मां बाप को देखकर भी बहुत दुख लगता है बहू को देखकर भी बहुत बुरा लगता है लेकिन हक तो मां बाप का भी है बहू का भी है मां बाप तो आखिरी सांस तक बच्चे को कभी नही भूल सकते 😢😢 काश भगवान ने इनका लाडले को न छीना होता
U mean अगर सास ससुर से खुश ना हो तो बहु को घर छोड़कर भाग जाना चाहिए?? अगर वो इतनी ही अच्छी थी तो अच्छी बनकर रहती ना, माता पिता का दुख इतना बड़ा है, उनके साथ कुछ वक्त तो साथ रहती, ये तो तैयार होकर ऐसे चल दी ऑस्ट्रेलिया जैसे सबकुछ पहले से ही सेट था।
सिंह साहब हम बिहार,यू पी के लोग भावुक होते हैं।पंजाबी व्यवसाई बुद्धि के होते हैं।अतः भावुक से अधिक व्यवहारिक होते हैं।आप से निवेदन है कि जैसे इस पुत्र वियोग को आपने सह लिया।इस दुर्व्यवहार को नासमझी समझ क्षमा कर दें और इस कठिन घड़ी में शांत चित्त रहते हुए मौन ही रहें।ईश्वर आप दोनो को इस दुख को सहने की शक्ति दें।जो हुआ और हो रहा है।दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण है।
Bhai Mila hai samman maa ne bahu ke saath kirti chakr receive kiya …maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile ….inke eak aur Javaan beta hai aur khud bhi army se retire hue hai khud ko pension aati hai …..aap mujhe pure india mai eak aise maa baap dhoond do jo apni 26 saal ki widow beti ko jiski shaadi ko bas 5month hi hui thai sasuraal mai life long ke liye chor de jabki ghar mai eak Javaan devar ho ……..kirti chakr NOK rakhe ga aur ayushamn ne NOK apni wife ko banaya isliye wo rakh rahi hai …….bahu ne apna address change kiya isliye ayushamn ka address bhi change ho gaya because ayushamn ne NOK Ainu wife ki banaya tha ……ye simple baat ye maa baap nahi samjh rahe aur pura confusion create ker diya society mai…NOK log apni wife ko banate hai kyuki kahi kal bacche sadak per na ho
She fell in love with him when he had nothing, stayed with him till he became something. And when they just actually started building a life together her whole world fell apart. Rather than giving her the time and space to pick up pieces of her broken heart and heal, inko tamasha karna. I agree unko bohot dukh hoga, to dukh manao, paise nahi chahiye to itna drama kyu. Tum apne paise se dan punya jo karna hai karo itna mann hai to, ek aur beta hai, beti hai uspe focus karo. He himself is retired defense personal, he must have got his own retirement fund, pension money per month, medical and other facilities. Ye koi bechare budhe maa-baap to hai nhi jinka bohot bura haal hai. Shaeed bete ki biwi ka character assassination karne se fursat hi nahi hai inko. Sarkari naukri wale bete ne love marrige jo kar li, uncle ko na dahej mila na bete ki kamai k paise. Dukh to hoga hi. Fut fut k nikal raha hai
Woh v sahi hey Jo ap bolrai ladkhi ko bhut duk hoga lekin ap v schke dekho maa baap itna sal se usko bara Kiya hey toh parents ka Tora toh hak Banta hey na uska wife ko v smchna chahiye na kud pura lene ke liye nhi sochna chahiye na pati ka maa ko v Tora share Krna chahiye ap dono trb se acha se schke dekho duk dono ko hoga isliye dono ko equal hak hona chahiye wife and parents
@@oyamosik3974 Kon bol Raha hai unko dukh nahi hai. Dukh ka aur bahu ka dono ka tamasha bana rahe ye pblm hai. Media k samne itna bol rahe hai pich me bhi taana wagarh dete hi hone. Faltu irritate hone se achha shanti se apne ghar rehne chali gayi usme inko itni pblm kyu hai. Kyuki main issue hai saara Paisa usko mil gaya
anshuman ke parents to khud apne parents k sath ni rahte... anshuman k dada dadi Deoria me rahte hai or parents Lucknow me....anshuman ki mummy khud apne sas sasur k sath nhi rhti to apni bahu se kyu expect kr rhi h sath m rhne ka
@@nausheenjahan1192 very true.sath rahay ge tou usay emotional kar k us ka paisa bhi ahista ahista nikalwa sakte hain.bht acha kia chali gai.aur waisay bhi 5 mahinay ki shadi mai susral walo k sath konsa bond bnta hai kay wo wahan rehti.zahiri se baat hai jin maa baap kqy satu sari zindagi guzari unkay sath wo ziada comfortable hai is gham ke time pe.susral walay tou yehi jata jata kay pagal kar detay kay hamara dukh tum se ziada bara hai , tumhari shadi sirf paanch mahine ke hai aur ham nay tou pala posa.inke aur bachay hain lakin auratbka sirf aik he husband hota hai.wo chala jaye tou aisay lagta hai k duniya khatam
Dusre video m uncle bol rahe h ki wo sara saman leke delhi wale flat se bhag gai aur ab keh re h ki uska saman ni le gai..kya bakwas h ye sb..leke jae to dikkat ni le gai to dikkat
Haan kisi bhi parents ko ye baat digest nahi hogi ki sirf paise or samman to le liya ek jawan ki widow hone ka lekin uski responsibility nahi li ... Ek wife ka husband agar aise chala Jaye to wife ke liye actually bahut bada loss hai lekin 13v hote hi us sadme se us dukh se jo nikal Jaye ..past ko bhulne ki jo baat kare ... Uske pyaar pe to Shaq hi hota hai ... Maa baap ka gussa bilkul jayaj hai..or isme koi Shaq nahi ki is husband se related jo benefits usko mile hain unka vo bahut acche se use karegi....
Ye uncle itni baten kar rahe hai ...kya ye bahu ko apni property mai se hissa denge jo bete ka hissa tha ....😅😅 Badi badi baten kar rahe hai media mai one sided ... sharam nhi aati .. aise saas saur k sath kon bahu rahegi ..kitne gire huye toxic mata pita hai ....jeene do uss bachchi ko ... Australia jane se tumhe kya pareshani hai ..hadd hai ...gire huye mansikta k saas sasur .
Bahut sahi kah rhe ho aap, jb ye media me itna bol rhe h to ghr me akele me kitna bolte hoge bahu ko, beta bhi upr se sab dekh rha hoga, apni beti hoti or kuch galat kr deti to media ko bula k bolte kya? Aapki pol khul chuki h uncle ji, adarsh sasur or saas to aap bhi nhi ho varna ghr ki lakshmi ki izzat bhare samaj me aap na utarte, aapko sharm aani chahiye, aapne ladka padhaya to ladki k mata pita ne bi usko padhaya or fir shadi me bhi kharch kiya unka to double kharcha hua, ye kharcha unhone isliye thode hi kiya tha ki unki beti 5 mahine bad vidhava ho jayegi, sab farzi bol rhr ho aap, jo jada bolta h wo adhe se jada jhoot bolta h
Ek number ka bekar aadmi hai ye.......bole hai hmara sab gya uska kuch nahi..are us ladki ne 8 saal tak us aadmi ko pyaar kiya hai tbhi uski wife banhi ar ek dam se uska sab kuch chinn gya bchari ... Ar iss aadmi ko itna hi dukh tah to ek saal se kha tha ye abhi turant nikal ke aa gyi bhaar
Ye kyu chahte h k inki bahu dimple Cheema bane ? wo aapke sath rah kr hi kyu apna prem sabit kre ? Uski apni life h, jine do usko. Usne aapke bete se shadi ki the. Aapne usko kharida nhi tha. Pati k sath bhi sasural me rahna mushkil hota h toh sochiye k bina pati k koi kaise rah sakti h ? Koi bhi ladki smriti ko galat nhi kahegi, haan jo ab saas ban gayi h wo biased ho sakti h .
@@Rimjhim22165 shayad inka bar bar media me devar se shadi baat smriti singh ko hurt kiya ho ...... Inki baat se lagta h k ye chahte h k jo benefit Lt. Anshuman Singh ki wazh se mila h wo unki family me hi rahe... Matlab k unko shayd afsos h ki hum unki shadi hi na krte tph job or paisa sab humara hota ....... 5 months ki shadi me ek gair ladki itna fayda kyu uthaye.
Oye, koi or kaam dhanda ni h kya?? Jayo jaa k kuch mehnat kro earning kro😂tumko kya krna unke ghr ka matter h😂tum kyu faltu me yha gyan de rhe ho😂or kon maang rha h tumse gyan😂isiliye ambani ji tum logo ko ak footi kodi ni dena chahte😂hd ho gyi, koi kaam dhanda ni h to dusro ki personal life me ghuse k suggestions de rhe ho, or in news valo ko bi koi or news nahi mili dene ho yahi sb dikha rhe h😂
@@Shalini7448 tu iski behn hai kya ya iske hi jesi ? Main ek army soldier hun.. Dekha aur suna hai Mene...shaheedon ki biwiyon kaa haal..buwi dusri marriage kr sab bhul jayegi... But maa baap lifetime pal pal marte rahenge... So govt ko aise case mein maa baap ko 75 percent nominee bnana chahiye.... Only 25 percent to wife... Haan if wife is too aged, having children... Iss case mein tau 75 percent wife ko hi milna chahiye... But not in such case.. Hutt faaltu ki
@@sharon12212mai bhi yahi mehsus ki in log ko kitni nafrat hai bahu se or waise bhi larko ki khud ki choice ki biwi sasural wale kabhi dil se nahi accept karte wahi yaha per saf dikh raha ye Indian sasural ka karwa sach hai
Australia jaa rahi hai to aag lagi hai inko .. aage padne do usei ...apna dard bhulane k liye studies mai mann lagane do uss bachchi ko ...ek pati ko khone kya hota hai ye dard ye laalchi cunning patriarchy mentality k saas saur kya jane .
If he is wanting a kirti saman certificate...one can make a copy and give it to the parents....if that can solve the anger...he wants to keep a recognition
Bahut zahar h bhai, inke bete ne wife ko nominate Kiya h army records mein pension k liye baki funds ke liye, ye chahte hain wo poori life inko Dede, pagal thodi h bhai life h aage poori, inki to life poori ho gayi paise ka bhi issue nahi h
Means maa baap bekar h, jinhone bete ko itta bada aadmi banaya , apna khoon paseena bahaya, uska kuch ni, or jisse shadi hue wo ladki ek mahine ki shadi mai hi vidhwa ho gye or sare paise leke chali jaye ,khaa dusri shadi krke apne pehle pati ke paise enjoy kre, rest maaa baap ko kuan puch ra h, arey yr thoda toh socho
I think the pain point is the pension n benefits she is getting as wife is the legal nominee after marraige unless defined otherwise. As the marraige only lasted 5 months,it could be painful that they dont get anything legally. The loss is however too painful for both of them. Shaming daughter in law could be pressure tactic to get the benefits by putting media n society pressure.
@MB_MB. would he have behaved the same way if his daughter would had been widowed. God forbid me for saying this. He would have taken every step to make her life the best even if it costed him his own entire savings. But she DAUGHTER IN LAW n can be named n shamed. Mera heti to nahi hey
प्रेम तेज माता-पिता का नहीं दिखता है जो अपने ही बेटे के प्रेम का बुरी तरह से अपमान कर रहे हैं जिस बेटे ने एक स्त्री को टूट कर प्यार किया और उससे शादी की उसकी बुरी तरह समझ में अपमान करना यह दिखाता है कि पिता को पुत्र से कितना प्यार था पैसा ले जो मिल रहा है वह उसका अधिकार था वह अपने अधिकार को लेकर गई है ना कि इसे कुछ छीन कर गई है आज इतना पेरेंट्स को मिलना चाहिए था वह समुचित में को मिला है और यह समर्थ हैं उसके बाद भी इनको डर दिए हैं इनको क्यों नहीं मिल गया सारा पैसा वह क्यों लेकर चली गई पूरी जिंदगी उनकी खातिरदारी क्यों ना करती रही क्योंकि औरतों को तो समझ ही जाता है संपत्ति और वह उनकी उनकी संपत्ति समझ कर अपनी बहू को यह इस तरह की बातें कर रहे हैं
Since his daughter in law is quite doesn't means she is wrong, she is from educated family & they are maintaining silence not to hurt Captain Abhimanu Singh. But his father is always creating unnecessary drama & for media its TRP.
I thought the same initially but now I feel that the DIL shouldn't have blocked and ghosted them and they even asked for the funeral money of 10 k , that's too much
Aise saas sasur kisi ko na mile, ye log bahu ko sirf ek kharidi hui chiz mante h or chahte h ki bahu wo kare jo hm chahe or na kare to bahu ko badnaam karo
Are to bahu Rani gai kaha unhe samne to ana chahiye koi bhi patni apne pati ke saman ko khud se dur ni karna chahti par mata pita ka bhi unke bacche par pura adhikar h uncle ka dard saaf dikh rha h wo sirf apne bete ki yaadein apne pass rakhna chah rhe h jo ki galt ni h
He is getting tangled in his own words...he lives with such a patriarchal mindset. I am glad she left this household for her own sanity...he has the audacity to make such ill and harsh allegations against a young bereaved widow who his son loved...on the contrary to what he is saying, he, himself, does not fall in the category of a good father in law.
Their pain is also right in his place, they wanted to share their pain and life with widow of his son.... But Parents of Smriti cannot see her daughter suffer in such a young age......So they are protecting her from sorrow of her past, Smriti always behaved well with her in-laws....She is their daughter in law........Smriti ke bhi angle se bhi sochna chahiye ......This is a Shame that a daughter is being publicly insulted!!!!!
Apne agar sare interview sune honge to ek hi baat unke inlaws ne kahi hai ki vo khud apni bahu ko is pain me nahi rehne Dena chahte ..vo chahte the ki hum usko moveon karne ko kahe ..lekin unka dukh ye hai ki bahu ek din apne parents ke sath chali gayi or uske baad kabhi contact bhi karne ki kosis nahi ki... Parents ke itne baar kehne par bhi kirti chakra unko nahi Diya jisko vo apne bete ke statue par pehnana chahte the... Inlaws koi chhote bacche nahi hain unko bhi pata hai ye baat publicly karne se unke ghar ki hi izzat jayegi lekin ek limit hoti hai har insan ki or unki vo khatam ho chuki hai .. or is baat me koi Shaq nahi ki unka loss smriti se bada hai kyoki unke paas time hai vo move on kar lengi jo ki unhone plan bhi kar liya hai lekin parents ka loss na to pura kiya ja sakta hai na hi bhulaya ja sakta hai.
Yha pe smirti ki bahot badi galti he . Mana ki vo dukh me he lekin kuch time k lie sas sasur k sath rehti, or smirti k parents bhi Anshuman k Ghar rehte kamsekam 2mahina.. Smriti ko dusra shadi krne Puri jindgi Baki he.. filhal ye h ki maabaap bete ko khone ka dard she nhi pa rhe.. unhe himmat or sath ki jarurat he..
agar vo Sara saman apne ghar manga leti to bhi problem hoti ancle ji ko kyoki Bahu me kamiya nikalne me samay ki kitna lagta hai apni beti agar bhag bhi jay to maa baap chupate hai vo ladki apne maa baap ke ghar me hai to sas sasur ko kitni shikayat hai vo aapke ghar me rah kar apna paise aap ke bachcho par kharche karati to aap log khush rahte badle me uske Dard ko koyi nhi samjhate kyonki 5mont ki shadi ka aap logo ki nazar me koyi matlab nhi hai shadi ko bhale hi kitne din huye ho unka pyaar 8 saal ka tha uska itna apman mat kijiye ladki ke maa baap ko bhi dard hota hai
Oh my gosh Anshuman maa baap ko bete ki shahdt ka dokh nhi bß )aise ke liye mere Jaa rhe hn. Iska matlab tu yhi hua inhe paisa mil jayega tu Inka mugh bnd ho jayega. Smiriti ka jeena mushkil kr diya in bhookhe Maa baap n. Woh Oski wife h aur osi ko sb milna Chahiye.
Sir, you should write a book on your widow bahu, because your negative talk will be never end. Bahu is not taking any things, it means your behavior is very good
Smiriti ki koi galti nahi hai Uncle ji aap kyo itna pareshan ho rahay hai.had ho gayi aapki. Mujay to Uncle ji ki 90 percent baato par gussa aa rha hai
Bechare maa baap kisse dard bayan karein ,beta bh nahi rha aur Roz apne begunahi ka saboot de rhe hain ki unhe koi lalach nahi hai ,wah re empowered women 😢
औरतें जब अपना अधिकार ले लेती है तो समझ में बर्दाश्त ही नहीं किया जाता है औरतों को यह समझा जाता है कि वह बलिदान देने के लिए पैदा लिए वह हाथ failati रहे अधिकार न ले यह हमारे पुरुष प्रधान समाज की बहुत बड़ी विडंबना है
Anshuman ji ka papa sahi bol rahe hai Dil ki dasta man se kha rahe hai ye baat 100% sahi hai jo Aurat Aapne pati se pyar karte ho to is prakar ki harkat itna jaldi nahi karegi!
Agar aapki beti ho aur uske saath v aise ho aur oske bache v ho......toh kya aap v uske saas sasur ko share denge.....jaa fr apni beti unke ghar mein shodege
Such gr8 son with such cring parents!!! Indian inlaws mentality ...poor girl already lost the love of her life whom she gave almost 8 yrs dreamt of happily ever after only to realise shes going to get nothing ....
मै कम पढी लिखी महिला हूं,मेरे समझ से अगर ये दूसरी शादी करती है तो इन्हें केवल रू0 दिया जाए ।और जो निशानी उनके माता-पिता को दिया जाए और अगर वह अंशुमान के नाम पर जीना चाहती है तो स्मृति को मिलना चाहिए। और मां को कुछ रुपए देकर दिलाशा दिया जाए । क्योंकि मां का दर्जा सभी रिश्तों से बड़ा होता है।जीव, जन्तु पशु-पक्षी, सभी में होती है तो मनुष्य में कितना होगा ।
जब तक स्मृति का दृष्टिकोण मीडिया में ना आ जाए तब तक कुछ भी मत सुने...मेरा ख्याल है कि स्मृति को भी अब मीडिया में अपना पक्ष रखना चाहिए...पूरी बात याद रखें स्मृति वारना आप नेशनल विलेन बनती जा रही हैं...ऑस्ट्रेलिया में भी लोग आपको परेशान करेंगे...अपना पक्ष रखो जल्दी
He was very decent to start with . I have been following his interview right from the beginning. His statements have been misinterpreted by media . He has never raised the issue of money . He and his family is frustrated because she severed all contacts with her husband’s family . All efforts from the family to get in touch with her or her father has been declined. Silent treatment is the worst kind of abuse. This is again proved as we can see ,she has not come forward to give her side of the story , which has left everyone to speculate . Grief is something which can be handled if all the affected parties get united in remembering the departed soul.
Dimple cheema ki shaadi hogai thi pir bhi Vikram Batra ki family ne usko Legal wife nhi mana aur na unko legally Veer Nari k samann mila uspe kya bolna h
Very good question…….iss per koi kuch nahi bole ga ….usko kisi ne kuch nahi poocha ….na batra ji ke family ne bhi nahi na army ne lakin ye apni bahu ko uska example de rahe ki tum bui sab chor do aur hum tumhe mahan kahe ge ……ladki apna hak le le tho wo selfish kahlaati hai……
यहां तक कि उसके पोहंचने से पहले ही उसका अंतिम संस्कार कर दिया था ! अगर वो लीगल वाइफ होती तो आर्मी उनके बिना उन्हे अंतिम विदाई तक ना देतीं, डिंपल चीमा को भी , विक्रम बत्रा जी के परिवार से कोई प्रेम अपनापन कभी नही मिला , क्योंकि सबको वही नाच नाच के ढोल बजती शादियां ही अच्छी लगती हैं ! डिंपल चीमा जैसा महान सब बोल रहे हैं ,, विक्रम बत्रा जी के परिवार के सदस्य कभी उनके बारे में ना बोलते हैं और न परवाह करते हैं ! और वो बस दर्द और गम में जी गईं !
@@tripathianubhuti true sab ko ladkiya dukhi ,jhuki aur seva kerne waali chaaiye jo apne baare mai tho soche hi nahi infact agar pati ke sati ho jaaye tho ye log kush ho jaaye ge …..kya society hai yaar ….aise dekh ker Mara Mann bahut off jata hai
Ye sahi h ki ladkiyo ko apne liye sochna sahi h lakin yaha pr Smirti galat h kyonki unki femily ne unko bahu nhi beti banakar rakha, unhone unke bete ki khushi ke liye love marriage karai, unhone Smirti ke mayke se koi Dahej nhi liya tha na hi kabhi unko paresan kiya. Aaj kal sas sasur bahuo ko kitna pareshan karete h dahej ko lakar or bhi cheejo ko lakar mentally or physically torture krte h
@@jyotisahu653 aapne dekha tha kya k wo usko pareshan karte the ya nhi jo media m uske liye itna galat bol rhe h wo ghar pe kya kya bolte honge aur uske family ne ye bhi bola k shadi k baad bete k death hogai uski wajh se
Bete ne jaan tk ki prwaah ni ki aur ye ladne me pade hain baksh do us ladki ko jisne apna pati khoya tum logo k saath rehti to kbhi zinda ni reh pati tbhi chali gyi.
We r with you uncle. Ap ishwar pe bharosa rakhen.. time lagega lekin aisa bhugtegi ki ap dekhoge.. hamne apke sare videos dekhe..apne kahin nahi kaha ki paisa chahiye.. sabko samajh aa rha hai..
I think uncle ji ko ek press conference bulakar ek bar mai he jo statements dene hai de de..har bar nae nae media ko ek he statements dena unhe bhi acha nahi lagta hoga...its just a suggestion.
Sir aap bilkul sahi keh rahehai ab to beto ki shadi karny mai bhi dar lagny laga hai her rishty ki apni jagah hoti hai kuch samay tak to maa baap k saath rehna chahiy tha
Capt. Anshuman's parents are so hurt.. can sense from the father's voice... It's been an year they have been stuffing the ignorance and neglegance !! Anshuman's permanent address also have been changed by the wife... Damn! Any parents would boil up
Uske pahle to ye kah rhe the ki sara kuch le ke chali gai mere bete ki hmare pas sirf ek photo hai. Aur aaj kah rhe kuch leke nhi gai...unhe Tie tak le jana sahi lga.
Mujko lagta hey smriti bahut selfish type ka ladki hey meine bahut dkha hey esa type ka ladki pyar karte hey likin selfish tareke say smriti vi esa hi hey she is not kind And If I was in this uncle place I also feel the same
Veer mata ko nmn n veer nari ismrti ko nmn. Veer pita ko nmn. Sb yk dusare ki bhavnaye samje. Yk pita ko etna malal hai to bchu ko dil ♥️ nhi dukhana chahe. Kirti chakr enki khusi ke liy dey or aaservad pay. Ye pitaji hai. Etna dil nhi dukhay. Aap enko dey kya pta khus hote aapko e vaaps dey. Nevedan hai aap yk dusare ki bhavnau ko samje 😭
Uncle shuru me jb aap media k samne bole to 99 percent logo ko aapse sympathy thi lekin ab aapne itna jada bol diya h ki aapki pol khul gyi h, aapke ladke ki aatma bhi pareshan hogi, aap keh rhe the ki ldke ne sachcha pyar kiya to us prem ki parakastha ki hi ijjat kar lete, aapse bas itna bardast nhi ho rha ki wo 5 mahine ki vidhva aapke bete k paise ki malkil kaise ho gyi, or ye hi aapka beta agr private job me hota ya business men hota to aap na ye kehte ki mai chote bete se shadi kr dunga, na kisi or se shadi karate or na usko ghr rakhte, or na usko koi paisa dete, ye bhi ho skta h ki aap jo bol rhe ho wo sahi bhi ho lekin ek acche sanskarwan fmly k bujurg kabhi bahu ki ijjat aise nhi uchalte chahe bahu kitni bi buri ho
बहू से इतनी नफरत। बहु को इतनी बेइज्जती कर रही है। अगर बेटा जिंदा होता तो?? स्मृति को उसकी अंदर का पीड़ा किसको पता?? अभी उसका जिंदगी सुरू भी नहीं हुआ , उसका पति का प्यार भी अच्छा से नहीं मिला था जो विधवा हो गई । स्मृति को अपने जिंदगी अपने ईच्छा से जीने का अधिकार है l बहु से इतना घृणा l स्मृति अभी तक कुछ बोला नहीं है क्योंकि वो अभी पीड़ा में है. सायद ससुर जी स्मृति को उसके घर से जाने को नहीं चाहते थे l इसलिए बौखला गए है l
सोसलमिडिया पर अनावश्यक बहसबाजी ज्यादा होता है ! मुख्य विषय पर चर्चा नकर बेकार की Spend ज्यादा होतें है ! मीडिया विषय पर सप्रसंग ब्याख्या करते हैं ! परिवार से अलग सादी करने के बाद शहीद की विधवा को पेंशन बंद कर देना चाहिए और वीरता पुरस्कार को माता पिता पिता को, दे देना चाहिए ! माता पिता का अधिकार ज्यादा होता है ! स्मृति जी आदर्श बहु या महिला के श्रेणी में शामिल नहीं की ज सकतीं ! मीडिया को शोकपूर्ण घटना में अतशयोक्ति निन्दनीय है ! पूर , । दुसरी सादी र
अंशुमान के माँ बाप का तो लाख का खाक हो गया माँ बाप को शहीद बेटे का सम्मान होना चाहिए स्मृति को भी सास ससुर को अंशुमान से जुड़ने का सम्मान करना चाहिए
I am with you sir... and you and ur wife deserve justice
मां बाप को देखकर भी बहुत दुख लगता है बहू को देखकर भी बहुत बुरा लगता है लेकिन हक तो मां बाप का भी है बहू का भी है मां बाप तो आखिरी सांस तक बच्चे को कभी नही भूल सकते 😢😢 काश भगवान ने इनका लाडले को न छीना होता
Smriti and her family are just plain super practical people ...that’s it
Yes u r right
Bahut अच्छे हैं अंशुमान सिंह के पापा मम्मी
Ashuman is a brave son of his parent. He saved their colleagues without saving his life.
ये तो बहू की बुराई करने में कोई कोर कसर नहीं छोड़ रहे हैं इससे पता चलता है कि ये सास-ससुर से खुश नहीं थी इसलिए चली गई मायके घर में ससुर का दबदबा है
U mean अगर सास ससुर से खुश ना हो तो बहु को घर छोड़कर भाग जाना चाहिए??
अगर वो इतनी ही अच्छी थी तो अच्छी बनकर रहती ना, माता पिता का दुख इतना बड़ा है, उनके साथ कुछ वक्त तो साथ रहती, ये तो तैयार होकर ऐसे चल दी ऑस्ट्रेलिया जैसे सबकुछ पहले से ही सेट था।
सिंह साहब हम बिहार,यू पी के लोग भावुक होते हैं।पंजाबी व्यवसाई बुद्धि के होते हैं।अतः भावुक से अधिक व्यवहारिक होते हैं।आप से निवेदन है कि जैसे इस पुत्र वियोग को आपने सह लिया।इस दुर्व्यवहार को नासमझी समझ क्षमा कर दें और इस कठिन घड़ी में शांत चित्त रहते हुए मौन ही रहें।ईश्वर आप दोनो को इस दुख को सहने की शक्ति दें।जो हुआ और हो रहा है।दुर्भाग्यपूर्ण है।
Mother Father bhi equal सम्मान ke हकदार he
Bhai Mila hai samman maa ne bahu ke saath kirti chakr receive kiya …maa baap ko bhi 75 lakh mile ….inke eak aur Javaan beta hai aur khud bhi army se retire hue hai khud ko pension aati hai …..aap mujhe pure india mai eak aise maa baap dhoond do jo apni 26 saal ki widow beti ko jiski shaadi ko bas 5month hi hui thai sasuraal mai life long ke liye chor de jabki ghar mai eak Javaan devar ho ……..kirti chakr NOK rakhe ga aur ayushamn ne NOK apni wife ko banaya isliye wo rakh rahi hai …….bahu ne apna address change kiya isliye ayushamn ka address bhi change ho gaya because ayushamn ne NOK Ainu wife ki banaya tha ……ye simple baat ye maa baap nahi samjh rahe aur pura confusion create ker diya society mai…NOK log apni wife ko banate hai kyuki kahi kal bacche sadak per na ho
But wo Galt ladki hai@@venuverma5337
Bilkul right@@venuverma5337
@@venuverma5337koi toh smja truth ko😊
@@ramandeep8576 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
No parent should go through this heartbreak at this stage of life..
She fell in love with him when he had nothing, stayed with him till he became something. And when they just actually started building a life together her whole world fell apart. Rather than giving her the time and space to pick up pieces of her broken heart and heal, inko tamasha karna. I agree unko bohot dukh hoga, to dukh manao, paise nahi chahiye to itna drama kyu. Tum apne paise se dan punya jo karna hai karo itna mann hai to, ek aur beta hai, beti hai uspe focus karo.
He himself is retired defense personal, he must have got his own retirement fund, pension money per month, medical and other facilities. Ye koi bechare budhe maa-baap to hai nhi jinka bohot bura haal hai. Shaeed bete ki biwi ka character assassination karne se fursat hi nahi hai inko.
Sarkari naukri wale bete ne love marrige jo kar li, uncle ko na dahej mila na bete ki kamai k paise. Dukh to hoga hi. Fut fut k nikal raha hai
Woh v sahi hey Jo ap bolrai ladkhi ko bhut duk hoga lekin ap v schke dekho maa baap itna sal se usko bara Kiya hey toh parents ka Tora toh hak Banta hey na uska wife ko v smchna chahiye na kud pura lene ke liye nhi sochna chahiye na pati ka maa ko v Tora share Krna chahiye ap dono trb se acha se schke dekho duk dono ko hoga isliye dono ko equal hak hona chahiye wife and parents
@@oyamosik3974toh unko itne paise mill toh gaye abb kya chahiye......bahu ko nokraani bna k rakhna chahte hai
@@oyamosik3974 Kon bol Raha hai unko dukh nahi hai. Dukh ka aur bahu ka dono ka tamasha bana rahe ye pblm hai. Media k samne itna bol rahe hai pich me bhi taana wagarh dete hi hone. Faltu irritate hone se achha shanti se apne ghar rehne chali gayi usme inko itni pblm kyu hai. Kyuki main issue hai saara Paisa usko mil gaya
So cruel parents !! How shamefully they are disrespectfully their daughter in law !!
This is a parent's pain.
Jisko Dard Hota Hai Vahi bolata hai Itna Maloom pad raha hai Jiska beta Gaya usko Dard Hai
Jisko Dard Hota Hai Vahi bolata hai Itna Maloom pad raha hai Jiska beta Gaya usko Dard Hai
Just imagine if she had to stay with them for the rest of her life????. He controls the whole family looks like.
Sir mai aapka pura support kerti hun..mai khud ex airforce person ki wife hun...ma baap ko samman dena chahiye..
Aapne bahut achhi baat kahi.
Drama he need only money without any reason he is arguing. She loved him 8 years she knows very well what is love . Everyone loves differently
How do you know ?
Girls more than boys … see how his family is. 😢 so sad to see that this man is behind her widow daughter in law. Shame on this JCO.
anshuman ke parents to khud apne parents k sath ni rahte... anshuman k dada dadi Deoria me rahte hai or parents Lucknow me....anshuman ki mummy khud apne sas sasur k sath nhi rhti to apni bahu se kyu expect kr rhi h sath m rhne ka
Hypocrisy!!!!@@anushka0569
@@anushka0569bahu ke saat paisa v wapas aayega na
Yahi beta koi private job me hota jahan per kisi pension ya fund na milna hota to 2nd day hi khud nahi pehchante ki inki bahu bhi hai koi
@@nausheenjahan1192 very true.sath rahay ge tou usay emotional kar k us ka paisa bhi ahista ahista nikalwa sakte hain.bht acha kia chali gai.aur waisay bhi 5 mahinay ki shadi mai susral walo k sath konsa bond bnta hai kay wo wahan rehti.zahiri se baat hai jin maa baap kqy satu sari zindagi guzari unkay sath wo ziada comfortable hai is gham ke time pe.susral walay tou yehi jata jata kay pagal kar detay kay hamara dukh tum se ziada bara hai , tumhari shadi sirf paanch mahine ke hai aur ham nay tou pala posa.inke aur bachay hain lakin auratbka sirf aik he husband hota hai.wo chala jaye tou aisay lagta hai k duniya khatam
Dusre video m uncle bol rahe h ki wo sara saman leke delhi wale flat se bhag gai aur ab keh re h ki uska saman ni le gai..kya bakwas h ye sb..leke jae to dikkat ni le gai to dikkat
Vai sab dono Mai hi smriti ki galti hai ... Nahi le Gaye to kahe ki love the .....or le Gaye hote toh a koi nahi bol sakta tha ki she don't love her😅
आपने वीडियो ध्यान से सुना नहीं, उन्होंने ये कहा कि स्मृति वीर चक्र (मेडल)तो ले गई लेकिन डॉक्यूमेंट्री proof और उनके बेटे की belongings नहीं ले गईं
Sir eik baat theek hai usme etni buraiyan hain vo agar aapke ghar me nahi rahna chahti to theek hi hai aapke lia
Wah kya kehena hai.... Kuch leke jati hai to bhi lekegayi aur kuch chor ke gayi to usse bhi problem
Jo government ne diya use vo liya usne inki ladai government se honi chahiye
Yes
Hadd hai jisne paida kiya itna bada kiya Pala posha padhaya likhaya 2 din ki aayi ladki sagi ho gyi unko bhi Samman ko hath mai lene adhikar h
In the whole interview it shows he is going crazy over the benefits she is getting as a widow of his son...he is just not able to digest it
I agree
Haan kisi bhi parents ko ye baat digest nahi hogi ki sirf paise or samman to le liya ek jawan ki widow hone ka lekin uski responsibility nahi li ...
Ek wife ka husband agar aise chala Jaye to wife ke liye actually bahut bada loss hai lekin 13v hote hi us sadme se us dukh se jo nikal Jaye ..past ko bhulne ki jo baat kare ... Uske pyaar pe to Shaq hi hota hai ... Maa baap ka gussa bilkul jayaj hai..or isme koi Shaq nahi ki is husband se related jo benefits usko mile hain unka vo bahut acche se use karegi....
Correct
She is gone as soon as he is Gone !! Wow she is great
Çorrect
Ye uncle itni baten kar rahe hai ...kya ye bahu ko apni property mai se hissa denge jo bete ka hissa tha ....😅😅 Badi badi baten kar rahe hai media mai one sided ... sharam nhi aati .. aise saas saur k sath kon bahu rahegi ..kitne gire huye toxic mata pita hai ....jeene do uss bachchi ko ... Australia jane se tumhe kya pareshani hai ..hadd hai ...gire huye mansikta k saas sasur .
You are right.
यह विषय गहन हो गया. है ।😮
Bahut sahi kah rhe ho aap, jb ye media me itna bol rhe h to ghr me akele me kitna bolte hoge bahu ko, beta bhi upr se sab dekh rha hoga, apni beti hoti or kuch galat kr deti to media ko bula k bolte kya? Aapki pol khul chuki h uncle ji, adarsh sasur or saas to aap bhi nhi ho varna ghr ki lakshmi ki izzat bhare samaj me aap na utarte, aapko sharm aani chahiye, aapne ladka padhaya to ladki k mata pita ne bi usko padhaya or fir shadi me bhi kharch kiya unka to double kharcha hua, ye kharcha unhone isliye thode hi kiya tha ki unki beti 5 mahine bad vidhava ho jayegi, sab farzi bol rhr ho aap, jo jada bolta h wo adhe se jada jhoot bolta h
Ek number ka bekar aadmi hai ye.......bole hai hmara sab gya uska kuch nahi..are us ladki ne 8 saal tak us aadmi ko pyaar kiya hai tbhi uski wife banhi ar ek dam se uska sab kuch chinn gya bchari ...
Ar iss aadmi ko itna hi dukh tah to ek saal se kha tha ye abhi turant nikal ke aa gyi bhaar
Kabhi ye bolte h kapde le gayee kabhi ye bolte h kapde aae liye nhi... Tumhe to khush hona chahiye ki chlo tumhe mil gaye bacche k kapde...
Ye kyu chahte h k inki bahu dimple Cheema bane ?
wo aapke sath rah kr hi kyu apna prem sabit kre ?
Uski apni life h, jine do usko. Usne aapke bete se shadi ki the. Aapne usko kharida nhi tha.
Pati k sath bhi sasural me rahna mushkil hota h toh sochiye k bina pati k koi kaise rah sakti h ?
Koi bhi ladki smriti ko galat nhi kahegi, haan jo ab saas ban gayi h wo biased ho sakti h .
Han par use inhe aise block nai karna chahiye tha ekdum se, ghost karna is wrong I feel. Dusra funeral k paise Lena bhi cheap baat hai
@@Rimjhim22165 shayad inka bar bar media me devar se shadi baat smriti singh ko hurt kiya ho ......
Inki baat se lagta h k ye chahte h k jo benefit Lt. Anshuman Singh ki wazh se mila h wo unki family me hi rahe...
Matlab k unko shayd afsos h ki hum unki shadi hi na krte tph job or paisa sab humara hota ....... 5 months ki shadi me ek gair ladki itna fayda kyu uthaye.
@@lovingmyselfonly patani, use force to nai Kia unhone waise, ye funeral k 10 k bhi maang liye unhone sarkar se thoda ajeeb to lag raha hai
हर कोई डिंपल चीमा नहीं होती, इसने अंशुमान से नहीं एक आर्मी आफिसर, कैप्टेन डाक्टर से शादी की
Oye, koi or kaam dhanda ni h kya?? Jayo jaa k kuch mehnat kro earning kro😂tumko kya krna unke ghr ka matter h😂tum kyu faltu me yha gyan de rhe ho😂or kon maang rha h tumse gyan😂isiliye ambani ji tum logo ko ak footi kodi ni dena chahte😂hd ho gyi, koi kaam dhanda ni h to dusro ki personal life me ghuse k suggestions de rhe ho, or in news valo ko bi koi or news nahi mili dene ho yahi sb dikha rhe h😂
@@Shalini7448itne sanjeeda matter par bhi aap hansi ke emoji bana rahi hain hadd hai
Dushre la dard samjho jo yek fhoji ka beta tha@@Shalini7448
@@Shalini7448oye or tu kon se dhande pr baithi h jo gam bhri bato me tuhjhe hansi aarhi h 🤔
@@Shalini7448 tu iski behn hai kya ya iske hi jesi ? Main ek army soldier hun.. Dekha aur suna hai Mene...shaheedon ki biwiyon kaa haal..buwi dusri marriage kr sab bhul jayegi... But maa baap lifetime pal pal marte rahenge... So govt ko aise case mein maa baap ko 75 percent nominee bnana chahiye.... Only 25 percent to wife... Haan if wife is too aged, having children... Iss case mein tau 75 percent wife ko hi milna chahiye... But not in such case..
Hutt faaltu ki
Behen Smriti, vapis kar do Kirti Chakra aur muh band karvao inka. Enough ho gaya ye sab sunte sunte.
Hnn Mai v yhi bolna chahti hu de do enhe Kriti Chakra . kitni nafrat hai en logo ko apni bahu se
Bete baap ke rishtey ko bhi economical ghoshit kar diya hai. Duniya ladko ke liye bhi bahut kharab
@@sharon12212mai bhi yahi mehsus ki in log ko kitni nafrat hai bahu se or waise bhi larko ki khud ki choice ki biwi sasural wale kabhi dil se nahi accept karte wahi yaha per saf dikh raha ye Indian sasural ka karwa sach hai
@@nausheenjahan1192 shayad dahej bhi nahi layi aur paise bhi uski ko mil gaye. Isi baat ka frustration hoga.
But taking the funeral money of 10 K was a cheap move
Australia jaa rahi hai to aag lagi hai inko .. aage padne do usei ...apna dard bhulane k liye studies mai mann lagane do uss bachchi ko ...ek pati ko khone kya hota hai ye dard ye laalchi cunning patriarchy mentality k saas saur kya jane .
Waah aur sare contacts tod de..phone band kar de...
If he is wanting a kirti saman certificate...one can make a copy and give it to the parents....if that can solve the anger...he wants to keep a recognition
Bahut zahar h bhai, inke bete ne wife ko nominate Kiya h army records mein pension k liye baki funds ke liye, ye chahte hain wo poori life inko Dede, pagal thodi h bhai life h aage poori, inki to life poori ho gayi paise ka bhi issue nahi h
Means maa baap bekar h, jinhone bete ko itta bada aadmi banaya , apna khoon paseena bahaya, uska kuch ni, or jisse shadi hue wo ladki ek mahine ki shadi mai hi vidhwa ho gye or sare paise leke chali jaye ,khaa dusri shadi krke apne pehle pati ke paise enjoy kre, rest maaa baap ko kuan puch ra h, arey yr thoda toh socho
Who are u to decide parents have completed their age to live life.shame on u
Aap bilkul sahi hain.
I think the pain point is the pension n benefits she is getting as wife is the legal nominee after marraige unless defined otherwise. As the marraige only lasted 5 months,it could be painful that they dont get anything legally. The loss is however too painful for both of them. Shaming daughter in law could be pressure tactic to get the benefits by putting media n society pressure.
I agree
He's army retired himself getting plenty of money each month as retirement. Shame on this old man for maligning the image oh his daughter in law.
@MB_MB. would he have behaved the same way if his daughter would had been widowed. God forbid me for saying this. He would have taken every step to make her life the best even if it costed him his own entire savings. But she DAUGHTER IN LAW n can be named n shamed. Mera heti to nahi hey
Very sad father ji😭😭😭😭
True emotional outburst of father...salute to you sir for speaking out...n revealing the reality
प्रेम तेज माता-पिता का नहीं दिखता है जो अपने ही बेटे के प्रेम का बुरी तरह से अपमान कर रहे हैं जिस बेटे ने एक स्त्री को टूट कर प्यार किया और उससे शादी की उसकी बुरी तरह समझ में अपमान करना यह दिखाता है कि पिता को पुत्र से कितना प्यार था पैसा ले जो मिल रहा है वह उसका अधिकार था वह अपने अधिकार को लेकर गई है ना कि इसे कुछ छीन कर गई है आज इतना पेरेंट्स को मिलना चाहिए था वह समुचित में को मिला है और यह समर्थ हैं उसके बाद भी इनको डर दिए हैं इनको क्यों नहीं मिल गया सारा पैसा वह क्यों लेकर चली गई पूरी जिंदगी उनकी खातिरदारी क्यों ना करती रही क्योंकि औरतों को तो समझ ही जाता है संपत्ति और वह उनकी उनकी संपत्ति समझ कर अपनी बहू को यह इस तरह की बातें कर रहे हैं
But she shouldn't have ghosted and blocked them, that hurts..ouch. Plus the girl's father asked for the funeral money of 10 k, cheap move
ਪਿਤਾ ਜੀ ਨੂੰ ਪੈਸੇ ਨਹੀਂ ਸਨਮਾਨ ਚਾਹੀਦਾ ਤੇ ਮਾਤਾ ਪਿਤਾ ਜੀ ਹੱਕਦਾਰ ਹੈ ♥️♥️😭
सम्मान का सम्मान अंसुमन के घर पर होगा न कि स्मृति के घर।
सरकार ने अंशुमान के माता पिता पर गौर करना चाहिए मां कौन है पहले मां है याऔरत लड़की के माता पिता लालची हैं 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Cap. Anshuman sir ke mata - pitaji ko sat...sat naman🙏🙏🙏...😢😢😢...
Since his daughter in law is quite doesn't means she is wrong, she is from educated family & they are maintaining silence not to hurt Captain Abhimanu Singh. But his father is always creating unnecessary drama & for media its TRP.
I thought the same initially but now I feel that the DIL shouldn't have blocked and ghosted them and they even asked for the funeral money of 10 k , that's too much
आपने क्या बहू को खरीद लिया क्या। आपके घर की लड़ाई सड़क पर क्यों ला रहे हो। आप स्मृति के बारे शर्म नाक बात कर रहे हो।
Aise saas sasur kisi ko na mile, ye log bahu ko sirf ek kharidi hui chiz mante h or chahte h ki bahu wo kare jo hm chahe or na kare to bahu ko badnaam karo
Are to bahu Rani gai kaha unhe samne to ana chahiye koi bhi patni apne pati ke saman ko khud se dur ni karna chahti par mata pita ka bhi unke bacche par pura adhikar h uncle ka dard saaf dikh rha h wo sirf apne bete ki yaadein apne pass rakhna chah rhe h jo ki galt ni h
Bahut sahi bhai.
He is getting tangled in his own words...he lives with such a patriarchal mindset. I am glad she left this household for her own sanity...he has the audacity to make such ill and harsh allegations against a young bereaved widow who his son loved...on the contrary to what he is saying, he, himself, does not fall in the category of a good father in law.
He has so much tym for publicity den actually mourning his son's death.....
Their pain is also right in his place, they wanted to share their pain and life with widow of his son....
But Parents of Smriti cannot see her daughter suffer in such a young age......So they are protecting her from sorrow of her past, Smriti always behaved well with her in-laws....She is their daughter in law........Smriti ke bhi angle se bhi sochna chahiye ......This is a Shame that a daughter is being publicly insulted!!!!!
Apne agar sare interview sune honge to ek hi baat unke inlaws ne kahi hai ki vo khud apni bahu ko is pain me nahi rehne Dena chahte ..vo chahte the ki hum usko moveon karne ko kahe ..lekin unka dukh ye hai ki bahu ek din apne parents ke sath chali gayi or uske baad kabhi contact bhi karne ki kosis nahi ki...
Parents ke itne baar kehne par bhi kirti chakra unko nahi Diya jisko vo apne bete ke statue par pehnana chahte the... Inlaws koi chhote bacche nahi hain unko bhi pata hai ye baat publicly karne se unke ghar ki hi izzat jayegi lekin ek limit hoti hai har insan ki or unki vo khatam ho chuki hai .. or is baat me koi Shaq nahi ki unka loss smriti se bada hai kyoki unke paas time hai vo move on kar lengi jo ki unhone plan bhi kar liya hai lekin parents ka loss na to pura kiya ja sakta hai na hi bhulaya ja sakta hai.
Yha pe smirti ki bahot badi galti he . Mana ki vo dukh me he lekin kuch time k lie sas sasur k sath rehti, or smirti k parents bhi Anshuman k Ghar rehte kamsekam 2mahina.. Smriti ko dusra shadi krne Puri jindgi Baki he.. filhal ye h ki maabaap bete ko khone ka dard she nhi pa rhe.. unhe himmat or sath ki jarurat he..
True @@worldofahomemaker
@@worldofahomemakertrue
Bilkul sahi bole rahe hai sir...
Inka yahi nature dekhkar wo inke sath nahi rahi
Kya nature ? Apni baat bhi naa kahe insaan?
Tera beta hota to Keya Karti
@@dakshchauhanLakhimpurKheriup ye tareeka theek nahin baat katne kaa.
agar vo Sara saman apne ghar manga leti to bhi problem hoti ancle ji ko kyoki Bahu me kamiya nikalne me samay ki kitna lagta hai apni beti agar bhag bhi jay to maa baap chupate hai vo ladki apne maa baap ke ghar me hai to sas sasur ko kitni shikayat hai vo aapke ghar me rah kar apna paise aap ke bachcho par kharche karati to aap log khush rahte badle me uske Dard ko koyi nhi samjhate kyonki 5mont ki shadi ka aap logo ki nazar me koyi matlab nhi hai shadi ko bhale hi kitne din huye ho unka pyaar 8 saal ka tha uska itna apman mat kijiye ladki ke maa baap ko bhi dard hota hai
Bilkul shi baat bole
Sahi baat hai, bhavishya ko saare sapne toot Gaye, aur inki baato se lagta hai ye kitni nafrat karte hain apne bahu se .
Jisko Dard Hota Hai Vahi bolata hai
Oh my gosh Anshuman maa baap ko bete ki shahdt ka dokh nhi bß )aise ke liye mere Jaa rhe hn. Iska matlab tu yhi hua inhe paisa mil jayega tu Inka mugh bnd ho jayega. Smiriti ka jeena mushkil kr diya in bhookhe Maa baap n. Woh Oski wife h aur osi ko sb milna Chahiye.
बहुत हो गया, अब बस कीजिये, दुःख तो बहुत बड़ी है। 😭😭
Kya bas kijiye?
I am also wife of Army person ,i have proud of Army person.
Sir, you should write a book on your widow bahu, because your negative talk will be never end. Bahu is not taking any things, it means your behavior is very good
Majboor ho gae mahaan pita..wrna kehna ni chahte h.. Bhagwan enk nyaya de.
Yeh budda pagal ho gaya hai. Stop this nonsense uncleji. Aap aapke bete ka apman kar rahe ho.
His daughter in law is not wrong...this man is wrong nd frustated ....
Maa ki jagah duniya me koi nahi le sakta
You are right sir ji
Hume ye sunkr bahot taklif ho rha😢😢😢💔 Dil tute sa gya ha.. vo kese ladki he Jo thodasa bhi dard taklif ni ho rhi.. bechare maabaap😢
Aaj 1 saal ho gaya....🙏
Smiriti ki koi galti nahi hai
Uncle ji aap kyo itna pareshan ho rahay hai.had ho gayi aapki.
Mujay to Uncle ji ki 90 percent baato par gussa aa rha hai
Khud lacs me pension lete h aur paise ki baat karte h.. shame on him
Bechare maa baap kisse dard bayan karein ,beta bh nahi rha aur Roz apne begunahi ka saboot de rhe hain ki unhe koi lalach nahi hai ,wah re empowered women 😢
औरतें जब अपना अधिकार ले लेती है तो समझ में बर्दाश्त ही नहीं किया जाता है औरतों को यह समझा जाता है कि वह बलिदान देने के लिए पैदा लिए वह हाथ failati रहे अधिकार न ले यह हमारे पुरुष प्रधान समाज की बहुत बड़ी विडंबना है
Right
पिता अपनी पुत्र के शहीद का सौदा कर रहा है।
Anshuman ji ka papa sahi bol rahe hai Dil ki dasta man se kha rahe hai ye baat 100% sahi hai jo Aurat Aapne pati se pyar karte ho to is prakar ki harkat itna jaldi nahi karegi!
Sir aap sahi kah rahe hai
Sahi bol raha ....aap bolta rahiyA....Sach bol raha hain
भविष्य में कोई अपने बेटे को Force में नहीं भेजेगा.
सरकार को नियमों में परिवर्तन करना चाहिए.
देश के नेतागणों को अपने पुत्रों को सेना में भेजना चाहिए.
Agar aapki beti ho aur uske saath v aise ho aur oske bache v ho......toh kya aap v uske saas sasur ko share denge.....jaa fr apni beti unke ghar mein shodege
Asa hee rha to koi ladki shadi nhi krengi army man se , kuwara rahenga , asa kon badnam hona pasand krenga publically
Such gr8 son with such cring parents!!! Indian inlaws mentality ...poor girl already lost the love of her life whom she gave almost 8 yrs dreamt of happily ever after only to realise shes going to get nothing ....
मै कम पढी लिखी महिला हूं,मेरे समझ से अगर ये दूसरी शादी करती है तो इन्हें केवल रू0 दिया जाए ।और जो निशानी उनके माता-पिता को दिया जाए और अगर वह अंशुमान के नाम पर जीना चाहती है तो स्मृति को मिलना चाहिए। और मां को कुछ रुपए देकर दिलाशा दिया जाए । क्योंकि मां का दर्जा सभी रिश्तों से बड़ा होता है।जीव, जन्तु पशु-पक्षी, सभी में होती है तो मनुष्य में कितना होगा ।
Well said 👍🇮🇳
जब तक स्मृति का दृष्टिकोण मीडिया में ना आ जाए तब तक कुछ भी मत सुने...मेरा ख्याल है कि स्मृति को भी अब मीडिया में अपना पक्ष रखना चाहिए...पूरी बात याद रखें स्मृति वारना आप नेशनल विलेन बनती जा रही हैं...ऑस्ट्रेलिया में भी लोग आपको परेशान करेंगे...अपना पक्ष रखो जल्दी
He was very decent to start with . I have been following his interview right from the beginning. His statements have been misinterpreted by media . He has never raised the issue of money . He and his family is frustrated because she severed all contacts with her husband’s family . All efforts from the family to get in touch with her or her father has been declined. Silent treatment is the worst kind of abuse. This is again proved as we can see ,she has not come forward to give her side of the story , which has left everyone to speculate . Grief is something which can be handled if all the affected parties get united in remembering the departed soul.
Aab to aap arop par arop lgayege hi uska sune wala hi chala gya jo
Aap sun ligiye jaa k unki
Kabhi bol rahe saara saaman le gayii
Kabhi bol rahe Tie bhi nahi le gayi
Uncle bs defame karna chahte bahu ko
Smriti bss anshuman ke job or paise ki wajah se pyar krte the hme to aisa hi lgta h🙏
Dimple cheema ki shaadi hogai thi pir bhi Vikram Batra ki family ne usko Legal wife nhi mana aur na unko legally Veer Nari k samann mila uspe kya bolna h
Very good question…….iss per koi kuch nahi bole ga ….usko kisi ne kuch nahi poocha ….na batra ji ke family ne bhi nahi na army ne lakin ye apni bahu ko uska example de rahe ki tum bui sab chor do aur hum tumhe mahan kahe ge ……ladki apna hak le le tho wo selfish kahlaati hai……
यहां तक कि उसके पोहंचने से पहले ही उसका अंतिम संस्कार कर दिया था ! अगर वो लीगल वाइफ होती तो आर्मी उनके बिना उन्हे अंतिम विदाई तक ना देतीं,
डिंपल चीमा को भी , विक्रम बत्रा जी के परिवार से कोई प्रेम अपनापन कभी नही मिला , क्योंकि सबको वही नाच नाच के ढोल बजती शादियां ही अच्छी लगती हैं !
डिंपल चीमा जैसा महान सब बोल रहे हैं ,, विक्रम बत्रा जी के परिवार के सदस्य कभी उनके बारे में ना बोलते हैं और न परवाह करते हैं !
और वो बस दर्द और गम में जी गईं !
@@tripathianubhuti true sab ko ladkiya dukhi ,jhuki aur seva kerne waali chaaiye jo apne baare mai tho soche hi nahi infact agar pati ke sati ho jaaye tho ye log kush ho jaaye ge …..kya society hai yaar ….aise dekh ker Mara Mann bahut off jata hai
Ye sahi h ki ladkiyo ko apne liye sochna sahi h lakin yaha pr Smirti galat h kyonki unki femily ne unko bahu nhi beti banakar rakha, unhone unke bete ki khushi ke liye love marriage karai, unhone Smirti ke mayke se koi Dahej nhi liya tha na hi kabhi unko paresan kiya. Aaj kal sas sasur bahuo ko kitna pareshan karete h dahej ko lakar or bhi cheejo ko lakar mentally or physically torture krte h
@@jyotisahu653 aapne dekha tha kya k wo usko pareshan karte the ya nhi jo media m uske liye itna galat bol rhe h wo ghar pe kya kya bolte honge aur uske family ne ye bhi bola k shadi k baad bete k death hogai uski wajh se
Veer Shahid Captain Anshumaan Ji ke punyatithi per sadar naman🙏🙏
You are 100% right sir
Oh god, what a toxic family! Shameless, talking ill of their daughter-in-law. No wonder she wants to have nothing to do with them.
Mata pita ka bhi apne bete par pura hak hota hai
पिता जी जिसके बचे nhi o Keya jane dusre ka dard oh रेखा जी oh waw Rekha ji
Bete ne jaan tk ki prwaah ni ki aur ye ladne me pade hain baksh do us ladki ko jisne apna pati khoya tum logo k saath rehti to kbhi zinda ni reh pati tbhi chali gyi.
Bilkul sahi Baat hai 100%
सबको अपनी मर्जी है सबकी अपनी मर्जी होती है
Dard usko hi hota he jinka koi chla hata he
We r with you uncle. Ap ishwar pe bharosa rakhen.. time lagega lekin aisa bhugtegi ki ap dekhoge.. hamne apke sare videos dekhe..apne kahin nahi kaha ki paisa chahiye.. sabko samajh aa rha hai..
Bilkul sahi bol rhe hai ye
I think uncle ji ko ek press conference bulakar ek bar mai he jo statements dene hai de de..har bar nae nae media ko ek he statements dena unhe bhi acha nahi lagta hoga...its just a suggestion.
Why they are doing this..stop this rubbish
Great parent
Koi pyar nahi tha bas sadi thi ladka achha lg rha hai chalo sadi kr lete hai bas sadi tha koi prem nahi tha
Agree pyaar hota to 13v pe hi chali nahi jati ... Pyaar hota to har ek cheez se pyaar hota lekin sirf benefits le liye ...
Sir aap bilkul sahi keh rahehai ab to beto ki shadi karny mai bhi dar lagny laga hai her rishty ki apni jagah hoti hai kuch samay tak to maa baap k saath rehna chahiy tha
Capt. Anshuman's parents are so hurt.. can sense from the father's voice... It's been an year they have been stuffing the ignorance and neglegance !! Anshuman's permanent address also have been changed by the wife... Damn! Any parents would boil up
Sahi bol rahi hain bilkul uncle ji
17:59
Sahi hai sir aapke vichar aap sahi hai
Uske pahle to ye kah rhe the ki sara kuch le ke chali gai mere bete ki hmare pas sirf ek photo hai.
Aur aaj kah rhe kuch leke nhi gai...unhe Tie tak le jana sahi lga.
Enki baato per gor krna chaiye shi kh rhe hn ansuman k parents
Kitni nafrat hai en logo ko apni bahu se enki baato se yhi samjh baat samjh aati hai
Mujko lagta hey smriti bahut selfish type ka ladki hey meine bahut dkha hey esa type ka ladki pyar karte hey likin selfish tareke say smriti vi esa hi hey she is not kind
And If I was in this uncle place I also feel the same
Veer mata ko nmn n veer nari ismrti ko nmn. Veer pita ko nmn. Sb yk dusare ki bhavnaye samje. Yk pita ko etna malal hai to bchu ko dil ♥️ nhi dukhana chahe. Kirti chakr enki khusi ke liy dey or aaservad pay. Ye pitaji hai. Etna dil nhi dukhay. Aap enko dey kya pta khus hote aapko e vaaps dey. Nevedan hai aap yk dusare ki bhavnau ko samje 😭
Uncle shuru me jb aap media k samne bole to 99 percent logo ko aapse sympathy thi lekin ab aapne itna jada bol diya h ki aapki pol khul gyi h, aapke ladke ki aatma bhi pareshan hogi, aap keh rhe the ki ldke ne sachcha pyar kiya to us prem ki parakastha ki hi ijjat kar lete, aapse bas itna bardast nhi ho rha ki wo 5 mahine ki vidhva aapke bete k paise ki malkil kaise ho gyi, or ye hi aapka beta agr private job me hota ya business men hota to aap na ye kehte ki mai chote bete se shadi kr dunga, na kisi or se shadi karate or na usko ghr rakhte, or na usko koi paisa dete, ye bhi ho skta h ki aap jo bol rhe ho wo sahi bhi ho lekin ek acche sanskarwan fmly k bujurg kabhi bahu ki ijjat aise nhi uchalte chahe bahu kitni bi buri ho
बहू से इतनी नफरत। बहु को इतनी बेइज्जती कर रही है। अगर बेटा जिंदा होता तो?? स्मृति को उसकी अंदर का पीड़ा किसको पता?? अभी उसका जिंदगी सुरू भी नहीं हुआ , उसका पति का प्यार भी अच्छा से नहीं मिला था जो विधवा हो गई । स्मृति को अपने जिंदगी अपने ईच्छा से जीने का अधिकार है l बहु से इतना घृणा l स्मृति अभी तक कुछ बोला नहीं है क्योंकि वो अभी पीड़ा में है. सायद ससुर जी स्मृति को उसके घर से जाने को नहीं चाहते थे l इसलिए बौखला गए है l
सोसलमिडिया पर अनावश्यक बहसबाजी ज्यादा होता है ! मुख्य विषय पर चर्चा नकर बेकार की Spend ज्यादा होतें है ! मीडिया विषय पर सप्रसंग ब्याख्या करते हैं ! परिवार से अलग सादी करने के बाद शहीद की विधवा को पेंशन बंद कर देना चाहिए और वीरता पुरस्कार को माता पिता पिता को, दे देना चाहिए ! माता पिता का अधिकार ज्यादा होता है ! स्मृति जी आदर्श बहु या महिला के श्रेणी में शामिल नहीं की ज सकतीं ! मीडिया को शोकपूर्ण घटना में अतशयोक्ति निन्दनीय है !
पूर
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