meri 2 sal ki twins betiya hai ap ki videos dakh kr kch kch apni ghaltiya nazr aa rai hai mje thank u me pele ghuse se smjayi hu une lakn ab bht pyar se smjyau gi
Jaisay burie oulad azab hay Zindagi ks waisay he buray ma or baap b. Bohat shukria in topic pay bast kurny ka. Warna kan puk gae sun sun k ma bap ka adub ehtram karou. Ma bap bhulay kuch b kurty rahen oulad k sath.
Some great tips by such a wise person. I wish i heard these kind of lectures 20 years ago when i had small children. I did all those mistakes which were highlighted by Professor Iqbal in the clip. I kept running after work and money, to be able to give my family and myself material things. I neglected interactions with my children as i was always home exhausted. Today my children dont talk to me or share anything of theirs with me. I only get bits and pieces and that too from their mother. I feel like i am treated the same way i treated them when they were small. At this age i feel i should have had more parenting tips like the wisdom and explanation by Professor Iqbal. May God bless him and all parents.
20 years ago, your fault was your silence and negligence, and now your fault is same. only you can fix it. you can talk to your children, express your guilt, sorrow. now they are grown up and can understand your feelings, and they will for sure respect you, care about you and gradually everything will be fine, in sha allah.
Yes its heart touching to hear and this is very common ,brother. its not late ever ,i think you should ask sorry to them and try to mingle with them after all you have struggled to bring them up with all good facilities ,what they 'r leading health enjoyable life. Inshallah may Allah bless you peaceful loving &caring family and all happiness
7 years of childhood are golden years, in this years both parents are young and excited they can give more attention to their children but because of their lack of knowledge and grandparents interference make it worse and difficult, every new parents need support.
Mashaa Allah. As a mother I have learnt a lot from your advice. May Allah SWT bless you. I would like to request a lecture on role of a father for teenage sons. Many thanks. JazakAllah khair for all your efforts.
Amazing words......Alhamdulillah now we are parents. In my calculation me and my husband doinv 60%what u told but we will try our best to make it 100%. ..i really inspired nd feel energetic after listening ur debates ..thnks alot Allah bless you Ameen
Hope this message reaches Dr Javed Iqbal, if you can, please do a complete session on Role of a father during different stages of child's life. Thank you so much. Love you videos. Grateful that you are sharing your guidance with us.
ماشااللہ ماشااللہ بہت زبردست باتیں کرتے ہیں دل خوش ہوجاتا ہے باتیں سن کر بہت اچھا سمجھایا ہے آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے بارک اللہ فیک اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے بہت خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آ مین یا رب العالمین دیں دنیا کی کامیابی عطا فرمائے بہت اچھا گائیڈ لائن دیتے ہیں
Absolutely spot on, iam an early years teacher working in the uk and was teacher back home. I totally agree on each point that Sir has mentioned. My son is a biggest example of every word that Sir has mentioned. We gave our early 6 months to our son getting him into routine and disciplineed life. We cut back on meeting people and social gatherings and other things. Then I left my job to be with my son full time and still not going back till he starts school. My husband used to do two jobs he left that too so he can spend more quality time with him and myself. I can truely say how much it can totally change your child's inner calmness and making him into a better human. Before we tell our son anything we both worked on our own behaviour and the result is our son has seeing us being respectful l, disciplined and consistent in everyday life and socialising positively. Its soooo crucial for parents especially young parents to understand human behaviour and brain. Any new parent please study, observe and above all change yourself into what you expect of your child. Later it gets easy to deal with your child if you put all the hard work in 5 years. Peace and blessings for all. 🙏🏼✌️❤️
.Jazak Allah Really appreciate mentioning your parenting experience so diligently... comments shud further enhance d knowledge of topic discussed in d video which your comment exactly did. Thanks once again
Those who wish to get these lectures years before need not to worry at all. It's not late even now. Be on good terms with them now. Try to fill up the gap.
Thank you Sir for Your vauable words, I m getting more and more wise by listening u everyday, Again Thanks for being here for improving thinking of society.
Of course the information was great,Along with the child teach sunnat, Then child became powerful only when his mother should dindar with amale sunnat, Allah sub ko samaz ata farmaye ----- Summa amin
Bohat aala sir. Bohat si chizain under control hai. Or bohat si nhi. Ab jo chizin hathon say phisal gain hain chahe koi bhi waja ho usko kese durust kia jae. Baz dafa bohat rona ata hai jab halat ret k zarron ki terha nikal jate hain.😥
Respected Sir Javed & Fellows, Your words are so precious and well-selected, Subhan Allah. Please take a moment to read my post. You may understand my point that in our society it's a Father more than the mother who insults his children especially boys. Me and my brothers have been bearing insult, rude behavior, ego and even slaps not only for us but for our mother too since our childhood. Now, we have come to an age even we have our own children, Alhamdolillah as gifted by Allah Almighty. But our father's behavior is same like. The reason we can't settle down in any field our of our personal and professional lives around. I, myself, try hard to obey my father and act upon the sayings of Allah Almighty and His Prophet (SAW) but the hater that has been gathered in my heart for my father never go away. Now, since a long time, I have been listening to Pakistani Scholars and Trainers, meanwhile I get familiar with your channel, and trying to change myself as much as I can. But the challenge is still my father, who would let him change in this part of age when he is around 70s. I am so confused, heart-broken and demotivated because at one side is our religion and on the other side is that hardship from our father. Please help me and guide me in the best way you can. Maybe this would be a 'Saddaqa-e-Jariyaa' from you to many like me and other upcoming generations. Thanks & Regards, ...S. B. Faisal...
Aslamualaikum, boohat achi batein batate hein aap mashallah, eik lecture is pe dein ke jab eik aurat khud pressure mein ho husband aur sasural ki tarf se to woh kese bachon ko relax ker sake gi kese sakoon se bol sake gi, eik mard khud pressure mein ho apne parents ki tarf se to woh biwi se kese relax aur bachon se kese piyar se baat ker sake ga? Newly married Eik larka aur eik larki khud stress mein hon ghar walon ki wajha se to woh kese khud ko stress se nikal ker bachon ko achi terbiyat de sakte hein? ?????????? Jab eik mother aur father khud stress free hon ge to woh achi terbiyat kese ker sakein ge, is ke liye eik larke aur larki ko kya kerna chahiye??????? Yeh kehna boohat Asan hai ke logon ki baton ko bother nahi karein, kese bother nahi karein aur is ke liye kya tareeka aur kya tips karein????????????????
Sir, you giveing us free knowledge so I grateful to you and your HumanKindnees This is a scientific method to Beter Development for every child I requesting to all parents please try for once see the positive changes (Child psychology)Role of father for child development
Very nice topic, every parent must assume responsibility raising children is difficult all need experience . Children treat parents as they have been treated by them in childhood.parents must guide children in right way.they must b strict if children do wrong, but not punish unnecessarily
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوب اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے اور ہم سب کو عمل کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے
Jab Indian Pakistanis ko support karty hain to bahot khushi hoti hai
Sir ko slam hai
Ap doctor nhi logo ki life badalny main maharat rakhty hain sir Masha Allah.
G bilkul
meri 2 sal ki twins betiya hai ap ki videos dakh kr kch kch apni ghaltiya nazr aa rai hai mje thank u me pele ghuse se smjayi hu une lakn ab bht pyar se smjyau gi
Wow ... Amazing speeh... 🌷🌷🌷
کاش میں نے یہ لکچر 10 سال پہلے سن لیا ہوتا ۔۔۔ !!!
اللہ تعالی ہم سب کے بچوں کو نیک اور متقی بنائے امین،
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Ameen
Ameen
Brother Supplication can make up on what you miss...ALLAH IS SO KAREEM TO MEND OUR PASS DEEDS
Aameen
Salute Javed sahab
A great doctor, great teacher and great guide
Jaisay burie oulad azab hay Zindagi ks waisay he buray ma or baap b. Bohat shukria in topic pay bast kurny ka. Warna kan puk gae sun sun k ma bap ka adub ehtram karou. Ma bap bhulay kuch b kurty rahen oulad k sath.
Apka knowledge sab se alag hi
Allah apki age 150 sal de
Q ke zyada knowledge sab ko milsake inshaAllah
Ap aik bht achy hasband or father hein...Allah sb ko aisy dy
سر آپ جیسے انسان کے ساتھ بیٹھنا ہر شخص کو نصیب ہو
Some great tips by such a wise person. I wish i heard these kind of lectures 20 years ago when i had small children. I did all those mistakes which were highlighted by Professor Iqbal in the clip. I kept running after work and money, to be able to give my family and myself material things. I neglected interactions with my children as i was always home exhausted. Today my children dont talk to me or share anything of theirs with me. I only get bits and pieces and that too from their mother. I feel like i am treated the same way i treated them when they were small. At this age i feel i should have had more parenting tips like the wisdom and explanation by Professor Iqbal. May God bless him and all parents.
20 years ago, your fault was your silence and negligence, and now your fault is same. only you can fix it. you can talk to your children, express your guilt, sorrow. now they are grown up and can understand your feelings, and they will for sure respect you, care about you and gradually everything will be fine, in sha allah.
Yes its heart touching to hear and this is very common ,brother.
its not late ever ,i think you should ask sorry to them and try to mingle with them after all you have struggled to bring them up with all good facilities ,what they 'r leading health enjoyable life.
Inshallah may Allah bless you peaceful loving &caring family and all happiness
7 years of childhood are golden years, in this years both parents are young and excited they can give more attention to their children but because of their lack of knowledge and grandparents interference make it worse and difficult, every new parents need support.
😊
Mashaa Allah. As a mother I have learnt a lot from your advice. May Allah SWT bless you.
I would like to request a lecture on role of a father for teenage sons. Many thanks. JazakAllah khair for all your efforts.
U r absolutly rite. Meri 1 saal ki beti h wo jaynamaz ko dekh kr he sajda krny lg jati h mashaAllah.
Jazakallah bohat dare say koi shi guide krnay walay milay haien Allah in ko lambi umar dayy ameen
Masha allah aapne 100% shi kha sbhi Walden ko sunne ki zrurat h
Highly
Appreciated
Sir...
Stay blessed...
Most welcome
Amazing words......Alhamdulillah now we are parents. In my calculation me and my husband doinv 60%what u told but we will try our best to make it 100%. ..i really inspired nd feel energetic after listening ur debates ..thnks alot Allah bless you Ameen
Your statements are quite strong and thought-provoking, Sir!
Never seen and watched a personality like u ...what a great philospher ...
Kia he khoob surat baatein ki hai
Mashallah .
Father plays a role of an anchor! He may not be always there for them but kids' world revolves around him!
Allha pak apko khush rakhay ameen app bahut achi bat kertay Han Kash k aisa bap mila hota
SubhanAllah . zabardast
Jazak Allah
Subhaan Allah. Very informative video thanks
Hope this message reaches Dr Javed Iqbal, if you can, please do a complete session on Role of a father during different stages of child's life. Thank you so much. Love you videos. Grateful that you are sharing your guidance with us.
بہت بہت شکریہ ڈاکٹر صاحب اللہ تعالی جزائے خیر کثیر عطا فرمائیں آمین یارب العلمین
Thanks for uploading this video. self-esteem/confidence/commitment/no false promises/friendly yet firm parenting .
Love and respect from India......allaha bless u 🙏
ماشااللہ ماشااللہ بہت زبردست باتیں کرتے ہیں دل خوش ہوجاتا ہے باتیں سن کر بہت اچھا سمجھایا ہے آپ کو جزاے خیر عطاء فرمائے بارک اللہ فیک اللہ تعالی آپ کو سلامت رکھے بہت خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آ مین یا رب العالمین دیں دنیا کی کامیابی عطا فرمائے بہت اچھا گائیڈ لائن دیتے ہیں
Ameen Ameen
Sapot me
I have listened and learned alot from your videos, I belong to education sector and specialized in ECE.
Wow ... Sir Kya bat ha apki ... Zabardast
I listened first time to you sir.
It was informative and very nice to watch ...
Thank you sir
Absolutely spot on, iam an early years teacher working in the uk and was teacher back home. I totally agree on each point that Sir has mentioned. My son is a biggest example of every word that Sir has mentioned. We gave our early 6 months to our son getting him into routine and disciplineed life. We cut back on meeting people and social gatherings and other things. Then I left my job to be with my son full time and still not going back till he starts school. My husband used to do two jobs he left that too so he can spend more quality time with him and myself. I can truely say how much it can totally change your child's inner calmness and making him into a better human. Before we tell our son anything we both worked on our own behaviour and the result is our son has seeing us being respectful l, disciplined and consistent in everyday life and socialising positively. Its soooo crucial for parents especially young parents to understand human behaviour and brain. Any new parent please study, observe and above all change yourself into what you expect of your child. Later it gets easy to deal with your child if you put all the hard work in 5 years. Peace and blessings for all. 🙏🏼✌️❤️
.Jazak Allah
Really appreciate mentioning your parenting experience so diligently... comments shud further enhance d knowledge of topic discussed in d video which your comment exactly did.
Thanks once again
Salute to my father.Best father.
Very valuable points about first seven years of child’s life. Thank you.
Dear Sir Dr.javed Iqbal sahib I very proud of you sir i Watching your all videos From UAE 🥀🥀
Mashallah sir ap ny buht achy sy bat samjai Allah ap ko salamat rakhy ameen khush rahy ap sir bhut
bhut
مجھے لگتا ہے آپ روحانیت بھی اچھے سے سمجھتے ہیں ۔ماشاءاللہ
Sir you are great. Very authentic and beneficial
Buhat hy acha discussion he.
You are interested man and great man
Those who wish to get these lectures years before need not to worry at all. It's not late even now. Be on good terms with them now. Try to fill up the gap.
Ok good info 😉
Kookaburra
Exactly .. ALLAH IS KAREEM
Wa ji jnb tnx for tips
Outstanding lecture sir. I m a psychologist and m also agree about that . Parents is a role model for his her children
JizakAllah shear
Andaz Bhutt impressive hea.
Sir I salute u with my bottom of heart u have so profound knowledge
buhat khobsorat or practical batein hain. lekin buht he mushkil hai karny m, parenting karna i think sab se mushkil or sab se khubsorat kam h dunya ka
Jazak Allahu khaira from Lucknow
ماشاءاللہ سلامت رہیں قبلہ
Allah talha apko lambi Zindagi de or sehat wali Zindagi atha farmayain ameen
God Bless you. You gave us knoglegbal point
Shukriya Aapne bahut Achi baaten batayin
Bilkul. Such a nice and true person. God bless u sir
Great sir. Thanks alot sir.
Thank you Sir for Your vauable words, I m getting more and more wise by listening u everyday, Again Thanks for being here for improving thinking of society.
Wonder full words truly amazing
For me u r the ideal man as a father, as a husband, as a human being
Bahut khoob kaha...
Allah bless you. Thanks thanks thanks.
Best wishes from sialkot Pakistan
Bohot Umdah kaafi seekhne ko mila
Kash me kai dafa like krsakti
Of course the information was great,Along with the child teach sunnat, Then child became powerful only when his mother should dindar with amale sunnat, Allah sub ko samaz ata farmaye ----- Summa amin
Assalamuallikum..kash pehle suna hota..great sr
May God bless you sir
Jazak Allah sir..Very affective..keep doing
Bohat aala sir.
Bohat si chizain under control hai. Or bohat si nhi. Ab jo chizin hathon say phisal gain hain chahe koi bhi waja ho usko kese durust kia jae. Baz dafa bohat rona ata hai jab halat ret k zarron ki terha nikal jate hain.😥
akhlaaq, aajzi, malaamat kaafi hui. durst karna hai to kahi se to apko start karna hai.
Respected Sir Javed & Fellows,
Your words are so precious and well-selected, Subhan Allah. Please take a moment to read my post.
You may understand my point that in our society it's a Father more than the mother who insults his children especially boys. Me and my brothers have been bearing insult, rude behavior, ego and even slaps not only for us but for our mother too since our childhood. Now, we have come to an age even we have our own children, Alhamdolillah as gifted by Allah Almighty. But our father's behavior is same like. The reason we can't settle down in any field our of our personal and professional lives around. I, myself, try hard to obey my father and act upon the sayings of Allah Almighty and His Prophet (SAW) but the hater that has been gathered in my heart for my father never go away. Now, since a long time, I have been listening to Pakistani Scholars and Trainers, meanwhile I get familiar with your channel, and trying to change myself as much as I can. But the challenge is still my father, who would let him change in this part of age when he is around 70s. I am so confused, heart-broken and demotivated because at one side is our religion and on the other side is that hardship from our father. Please help me and guide me in the best way you can.
Maybe this would be a 'Saddaqa-e-Jariyaa' from you to many like me and other upcoming generations.
Thanks & Regards,
...S. B. Faisal...
جزاک اللہ خیرا و أحسن الجزاء
Mashaallah mashaallah mashaallah your all videos is very good massage thank you so much dr g
Sir aisai tips ko dislike kerna sirf aik hasid he ker saktha hai inko Allah hidayath dai. Ameeeen
Boht ilm hay sir k pass
Wonderful talk.
اللہ پاک آپکو سلامت رکھے آمین
Worthwatch MashaAllah
Everyone should adopt
Good my honourable teacher
You are great
Amazing power in ur words
sir on great talk
So nice thanks for the suggestion to get the latest idea of how to become a good parents.
Jazak Allah... Good point 👍👍
Aslamualaikum, boohat achi batein batate hein aap mashallah, eik lecture is pe dein ke jab eik aurat khud pressure mein ho husband aur sasural ki tarf se to woh kese bachon ko relax ker sake gi kese sakoon se bol sake gi, eik mard khud pressure mein ho apne parents ki tarf se to woh biwi se kese relax aur bachon se kese piyar se baat ker sake ga? Newly married Eik larka aur eik larki khud stress mein hon ghar walon ki wajha se to woh kese khud ko stress se nikal ker bachon ko achi terbiyat de sakte hein? ?????????? Jab eik mother aur father khud stress free hon ge to woh achi terbiyat kese ker sakein ge, is ke liye eik larke aur larki ko kya kerna chahiye??????? Yeh kehna boohat Asan hai ke logon ki baton ko bother nahi karein, kese bother nahi karein aur is ke liye kya tareeka aur kya tips karein????????????????
Salam !
Yeh bahut serious concern hai..
Waqai m ab mujhe realize hota h ki kaise duniya m har rk cheez appas m interlinked hai
آپکا بہت شکرگزارہوں
Loved this talk... ma sha Allah ❣️
The great scholar 😍🌹
such a great vedio
so nice and impressive and motivational speech welldone
Sir, you giveing us free knowledge so I grateful to you and your HumanKindnees
This is a scientific method to Beter Development for every child
I requesting to all parents please try for once see the positive changes
(Child psychology)Role of father for child development
Aoa uncle u really good personality Dr Javed
MashaAllah bot zabardast
جزاک اللہ خیرا بھائی. ابو اخمد مک مکرمہ
زبردست ماشاللہ
Wow amazing amazing. Me and my Dr husband exactly do same in front of our children.
اپنے بچوں کو متقیوں کا امام بنائیں
Excellent Information
Thanks
Wao. Amazing
Very nice topic, every parent must assume responsibility raising children is difficult all need experience . Children treat parents as they have been treated by them in childhood.parents must guide children in right way.they must b strict if children do wrong, but not punish unnecessarily
Sir tussi great oooo
Bachy to kya abhi mre shadi nahi huvi lkn aap ko sun k lgta hy k mre bachy lucky hon gy.
Thank you.
🤣🤣🤣Me too
Wishing you the best of luck and a lot of prayers for you 😍