This isn't a room, its his heart , his life... How he let her enter in it, stays happy and things get messy and later on moves on and cleans all those to welcome new changes... Lovely representation
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
@@icysnow57cold64 I also think romantic love is just a social construct. It's like a fantasy world people imagine and when they wake up to practicality, it's a mess.
@@falak4535 Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
I wanted to share these words of wisdom I heard from one of my teachers “A persons opinion on an object doesn’t define the object but defines the person”
Deep af, you can also look at it in a perspective of taking things personally like healing words. One's opinion of you does it define you define the person
I hate to be rude, but that is a glaring piece of the story. I think what is even deeper is the fact that even after the alien is thrown back into his window, he still wants to go out and meet someone new after cleaning his room and hiding the alien. Is the point of the film that everyone needs to move on, or we never forget those we love the most?
yes ofc there are many significant attributes in this short film and what you said is true. I was just stating one of the deep and important parts of the short film :) xx
Something I learnt in my relationship is that you must not get lost in the relationship you must be in it and also be aware of your surroundings. Love isn't all about sex and fun I believe its deeper than that it about finding someone you who makes you a better person and helps you grow and upgrade your life
glad to see someone else agrees on this, they started the relationship on something shallow (sex) rather then a friendship which is why it most likely didn't last.
@@lovebug7985 Hey, I belive that there was a phillia (friendship) type of love which then tranistioned to eros (sex). In the beginning there were representations of a friendship, yeah it wasn't very long but I belive there still was. I 100% agree with ur statement that there should be a friendship first, I agree that a friendship are the building blocks to a healthy and lasting relationship. While watching the film I realized that the woman started to not care and she was making the room dirty, whereas the man was trying his best to keep the relationship going. My assumption is that the lady was building the relationship by being intimate only and that ultimtly lead to her downfall. At the end the guy was improving himself, he cleaned the room, and took care of himself. Momentary happiness is not worth it at the cost of mental health.
This is the second time I came to this film after ending a long-term relationship in the last 8 years. It made me feel warm that love is a cycle, like many others in your life. Hope to watch it again someday and think "Well, my cycle this time will not end like this film".
Oo my God, separations are always hard. Just the thought of having to leave him scares me as he doesn't want a relationship but want to be with me and I love him so much dearly. You must have strong reasons behind ending your 8 years relationship.
Hey, I am also going through a break up and found myself coming back to this video because of it. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that you’re not alone and that we are going through this together. Take care now.
his room is relatively clean before she comes. when she does come she has a bit of a mess but not too much. through all of their happy times a very small mess will appear but then it will get cleaned up. she is actually the one cleaning/making the bed (right after halloween) this represents small mishaps that are easily picked up/brushed off by her. you only see the big mess start to appear when he kicks the toy and their relationship starts to deteriorate. only from then on it gets progressively worse and worse. this is because she is becoming more and more depressed and unhappy in the relationship. she no longer is trying to fix the relationship, therefore she is no longer trying to pick up her mess. when you’re in a bad state of mind most of the time so is your room. you have no motivation to clean. it’s a terrible cycle to get into. this becomes apparent when she finally leaves. she takes all of her stuff but you can see there is still some mess on her side despite her taking all her stuff, meaning that some of that was actually HIS mess that was unnoticed, appearing as hers. he got rid of some of his unhappiness by putting it on her. (putting his mess on her side) he himself become messy when he becomes unhappy and depressed. you realize this is what she was going through the whole time her mess was growing bigger and bigger. the toy is a representation of their love, which “comes in peace” it is not their love for one another but their actions which tear them apart. it could be the effort is not longer being put into the relationship. again it’s not the mess which makes them unhappy. the mess starts to appear when they’re already unhappy, whatever reason it may have been. only later when the mess because very bad does it cause them to fight. he kicks the toy it lands in the heart shaped pail. which is used to fix the leaking roof representing the breaking point of their relationship. a pail cannot fix a leaking roof, it must be properly fixed in order for it to not leak again. they choose to get a black circle pail once again instead of properly fixing the roof. no longer their love, like the heart shaped pail. but now a cold basic black pail. the christmas lights she puts up are her trying to make the room appear nicer despite all the mess. it’s her not wanting to try fix the relationship but just bury the problems. when the toy comes back through the window i do believe that that is her who throws it back considering the toy had been missing for quite some time before it returns. not only that but he’s wearing the shirt she got him for his birthday when it reappears. i think she picks it up at some point and holds onto it. it represents their love so that is her holding onto their love. he also only takes down a few photos from his wall but not all of them, the ones he does take down, if you pay attention they are the ones they take together, but he does not throw away but puts them in the nightstand meaning he still has feelings for her. i think her throwing it back was kind of saying, “now you understand why i got so messy, i was unhappy how you are now” and him cleaning is getting ready to start again. i do believe that it is her, but he wants his room to appear as he’s been fine and moved on and that’s why he clearly places the magazines on his nightstand where she could see them. to begin they were always under his bed hidden away even before she came over. lastly the biggest message is to change and grow. there is clearly a huge sign that reads “CHANGE” in his room. the last thing he changes is the bedspread where all their memories were made. it’s time for new ones to be made and for them to change bad habits, together for themselves and for each other.
His room IS relatively clean when she came in... but did you notice he felt he had to hide a part of himself quickly before letting her into his space? over the whole story he never let her know that part that he had hidden. Why was that? Was he ashamed of it? Or was he fearful that she wouldn't accept that part of him? Or did he plan to show her in time but then it got forgotten? And lastly, what might SHE have decided to hide before she came into the relationship? What part of herself did he never get to see? No surprise that the mess accumulated in this relationship because they were both probably not being their most authentic selves.
this is EXACTLY why im sacred to fall in love and let my guard down for someone. happy endings aren’t promised, but most of the time losing yourself is. if love can make you so unhappy in the end, wth?
love should spontaneous and the moment you find a real partner, it shouldn't be alarming to think long-term. Relationships are never easy because you share your life with another person but that is exactly why it is so precious. It needs care and patience and love and understanding. The thing is, the person who you love the most and can make you the happiest, can also cause heartbreak and sadness, but only because we care about our loved ones. Our heart flutters when they say something nice, we get sad and upset when they say something critical, and so on, but only because their words mean the world to us. Nonetheless, love is one of a kind and everyone needs to experience it and learn those lessons. It's part of the human experience. It's important to focus on the bigger picture when thinking about love.
Actually the mess is symbolic, when 2 people come together they bring their mess together and that's why we reach that point. It's there in every relationship
I feel so terrible for all the people who have experienced this so many times they stopped believing in love, I promise there is true love, it's just hard to find, and unfortunately so many people wont. Thankfully I have💕
@Dragon yes, even people like me, fully convinced that it will never end, lose their love, but dont say that for everyone. People died happily married, yes, some people do. Never doubt it wont happen to you, unless you dont want it to. (I'm the CEO of commas lol)
@Dragon dear true love exists...relationship breaks only whn either one strts entering into others personal space....both should be an individual nd shld act maturely!!True love exists may be smwhere❤️
I love reading comments on short films because... 1. I love knowing other people's point of view.😍 I mean how beautiful,deep and different our thoughts are!!!🙂 2. My stupid ass mind doesn't have that deep thinking like others😅 ✌🏻
The room defined his relationship. It would have worked betteer if they both decided to clean the room and solve their problems together with love and affection...
Jesus Christ. I felt like I was watching my ex and I from a third person perspective. So accurate in depicting what a relationship looks like in the beginning to how it just can tragically gradually become lifeless.
I just watched this video yesterday and shared this with my girlfriend and told her how much I love her and today she broke up with me , she found someone better than me
Oooo....I'm sorry....maybe she just doesnt deserve your love at all...but dont waste it....save it for a person who really cares for you and love you...hope you find that one person soon......
I am sincerely sorry 😞. But look at the bright side of life, maybe she wasn't 'the one'... Your soulmate is out there somewhere she'll meet you today, tomorrow or someday! ☺️
I know that when u fall in love u loose ur mind and u can't think properly and u don't care about anything else but ur love.I was in love and got heart broken.I stayed depressed for 6 months then finally I woke up and moved on.The first thing I changed in my life was my bedroom.Then I deleted alot of people in my life.I selected only a few.My attitude changed.My personality grew stronger.Now I enjoy being alone more.I just love my ownself company.Love is something very and very beautiful. But I advise everyone to fall in love when they get more mature and become more wiser . That's what I learnt.
But nobody can choose when to fall in love it's not like you can make an appointment for what time and place you wanna fall in love? It just happens when you least expect it wether you're mature enough or not...
I truly didn't want to cry this morning....but here we are. This is honestly the purest representation of love. The beautiful, messy, and tragic bond of love. 🥺
People have no patience in this generation, being in love is an amazing thing and forgiving and putting up with the mistakes of the person you love is the real love and adds more meaning to everything and I know that there are many old people who wrote about the death of their loved ones crying or sleeping next to the grave of the person they loved and wishing for death so they can be together. The love many young people understand now days is pleasure and spending good time and that's all.
I've come to this video for comfort because it's been almost 2 years since my long term relationship ended and I still can't seem to find my own ending, my own cylce. I appreciate this wonderful piece of art because it gives me hope.
Guys finally i want to share y'all something.... I saw this video 5 years back & it touched me deeply from situation i was going through & everytime whenever i feel like not enough in the relationships i always search this video & used to see . Finally I've ended my 3 year of serious relationship & now I'm here. This video is very close to my heart ❤️ .
The room is slightly messy in the beginning, he got out of a relationship a little while ago. When he is cleaning up he puts the past behind him and starts out fresh with no problems. Little by little the room gets messier, these being problems, they clean, they fix their problems. But it eventually gets too much, the room gets extremely messy, until they can't handle each other anymore. Then they break it off. He sits in their past, their old problems, until he cleans his rooms, leaving him with a fresh mind.
if my dad saw this video he would say, "See this is why you need to clean your room; it defines your whole life!" haha I can hear him now. great video! I loved how you gave us hope that maybe they would get back together but they didn't. that was simply well done!
He obviously cared more about the relationship than she did. Her stuff kept spilling onto his side, she was spending all her time at his place...not only taking up space but creating a huge mess which can only be reflected in her life outside of him and not much of one since her codependent behavior was apparent. She demanded help from him pertaining to things she should’ve been takin care of on her own. It was too much for him, but he continued to try. Him sitting on the edge of the bed represented his need to get out of the situation and she had the opportunity to quit wallowing in her self pity by reaching out at that moment. And then she left only to pick up her stuff and leave him in a mess they both created. It’s not to say it was entirely her fault, just that some people’s side of the situation is a lot messier than the others.
The moral of the story is.......... to keep your room clean. Keep your life clean. To have a tidy up often of the things that may be piling on top of you and others. The cleaner your head the happier you will be. That could be letting go of bad things that happened yesterday and the years before and dropping your worries and frustrations that don't serve you purpose anymore. This may not be the reason of the video and I can think of other reasons but that was what I took from it. Everyone sees things differently just thought I would share what I saw.
It's not about the height, it's about the field of view of the lens. Do a quick research about field of view in photography/filmmaking and wide angle lenses. That's also why you can see so much of both sides of the wall. The field of view is probably something like 120°.
lesson I've learned by this vid: everything is so sweet at the beginning but suddenly can go difficult and bitter. you have to choose what kind of partner you want to be. if you're going to fight and trying to change the things that you know you're doing wrong or you just don't give shit and keep your side messy.
It was really cool to watch, so interesting to get other “POV”, the little things like the room representing the relationship and the little I come in peace guy were great
I watched this video and was inspired to say this. I usually don’t comment on many things but I want to share something very important: MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!! Fairytales are beautiful and romance is great.. but even love needs to be cared for. Do something for your partner every. Single. Day. It doesn’t have to be huge. It could be a kiss or an “I love you.” Maintain your relationship after marriage as well. It’s like a backyard. You need to mow it often to keep it nice. If you let it go for too long, it’ll be extremely hard to mow later. Weird analogy, but you get the point. If you have an argument, remember that it isn’t the end of the world. It’s healthy for couples to argue and advance their relationship this way. It intensifies your love to go through hardships together. Try to understand your partner, try to compromise on things... MAKE SURE you go to sleep content with each other. NEVER go to sleep angry. Always sleep in the same bed (if you’re married). One thing that helps is doing something that boosts dopamine after fighting... After an exhausting argument, we dance together. It calms us both down. After, we find arguments way easier to navigate. Just remember that you love this human. In a marital setting, remember why you married this person. This is the one you chose to love and protect your whole life. Remember that you made this person a forever promise! Fall in love together every day. Recognize the good more than the bad. When you recognize the bad, work hard to fix it together! Work hard to improve yourself over improving them. Go on weekly dates, they can even be little like watching a movie together at home. Overall, just love each other and work hard to maintain your relationship. It’s so so worth it. I promise you. I wish you all the best and God bless! ❤️
This has got to be my 10th time watching this. What I love about this film is the detail and the validity. Each time I watch it, I notice something different. You can literally see and feel them growing apart and even though it's sad, you feel okay at the end. Life goes on. What a work of art. So well done.
I am coming back to this video about nine months later saying that this is, and will probably always be my favourite short film. Just cried my eyes out through the whole thing, and videos struggle to bring me such raw emotion like yours does. Thank you so much for creating this; never stop.
I really enjoyed this short film. I loved the camera angle in the film. It gave us this birds eye view and allowed us to observe everything that is going on in it. I loved how the story was told with little dialogue. This is nicely made short. Really enjoyed it
I think the messy room represents the love. How they start off strong [ The room being clean ] and then how everything unfolds [ room being messy] Love is a cherishable thing and everyone should know it. You shouldn't treat it as a piece of garbage that you throw on the floor. It's much more than that.
This goes to show that a good relationship will just be in the beginning. people nowadays doesnt know how to compromise in the relationship...theyre just there for happy times not in the bad times.
I'm so glad that my boyfriend and I are really doing our best to make our relationship a comfortable space for both of us. And trust me, it's difficult, because I'm a really troubled person. I'm so hopeful about us lately, but I always have this fear in the back of my mind that maybe all this efforts are just not enough to make us work.
your comment makes me sader than the whole film, which was a good one, but I'm in a relationship too and thats exactly how I feel. I wish you good luck! I'm from Germany btw:)
Actually i think this Video is a very sad One. The First time i see it i had hoped that every comes to an good end. 7 mimutes had passed and I realize That the woman never come back. They are breaking apart. But when the Film ends, the man tidy up his room, demolish the photos and try to find his new lovestory. I cant believe that every of us try to find this. Only to find a lovestory that never ends. I think its the feeling, like a drug to be in a new lovestory. To feel that another person loves you.. The pain that we feel when thats breaking apart is hard, But Not so emotional like falling in love. Again and again..
I couldn't say better, you perfectly said the truth. We don't want to love only one woman/man, we want to know many love stories in our life, as a lovestory cannot be perfect forever, and sometimes even if it's hard, we're breaking apart, and looking for a new one somewhere else, because the feeling that another person loves you is far the best one, and the one we're looking for all the time.
I'm so happy that You can read my comment ( i come Form Germany an only have learned schoolenglish ). The first half year of a lovestory is the best time. Its the time when you lay all the time in bed and the butterflies fly in you. This time is the easiest. To be in love for years doesn't make us happy. I think All the long realtionshipers have make a very good Job. When i look in my life, i realize that my longest lovestory had reached two years. It breaks apart three months before today. I was so sad and cry All the time. But the truth is that i am happy no, because the Last half year in this relationship i was unhappy. There are only a few people that thinks the Same for years. I hadn't done that and he hadn't done that. The ever and always love only exist in movies. Every of us Must realize it to be happy. A long lovestory is everytime hard work, and altough you can lost the fight.
May Biermann I think that for a long lovestory BOTH have to be and stay completely open-minded, understanding how to become better through the other (recognizing our errors and forgiving/tollerating the ones of the other). In fact, this is what we do at the beginning of the story, but after some time we have to do it consciously. The alternative is to repeating the same things again and again, just with a new person, repeating the same errors and not evolving at all.
May Biermann I'm happy to see this video, and your comment too. It's not direclty related, but I think that's it's videos is great because we can see all part of love story with the "sad" end for the love story too I think. The good is good because the bad is bad after all. Don't know if I learn something here, but my heart is happy to see that. I never live something like that, and, event if a story end like that. I think thats it's a good one.
Bruh this almost had me tearing up. I used to turn my nose up at romance stuff until I got into my first relationship. In high school, I didn’t care about boys, I was happy, I didn’t care about being single. All of my friends and girls around me were desperate for boyfriends but i really didn’t care. Then I graduated and my first boyfriend came into my life and boy was I nervous. We’re both pretty mature for me being 18 and him being 20. We’ll be together a year in July. I didn’t think I’d ever get in a relationship but I am so in love with him and he’s in love with me even more if that’s possible. Watching this reminds me of all the times we spend in his bed. But we are in a super healthy relationship but still, having a significant other makes me realize how people can fall out of love and it scares the shit out of me because he’s my best friend and my lover. A life without him would be unbelievably dull. I hope we stay together for a long time. I don’t want anybody else. Great video.
Watching this video gave me a glimpse of a lot of memories. Maybe a little sad feeling of "I miss this". Our routine, the breakfast that I never like to eat, but when was make by her was aways different. I see my history in that video, maybe because we in the most of time have a great moments in an room like that, even the Little light in the wall out of Christmas time. Watching movies, novels, discussing plans for the weekend, our lifes... And then all goes away.
my parents have been together for 50 years lmao. I'm sure they aren't going to randomly divorce after all this time so stop thinking every relationship ends because it doesn't. only stupid immature ones do
Lennie Blob ok, I mean it's a cycle because everything starts, i think your parents have problems (like the end) but they come back and this cycle is repeated, that doesn't mean that they don't love each other.
When I see this concept and story everywhere I'm like, okay I know relationships are ups and downs-so everybody keeps saying, but how is it the ups are so up there, then the downs are way below. Like how can people who had that, end up having this? what happens? why does it happen? why do they let it happen? if they let it happen, was what they felt at the beginning true? why bother then? what do people want? what is life? lol But most importantly, where can I get forever? I want forever, and a clean room. That even when it gets dirty, both of us want to clean it. Tidy it up....on the same day. Both of us. 😳😳✌
It happens, because people (especially teenagers) fall in love far to soon. As you can see here, I guess, the boy lost himself in the relationship. He lost his clear and structured way of living, since all his thoughts were about this girl (That's how I interpreted the mess in his room). If you didn't want to lose yourself in a relationship, you must have grown a strong mind. If you didn't understand yourself, you wouldn't understand someone else. These feelings in the beginning were real, but they were kinda superficial... Oh and moreover love and hate are strongly connected to each other... And maybe they didn't fight that much at the ending, because they were mainly concentrated on themselves... But I don't know...
Its just the phase of life...every1 at first tries to give their best in the relationship which fades away little by little without them realizing and eventually it comes to an edge(end)....but every1 should undestand that this point the edge or the end is actually the point where both the parties have to try again from the scratch and again give their best to each other....its just a hurdle where most of us give up...but if u try and try and try...u can be again the same what u use to be at first!!!👍
Easily one of the BEST short films I've seen! This angle is so creative and there's just so much meaning behind it. So brilliant yet simple. Absolutely beautiful job!
trust me. you are world most unfortunate lady.... love is everything. if somebody ask how is my life. i would say she is good. although is she is not with me. but i love her.
pareekshit mawar there are a lot of people who live their lives without being in a relationship and are perfectly happy. I know even more people who are in relationships and are unhappy. I think it's more important to have family and friends in our lives that we love. Yes dating and loving someone is nice, but after going through the worst break up of my life, I can no longer find interest in anyone else. But I am happy and I get to enjoy many of the wonderful things life has to offer. Relationships are just too stressful honestly. I'm very happy I'm not in one
I saw someone’s post earlier about the fear of falling in love. I don’t have time to look through again but hopefully this helps. Love is something the world needs. There is so much hate and malice in this world it’s unbearable. Your right about losing yourself in a relationship that ends in heartbreak. You lose a part of yourself, physically and mentally. You become something twisted and join the masses in the malicious intent on harming others or yourself. At one point you start to realize that this happened for a reason and you work on yourself and start helping others. You become a better version of yourself. Then the next person that comes into your life feels like a fcking fairytale ending. Don’t be a fool and ignore others in their feelings and thoughts, communicate. Enjoy life with a companion that will stay through thick and thin.
If your life is a mess don't expect someone to come and clean it up. You must clean up your own mess, and when your life is a comfortable room to stay then you can invite someone to come in. That's how healthy relationships and real love start.
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"I'd rather to be alone than to be in bad company."
OMG OMG OMG!Jessie what are you doing here.Hey I am your follower. You left it here 2 years ago. Seeing you here had me smelling
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This isn't a room, its his heart , his life...
How he let her enter in it, stays happy and things get messy and later on moves on and cleans all those to welcome new changes...
Lovely representation
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Another way of thinking
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
@@icysnow57cold64 I also think romantic love is just a social construct. It's like a fantasy world people imagine and when they wake up to practicality, it's a mess.
@@falak4535 Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships.
Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot.
And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends.
Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone.
Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.
So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.
Moral of the story: *Your room defines your relationship*
Keep it clean.
Lambert Holtland true is like a garden
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yeah i think he listened to Jordan Peterson and became a good guy
I heard it in sadguru's speak once ..all objects vibrate..if u keep it shabby you attractive negative vibrations
*Crush comes over* me: cleans house for 5 hours until he comes over to make sure everything is perfect thanks for the tip
I wanted to share these words of wisdom I heard from one of my teachers “A persons opinion on an object doesn’t define the object but defines the person”
Oh my I’m in the presence of a genius
👏 wow..so true
Deep af, you can also look at it in a perspective of taking things personally like healing words. One's opinion of you does it define you define the person
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guys this is deep as hell, the room that gradually gets messier and messier overtime is a metaphor of their relationship.
ohh that makes more sense now
I hate to be rude, but that is a glaring piece of the story. I think what is even deeper is the fact that even after the alien is thrown back into his window, he still wants to go out and meet someone new after cleaning his room and hiding the alien. Is the point of the film that everyone needs to move on, or we never forget those we love the most?
+David Thomas Newman I know you're trying to be deep and shit but I obviously dont know what this movie is about and I don't care *.*
+Neeena Cyrus I wasn't replying to you 🌭
yes ofc there are many significant attributes in this short film and what you said is true. I was just stating one of the deep and important parts of the short film :) xx
the amount of crime in this neighborhood
"This is America"?
But with a British accent.
Facts
Lol
Haha litterally what i was thinking XD
Something I learnt in my relationship is that you must not get lost in the relationship you must be in it and also be aware of your surroundings. Love isn't all about sex and fun I believe its deeper than that it about finding someone you who makes you a better person and helps you grow and upgrade your life
glad to see someone else agrees on this, they started the relationship on something shallow (sex) rather then a friendship which is why it most likely didn't last.
@@lovebug7985 Hey, I belive that there was a phillia (friendship) type of love which then tranistioned to eros (sex). In the beginning there were representations of a friendship, yeah it wasn't very long but I belive there still was. I 100% agree with ur statement that there should be a friendship first, I agree that a friendship are the building blocks to a healthy and lasting relationship. While watching the film I realized that the woman started to not care and she was making the room dirty, whereas the man was trying his best to keep the relationship going. My assumption is that the lady was building the relationship by being intimate only and that ultimtly lead to her downfall. At the end the guy was improving himself, he cleaned the room, and took care of himself. Momentary happiness is not worth it at the cost of mental health.
Beautiful
I love your beautiful and sensible thoughts on love, bro ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like this also counts for the relationship you have with yourself.
This is the second time I came to this film after ending a long-term relationship in the last 8 years. It made me feel warm that love is a cycle, like many others in your life. Hope to watch it again someday and think "Well, my cycle this time will not end like this film".
I hope your cycle this time will ending with much love and success in your life
Oo my God, separations are always hard. Just the thought of having to leave him scares me as he doesn't want a relationship but want to be with me and I love him so much dearly. You must have strong reasons behind ending your 8 years relationship.
Hey, I am also going through a break up and found myself coming back to this video because of it. I hope you can find comfort in the fact that you’re not alone and that we are going through this together. Take care now.
but then it does anyway
Thank you for sharing
Damn this is deep, the messy room symbolizes the relationship the messier and messier it becomes. Wow this literally makes me want to cry it's so sad.
I also had to cry. it is so sad! I feel strongly what is conveyed in this video. thanks for that.
Brittany Fogarty I’m mean I did cry
pinch urself buddy we are the same
My room is tidy and I'm single..
Let my reality boost your comment!
that is so deep 😩👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
Basically, this is what happens when you don't clean your room.
😂
Dont take it too litteraly
+Marleen Janssen it's sarcasm
+Pastel Maisie oh haha😂😂
yaaa that's right
his room is relatively clean before she comes. when she does come she has a bit of a mess but not too much. through all of their happy times a very small mess will appear but then it will get cleaned up. she is actually the one cleaning/making the bed (right after halloween) this represents small mishaps that are easily picked up/brushed off by her.
you only see the big mess start to appear when he kicks the toy and their relationship starts to deteriorate. only from then on it gets progressively worse and worse. this is because she is becoming more and more depressed and unhappy in the relationship. she no longer is trying to fix the relationship, therefore she is no longer trying to pick up her mess. when you’re in a bad state of mind most of the time so is your room. you have no motivation to clean. it’s a terrible cycle to get into.
this becomes apparent when she finally leaves. she takes all of her stuff but you can see there is still some mess on her side despite her taking all her stuff, meaning that some of that was actually HIS mess that was unnoticed, appearing as hers. he got rid of some of his unhappiness by putting it on her. (putting his mess on her side)
he himself become messy when he becomes unhappy and depressed. you realize this is what she was going through the whole time her mess was growing bigger and bigger.
the toy is a representation of their love, which “comes in peace” it is not their love for one another but their actions which tear them apart. it could be the effort is not longer being put into the relationship. again it’s not the mess which makes them unhappy. the mess starts to appear when they’re already unhappy, whatever reason it may have been. only later when the mess because very bad does it cause them to fight.
he kicks the toy it lands in the heart shaped pail. which is used to fix the leaking roof representing the breaking point of their relationship. a pail cannot fix a leaking roof, it must be properly fixed in order for it to not leak again. they choose to get a black circle pail once again instead of properly fixing the roof. no longer their love, like the heart shaped pail. but now a cold basic black pail.
the christmas lights she puts up are her trying to make the room appear nicer despite all the mess. it’s her not wanting to try fix the relationship but just bury the problems.
when the toy comes back through the window i do believe that that is her who throws it back considering the toy had been missing for quite some time before it returns. not only that but he’s wearing the shirt she got him for his birthday when it reappears. i think she picks it up at some point and holds onto it. it represents their love so that is her holding onto their love. he also only takes down a few photos from his wall but not all of them, the ones he does take down, if you pay attention they are the ones they take together, but he does not throw away but puts them in the nightstand meaning he still has feelings for her. i think her throwing it back was kind of saying, “now you understand why i got so messy, i was unhappy how you are now” and him cleaning is getting ready to start again. i do believe that it is her, but he wants his room to appear as he’s been fine and moved on and that’s why he clearly places the magazines on his nightstand where she could see them. to begin they were always under his bed hidden away even before she came over.
lastly the biggest message is to change and grow. there is clearly a huge sign that reads “CHANGE” in his room. the last thing he changes is the bedspread where all their memories were made. it’s time for new ones to be made and for them to change bad habits, together for themselves and for each other.
Lol too much big comment are you a robot
I actually read all of it...you got all that? N here i was just wondering what's going on here
scolastica muthoni me too 😂
His room IS relatively clean when she came in... but did you notice he felt he had to hide a part of himself quickly before letting her into his space? over the whole story he never let her know that part that he had hidden. Why was that? Was he ashamed of it? Or was he fearful that she wouldn't accept that part of him? Or did he plan to show her in time but then it got forgotten? And lastly, what might SHE have decided to hide before she came into the relationship? What part of herself did he never get to see? No surprise that the mess accumulated in this relationship because they were both probably not being their most authentic selves.
Wow bro you understand this story really well, hats off
this is EXACTLY why im sacred to fall in love and let my guard down for someone. happy endings aren’t promised, but most of the time losing yourself is. if love can make you so unhappy in the end, wth?
Same here, as much as I would want to date and find love it is that fear that keeps me away
love should spontaneous and the moment you find a real partner, it shouldn't be alarming to think long-term. Relationships are never easy because you share your life with another person but that is exactly why it is so precious. It needs care and patience and love and understanding. The thing is, the person who you love the most and can make you the happiest, can also cause heartbreak and sadness, but only because we care about our loved ones. Our heart flutters when they say something nice, we get sad and upset when they say something critical, and so on, but only because their words mean the world to us. Nonetheless, love is one of a kind and everyone needs to experience it and learn those lessons. It's part of the human experience. It's important to focus on the bigger picture when thinking about love.
Moral of the story: Clean your room every day
It wasn't his mess. It was the girl's mess.
i was about like then saw it at 420. don’t wanna ruin that
AHAHAHAHAHAHA
Actually the mess is symbolic, when 2 people come together they bring their mess together and that's why we reach that point. It's there in every relationship
Haha it's so funny
My favourite part was when he finally cleaned his room.
What was that audio when he cleans da mess?
I have ocd and that bothered me the most
😂 lol
Orgasmic waves comin through .
Yasss
I feel so terrible for all the people who have experienced this so many times they stopped believing in love, I promise there is true love, it's just hard to find, and unfortunately so many people wont. Thankfully I have💕
You are blessed
Please keep it. Don't let it go
Me too dr......I have perfect one ♥️and he is my everything
@Dragon yes, even people like me, fully convinced that it will never end, lose their love, but dont say that for everyone. People died happily married, yes, some people do. Never doubt it wont happen to you, unless you dont want it to. (I'm the CEO of commas lol)
@Dragon dear true love exists...relationship breaks only whn either one strts entering into others personal space....both should be an individual nd shld act maturely!!True love exists may be smwhere❤️
Being alone is much better than being with someone who makes your life bitter ....
True
Good ending. It shows that people come and go in the chapters of our lives.
Angelina Sheppard no
That sucks though
Sachi Wachi what
So true😊
But that's sad 😞
lesson learned: LOVE IS MESSY.
So true
@@thesweettruth1383 no comment ! because i don't understand what he's saying. lyrics please.
Love is wonderful even all this pain and hurt
Love is god ..❤
"I come in pee--"😂 5:07
7:01 He put the magazines back in the end but kept their pictures on the wall.
I love reading comments on short films because...
1. I love knowing other people's point of view.😍 I mean how beautiful,deep and different our thoughts are!!!🙂
2. My stupid ass mind doesn't have that deep thinking like others😅
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Yeah me too
Yes, even me .... i also like reading this comment section !!
Listen no! What was that sound when he cleans da mess??? I really wanna know!
@@anushkamahajan901 you mean music?....well if yes. Sorry I don't know 😅
You have beautiful mind with your good curiosity to know others thoughts
And i am going to copy your lines please don't mind 😆
that's why my mum asked me to keep my room clean...
@Daniella Montes soryy i didn't understand ?
😂
😂😂😂
@@airajoygutierrez232 why are you laughing???
Ohhh😅😅
Even when his room was messy, it still managed to have an aesthetic to it
True but some people even have an aesthetic where their rooms are cluttered
Its the angle
The room defined his relationship. It would have worked betteer if they both decided to clean the room and solve their problems together with love and affection...
Jesus Christ. I felt like I was watching my ex and I from a third person perspective. So accurate in depicting what a relationship looks like in the beginning to how it just can tragically gradually become lifeless.
I should be studying for finals right now...
Gillianne Calma omg so am I 😂
Gillianne Calma omg same hahahah mine starts tomorrow
Gillianne Calma Mine were today. Goodluck!!!!!
Same, but the feels right now currently overtake my abilities to focus on my studies... Last final tomorrow and this coming Friday...
Gillianne Calma right! how did i end up here? 😡
Everyone is talking about their relationship and i'm like "how high is the flipping roof in his room"😂
Christine Sabella omg same haha😂😂😂
Christine Sabella haha thank you! I thought I was the only one
Christine Sabella grt
Omg yesss
Christine Sabella OMG I THOUGHT THAT AT THE FIRST SECONDS😂😂😂
God's view!
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In technical terms, it’s called the overhead shot
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@@Ed-ry1kj 😂😂😂
It’s kinda creepy to think God is watching EVERYTHING
I just watched this video yesterday and shared this with my girlfriend and told her how much I love her and today she broke up with me , she found someone better than me
Oooo....I'm sorry....maybe she just doesnt deserve your love at all...but dont waste it....save it for a person who really cares for you and love you...hope you find that one person soon......
@@Blue-lt1sq Thanks for your words
😲
I am sincerely sorry 😞. But look at the bright side of life, maybe she wasn't 'the one'... Your soulmate is out there somewhere she'll meet you today, tomorrow or someday! ☺️
Don't worry brother there's someone worthy waiting for you
I know that when u fall in love u loose ur mind and u can't think properly and u don't care about anything else but ur love.I was in love and got heart broken.I stayed depressed for 6 months then finally I woke up and moved on.The first thing I changed in my life was my bedroom.Then I deleted alot of people in my life.I selected only a few.My attitude changed.My personality grew stronger.Now I enjoy being alone more.I just love my ownself company.Love is something very and very beautiful. But I advise everyone to fall in love when they get more mature and become more wiser . That's what I learnt.
Smart Enough 😍😍😍
You are right... i am too left with a broken heart
You are right, and such an example to follow ♡
But nobody can choose when to fall in love it's not like you can make an appointment for what time and place you wanna fall in love? It just happens when you least expect it wether you're mature enough or not...
I think so. 😊
My anxiety was through the roof when the room was all clustered and it felt like a weight was lifted off of my shoulders when he cleaned it
i felt that one too, I can't sleep in a messy room, it makes my skin crawl
you both have issues to work out
+warmaxxx that's just who they are. Get over it.
I felt the guy's side was cleaner. But nevertheless, it was annoying to see that room messy. I agree with you.
I felt the guy's side was cleaner. But nevertheless, it was annoying to see that room messy. I agree with you.
I truly didn't want to cry this morning....but here we are. This is honestly the purest representation of love. The beautiful, messy, and tragic bond of love. 🥺
“Never throw away your naughty magazines when you start a relationahip. You may need them back after breaking up”
- Sun Tzu
People have no patience in this generation, being in love is an amazing thing and forgiving and putting up with the mistakes of the person you love is the real love and adds more meaning to everything and I know that there are many old people who wrote about the death of their loved ones crying or sleeping next to the grave of the person they loved and wishing for death so they can be together. The love many young people understand now days is pleasure and spending good time and that's all.
it sounds like a tumblr sentence
:D
Razen Şahin well said! Thank you for your comment :)
Razen Şahin I honestly love this so much , I posted this on my Instagram & gave you credit ; @kayla.tbh
Razen Şahin aw bless your soul. I'm going through a tough time, this is the kind of mentality that keeps me sane.
afarid to be like that RS
The camera makes me feel like a stalker. I AM SPIDERMAN
Lol that's true
Their roof is so high or wat
Omg I just watched Spiderman Now I'm watching this and I see your comment . This is the most random thing ever
Yes true
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I've come to this video for comfort because it's been almost 2 years since my long term relationship ended and I still can't seem to find my own ending, my own cylce. I appreciate this wonderful piece of art because it gives me hope.
Guys finally i want to share y'all something.... I saw this video 5 years back & it touched me deeply from situation i was going through & everytime whenever i feel like not enough in the relationships i always search this video & used to see . Finally I've ended my 3 year of serious relationship & now I'm here. This video is very close to my heart ❤️ .
The room is slightly messy in the beginning, he got out of a relationship a little while ago. When he is cleaning up he puts the past behind him and starts out fresh with no problems. Little by little the room gets messier, these being problems, they clean, they fix their problems. But it eventually gets too much, the room gets extremely messy, until they can't handle each other anymore. Then they break it off. He sits in their past, their old problems, until he cleans his rooms, leaving him with a fresh mind.
Also, those are Dan's bed sheets!
Lesson of the story: *I COME IN PEACE*
C h a r m ahahhahahaha
Lol ikr
hahaaa
... I always tought it was saying "im kind of pissed"
And you could get thrown out of the window :'v XD
I like how while there’s not much dialogue there is still a lot of storytelling and characterization. A cool feet for such a short amount of time!
if my dad saw this video he would say, "See this is why you need to clean your room; it defines your whole life!" haha I can hear him now. great video! I loved how you gave us hope that maybe they would get back together but they didn't. that was simply well done!
He obviously cared more about the relationship than she did. Her stuff kept spilling onto his side, she was spending all her time at his place...not only taking up space but creating a huge mess which can only be reflected in her life outside of him and not much of one since her codependent behavior was apparent. She demanded help from him pertaining to things she should’ve been takin care of on her own. It was too much for him, but he continued to try. Him sitting on the edge of the bed represented his need to get out of the situation and she had the opportunity to quit wallowing in her self pity by reaching out at that moment. And then she left only to pick up her stuff and leave him in a mess they both created. It’s not to say it was entirely her fault, just that some people’s side of the situation is a lot messier than the others.
You are looking so cute
@@narendersinghshekhawat9451 wtf
So understanding u are... Where do we get girls like you..!!!
Beautifully said
499 like give me big dick action
I just realized my room is messy as I’m watching this...😂
Cammy86 mine too lol
Cammy86 I cant even walk through my room lol
You have exactly 666 thumbs up right now
Literly me
Lol
Every time I watch this it inspires me to clean my room. Thank you!
the fact that the poster stayed in the same position is truly admirable!!
The moral of the story is.......... to keep your room clean.
Keep your life clean. To have a tidy up often of the things that may be piling on top of you and others. The cleaner your head the happier you will be. That could be letting go of bad things that happened yesterday and the years before and dropping your worries and frustrations that don't serve you purpose anymore.
This may not be the reason of the video and I can think of other reasons but that was what I took from it. Everyone sees things differently just thought I would share what I saw.
I like what you took from it.
Rachael Marie
it's actually kinda funny
But I mean it could be meant metaphorical as well! ;)
Rachael Marie
Thanks all for your kind word!! :)
cuál es la moraleja?
therotiv4 Never throw the porn!!!
therotiv4 no tengas novia
Hi Jack! Congratulations for this short, it's beautiful, real art...
Thank you.
This is amazing !!
I always come back to this short film and it never disappoints !
Me too man 🙌
The whole way though I was like
“Bro, throw that mag away”
My question is...
Who’s ceiling is that high? 😂
*-Solstice-* I
It's not about the height, it's about the field of view of the lens. Do a quick research about field of view in photography/filmmaking and wide angle lenses. That's also why you can see so much of both sides of the wall. The field of view is probably something like 120°.
@Sam Gaming You might be right, i don't see much distortion either. Using a wide angle lens is much easier and cheaper though, i'm not sure.
Mine
Exactly
lesson I've learned by this vid: everything is so sweet at the beginning but suddenly can go difficult and bitter. you have to choose what kind of partner you want to be. if you're going to fight and trying to change the things that you know you're doing wrong or you just don't give shit and keep your side messy.
Agustina Nuñez just keep your room clean and be happy 😁
It was really cool to watch, so interesting to get other “POV”, the little things like the room representing the relationship and the little I come in peace guy were great
This is the sweetest short film I have ever watched.
I waited for the whole movie for her to find the magazines
Hahahahahhahahaha meee too 🤣😂
Best comment
Looool 😂😂😂 too mate
This story is heartbreaking. I just don't like the thought of relationships coming to an end. A good short though.
It made me sad too 😔,hope I don't end up like this.
I watched this video and was inspired to say this. I usually don’t comment on many things but I want to share something very important: MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP!!!
Fairytales are beautiful and romance is great.. but even love needs to be cared for. Do something for your partner every. Single. Day. It doesn’t have to be huge. It could be a kiss or an “I love you.” Maintain your relationship after marriage as well. It’s like a backyard. You need to mow it often to keep it nice. If you let it go for too long, it’ll be extremely hard to mow later. Weird analogy, but you get the point.
If you have an argument, remember that it isn’t the end of the world. It’s healthy for couples to argue and advance their relationship this way. It intensifies your love to go through hardships together. Try to understand your partner, try to compromise on things...
MAKE SURE you go to sleep content with each other. NEVER go to sleep angry. Always sleep in the same bed (if you’re married). One thing that helps is doing something that boosts dopamine after fighting... After an exhausting argument, we dance together. It calms us both down. After, we find arguments way easier to navigate.
Just remember that you love this human. In a marital setting, remember why you married this person. This is the one you chose to love and protect your whole life. Remember that you made this person a forever promise! Fall in love together every day. Recognize the good more than the bad. When you recognize the bad, work hard to fix it together! Work hard to improve yourself over improving them. Go on weekly dates, they can even be little like watching a movie together at home. Overall, just love each other and work hard to maintain your relationship. It’s so so worth it. I promise you. I wish you all the best and God bless! ❤️
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the comment section is just simply amazing, so many interpretations, the meaning behind literally amazing 🙇♀️
This has got to be my 10th time watching this. What I love about this film is the detail and the validity. Each time I watch it, I notice something different. You can literally see and feel them growing apart and even though it's sad, you feel okay at the end. Life goes on. What a work of art. So well done.
Its really me and my first ex when i was 15
Bella Kuku Tanesia how many exs you have?
dont worry in your life many comes more
Omg , 15
Slow down people, she is saying FIRST not 10th ex and if she did have more what does it come to u guys??
I was ten
so beautiful still watching nov.2019❤
thus was the best 7 minutes of my life, love your work , it is a work of art
his room is look better withour her. However his days are more colorful with her
Temporarily colorful
@Inna Makmaker woah.... nicely said
*looks
Surprisingly they didn't change their bedsheets..
neha Upadhyay BAHAHAHA
-6 years later, If you're still watching this you're a legend.
So you are saying I am legend 🙅
This made me sad 7 years ago when I was 14 and it still does
At least she never found his porn magazines
Emmalein lol
Haha i laughed so much to this comment xd
Emmalein, best comment!
Not Funny when it happens to you
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I am coming back to this video about nine months later saying that this is, and will probably always be my favourite short film. Just cried my eyes out through the whole thing, and videos struggle to bring me such raw emotion like yours does. Thank you so much for creating this; never stop.
Same
U should watch the short film named "i miss you" you'll cry so much more!
+Emily Leiva which one ?
Holly Clemens true
Holly Clemens no kidding! 💔
I really enjoyed this short film. I loved the camera angle in the film. It gave us this birds eye view and allowed us to observe everything that is going on in it. I loved how the story was told with little dialogue. This is nicely made short. Really enjoyed it
this will always be my favorite short film 🥺
I think the messy room represents the love. How they start off strong [ The room being clean ] and then how everything unfolds [ room being messy] Love is a cherishable thing and everyone should know it. You shouldn't treat it as a piece of garbage that you throw on the floor. It's much more than that.
IT STARTED OUT WITH A KISS HOW DID IT END UP LIKE THIS
Edit: damn guys 180 likes thank you!! I've never gotten that many before 😊💕
it was only a kiss it was only a kiss
Now I'm falling asleep, and she's calling a cab
while he’s having a smoke, and she’s talking a drag
Seven Zero Seven now their going to bed, and my stomach is sick
Bianca Cassidy Ientile and it’s all in my head now but she’s touching his chest now he takes off her dress now.... oh God it literally makes me sick 🤢
This is an absolute masterpiece.
This never gets old, I've been watching for last four years 🤩🤩🥰
Moral of the story~ it's important to clean your room
dontstopme ￤😒
Hahahha right
I was more sad for the stuffed alien the entire time ;(
I was so heartbroken when he toss him out the window lmfao
+Neshia Worldz fuck yes
same, he only came in peace :'-(
+Elida Havn right :((
Crybaby! I come in peace ;)
Damn, rewatching this several years later by chance and having experienced an heartbreak recently it just hits deeply different
This is so nostalgic and pure. This is ART.
This goes to show that a good relationship will just be in the beginning. people nowadays doesnt know how to compromise in the relationship...theyre just there for happy times not in the bad times.
I'm so glad that my boyfriend and I are really doing our best to make our relationship a comfortable space for both of us. And trust me, it's difficult, because I'm a really troubled person. I'm so hopeful about us lately, but I always have this fear in the back of my mind that maybe all this efforts are just not enough to make us work.
good luck..may you never be apart😊
your comment makes me sader than the whole film, which was a good one, but I'm in a relationship too and thats exactly how I feel. I wish you good luck! I'm from Germany btw:)
Strahlende Lena I wish you luck too. regards from Barcelona
mtrmoon omg ❤️
I worry about the same thing all the time about my girlfriend. Don't worry, enjoy it while it lasts and may it last for eternity
One of the best things I have seem on this platform. Just simple story telling. Kudos to the team.
Actually i think this Video is a very sad One. The First time i see it i had hoped that every comes to an good end. 7 mimutes had passed and I realize That the woman never come back. They are breaking apart. But when the Film ends, the man tidy up his room, demolish the photos and try to find his new lovestory.
I cant believe that every of us try to find this. Only to find a lovestory that never ends.
I think its the feeling, like a drug to be in a new lovestory. To feel that another person loves you.. The pain that we feel when thats breaking apart is hard, But Not so emotional like falling in love.
Again and again..
I couldn't say better, you perfectly said the truth. We don't want to love only one woman/man, we want to know many love stories in our life, as a lovestory cannot be perfect forever, and sometimes even if it's hard, we're breaking apart, and looking for a new one somewhere else, because the feeling that another person loves you is far the best one, and the one we're looking for all the time.
I'm so happy that You can read my comment ( i come Form Germany an only have learned schoolenglish ).
The first half year of a lovestory is the best time. Its the time when you lay all the time in bed and the butterflies fly in you. This time is the easiest. To be in love for years doesn't make us happy. I think All the long realtionshipers have make a very good Job.
When i look in my life, i realize that my longest lovestory had reached two years. It breaks apart three months before today. I was so sad and cry All the time. But the truth is that i am happy no, because the Last half year in this relationship i was unhappy. There are only a few people that thinks the Same for years. I hadn't done that and he hadn't done that. The ever and always love only exist in movies. Every of us Must realize it to be happy. A long lovestory is everytime hard work, and altough you can lost the fight.
May Biermann I think that for a long lovestory BOTH have to be and stay completely open-minded, understanding how to become better through the other (recognizing our errors and forgiving/tollerating the ones of the other). In fact, this is what we do at the beginning of the story, but after some time we have to do it consciously. The alternative is to repeating the same things again and again, just with a new person, repeating the same errors and not evolving at all.
May Biermann I'm happy to see this video, and your comment too. It's not direclty related, but I think that's it's videos is great because we can see all part of love story with the "sad" end for the love story too I think. The good is good because the bad is bad after all. Don't know if I learn something here, but my heart is happy to see that. I never live something like that, and, event if a story end like that. I think thats it's a good one.
Bruh this almost had me tearing up. I used to turn my nose up at romance stuff until I got into my first relationship. In high school, I didn’t care about boys, I was happy, I didn’t care about being single. All of my friends and girls around me were desperate for boyfriends but i really didn’t care. Then I graduated and my first boyfriend came into my life and boy was I nervous. We’re both pretty mature for me being 18 and him being 20. We’ll be together a year in July. I didn’t think I’d ever get in a relationship but I am so in love with him and he’s in love with me even more if that’s possible. Watching this reminds me of all the times we spend in his bed. But we are in a super healthy relationship but still, having a significant other makes me realize how people can fall out of love and it scares the shit out of me because he’s my best friend and my lover. A life without him would be unbelievably dull. I hope we stay together for a long time. I don’t want anybody else. Great video.
Good luck with your relationship.
omg wait this is my exact situation this is CRAZY does it keep working???
Wishing you the best
Update?
Hope you are still together in 2021 October.
Watching this video gave me a glimpse of a lot of memories. Maybe a little sad feeling of "I miss this". Our routine, the breakfast that I never like to eat, but when was make by her was aways different. I see my history in that video, maybe because we in the most of time have a great moments in an room like that, even the Little light in the wall out of Christmas time.
Watching movies, novels, discussing plans for the weekend, our lifes... And then all goes away.
Editing,lighting,camera angle and sounds so good.......vera level......🥰🥰🥰🥰i love it......
Ok everyone this is exactly how a relationship works. it is a cycle.
+Naomy Flota Medina not every :)
Lennie Blob i'm not rude.. but just wait.
my parents have been together for 50 years lmao. I'm sure they aren't going to randomly divorce after all this time so stop thinking every relationship ends because it doesn't. only stupid immature ones do
Lennie Blob ok, I mean it's a cycle because everything starts, i think your parents have problems (like the end) but they come back and this cycle is repeated, that doesn't mean that they don't love each other.
Lennie Blob i really hope you can understand my point. GN.
Every dirt in there room its like a problems/struggles they dont giving an attention to clean to solve 😢😭
You understood the video perfectly for real!!!
Ohhhh so first he made room for her then all that junk came :/
Just the comment I was looking for
One of the best comment 😊
Just like mine
This is why I love short films that if you’re creative enough you can present whole film use one frame 🎉
Congrats🎉
Watched this the first time when i was 13, came back now going through my worst breakup and it hits so much now.
When I see this concept and story everywhere I'm like, okay I know relationships are ups and downs-so everybody keeps saying, but how is it the ups are so up there, then the downs are way below. Like how can people who had that, end up having this? what happens? why does it happen? why do they let it happen? if they let it happen, was what they felt at the beginning true? why bother then? what do people want? what is life? lol
But most importantly, where can I get forever? I want forever, and a clean room. That even when it gets dirty, both of us want to clean it. Tidy it up....on the same day. Both of us. 😳😳✌
Zainab M. Adam love this comment!!
Zainab M. Adam I guess we are all waiting for an answer...
HollyLove 😳😊😊😍
Xannah somebody should do a thorough research on this lol. Maybe I should.
It happens, because people (especially teenagers) fall in love far to soon. As you can see here, I guess, the boy lost himself in the relationship. He lost his clear and structured way of living, since all his thoughts were about this girl (That's how I interpreted the mess in his room).
If you didn't want to lose yourself in a relationship, you must have grown a strong mind. If you didn't understand yourself, you wouldn't understand someone else. These feelings in the beginning were real, but they were kinda superficial... Oh and moreover love and hate are strongly connected to each other...
And maybe they didn't fight that much at the ending, because they were mainly concentrated on themselves...
But I don't know...
All of you deserve love, you WILL find it
😟
Tanguy Marin Bertin awwk you will!
@@sisterlaura3405 im the biggest French loser, there's no hope
Tanguy Marin Bertin awww no ur not!!
Needed this today. Cried because of a guy. Thanks a lot
Wow! Truly amazing work of art this is.... The real moral of the story: never stop trying.
Was hoping for something sweet and cute, but found something deep and filled with meaning. Good job.
Its just the phase of life...every1 at first tries to give their best in the relationship which fades away little by little without them realizing and eventually it comes to an edge(end)....but every1 should undestand that this point the edge or the end is actually the point where both the parties have to try again from the scratch and again give their best to each other....its just a hurdle where most of us give up...but if u try and try and try...u can be again the same what u use to be at first!!!👍
Very well said.absolutely true
Ryt
Easily one of the BEST short films I've seen! This angle is so creative and there's just so much meaning behind it. So brilliant yet simple. Absolutely beautiful job!
That was amazing. Great job.
Well done! A story that's easy to relate to and brings back memories of all the same bitter and sweet moments. Hurrah!
oh thank god he finally cleaned up
I'm so glad I watched this. it makes me happy that I'm not in a relationship hahah
LOLL same
Kaitlin hard to believe. you're that beautiful and single hmm :^
hi
trust me. you are world most unfortunate lady.... love is everything. if somebody ask how is my life. i would say she is good. although is she is not with me. but i love her.
pareekshit mawar there are a lot of people who live their lives without being in a relationship and are perfectly happy. I know even more people who are in relationships and are unhappy. I think it's more important to have family and friends in our lives that we love. Yes dating and loving someone is nice, but after going through the worst break up of my life, I can no longer find interest in anyone else. But I am happy and I get to enjoy many of the wonderful things life has to offer. Relationships are just too stressful honestly. I'm very happy I'm not in one
I saw someone’s post earlier about the fear of falling in love. I don’t have time to look through again but hopefully this helps.
Love is something the world needs. There is so much hate and malice in this world it’s unbearable. Your right about losing yourself in a relationship that ends in heartbreak. You lose a part of yourself, physically and mentally. You become something twisted and join the masses in the malicious intent on harming others or yourself. At one point you start to realize that this happened for a reason and you work on yourself and start helping others. You become a better version of yourself. Then the next person that comes into your life feels like a fcking fairytale ending. Don’t be a fool and ignore others in their feelings and thoughts, communicate. Enjoy life with a companion that will stay through thick and thin.
this is a terrific concept. way to make a low budget, high quality short film! This helps give me some ideas for my first motion picture :)
If your life is a mess don't expect someone to come and clean it up. You must clean up your own mess, and when your life is a comfortable room to stay then you can invite someone to come in. That's how healthy relationships and real love start.