"CHEATING IS A CHOICE, NEVER BE AN ACCIDENT" IF YOU CHEAT DONT SAY THAT YOU DIDN'T MEANT IT.. BESIDES IN THE FIRTS PLACE YOU HAVE TIME TO THINK WHETHER YOUR GOING TO DO THAT OR NOT. TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT TO A RELATIONSHIP. ONCE A GLASS IS BROKE YOU MAYBE FIX IT BUT IT WILL NOT STAY THE SAME.
@@coldmenace4390 Cheating is a conscious decision. Something you CHOOSE if you are raped or drugged then I wouldn't call that cheating because you didn't make the decision
Oh John, I so agree. And having sex with someone other than your partner, is a matter of several steps, and it starts with a sexual conversation, then; going somewhere to be alone, kissing and embracing, getting naked, having oral sex, putting on a condom, and finally penetrating them. Each step of the way requires a choice to go forward. And each choice is a betrayal and a stab-in-the-back, to your partner. And every step is purposeful, deliberate, and premeditated. It's not ever, "I never meant it to happen..." Yes, they did mean it to happen, or they would have stopped along the way. It is never accidental. I’d never go back to a cheating partner...it is true, they will and do cheat again. In cheating during a rough time in the relationship, they prove they have the propensity to go outside the relationship to someone else for comfort, consolation, and sex, when things are not going their way. And why should the partner who was innocent, and was hurt, have to live everyday in fear his partner will cheat again?
I'm not saying don't forgive P'Sam (even though the bastard doesn't deserve it) just don't run back to him. He should be crawling back to a Earth. What has he done to prove to you he can be trusted.
Nice to see Earth get some advice from an older guy who've been through the same thing. I'm firmly of the opinion that Earth and Sam both hurt the other and need to forgive each other as well as themselves if they're to have a future together.
Earth is adorable and deserves to have someone who values him, not someone who cheats on him on a whim... a relationship isn't always about being able to forgive horrible mistakes, it is also about having healthy boundaries and learning when to let go... if Boom gets back with that loser, I don't think I'll be able to forgive the crappy treatment to her character... and Am, you go girl...
In this series, it is sad that the girls are the "victims", one girl got rejected, another got pregnant, the other have to give up her love to make another girl happy and the other "girl" devastated of his unfaithful husband.. 😭😭😭
I like Friendzone series because there's education of moral values in it. Relationships matter, friendship, n love. In the end, love conquers all! Good actors n actresses, good directing n team work make this series such a great success. Congratulations 🎈🎈🎈🎈👏👏
Earth said himself that if love was enough, people wouldn't break up in the first place. I genuinely don't want him and Sam to get back together but not only because Sam gave up so easily after cheating on and guilt tripping Earth. I don't think they fit each other in the first place. From the beginning we've seen how Earth puts so much more effort into the relationship and don't think that's gonna change. Just move onnn
Okaaaaayyyyyyy Salute to Am for taking this big decision! ❤ I'm so proud of gal! I was disappointed when she decided to abort the baby but now, I'm ready proud of you. There are millions of single moms in this planet, you're adult, responsible, independent woman, you don't need a man to take care of you and your baby. It's a bold move Am, I'm so fucking proud of you.
Am saying "it's my baby". Really? Did you make it on your own? A lot of men don't want to take responsibility but Bern does and she rejects him saying the baby is hers like she made it alone.
Guessing at the dialogue but I am so not happy that it looks like all of them will get back with their exes. They are setting up Earth to forgive and go back to Sam... Sam hasn't done anything. Weakest efforts ever. This is frustrating. Am rejected Bern though and I hope she keeps rejecting him. I'm assuming she said something about him only coming back because she was pregnant. If Boom seriously gets back with Tor cuz of his lame Rap War thing, way to cripple Boom's strong character.
Thai dramas forgive cheating like breathing. Just like in Theory of Love when that teacher was cheated on by her fiancé. He was having a whole long standing affair but she still forgave him and married him.
Me gusta el desarrollo de esta hermosa serie, tiene muchas cosas muy buenas es un buen proyecto y me gustaría volver a ver desde el principio pero en español para entender su contenido ya que nos habla de los Problemas de los amigos y los novios
Love is not enough for a relationship to be healthy or happy. Loyalty, honesty, and dedication are also part of it. A partner who cheats WILL CHEAT AGAIN. Forgiving them, over and over, only prolongs the eventual breakup. The problem is; when times get tough (and there are always tough times in any relationship), they go outside of the relationship to get what they want and need (sex and emotional support). They are like the good dog that one day truns on their master and bites. Once they bite, they will never be able to be trusted again. A lot of gay men just accepted the cheating, because they don't want to lose their pratner...and because of low-selfesteem.
By Jove, i used to think kdrama was my best shot for stress relief, but these days, these Thai ones are performing wonders on my devices; they are breaking well fortified territories in my heart and soul😂😂. covid 19 has its good sides after all; but for quarantine, I wouldn't discover these.😀
GUYS , U Should BE PATIENT PLEASE! It really takes time to sub the episodes and gmm tv always uploads and subs on time! SO WE SHOULDNT WHINE ABOUT IT..THEY MAY FEEL BAD ABOUT IT🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏WE LOVE U GMM TV!!!💖💖💖
I've been really waiting for the next episode then when they released, it made me feel so excited just to find out that there's no english subs...and I was like WTF???
Ive been so mad at Am for so long now I hope itll change this episode. Even tho she and Bern arent together (at this point I just wanna say that SHE broke up) doesnt mean you can say its your baby only! its still his child and he has a right to raise and see it even tho hes in a realationship with someone else or does whatever shes got no right to withold his child and I mean he literally is trying he even broke up with his girlfriend! have some honor Am for real
GMMTV please stop teaching young impressionable souls that it's ok to cheat because as long as you love each other it is ok. It's not. Forgiveness is important to healing yourself but it is separate from loving those that hurt you. You can still love someone but not be with them for whatever reason.
Am and Bern don't have to get back together, but her saying it's only her baby so she'll raise it is so unfair to him and her child. Just because you are a crappy boyfriend/husband doesn't mean you will be a crappy father. Bern has changed because of his experience with Am. She seems mad about that. They don't have to get together, but she shouldn't keep him out of his child's life. Also, many comments are positive now about Bern. Clearly, he hasn't always been "good". Why can't you all give other characters a chance to change, too.
Im glad over the past year I have slowly learned key words! Loved it maybe we will get some eng subs cause some of it like with Boom!!! Lol ty for the uploads Ill miss this show. PSam and PEarth were my numero uno!!!
It's damn hard waiting for subs and not watching without it.. I am distracting myself every second from not checking if the subs are up.. ooh there is a butterfly.. that seems interesting..
I do believe in second chances but sadly not in this case. First of all, I never got the feeling like Sam really regretted his cheating, not on a deep level at least and let’s not forget that in wasn’t one mistake. The one mistake maybe was the kiss, but then later he sought Stud out by himself. I don’t think the second time he was with him can be considered a „mistake“. He knew what happened between them and still invited him out to drinks. Sam knew what it could lead to and still met with Stud, he knew that there was a good chance of them ending up in bed together and still met him. That’s not a mistake, that’s a conscious decision.
Maybe Am just doesn't want that Bern wants only to be with her again just because he felt the need to take responsibility. Remember when they attended a wedding? There was a convo about getting married because the girl might be pregnant and I'm quite sure Am doesn't want that. Even I wouldn't want that
i think Am will be making a good decision not to get back with Bern. Yes, it might be a broken family, but you don't have to put up with a toxic marriage. They might be married, but there will be no love at all, and it will still be a problem to the child afterwards.
That old man in that dance class and his boyfriend has been together for 35 years💓 wow #relationshipgoals saved🤞
😁😁😁😁I knew those two are couple but who is the top and bottom 😂🤔😁
@@leesimon1996 most gay couples are versatile
Miriam Makena the one talking is bottom, my guess, coz he said his boyfriend like to do nasty to him always, 🤣
I THEY LASTED MORE THAN A LOT OF STRAIGHT COUPLES NOW ADAYS
Nah, I disagree with that labeling thing, either bot/top can do nasty thing xD
"CHEATING IS A CHOICE, NEVER BE AN ACCIDENT" IF YOU CHEAT DONT SAY THAT YOU DIDN'T MEANT IT.. BESIDES IN THE FIRTS PLACE YOU HAVE TIME TO THINK WHETHER YOUR GOING TO DO THAT OR NOT. TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT TO A RELATIONSHIP. ONCE A GLASS IS BROKE YOU MAYBE FIX IT BUT IT WILL NOT STAY THE SAME.
Unless the person was drugged,or rapped, or even force to do it for their sake of the others survival
Wow
In Filipino
Galit na galit ah may pinag huhugutan
@@coldmenace4390 Cheating is a conscious decision. Something you CHOOSE if you are raped or drugged then I wouldn't call that cheating because you didn't make the decision
Oh John, I so agree. And having sex with someone other than your partner, is a matter of several steps, and it starts with a sexual conversation, then; going somewhere to be alone, kissing and embracing, getting naked, having oral sex, putting on a condom, and finally penetrating them. Each step of the way requires a choice to go forward. And each choice is a betrayal and a stab-in-the-back, to your partner. And every step is purposeful, deliberate, and premeditated. It's not ever, "I never meant it to happen..." Yes, they did mean it to happen, or they would have stopped along the way. It is never accidental. I’d never go back to a cheating partner...it is true, they will and do cheat again. In cheating during a rough time in the relationship, they prove they have the propensity to go outside the relationship to someone else for comfort, consolation, and sex, when things are not going their way. And why should the partner who was innocent, and was hurt, have to live everyday in fear his partner will cheat again?
This is a realistically no matter what position they are the humanity alway have a dark side
I imagine how strong the love and togetherness of the old man with his partner is that they can last for 35 years.
I'm not saying don't forgive P'Sam (even though the bastard doesn't deserve it) just don't run back to him. He should be crawling back to a Earth. What has he done to prove to you he can be trusted.
Ikr.. 😣😣
Exactly... Aaaaagggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh
Trust me if this Uncle sam was real.. he would have been punched till death already😡
@@luna07430 I can help you hiding the corpse if you need !
@@redandlipsredandlips2641 yup sure.. thanks👍👍👍 bring the hammer of Thor pls
Nice to see Earth get some advice from an older guy who've been through the same thing. I'm firmly of the opinion that Earth and Sam both hurt the other and need to forgive each other as well as themselves if they're to have a future together.
"if he steps on your foot too often, you may need to change your partner" you heard it P'Earth. Don't come back to P'Sam
Earth is adorable and deserves to have someone who values him, not someone who cheats on him on a whim... a relationship isn't always about being able to forgive horrible mistakes, it is also about having healthy boundaries and learning when to let go... if Boom gets back with that loser, I don't think I'll be able to forgive the crappy treatment to her character... and Am, you go girl...
สายดูวันเดียวรวดด!!!
คือ เพิ่งมาเจอหนังเรื่องนี้และมาดูรวดเดียวในวันเดียวจนจบ555
jantagarn Yamyuean ใช่ๆ555
ใช่ๆ555
+1
เราเหมือนกันดูครึ่งวันจบเลย
Forgiving a cheater just gives them free passes to do it again. That swing teacher is wrong, someone who loves you won't cheat on you.
It still depends, i will forgive too if someone cheats on me. We’re only humans anyway
@@Duckypie06 okay SIMP
Moses Yang call me stupid all you want
Idealist
You can forgive them, but you don't have to get back with them.
seriously if this series ends up in a shitty way, gmmtv finna catch these hands 💀
In this series, it is sad that the girls are the "victims", one girl got rejected, another got pregnant, the other have to give up her love to make another girl happy and the other "girl" devastated of his unfaithful husband.. 😭😭😭
To make it easy we can just say "the wives"
thats true theyre also many girls out there who arent good that was a point for me too
โอ้ยยย!! ลีลาแท้
ซีรี่เรื่องนี้กูได้ยินคำว่าขอโอกาสบ่อยเหลือเกินน
Noo, I don't want to stop waiting every weeks, 12 eps are so short *cry*
Amp is right here .. Does it need to be her pregnancy for Bern to understand her feelings and get back together??
Yes 💯
I like Friendzone series because there's education of moral values in it. Relationships matter, friendship, n love. In the end, love conquers all! Good actors n actresses, good directing n team work make this series such a great success. Congratulations 🎈🎈🎈🎈👏👏
ีีีีีึึึึึึึึึึึึีึชชชช
6:26 p’bern is two different colors in this scene.
His head is peach and his neck and ears are pink.
Earth said himself that if love was enough, people wouldn't break up in the first place. I genuinely don't want him and Sam to get back together but not only because Sam gave up so easily after cheating on and guilt tripping Earth. I don't think they fit each other in the first place. From the beginning we've seen how Earth puts so much more effort into the relationship and don't think that's gonna change. Just move onnn
Okaaaaayyyyyyy Salute to Am for taking this big decision! ❤ I'm so proud of gal! I was disappointed when she decided to abort the baby but now, I'm ready proud of you. There are millions of single moms in this planet, you're adult, responsible, independent woman, you don't need a man to take care of you and your baby. It's a bold move Am, I'm so fucking proud of you.
Just waiting for the English subs! I have been waiting for this final episode the entire week.
English subs available now
*YOU CAN FORGIVE BUT THE TRUST IS GONE AND THE RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER BE THE SAME* END OF STORY
ซีนดราม่า.น้ำตากูไหลเลย
ไม่ใช่หนังนะ.คอมเม้นกูอ่านไม่ออก
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ฉ้านนน ไปยุไหนมา พึ่งได้ดู #ดูสองวันจบ 😁😁😁😁😁
Supaporn Sorsawang มีตอนที่ดูไม่ได้มั้ยคะ
ใช่เหมือนกัน สองวันจบ
me seeing new episode choking and choking and then no subs me waking up at hospital
😂😂😂😂
Ify hahahaha
lmaooo
Lol
😭😭
Am saying "it's my baby". Really? Did you make it on your own? A lot of men don't want to take responsibility but Bern does and she rejects him saying the baby is hers like she made it alone.
Exactly! It takes 2 to tango.
Also, I get that she doesn't want to be back with him, but she can't leave him out of the baby's life
I just hope everything turns out good for P'Sam and Earth.
oh yeah no sub but will still watch it out of frustration and curiousity
Same here!😂
That moment when ur Thai and understand the language heheheh
Me too..
😂😂😂
same...
I was waiting..... For this episode but no eng sub 😭😭
......now watching without sub and again i have to watch with sub.........
my story.. every episode😢
Can relate to that
English subs available now
เข้ามาดูเพราะพี่ลี รัก💛💚💙💜
Guessing at the dialogue but I am so not happy that it looks like all of them will get back with their exes. They are setting up Earth to forgive and go back to Sam... Sam hasn't done anything. Weakest efforts ever. This is frustrating.
Am rejected Bern though and I hope she keeps rejecting him. I'm assuming she said something about him only coming back because she was pregnant. If Boom seriously gets back with Tor cuz of his lame Rap War thing, way to cripple Boom's strong character.
... in one word :- Author and the directors are evil too cuz theu support those betrayers😑
เขาเหยียบตีนเราบ่อย บางทีก็ต้องเปลี่ยนคู่นะ ตรงอะชอบ
ชอบหมอลุงอะ555
...the moment when you decide to study thai...😀😁😂
English subs available now
Marisa Mercadanti me too
samo
Marisa Mercadanti its cute how they say ‘SHIT’, like ‘shhheaaah’
I started with love sick. Lol. โชคดีครับ!!!
Taking that swing teacher's advice is the biggest mistake I've done. 🤦🏽♀️
Even though I hope Bern and Am end up together...bc he wasn't invested enough to fight for his relationship with Boom. 😒
Am really loving how this shit is so real..and it's not about what we expect or how we want it to end
That uncle gave worst advice for some one who cheated on other.. it may work for other reason but not with cheating
Welp the uncle probably don't even know what they were facing-
Thai dramas forgive cheating like breathing. Just like in Theory of Love when that teacher was cheated on by her fiancé. He was having a whole long standing affair but she still forgave him and married him.
Me gusta el desarrollo de esta hermosa serie, tiene muchas cosas muy buenas es un buen proyecto y me gustaría volver a ver desde el principio pero en español para entender su contenido ya que nos habla de los Problemas de los amigos y los novios
Love is not enough for a relationship to be healthy or happy. Loyalty, honesty, and dedication are also part of it. A partner who cheats WILL CHEAT AGAIN. Forgiving them, over and over, only prolongs the eventual breakup. The problem is; when times get tough (and there are always tough times in any relationship), they go outside of the relationship to get what they want and need (sex and emotional support). They are like the good dog that one day truns on their master and bites. Once they bite, they will never be able to be trusted again. A lot of gay men just accepted the cheating, because they don't want to lose their pratner...and because of low-selfesteem.
If P'am ends up with her ex I'm going to mad. She doesn't deserve him. He completely changed his life around
Finally someone is saying it. Her constant insult can only hurt a man's ego not make him better. But with Boom, he wanted to be better.
10:01 ชอบฉากบูมพูดคำนี้มาก
คุณลุงพูดได้ดีมากเลยคับ
I love the dance partner analogy!!M❤️🥰💜🥰
เป็นการขายซีรีย์และขายของไปด้วยในตัวแบบเนียนๆ 🙏🙏🙏 กราบความคิดจ้าา
แต่เครื่องปริ้นน่าใช้จริงๆ
เลิกกัน เราต้องทำให้เขาเห็นค่า✨
ชอบมากรอลุ้นซีซั่น2เมื่อไหร่นะ
💓💓💓🦁🦁🦁💓💓👍👍👍
By Jove, i used to think kdrama was my best shot for stress relief, but these days, these Thai ones are performing wonders on my devices; they are breaking well fortified territories in my heart and soul😂😂. covid 19 has its good sides after all; but for quarantine, I wouldn't discover these.😀
True. Kdramas are still the best but they are now more focused on marriage infidelity, i am starting to get fed up.
GUYS , U Should BE PATIENT PLEASE! It really takes time to sub the episodes and gmm tv always uploads and subs on time! SO WE SHOULDNT WHINE ABOUT IT..THEY MAY FEEL BAD ABOUT IT🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏WE LOVE U GMM TV!!!💖💖💖
I've been really waiting for the next episode then when they released, it made me feel so excited just to find out that there's no english subs...and I was like WTF???
ทำไมฉันหลงสิงมากจังวะ
I know you guys always upload without Eng sub, nd then later with Eng Sub.. So no worries 😏 ..I'll just be patient..
English subs available now
@@madgurl5951 thanks..
Ive been so mad at Am for so long now I hope itll change this episode. Even tho she and Bern arent together (at this point I just wanna say that SHE broke up) doesnt mean you can say its your baby only! its still his child and he has a right to raise and see it even tho hes in a realationship with someone else or does whatever shes got no right to withold his child and I mean he literally is trying he even broke up with his girlfriend! have some honor Am for real
GMMTV please stop teaching young impressionable souls that it's ok to cheat because as long as you love each other it is ok. It's not. Forgiveness is important to healing yourself but it is separate from loving those that hurt you. You can still love someone but not be with them for whatever reason.
Even if they're gonna come back together, that's not the right way.. Earth shouldn't be the one who make up to Sam🤦♀️
มีใครเป็นเหมือนกันบ้าง ทุกเรื่องจะประมารว่า ดูวันเดียวคืนเดียวจบ..!!5555+
I missed P'Ter's old look 😭😭😭 havent adjusted to his new look yet
น้ำตาจะไหลหาเม้นไทยไม่เจอ😢
555เริ่มส่ะน้ำตาไหลตามนึกว่าเศร้า555
555
See Korn, 35 years, you didn’t see the possibilities 😭
อัพเร็วมากเลยค่ะ
That gay couple at the swing dance class will probably be the reason why Earth and Sam's relationship mends itself.
I am refreshing since last sunday and nothing
ขอบคุณสวรรค์ คุณลุงครับถ้าไม่มีลุงช่วยจุดประกาย ไฟรักคงมอดดับ จบแบบเจ็บๆ ตายแบบสงบศพสีชมพู
Am and Bern don't have to get back together, but her saying it's only her baby so she'll raise it is so unfair to him and her child. Just because you are a crappy boyfriend/husband doesn't mean you will be a crappy father. Bern has changed because of his experience with Am. She seems mad about that. They don't have to get together, but she shouldn't keep him out of his child's life. Also, many comments are positive now about Bern. Clearly, he hasn't always been "good". Why can't you all give other characters a chance to change, too.
Waiting for final episode for a week aaaand no subs. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Its been a day and subs haven't uploaded yet.Atleast keep yourself committed and punctual.
Finally. Eng sub. Thanks sooooo much !!!!!
I honestly like those hawaian shirt tor is selling
หนูก็รุ้สึกดีค่ะลุงงงงงงงง
ช่ายยย เลือดวายกำเริบ
OMG, it just occurred to me, I don't think ANYONE in this series is happy! haha. I do think Earth has taken it far enough!
Finally English sub 😀😀 whoooy waiting earth 😘
I've been in support of all of Am'’s decision since the beginning. Now, I'm just frustrated with her.
rooting for boom and earth..
This is the final ep?
Me still don't watch yet *patiently* waiting for the English sub
Finally!
Im glad over the past year I have slowly learned key words! Loved it maybe we will get some eng subs cause some of it like with Boom!!! Lol ty for the uploads Ill miss this show. PSam and PEarth were my numero uno!!!
Everybody deserves a second chance ❤️😢
คือทำอะไรโดยที่ไม่ต้องขอโทษป้ะว้ะ แมร่งโครตอิน ผู้หญิงแมร่งไม่ได้ต้องการคำสัญญาอะไรทั้งนั้นนะ ไม่ต้องพูดเยอะ แค่ทำให้เห็นก็พอ 😞😞
WE STILL NEED THE FULL CLIP OF THE OPENING SONG
How many episodes do they usually do in one show? I'm feeling like it's going to end soon because they are showing clips of the entire series.
This is the last one
11-14 I suggest
มาเเล้วว รอตั้งนาน
Thanks for the eng subs i dont have to wait now
Fast forward other couple scene since there is no subs 😂 I will watch everything properly when the subs available..
madgurl59 same here lmao 🤣
English subs is available now
Thank u soo much for telling me😁
ดีเเล้วที่เมียท้องละยังรู้จักสำนึก ขนาดเราท้องผัวเรายังไม่สำนึกเลย แอ้มอย่าเยอะ 55555
01:36 Cable doesn’t know how to knock, just forcibly opened the door 😂
It's damn hard waiting for subs and not watching without it.. I am distracting myself every second from not checking if the subs are up.. ooh there is a butterfly.. that seems interesting..
Earth is too good for Sam
เข้ามาดูเพราะพี่สิงโต🦁🦁💙❤
น่ารำคาญคนอย่างมึงเน๊าะ
The best thing I heard all day:
The printer is capable.
Damn right it is, unlike you guys
When will it have English subtitles. I don't want to wait anymore
I do believe in second chances but sadly not in this case. First of all, I never got the feeling like Sam really regretted his cheating, not on a deep level at least and let’s not forget that in wasn’t one mistake. The one mistake maybe was the kiss, but then later he sought Stud out by himself. I don’t think the second time he was with him can be considered a „mistake“. He knew what happened between them and still invited him out to drinks. Sam knew what it could lead to and still met with Stud, he knew that there was a good chance of them ending up in bed together and still met him. That’s not a mistake, that’s a conscious decision.
I'm supposed to be sleeping now 😂
Its 3 Am and I'm still here watching 👀
I hope it has a season 2 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
If P'sam and earth get back together i'll throw hands
I was fainted after notice that there has no subtitle😭
English subs available now
I was waiting like anything for this video
English subs up
Sawadee khrap! English subtitles please! Khob khun khrap!!
Maybe Am just doesn't want that Bern wants only to be with her again just because he felt the need to take responsibility. Remember when they attended a wedding? There was a convo about getting married because the girl might be pregnant and I'm quite sure Am doesn't want that. Even I wouldn't want that
Woah... Am is reeeeaaally selfish.
"My baby"? Nah lady.
Also, why is she getting mad about Bern doing better after they broke up?
i think Am will be making a good decision not to get back with Bern. Yes, it might be a broken family, but you don't have to put up with a toxic marriage. They might be married, but there will be no love at all, and it will still be a problem to the child afterwards.
I'm watching without subtitles, pretending like I undetstand them.
Turns out I could only hear a bit of vocabularies that I knew.
English subs up
@@madgurl5951 Thankyou for reminding!!
When is the eng subs comingggggg. Somebody help meee
I just realized that P'Ams house is thr dame with with uncle of happy birthday omg