Role of father in the development of a child: |Professor Dr Javed Iqbal|

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  • @hammadali971
    @hammadali971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ap doctor nhi logo ki life badalny main maharat rakhty hain sir Masha Allah.

  • @sidranawaz8530
    @sidranawaz8530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    meri 2 sal ki twins betiya hai ap ki videos dakh kr kch kch apni ghaltiya nazr aa rai hai mje thank u me pele ghuse se smjayi hu une lakn ab bht pyar se smjyau gi

  • @eer123
    @eer123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jab Indian Pakistanis ko support karty hain to bahot khushi hoti hai
    Sir ko slam hai

  • @aliraza-ry8if
    @aliraza-ry8if 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    سر آپ جیسے انسان کے ساتھ بیٹھنا ہر شخص کو نصیب ہو

  • @ajendramalik1605
    @ajendramalik1605 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    A great doctor, great teacher and great guide

  • @khalidmalik1157
    @khalidmalik1157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Wow ... Amazing speeh... 🌷🌷🌷
    کاش میں نے یہ لکچر 10 سال پہلے سن لیا ہوتا ۔۔۔ !!!
    اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے بچوں کو نیک اور متقی بنائے امین،

  • @anjumsiddiqui6951
    @anjumsiddiqui6951 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jaisay burie oulad azab hay Zindagi ks waisay he buray ma or baap b. Bohat shukria in topic pay bast kurny ka. Warna kan puk gae sun sun k ma bap ka adub ehtram karou. Ma bap bhulay kuch b kurty rahen oulad k sath.

  • @Sunflower-yk9qd
    @Sunflower-yk9qd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    7 years of childhood are golden years, in this years both parents are young and excited they can give more attention to their children but because of their lack of knowledge and grandparents interference make it worse and difficult, every new parents need support.

  • @mohammadhasan235
    @mohammadhasan235 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے اور ہم سب کو عمل کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے

  • @imzahnib4913
    @imzahnib4913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Mashaa Allah. As a mother I have learnt a lot from your advice. May Allah SWT bless you.
    I would like to request a lecture on role of a father for teenage sons. Many thanks. JazakAllah khair for all your efforts.

  • @mahlikasheikh8787
    @mahlikasheikh8787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ap aik bht achy hasband or father hein...Allah sb ko aisy dy

  • @Shah_ji_Bhau
    @Shah_ji_Bhau 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Some great tips by such a wise person. I wish i heard these kind of lectures 20 years ago when i had small children. I did all those mistakes which were highlighted by Professor Iqbal in the clip. I kept running after work and money, to be able to give my family and myself material things. I neglected interactions with my children as i was always home exhausted. Today my children dont talk to me or share anything of theirs with me. I only get bits and pieces and that too from their mother. I feel like i am treated the same way i treated them when they were small. At this age i feel i should have had more parenting tips like the wisdom and explanation by Professor Iqbal. May God bless him and all parents.

    • @mohammadshabbir4779
      @mohammadshabbir4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      20 years ago, your fault was your silence and negligence, and now your fault is same. only you can fix it. you can talk to your children, express your guilt, sorrow. now they are grown up and can understand your feelings, and they will for sure respect you, care about you and gradually everything will be fine, in sha allah.

    • @frozenforest5546
      @frozenforest5546 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes its heart touching to hear and this is very common ,brother.
      its not late ever ,i think you should ask sorry to them and try to mingle with them after all you have struggled to bring them up with all good facilities ,what they 'r leading health enjoyable life.
      Inshallah may Allah bless you peaceful loving &caring family and all happiness

  • @vinodjangra9560
    @vinodjangra9560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Salute Javed sahab

  • @indiantiger3474
    @indiantiger3474 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Apka knowledge sab se alag hi
    Allah apki age 150 sal de
    Q ke zyada knowledge sab ko milsake inshaAllah

  • @786theunique
    @786theunique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Hope this message reaches Dr Javed Iqbal, if you can, please do a complete session on Role of a father during different stages of child's life. Thank you so much. Love you videos. Grateful that you are sharing your guidance with us.

  • @eishaturrazia8350
    @eishaturrazia8350 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Your statements are quite strong and thought-provoking, Sir!

  • @takreemunnisa5743
    @takreemunnisa5743 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah bohat dare say koi shi guide krnay walay milay haien Allah in ko lambi umar dayy ameen

  • @asifjutt1790
    @asifjutt1790 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U r absolutly rite. Meri 1 saal ki beti h wo jaynamaz ko dekh kr he sajda krny lg jati h mashaAllah.

  • @sameenakhatoon1851
    @sameenakhatoon1851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha allah aapne 100% shi kha sbhi Walden ko sunne ki zrurat h

  • @kidsstudio955
    @kidsstudio955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Amazing words......Alhamdulillah now we are parents. In my calculation me and my husband doinv 60%what u told but we will try our best to make it 100%. ..i really inspired nd feel energetic after listening ur debates ..thnks alot Allah bless you Ameen

  • @farhanhayat4480
    @farhanhayat4480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Highly
    Appreciated
    Sir...
    Stay blessed...

  • @khanirshadkhanirshad9838
    @khanirshadkhanirshad9838 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never seen and watched a personality like u ...what a great philospher ...

  • @inaamengineer
    @inaamengineer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love and respect from India......allaha bless u 🙏

  • @muhammadraza1818
    @muhammadraza1818 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kia he khoob surat baatein ki hai
    Mashallah .

  • @humairafarooqawan5348
    @humairafarooqawan5348 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    بہت بہت شکریہ ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ تعالی جزائے خیر کثیر عطا فرمائیں آمین یارب العلمین

  • @muhammadsarfraz4393
    @muhammadsarfraz4393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allha pak apko khush rakhay ameen app bahut achi bat kertay Han Kash k aisa bap mila hota

  • @Coffeewithgskhan
    @Coffeewithgskhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for uploading this video. self-esteem/confidence/commitment/no false promises/friendly yet firm parenting .

  • @masudsiddiqui3167
    @masudsiddiqui3167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very valuable points about first seven years of child’s life. Thank you.

  • @haidarkhan111
    @haidarkhan111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Sir Dr.javed Iqbal sahib I very proud of you sir i Watching your all videos From UAE 🥀🥀

  • @imtiahmed001
    @imtiahmed001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subhaan Allah. Very informative video thanks

  • @firozsayyed4192
    @firozsayyed4192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Father plays a role of an anchor! He may not be always there for them but kids' world revolves around him!

  • @sheenashah1054
    @sheenashah1054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Those who wish to get these lectures years before need not to worry at all. It's not late even now. Be on good terms with them now. Try to fill up the gap.

  • @nightangle476
    @nightangle476 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolutely spot on, iam an early years teacher working in the uk and was teacher back home. I totally agree on each point that Sir has mentioned. My son is a biggest example of every word that Sir has mentioned. We gave our early 6 months to our son getting him into routine and disciplineed life. We cut back on meeting people and social gatherings and other things. Then I left my job to be with my son full time and still not going back till he starts school. My husband used to do two jobs he left that too so he can spend more quality time with him and myself. I can truely say how much it can totally change your child's inner calmness and making him into a better human. Before we tell our son anything we both worked on our own behaviour and the result is our son has seeing us being respectful l, disciplined and consistent in everyday life and socialising positively. Its soooo crucial for parents especially young parents to understand human behaviour and brain. Any new parent please study, observe and above all change yourself into what you expect of your child. Later it gets easy to deal with your child if you put all the hard work in 5 years. Peace and blessings for all. 🙏🏼✌️❤️

    • @SaeedKhan-oo7sr
      @SaeedKhan-oo7sr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      .Jazak Allah
      Really appreciate mentioning your parenting experience so diligently... comments shud further enhance d knowledge of topic discussed in d video which your comment exactly did.
      Thanks once again

  • @najeebmemon984
    @najeebmemon984 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have listened and learned alot from your videos, I belong to education sector and specialized in ECE.

  • @aleemazad9625
    @aleemazad9625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I listened first time to you sir.
    It was informative and very nice to watch ...

  • @hamza12348
    @hamza12348 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aslamualaikum, boohat achi batein batate hein aap mashallah, eik lecture is pe dein ke jab eik aurat khud pressure mein ho husband aur sasural ki tarf se to woh kese bachon ko relax ker sake gi kese sakoon se bol sake gi, eik mard khud pressure mein ho apne parents ki tarf se to woh biwi se kese relax aur bachon se kese piyar se baat ker sake ga? Newly married Eik larka aur eik larki khud stress mein hon ghar walon ki wajha se to woh kese khud ko stress se nikal ker bachon ko achi terbiyat de sakte hein? ?????????? Jab eik mother aur father khud stress free hon ge to woh achi terbiyat kese ker sakein ge, is ke liye eik larke aur larki ko kya kerna chahiye??????? Yeh kehna boohat Asan hai ke logon ki baton ko bother nahi karein, kese bother nahi karein aur is ke liye kya tareeka aur kya tips karein????????????????

    • @iramzaidi2781
      @iramzaidi2781 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Salam !
      Yeh bahut serious concern hai..
      Waqai m ab mujhe realize hota h ki kaise duniya m har rk cheez appas m interlinked hai

  • @sitarashameem8581
    @sitarashameem8581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    SubhanAllah . zabardast
    Jazak Allah

  • @sobanqaiser7589
    @sobanqaiser7589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Sir for Your vauable words, I m getting more and more wise by listening u everyday, Again Thanks for being here for improving thinking of society.

  • @sarahmuhammad9193
    @sarahmuhammad9193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    ماشااللہ ماشااللہ بہت زبردست باتیں کرتے ہیں دل خوش ہوجاتا ہے باتیں سن کر بہت اچھا سمجھایا ہے آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے بارک اللہ فیک اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے بہت خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آ مین یا رب العالمین دیں دنیا کی کامیابی عطا فرمائے بہت اچھا گائیڈ لائن دیتے ہیں

  • @shehlaazim5859
    @shehlaazim5859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Salute to my father.Best father.

  • @usaifahmed8352
    @usaifahmed8352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Kash me kai dafa like krsakti

  • @educationcirclebydvsingh1137
    @educationcirclebydvsingh1137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir I salute u with my bottom of heart u have so profound knowledge

  • @warishafatima238
    @warishafatima238 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allahu khaira from Lucknow

  • @bikashmahato6765
    @bikashmahato6765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir, you giveing us free knowledge so I grateful to you and your HumanKindnees
    This is a scientific method to Beter Development for every child
    I requesting to all parents please try for once see the positive changes
    (Child psychology)Role of father for child development

  • @fatimaalimuhammad6396
    @fatimaalimuhammad6396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless you. You gave us knoglegbal point

  • @malikmudassir157
    @malikmudassir157 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mashallah sir ap ny buht achy sy bat samjai Allah ap ko salamat rakhy ameen khush rahy ap sir bhut
    bhut

  • @anilanaeem9298
    @anilanaeem9298 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Outstanding lecture sir. I m a psychologist and m also agree about that . Parents is a role model for his her children

  • @ayeshaumair5395
    @ayeshaumair5395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I wish I could get these lectures 15 years ago

    • @AlviSultan
      @AlviSultan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Maazi ka derwaza band ker dein please, only live in the present.

    • @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT
      @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayesha Umair me too

  • @faisalaltoobi2690
    @faisalaltoobi2690 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respected Sir Javed & Fellows,
    Your words are so precious and well-selected, Subhan Allah. Please take a moment to read my post.
    You may understand my point that in our society it's a Father more than the mother who insults his children especially boys. Me and my brothers have been bearing insult, rude behavior, ego and even slaps not only for us but for our mother too since our childhood. Now, we have come to an age even we have our own children, Alhamdolillah as gifted by Allah Almighty. But our father's behavior is same like. The reason we can't settle down in any field our of our personal and professional lives around. I, myself, try hard to obey my father and act upon the sayings of Allah Almighty and His Prophet (SAW) but the hater that has been gathered in my heart for my father never go away. Now, since a long time, I have been listening to Pakistani Scholars and Trainers, meanwhile I get familiar with your channel, and trying to change myself as much as I can. But the challenge is still my father, who would let him change in this part of age when he is around 70s. I am so confused, heart-broken and demotivated because at one side is our religion and on the other side is that hardship from our father. Please help me and guide me in the best way you can.
    Maybe this would be a 'Saddaqa-e-Jariyaa' from you to many like me and other upcoming generations.
    Thanks & Regards,
    ...S. B. Faisal...

  • @freecryptoearn8645
    @freecryptoearn8645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Allah talha apko lambi Zindagi de or sehat wali Zindagi atha farmayain ameen

  • @tasneemnazia
    @tasneemnazia 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    JizakAllah shear
    Andaz Bhutt impressive hea.

  • @drajitkumarseth5332
    @drajitkumarseth5332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much ....For the best information 😊🙏🙏

  • @muhsinkamal9988
    @muhsinkamal9988 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir you are great. Very authentic and beneficial

  • @Imrankhan-pn9vl
    @Imrankhan-pn9vl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me u r the ideal man as a father, as a husband, as a human being

  • @Salar_memes
    @Salar_memes 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bilkul. Such a nice and true person. God bless u sir

  • @memonkidstv
    @memonkidstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buhat hy acha discussion he.

  • @Kingff98877
    @Kingff98877 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonder full words truly amazing

  • @zenabtahrah5485
    @zenabtahrah5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    مجھے لگتا ہے آپ روحانیت بھی اچھے سے سمجھتے ہیں ۔ماشاءاللہ

  • @Rumana-mk2cf
    @Rumana-mk2cf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shukriya Aapne bahut Achi baaten batayin

  • @Meow-yg9yx
    @Meow-yg9yx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wishing you the best of luck and a lot of prayers for you 😍

  • @Mathswithghazala
    @Mathswithghazala 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamuallikum..kash pehle suna hota..great sr

  • @BhagwanSingh-hl4du
    @BhagwanSingh-hl4du ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are interested man and great man

  • @MubarakAli-km1pu
    @MubarakAli-km1pu 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashaallah mashaallah mashaallah your all videos is very good massage thank you so much dr g

  • @raufahmedkhan4016
    @raufahmedkhan4016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bohat aala sir.
    Bohat si chizain under control hai. Or bohat si nhi. Ab jo chizin hathon say phisal gain hain chahe koi bhi waja ho usko kese durust kia jae. Baz dafa bohat rona ata hai jab halat ret k zarron ki terha nikal jate hain.😥

    • @mohammadshabbir4779
      @mohammadshabbir4779 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      akhlaaq, aajzi, malaamat kaafi hui. durst karna hai to kahi se to apko start karna hai.

  • @coocoo4974
    @coocoo4974 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow ... Sir Kya bat ha apki ... Zabardast

  • @mwaqas16
    @mwaqas16 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    buhat khobsorat or practical batein hain. lekin buht he mushkil hai karny m, parenting karna i think sab se mushkil or sab se khubsorat kam h dunya ka

  • @Saman19-02
    @Saman19-02 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir ap ki batain sunny k bad meri bhi shadeed khwahish hoti hy k kash 10,12 saal pechy chala jye time

  • @nuzhatkhan3530
    @nuzhatkhan3530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Allah bless you. Thanks thanks thanks.

  • @HomeFrendsten
    @HomeFrendsten 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice topic, every parent must assume responsibility raising children is difficult all need experience . Children treat parents as they have been treated by them in childhood.parents must guide children in right way.they must b strict if children do wrong, but not punish unnecessarily

  • @aishatalpur7114
    @aishatalpur7114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow amazing amazing. Me and my Dr husband exactly do same in front of our children.

  • @shaikzeeshan4519
    @shaikzeeshan4519 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    جزاک اللہ خیرا و أحسن الجزاء

  • @samaviashafique1335
    @samaviashafique1335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved this talk... ma sha Allah ❣️

  • @laroshakhtar9373
    @laroshakhtar9373 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wa ji jnb tnx for tips

  • @haneefasirajuddinshaikh2387
    @haneefasirajuddinshaikh2387 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    So nice thanks for the suggestion to get the latest idea of how to become a good parents.

  • @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT
    @TJAMALENTERTAINMENT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are great
    Amazing power in ur words

  • @kholamariam3611
    @kholamariam3611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm 2 and a half year late. But glad to find this video... Better late than never. May Allah bless you doctor

  • @sabaparveen5186
    @sabaparveen5186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Asslmualikum sir
    Great vedio I am very thankful you really very impressive vedio. Thanks love from India

  • @mjunaidasghar8613
    @mjunaidasghar8613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazak Allah sir..Very affective..keep doing

  • @rizwansaeed47
    @rizwansaeed47 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    اپنے بچوں کو متقیوں کا امام بنائیں

  • @khalilabbas3301
    @khalilabbas3301 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Inshaallah apki batain follow karu ga.... Because my son is 1 year old.... Allah apko sehat tandrusti ataa farmay.. Ameen

  • @ahmedshaikh4563
    @ahmedshaikh4563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The great scholar 😍🌹

  • @peacefulllife7359
    @peacefulllife7359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    اللہ پاک آپکو سلامت رکھے آمین

  • @MuhammadRamzan-bf1du
    @MuhammadRamzan-bf1du 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb.we never get such knowledge.childers are our server,Allah ask about them

  • @mohd.rashid9997
    @mohd.rashid9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    آپکا بہت شکرگزارہوں

  • @ayeshabanu7403
    @ayeshabanu7403 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalumu alaikum sir. You are a gem to the society. Jazakilla khaira for sharing your knowledge and experience. Its very valuable.Hope to meet you one day. INSHAALLAH.

  • @tehseendar638
    @tehseendar638 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Best wishes from sialkot Pakistan

  • @ezzahsayam7709
    @ezzahsayam7709 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazak Allah ❤

  • @nasirmohammed9308
    @nasirmohammed9308 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May God bless you sir

  • @muhammadfahad7923
    @muhammadfahad7923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bachy to kya abhi mre shadi nahi huvi lkn aap ko sun k lgta hy k mre bachy lucky hon gy.
    Thank you.

    • @Paklover
      @Paklover 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣Me too

  • @atheron
    @atheron 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bohot Umdah kaafi seekhne ko mila

  • @mibrahim5885
    @mibrahim5885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aoa uncle u really good personality Dr Javed

  • @star5530
    @star5530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazak Allah... Good point 👍👍

  • @janmuhammad225
    @janmuhammad225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir aisai tips ko dislike kerna sirf aik hasid he ker saktha hai inko Allah hidayath dai. Ameeeen

  • @misterman124
    @misterman124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderful talk.

  • @edimaghulamali9108
    @edimaghulamali9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much sir.i have a 5 year old boy and ur tips are outstanding

  • @aashiq3130
    @aashiq3130 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bahut khoob kaha...

  • @muhammadasimkhan2140
    @muhammadasimkhan2140 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Worthwatch MashaAllah
    Everyone should adopt

  • @solutionsdealer5127
    @solutionsdealer5127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great sir. Thanks alot sir.

  • @mansoorali-es3ck
    @mansoorali-es3ck 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashaallah very nice explanation sir & One request about to Talk on the TOPIC of ADHD

  • @QadeerKhan-kb8ps
    @QadeerKhan-kb8ps 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    i was waiting your next video .. zinda abad doctor sb ALLAH pak ap ki hifazat farmay ameen