a wh0re. Just because I don’t cover my head properly, even though I wear very lose modest clothing, and at least lower my voice etc. They judge me without even knowing my story and how I am none of that. I wish people had your mindset.
@maariyah1668 The ˹true˺ servants of the Most Compassionate are those who walk on the earth humbly, and when the foolish address them ˹improperly˺, they only respond with "salam". (25:63)
dont ignore this please, you'll need this on the Day of Judgement.
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Just to add for the men, if you want a woman who wears hijab, marry a woman who wears the hijab.
Don’t marry a woman who doesn’t and force her. Hijab is worn for Allah , not cuz the husband forced them (forcing is not allowed in Islam)
No, a man has the right to force his wife to wear hijab outside the house. See Sheikh Assim's video on "Is Niqab mandatory?"
@arbazmazumder2284 sure but what if the wife refuses? you are not allowed to beat her to force her into a submission to wearing it.
I m trying to be realistic. That's why if a man wants to have a wife who wears niqab/hijab, he should let the lady know beforehand so that both the husband and wife share the same value. This goes for other values, too.
Wearing hijab is indeed proper but due to personal reasons (health, personal safety and more), not all Muslim women will wear it. We can try to encourage them. But in things like marriage, a religious man who wants a religious woman should let the woman know what he wants a is a religious woman who wears hijab
I am a hijabi and I believe all Muslim women should wear hijab but Muslim men talking like this about them makes me disgusted, just so you all know(Muslim men who talks bad about women who don’t wear hijab) you have no right to say anything like this to anyone, you are not god to judge your words are so bad that when I get effected by it
But a woman who is not wearing hijab is disobeying her lord and is sinning publicly so a man should avoid marrying someone like that
It’s sad because I had and still have an illness, which causes me to not be able to wear it properly and all these men accuse me of being a bad mulsim even though I practice everything else. They run their mouths without even knowing my full story. But to them I am a dirty bad woman. I hope Allah shows them how it feels to have my illness and be judged unjustly like this. I still try but it’s not good enough for them, even though it physically and mentally affects me. Please pray for me and my illness to go away, then I can wear it properly.
@@Xuja-r3xand labelling her as “destined for hell” and giving her bad labels is also haram, which sheikh also said. Stop categorising all women who don’t wear hijab in one and judging her whole personality when you don’t even know the story to why she doesn’t OR can’t wear it yet. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but yes thanks so much for encouraging people to shun and abandon us. I’ll leave it in the hands of Allah to deal with all of you, who are so insensitive about our illness and judge us based off of struggling to wear a cloth on our head properly, even though when i try it causes physical damage.
@@Xuja-r3x then simply don't marry her and be quiet
@@Xuja-r3x he should but he shouldn’t talk bad about her, we don’t have the right for that, I also don’t like satanic people but I don’t say anything bad or good about them because I’m no person to talk about them, Allah is the judge and the creator he have all the rights for he is their creator, I’m just another creation so I just don’t talk about them
Wow I love the ending part.. he was like being a good Muslim doesn’t give you the permission to be judgy.
Yh sadly 90% of the Muslim men in this comment section blocked that part out and are calling non-hijabis names like “s1ut”. I’m starting to lose faith in people. I struggle with illness that makes me not wear it properly sometimes and they judge my whole character, calls me names etc. Words can’t describe how disgusted I am at all the men here and ashamed. I am embarrassed for them, imagine if a new convert reads all of this. It’s so pathetic. They only listened to the first half of this video and ignored how sheikh said not to character assassinate, which is exactly what they are doing.
@@mari20400 targetting majority of the muslim men is crazy maybe you shouldnt be around those people in the first place
@@Craftnite maybe learn how to read English, I am talking about the whole comment section and how it is full of only muslim men, calling non-hijabis slurs and calling me a “disgusting woman” for not being able to wear hijab on my head due to my illness. An ILLNESS I CANNOT CONTROL. Maybe you should confront them, instead of someone they targeted. You are part of the problem. If calling a person who is already trying to wear a hijab even though it affects them “disgusting” and “s1ut” is ok to you, then please don’t waste my time harassing me like them. Allah will deal with all of you.
@@Craftnite maybe learn how to read. I said most of the men in the comments are like this. Not the ones I hang around lol. Calling me disgusting due to my illness making hijab on my head hard for me. They call me names for having an illness I cannot control. Maybe harass the people who are causing harm than the people who they target which is me. No need to be so offended if this doesn’t apply to you.
Indeed, because in fact a truly good Muslim would never judge, unless it's actually some open big sin or something.
Of course you can marry a non hijabi woman and the full thing. Same goes for women can marry a man thats clean shaven!
comparing two different things that isnt apple to apple. hijab is mandatory and beard is sunnah. you mixed things up lol
@@lalallaaaaa whomever you are, these things are part of the Islamic rituals. As far as I know, I do my research in regards to the beards. Some people and even scholars say its Wajib lol. If it's a sunnah, it means you can shave it as it's not compulsory, yet people say its a sin. Surely they got that information from somewhere, so which is it then? Lol facts please
@@ashaulmiah5688The beard isn't comparable to the Hijab lol. Hijab is serious bro she is uncovered. There isn't even a difference of opinion on Hijab other than feet vs no feet and ofcourse some saying she should have hijab. Beard has a variety of opinions even a few heavy weight scholars saying shaving is makruh not haram I.e in shafiqi fish. It is a terrible comparison in all honesty
@@khalidnoor7735 Well then Muslims can't lie and say there's no compulsion in Islam, because there is compulsion. In regards to beards and hijabs, there is rulings behind it. After all it's about covering private parts. I never heard anyone say shaving is Makruh, where's the evidence?
@@lalallaaaaa who told u kid that beard is sunnah...
There is consensus among scholars and whole Muslim Ummah, 4 Imams, and hadiths that Beard is Fard to keep and shaving it is sinful.. Read rulings properly bro
Brothers who are willing to marry women of the book, shouldn't object too much. She could always put a Hijab later on and improve her relationship with Allah. But a wearing a Hijabi in the west, is especially a good sign. There's obviously more to it then that though.
I think one of the conditions to marry a woman of the book is that she actually follows her religion...so I feel like she has to be modest
if she’s not obeying her lord, she’s obviously not going to obey you if you ask her to put on the hijab 😂
The topic is being made such a big deal when there are many hijabi women who are committing other major sins like backbiting, disobeying their husbands, etc. Many non-hijabi women are very devout and well-mannered, principled, and behave better than many hijabi ones.
I am not justifying not to wear the hijab but it is important to look at both sides and the social context rather than just a plain black and white ruling as Islam is also a religion of intelligence, mercy and understanding. Maybe one day Allah will guide her to wear the hijab if she is not currently doing so as it did take a while before the Hijab ruling came into place as it is not easy for everyone.
if a non hijab was devout she'd put on the hijab, just cause there are hijab doing bad things is not an argument. Not wearing the hijab is just as bad, why are you kidding yourself?
Women who are not practicing modesty are not chaste. Literally shaitan that give temptation to everyone to sin.
@@moralisoppression2837 Modesty is not just physical
@@user-us7el6ss2l Exactly but if they're hijabi you know one aspect is met, then thats when you see her character. But if she is not Hijabi you are missing a part of modesty. Both need to be met
But a woman who is not wearing hijab is disobeying her lord and is sinning publicly so a man should avoid marrying someone like that
His tone toward women wearing a hijab is so much harsher than when a man shaves his beard. It took him to mention the man’s equivalent sin to soften down and become more empathetic.
Honestly Allah knows us best. Beard or nor beard, hijab or no hijab - we all have our pros and cons and none of it is determined by our outer appearance.
because not wearing hijab is worse
@@Handle0108 nope, both are haram
Prolly coz beard is sunnah nd hijab is farz
@@acidmana7920 oh really? I always thought beard was a requirement. Thanks for sharing
@@Oceaniac no the beard is a fardh
My friend married a hijab and she turned out to be narcissistic. So don't be fooled by a piece of cloth, make sure you find a good person.
It's like saying "I married a person who was praying. Don't be fooled by a few minutes of worship. Find a "good" person.
@@tataa51 sorry to hear you didn't find a 'good' one
@@SK-iy3vi my wife wears the hijab and she’s Amazing!
So what? Does this justify that it's ok to not wear hijab?
@@srvntofAllah987 same goes for you. Don't get involved every time it's bout a girl's hijab not for other godly sins. you so hell bent towards girls. what's ur parent teach you?
A man with beard might not have that much deen but A man of deen will have beard.
Same here. A hijabi or niqabi might not have that much Deen but a girl that's deeni will wear hijab or niqab
Someone needs to ask him and all muslim men where in the quran does it degrade non hijabis and where in the quran is the character of a woman questioned if she doesnt wear it . The verses about jilbaab were to protect women from harassment and the verse about khimar was refering to covering the bosom [privates] . Khimar was pre islamic clothing . So the verse wasnt literally forcing a uniform on to women .
My brother who asked this question marry a hijabi
Didn't get you
@@Halal_Chad007He's telling the dude who asked the question to marry a hijabi.
@@mba849where do I find her
Alhamdulillah!!indeed Allah plans the best ❤
@@mba849 yes you got me ☺️
There are some difficulties to wear the hijab in France due to some prevailing laws.
Yeah getting half naked is easy and totally nude in nude beach
People who say that are liars or they give up too soon. Yes, it’s not as easy as in other western countries, but the one who wants to wear it will find no difficulty in it.
Rule vs Exception
i have many friends there and even family they still wear their hijabs if you want you can
@@LM-wu4hx like your mum who started wearing after she stop working 9 to 7 ?
In my humble opinion;
If a woman doesn't fear الله enough to cover her aura, she may not fear الله in other aspects of life too. It may lead to her contradiction with husband's future decisions for his family; Discord.
So for a practicing Muslim male, he better choose a like-minded girl (and vice versa). Bcz Hijab is a major aspect of deen, not a minor one that can be ignored.
Sure don't marry her, who is forcing you. There are plenty of other good men out there waiting for her.
Good opinion; But I've seen more hijabis commiting zina widespread rather than girls who don't wear the hijab because the girls with hijab tends to think that they have the validation to do everything.
In Islam it’s forbidden to give his opinion !!!!
@@pepper2240 Good men domt wait oit for wmn exposig their beauty with no shame, Thtas the difference
In my humble opinion, your opinion sounds like a trash! So, let me get this straight-you're saying a woman who doesn’t wear a hijab automatically lacks fear of الله and is likely to cause ‘discord’ in her marriage? What a shallow and ignorant take. Wearing a hijab doesn’t make someone a perfect Muslim, just like not wearing it doesn’t make them a bad one. Fear of الله is reflected in actions, character, and sincerity-not just by covering your head. Maybe instead of obsessing over what women wear, you should reflect on your own arrogance and judgmental mindset. That’s a bigger contradiction in deen than anything else.
hahahahahahahahahahaaaa, the skipping of the 'h' sound is a French thing, sheikh murderred his accent immediately LOL
People are so stupid in the comments. There are many Muslims that don’t pray that are really nice people, would you marry them? Not wearing Hijab is a sin so just accept that you will be judged for not wearing the uniform of a Muslim. Also if you’re married to someone and they died sinning would that not bother you?
There are some ignorant people in the comment section trying to ruin the picture of hijabi women, they are wayyyyy better than a non hijabi women whether they like it or not.
Fear Allah in yourself those words may Land you in hellfire
Agree brother they should fear Their Lord
Please pray that my wife will wear hijab
Insha Allah bro just explain him lovingly calmly cuz allah likes calmness love and peace
@@ArfaAlam-nt9kq she's a turkish woman many TURKISH muslim girls don't wear hijab
@@Musa31344 it's doesn't matter where she belongs from the reality is that she is muslim and believe in Allah so needs to follow Quran and Allah's things you make her understand calmly but never force because allah said never force hijab on women
@@ArfaAlam-nt9kq I would never force her she is stubborn but its ultimately her choice
@@Musa31344 yeah
It's so funny. I wear modest western clothes but no hijab, but this means i am characterless, according to some me at least, even though i never had any romantic relationship. But the funny part is, almost 80% of hijabi girls i met had boyfriends, went on dates. One regular burka wearing 16 year old girl in my sister's class even had a bit physical relationship with her own uncle!!! she wasn't molested, she actually liked the guy!!! And her uncle has a fiancee who he's going to marry soon and she still liked him!! The uncle in question is very hujur type with beard and panjabi but clearly disloyal. Moral of the story, don't be tricked by a garment.
Wow, you conveniently ignored the fact in my story the girl was committing jina with a hujur type grown man with a fiancee, like he has no responsibility to be a man of good character. Technically the man is committing a bigger crime as he is committing jina and cheating on his fiancee but you only see the young girl's fault.
@@Jirenblack98 men are leaders and guides of women. This is more telling of the state of men in general. Weak men create hard times.
@@Jirenblack98 it’s the responsibility of the men
@@Jirenblack98 lol nice shifting of blame
Do these girls have relationships with each other? No, they have relationships with men. So be equally disappointed with both of the gender, let men take some of the responsibilities too.
Hijab is not only for women and also self control.
All muslim people, men and women should act as islam says. Muslim Men should wear what islam says. And also muslim women should have hijab and follow islam.
Hijab is not only covering hair.
Hijaab is obligatory, a beard is Sunnah. Dont like these 2 facts? Go and argue with Allah.
Covering your head doesn’t automatically mean you’re destined for heaven, just like not covering it doesn’t mean you’re going to hell. Faith isn’t just about appearance; it’s about your heart, your actions, your prayers, and your character. I have many friends who wear the hijab but don’t pray, don’t fast, and even smoke. Yet, they are labeled as ‘good Muslims’ just because of their hijab. It’s honestly frustrating how men reduce women’s faith to something so superficial. Their small minds always oversimplify things!
@@elifaktekin I don't brush my teeth but still my mouth is clean.
Do your best to go to heaven and stop these silly punchlines to comfort yourself aboit sinning
A woman who doesn't respect herself before marriage will hardly respect herself after marriage. I have rejected many marriages simply because a woman dresses like a disbeliever and I don't want to take risks as I live in a mixed country where there are Muslims and Christians living together and most of the time you can't tell one from other. I'd rather not cross the road when the light is amber.
I hate it when i state that i wouldn’t want to marry a woman if she doesn’t wear the hijab and get met with ‘you are just insecure’. I would believe that as a child but now i understand that my innate sense of masculinity would be destroyed if i see the woman i choose feel satisfaction from other men’s gaze. If a woman has a hard time fighting her attention seeking nature how can i trust her to be satisfied and fulfilled in our relationship. It’s either full commitment or respectfully don’t waste my time.
So, in your delusional world, women who don’t wear hijab are just walking around craving male attention? Wow, your brain really outdid itself with that one. Newsflash: Not everything women do revolves around your fragile masculinity. If your so-called 'sense of masculinity' can’t handle a confident, independent woman, maybe you’re the problem. With this shallow mindset, the only person wasting your time is you-because no self-respecting woman would even consider you.😂 I feel sorry for the woman who ends up marrying you actually. Imagine spending a lifetime with someone who reduces their partner’s worth to clothing and their imaginary 'need for male attention.' You don’t want a wife-you want a possession. Maybe take a long, hard look at your insecurities before blaming women for them. Good luck finding someone who tolerates this mindset, because you’re going to need it.
Allahummaghfir lil muslimina wal muslimat wal muminina wal muminat al any minhum wal amwaat
Yeah, I wouldn’t.
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Good and hope you don’t shave your beard or have qaza haircut or wear jewellery or have trousers hang below your ankles or wear tight clothing brother
@@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856so don't marry those men
who asked?
No one asked
A woman with a hijab is the best wife ever trust me guys 😂😂 look at the character too folks dont be naive
Some people here are getting all offended because he’s genuinely worried about this problematic situation. No matter how much you try to justify not talking bad or saying something about hijab, the fact is that you can judge something that is openly being done. We are allowed to do that as Muslims. You are not supposed to judge from what you do not know. If you do know, you’re not supposed to expose someone’s sins openly if it is hidden
I would like to add , if a women has a medical condition due to hair or scalp and she needs to remove her hijab , its permissible for her to do so and she wont occur any sins , until this condition clears up then she can go back to wearing hijab. Also I am not condoning not wear hijab , everyone has something they struggle with but I have met alot of hijabis who are doing more sin than the non hijabi, they hide them self by wearing hijab while committing sins . I noticed to alot of these people are reverts who use these huge big words after reading them and not knowing what the text of the word is. Even some born muslims dont they just speak with out knowledge .
Tbh I think people shouldnot follow this Cheikh religiously his opinions are usually very much his own opinion, I suggest people should read quran learn thesunnah and make conclusion by their own logic like these Cheikhs didn't invest Islam
So asking him is almost like jumping god and mohamed just to get information from a random man
Sorry no offence to him personally he is probably a good person
I am a Muslim woman who has very short hair like a man and I wear very modest clothing, which is not attractive to most straight men. The way I present myself in the public protects me from the gaze of men in North America, but anywhere in the Middle East, a hijab protects you, and that is what I would wear. The hearts of men are always dissatisfied with a woman's presentation, depending on where you go, so it's a dance you do to be under the radar.
I rewatched the video 3times just to catch the french accent
bro got toasted for his accent and I'm here for it
So what is all this talk that "a woman decides weather or not she wears a hijab"??? Here we can hear clearly that it is THE MAN who has the job to persuade a woman to wear hijabi!!! And THEN everyone has to say "oh, SHE chose to wear the hijabi"!!!
The word dayooth is so casually thrown away by all these insta men who think they’re some sort of religious supremes and who think they are high above everything. May allah swt guide them to not insult anyone like that.
Some people are quick to judge. I''ll assume a man needs to at least try to grow a beard to be a good man I'll accept that just to save time. There's a condition that makes people hairless.
Exactly, and I have a condition on my head that makes it hard to constantly wear hijab, I do everything else and try to cover my head a lot but struggle due to my illness. I am a virgin and I try to follow everything else in Islam. However, these men judge me and call me names like “s1ut” in the comment section. This is making me slowly lose faith in the men of our Muslim community. How are they so closed minded? They are literally ignoring the second half of the video and character assassinating all non-hijabis. They haven’t even met me but label me such insulting names. They don’t even know my story and why I can’t wear it properly and how I can’t even control this.
Thanks for subtitles ❤
Maa Shaa Allah.
I've been educated.
Lä iläha illä Llah
I know ppl who do thousands of selawats a day but don't wear hijab. Don't judge
It is a sin to not wear hijab, period.
Ye but this doesn't make it right. Even if they pray every day and night for 200 years it's still bad
@@lazz1927 sure it is. But its not a sin that is not worth marrying. And lets not pretend you are sinless.
@@Moore321 it is. My point is, not to judge. Some hijabis, are just hijabis for outer garment. In reality, they curse n use the F word and more. The be busy memorizing Rihanna lyrics than the Quran. Im a sister myself. I know other sisters who r like tt. Ofcourse not all. Jz simply don't judge. Tts all.. and in my honest opinion, according to my experience, i wld trust a non hijabi sis than a hijabi. Allah knows best
@@FaayidhaIdah openly sinning is also a sin
All the men in the comments ignoring sheikh when he said to not character assassinate non-hijabis. You all clearly blocked that part out and only listened to the beginning didn’t you? Labelling me horrible names, even though I’m trying to wear hijab but am struggling due to my illness. You insult me, label me as a bad Muslim. Even though I practice everything else but struggle due to my illness to wear hijab properly. You don’t even know my story but you label me as this dirty woman even though I am a virgin and went to an all girls school my whole life. May Allah guide all of you. I trust Allah to teach and deal with all of you horrible men in the comments, insulting a person with illness calling her dirty. But you call me these names because my scarf is not on right? Ignoring and sinning just like sheikh told you not to. May Allah guide you all.
@maariyah1668 so in general you're right. only allah knows your situation and i as a man feel ashamed for every man who judges women by her look. some of the most beautiful women have their beauty in their heart, rather than showing it by their appearance. but you shouldnt say, "I have lost faith of most men in the Muslim community." because the muslims are 2 billion. There are idiots everywhere and it doesnt have to do with religion. Yeah so the statement is very general and i think you should separate the reality from some people who type their opinion under a video. May Allah guide us all to the right path.
@@anasbundegji you are right, I should not generalise. I’ll keep the mentality that there are good muslim men out there. May Allah bless you.
@@mari20400 sister this is not the point if someone is unable to wear it due to illness then it's not sinful noone can or should judge her we are referring to those who do it for no reason other than their own desire it is a command from allah In the Qur'an afterall you should ignore these comments they do not refer to you I am sure you are a pious woman and every Muslim has to guard his own faith and make his own judgement vas d on circumstances
@@mari20400 "There is no blame on the weak, the sick, or those lacking the means ˹if they stay behind˺, as long as they are true to Allah and His Messenger. There is no blame on the good-doers. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful"
9:91
@@mari20400 "Blame is only on those who seek exemption from you although they have the means. They preferred to stay behind with the helpless, and Allah has sealed their hearts so they do not realize ˹the consequences˺."
9:93
May allah bless us with you shekh ❤
MashAllah Alhamdulillah for everything Aameen 🤲🤲♥️❤
As far as i know Alot of muslimas do wear hijab after marriage but better discuss this with her if she is willing to or not before marriage,
... In the presence of her mahram of course.
@@elkapitan75 yes and only few glances not actaul gaze
Arab and southeast Asians put way too much emphasis on hijab smh. Imagine not marrying a woman who dresses modestly, pleases her husband, is patient, always helps others and does the 5 pillars. Does that sound like a bad Muslim?
What if she wears a hijab and does all the other bad deeds. Or what if he has a beard and judges Muslim women and does all the bad deeds himself?
Will that make them a good person and worthy of marrying you?!
Think of it yourself....
Jazak Allahu khayran ❤
For people who are learning about islam from youtube there are 100s of scholars some new some old so knowledgable some not so much and some of them are very very Good scholars, but when you listen to them they are so so so Stricted, if you make smallest mistake you will goto hell fire, Love marriage absolute haram no place in hell, thats why i prefer scholars like Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem who describes issues as they are and not make big drama of them
the french accent 💀
Oui oui akh
I love it when their is diversity! Imagine everyone having the same voice? all man voice 1 and all girls voice 2? Alhamdullillah this diversity I love it
@hussainsdomain, am French too and i recognized this "non effort accent" 😂.
Hahaha I am French too, made me chuckle a lot hahaha 😆😂
@@shal. Hahaha pareil 🤣😂😂
The punishment for not wearing the hijab is not explicitly outlined in Islamic teachings. However, it is believed that disobeying Allah’s command to observe hijab may result in punishment from Allah. While it is not certain whether a woman who does not wear hijab will enter Hell, she may face consequences from Allah for disobedience. Ultimately, Allah’s judgment is based on His knowledge, and humans are cautioned against speaking about matters beyond their understanding. The severity of Allah’s punishment serves as a deterrent for Muslims, emphasizing the importance of obedience. Conversely, those who obey Allah’s commands, including observing hijab, are hoped to attain Paradise and salvation from Hell’s torments.
contrary to popular belief; hijab tells you NOTHING about a person. I know non-hijabi's who pray 5 times a day and niqabi's who drink and wear more than a sailor.
I am Muslim girl, I don't want to get married to man who doesn't lower his gaze and or doesn't refrain from looking at non-mehram women, but the truth about muslim men is no such men exist, they keep on talking about Hijabi wives but won't hesitate checking out other women who are not their wives, so I have made promise to myself that I won't ever get married because no man fulfills this demand of wife to not look at other woman, I pray to ALLAH everyday that plz keep me single forever, never want to get married because Muslim men never fail to disappoint
Who broke your heart
@@Odoxon7522 is that not true though? If u r a Muslim man, then ask yourself, do u lower your gaze or refrain yourself from looking at other women??
@@unsaali4201 The claim that more than 500 million Muslim men are not lowering their gaze and are constantly looking at women is simply incorrect. How was this conclusion reached? How many men did you observe or speak to in order to substantiate such a claim? What evidence is there to support the assertion that every Muslim man looks at women and that none of them ever lowers their gaze?
Even if we accept this assumption momentarily, I would argue that it is an unsound basis to criticize all Muslim men for the following reasons. Firstly, Islam teaches that God forgives all sins. If a man, recognizing his weakness, acknowledges that looking at women is a mistake and actively tries to avoid it, this is better than a man who looks without any intention of refraining. Secondly, no one, including yourself, is perfect. In a marriage, can you guarantee that you will always satisfy your husband, prepare the best food, obey him, always dress modestly, or never cause frustration? Just as you cannot promise perfection, it is unreasonable to demand it from others.
Furthermore, unintentional actions should not be confused with intentional wrongdoing. For instance, if a man unintentionally notices a woman while walking on the street and then quickly looks away, the initial glance-which was not deliberate-is not considered sinful in Islam. This type of jealousy over unintentional actions is irrational and will make you miserable in the long run.
that's just sad. A life void of love, intimacy, cheering of children... Sounds very sad...
@@tataa51 I have seen women in my life who are miserable just because of their husbands, so I would better be without children and intimacy rather than being abused
Sheikh explained this very intelligently😂❤
As long she allows me to fulfill my deen and my role to be a good father. I will forever be thankful to her. God I pray, I am deserving for a women like that in my future.
well if someone says hijabi muslims are most pure women in the world , wallahi i invite you to my country Bangladesh , or you can can visit in india or pakistan too😂😂
Your are not a Muslim if you don't follow Quran alone
@onlygaming6698 I think he was referring to Quranists
I'm new muslim what is ejaab?
run for ur lifeeeee lmao
@kortojoz thanks
@@syedaummekulsum5154not because you chose to follow your wills and desires as a god that you should refrain other people from leaving a meaningful life worshipping the one who created them
@@User412-f5x you worship muhammad and a puppet named allah . and its my opinion and if dont want to follow it dont follow it . its funny muslim are talking about not following their desiers when your ideal muhammad married his sons wife out f lust purely.
stay delusional.
@@syedaummekulsum5154 niggah why did you delete your comment?
Brothers chose a good woman as your wife dont go after looks
In my country, you can't marry before 23 but allowed to live together relationship 😢
what country is that!
I saw women girls coming mosques with out hijab men and Emam there walking around
Yes, she is human being just like you are.
Some are crying in the comments about getting judged, lol, get over it, people ofc judge you for whether you can be a better spouse. 😂
not sheikh roasting the man for his accent😭
What if she says she is planning to wear it because i do understand that girls can’t always go straight to niqabi
I would marry her. No problem.
People especially in France have the word dayouth very easy they don’t even know the meaning of it.
To much dayouth here. Trust me that’s why we know this word
Because there’s a lot of dayyuths everywhere
Jazakallah Khairan
Oh yea the part where he talks about non hijabi women will 100% land on tiktok 😂
I'm curious to know what ppl mean when they say "hijab" because do they only mean the head scarf or the full abaya/burqa as well? Because I wear the hijab and cover my hair, neck and chest properly and have worn it since age 11, but I don't wear the abaya as my dresses don't go all the way to my feet
the hijab means the abya. no scholar has said otherwise. y coensus the least 9s the abya
innä liLlähi wä innä iläyhi raji'ün
Important: beard is very fardh, very compulsory, u guys need to study islam properly
Those women who despise the hijab or don’t wear it or look down upon women ho wear it are committing a sin and are performing an act that is haram.
“Such is the Seizure of your Lord when He seizes the (population of) towns while they are doing wrong. Verily, His Seizure is painful (and) severe.
This is another verse from the Quran that states that those women who go against and rebel against Allah will be dealt severely for the actions that will have consequences.
The reward of wearing a hijab is abundant for a woman, just like how a woman who chooses not to wear it will be punished severely.
Allah has and always will be all-forgiving. It is never too late to turn towards the right path and seek and ask for forgiveness. Wearing a hijab pleases Allah greatly, and you shall be rewarded with the best and the greatest of things in this life and the hereafter.
However, women who chose to disobey and rebel will be punished as not wearing a hijab is considered haram.
The tradition of hijab being mandatory originates with the ancient Assyrians. Assyrian women wore veils as a sign of piety and modesty, whereas prostitutes and non-Assyrian women were forbidden to do so. It’s not an Islamic idea, it’s just a tradition that has been a part of every religion in that region from the ancient pagans, Zoroastrians, Jews to Muslims. The Hajj was also a pagan ritual first established by ancient Yemenites, as is the mythological being known as a Djinn. This is all just ancient traditions that originate in pagan times, there’s really no need to take it so seriously in 2024. To worry about such minutia in the face of so many larger and more consequential problems is utterly silly.
La xawlä wa lä quwattä illä biLläh
My brother, you have to have basic standards that need to be fulfilled by a woman you want to marry, and one of them has to be HIJAB.
That is one of the priorities.
Source that states Hijab is required for marriage?
how do we ask questions on this show? without calling
"don't judge a book by its cover"
But not wearing is not just a cover ,but its also a sin
@JeeyaW371 💯
@@JeeyaW371 and what has that got to do with not judging someone by their cover? Don’t judge someone’s whole character based off of one sin, which is something many of you men in this comment section are doing. I can’t wear it properly due to illness but you all call me a s1ut and judge my whole character even though I practice everything else and dress modestly. How is this right? Why act so prideful and act like you know the future of that woman just by looking at her? Is hell written on her fourhead? You could be promised hell and she could be promised heaven, you never know. You never even knew I had an illness before I told you but I’m sure if you just saw me with my hijab not on properly because of this, then you would think bad of my WHOLE character and judge me. You are no one to judge, you can advise but stop judging. Sheikh literally said this was a sin but you have all conveniently forgotten this part of the video. May Allah guide all of you.
@@mari20400 calm down !!! I didnt judged you ,I just said the right thing. Those who do not wear it without any reason ,for them this is a sin and they are accountable for this ,bcz its still a sin .A real pious woman will never show her hair .But those who do not wear it doesnt mean they are totally bad ,but they are not obeying one of the important deed in Islam
every pious women wear the hijab, but every covered women are not pious
why are Muslim men allowed to marry jews and christian women though, weren't they be called out on day of judgement?
Because avoiding zina is a very important goal of Islam. It's better to marry a christian rather than doing zina. And Islam considers different circumstances. There might be times or places when muslim men can't find a muslimah to marry..
@tahirballikaya213 wouldn't the same go for muslim women? they have the same needs as men
Because God, the one who will judge on the Day of Judgement, said so
@@marah_33 No, because in all Abrahamic religions, the man is the head of the family. For example, christianity forbids divorce in all cases but adultery. However islam allows divorce for many more cases. A christian husband can easily deny the God given rights of a Muslimah.
@Neurogenesis1251 That's a very reasonable answer, though if Christianity forbids divorce, it wouldn't be beneficial for a muslim man to marry a christian woman who believes that divorce is a sin (in case something happens which leads him to want to divorce her). No real Christian woman would leave her religious principles. It won't matter whether the man is seen as the head of the household cause God comes first. So it's better for Muslims to just marry each other to avoid religious conflicts, in my opinion.
I have been withheld from my children for 833 days, hijabi women took them away. Being hijabi doesn't make you a good person, being non hijabi doesn't make you a bad person. It's character that truly matters. An atheist told me that even he would not do such a horrible thing as taking away someone's kids by force.
Answer clearly, you are giving ans here and there,should someone marry a non hijabi woman? Tell yee or no.if no give explanation.Don't make confusing answer
This guy needs to stop talking. Not everyone with a mouth should talk. The first part of what he said was ok but after that. Wahhabi mode kicked in.
It's ok even if she walks wearing bikini as long as it is halal
are you nuts
That thuu had me 🤣
Didn’t answer about hijabi with makeup
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Eejaab and qabool - offer and acceptance as basis of a contract between willing parties. With the mahr @ dowry and the vows of the parties on their respective obligations as THE consideration of the contract. Islamic law as appropriated by the west as " common law of contract."
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I love you my sister hejab or non hejab. Don’t worry he is not talking to women in the west. There is a lot more bigger sins than not wearing hejab.
Indeed, do not judge a book by its cover.
In Islam we do.
Learn your religion
@StayFocusOnYourFaith
Where did Allah or prophet Muhammad said that you can judge others freely?
If the sheikh will claim that a person can go to hell over a piece of cloth then so much for the loving and forgiving god you all try to show the world .
Allah hu akbar
enough of hijab stories focus on men
look at whats inside the head not whats on the head
What’s on the head is a reflection of what’s inside the head.
OH NO HE'S FRENCH
Doesn’t matter.
French lessons 😂😂