we're fighting more, finding time for hobbies & hiring help (oh and are we pregnant?) | Q&A!!!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- We've been feeling unsure about what to post so of course that means it's time for a Q&A!!
We asked over on our instagram for you to send in your questions and today we're answering them (obviously because that's what a Q&A is...)
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We're Allie ad Sam! A married, femme lesbian couple based out of the East Coast of Canada. On this channel, we share our life, LGBTQ+ issues, our travel adventures, and soon, our journey to motherhood. We're expecting TWINS this fall!!! Make sure you're subscribed because we're releasing new videos every Tuesday and Thursday!
Being together 24/7/365 isn't for everyone, its not always easy but it can work out just fine. You are both very aware of what the other needs & know when to step up or step back, then talk it out. My hubby & I have been together this way since date #3, we have our separate hobbies, groups we interact with online, etc. & give each other the space to just be. We were both medically retired when we met so that is another thing we work on, our health issues. My anxiety problems are there even in a 99% drama free home. We only have pets, our kids are grown, so I can't imagine adding babies to the mix but I feel secure we would also talk out anything around them as well. A good sense of humor is a must! I think you will always find answers to any issues too. People probably HOPE you are going to have another baby, you do not look like it. Sheesh.
Thank you for sharing your experience with anxiety. How brave (and important) to get help!
I watched this video with this marriage counsellor (I think, she was some sort or relationship expert) and one thing she said that stuck with me was something like a relationship with absolutely no conflict is probably just as unhealthy as a relationship when all you do is fight because it means one person is probably always giving in
For some reason it never occurred to me to have childcare while you’re still at home. I only really think of it for when you’d need to go somewhere without the kids, but that’s a game-changer for when you need to get stuff done at home or just need to focus on a big task. I don’t know why I never thought of that before!
I wish you would publish it! It would be super helpful for my partner and I to read more about before we dive into it. We’re currently on the wait list for services in Montreal.
Your book sounds awesome. We are at 28 weeks with our first baby (IVF conceived) and I would have LOVED to read your book when we were planning. I'd even love to read your book now! Also, our 8 month old Golden Retriever has been barking back at your doggo haha
Awesome vlog, I was begging to worry about you.
Sending love and hugs
Lynne U.K.
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My mom put me on a list for an elementary school not long before kindergarten. I ended up going to a different elementary school (I think the other one that had a wait list was the only one) and I didn't get accepted into the other school until 2nd or 3rd grade. I was too far into the other school to move lol
It is always a pleasure ❤ Much love across the miles to you two and your beautiful family!
Rosie knows she's needed at home. She can't be going on frivolous walks 😆
lol. It’s not your weight. You’re just such good moms. It would be fun to see you have more!!
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lol, I love how the dogs are referred to as "the girls".
3:34 Surprise Rosie! 🎉
Love your strawberry cardigan, where did you get it?
Also has Allie tried to use loop earplugs to help with her situation??
Congratulations
Omg please train your dogs
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Do yaw want more kids?
It would be GREAT to hear from Allie WITHOUT Sam interrupting or talking over her!
Aww I really like their dynamic! It feels very supportive 😊🌟
Why do you think Allie always has to place her hand over Sam’s mouth in videos? Lol
Post partum doula, baby sitters, cleaners, dog walkers and they still fight daily and are "anxious", lol. Lesbian relationships for ya
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