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Dean Tells Rachel About His Mom - The Bachelorette 13x4

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 มิ.ย. 2017
  • Dean shares the tragic story of his mom's battle with cancer, while Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay listens. (From The Bachelorette Season 13, Episode 4).

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  • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
    @estherbeamsforaballad3342 7 ปีที่แล้ว +269

    I love how Dean still has an outgoing personality despite everything that happened. He knew exactly what it meant at 15 to lose someone dear yet you won't know from just hanging out with him unless he tells you.

    • @andreasmith6012
      @andreasmith6012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      He posted on his IG about that exact thing - that he did not think his story was that special. He is grateful to Rachel and ABC for letting him share it because it could help others who have experienced death of a love one. He said he cried off camera. And the beautiful pic of his young mom is touching.

  • @hleziphidhlamini1012
    @hleziphidhlamini1012 7 ปีที่แล้ว +155

    I was moved to tears by Dean's story

  • @franslam7398
    @franslam7398 7 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Dean's story about how his family fell apart after his mum died reminded me of mine. Mine fell apart too when my mum passed away. We've never been the same. I understand it completely, Dean.

    • @tini96
      @tini96 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry for your loss. May I ask how it fell apart? If you don't mind. Sorry if I offend you.

    • @laurataylor4772
      @laurataylor4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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    • @laurataylor4772
      @laurataylor4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @pourladentelle
    @pourladentelle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    he's soo handsome!!! That story was sad; you can tell there was more to share that continues to break his heart.

  • @annisarheannon
    @annisarheannon 7 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    and bryan said dean should worry because of his age and level of maturity, compared to rachel! i admire dean a lot after this episode

    • @kallie1963
      @kallie1963 7 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      annisam exactly! and it's the same age difference between bryan and rachel, is he questioning her maturity level compared to himself? 🤔 #doublestandard

    • @queenmalin1537
      @queenmalin1537 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      annisam me 2

    • @tini96
      @tini96 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Is it bad that I can't understand how someone kind of good looking can be so nice and sweet (not just him in this vid but other vids)? Like him to not be obsessed with himself and arrogant. He just doesn't come off that way but it is TV w/ editing.

    • @laurataylor4772
      @laurataylor4772 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bbhuuu iii uhb

  • @crownburgersrock12
    @crownburgersrock12 7 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    So like, If she doesn't pick him, can she send him my way?

  • @thisuser1580
    @thisuser1580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is why you can't open up to people who won't be there for you in the long run. It leaves nothing but more pain to the wound.

  • @apostleozzie198
    @apostleozzie198 7 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    This just made me love Dean even more

  • @emilylondon8129
    @emilylondon8129 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh my goodness... he is so genuine this really moved me

  • @MsQueenOfHearts2
    @MsQueenOfHearts2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I really hate that Dean had to open up like this on TV especially since there's a chance he might not win

    • @tini96
      @tini96 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah there's something weird or risky about that. He's never told one of his girlfriends that? Didn't they ask him?

    • @Tsitsi414
      @Tsitsi414 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually think it was a good idea to face and articulate his feelings to the world, he can now move on. I thinks this was actually the beginning of a healing process. Thank you Rachel for giving a much needed listening ear. Dean is an amazing man and this Bachelorette experience with the other guys and Rachel am sure worked to mould him into an even better man.

  • @arielleschwartz1298
    @arielleschwartz1298 7 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    I think dean should be the next bachelor

    • @beatrizgillespie8984
      @beatrizgillespie8984 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Arielle Schwartz for sure

    • @lifeofmarissa9507
      @lifeofmarissa9507 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Arielle Schwartz he can't

    • @madisonfirth6464
      @madisonfirth6464 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marissa Smith y lol

    • @lifeofmarissa9507
      @lifeofmarissa9507 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Madison Firth because he's with a girl from nicks season now. so he can't be the bachelor unless they break up from the time now to the after the final rose

    • @madisonfirth6464
      @madisonfirth6464 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marissa Smith oh so that confirms he's not her fiancé

  • @raysh2
    @raysh2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Can I marry dean or

  • @lollol6710
    @lollol6710 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can totally relate to his story my mom died in October of cancer too. Someday he will have his own family when he is ready

  • @aaliyahbrooks1073
    @aaliyahbrooks1073 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If Dean don't win I hope he's the next Bachelor he's very nice and sweet.

  • @DestinyC1020
    @DestinyC1020 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I LOVE Dean!!!!!

    • @mmdmmj1
      @mmdmmj1 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea I felt bad too. I dont think Rachael should have asked him about his mom's passing

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      ^^^ don't worry.Dean liked it .he said it felt good to FINALLY open up

    • @mmdmmj1
      @mmdmmj1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sparks...I think Dean was just saying that. I don't think he really meant it.

    • @MegaCadette55
      @MegaCadette55 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mjbaybgurl not reall,trust me.He wrote a whole book of caption on his mom pic's a day after this episode.if he didn't like,he wouldn't have posted and wrote a whole novel about it.plus he said that he got to inspire others to open up.Plus,if he didn't want to share,he would have just said "my mom passed of cancer"and not add all those details.At the end of the day,I am like him,i dont talk about my sorrow coz i hate to burden people but when sb shows me that they care,i put it all on the table

    • @DestinyC1020
      @DestinyC1020 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Actually, I'm kind of glad she asked. It helped him to open up and share something he hasn't shared to most people. I think if he didn't want to go into it, he wouldn't have gone any further. But obviously he wanted to tell the whole story. It can be very cathartic to finally express your feelings about something that you don't really get to talk about much.
      Plus, it would have been really weird (and kind of flippant if you ask me) if he mentioned that "everything went downhill after my mom died" and she just stared at him blankly and asked: "so...what's your favorite color?" LOL!

  • @funchik93
    @funchik93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm crying so much watching this. I knew his mom passed, but I didn't know how. This popped in my recommendations and npw I'm sobbing.

  • @gak2008
    @gak2008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    he has been my fav since the i wanna go black and never go back comment. i didn't take it personally. but sadly, i don't think she chooses him. wish him the best though.

  • @RaeAlexandria
    @RaeAlexandria 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If dean or peter doesn't win I'm rioting

  • @jenniferalvarez1383
    @jenniferalvarez1383 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I hate it , when I see Dean crying

  • @justeneida
    @justeneida 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My heart just broke

  • @HS-jh5bd
    @HS-jh5bd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Dean is soooo hottttttt omg I'm dying

  • @miajones9450
    @miajones9450 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want Dean to be the next Bachelor and I want to see him happy he deserves it. 👏🏽

  • @jasonmcnate1856
    @jasonmcnate1856 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ouf. This is a lot to take as a kid. No one should go through this. I am so so deeply sorry, Dean. My prayers to you.

  • @sunlit_autumn
    @sunlit_autumn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Damn dean had a rough life

  • @larissasanchez7366
    @larissasanchez7366 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    im so mad because DeMario had an interview with E News and said dean was in bachelor in paradise. So now we know he doesn't get the final rose

  • @beatrizgillespie8984
    @beatrizgillespie8984 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    looooove him

  • @yeehaw564
    @yeehaw564 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Dean!!!

  • @Faithajonay
    @Faithajonay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i feel like she made a mistake but this is just me watching through the computer ... i hope she made a good choice for herself. i #teamrachel #teamdean

  • @alethabrown1427
    @alethabrown1427 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hate to say, Rachel made a big mistake letting go of you. Thank you for telling us your story. 💖 You and your family are in my prayers stay encouraged, God bless you Dean.

  • @taneshiadavis4275
    @taneshiadavis4275 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i
    love dean he shud win

  • @rebeccaedythyaya7684
    @rebeccaedythyaya7684 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, this man is canon ...

  • @rroygbivable
    @rroygbivable 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I don't want Rachel to choose Dean so Dean can be the next Bachelor.

    • @lifeofmarissa9507
      @lifeofmarissa9507 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rainbow Sanchez he can't be the next bachelor

    • @alyreadsbooks7560
      @alyreadsbooks7560 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marissa Smith why?

    • @lifeofmarissa9507
      @lifeofmarissa9507 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stalia4ever Shamelesslyafangirl because he's dating a girl from nicks seasons now. so unless they break up he can't be the bachelor

    • @tini96
      @tini96 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg what who's the girl? Not Corinne lmao.

  • @carly911
    @carly911 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    She didn't seem like she cared much about his story or anything or maybe it's just me because I'm here crying after watching it twice... I love him

    • @daks84
      @daks84 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      she did care she was crying in her ITM, she said she didn't want to cry in front of him so that he wouldn't cry more, and clearly they had a long discussion about it because you can see her talking to him, but we can't hear anything. He wouldn't have written an entire post dedicated to thanking her for this moment if she didn't care.

    • @tini96
      @tini96 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What's itm? Where is this post? You shouldn't think that everyone cries the same way. For example some ppl cry in movies and some don't. It just doesn't trigger their crying but they still care and have deep emotions. She actually looks like my high school guidance counselor's facial expressions when you talk about your problem haha

  • @virginiaguia6042
    @virginiaguia6042 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope he is the next bachelor!

  • @vanessakabunda3241
    @vanessakabunda3241 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dean😍

  • @lollol6710
    @lollol6710 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would of picked Dean. He is very sweet

  • @SwaggerChiick1
    @SwaggerChiick1 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dean. When Rachel gives you up (I think she's great but I don't think you guys are necessarily meant to be)....I'll be right here waiting for you! (cue the music).

  • @chinchilla8082
    @chinchilla8082 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want him to be with Rachel or be the next bachlor

  • @KindaSorta451
    @KindaSorta451 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I cried like a little bitch wowooow

  • @sarahkelly3234
    @sarahkelly3234 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Really interesting how they think exposure & weakness of your life experiences makes for good TV. How does this benefit in finding love? We should not be hearing this conversation.

  • @LovedByYou
    @LovedByYou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    DeanforBachelor??? Hmmm

  • @fleurgi
    @fleurgi 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope he is the next Bachelor! Do not want Peter or anyone else to get it!

  • @memelydia
    @memelydia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I will marry you dean !

  • @tigerkhanshort7868
    @tigerkhanshort7868 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope Rachel picks Dean.

  • @WordArtistry2011
    @WordArtistry2011 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OMG I LOVE DEAN! HE'S SEXY AND ADORABLE!
    If he doesn't get the final rose, he should be the next Bachelor...but I got a feeling he may be thinking of Rachel for a little while lol.

  • @paulaangeli5862
    @paulaangeli5862 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dean is fucking beautiful

  • @bony0889
    @bony0889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who is here watching this in 2019 , after the 2 BIP seasons Dean's bin it, and wondering: who is this guy? He s a Damm good actor!

    • @jennaj8141
      @jennaj8141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PALLABI DEY lol right and all the comments wanted him to be bachelor😂

  • @katrinakajal1294
    @katrinakajal1294 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He opened up to him witch he never did to anyone else yet she sent him home last night? Why?😡

    • @daks84
      @daks84 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i think because as she said in her post and as he has since said, why he doesn't want to be the bachelor, that he still has a lot of learning to do about himself and personal growth to go through before he can be the bachelor. He just started dealing with these emotions from the past 10 YEARS with Rachel. I also believe this is why he made the statement that he will never truly be over Rachel, because she opened him up.

  • @duetromony28-22
    @duetromony28-22 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I think dean is a cutie.. but can someone invite his pants down to his shoes so they can join the party

  • @kourtneydouthard-becker1501
    @kourtneydouthard-becker1501 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😟😢😔

  • @adithalee8660
    @adithalee8660 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Rachel was stupid to let this guy go.

  • @michaelgarcia7990
    @michaelgarcia7990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    And she didnt pick him 😳

    • @jessysotnas
      @jessysotnas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Have you seen his path since this? You still think he was ready to be a married man at this point?

    • @emibug
      @emibug 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      jessysotnas the show allowed him to open up to unresolved issues in his life and he’s working through them like a human.

  • @angelm4335
    @angelm4335 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why does he look like Mr beast

  • @desterya1913
    @desterya1913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    October 21st 2006 was a Saturday... not a Tuesday...

    • @lilyzemengist8091
      @lilyzemengist8091 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Destiny Angel
      That's what you got out of that conversation, Utterly Rude you Are.

    • @karlynnward2277
      @karlynnward2277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Destiny Angel sad you took the time to actually go and look that up.

    • @desterya1913
      @desterya1913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's not that hard. Takes all of 5 seconds to google the date. Don't get me wrong I like the show but I think this guy is full of shit if I'm going to be blunt. He looked like he was making this shit up and boom. Picked a random date and made the mistake of associating it with an actual weekday he claims to remember so clearly... but it wasn't a Tuesday... so... oopsie

    • @karlynnward2277
      @karlynnward2277 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Destiny Angel okay he got a date wrong.. so what😂😂😂 I am pretty sure he wouldn't lie about his mother dying. And nobody is going to be composed when talking about a relative that died. What a shame you think he's lying. I feel bad for you.

    • @desterya1913
      @desterya1913 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Karlynn Ward welcome to reality TV. people make up shit all the time so they become the favorite of the show. So.

  • @alicelanghans3575
    @alicelanghans3575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dean can do better than Rachel

    • @elenajoseph6630
      @elenajoseph6630 ปีที่แล้ว

      he did. He's getting married next year to Caelynn who was on Colton's season