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The best books don't tell you anything new. It just proves what you had in your head, but could get that together. Thank you for reminding me who I am.
@@JulienHimselfI love all the videos julien. Really helps me to always go back and learn to let go and listen to something when I need to go back to address it. Been watching since your dad says. God bless!!
Julien you made me realize I am my own biggest enemy. I’ve been wanting to start a podcast on self development and my weighloss and the thought came when I watched this video, I noticed my brain and it immediately told me reasons why I can’t do it, “more eyes on me, I’m not capable to be disciplined in posting and so on” I’m gonna reflect on those. Thank you 🌟
00:00 🎮 Embrace the idea of viewing life as a video game to reflect on how you're living it and whether you'd be proud of your choices. 05:57 🚀 Dream big and don't let others discourage you from pursuing your goals, even if they seem unrealistic. 08:02 💡 Break down your dreams into their core components to find fulfilling alternatives if your original plan isn't feasible. 13:46 🌊 Embrace life's ups and downs, as they are what make the journey interesting and provide opportunities for growth. 16:03 🔍 Look for the lessons and blessings hidden within adversity, and consider adopting different perspectives to navigate tough times. 19:23 💪 Use whatever mindset or perspective helps you during challenging times, even if it seems unconventional or dark.
All the adding on I was doing all my life had push me close to the edge now I feel free asf after letting go I realized the identity I adopted was what was causing the resistance because I had to constantly seek validation for it thank you 💯
Thanks for everything that you do Julien. Your vibe, energy and the way you deliver content is unmatched by anyone. You've helped me a ton. Sending love and good vibes from Croatia!
Been going through your vids lately, feeling a light come back, an excitement, the want to live without human approval. I know I'm not a complete failure and a-hole like I tell myself, I don't have to hide and be on my own, this I already knew, but I didn't believe it. And today, listening to your stuff, slowly confirms that, thank you.
Hello, thanks for that speech. I am from Azerbaijan,and you are speaking like my very loved xutba speaker (religous speecher) [Haci Sahin xutba] and father[Tahir Muradov Quran]❤ I know What i heard by you is real reality.
Hi julien, i have a question for you, you always talk about the method: trigger, release, repeat, But i have a problem doing it because when you are triggered, you are in most of the cases in a social situation ok? Exactly, so when i go home in my room and i start letting go, i have no more the anxiety in my body and letting go is not very effective, so what you think i should do?
Hey Julien, thanks so much for your videos. It’s clear you love what you do. In this video you shared that you weren’t always confident. Do you have a video that explains what the turning point was for you?? ❤️ was your transformation self-directed or was there a particular resource that made a difference for you?
I like this especially at a time that we barely buried my childhood best friend/brother. It's fkn crazy and I can't believe it, been on my mind since, yet going thru doing what I have to do.
1-2 years ago you said affirmations aren't really helpful. Do you still think so and which manifestation technique do you think is the best? Beste Grüße aus Frankfurt!
Affirmations are great in order to trigger inner resistance which you can then let go of… However if you’re just using them to BS your subconscious, then no.
@@JulienHimself why wouldn’t it work that the thoughts of your subconscious changed after listening to affirmations? you fill these information in your brain, I mean if you watch many negative or depressive stuff, this also influence you and you manifesting negative thoughts.
Julien I watched the majority of videos where you put people on the spot and I really wonder what they enjoy more: to be authentic in front of a crowd or the intimacy you create in order to get them to do that… if I was there on stage and you’d ask me these questions that show so much care I would have butterflies. Would love to hear your thoughts on this
Wow this answer surprises me - hard to believe. Deep down Im afraid that I would be abusing such coaching to satisfy a need for intimacy and emotional intensity, more than to become authentic. It inhibits me and makes me feel guilty for wanting it. As if I am secretly getting something dirty out of it
@@itgirl959 some advice, try to have a few friends/people that you can rely on and open up to satisfy that need, even online friends as it can make it easier for you to feel comfortable doing so. Personally, it helped me a lot, as I feel that intimacy and emotional intensity are naturally created when you are your authentic self to someone and they are accepting of it, and it also gives you more confidence to be your authentic self in general situations.
In a way by wearing this crazy stuff it proves he really DOES CARE what others think not the opposite. He is trying to convey that he doesn't give a fuck, but if he had less of an ego he would wear more simple or "normal attire".
We moved to Switzerland 🇨🇭fabulous country! Certainly wouldn’t want to move to USA 😂…totally different life story to yours that’s all. All about perspectives…! Great video - all true btw. it isn’t all figured out by 51 😜…I’ve had to heal from an abusive narcissistic mother most my life. 🙏
Do you think watching such videos frequently + taking action will build the beliefs you talk about? Or is it more mental masturbation you think? And another question regarding affirmations. Do you think recording your own affirmations and listening to them (not speaking out loud) whilst working (so your focus is not on them and you unconsciousness will absorb it probably - no ego involved) will adopt the mindset you want to adopt?
Identify your skill gap --> learn the principle--> apply in real life---> evaluate ---> and repeat . You are what you think . Every thought good or bad always involves faith whether you’re conscious about it or not . Don’t over complicate it brother. Just be who you want to be. You have no limitations
My ideal life is marrying my friend whom I love a lot. But she doesn't. I want to travel with her, spend my life with her. It's not that I can't do this alone but I don't want to. I want to have a family of my own with her. I wish she was mine. I am quite awesome myself. I live a great life. Have great friends. But I still want her. And want to make some awesome moments with her in my life. Not sure how do I do it
By wearing the crazy outfit he is trying to convey that he doesn't give a fuck. However to me it proves that he really DOES CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK. If he had less of an ego he would be more humble and feel free to wear more casual or "normal attire ". Calling you out Julian! Lol
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not a bad thing imo
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not necessarily a bad thing imo
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not necessarily a bad thing imo
My avatar insured that the same results would occur no matter how much I tried to change its appearance. I am a prisoner of my unacceptable appearance. Crooked teeth and glasses is like a life sentence insuring nothing but loneliness. Wouldn’t matter if you were well dressed and confident. When people look at that… They associate that with Pebody and Sherman. Or Mandark. Or Dexters Lab. Or Napoleon Dynomite. Or Ercle. Think of any character with glasses and crooked teeth ever portrayed in music or movies… Every time someone looks like that they are portrayed as weak, foolish, stupid, funny, the comedy relief character, the idiot, the one who couldn’t possibly be trusted with anything, the hill billy, the weirdo, the nose picker… In a society that based their self worth on external beauty, how much they own, and how well they can perform. Looking like that may as well be a life sentence of pure exclusion… It’s hard to sell glasses and crooked teeth. You can’t present it well except in nerd cloths or emo cloths… There are only two looks that don’t clash with glasses and crooked teeth. My Chemical Romance. And… Mandark… And in your desperate attempts to prove to the world that you are acceptable and worth something… You will never prove them or yourself wrong. It is worse an avatar than Mouse Fenbar…. Strength is my weakness… Cake is my weakness… And my job is to hand stuff out of Bravestones stupid back pack… I have no endurance… No strength… I’m just the stupid, weak, wimpy, good for nothing supporting character that everybody ignores and makes fun of. I am stripped of all pride… I am stripped of all dignity… I am stripped of all acceptability… I may as well be given a life sentence in jail… No beach side dates with a fine lovely woman for me… And no steak dinner ever… unless it’s alone surrounded by couples humiliated in my own booth… When I return the game… If I returned the game today… I’d say it was rigged. It was rigged to ensure I’d be alone. It was rigged to set me apart and to steal all my chances… It was rigged to silence me, render me unconfident, and tease me into thinking there was actual hope if only I had made a few changes to my characters appearance and the way I played the game. Turns out…. I have to accept my mouse fenbar level of avatar and character exactly as is and I have to play it by the script and just deal with how pathetic and useless it looks… I couldn’t be Dr Smolder Bravestone. I couldn’t be a lead character that everybody trusts and respects and accepts who is judged fairly. I will always be assumed by my appearances, disadvantages, mistakes, and I’ll never get out of the shadow of how pathetic I am on the outside. Oh, And this isn’t putting myself down. It’s an observation of how and why people keep putting me down. Because on the inside… I feel like Dr Bravestone. But nobody else sees it that way but me. That’s part of the joke… The prison. Only I get to see that I am capable of so much more than my appearances would lead others to believe. It’s a cage… Nobody wants to give the stupid, vulnerable, weak looking, foolish looking person…. A chance… So I remain picked last at everything… I struggle to be experienced… I have to teach myself everything… And I have to do everything on my own the hardest way possible. But, At some point… I gave up and just became the imprisoned servant and nobody that I’ll always be… Because no amount of talent, skill, possessions, beauty, or anything required… Is going to cause anybody to overlook my glasses and crooked teeth. People remind me every day how heavily disadvantaged, vulnerable, and weak I look… I look like I’m good for nothing… Not good enough to be a boyfriend or husband… Not good enough to be friends… Not good enough to be the golden child at home… I’m just this great big disappointment because I didn’t turn out to be the quarterback super star… And… All I ever amounted to in the end was… A silenced caged bird that couldn’t even sing getting older and older and older…. With zero progress… While I watch others get to level 34 and beyond…. I’m still stuck at level 1… Without a chance… I guess in the end… No matter what… You’re just an unacceptable glitch. The only thing left to do now is just quit and go through the motions giving up and taking what I can get. None of it matters anymore. All I’m good for is cheap labor and being rejected… Buying material possessions… Watching movies fantasizing about what it would be like to be one of them… While I fade away in loneliness. Like I said… Only I could cover Natalie imbrugallas torn in a screamo version that makes everybody cry. That’s the story of my life. Faking a smile isn’t going to fix this. Money and the dentist and lasic might… But no amount of confidence or self help is going to change the fact that other people see me the exact way I wish they wouldn’t.
@@caterina2290 Because, people who live their lives basing their self worth on how beautiful they are, how much they own, and how great their accomplishments are…. View people who own less, have less, and have done less as worthless and of lower demand…. They believe that those down on their luck are scum and that being apart of the solution is too hard…. They look for what ever makes them proud and comfortable and far more advantaged…. Everybody wants to say…. Hey everybody, look at me and how great I am and my magical life and dream come true that makes me more worthy than the rest of you poor suckers….. My life is worth more than yours because I can get more than you…. Even if I was the most handsome man on earth…. Why would I want to associate with friends or girlfriends who only love me for how advantaged and well off they think I am because in some way… It makes them feel better about themselves to be with a handsome guy… They’re not in it for the guy… They’re in it for themselves…. All they care about is themselves… It’s just another one sided selfish relationship with some stupid person who’s only looking to comfort themselves and make themselves feel more valuable. I’m not a gold bar that can make someone feel more ego stroked and more inflated…. The last thing I need is to be a slave to a selfish brat who only loves someone if they’re rich and handsome because it’s the easy way out. Why doesn’t a woman humble herself and work with me the way that I am and be there with me while I’m working on myself instead of waiting for her perfect end result husband… Everybody wants the finished results for themselves…. To make themselves feel glorious… To make themselves feel like number one. Because they just had to have it all…. But when the going gets tough… They move on… That’s not love… I may as well be a stupid sex toy that revolves around her and slaves my butt off for her while she demands that I obsess about her as much as she obsesses about herself looking in her compact mirror praising herself for how all the Men want to be with her and she only fell for me because I was the highest bidder at the time??? She thinks she’s entitled to perfect??? Like she can’t see I’m not the worst that ever lived and that she can encourage me, emotionally support me, kick the weakness out of me like Rukia did for Ichigo…. Sometimes… It takes a great supportive woman to make a Man out of a Boy… Too bad they only exist in Anime’s like bleach…. Where a Woman can love a Man regardless of how weak and pathetic he can be from time to time…. Where she can devote herself to him regardless of what others think of him. Where she can see the best in him and knows how to bring it out for herself. Woman like Rukia don’t exist… Woman these days are all about self obsession and getting men to obsess about them as much as they do. It’s not love… There’s no relationship in it… If a woman can’t see my problems as a misunderstood opportunity now… Than by the time I do have it all and it took me twice as long if not more to do it on my own…. And by the time I do have it all… I’m going to want nothing to do with her. Where was she when I fell and needed help??? Nowhere to be found. Selfish pride in this world won’t overlook a very fixable flaw or two… And it breaks my heart to know that I’ve seen puddles in Arizona in the middle of August deeper than the crowds and hordes of people I’ve met. The problem with self help and self progress isn’t the strength you gain for yourself…. It’s the part when you turn around and realize your surrounded by weak minded fools who think their greater than they really are. It’s when you realize just how alone you really are and how these selfish people really are… It’s when you realize how disconnected and set apart you are and how separated you are. Because you love others… And others love only themselves and their comfort. They seek only to consume… They don’t seek to rescue or restore. They don’t seek to love or cherish. They seek only what they can get out of it. And if I was the most handsome and rich man on earth… It would be difficult to find love even then. That’s what happens when you’re in a world of dreamers who seek comfort and an easy life. They’re selfish spoiled brats… Why would I want to provide them dreams come true… When they should humble themselves and learn that love isn’t about how comfortable or proud I can make you. It wasn’t for Ichigo and Rukia… Love for them was how they were there for each other no matter what. How they supported each other… The trials and tribulations brought them closer… That’s the way it should be. People are stupid, selfish, spoiled, rude, and they fight for their dreams trying to escape their reality…. They can’t see what’s right in front of them…. Am I the only one who realizes this to be true???
Try to do the things you love to do and don't give a fck to the external response. Remember that some changes seem to start very slowly, but it's only matter of shifting perspective. Focus on love, because where attention, energy flows..
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The best books don't tell you anything new. It just proves what you had in your head, but could get that together. Thank you for reminding me who I am.
You're welcome! 🙏
@@JulienHimselfI love all the videos julien. Really helps me to always go back and learn to let go and listen to something when I need to go back to address it. Been watching since your dad says. God bless!!
Julien you made me realize I am my own biggest enemy. I’ve been wanting to start a podcast on self development and my weighloss and the thought came when I watched this video, I noticed my brain and it immediately told me reasons why I can’t do it, “more eyes on me, I’m not capable to be disciplined in posting and so on” I’m gonna reflect on those. Thank you 🌟
Did u start it?? 🥳
@@o0MELLY0o not yet🥹❤️ I will
00:00 🎮 Embrace the idea of viewing life as a video game to reflect on how you're living it and whether you'd be proud of your choices.
05:57 🚀 Dream big and don't let others discourage you from pursuing your goals, even if they seem unrealistic.
08:02 💡 Break down your dreams into their core components to find fulfilling alternatives if your original plan isn't feasible.
13:46 🌊 Embrace life's ups and downs, as they are what make the journey interesting and provide opportunities for growth.
16:03 🔍 Look for the lessons and blessings hidden within adversity, and consider adopting different perspectives to navigate tough times.
19:23 💪 Use whatever mindset or perspective helps you during challenging times, even if it seems unconventional or dark.
"I would rather have a bad day doing something i love than a good day doing something i don't". Love it! 7:35
All the adding on I was doing all my life had push me close to the edge now I feel free asf after letting go I realized the identity I adopted was what was causing the resistance because I had to constantly seek validation for it thank you 💯
As an only child, Julien is like the big brother I've always wanted. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge.
Thanks for everything that you do Julien. Your vibe, energy and the way you deliver content is unmatched by anyone. You've helped me a ton. Sending love and good vibes from Croatia!
Thank you so much! I'm glad my content resonates so deeply with you! 🙏
Been going through your vids lately, feeling a light come back, an excitement, the want to live without human approval. I know I'm not a complete failure and a-hole like I tell myself, I don't have to hide and be on my own, this I already knew, but I didn't believe it. And today, listening to your stuff, slowly confirms that, thank you.
Julien, you‘re my inspiration! I finally stopped dabbling and actively pursue my dreams. Keep the vids coming! 🔥
There is no stopping you when your soul is at the wheel.
Truth, that I know now and wish to knew at 20. But that's life, l love it!
One of your best videos thanks 🔥
I came for the knowledge, but left with jealousy because Julien has an awesome grandma I wish I had.
Hello, thanks for that speech. I am from Azerbaijan,and you are speaking like my very loved xutba speaker (religous speecher) [Haci Sahin xutba] and father[Tahir Muradov Quran]❤
I know What i heard by you is real reality.
This message come to me in the right time. Thank you!
You're welcome! 🙌
Hi julien, i have a question for you, you always talk about the method: trigger, release, repeat, But i have a problem doing it because when you are triggered, you are in most of the cases in a social situation ok? Exactly, so when i go home in my room and i start letting go, i have no more the anxiety in my body and letting go is not very effective, so what you think i should do?
Hey Julien, thanks so much for your videos. It’s clear you love what you do. In this video you shared that you weren’t always confident. Do you have a video that explains what the turning point was for you?? ❤️ was your transformation self-directed or was there a particular resource that made a difference for you?
Mark 8:36: "For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?"
Who are you, Julien? I mean, where were you? So glad we're finally here.
Love u man ! ❤
I like this especially at a time that we barely buried my childhood best friend/brother. It's fkn crazy and I can't believe it, been on my mind since, yet going thru doing what I have to do.
1-2 years ago you said affirmations aren't really helpful. Do you still think so and which manifestation technique do you think is the best? Beste Grüße aus Frankfurt!
Affirmations are great in order to trigger inner resistance which you can then let go of… However if you’re just using them to BS your subconscious, then no.
@@JulienHimself why wouldn’t it work that the thoughts of your subconscious changed after listening to affirmations? you fill these information in your brain, I mean if you watch many negative or depressive stuff, this also influence you and you manifesting negative thoughts.
Thanks for videos, need it when feel bad ❤
You're very welcome... I'm glad this content was helpful for you! 🙏
Julien I watched the majority of videos where you put people on the spot and I really wonder what they enjoy more: to be authentic in front of a crowd or the intimacy you create in order to get them to do that… if I was there on stage and you’d ask me these questions that show so much care I would have butterflies. Would love to hear your thoughts on this
Nothing feels better than TRULY being authentic... 😉
Wow this answer surprises me - hard to believe. Deep down Im afraid that I would be abusing such coaching to satisfy a need for intimacy and emotional intensity, more than to become authentic. It inhibits me and makes me feel guilty for wanting it. As if I am secretly getting something dirty out of it
@@itgirl959 some advice, try to have a few friends/people that you can rely on and open up to satisfy that need, even online friends as it can make it easier for you to feel comfortable doing so. Personally, it helped me a lot, as I feel that intimacy and emotional intensity are naturally created when you are your authentic self to someone and they are accepting of it, and it also gives you more confidence to be your authentic self in general situations.
thank you so much🙏🏻
Gracias Julien eres un chingón, cuando vienes a México compi? Dios, Dios, los angeles te sigan bendiciendo vato!
He said that clothes don't change who you are in another video. Seeing these clothes, I get what he meant.
Didn't watch but liked because Juliens material is worth more than gold!
Love you man.
But also Carl Jung comes from SW 👻
Oh yea the shadow guy 😅👍
Really needed to here this today . Thanks Julien
You're welcome! Glad this resonated with you! 🙏
That outfit though. Peacock style. 😎
In a way by wearing this crazy stuff it proves he really DOES CARE what others think not the opposite. He is trying to convey that he doesn't give a fuck, but if he had less of an ego he would wear more simple or "normal attire".
@@benking9160 I was thinking similar.
We moved to Switzerland 🇨🇭fabulous country! Certainly wouldn’t want to move to USA 😂…totally different life story to yours that’s all. All about perspectives…! Great video - all true btw. it isn’t all figured out by 51 😜…I’ve had to heal from an abusive narcissistic mother most my life. 🙏
Lots of gems in here
Do you think watching such videos frequently + taking action will build the beliefs you talk about? Or is it more mental masturbation you think?
And another question regarding affirmations.
Do you think recording your own affirmations and listening to them (not speaking out loud) whilst working (so your focus is not on them and you unconsciousness will absorb it probably - no ego involved) will adopt the mindset you want to adopt?
Identify your skill gap --> learn the principle--> apply in real life---> evaluate ---> and repeat .
You are what you think . Every thought good or bad always involves faith whether you’re conscious about it or not . Don’t over complicate it brother. Just be who you want to be. You have no limitations
I had very small dreams as a little girl I wanted to be a saleswoman and sell clothes to customers...but it grew after a while and is still growin
Go for it
Notification squad Have a nice weekend!🔥🔥🔥
You too! 🔥👊
@@JulienHimself Thank you!😎✌️
Bro dress is what I used to wear when I am in kindergarten 😅🙂👍
Jordan Peterson: Dream Big! Have purpose & meaning.
Jordan Peterson: Have Small Attainable Goals.
no try to understaind what he meant
Dream big, have purpose and meaning. Set small attainable goals In order to achieve that purpose and meaning.
❤thanks
My ideal life is marrying my friend whom I love a lot. But she doesn't. I want to travel with her, spend my life with her. It's not that I can't do this alone but I don't want to. I want to have a family of my own with her. I wish she was mine. I am quite awesome myself. I live a great life. Have great friends. But I still want her. And want to make some awesome moments with her in my life. Not sure how do I do it
The hard, uncomfortable truth is you find someone else.
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3:34 ‘no one makes it out of Switzerland’ bro what 😂 literally has some of the richest most well travelled people from any country lol
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WOW !!!!!! 🤯🤯🤯
By wearing the crazy outfit he is trying to convey that he doesn't give a fuck. However to me it proves that he really DOES CARE WHAT OTHERS THINK. If he had less of an ego he would be more humble and feel free to wear more casual or "normal attire ". Calling you out Julian! Lol
He just wants to get high off his specialness
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not a bad thing imo
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not necessarily a bad thing imo
If you do coaching and public speaking, you gotta give a fuck, because you’re not just doing it for yourself. I think what you’re talking about is giving a fuck about protecting your ego. However giving a fuck about making an impact is not necessarily a bad thing imo
I like how you wear crazy clothes to show others you dont care and are not stifled👍
I am no longer showing up as anyone but my damn self.
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Julien is the inside joke you have with yourself the zesty clothes you wear for these shows?
This words are only true because Americans won WW2.
If they didn't won the war this men would have banana peels thrown at him.
No pun intended.
screw you as well@@LazarBlagojevic43 .
I don't give a shit anymore.
I'm italian and fascism is in my culture, if you like it or not.
My avatar insured that the same results would occur no matter how much I tried to change its appearance.
I am a prisoner of my unacceptable appearance.
Crooked teeth and glasses is like a life sentence insuring nothing but loneliness.
Wouldn’t matter if you were well dressed and confident.
When people look at that…
They associate that with Pebody and Sherman.
Or Mandark.
Or Dexters Lab.
Or Napoleon Dynomite.
Or Ercle.
Think of any character with glasses and crooked teeth ever portrayed in music or movies…
Every time someone looks like that they are portrayed as weak, foolish, stupid, funny, the comedy relief character, the idiot, the one who couldn’t possibly be trusted with anything, the hill billy, the weirdo, the nose picker…
In a society that based their self worth on external beauty, how much they own, and how well they can perform.
Looking like that may as well be a life sentence of pure exclusion…
It’s hard to sell glasses and crooked teeth.
You can’t present it well except in nerd cloths or emo cloths…
There are only two looks that don’t clash with glasses and crooked teeth.
My Chemical Romance.
And…
Mandark…
And in your desperate attempts to prove to the world that you are acceptable and worth something…
You will never prove them or yourself wrong.
It is worse an avatar than Mouse Fenbar….
Strength is my weakness…
Cake is my weakness…
And my job is to hand stuff out of Bravestones stupid back pack…
I have no endurance…
No strength…
I’m just the stupid, weak, wimpy, good for nothing supporting character that everybody ignores and makes fun of.
I am stripped of all pride…
I am stripped of all dignity…
I am stripped of all acceptability…
I may as well be given a life sentence in jail…
No beach side dates with a fine lovely woman for me…
And no steak dinner ever… unless it’s alone surrounded by couples humiliated in my own booth…
When I return the game…
If I returned the game today…
I’d say it was rigged.
It was rigged to ensure I’d be alone.
It was rigged to set me apart and to steal all my chances…
It was rigged to silence me, render me unconfident, and tease me into thinking there was actual hope if only I had made a few changes to my characters appearance and the way I played the game.
Turns out….
I have to accept my mouse fenbar level of avatar and character exactly as is and I have to play it by the script and just deal with how pathetic and useless it looks…
I couldn’t be Dr Smolder Bravestone.
I couldn’t be a lead character that everybody trusts and respects and accepts who is judged fairly.
I will always be assumed by my appearances, disadvantages, mistakes, and I’ll never get out of the shadow of how pathetic I am on the outside.
Oh,
And this isn’t putting myself down.
It’s an observation of how and why people keep putting me down.
Because on the inside…
I feel like Dr Bravestone.
But nobody else sees it that way but me.
That’s part of the joke…
The prison.
Only I get to see that I am capable of so much more than my appearances would lead others to believe.
It’s a cage…
Nobody wants to give the stupid, vulnerable, weak looking, foolish looking person….
A chance…
So I remain picked last at everything…
I struggle to be experienced…
I have to teach myself everything…
And I have to do everything on my own the hardest way possible.
But,
At some point…
I gave up and just became the imprisoned servant and nobody that I’ll always be…
Because no amount of talent, skill, possessions, beauty, or anything required…
Is going to cause anybody to overlook my glasses and crooked teeth.
People remind me every day how heavily disadvantaged, vulnerable, and weak I look…
I look like I’m good for nothing…
Not good enough to be a boyfriend or husband…
Not good enough to be friends…
Not good enough to be the golden child at home…
I’m just this great big disappointment because I didn’t turn out to be the quarterback super star…
And…
All I ever amounted to in the end was…
A silenced caged bird that couldn’t even sing getting older and older and older….
With zero progress…
While I watch others get to level 34 and beyond….
I’m still stuck at level 1…
Without a chance…
I guess in the end…
No matter what…
You’re just an unacceptable glitch.
The only thing left to do now is just quit and go through the motions giving up and taking what I can get.
None of it matters anymore.
All I’m good for is cheap labor and being rejected…
Buying material possessions…
Watching movies fantasizing about what it would be like to be one of them…
While I fade away in loneliness.
Like I said…
Only I could cover Natalie imbrugallas torn in a screamo version that makes everybody cry.
That’s the story of my life.
Faking a smile isn’t going to fix this.
Money and the dentist and lasic might…
But no amount of confidence or self help is going to change the fact that other people see me the exact way I wish they wouldn’t.
What if you work on yourself ? Maybe fix your teeth, hit the gym and express your real style
@@caterina2290 Because, people who live their lives basing their self worth on how beautiful they are, how much they own, and how great their accomplishments are…. View people who own less, have less, and have done less as worthless and of lower demand…. They believe that those down on their luck are scum and that being apart of the solution is too hard…. They look for what ever makes them proud and comfortable and far more advantaged….
Everybody wants to say….
Hey everybody, look at me and how great I am and my magical life and dream come true that makes me more worthy than the rest of you poor suckers…..
My life is worth more than yours because I can get more than you….
Even if I was the most handsome man on earth….
Why would I want to associate with friends or girlfriends who only love me for how advantaged and well off they think I am because in some way…
It makes them feel better about themselves to be with a handsome guy…
They’re not in it for the guy…
They’re in it for themselves….
All they care about is themselves…
It’s just another one sided selfish relationship with some stupid person who’s only looking to comfort themselves and make themselves feel more valuable.
I’m not a gold bar that can make someone feel more ego stroked and more inflated….
The last thing I need is to be a slave to a selfish brat who only loves someone if they’re rich and handsome because it’s the easy way out.
Why doesn’t a woman humble herself and work with me the way that I am and be there with me while I’m working on myself instead of waiting for her perfect end result husband…
Everybody wants the finished results for themselves….
To make themselves feel glorious…
To make themselves feel like number one.
Because they just had to have it all….
But when the going gets tough…
They move on…
That’s not love…
I may as well be a stupid sex toy that revolves around her and slaves my butt off for her while she demands that I obsess about her as much as she obsesses about herself looking in her compact mirror praising herself for how all the Men want to be with her and she only fell for me because I was the highest bidder at the time???
She thinks she’s entitled to perfect???
Like she can’t see I’m not the worst that ever lived and that she can encourage me, emotionally support me, kick the weakness out of me like Rukia did for Ichigo….
Sometimes…
It takes a great supportive woman to make a Man out of a Boy…
Too bad they only exist in Anime’s like bleach….
Where a Woman can love a Man regardless of how weak and pathetic he can be from time to time….
Where she can devote herself to him regardless of what others think of him.
Where she can see the best in him and knows how to bring it out for herself.
Woman like Rukia don’t exist…
Woman these days are all about self obsession and getting men to obsess about them as much as they do.
It’s not love…
There’s no relationship in it…
If a woman can’t see my problems as a misunderstood opportunity now…
Than by the time I do have it all and it took me twice as long if not more to do it on my own….
And by the time I do have it all…
I’m going to want nothing to do with her.
Where was she when I fell and needed help???
Nowhere to be found.
Selfish pride in this world won’t overlook a very fixable flaw or two…
And it breaks my heart to know that I’ve seen puddles in Arizona in the middle of August deeper than the crowds and hordes of people I’ve met.
The problem with self help and self progress isn’t the strength you gain for yourself….
It’s the part when you turn around and realize your surrounded by weak minded fools who think their greater than they really are.
It’s when you realize just how alone you really are and how these selfish people really are…
It’s when you realize how disconnected and set apart you are and how separated you are.
Because you love others…
And others love only themselves and their comfort.
They seek only to consume…
They don’t seek to rescue or restore.
They don’t seek to love or cherish.
They seek only what they can get out of it.
And if I was the most handsome and rich man on earth…
It would be difficult to find love even then.
That’s what happens when you’re in a world of dreamers who seek comfort and an easy life.
They’re selfish spoiled brats…
Why would I want to provide them dreams come true…
When they should humble themselves and learn that love isn’t about how comfortable or proud I can make you.
It wasn’t for Ichigo and Rukia…
Love for them was how they were there for each other no matter what.
How they supported each other…
The trials and tribulations brought them closer…
That’s the way it should be.
People are stupid, selfish, spoiled, rude, and they fight for their dreams trying to escape their reality….
They can’t see what’s right in front of them….
Am I the only one who realizes this to be true???
Try to do the things you love to do and don't give a fck to the external response. Remember that some changes seem to start very slowly, but it's only matter of shifting perspective. Focus on love, because where attention, energy flows..
bro has 2 parents and a grandmother in switzerland talking oh no i was almost homeless????? like what???
So all homeless people are orphans?
Where is the power in this guys message.?. I went through years and years in multi-level marketing. The same gurus stood in front. Turn him off ..
What do you suggest otherwise?