I'M SO DESPERATE FOR LOVE I MOVED TO NIGERIA AND GOT MARRIED TO A COMPLETE STRANGER!!!!!

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  • @EatwithQue
    @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +177

    Subscribe to our couples channel here: th-cam.com/video/4JvCdLLf5VI/w-d-xo.html

    • @angelbaby3824
      @angelbaby3824 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I subscribe soon as you posted boo

    • @joydavis8583
      @joydavis8583 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I already subscribed to ya'll channel when you first posted it

    • @promostk
      @promostk ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Awesome 🎉

    • @promostk
      @promostk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joydavis8583 righttt ❤

    • @SevenHunnid
      @SevenHunnid ปีที่แล้ว

      I do food reviews while I’m high on my TH-cam channel cx

  • @denikabrown2813
    @denikabrown2813 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Don’t get me wrong I’m all for love but every person you deal with doesn’t have to go on camera.

    • @cynthiap9793
      @cynthiap9793 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Feel the same way

    • @PlusSizeShay
      @PlusSizeShay ปีที่แล้ว +3

      From my personal experience being an influencer myself. I have been at peace with not showing my significant other

    • @cece9604
      @cece9604 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well this person is her husband lol

    • @MrsRayford16
      @MrsRayford16 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This seems so fake. He doesn't even look like your type but time will tell

    • @mydietisfruitsnuttandseed9817
      @mydietisfruitsnuttandseed9817 ปีที่แล้ว

      The shade of referring to her husband as a "person you deal with"

  • @pursegal32
    @pursegal32 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    She behaved the same way about the guy from Detroit. She just loves love. But she need to open those eyes and stop living in a fantasy world. I wish her the best.

  • @urbanhookah1
    @urbanhookah1 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    With all Due Respect Que SOME of the
    DECISIONS we make are NOT from GOD. As much as we may want them to be. Peace & Many blessings

  • @Adaywith_Daphne
    @Adaywith_Daphne ปีที่แล้ว +324

    I met my husband in October of 1997 and we got married in July of 1998. We'll be celebrating our 25th year wedding anniversary July 2023.
    When you know, you know.
    What God has joined together, let no man put asunder" 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

  • @denicarobinson7154
    @denicarobinson7154 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Girl you end one relationship and immediately start a new one 😮 no time for healing ❤

    • @JayDavante
      @JayDavante ปีที่แล้ว +27

      The most high runs things. He can heal someone in a week, a month, also a year. No one knows how long someone should heal for. There isn't a specific time frame. The Lord works fast and slow. He is always on time and always keep his promises 💯🙏🏾

    • @majatl
      @majatl ปีที่แล้ว +63

      I think her last man was right, she was in Nigeria with other men but saying she was there for self care 🤔 and now she married to a Nigerian man. He wasn't lying

    • @ItsMelody-Tv
      @ItsMelody-Tv ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So you giving people a time limit to move on ? Time waits for no one . Foh

    • @wavyblkqueen
      @wavyblkqueen ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@JayDavante that’s not how it works. God is no where near her because she doesn’t know how to be alone long enough for Him to speak to her spirit.

    • @laurenfenelon6134
      @laurenfenelon6134 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMelody-Tv yea you right but clearly she was on some hoe shit

  • @lifewiththepeoples
    @lifewiththepeoples ปีที่แล้ว +280

    Ladies being desperate for what God has for you does not mean moving fast or moving ahead of God . Patience is the best thing to have when waiting on what God has for you .. When you move to fast it allows the enemy to come in and deceive you and block what God really has for you 🙏 hope this helps at least 1 person God bless you all

  • @lakaiyshasmith770
    @lakaiyshasmith770 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That’s the most honest thing you said
    Desperate for love!
    Girl u say that about all the relationships u show us🤦‍♀️

  • @blackbeauty5811
    @blackbeauty5811 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Man when she said “I’m desperate for all the things God has for me” I felt that to my core… tears unexpectedly fell from my face! I’m so happy for her… for stepping out on faith and believing in Love! I wish you an abundance of love joy and peace!!!❤❤❤❤

    • @ALISHA28282
      @ALISHA28282 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I can relate iam so desperate I can taste it

    • @mamadivabh
      @mamadivabh ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Black Beauty, I felt it too...❤️😘

    • @deionellison6881
      @deionellison6881 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That touched me as well

    • @vanessabrown5551
      @vanessabrown5551 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      To each it own..the Bible said patience is a virtue and it also said let patience have her perfect work.the Bible also mention be not agent (misspell sorry)for anything but with prayer and supplication.

    • @blessedyes3902
      @blessedyes3902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vanessabrown5551 anxious

  • @64cbroussard
    @64cbroussard ปีที่แล้ว +962

    There is a difference between hate and concern. I believe people are genuinely concerned about Que. I pray the best for you Que. ❤

    • @mazwide9400
      @mazwide9400 ปีที่แล้ว +122

      They don't need to! Why be concerned about a stranger? They must focus on their lives,and live this lady alone!

    • @Nappy2theRoot
      @Nappy2theRoot ปีที่แล้ว +32

      People need therapy

    • @simplylerato
      @simplylerato ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Concerned because he is Nigerian 🙄 Tah!!

    • @emilyjacks6022
      @emilyjacks6022 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I’m sure we all have family members that need our concern, MaZwide said it best, why be so concerned about a stranger? Everything she does gets everybody panties in a bunch. most of them are not even concerned, just hateful people.

    • @ChigirlKay
      @ChigirlKay ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Exactly! No one is hating on Que. The reason for the genuine concern is because it’s been a very real nightmare for plenty of women who did the very same thing. I truly hope it works out for her. I hate that she did it without her mom and sister there, but that’s something she has to live with. Big congratulations! Respectfully.

  • @staceyslife505
    @staceyslife505 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    You never once said you loved that man. It’s always about him loving you.

    • @mjateighty5
      @mjateighty5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Because she doesn't and she knows it. That's why she looks sad when she forgets the camera is on. Play wasn't sh*t but you could tell she loved that man. This ain't it.

    • @genia.bprettysavage2127
      @genia.bprettysavage2127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ngl I’m happy for her but I too noticed that 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I almost spit out my juice. Let me watch the video🤣🤣🤣you the highlighted comment😭

    • @catrenacolbert8801
      @catrenacolbert8801 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Put it like this…. She’s there and not in America, that in itself proves she loves that man

    • @yolandawhite3638
      @yolandawhite3638 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@catrenacolbert8801 that doesn’t prove anything

  • @floraygibson3661
    @floraygibson3661 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    CONGRATULATIONS QUE💕💕 Me and my husband dated from March 1986 and got married September 1986. We celebrated 36 years of marriage this year. What GOD hath joined together let no man put asunder 🙏🏾💕🙏🏾

  • @wintressmoore2705
    @wintressmoore2705 ปีที่แล้ว +642

    ARE YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE US OR YOURSELF THAT HE LOVES YOU?? GIRL.. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING!!! JUST BE HAPPY IF YOUR HAPPY!! IT'S YOUR LIFE NOT OURS!! 🤷🤷🤷

    • @melindahudson6587
      @melindahudson6587 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      You couldn't of said no better.every woman needs to hear this. Love yourself first.remember god will never fail you.

    • @vimarynation371
      @vimarynation371 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Exactly 💯

    • @ゆしもし
      @ゆしもし ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She’s out of it ag 😂

    • @ericastarrr1992
      @ericastarrr1992 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Congrats on the marriage, but she will always be weird to me

    • @darky5309
      @darky5309 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      SOME OF US R INDEED HAPPY FOR U!! BUT....THAT AFRICAN MAN IN THE KITCHEN...WHILST MARRIED, WONT STAY IN THE KITCHEN FOR LONG!! AFRICAN MEN ESPECIALLY NIGERIANS AND GHANAIANS, LOOOOVE THEIR FOOD N NOOO AFRICAN MAN WILL GET MARRIED N STAY IN THE KITCHEN FOR LONG!! U NEED TO LEARN HOW TO PREPARE HIS FOOD N SERVE HIM...ITS OUR CUSTOM....LIKE IT OR NOT!!! ELSE, HE WILL STAY MARRIED TO U N CHEAT WITH THE AFRICAN LADY WHO CAN COOK!! NOW NOTE, IN AFRICA, ITS COMPULSORY TO KNOW HOW TO COOK AS AN AFRICAN WOMAN!!! LEARN MY BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, LEARN!!!! COZ ALL DEM BREAKFAST IN BED N ALL FOR AN AFRICAN MAN,.....HMMMMMMMM!!! IT IS WHAT IT IS!!!!

  • @scorpioempress63
    @scorpioempress63 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    It’s a bit concerning for someone to say that they were SO desperate for love that they moved to another country and married a stranger. Everyone desires and deserves to be loved properly. It’s our birthright.
    If she feels that this is her best chance at true love then God Bless her. She’s got to be the one who deals with whatever is to come of this union.
    I don’t think people are hating on her choice, I think people just see a pattern of her said desperation to be tethered to a man. It’s called CODEPENDENCY and it’s a very real thing that many people suffer from.
    She’s had back to back failed relationships that have been very public. That’s also been her choice. You can’t keep coming on social media with your relationship problems and then keep popping up in new relationships so quickly and think people don’t see it as a pattern of a person in despair. Hopefully, this one will work out and be her forever love.
    Being a influencer doesn’t mean you have to put your multiple failed relationships on display. Especially when you’re known for eating. Just eat, enjoy your food and be happy in whatever union you’re in at the time. You make yourself look like you’re beyond unstable and insecure mentally and emotionally otherwise.

    • @kuhleamahle130
      @kuhleamahle130 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @scorpioempress63 Your words are wise and caring... unfortunately, your target audience has ears but heareth not, has eyes but sees not... You rang the alarm... You've done the right thing... now we gone see....

    • @scorpioempress63
      @scorpioempress63 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@kuhleamahle130 I never expect anyone to take heed. It’s just disheartening to see a woman who is clearly not in a good place internally and make every attempt to deflect that. Desperate times call for desperate measures for sure.. We can’t look outside of ourselves for love and or happiness. They’re both INSIDE jobs.
      To even think people are hating is more so projecting insecurities outward as opposing to looking inward and dealing with the root cause of them.
      I pray this one works out because it should be beyond humiliating to have to come back on social media and face an already concerned audience with another failed love affair. From another country no less.. 😐

    • @lolastclaire3062
      @lolastclaire3062 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But that’s not what she said… she said in desperate for the things GOD(YHWH) has for her

    • @roxysunshine6418
      @roxysunshine6418 ปีที่แล้ว

      LM

    • @DrStephanieMillerWilliams
      @DrStephanieMillerWilliams ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Well it ain’t shit here to choose from as far as men! There’s a whole world of men out there! Go get a passport and travel to meet them!

  • @kreeationsbykree
    @kreeationsbykree ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Watching you is a reminder to me that I need to stop living life like I get a second one & to stop worrying about what people think. I’m so happy for you Que. 👰🏾‍♀️💍

    • @dorothyspeaks6997
      @dorothyspeaks6997 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right sis!!!

    • @michellesanders7711
      @michellesanders7711 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yassssssss❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Isaidit129
      @Isaidit129 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes, baby girl live life to the fullest and at YOUR own pace not nobody else’s pace. Nobody has a crystal ball to say if their relationship is going stand the test of time, all we can do is pray, have faith and be happy ❤️

    • @fmm2339
      @fmm2339 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Agree

    • @Mekaboo1
      @Mekaboo1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Well said

  • @Mrsmissie
    @Mrsmissie ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Only those that are immature believe ppl are hating. There's a difference between hating and being concerned. You have to be an mature adult to know the difference. It seems Que is trying to convince herself. There's no way I'm going to do a video or anything else explaining myself to anyone about how I move. So I'll say this if all that you said is true move on and stop doing content like this live your best life. Your not going to convince everyone so stop trying.

    • @FairyLuxMutha
      @FairyLuxMutha ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @heyniran
      @heyniran ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You Americans are legendary in giving negative vibes. I've learnt that from this channel.
      Why you concerned about an obvious happy soul? Is your life perfect? If not, you should be more concerned about yourself first. Let her enjoy her joy. Jeeeeez!

    • @james56660
      @james56660 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@heyniran + Exactly my sentiment. They are scared 😱 of everything outside that supposedly utopian enclave of theirs and when someone from there takes a leap then you hear all kinds of unsolicited advises and fake concerns/perturbing. Phoneyest and fakest people ever.☝️

    • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
      @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ppl lack discernment and that’s a very big problem

    • @preciousisiguzo2052
      @preciousisiguzo2052 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@heyniran why are you commenting on every comment ?now you starting to act like a typical Nigeria defending nonsense just because you want to jagapa stop trying to convince or try to emotionally black mail us .We are. not as ignorant as she is ,we know know how you people roll and how you want to leave Nigeria to ogbodo yibo and you can do anything as long as it gets you out of Nigeria ,AM I WRONG 🦻 ehhhh!! beg shift

  • @tonyabrooks7134
    @tonyabrooks7134 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Well atleast she bought herself a nice ring

  • @cookinwithbae6
    @cookinwithbae6 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    You said the same thing about Scott you said the same thing about play girl by

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Scott is an amazing man. Not sure who the other person you are speaking of is.

    • @TSanya98
      @TSanya98 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@EatwithQue 😂😂😂 please what did that other man do. I thought he was great from what we saw on your videos

  • @prudyskitchen6630
    @prudyskitchen6630 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    I met my husband in October, we got married in January, in less than 3 months. We will celebrate 12years of marriage in January. Every single thing in my life has worked in my favour since that faithful 28 October we met. When God does it, it looks too good to be true, that's why He's God!. When you finally step in to that right unknown, everything falls in place for the rest of your life. Everybody told me he wanted my money cos I had a good job. But guess what! He hasn't let me work since we got married, made me the financial manager of our home cos he earns good. We're Nigerians by the way 😘

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +64

      COME ON SIS!!! Say it louder for the ppl in the back!!! AMEN!!!

    • @davianaforbes525
      @davianaforbes525 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yes... this is currently me. Gettin married in.january & im.soo.happy

    • @tamekiavann6832
      @tamekiavann6832 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Now that is so beautiful I met my husband 1997 and we were both 18 years old and now today me and my husband are both 44 years old we gave birth to six kids almost seven so we've been married for almost 25 years 🥰

    • @OnikaSSandy
      @OnikaSSandy ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Im so happy for her 🥂💕 . I met my husband last year October, we got married this year March. We faced so many discouaragement by family etc.. but we put God first in everything...here we are about to celebrate our 1 year wedding anniversary soon💃 . We all deserve to love and be loved👑.

    • @Killahoz
      @Killahoz ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I too met my husband in October on the 28th of 2020. We got married this spring. He too is Nigerian and base off of my DNA results I have Nigerian ancestry. Congrats and Happy early Anniversary to you and your husband. 🎊🎊🎊

  • @heredits6600
    @heredits6600 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Sis being “ happy” will not sustain a marriage. Our emotions are fickle and change day to day. I’m praying you truly heal. That takes time. A man can never replace that void you feel in your heart.
    You mentioned you used to hate your life. Well If you only began “loving your life” the moment that man entered your life , then you are bound to be disappointed-because happiness truly comes from within. Wish you the best and God bless you!

    • @slimsexi66
      @slimsexi66 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Couldn’t have been stated any better!!! You have just passed out soooo many Jews that will go over so many peoples head 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mrsjonesway5647
      @mrsjonesway5647 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree

  • @vaceisabryers3849
    @vaceisabryers3849 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I don't understand the need to over talk her relationship or her marriage. It's almost like she's trying to convince us, along with herself! Live your life & be happy boo!

  • @megsmith3888
    @megsmith3888 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I just finished the video she is literally trying too make excuses for this ...

  • @aprilthompson5171
    @aprilthompson5171 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    GIIIIRRRRLLLL! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can’t. What in the heck? Married? Girllll where are your friends and family because this is soooo toxic and weird.

    • @LaLaBunny
      @LaLaBunny ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Agree. Am I crazy or are there bruises on her right arm? Not trying to start rumors but I’m genuinely wondering if I’m the only one seeing it.

    • @chantelbeavers6494
      @chantelbeavers6494 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Ain’t no way I could do it. Just up and leave and marry somebody from another country. It’s too dangerous plus u don’t have your family around you to protect you if something happens.

    • @GratefulDaughter1
      @GratefulDaughter1 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Que needs prayer and proper healing..she is moving faster than her mind is processing that she might be making a mistake..but she is an adult and will learn on her own...

    • @janeisejohnson2246
      @janeisejohnson2246 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Stop putting all your business on TH-cam who is she trying to convince cause we see straight through this foolishness it's crazy

    • @huffybrewster4158
      @huffybrewster4158 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      7 months?!?! So you were with him when you were still dating Play? That’s not the foundation to start off with, but hope this one works out for you Sis.

  • @korimoore1691
    @korimoore1691 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You don't have to be desperate for the things God has for you because if they are the things God has for you you're going to get them in the time that God has for you to get them!! don't leave that part out don't rush the things you think God has for you cuz your plans are not his plans even though they may seem like the right plans that make you feel good!!

    • @carlottam7623
      @carlottam7623 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God ALWAYS moves OUTSIDE of time, and God DOES NOT want to be understood!.....My best friend met her husband February 2002, and married April 2002 ~ yes within 60 days, and they just celebrated 20 years of marriage!....Que, do you, and let God be God!!!.....My husband is a Nigerian king too and he is the ABSOLUTE best thing that has EVER happened on this earth for me!......

  • @melissawilliams6324
    @melissawilliams6324 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    My motto is quit being concerned about people who are not concerned about themselves 😳

  • @100tolifeafatgirlsjourney8
    @100tolifeafatgirlsjourney8 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    Congratulations! I understand people's concerns with the timeline but, when you know, you know. I'm glad your family is supportive. My husband proposed to me after two months of dating. We had fertility issues and multiple pregnancy losses but here we are 4 kids and 14 years later. As long as you both want it to work, it will. 💜

    • @rohiniramanchakrabarti5282
      @rohiniramanchakrabarti5282 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Your comment in this very moment has made me feel so much better about having kids. What you and your husband went through with the losses. I know this was for QUE but it was definitely on time. Lol😅 Have a blessed day and thank you for the sense of hope. 🙏🏽 ❤

    • @mrssippy2946
      @mrssippy2946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen🙏🏽💙🙏🏽 Many more blessings

    • @gabireljohnson3960
      @gabireljohnson3960 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think back n the day love at first sight works but not these... days and times not so ...but that just me not hating I wish her many Blessings!

  • @teryn_summers
    @teryn_summers ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This is sad fr. Y’all not being honest in these comments 😂😂

    • @latoyahill7618
      @latoyahill7618 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      On God they not 😭

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiffanyclemonstc how much men have you and your mother went through? How much baby daddy you mother have? Which 3 men you see her with? I only saw 2,Scott and Play. Worry about yourself because and your immediate family and leave people business alone Crow.....

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tiegregory5540 God is real and every woman is a Queen,if you only believe. Don't bring no Black into this because we're our worst enemy. Black women make the most single mothers, multiple baby daddies. The Indians and the Chinese married young and rarely get divorce. Let her live her life and you live yours...... Jesus 🙏

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lca9486 the same amount as you bi@tch..... You're a mess, that's why you live on TH-cam and can only be negative,Messy-Bessy..... I've 👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️ you everywhere and you never have anything good to say, so that says a lot about you.....

    • @morgenf1
      @morgenf1 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lca9486 🤣🤣

  • @queenv9412
    @queenv9412 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When someone has to explain why they did something like this. When they are specific about their choices but says they don’t care or looking for approval … desperation brings regret. With God there should be no desperation… period. Her opinion and now mine. To each his own. You can’t use desperation and God and your choice in an sentence. People marry in arranged marriages all the time and share complete happiness.

  • @1jazzyphae
    @1jazzyphae ปีที่แล้ว +47

    😩🤣this title has me deceased. Its crazy how people get made when people are genuinely concerned. Like no stable person does this. I did this when I was 21 when i was desperateand severelydepressed. The worst mistake of my life. He just wanted my money no respect or care for me and abused me. Love isn't worth the struggle or hardship. But I genuinely hope and pray you are happy and this works out. Marriage is truly a beautiful union when blessed by God. Stay safe.

    • @newyorkapple6192
      @newyorkapple6192 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Indicakitty: Exactly, smh. She’s trying to convince viewers she’s happy….etc. When you have to sound like a broken tape recorder saying you’re happy every 5-10 words that comes out of your mouth it shows otherwise to the ones with a little more wisdom. And healing and working on oneself after multiple failed relationships is NOT done overnight. When you take the time to find yourself and truly heal you then can TRULY see the blessings that God has JUST for you and not the blessings you HOPE and desire for yourself. You must be PATIENT and wait. Jumping from one relationship to the next shouting “I’m happy” every time is not being patient. And I hope he’ll profess his love for her as LOUD and as MANY TIMES she was professing her love for him for us to see. Big mistake to love and cherish a man MORE than he does you.

    • @jy7108
      @jy7108 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      She about to “my husband” us to death.

    • @newyorkapple6192
      @newyorkapple6192 ปีที่แล้ว

      Joey: And with “I’m so happy”. Who is she trying to convince. And she’s a fool if she believes that African men goes around calling their women “Queen”. He’s just blowing smoke up her ass! He knows she’s a youtuber that’s done pretty well making the $$$. So he’s going to say whatever for the $$$ and green card! She need to be on 90 day Fiancé. And she’s lying about being with him for 8 months. She’s trying to make her thirst for having a man and moving to Nigeria look normal . But she got rid of that idiot Play only like 4-5 months ago. The more she talks the more she’s telling on herself, smh.

    • @blessedforever1424
      @blessedforever1424 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jy7108 😅😅😅😂😂😂

  • @latoyahill7618
    @latoyahill7618 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Sis did u even allow yourself time to heal from Play 😩…a lot of times us as women need to be by ourselves for awhile after breakups to do some self evaluating & reflect…not saying that your husband is not a good man but this just seems so rushed…I hope everything works out

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Who’s that?

    • @analegon5739
      @analegon5739 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@EatwithQue lol 😂😂 right 💋❣️😂❤️🌹👑

    • @latoyahill7618
      @latoyahill7618 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@EatwithQue 💀🤣

    • @janeisejohnson2246
      @janeisejohnson2246 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      @@EatwithQue oh you know who he is the man you made that video about saying he used you and everything else you know who he is it wasn't that long ago 👀👀👀👀👀

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@janeisejohnson2246 I have no clue sis

  • @therealgoddess3644
    @therealgoddess3644 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Yessss I absolutely love that "DESPERATE FOR ALL THE GOOD THINGS GOD HAS FOR ME " 💫🤞🏾💫🤞🏾💫

    • @RayChelle1981
      @RayChelle1981 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree I love that as well, they hated on Jesus and they gone hate on wat they don't understand. And I understand love and God! So I'm super happy for her new journey of love and marriage. yassssssssssss

    • @gailsimmons8210
      @gailsimmons8210 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just as long as you happy and you have someone with you that give you the love you deserve peace

  • @lovelyek8187
    @lovelyek8187 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    My cousin got married last year to a man she just met and now wants a divorce, it's never smart to rush into a marriage, they always show their representative at first smh

  • @nikki_butmynameaintnicole333
    @nikki_butmynameaintnicole333 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I love that.. "I am desperate for all the things God has for me"🙌 Congratulations again to you and your husband🥂

    • @ells80
      @ells80 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When it’s from God desperation is not needed. Think about it. His grace provides for us and there is no place for desperation. Desperation is the absence of and denial of grace.

    • @nikki_butmynameaintnicole333
      @nikki_butmynameaintnicole333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.. We can agree to disagree.. God bless!

  • @MsJaylee09
    @MsJaylee09 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow...I really pray that you are truly healed. I'm not understanding the timeline at all but it's not my business. Be desperate but also..dont be foolish. Best of luck to you.

  • @deloresgarcia6557
    @deloresgarcia6557 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm not a hater and I wish you well but although I know you don't care to hear this but girl, you move entirely too quickly. That's all.

  • @Yahsfamilyluv
    @Yahsfamilyluv ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Girl you all over the place honey

  • @porchachambers5903
    @porchachambers5903 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Gurl please quit putting God in this TO JUSTIFY WHAT U DID.

  • @virginiatowner5547
    @virginiatowner5547 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Don’t try and convince us Que

    • @jazzyvennie157
      @jazzyvennie157 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly. It sounds as if she is doing that. She doesn't need to explain anything to us. It's her life.

  • @Tootz1990
    @Tootz1990 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You keep saying you don’t care of others opinions. But it’s like you’re trying to convince yourself. I pray you’re ok either way.

    • @jazzyvennie157
      @jazzyvennie157 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      If you're sure you don't need to sound like you're convincing people. You're right.

  • @tatiasresindesigns
    @tatiasresindesigns ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This too much LOL. People are concerned, not hating. People that are desperate for love needs to desperately work on themselves. You said you gave yourself to God , you should've waited on him , this man isn't a Godsend, love is patient.

  • @porchachambers5903
    @porchachambers5903 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Something ain't right

  • @sandrapleasant9478
    @sandrapleasant9478 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I started talking to my husband in December 1986 and we got married in March 1987. We have been blessed to celebrate 35 years of happiness. Congratulations to you! ❤️

  • @megsmith3888
    @megsmith3888 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Que tries too hard . That was a fast marriage didn't she just breakup with the guy that went too jail ? Wow that's fast i will pray for her and her safety and well being . Slow down my God she knew this guy how long 5 months ?

    • @Iamsb2022
      @Iamsb2022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How long would be sufficient for you since apparently she’s on your time and you pay her bills …..I just would really like to know how long she should have waited. Like what’s the magic number and WHY…..

  • @baskin283
    @baskin283 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    My hubby is Nigerian and believe me the struggle is real because culture differences but as long as you’re in LOVE you should be able to endure. We just recently had a beautiful baby girl and been married for going on 6 years. We too got married in Lagos registry. Congratulations 🎉❤

  • @staceyslife505
    @staceyslife505 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you that desperate..then that love is not real. You just settling because you need someone any one.. instead of looking to a God sent. So now you have to change your whole appearance to impress them.

  • @paulaprentice
    @paulaprentice ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love is great but, I don't see God putting yall together, just for you to be continents apart within a few short months. That was the desire of your heart? To marry someone then live apart from them? Who wants to marry "their king or queen" then go back right back to living worlds apart? I know you said "this is God's doing," but really?

  • @newname3697
    @newname3697 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Met someone and married seven months later? How long ago did you break it off with your last boyfriend, weren’t you still involved with him up until more recently?

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have no recollection

  • @shauntemoore6251
    @shauntemoore6251 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For the past 3 years that I've been watching this lady I have been completely lost has nothing made sense I need you to make it make sense...

  • @LL949
    @LL949 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always find it interesting when I hear Christians say “me/mine/my…” and “I (don’t/didn’t) want…” and “…works for me”… and then casually throw God in there like He had something to do with the event and/or decision making process….
    Well, I hope it works out for you🙏

  • @sg9043
    @sg9043 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Let's see how this turn out!!😩😫😔😔 just sad smh!!

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Make sure you subscribe to The Fiberesima’s to see how it turns out. I know you’ll be watching hard

    • @sg9043
      @sg9043 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@EatwithQue I sure will dummy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😫😩

    • @sg9043
      @sg9043 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@EatwithQue 🤣🤣🤣🤣😩😫

    • @MsComplicated
      @MsComplicated ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@sg9043 Use the app Ad block for TH-cam so she's not paid❤

  • @Jahcelyn495
    @Jahcelyn495 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    African men are very charming most times. They are gentleman to a certain degree..but beware that opportunity on so many levels are desired more than real love. I know alot about african men, I was married to one as well. I pray that you stay happy but please Stay Woke.

  • @williehoward7438
    @williehoward7438 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Girl u didn't wait for this u kept getting a man over and over

  • @happytummmy
    @happytummmy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And it is not your wedding....it is a 2 partner event. Unless you are marrying ONLY yourself.

  • @bigmud
    @bigmud ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lol.. she said this is a whole Catfish yall... like its not in the States..

  • @natashajackson572
    @natashajackson572 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Married? Didn’t she just break up with someone months ago?

  • @Sadityy
    @Sadityy ปีที่แล้ว +22

    All I’m going to say is everything is great in the beginning. Just stayed prayed up and mindful! You should know people will have opinions when you broadcast your life.

  • @JB21-
    @JB21- ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like every time I come back to this channel there’s a new man lol at least she’s married this time. 🤷🏾‍♀️ good shit

  • @HattieAnn1
    @HattieAnn1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Congratulations on getting married. You and your ring looks pretty and your skin is glowing🎉 The food looks delicious. I wish you both a long and happy marriage ❤

  • @Tlicious101
    @Tlicious101 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Gurllll you know damn well you moving to fast😮 crazy woman 😅

  • @mrslassiter2649
    @mrslassiter2649 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You seem so nice. I was interested in your story but I couldn’t do the smacking.

  • @SHOIYASVIDEODIARY
    @SHOIYASVIDEODIARY ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Congratulations 🎊 I can relate! My husband is Nigerian, he’s Yoruba. We have 2 children, are happily married, we met, dated 4 months he proposed we married the same year! What’s for you will always be for you!

  • @justnene8398
    @justnene8398 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations Que🥂💕 Your definitely GLOWING FOR SURE💘
    I'm with you, I pray my soul mate arrives soon, but my dream at 47 is to travel to Jamaica or Nigeria Cause I Love the culture and run across my KING

  • @JessicaGrey
    @JessicaGrey ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I am so happy for you Que ❤your laugh is infectious and I just vibe with you!!! Im wish you nothing but happiness and love in all of your endeavors and thank you for sharing all the different aspects of your life! I loveeee the vlogs!!! 😘

  • @WanC1
    @WanC1 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Congratulations Que!!! I met my husband and we were married in less than a year after meeting. When you know you know. I prayed for him and Got blessed me with exactly what I asked for. We just celebrated 12 years of marriage in September. God bless you both with all of the happiness!!

  • @kerrybullard7631
    @kerrybullard7631 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    YOU SAID THE SAME THING ABOUT THE LAST TWO GUYS..

    • @victoriar5965
      @victoriar5965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She had more than just those two guys 😂

  • @troyster1977
    @troyster1977 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Best of luck to you. I me online with my ex-husband (Nigerian) 3yrs later married then. He moved to the states from Abukita. We had a daughter. Then divorced 6yrs later. Good and bad moments. I would just say culture and really knowing a person is key before such a big move. I lived it and learned.

  • @tarshadorsey1744
    @tarshadorsey1744 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm for it but you also said this about your other relationship ijs

  • @JB-hc9ox
    @JB-hc9ox ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m excited for you guys!!! Congratulations! Thank you for sharing your journey 🥳

  • @Porcelynn_doll
    @Porcelynn_doll ปีที่แล้ว +7

    *Awesome video sissy and a huge congratulations!!!!🎉🍾🎊 NO EXPLANATION NEEDED!!!🥰*

  • @charissehollomon53
    @charissehollomon53 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    PLOT TWIST…… they’re gonna be on 90 Day Fiancé!!!

  • @joannanorton9764
    @joannanorton9764 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    No girl! You said you were desperate yourself

  • @tanyadickens2096
    @tanyadickens2096 ปีที่แล้ว

    I see the link to your couples Channel subscribing now. Thank you. Leave the past behind keep focusing on your future. You don't even have to talk about the past anymore. You look so refreshed and happy don't let nothing take that away from you. You look healthy and happy.

  • @ohonniebastain5785
    @ohonniebastain5785 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I pray for the best for you queen because you don’t know enough about he’s culture just be careful because everything shines anit gold 😮

  • @cookinwithbae6
    @cookinwithbae6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You have to love yourself first that’s why you jumping all over the country with this man and that man it ain’t gonna work I love you

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This man is my husband!! Big difference ❤

    • @kishagallimore8505
      @kishagallimore8505 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Cooking with Bae, girl you're a hypocrite and you can keep your fake ❤️ with your negativity.....

  • @userxsd_33
    @userxsd_33 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wonder why you feel "desperate" for the good things God has for you? Do you believe that he isn't good enough to deliver on time? Just curious

  • @JayDavante
    @JayDavante ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations Sis! I'm finally able to tap in and show my love and respect. I pray God will continue to bless you, guide you, protect you and help you. 🙏🏾♥️

  • @Pam645
    @Pam645 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Just be careful, my Nigerian ex husband scammed me and left me with nothing is south Africa. Not all of them are like that thou but be careful

    • @ehiorobosharonfaith680
      @ehiorobosharonfaith680 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry not all Nigeria men are like your ex husband 😂😂

    • @alpha_nails_it
      @alpha_nails_it ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yea I had a friend that experienced the same thing,I just pray 🙏🏾 he's not like that

    • @tashajackson2373
      @tashajackson2373 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just hope the money never get low😂😂😂😂

    • @Pam645
      @Pam645 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ehiorobosharonfaith680I didn't say all of them I like my ex, read my comment dear. I have sisters who are happily married with them here in South Africa

  • @antwainbennett7075
    @antwainbennett7075 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Didn’t know you was desperate for love hope everything turns out good for you

  • @sightrebirth8412
    @sightrebirth8412 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations!🍾🎉 Always do you and never apologize for it! Praying you have a healthy marriage and future in Nigeria. 💜👑🙏🏾💪🏾

  • @dawnsjourney7271
    @dawnsjourney7271 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Why must people put God in there business. Just say thus is what you want and desire. I'm gonna sit back and watch thus play out and what will be said when it doesn't work out. Please don't blame God Que.

  • @almamartinez4541
    @almamartinez4541 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Wait when the hell did she meet and married a whole man in another country when she was in a whole full relationship living together in videos and all… Do Said and desperate not the word love your self….

    • @MsComplicated
      @MsComplicated ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Notice she deleted all the videos with play and scott?

  • @Lealoves007
    @Lealoves007 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so happy you’re back!!! Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. We really appreciate it and I’m glad you found the right man to spend your life with!!! I cannot wait to see all the new foods that you will introduce us all to.

  • @lovely7464
    @lovely7464 ปีที่แล้ว

    New Life, New Blessings, New Love, New Abundance, New Everything. CONGRATULATIONS! NEW SUBBBIEEE! HIS ENERGY IS SOOO PURE ON THAT OTHER VIDEO. EVEN ON THE FIRST PART OF THIS ONE. THOSE WHO ARE CHOSEN CAN DISERN THAT YOU MADE THE RIGH CHOICE. I ALSO SENSE THAT THIS CONNECTION IS POWERFULLY PROTECTED. YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE. YOUR CHANNEL IS LIKE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR. CONTINUE BEING YOU. GOD LOVES YOU. IM going to the market today to get some fish. BLESSINGS

  • @adayinthelifeofzanell4120
    @adayinthelifeofzanell4120 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    She couldn’t wait to say “ my husband “ 😂😂😂

  • @samanthaernesto2787
    @samanthaernesto2787 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So you hated your life at some point and now your happy. Wish you would have elaborated on that cause that's really sad to hear. I've been through some pretty traumatic events most of my life and I would never say I hate my life. I always show GOD gratitude even when I'm not so happy.

    • @EatwithQue
      @EatwithQue  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ma’am we are two different ppl we don’t have the same brain or life.

    • @samanthaernesto2787
      @samanthaernesto2787 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@EatwithQue clearly you don't read your Bible

  • @niyahp9346
    @niyahp9346 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You doing anything

  • @ladyspeight1
    @ladyspeight1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why is she talking like that 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @RICHSOULheartofgold
    @RICHSOULheartofgold ปีที่แล้ว +7

    OOOooook??? Don't know how to take this because I USE to be marry to an Nigerian and all I've got to say is tread lightly

    • @FairyLuxMutha
      @FairyLuxMutha ปีที่แล้ว

      She gone get burned … she love playing with fire 🔥 😬

  • @grttserling320
    @grttserling320 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey Que, God bless you and your husband. I'm so glad you are married. I met my husband in May 1992, we married Dec 1992 and guess what we are about to have our 30th wedding anniversary on Dec 18. All I can say is put God first and you guys will be fine.

  • @courtneyb53
    @courtneyb53 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She just be doing shit 🤣🤣💀

  • @kishaanthony1911
    @kishaanthony1911 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love the video....I am happy God has blessed with the man he had for you. God light was shining through you as you spoke about how happy you are.

  • @kimberlypalmer7566
    @kimberlypalmer7566 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nigerians pray on desperate black American women.. She’s truly searching for love in all the wrong places. It seems to me she loves taking care of men so now that she’s married hopefully she’ll be happy.. I hope she’s real and stop faking her happiness and then going live saying I’m gonna tell the truth .. it was all a lie.. I hope it’s real…

  • @ImmaSurviva
    @ImmaSurviva ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I can't believe you're now my Nigerian sister! I've been watching and following for years, and felt really at one with you. Never dreamed you'd find your way to my homeland! Fiberesima is a renowned family name from Port Harcourt, truly an established family so do feel at home 💖💖💖💖💖 Congratulations my Naija queen 💝💝

    • @luvangelmyers2731
      @luvangelmyers2731 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👏🏾👏🏾Thank you!! I wish she had read and pinned this comment. S’one from where his is from that knows of his family. Maybe they will leave her alone and let her be happy

    • @beautyseden
      @beautyseden ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@luvangelmyers2731 indeed I'm Nigerian and that's a big family name in rivers state of Nigeria, very well respected .

    • @victorialazard9980
      @victorialazard9980 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Did y'all hear that? An established family. His Brother recently wedded and his wedding was FYAH..!!

  • @josettecrenshaw6554
    @josettecrenshaw6554 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She just seems so fake/or phoney...I can't put my finger on it...

  • @TheILoveLISAMICHELLEShow
    @TheILoveLISAMICHELLEShow ปีที่แล้ว +7

    MANY CONGRATS, NIECEY-POOH QUE, on your new marriage! What a blessing your husband has found in you as his wife; he has truly FOUND A GREAT THING!🎊🍾❤ MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND! Marriage is a good thing, and what God has for you, it IS for you.🙏🏿💕

  • @destiny2092
    @destiny2092 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congratulations 🎉🎊 I'm so happy for you, enjoy your husband, enjoy your new beginning 🙏💕🎉

  • @sharmainestokes7883
    @sharmainestokes7883 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh wow you were that desperate to be loved you married a stranger that's just sad.

  • @benitotorres3157
    @benitotorres3157 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What does your husband do for a living?

  • @shoppernista
    @shoppernista ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations ❤ You prayed and ask God for the desires of your heart. That’s all that matters - you’re HAPPY and in beautiful Nigeria

  • @godiva1223
    @godiva1223 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are blessed beyond measure Que. your happiness is bringing me happiness in my new relationship and I am super happy to have stumbled on to your page. I’m soooooo happy for you. May God continue to be the center of it all. Love you 😘