3 'Smart' Habits That Are Sabotaging Your Success

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  • @a_.wallflower
    @a_.wallflower 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I love how effortlessly you explain things that feel so complicated in my head! As a shy and underconfident 23 year old, I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone this year. And although I've managed to do so at times, I've also failed miserably in many cases. I feel this video will give me the boost of confidence and reassurance I need whenever fear gets the best of me. :) So, thank you, Nischa!

  • @virgil4344
    @virgil4344 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    All of your points are typically valid, but this 2nd point you made about fear disguised as wisdom was a highlight for me.

    • @XandroLaid
      @XandroLaid 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My dad has been telling me my whole life "Baby, you don't get or stay rich by spending money you don't have to." So *suluxy* are my go-to.

  • @tikojeff
    @tikojeff 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Great point of view Nischa. I love your positive attitude !

  • @BehaviorCoachNeysa
    @BehaviorCoachNeysa 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Doing informs deciding. Just keep doing the next thing. Progress not perfection. "Failure" is just valuable information.

    • @rob4263
      @rob4263 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Or maybe there's no such thing as failure. Only success and learning opportunities. The greater the challenge, the greater the learning opportunity.

  • @flcMorsalin
    @flcMorsalin 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow, this video really hit home! It’s crazy how some habits that seem like good decisions can actually keep us stuck in a rut. I never realized how much comfort zones, perfectionism, and people-pleasing were holding me back. Thanks for breaking it down and giving actionable steps to start moving forward. Time to make some changes! 💡

  • @affordablevs
    @affordablevs 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Your first point about fear is absolutely right! Fear i would say is the number one reason that 90% of people don't go with a business idea or set up their own thing. Instead we play safe and take the wage and thus keep hold of the safety blanket.... When i let this go - it is the most alive i have felt, honestly. Unfortunately like a lot of businesses in the financial crash i fell foul of it and ultimately took the 'job' again for a steady wage for my young family at the time.... Fast forward touching 50 and still in another 'job' chasing targets, stressed, miserable, feeling trapped.... Let the fear go kids, of don't even have any in the first place!

    • @XandroLaid
      @XandroLaid 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      *suluxy* is your partner in young people’s fashion journey

  • @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau
    @LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The livestream was so good. Thank you again! I am feeling like I'm in a rollercoaster. Sometimes I'm brave and sometimes I'm fearful.

  • @thomasdesalle9183
    @thomasdesalle9183 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Nischa! I have watched some of your financial videos before just out of interest. This video applies to so many people and really you just described all my current struggles. I hope I manage to change my ways. I need to start benefiting from the compound interest!

  • @SwantjeDieme
    @SwantjeDieme 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So helpful, as always!
    And by the way, your workshop was great and gave me some really good inspiration, which I worked on that very evening ✨

  • @abubakerbugembe7000
    @abubakerbugembe7000 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video. It's just a reflection I needed in my life now. The thermometer trap is something that I have been so trapped in and now realising that at 90 years and looking back at my life, I will only look at what I missed, not how badly I tried.

  • @chadmeyer-iw7yy
    @chadmeyer-iw7yy 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    This is GOLD! Thank you so much Nischa

  • @tjcheck1714
    @tjcheck1714 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thanks Nischa... Very insightful and just what I need to get a move on. Real!

  • @pecelirovucago7149
    @pecelirovucago7149 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I’m going to share this video with my Fijian tribe meeting later next month… thank you Nischa.

  • @R3X554
    @R3X554 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Acting lessons taught Mr how to express myself in all odd and different ways but at the end of what feels like humiliation actually flipped into confidence 😮

  • @sonyawix5871
    @sonyawix5871 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is extremely valuable! The way you frame all these seemingly simple truths is so spot on, its really hits you. Thank you❤

  • @WriterandPhotographer
    @WriterandPhotographer 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Your real friends are the people who tell you the truth.

  • @mythjulia
    @mythjulia 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so grateful this video and channel got into my recommendations on TH-cam. So inspiring and exactly at the right time when I feel stuck. Thank you for your effort

  • @Ryan256
    @Ryan256 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This would be a great video to watch at the start of every day. ⭐️

  • @analisamendmentblog
    @analisamendmentblog 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This video was such good motivation! I realized that I have fallen for all of these with my French language learning. I have been planning to participate in a Meetup for French conversation and kept putting it off. Saying that I have to practice more. That I should hire a tutor first, etc. Your example of the loss of compound interest especially hit home. Oh, and looking back when I'm 90. Whew! If I had been participating in these conversations for the time that I have delayed it, I would be so much better now! And my 90 year old self would regret putting this off. Anyway, there is a Meetup online tonight that I just signed up for! I'm not ready and I will sound horrible, but oh well. Maybe in six months I will be a lot better! Thank you for the advice Nischa!

  • @nannaz16
    @nannaz16 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    the procastination one got me very indentified :(

  • @WealthyChronicle
    @WealthyChronicle 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Comfort zone or growth zone? I’ve been stuck in the first one for way too long. The key takeaway here: Surround yourself with people who push you to do the impossible.

  • @HariV2025
    @HariV2025 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much Nischa, again so much wisdom, knowledge and insight conveyed with clarity and charisma 🙏

  • @dhara_jtw
    @dhara_jtw 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Nisha! Your content is amazing 🎥 I'm working full-time in banking like you were, and while I'm passionate about TH-cam, I struggle to build momentum since my day job takes most of my energy and focus. Would you be able to do a video about how you balanced growing your channel alongside your banking career? Especially in those early days. Thanks for inspiring us working professionals trying to build something on the side 🙌🏾

  • @ryans_life
    @ryans_life 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brilliant video especially trap 3 tends to reoccur with me. Learning to simplify it and just do it now

  • @ananascarpenter
    @ananascarpenter 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow this video is both confronting and eye-opening at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @Jany27
    @Jany27 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This was really motivational

  • @Kainthemain
    @Kainthemain 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Never think of the past, whats gone is gone. Just focus on now

  • @srirajmavila5234
    @srirajmavila5234 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amazing content i have ever watched , Thanks for sharing your knowledge😍

  • @discipulo-de-satoshi
    @discipulo-de-satoshi วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks a lot Nischa! Incredible advices 🙏

  • @samirpatel4279
    @samirpatel4279 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great video thanks for posting, simplicity is the best target for action.

  • @aartiebhwnbhk1270
    @aartiebhwnbhk1270 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I tend to fall into the 'maybe tomorrow' trap. Thank you for the insights; I'll start working on it, today 😊

  • @Marie-s6g
    @Marie-s6g 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +357

    For all the women out there, I would strongly recommend to read "The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden".

    • @maryclaire340
      @maryclaire340 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Spam!

    • @XandroLaid
      @XandroLaid 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My dad has been telling me my whole life "Baby, you don't get or stay rich by spending money you don't have to." So *suluxy* are my go-to.

  • @akib289
    @akib289 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent Channel. Great Content. Got So many Valuable finance Related Advices Which are Extremely Helpful 🙏

  • @lionheartjhames
    @lionheartjhames 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really love this. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:00 Don’t let FEAR make your decisions
    4:40 The maybe tomorrow trap
    6:50 The complexity trap

  • @changemoney9935
    @changemoney9935 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All your videos are great but this one my friend...this one was life changing.

  • @MalcolmREBORN
    @MalcolmREBORN 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for a remarkable push. You have no idea what you just did.

  • @jairsaydferreira
    @jairsaydferreira 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am a great fan of yours from Brazil, the country where 72% of the people have debts.

  • @oliviahayler9040
    @oliviahayler9040 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I needed that today Nischa! Thanks :)

  • @happygoluckystar8069
    @happygoluckystar8069 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks a million Nisha ❤ your videos are always a foof for thoughts for me!

  • @diosadeamore
    @diosadeamore 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you!

  • @davyhype6502
    @davyhype6502 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow those were really eye opening, thank you ❤

  • @VivaLaFamous
    @VivaLaFamous 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I See A New Nischa Video… I CLICK!!!

  • @drnicolebeaumont7884
    @drnicolebeaumont7884 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As always some great tough luv. Thanks.🎉

  • @StepchyldeThaPhoenix
    @StepchyldeThaPhoenix 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wowwwww I so needed this. Thank you!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @alanasimonecoach2226
    @alanasimonecoach2226 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is such a great video and needed this morning. I'm starting a tik tok cooking journey, and this has helped me so much ... thanks Nischa

  • @randxalthor
    @randxalthor 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Loved the video! I've definitely put myself into the trap of overpreparing over and over. Whenever my circumstances push me to make a move I'm not "ready" for, then I make progress.

  • @realwithjain
    @realwithjain 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve recently turned 24. Left my big corporate job and now creating multiple sources of income for myself :)

  • @vinodpund1574
    @vinodpund1574 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wonderful explained about success great

  • @andreibanu390
    @andreibanu390 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great points. My question is, how do you find new friends or new growth-oriented people with same interests as you ?

    • @hawk__
      @hawk__ 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A good question

  • @creativebodyflying
    @creativebodyflying 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good stuff. Complexity trap is real thing )). Maybe tomorrow is also a trap, but this one doesn't bother me so much. If I wanna do it, I'll do it.

  • @karinefrommontreal
    @karinefrommontreal 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Nisha❤Im definitely guilty of the complexity trap, Im looking to start an online business but honestly only knows what i dont want (I dont want to be in public eyes). Im dedicated 1h/day to find an idea so I can actually do it, I find it so hard 😅

  • @premmagar1170
    @premmagar1170 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video..thanku

  • @nicholasmontano2986
    @nicholasmontano2986 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The thermometer analogy is great! Is this something you came up with on your own?! Really resonates quite well

  • @13ankur
    @13ankur 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    LOve You NIscha!!😍

  • @jaya570
    @jaya570 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Simply great! Very very true!

  • @monicaaltamira
    @monicaaltamira 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video. Really eye-opening

  • @ACHRAF1644
    @ACHRAF1644 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you very much
    Very helpful video ❤

  • @annaryzha
    @annaryzha 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love it! Wow! Thank you! I made all the changes I needed in the beginning of 2024, but it is funny and enlightening to hear you name the traps I have fallen into in the past, coz I did not really knew this is what it was.. I just thought: "I am scared" :D

  • @B2BDemandMarketingWithSheri
    @B2BDemandMarketingWithSheri 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Nischa, I'm curious: which camera are you using to shoot your videos?

  • @Jul_llianne
    @Jul_llianne 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is such a beautiful video oh my goodness

  • @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel
    @DeclanHiggins-YoutubeChannel 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes I agree Nisha live streams are quite daunting. Meeting like minded people definitely helps Thanks for your helpful advice as always, Declan 😊

  • @bilbai2024
    @bilbai2024 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent video

  • @jsg_x_id
    @jsg_x_id 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello Nischa, the complexity trap struck me… I’m on the process of building a branding agency and, given that I don’t have a portfolio with branding experience, what I decided to do is build one. I share it in TH-cam with weekly videos. I am planning to do 3 projects (1 done, 2nd in the making, 3rd to be done) and then off to acquire customers, with a believable portfolio, so people can see I mean what I do. Am I falling in the trap? Or do I have an entirely different problem…?😅

  • @TheMammoth88
    @TheMammoth88 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Fantastic advices as usual! 😊

    • @HariV2025
      @HariV2025 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      💯

  • @drpankajwalecha
    @drpankajwalecha 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fantastic video Nischa 😊👍

  • @AH-jb5ul
    @AH-jb5ul 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are creative

  • @walkswith
    @walkswith 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I wish I knew a way of thanking you for this video.

  • @robertpearce7795
    @robertpearce7795 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    3 habits keeping me stuck:
    Staying up too late.
    Too much mobile phone.
    Too much... sorry, can't tell you the last one 😇

  • @mariamnagujjatheladiesguid8757
    @mariamnagujjatheladiesguid8757 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    U are good dear. Thx

  • @maximuselise69
    @maximuselise69 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +465

    XAI19K is still extremely undervalued

  • @Cheesecake-hp6od
    @Cheesecake-hp6od 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I’m going to clean my room

  • @Ogeztvlearning
    @Ogeztvlearning 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow ,thanks I learnt alot ,❤❤

  • @nico-ng3pt
    @nico-ng3pt 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Awesome ❤

  • @whitechocolate072
    @whitechocolate072 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed this video at this moment in my life. After redundancy I lost my mojo. Thanks

  • @nilshah6521
    @nilshah6521 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Excellent video very useful for me & everyone thinks a million
    God bless 🙌 you Ashirwad

  • @revre
    @revre 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great content! I like this perspective.

  • @npestrov
    @npestrov 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let’s gooo!

  • @hannahjohnson2944
    @hannahjohnson2944 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great content! I love the questions to ask yourself at the end of the video.

  • @wynnwright8191
    @wynnwright8191 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That'll preach. *drops planner and does something*

  • @mohdalikm
    @mohdalikm 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Well explained

  • @jamesburrell8782
    @jamesburrell8782 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Procrastination is my comfort blanket but I get around it by applying an 80/20 rule - get stuff done quickly and don’t worry about perfection

  • @XandroLaid
    @XandroLaid 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    *suluxy* is your partner in young people’s fashion journey

  • @nolonwaboyisaka6648
    @nolonwaboyisaka6648 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    to simplify the solution id start there.

  • @CatherineDavid-lq5ld
    @CatherineDavid-lq5ld 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel called out by the maybe tomorrow trap...

  • @petitemmanuel3199
    @petitemmanuel3199 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow Beautiful message there

  • @ligiagroenewoud4603
    @ligiagroenewoud4603 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Fear is ALWAYS a bad adviser.

  • @lunam.9640
    @lunam.9640 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Gold 💫

  • @lukepaziewski
    @lukepaziewski 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    How do you find the drive to earn money? I feel like being broke is my natural state of mind-it pushes me to hustle. But whenever I earn more, I lose motivation and wait until I don’t have enough again to feel driven.

    • @rinnin
      @rinnin 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Setting SMART goals & targets?

    • @kazerzozay
      @kazerzozay 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      When you start investing and see your money work for you. Then you are going to want to invest more

    • @PonderDuke
      @PonderDuke 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Find something fun to do that also earns enough money. If it's just about the money it seems not sustainable. Find goals and a process towards that goals that make you happy. For many people, helping other people will make them happy. You can create a business from it. Win win = happy happy

    • @boiseraise
      @boiseraise 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      That’s a good question and she answered you, it boils down to your environment. She answered at the start of the vid. You can know all the tricks, if energy is not there it becomes really hard. Am in the same boat as you. That’s why I made it my goal to go and find like minded people.

    • @randxalthor
      @randxalthor 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      What are your retirement goals? My bet is that, right now, you don't believe you'll ever be able to retire. Once you start believing that long term goals are possible with the money you earn, it will become easy to save.

  • @nitinpai
    @nitinpai 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

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  • @RahulChoudhary-t1z
    @RahulChoudhary-t1z 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why not you try for modelling

  • @TVSERIES211
    @TVSERIES211 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    thank you very much🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ioannis6266
    @ioannis6266 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Εxcellent content.

  • @syedsaadali8780
    @syedsaadali8780 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    your voice coming from only one earpiece of headphones.

  • @Discovery-princess
    @Discovery-princess 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Always be yourself.Never let anybody tell you what You can and can't do. You drive your own future. Just like everybody else.😊 And the most important thing is always keep that small white.😁

  • @thaianh7709
    @thaianh7709 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    • @ScottJohn-t1c
      @ScottJohn-t1c 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Please how ?

    • @ScottJohn-t1c
      @ScottJohn-t1c 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭 of myself because of low finance but I still believe God😞

  • @thutont6532
    @thutont6532 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    How many tiktok accounts do you have?

  • @theluschmasterinc
    @theluschmasterinc 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    so important to not be moved by fear when it comes to money matters

  • @BiGreatGarraD
    @BiGreatGarraD 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Just recording videos

  • @robwaz1547
    @robwaz1547 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🐓💩……🤬 just do it 😰……😅🍾🥂🥉 YOU ARE SO RIGHT , easier said than done . Inside yourself know it truly has to be done. 🎯💐😮‍💨