As a married woman, we need more of this! There is so much negativity surrounding dating and marriages that it’s refreshing to see actually wives talking about their real life experiences! ❤
I just like the woman in green met my husband on POF we are also currently married 9 years this year (2024) and began talking 12/21/2013 and never missed a day after that! And he also had been married previously and I had not but I also had a child at the time and he did not. And together we grew because for us it was not always rainbows and butterflies. We both still had growing and maturing to do AS A COUPLE and individuals despite our ages.
I grew up the way the lady in the orange spoke of her family. I went to mostly predominantly black schools except when we moved due to the military life. In our home church I grew up seeing doctors, lawyers, educators, entrepreneurs, farmers, musicians, nurses, homemakers, homeowners) In the black neighborhood I remember seeing self sufficient people with funeral home, grocery story owners, small business leaders, oldest black pharmacist with his business, black owned radio station, city council & activist active / visible in community. So I totally agree Growing up around your culture builds confidence at a young age. I saw the same confidence traveling abroad.
I saw active black fathers at school events and coming to the ball park after work in their uniforms especially those hazmat suits ( plant worker/ operators) showing up for their kids So I don’t know I’m use to seeing thriving black families coming together. Hopefully things get better in the black community 🤍
Singleness isn't bad at all. I'm single and more successful than any of my married friends. I travel internationally anytime I desire. Do as I please. Spend my money how and when I want. I never ever desire marriage. I wouldn't push marriage on anyone. I love my single life. Now, dating is great, but I don't need or desire a husband. If I ever get lonely or have spare time, I'll get a 🐕. I believe I can assure you women talking about being married aren't as happy with their marriages as they are pretending. Being married for many years doesn't mean you have peace of mind for those years.
Exactly don’t fall for the hype that they always try to sell because it’s always people that are the exception to the rule who trying to speak as if they are the majority and they’re not and we all know dealing with BM the probability is too high for them to destroy your life and looking into a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel myself
Marriage isn't bad at all. I'm married and more successful than any of my single friends. I travel internationally anytime I desire. Do as I please. Spend my money how and when I want. I never ever desire being single. I wouldn't push singleness on anyone. I love my married life. Now, being alone is great, but I don't need or desire singleness. If I ever need alone time or have spare time, I'll go on a solo trip. I believe I can assure you women talking about being single aren't as happy with their singleness as they are pretending. Being single for many years doesn't mean you have peace of mind for those years.
It's so refreshing to hear these four women expound on men from their real life experiences. They are so on point about us men. They present themselves with such depth of composure that even on points that we men may disagree, an intelligent dialogue can be had. Let's PUSH this show out there. There aren't many like this one.
I don't know about anyone else, but adding me to your health insurance is sexy as hell❤❤❤. There are so many dynamics to sexy. Just as some women think sexy is how much skin you show, but sexy is not about that it's more about the attitude and how you carry yourself. Great dialog. Grown Women conversations are so needed these days.
lol california has the most amazing free medi cal, even through kaiser. almost everything males can do to benefit women the government can help as well🩷🧿 its like indentured servitude the way males expect women to show up.
You know what I HATE About this conversation is that it tends to put all the weight on the Woman, and not any responsibility on our black men to elevate to go to school to become more to not be in incarcerated at such a high rate to not be killing each other. I mean, let’s focus on the black man so that more black women can be married and happy. it’s not just about what a woman does
You can’t possibly be a nurse and sound this dumb and ignorant. Any society only elevates as high as the woman’s standards. Btw, most black men are not incarcerated… We’re actually the most involved fathers as well,
Once again...... anytime there is a conversation that has to do with women being accountable....it never fails to have a woman with this type of comment. This conversation was about "helping women". So in fact it IS about what women can do or change to have a successful relationship. What I find interesting about this is here you have a panel of "married" women giving perspective on what marriage and relationship is...as well as what men actually arw so you know what to look for. And instead of taking that advice, you are complaining about what men are not doing. You totally missed the part where they said " there are good men out there". Which implies that you need to be able to spot them and understand who they are and what they look like. That is what you as a woman can control. If this was a men's podcast talking about marriage it would be the same thing. Control and change what you can. Finally, I push back on your comment that more men need to get educated.....that is entirely false. We need men to work and have character...but a degree HAS NOTHING to do with the quality of a man.
@@randallewebbyou can help women ALL DAY AND IT WILL BE NO GOOD MEN STILL AVAILABLE FOR ALL US HEALED WOMEN. AS THEY WILL BE LOCKED UP AND IN THE GRAVE.
Yeah I was with them and enjoying the conversation until they went there. Then the young lady said “this millennial age group” 32:03 - is concerned with social media. Ma’am Millenials are in their 40s. (Really 28-43) but I’m like must we be blamed for everything.
I can appreciate these women sharing their experiences and perspectives as a wife, however, I take issue re: some of the dialog to which a qualified mental health professional should be on the panel to offer research-based information. For starters, not every young woman centers her life around marriage, men, or being a wife. In today's climate, I would never advise a young black woman to prioritize a romantic relationship over advancing her education/career. She can have awareness of those whom she might wish to partner with while pursuing her educational/career goals, but anything else would be foolish in my opinion. Also, there's another conversation to be had about the real reasons Black boys are not choosing to be with girls who look like them, and it is way more complex than what was touched upon in this podcast. The comment made about a young Black man having access to spaces where Black girls are not... I'm curious to know which spaces are being referred to, as Black (young) women are currently the most educated demographic in this country. Furthermore, times have changed tremendously and continue to do so. Being married for a bunch of years does not equal a happy marriage, btw. Sadly, there are too many people miserable in their marriage, I know a few personally, as well as others who decided to tap out and reclaim the happiness of life as a single person. Know thy self first. Choose wisely, good people!
We need a part 2 to this discussion. I was ready to hear what the woman in the orange shirt was going to say and tgen it cut off...Noooo. Great discussion. Liking and sharing.
I think people thinking & saying they are a 10 is simply seeing yourself as beautiful; in your best light. Beauty is in/starts in the eye of the beholder. More connection 🍷
A lot of single women are seeking the wrong thing. Pay attention to how similar us married women are. I’m glad I found this channel. It’s draining see how women are becoming so silly. Yesterday I was so pissed at my husband I cried but that was a moment in time. My man has been holding my hand for 15 years. You gotta have character to be able to last in a relationship that doesn’t solely focus and pour into you. Selfish.
When Kevin Samuels was talking about a woman who's past a certain age who has children,he said that that type of woman becomes "unvaluable to a man" and that she should expect to be stay single. Does that not seem disrespectful and how true is that with what happens in the real world.
Invaluable to some men but definitely not all. Some men with kids know how tough it is so they seek women who have kids because of experience & some because the man is done having kids so someone with kids is his preference. That being said, it is disrespectful for him to tell her to give up on seeking someone to love on her. There’s someone for everyone!
No he said hi value men didn't value women past a certain age with children. He said to date someone who makes the same amount of money as you do not a HIGH VALUE MAN GET IT?
I don't totally agree with KS. What does a wife get out of cooking and cleaning and having sex with him. Just like he wants food and sex. I want to be protected and provided for 100% and what that looks like for some women is financially or gifts and etc. it's a balance.
In my opinion relationships like what you have described sounds like he married you to have a maid he can have sex with, and your payment is gifts with a sense of protection.
I luv ❤ this show- this narrative is what’s truly needed so that single women can hear the experiences of wives and how they met their husbands and what was the light 💡 bulb moment that made them realize that was going to be their husband- it’s seems all the wives are awesome and had great stories to share- the one common denominator that I noticed that all wives have is that they were friends first and foremost with their husbands and things progressed into a full fledge relationship from there- awesome show- sending blessings of continued success upon you to grow further on a National scale your show is needed and we look forward to watching it ❤
From the videos that I have seen of KS, he never told anyone to give up on love. His point was to help women be more realistic about their options. A childless woman in her twenties has more options than a woman with several children in her late thirties. Can she find a man to love her and treat her well? Of course. It happens everyday. But will this man be 6 ft tall with a six pack and earning six figures? Probably not because that man has many more options than she does. It is strictly a numbers game. My mother got married in her 50s after we were all grown. Everyone deserves love. The point is to be realistic about where you are and what you have to offer to someone else in a relationship. - Great video, ladies.
🫰🫰🫰Love Love Love this cast and topics. Loved the classiness, the etiquette, knowledge, the level of great mothering, love of culture and your Men. This is so positive in so many ways, its refreshing to hear. Keep this up ❤️ blessings to all the Mama's and hope you get all the Likes you need to be even more successful!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏👑👑👑👑💕💕💕💕
scenario: If your in a relationship and living separately has initiated me to never ask for help at all ! not a dime or a dollar should he offer to help me financially if i never ask ??? I appreciate he does for himself so I do for me we dont date out due to long hours at work so that is a savings already. opinions pls
You know what! I was listening and sis said she’s teaching her son to bring home a black girl and her daughter to be open , I was skeptical but I agree! Black girls aren’t being chosen. I live in the west coast and have 3 sons , I know they’re not bringing home a black women. That’s not what they’re surrounded or use to. And as a divorced black mom , I’m not being chosen either.
Black women whose sons marry non-Black women have lost the battle. I have a college aged, successful son as well as 2 successful nephews. I’ve been married Black for over 20 yrs and together we’ve raised these men. All of them date and/or are engaged to Black women. We live in an area where there aren’t alot of Black people but my young bulls have all managed to find great Black women to potentially marry and date. So, don’t give your sons that fake excuse that they can’t find a good Black woman or they’re surrounded by too many non-Black women. The truth is they don’t date Black because they weren’t taught to date their own. Also, so many Black boys see their Black moms struggle, raise kids alone in struggle or get whipped on and take back these pookies and those boys grow up not valuing the decisions that Black women. These young men are looking for their non-Black woman to save them from their trauma or to bring them some status. I say talk to your sons honestly.
Kevin Samuel was harder on men than he was on women. But the clips that git the most views and eventually where he started to pander was in calling out women harshly. Had he stuck to his original format he would be seen differently but wouldn't be as popular.
There is no perfect example because humans are flawed. You never know what goes on behind closed doors (as it should be). So many people who have what we think is a beautiful marriages have dealt with unemployment, sicknesses, infidelities, family conflicts with in-laws, you name it... 🤷🏾♀️
Marriage is a covenant not a contract, the list is a compass for you not him. Think of this, God says he wants the church to be his bride, what does that look like? Single women do the hard work now or you’ll be doing it later….
Nice conversation but I disagree with the KS explanations.. there were sprinkles of truth from KS.but telling women there worthless and outdated cause of there age etc is terrible..KS wanted us to settle..An if he was so great how come his followers started attacking and disrespecting women in general online he worked them up and made them angry with BW in general. They felt empowered to attack BW call us low value breadcrumbing they are the prize false sense of self esteem
@courtney4886 I heard his message and disagreed.. I saw many videos..an I saw how his followers started acting towards woman in general and how they interpreted it as well..for everything that he said men don't do I saw plenty of them that did.. an he spoke how women need to prove themselves to men not men proving anything lol
To me it's because of how high expenses are . Every man does not make 6 figures and of my man needs my help to carry us then I'm grinding too but with that I feel all responsibilities are equal, cooking cleaning etc .. jmo
Single mother of 2 mark my words I will be that traveling internationally single mom. I don’t care for a man . I just want a good life with my 2 kids. So I don’t care what a man want lol I really don’t.
@@MutabaziMoses-si2xl not against men I’m simply saying I’m not out here looking. I grew up without a father myself and honestly I came across plenty male figures . So it’s really about the person you
This was a great conversation I’m a boy Mom while I may prefer my son marry a black woman I will love who he Marries it’s his life and my preference is who loves him🤎
I have 3 college educated and successful young sons and nephews whom we’ve raised to be aware of the beauty of their Black ethnicity and culture. I believe that when People are raised to see the value of their culture they desire to marry within it. My Indian, Hispanic, Jewish and Chinese friends can say that they want their kids to find a nice mate in their ethnic group and society deems that is okay. They understand that much history is lost when one marries outside the culture/ethnic group. I find that Black American men have too much choice in mate from all ethnicities and it confuses them. Limiting their choice to their ethnicity and culture makes them more intentional and gives them purpose. They understand the importance of maintaining their black family and keeping their community intact. Persians, and Africans do this all of the time. My eldest son is about to be engaged to a sweet Black American woman and we absolutely love her and her family. Train them up the way they should go and when they grow old they will not depart from it.
True. These brothas lie to themselves. A school full of predominantly Black women and they can’t find a mate? That’s straight BS. That shows that these Black boys are operating under dysfunction. The underlying problem is that Black men have too much ethnic choice in women. They need to be limited through social engineering to date and marry Black women. They need to Have some ethnic and cultural pride. I have 3 Black accomplished young Black men whom I’ve raised. They’re all with Black women and know not to look elsewhere. Limiting their selection pool to Black women pushes them to focus on their intentions and purpose.
I'm a bit more open. I'm not opposed to interracial dating. Only concerned with the quality of person. Another point is that today's youth is more open with their sexual fluidity. That would have been interesting to broach.
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As a married woman, we need more of this! There is so much negativity surrounding dating and marriages that it’s refreshing to see actually wives talking about their real life experiences! ❤
I agree good old fashion dating needs a comeback
Yes!! There is no healthy Black marriage podcast. At least non I can think of.
@@Bignawrightcheck out the Marriage and Money podcast with Egypt and Mike. Very positive podcast demonstrating and promoting black marriage.
I just like the woman in green met my husband on POF we are also currently married 9 years this year (2024) and began talking 12/21/2013 and never missed a day after that! And he also had been married previously and I had not but I also had a child at the time and he did not. And together we grew because for us it was not always rainbows and butterflies. We both still had growing and maturing to do AS A COUPLE and individuals despite our ages.
I grew up the way the lady in the orange spoke of her family. I went to mostly predominantly black schools except when we moved due to the military life. In our home church I grew up seeing doctors, lawyers, educators, entrepreneurs, farmers, musicians, nurses, homemakers, homeowners)
In the black neighborhood I remember seeing self sufficient people with funeral home, grocery story owners, small business leaders, oldest black pharmacist with his business, black owned radio station, city council & activist active / visible in community. So I totally agree
Growing up around your culture builds confidence at a young age. I saw the same confidence traveling abroad.
I saw active black fathers at school events and coming to the ball park after work in their uniforms especially those hazmat suits ( plant worker/ operators) showing up for their kids
So I don’t know I’m use to seeing thriving black families coming together. Hopefully things get better in the black community 🤍
Singleness isn't bad at all. I'm single and more successful than any of my married friends. I travel internationally anytime I desire. Do as I please. Spend my money how and when I want. I never ever desire marriage. I wouldn't push marriage on anyone. I love my single life. Now, dating is great, but I don't need or desire a husband. If I ever get lonely or have spare time, I'll get a 🐕. I believe I can assure you women talking about being married aren't as happy with their marriages as they are pretending. Being married for many years doesn't mean you have peace of mind for those years.
Exactly don’t fall for the hype that they always try to sell because it’s always people that are the exception to the rule who trying to speak as if they are the majority and they’re not and we all know dealing with BM the probability is too high for them to destroy your life and looking into a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel myself
Marriage isn't bad at all. I'm married and more successful than any of my single friends. I travel internationally anytime I desire. Do as I please. Spend my money how and when I want. I never ever desire being single. I wouldn't push singleness on anyone. I love my married life. Now, being alone is great, but I don't need or desire singleness. If I ever need alone time or have spare time, I'll go on a solo trip. I believe I can assure you women talking about being single aren't as happy with their singleness as they are pretending. Being single for many years doesn't mean you have peace of mind for those years.
It's so refreshing to hear these four women expound on men from their real life experiences. They are so on point about us men. They present themselves with such depth of composure that even on points that we men may disagree, an intelligent dialogue can be had. Let's PUSH this show out there. There aren't many like this one.
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I don't know about anyone else, but adding me to your health insurance is sexy as hell❤❤❤. There are so many dynamics to sexy. Just as some women think sexy is how much skin you show, but sexy is not about that it's more about the attitude and how you carry yourself. Great dialog. Grown Women conversations are so needed these days.
lol california has the most amazing free medi cal, even through kaiser. almost everything males can do to benefit women the government can help as well🩷🧿 its like indentured servitude the way males expect women to show up.
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@@koereyelle already done❤️❤️❤️
You know what I HATE About this conversation is that it tends to put all the weight on the Woman, and not any responsibility on our black men to elevate to go to school to become more to not be in incarcerated at such a high rate to not be killing each other. I mean, let’s focus on the black man so that more black women can be married and happy. it’s not just about what a woman does
You can’t possibly be a nurse and sound this dumb and ignorant.
Any society only elevates as high as the woman’s standards.
Btw, most black men are not incarcerated… We’re actually the most involved fathers as well,
As a blk man thank you, your eyes are full of light.
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Once again...... anytime there is a conversation that has to do with women being accountable....it never fails to have a woman with this type of comment.
This conversation was about "helping women". So in fact it IS about what women can do or change to have a successful relationship.
What I find interesting about this is here you have a panel of "married" women giving perspective on what marriage and relationship is...as well as what men actually arw so you know what to look for.
And instead of taking that advice, you are complaining about what men are not doing. You totally missed the part where they said " there are good men out there".
Which implies that you need to be able to spot them and understand who they are and what they look like. That is what you as a woman can control.
If this was a men's podcast talking about marriage it would be the same thing. Control and change what you can.
Finally, I push back on your comment that more men need to get educated.....that is entirely false. We need men to work and have character...but a degree HAS NOTHING to do with the quality of a man.
@@randallewebbyou can help women ALL DAY AND IT WILL BE NO GOOD MEN STILL AVAILABLE FOR ALL US HEALED WOMEN. AS THEY WILL BE LOCKED UP AND IN THE GRAVE.
A fantastic conversation.
About time we had a conversation with married women talking practically about real relationships and marriage look like.
I disagree with their opinion on Kevin Samuels according to him the lady over 40 and larger woman doesn’t deserve a man
Yeah I was with them and enjoying the conversation until they went there.
Then the young lady said “this millennial age group” 32:03 - is concerned with social media. Ma’am Millenials are in their 40s. (Really 28-43) but I’m like must we be blamed for everything.
I can appreciate these women sharing their experiences and perspectives as a wife, however, I take issue re: some of the dialog to which a qualified mental health professional should be on the panel to offer research-based information. For starters, not every young woman centers her life around marriage, men, or being a wife. In today's climate, I would never advise a young black woman to prioritize a romantic relationship over advancing her education/career. She can have awareness of those whom she might wish to partner with while pursuing her educational/career goals, but anything else would be foolish in my opinion. Also, there's another conversation to be had about the real reasons Black boys are not choosing to be with girls who look like them, and it is way more complex than what was touched upon in this podcast. The comment made about a young Black man having access to spaces where Black girls are not... I'm curious to know which spaces are being referred to, as Black (young) women are currently the most educated demographic in this country. Furthermore, times have changed tremendously and continue to do so. Being married for a bunch of years does not equal a happy marriage, btw. Sadly, there are too many people miserable in their marriage, I know a few personally, as well as others who decided to tap out and reclaim the happiness of life as a single person. Know thy self first. Choose wisely, good people!
Love this! So glad other wives are speaking up!! 🙌🏾
Love this discussion. My first time coming across this channel. SELF ACCOUBTABILTY Is Key!
I love that he added her to his insurance. That’s major since they werent married
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We need a part 2 to this discussion. I was ready to hear what the woman in the orange shirt was going to say and tgen it cut off...Noooo. Great discussion. Liking and sharing.
The lady in Black and Black and White pants is me!!! Everything she has said about the prom and her black daughter is the truth! She told not one lie.
Love this conversation and the reality that comes with it. This was too short lol
Aww I love the lady in the orange’s story. The AOL days are so for real lol
She kept cutting everyone off. That was so annoying.
I think people thinking & saying they are a 10 is simply seeing yourself as beautiful; in your best light. Beauty is in/starts in the eye of the beholder. More connection 🍷
A lot of single women are seeking the wrong thing. Pay attention to how similar us married women are. I’m glad I found this channel. It’s draining see how women are becoming so silly. Yesterday I was so pissed at my husband I cried but that was a moment in time. My man has been holding my hand for 15 years. You gotta have character to be able to last in a relationship that doesn’t solely focus and pour into you. Selfish.
Oooowwwweeee…good convo SisStars!
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When Kevin Samuels was talking about a woman who's past a certain age who has children,he said that that type of woman becomes "unvaluable to a man" and that she should expect to be stay single. Does that not seem disrespectful and how true is that with what happens in the real world.
Invaluable to some men but definitely not all. Some men with kids know how tough it is so they seek women who have kids because of experience & some because the man is done having kids so someone with kids is his preference. That being said, it is disrespectful for him to tell her to give up on seeking someone to love on her. There’s someone for everyone!
No he said hi value men didn't value women past a certain age with children. He said to date someone who makes the same amount of money as you do not a HIGH VALUE MAN GET IT?
I don't totally agree with KS. What does a wife get out of cooking and cleaning and having sex with him. Just like he wants food and sex. I want to be protected and provided for 100% and what that looks like for some women is financially or gifts and etc. it's a balance.
In my opinion relationships like what you have described sounds like he married you to have a maid he can have sex with, and your payment is gifts with a sense of protection.
Now this is a real podcast 🤜🏽✊🏽
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this show- this narrative is what’s truly needed so that single women can hear the experiences of wives and how they met their husbands and what was the light 💡 bulb moment that made them realize that was going to be their husband- it’s seems all the wives are awesome and had great stories to share- the one common denominator that I noticed that all wives have is that they were friends first and foremost with their husbands and things progressed into a full fledge relationship from there- awesome show- sending blessings of continued success upon you to grow further on a National scale your show is needed and we look forward to watching it ❤
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Let's talk about it ladies 🎉🎉
I think all of these ladies lives should be revisited after about 30 years or more in. They may have a different outlook on marriage.
Well, I'm 18 years in, and everything they said is 100% the truth. 🙂
@@keptbygrace6221 Well, I'm 36 years in and trust me, the outlook will change.
The lady in orange shirt, yo go girl 👏🏾it’s a learned behavior in African American family we never teach our children how to be relational
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This was sooooo good!!!
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I was into the dialogue, then it abruptly ended🤔.
Hope part 2 is coming.
Nice conversation.
Excellent! Thank you.
From the videos that I have seen of KS, he never told anyone to give up on love. His point was to help women be more realistic about their options. A childless woman in her twenties has more options than a woman with several children in her late thirties. Can she find a man to love her and treat her well? Of course. It happens everyday. But will this man be 6 ft tall with a six pack and earning six figures? Probably not because that man has many more options than she does. It is strictly a numbers game. My mother got married in her 50s after we were all grown. Everyone deserves love. The point is to be realistic about where you are and what you have to offer to someone else in a relationship. - Great video, ladies.
🫰🫰🫰Love Love Love this cast and topics. Loved the classiness, the etiquette, knowledge, the level of great mothering, love of culture and your Men. This is so positive in so many ways, its refreshing to hear. Keep this up ❤️ blessings to all the Mama's and hope you get all the Likes you need to be even more successful!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏👑👑👑👑💕💕💕💕
Thats the truth that trauma is passed down through generations
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scenario: If your in a relationship and living separately has initiated me to never ask for help at all ! not a dime or a dollar should he offer to help me financially if i never ask ??? I appreciate he does for himself so I do for me we dont date out due to long hours at work so that is a savings already. opinions pls
I love ALL of their stories! I especially love the ones where they were young. Stop telling young girls that what they feel isn't real!!
You know what! I was listening and sis said she’s teaching her son to bring home a black girl and her daughter to be open , I was skeptical but I agree! Black girls aren’t being chosen. I live in the west coast and have 3 sons , I know they’re not bringing home a black women. That’s not what they’re surrounded or use to. And as a divorced black mom , I’m not being chosen either.
Black women whose sons marry non-Black women have lost the battle. I have a college aged, successful son as well as 2 successful nephews. I’ve been married Black for over 20 yrs and together we’ve raised these men. All of them date and/or are engaged to Black women. We live in an area where there aren’t alot of Black people but my young bulls have all managed to find great Black women to potentially marry and date. So, don’t give your sons that fake excuse that they can’t find a good Black woman or they’re surrounded by too many non-Black women. The truth is they don’t date Black because they weren’t taught to date their own. Also, so many Black boys see their Black moms struggle, raise kids alone in struggle or get whipped on and take back these pookies and those boys grow up not valuing the decisions that Black women. These young men are looking for their non-Black woman to save them from their trauma or to bring them some status. I say talk to your sons honestly.
Kevin Samuel was harder on men than he was on women. But the clips that git the most views and eventually where he started to pander was in calling out women harshly. Had he stuck to his original format he would be seen differently but wouldn't be as popular.
This
This was good!
Nobody wants the attitude and rudeness that some black women think is ok. Respect is important
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Just Blk women and their attitude 🙄
All women have attitudes and rudeness but for some reason the world enjoys focusing on Black American women 🤔
I prefer people to be direct with me because im direct.
23:56 So, who is an example of a man with the right delivery?
There is no perfect example because humans are flawed. You never know what goes on behind closed doors (as it should be). So many people who have what we think is a beautiful marriages have dealt with unemployment, sicknesses, infidelities, family conflicts with in-laws, you name it... 🤷🏾♀️
How do you "tuck" care of someone? Is that like (took)? 😆 lol😊
Orange shirt, is a woman who grew up with strong father.
Marriage is a covenant not a contract, the list is a compass for you not him. Think of this, God says he wants the church to be his bride, what does that look like? Single women do the hard work now or you’ll be doing it later….
Nice conversation but I disagree with the KS explanations.. there were sprinkles of truth from KS.but telling women there worthless and outdated cause of there age etc is terrible..KS wanted us to settle..An if he was so great how come his followers started attacking and disrespecting women in general online he worked them up and made them angry with BW in general. They felt empowered to attack BW call us low value breadcrumbing they are the prize false sense of self esteem
You totally missed his message.
@courtney4886 I heard his message and disagreed.. I saw many videos..an I saw how his followers started acting towards woman in general and how they interpreted it as well..for everything that he said men don't do I saw plenty of them that did.. an he spoke how women need to prove themselves to men not men proving anything lol
That is the new thing.What are you bringing to the table instead of expecting the man to do everything
To me it's because of how high expenses are . Every man does not make 6 figures and of my man needs my help to carry us then I'm grinding too but with that I feel all responsibilities are equal, cooking cleaning etc .. jmo
Nice chat but they didn't really speak nothing of the truth about black marriage. . More like options
Single mother of 2 mark my words I will be that traveling internationally single mom. I don’t care for a man . I just want a good life with my 2 kids. So I don’t care what a man want lol I really don’t.
A good life for your kids is a having present father in their life. Am telling you as child who grew up with a single mum.
@@MutabaziMoses-si2xl not against men I’m simply saying I’m not out here looking. I grew up without a father myself and honestly I came across plenty male figures . So it’s really about the person you
Okay wiiiiivvveeeesss 👰🏾🫶🏾🤵🏾♂️!!!
How about teaching young girls to be wives instead of just be strong and independent!
Can we be all three?
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The mothers really be jealous of their daughters
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This was a great conversation I’m a boy Mom while I may prefer my son marry a black woman I will love who he Marries it’s his life and my preference is who loves him🤎
I have 3 college educated and successful young sons and nephews whom we’ve raised to be aware of the beauty of their Black ethnicity and culture. I believe that when People are raised to see the value of their culture they desire to marry within it. My Indian, Hispanic, Jewish and Chinese friends can say that they want their kids to find a nice mate in their ethnic group and society deems that is okay. They understand that much history is lost when one marries outside the culture/ethnic group. I find that Black American men have too much choice in mate from all ethnicities and it confuses them. Limiting their choice to their ethnicity and culture makes them more intentional and gives them purpose. They understand the importance of maintaining their black family and keeping their community intact. Persians, and Africans do this all of the time. My eldest son is about to be engaged to a sweet Black American woman and we absolutely love her and her family. Train them up the way they should go and when they grow old they will not depart from it.
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I love the lady in black and white zebra print! This is goooood!🤎🌹🤎HBCU men are now marrying out as well. Most HIGH value BLK men do marry “others” .
True. These brothas lie to themselves. A school full of predominantly Black women and they can’t find a mate? That’s straight BS. That shows that these Black boys are operating under dysfunction. The underlying problem is that Black men have too much ethnic choice in women. They need to be limited through social engineering to date and marry Black women. They need to Have some ethnic and cultural pride. I have 3 Black accomplished young Black men whom I’ve raised. They’re all with Black women and know not to look elsewhere. Limiting their selection pool to Black women pushes them to focus on their intentions and purpose.
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I'm a bit more open. I'm not opposed to interracial dating. Only concerned with the quality of person.
Another point is that today's youth is more open with their sexual fluidity. That would have been interesting to broach.
Great conversation