Sometimes shes just sad

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ย. 2024
  • Sometimes shes just sad #endalz #caregiver #alzheimerscare #alzheimer #dementia #ENDALZ #alzheimers #alzheimersawareness #alzheimersdisease

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  • @dancingfirefly7761
    @dancingfirefly7761 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh my goodness! Dear, sweet Betty, please don't be sad, dearest! You are so loved and safe and cared for. I HATE dementia and Alzheimer's, wicked, evil diseases!

  • @LadyBetsU
    @LadyBetsU 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Learned from national ALZ org that most often Going “Home” to our Alzheimer’s folks mean they want to be “normal” again.

  • @-laurel-6059
    @-laurel-6059 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She was just the very sweetest.

  • @PM-gx2bp
    @PM-gx2bp ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My heart breaks. Bless her.

  • @voulakapoulas181
    @voulakapoulas181 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It’s so hard to see someone you luv so much not know that they’re home ❤❤😢

    • @michaelhungate7506
      @michaelhungate7506 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's that dam alzhiemers. It confuses her. Bless her.

  • @Vgut1
    @Vgut1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just love her so much. This tears me up. Bless your heart Betty

  • @tonitushinski7635
    @tonitushinski7635 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    She doesn't mean home home, she means greater glory. When they're getting closer to passing away, they talk more and more about going home. It's good to give permission and tell her you all love her and will miss her but you wiil be ok.

    • @melvinnegron4168
      @melvinnegron4168 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      No she's not saying that, she feels strange in the house and she wants her house, my dad was the same way

    • @chipbroadhead4445
      @chipbroadhead4445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How do know what she wants? Obviously you live in her head 🗣️!

    • @chipbroadhead4445
      @chipbroadhead4445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@melvinnegron4168 like you know Medical Trained Doctor. Please don't speak on something we know nothing about

  • @kevinpyne5808
    @kevinpyne5808 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Tomorrow is another day. Hope she is happy tomorrow sir.

  • @DebbieGreenley
    @DebbieGreenley 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Reminds me of my mom...she had dementia as well. She waited for me to come home from work and wanted me to drive her home. Even tho she was already at home 😢

  • @pamelac2863
    @pamelac2863 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Betty is so precious
    Your awesome with your mom ❤❤❤

  • @annalangham3950
    @annalangham3950 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bless your heart Betty You hang in there your ❤loved

  • @judgejenny2251
    @judgejenny2251 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh sweet Betty! I hate this for you!!!

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh sweet Betty ...it's going to be ok❤

  • @Laura-ip8nw
    @Laura-ip8nw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aww. Bless her heart.

  • @dianebennett4259
    @dianebennett4259 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Betty Still Worries About Spoiling Her Son's Life isn't That Something. Betty Doesn't Realize She Has A Loving Caring Husband And Son ❤

  • @lindaruggiero8893
    @lindaruggiero8893 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh Sweet Betty don't be sad you are getting so much love from your family and friends I wish I could give you a big hug ❤

  • @MillieonaVespa
    @MillieonaVespa หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wasn’t she just wonderful ….lovely sweet Betty

  • @michaeltba9062
    @michaeltba9062 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your mum is just like my mum. She was always worrying about holding me back or holding me up.
    I don't regret the time we spent together. You wont regret it either. You all are still making memories. 🥰

  • @BaMaBo-tz8pk
    @BaMaBo-tz8pk 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It makes me crying and sad 😪🥹. You make it so great with your sad and scaring mom ❤❤. Noone could actually see what was in her mind 🥺😔. It was good to be at home. My mom was 3 weeks in an careing home and died than with knowing never can go back home. God bless you and your family ❤❤❤.

  • @ellenherman9543
    @ellenherman9543 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My mom did this to...they were days you just couldnt get her out of it...she just had to go home and was sad....i would just accept that...try to distract with something else....like cookies❤ anything chocalate❤❤

  • @cleonunez8077
    @cleonunez8077 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @JohnWilliams-ij4gj
    @JohnWilliams-ij4gj 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This just breaks my heart. My mom went through the same thing .

  • @tdixon4771
    @tdixon4771 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ma.Betty needs a good ole smoothie. Kale, spinach, berries, parsley, cilantro, and pomegranate seeds and maybe pineapples. If her meds allows. She’ll feel better. She may be tired of feeling like this…

    • @Ingerid772
      @Ingerid772 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes and out walking

  • @DALEBOETTNER
    @DALEBOETTNER 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ahh, just want to hug her. Such a sweet heart ❤

  • @Jim-n9b
    @Jim-n9b 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Gives me a lump in my throat

  • @XxXx-ve4zb
    @XxXx-ve4zb 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Makes me cry thinking of my mom who also had Alzihermers she's finally home with Jesus.

  • @mwalsh5757
    @mwalsh5757 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh, man. This gives me the feels. This is my wife exactly at least every 2nd or 3rd evening of the week. 😭 Redirection helps sometimes, but not always.

  • @NanCaraway
    @NanCaraway หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watch numerous videos of Betty
    I am a Parkinson’s. Patient and I can see myself in Betty.
    I also have had a major stroke in the area of my brain where my Parkinson’s sits I also have had so many TIAs my brain looks terrible
    I get confused just like Betty all the time
    I also have severe spinal diseases that have caused also less use of my body
    I am now in a wheelchair. I cannot bath myself every day things that people take for granted our impossible for me.
    I have three daughters that are middle-age that live within 20 minutes of me but I think they don’t want to see me because they were afraid of their own destiny, so I never see them or hear from them and it breaks my heart because I was always there for them as a mother should be Also do not get to see my grandkids. I haven’t drove in over 14 years.
    My husband who I’ve been married to since 1977
    Has distance himself from me to
    I know it’s difficult for you to see your mother like this, but just understand she is as confused as you are, and she realize it sometimes not all the time
    My thoughts and prayers with all of you
    Take care and God bless 🙏🏼

  • @marybethsinn6792
    @marybethsinn6792 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awe I just want to give her a big hug

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤😢love. U. Betty. And. Gamily😊

  • @BettyWhite-pi5dm
    @BettyWhite-pi5dm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People always miss their homeplace when they move away very much, especially the elderly. It's a change that isn't dealt with very well. It's a sad situation.❤❤

  • @liddlekiddle1962
    @liddlekiddle1962 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Maybe instead of repeating the word 'sad' - try to emphasize being 'happy' so maybe Betty will think of happy thoughts.

  • @selmaalva9031
    @selmaalva9031 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊❤

  • @Ingerid772
    @Ingerid772 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She looks at him as he deceive her

  • @zoraidita2022
    @zoraidita2022 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mom would get like that when she was sundowning

  • @laurawalles5855
    @laurawalles5855 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sad everyday she has to live with dementia

  • @Ingerid772
    @Ingerid772 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He should remain her repeating you moved to my house and so on explaine the hole thing .

  • @lindaruggiero8893
    @lindaruggiero8893 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Put music on for Betty😊

  • @patriciawalker1787
    @patriciawalker1787 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She knows.

  • @hs964
    @hs964 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    FYI - saying "Don't be sad" is invalidating and negative. If possible say something like "I see you're sad, but there is no need as we are all staying here tonight together . Would you like that? " then the person is likely to say yes and you can say, "great. Are you happier now?"
    People with dementia may not remember why they are sad but do remember that the feel sad, so understanding but switching the feeling will remain.