I did not find my husband attractive when dating, I didnt think he was ugly, just not my type physically. Once I got to know him more that physical attraction slowly came with it and now I am happily married and dont look at other men!
I was exactly the same with mine.. 3yrs later im still with him.. and says something when you can be with someone everyday.. i bet it has tested some relationships with this pandemic.
I used to be one of those girls who said "character and personality is the most important, idc about looks". Then a guy told me that i was ugly but i had a great personality and he would love to date me. Ouch. And i was in a relationship for a long time with a guy who didnt think i was very pretty and constantly looked at othet women. I have since changed my mind. I also want my partner to find me at least somewhat good looking and me also finding him attractive. I know it sounds like a bish but constantly hearing from your partner that you are visually not his type etc is super frustrating.
Chani Lin it is very strange that they would just tell you that. I think that’s the kind of thing you would keep to yourself until you know if you can get past that or not. I think it is normal to become more attracted to someone the more you get to know them.
@@BRhymesss yes that guy clearly missed an opportunity for "when you have nothing nice to say, just say nothing" lol but well he was honest... It still hurts to hear it. I dont need my partner to consider me a topmodel or anything but yes it would be nice if he at least is not ashamed to be seen with me in public and not too disgusted to get physical with me. Thatd why i say now its not just character anymore, the looks need to be okay on both sides
My dad gave me the best advice ever... “Everyone is crazy, pick your crazy.” Or in other words, everyone on this earth has crazy things about them, some crazy is lovable and others is absolutely terrible. So pick the crazy you want to live with the rest of your life. I picked my crazy! Together 12yrs married 5. You’ll find the right one! We met when I was working, I wasn’t even looking to date anyone. I was a bartender in college and he came in with friends to the pub I worked at. So you just never know! Let the universe do its thing!
19:25 Aghhh, Cassie! The eye rubbing looks a little too aggressive. I’m sorry, I’m an esthetician. I just want to help. I think if you ditch the Face Halo and just go in with your Drunk Elephant Slaai Cleansing Balm, your skin will be more forgiving later on. Just melt down the makeup with the balm, add water to emulsify, rinse and follow with your cleanser (2nd cleanse).
@@kirasnow4436 It depends on how much pressure and tugging is being applied with it. Overall, I’m not a fan. The best way to gently break down eye makeup is with a cleansing balm. Dry application first, then add water. Cleansing balms also contain skin nourishing ingredients. It’s important to be mindful about any skin tugging during cleansing.
I read that they dont put a mirror in so it can be recycled when the palette is done. If they put the mirror in it can not go to a recycling pant. I am not sure if that is Colour pops reasoning but that is why some brands do that.
Exactly. And it just makes it cheaper altogether. Plus I don't need a mirror in every single palette. Most come with them and I rarely ever use them. It's not that difficult to reach for another palette that has a mirror or have a hand held mirror that you like (I have one that I prefer over any of my palette mirrors tbh). Anyway, I just think it's a silly thing to get upset by...most people don't prefer a mirror anyway because they never end up using it.
@@skaarup33 It will give her more wrinkles and may cause ingrown hairs. I dont want that for her. But obviously she can do whatever she want 🤷🏽♀️ it's obvious, so idk why u expect a comment on that
@@skaarup33 stand down this isn’t some slight 🙄 it’s hard to watch her remove her makeup, she is being extremely rough and that contributes to her puffy red eye skin she’s had for years, it’s also prematurely aging her skin, it is hard to watch someone hurt themselves unnecessarily so..
I think she wears way too much of everything. I feel like less would be more in her case. And also it’s soooo pale between the foundation and powder it’s so light
I’ve made this same comment and it falls on deaf ears. I don’t understand how you can test a product fairly when you overuse it to the lengths she does.
Juliana B. If you watch any videos with people with acne usually less is more. Caking it on isn’t going to help. You think it does but it makes it look worse. Samantha ravandahl is a perfect example of less is more
I was so sick and tired of guys my age not having motivation or drive to move forward in their lives and relationships. I happened to meet someone who is 17 years older than me and we hit it off. No games, we motivate each other to reach our goals, both want the same things. Now we’re married and have a little boy. Don’t ever be afraid to step outside of your normal dating preferences, you might be surprised.
@ Christina Williams My husband is 16 years older than me and we’ve been married over 20 years! He’s my soulmate!!! I’m so blessed. Hang in there, Cassie!
My ex was 7 years older and acted younger than me. But he was a whole different type of "man" altogether! My current is 3 years older and acts way more mature than the previous. I think it's more about life experiences than age!
I'm almost 29 and never had a boyfriend. Never had a first anything. Sometimes I feel sad about it, especially during the holidays, but I have a lot of issues to work through, mentally, and I wouldn't want to drag someone I care about through that.
Sarah same here ! I’m turning 27 and never had a boyfriend and never kissed anyone :( . I’ve had a lot of opportunities and have co workers that have asked me out but one I’m scared because I feel so old too be this inexperienced and I’m afraid of being a bad kissed and doing everything wrong and I’m only getting older 💀 but also I have so much to deal with mental and health wise that I always push every potential partner away. I do want to change that already though I just don’t know how. I wish both of us the best of luck ! And you sharing your comment goes to show that we’re not alone even when we think we are :)
I haven't watched the whole video yet. I want to share that after a few bad experiences and a very bad view on guys, today the guy I met on a dating app asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I don't have many friends who are interested in hearing this so I'll share my joy here. I wish you the same Cassie, and reading the rest of the comments here I'm sure you'll find your mans ❤
I think if you went for a guy in his late thirties early forties you might find a guy with the same wants and needs as you. A guy in his twenties early thirties are usually not looking for serious some are but not many.
Yes!! I was going to comment something similar. My husband is 10 years older then me something I never thought I’d go for back in my 20s but it was the best decision ( for me), we had more in common then not and very similar goals in a relationship etc... years later still the best decision I’ve ever made!😊
The first two problems in any relationship are: Miscommunication Lack of discussing financial issues (after dating or getting serious) Two things that totally ruin any relationship. Video chatting does not sound fun at all. It is best to meet in person (when things are better in this world). It is also best to be straightforward honest from the “get go”. The words may sting for a moment or two but they are honest words. The eye makeup removal was painful to watch. Gently treat this tender area a little better Cassie. 😎❤️💄Kathy
Cass just some skincare advice here: when you're removing your makeup please be much more gentle with the skin near your eyes! It's very thin and sensitive so to rub it like that will cause premature wrinkles and other damage. It might help to simply apply a makeup remover pad on the area and let it soak up the makeup. :)
I've been dating someone for 9 months now but before that I was dating off and on for over a decade and all of your experiences are SO relatable! This time last year I had given up on dating but my best friend set up an online profile for me. Turns out she knew what I needed better than I did! I'm so grateful to have found a good one but sending you all of the positive vibes while you're in the trenches!
I personally would never do a video chat date. I know I would be awkward. I think it would be much harder to have a connection that way too (if you have never met in person). It just isn't the same.
I feel you, Cassie. I just haven't bothered with dating apps during this whole pandemic lockdown thing. The dating scene is not what it used to be. Before my ex, dating was easy. And now that I'm back on the market almost 7 years after the breakup, things are way different than what I remember. So, I just keep to myself. The dating world is extremely daunting these days. Maybe once life returns to some semblance of normalcy, I can try dating again.
Hi Cassy! I also am dating but using the CMB app here in Singapore! Technically, while in dating phase we say it is different from going steady. Once going steady then when both breakup, we call it “breakup”. If dating phase, technically “breakup” I think we say it as “no longer meeting”
(Possible) Unpopular opinion: I think your level of emotion and calm is GOOD! Sometimes building up the relationship slowly is better. Less disappointment. My fingers are crossed for you!!!
Hey Cass! 30ish year old here, single for 4 years, and recently decided to start dating again during this “love in the time of Covid” craziness. Ive been talking to a guy for the past 1.5 months and we’ve never met in real life yet. He only lives 20mins away and we will meet soon, but we’ve done all our dates via video chat so far. So I can relate. I thought it was pretty sh!tty that this guy stood you up on the 2nd attempt at a video date. I think that the first time the date plan fell thru was a genuine case of miscommunication (although I’m still sorta skeptical as to why this guy didn’t make sure to confirm the date/time 🙄) But the 2nd time when he postponed the date DAY OF because he decided other plans sounded better?! Come on!! First dates are still first dates, even if via video. Would you have accepted him ditching you the day-of your first in-person date because he wanted to go out with friends?? Being treated with respect and setting boundaries SHOULDNT CHANGE JUST BECAUSE OUR DATING LIVES CHANGED MEDIUMS!! Remember your worth, girl!!
I mean, it's not cool, but he tried to see if they could reschedule for later. He didn't just bail. I think that's worth something. I highly doubt it crossed his mind she may have gotten ready for the date. Guys just are clueless sometimes. I'm glad she still gave him a chance. 🤷🏼♀️
Sherry Tiller when are we going to stop saying “guys are clueless” he’s a grown ass man if you scheduled a date you’re going to expect the person you’re going on a date with to get ready
Greta M I totally agree with you Greta! We need to stop making excuses for these losers and hold them to the standards that we hold ourselves to! This man is in his 30s... by now he should know how to confirm a date (at least the morning-of at the latest!), and he should know that changing plans HOURS before the first date is inexcusable (except for legitimate reasons, like cases of emergency, which last minute plans of whirly-ball or disk-golf or whatever with the buddies doesn’t meet that threshold). The fact that he tried to “reschedule” the date to 10pm that same evening isn’t effort at all... it’s breadcrumbing... it’s selfish and it’s just him putting in the lowest form of effort to ensure he’s staying relevant to Cassie. And if he is a 30 year old “clueless” man (eye roll as I’m saying that), then fine... he should learn to get a clue, but not at another person’s time or expense.
Lejla I totally understand your point with this but it all depends on the kinds of guys you're going for. I've dated a lot of nerdy guys who just aren't experienced daters, not used to receiving much female attention. Some of these guys are the absolute sweetest men ever and will make the right girl super happy but I'm sorry to say, are clueless when it comes to how to impress girls and don't realize how to treat them differently than their bros. It's an immaturity issue for some guys not a deliberate act. Often, they need someone to explain to them how it affects the other person and then they feel like crap. Maybe this guy is a total tool. I'm just saying, I'm glad she didn't write him off immediately because of wanting to do both: talk to her and have fun with his friends.
Yay I’m happy your going on a date !! But I’m surprised because during your previous live you said you weren’t in the right state of mind to date right now. Has that changed?
About being married and in quarantine .. I think it’s crazy how much I hear about couples realizing how much their significant other drives them crazy and can’t stand to be with them 24/7. I married my best friend, we work together and spend 99% of our time together anyway. 😂 I can’t imagine marrying someone you can’t stand to be around all the time... lol
I agree. I’ve been married for 5 years and 3 kids later, and I love my husband more today than when we first met and fell in love. He always puts me and our kids first and worships the ground I walk on, and that’s how it should be.
YES! It really disheartens me to hear about all of these people who can't stand to spend any time with their significant others. I can't imagine not having my boyfriend around all of the time, we enjoy each other's company too much.
I love how open and honest you are (and the All-Might shirt. MHA is the best). You’re always so real and I’m so glad that you’re always up front with us. You’re my fave person to watch on TH-cam. Keep your head up! If you ever need to chat I’ve got you girl!
I love these videos! We’re all rooting for you to find your person! ❤️ I was almost 29 and was ready to give up until I met mine at the hospital I work at. I look at it as all the bad ones led me to the perfect one! Yours will come I know it! ❤️❤️❤️
I LOVE these videos. Like I want you to find someone who appreciates you and for you to be happy, but this videos are my favorites 💗 you just seem like the sweetest more genuine person. Never change.
I’m 65 and retired. Married 10 months now & it’s so much better than I imagined. Great guy I’d known a few years but it’s like we suddenly connected. Was alone many years, raised my family after a divorce years ago. So glad I waited.
Discouraging. That’s the best way to describe these last 8 yrs of dating. I’m burnt out. I don’t invest in anyone anymore. I don’t have much hope left in my reserves to go whole hog in to any single person anymore lol ur not alone tho, it’s frustrating but I keep telling myself - the surest way to end up alone forever is to stop trying.
The older I've gotten the more I've dated guys who are younger than me.... my current boyfriend is 2 and a half years younger than me and it's the best relationship I've ever had so age really has nothing to do with compatibility. But the guys who are using a dating app are definitely more likely to fall into stereotypes, I feel.
I like the half and half (brown to black) liner! Perhaps you've done that before, but I haven't been watching long. You have great eyeshadow skills and I enjoy listening to you talk. Hope you find your person soon.
You have such a beautiful smile, Cassie! It looks lovely. And despite all the comments on your foundation.. do what you love and do a lot of it. And if that means you love a lot of foundation on you face, then that's totally fine! Stay as you are and don't change for anyone. 💛 Love from Germany!
I know you said you’re iffy about a 10 year age difference but my man and I are 10 years apart (I’m 22 and he’s 32) and it’s the best, healthiest, happiest relationship we’ve both ever been in! You never know until you try :)
I would not limit yourself to an age. 40 seems good in my opinion for you. What if the man of your dream is 39 and you are missing him because of a filter?
Cassie you CRACKED ME UP this video!!! The very end clip, the “THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU PRESTON”, the clip about the puke bucket and glueing flowers on it at your hypothetical wedding, I LOVE U 🧡
Actually I think its good you said you didn’t want to talk later than originally planned. I don’t like that he tried to squeeze your video date in after his friends. Keep doing what you do and things fall into place 🌟✨🌟
Girlllllll I feel you. I was feelin pretty good about my world up until recently. Great bf, still have a job, etc... turns out my “great bf” of a year and a half.... has been cheating on me the entire time. So here I am, single again.
I’m one of your older viewers... and am in awe of your beautiful makeup talents! Any chance you have videos to show us older ladies how to pull off a similar, but more subtle, look?? I’m “makeup challenged” and need help!!
I feel like younger guys get a bad wrap, not all of them are awful and immature, my partner is 4 years younger, we're engaged, have a mortgage and are expecting a bub in October. You just never know.
In my bf’s culture the family like chooses some people and then they can pick from the options. Then there’s like a big family meeting type thing, so yes they meet before. This is in the Middle East. One of my Saudi friend’s sister was secretly involved with someone and she ended up being one of his “options,” so they were able to get married for love but ALSO have it be arranged. The families were NOT happy when they found out after the wedding but since the families approved of them being together, they couldn’t do anything
So sad that these men and families have so much control over women’s love lives. Hope you find happiness and will be able to pick the one you love yourself ❤️
ForeverChiTonight I genuinely think it’s wrong despite understanding the rationale for it. My bf defends it but their culture has a different conception of love than ours. To them, love is more about stability, support, and strengthening family relations. There isn’t much “romantic love” and people don’t date unless they secretly date when they’re international students. It’s so odd to me that his parents were arranged, but they’re somehow so happy together
I love you so much Cassie. My love story- We knew eachother in High school, I never felt those special feelings towards him, then we reconnected after high school about 10 years later and we've been together almost 3 years now, sometimes you don't feel those feels at first. I do hope the best for you, you deserve love and happiness
Cassie, it's the first time you video chatted. My husband was my math tutor in college. I forgot to meet him, for him, to help me. We have been together for 24 years. We didn't connect at first. Keep an open mind. You're an extrovert it would seem. I am also. My other half is an introvert and was shy when we started to think more than him being my tutor. Chin up. Also, people throw off vibs. Maybe you just need to feel each other out. 😊
I'm just 22 and since some years ago I feel like I'm unable to love anyone or anything. It's really weird to remember how I used to be someone so passionate and all the beatiful things I was able to do thanks to it, but after a tremendous loss it's like my heart has become an iceberg. I'm not desperate to date (loneliness isn't a problem for me) but I really do miss the past me because I used to be so alive... Sometimes I think about the possibility of a special someone "resurecting" myself but since I can't even feel atraction I don't wanna try and hurt somebody innocent. It is normal to feel this way?
Also I had a panic attack and my hubby took me to the hospital on our second date and the next date he had an allergic reaction and broke out in hives😂We laugh so hard about that now!
On the second date with my husband I legit broke a tooth and he had to take me to an emergency dentist to get surgery. Talk about mortifying 🤣😂 But here we are 10 years later lol
Haha Sarah, I got food poisoning very early in our relationship. It was awful I literally felt like I was dying on the way to the hospital. Still together and so so happy 15 years later! Talk about breaking the ice lmao!
Love first day get ready/unready videos. I’m officially single as I broke up with my bf of 5 years, no worries I’m ok with it but we still live together so no dating for me til we have our separate places and I’m ok with that. I am more focused on me for once, and I’m definitely looking forward to just working on myself. I’m sorry this date didn’t go as well, hopefully the next one is better! 😊
You will find your person! I met my significant other on tinder...I was swiping out of boredom and had no expectations. He was really nervous on our first date so I thought the date was just OK but I gave him another chance. Here we are a year and a half later, we're engaged and bought a house together! Don't lose hope :)
Very sweet but only people who feel secure in their relationships say that. There is absolutely no guarantee that she will. Now I hope she does because she wants to. But it is honestly super cliche and sadly untrue. Keep in mind this is coming from a person who was with a man for 14 years and married to that same man for almost 9 when he left me. So perhaps I am bitter but I definitely do not believe in that hogwash anymore. Although for me it still led to a happy end. I now have a fulfilling relationship with me. And I can honestly say that its more of a relationship than I have ever had before.
I met my now hubby on plenty of fish 9 years ago! He was actually the only guy I met in person! 9 years later, married with 3 babies! He's out there girl, I promise you! You deserve all the happiness in the world! Love your videos and you!💕
The maturity level of a 24 year old male is like 16 yes u need to go up in age ..lol my husband is 7 years older and he still acts like a child they never grow up just a tip. Good luck on your date😊
Lol! I was thinking that but didn't want to say it. I've always been with guys my age, and agree there was a definite maturity difference, which is kind of endearing ... at first! 😁😂😉 I then lived with a guy 7 years younger than me, and he was more mature than most. My mom's 2nd husband is a year younger than me and they were together over 25 years, until the day she died. He was also very mature and responsible, and everyone thought he was older than her, lol.
@@joannej_TH-cam I guess it just depends on the individual! It's interesting that there does seem to be a trend though, at least with quite a few guys!
Me and my boyfriend met through playing World of Warcraft together. First time we met late December last year. He lives in the UK and I'm in Sweden so you can imagine it hasn't been easy during this pandemic. We didn't see each other for 4 months. Now I'm planning on moving there. I'm so excited. Never been this sure before in my life. He really is my person :>
Raise that age range to 42! Seriously, I'm almost 37, my husband is almost 40. Stereotype alert: men don't mature until at least 35 and honestly, closer to 40. These are stereotypes but if you were my friend, I would encourage you to be open to men in their late 30s and early 40s 💞 also I'm new to your channel, I don't even watch makeup channels honestly. I was just looking for a new foundation for older, dry skin and I ended up adoring your personality 🙏☺️
Ive taken a break from dating during this whole quarentine. I'm old fashioned I want to date in person face to face on our first date. great video girl!
Sometimes the physical attraction can grow when his personality shines, but yeah there was a couple times I gave someone a chance, cause thats who I am, and it just didn't click. Well my attraction to the 2 guys didn't click. You try, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. And no I just said I wasn't ready yet and missed my single life.
In some cultures, families do let their betrothed children meet first in their getting to know phase. Usually with both families present. Which there will be the courtship phase as well, the guy bringing gifts, and other things to impress not just the girl but also the girl's family. In other cultures, the bride and groom do not see each other until the actual wedding ceremony or even their wedding night. The courtship was conducted by the respective families. So it varies.
I love these videos! I’m single and I’ve tried the dating apps and I just can’t get into it. I find it so weird and unnatural to me..I dont know why?? but I’m at the point where I’m basically done with the apps and if I find someone one day in life I would be happy either way. I get teased at work for it but I’m happy single and being an independent woman. 💁🏼♀️🤍
I haven't dated in over 16 years so I can't even imagine how hard it is these days. I love that you don't settle for less than you want or deserve. Also, broaden your horizons and try seeing what the older men have to offer. I'd suspect that an older man might be a good fit for you. You are an old soul and an older man can appreciate that. Good luck, girl! XOXO.
The best I can say is have your non-negotiables, but keep an open mind. Never did I think I’d be marrying someone 2 years younger than me, yet here we are. He was a smoker and I wasn’t a huge fan, but he quit for good with his kidney transplant thankfully. I was able to look past that and found someone who in every way is my perfect match and we just got engaged a few weeks ago. Wishing you nothing but the best Cassie, this is hard and you take a lot of flack putting this out there to everyone! Just know you’re not alone, I dated for 4 years after a huge breakup and I will be 36 when I’m married for the first time. Everyone has different goals and timelines, and you’ll forge your own path based on what’s right for you. 🖤
Omg this makeup was so beautiful Cassie 😯😯😯 also the half and half?!! Why did this NEVER occur to me?! I'm gonna try this look on myself it looks great 😍
I met my husband when I was 32. After years of being single, going on blind dates, trying online dating sites, etc I actually met him at work lol. We both taught at the same school, but I didn't give him the time of day because I thought he was 8 to 10 years younger and he really didn't seem to be my type. I finally decided to go on an outing, not a date, and was pleasantly surprised!!! He's 5 years younger, was ready to get married and have kids...I asked him all these questions on our first "non-date." We've been married for almost 7 years, we have 3 kids, and I rarely feel the age difference. I had to let go of all that I thought I wanted and see what I really needed.
I take it you are still staying at home. I live in Florida where they opened up too soon so no problem dating here. I am older with health issues so am still staying in most of the time. It sounds like you have a good attitude. I enjoyed your video.
Honestly, I am super glad I have my husband to go through this weird time together. And I’ve been loving the extra time we get to spend together, I will definitely miss that part when it’s all over.
I always give guys 2 or 3 dates before stopping communication. Be open. You can’t Expect to know a person just after a couple hours of talking. I also am single and trying to navigate how to date during this time. It is very difficult because I am not really comfortable meeting up in person because it’s just not safe. I feel with the right guy I would maybe meet up distanced and masked outside and then if there’s really a connection I would almost suggest we both get tested and go from there
I'm in the middle of a break up. Thought he was the person but he switches his mind all the time and says things like if I decide to stay. I've grown tired of it. Currently sitting at my momma's house waiting for him to move from the house.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through that right now, but I'm also happy that you know that you deserve better. There IS someone (or two, or three, or more!!) out there that wants to give you the love, respect, and commitment that you deserve... don't give up hope
Aw, I'm sorry, Cassie! Maybe he was just nervous and wasn't sure what to say. I know I'm like that with new people! Also, if it makes you feel any better, it was kinda awkward with my boyfriend and I when we first started talking for awhile too, and now, we've been dating for almost 4 years. The guy you're talking to may just not be the one, but it doesn't hurt to give him another chance. Good luck! I hope all goes well! ❤
Our first date was super awkward - I hadn’t dated in literally 10 years and I was bad at holding a conversation. We met online and went to dinner and a movie. Afterwards he got pulled over. He texted me that night and asked me on a second date, and it went much better. The third was even better. This was in 2013. We will have been married 5 years in October ☺️
Cassie, you'll find your someone when the time is right. I know you've probably heard that a thousand times but it really is true. I met my current husband (who is 7 years older but acts way younger) at a time in my life when I had given up on finding a match or happiness for that matter. I kept declining his marriage proposals (three times) but he never got discouraged. We've been together 20 years and married for 17 of those years. It's not always been easy but we worked through our difficulties because we are each other's person. Hang in there and just have fun in thr meanwhile. On a side note, I can't believe how much your cleansing routine bothers/concerns people. I cleanse my eyes that way plenty and I have no peri orbital wrinkles whatsoever and I'm 46.
At least he made you laugh a couple of times!! But yeah, I believe chemistry should be felt within the first dates. It's always true that everyone deserves second chances because things may develop in unexpexted directions 😉
I certainly feel for you both with online dating (I've never experienced it), and online dating during a pandemic! I think it was a good idea for you to consider dating older guys. If they have similar interests as regards having a family, you wouldn't lose that opportunity. You are more likely to find guys that are more interested in their careers, hobbies, finding someone to spend the rest of their lives with, and families rather than just guys looking for hook ups, I think (obviously, there are exceptions at any age...). I always prefered to date older guys, because I found them to be more mature, and I dated men thirteen to nineteen years older than I am. A friend introduced me to her brother who, although he looked older than he was, he was only three years older. Next year, we will be together for our twenty-fifth year together, so it seems to work out differently than expected sometimes! Loved your eyelook, Cassie; if you could only teach me how to do winged liner like you do! Canadian hugs, Sherrey🎀
In Egypt, families will ask around for prospects, men or women. Then they do a family visit, if they first meeting goes well, they just keep talking and meeting until they decide go move forward with an engagement or break up. But yeah family is a huge part of it. A lot of people now have love marriages, though (two of my cousins and i have them) but like, you subconsciously choose someone you think your family will approve of 😂. I have known my husband since i was 15, we got married when i was 24.
I meet my husband on a blind date 38 years ago. He didn't call me for four days after our first date and then couldn't remember my name. It's makes for a funny story now. We are polar opposites in every way possible. I'm a home body and he's definitely not. That makes it more interesting though. We challenge each other...pull each other out of our comfort zones.
I don't understand how anyone "feels" anything (other than awkward) when first meeting someone new.
Agreed.
too many chick flicks i think
I did not find my husband attractive when dating, I didnt think he was ugly, just not my type physically. Once I got to know him more that physical attraction slowly came with it and now I am happily married and dont look at other men!
Same! Mine took me about 4 months of dating. I almost broke it off but glad I didn’t
I was exactly the same with mine.. 3yrs later im still with him.. and says something when you can be with someone everyday.. i bet it has tested some relationships with this pandemic.
I used to be one of those girls who said "character and personality is the most important, idc about looks". Then a guy told me that i was ugly but i had a great personality and he would love to date me. Ouch. And i was in a relationship for a long time with a guy who didnt think i was very pretty and constantly looked at othet women. I have since changed my mind. I also want my partner to find me at least somewhat good looking and me also finding him attractive. I know it sounds like a bish but constantly hearing from your partner that you are visually not his type etc is super frustrating.
Chani Lin it is very strange that they would just tell you that. I think that’s the kind of thing you would keep to yourself until you know if you can get past that or not. I think it is normal to become more attracted to someone the more you get to know them.
@@BRhymesss yes that guy clearly missed an opportunity for "when you have nothing nice to say, just say nothing" lol but well he was honest... It still hurts to hear it. I dont need my partner to consider me a topmodel or anything but yes it would be nice if he at least is not ashamed to be seen with me in public and not too disgusted to get physical with me. Thatd why i say now its not just character anymore, the looks need to be okay on both sides
My dad gave me the best advice ever... “Everyone is crazy, pick your crazy.” Or in other words, everyone on this earth has crazy things about them, some crazy is lovable and others is absolutely terrible. So pick the crazy you want to live with the rest of your life. I picked my crazy! Together 12yrs married 5. You’ll find the right one! We met when I was working, I wasn’t even looking to date anyone. I was a bartender in college and he came in with friends to the pub I worked at. So you just never know! Let the universe do its thing!
Love your dad's advice. Glad you found your "crazy".
It was your first date, and it was virtual! Why so much pressure and worry? Talk to him again
19:25 Aghhh, Cassie! The eye rubbing looks a little too aggressive. I’m sorry, I’m an esthetician. I just want to help. I think if you ditch the Face Halo and just go in with your Drunk Elephant Slaai Cleansing Balm, your skin will be more forgiving later on. Just melt down the makeup with the balm, add water to emulsify, rinse and follow with your cleanser (2nd cleanse).
Omg I thought the same, her eye area looked so irritated after. Also not a fan of the Face halo but to each their own
Yes!!! Listen to her Cassie
omg yes! I had to look away for a moment. It was so aggressive
Would you say makeup erasers are too rough for the eye area?
@@kirasnow4436 It depends on how much pressure and tugging is being applied with it. Overall, I’m not a fan. The best way to gently break down eye makeup is with a cleansing balm. Dry application first, then add water. Cleansing balms also contain skin nourishing ingredients. It’s important to be mindful about any skin tugging during cleansing.
I read that they dont put a mirror in so it can be recycled when the palette is done. If they put the mirror in it can not go to a recycling pant. I am not sure if that is Colour pops reasoning but that is why some brands do that.
Yes, I was just going to comment this. It also keeps costs down, but mostly for the recycling
I think they leave mirrors out because that makes the palettes cheaper to make.
Colourpop is fast makeup I think they dont give af about the environment 😭
Exactly. And it just makes it cheaper altogether. Plus I don't need a mirror in every single palette. Most come with them and I rarely ever use them. It's not that difficult to reach for another palette that has a mirror or have a hand held mirror that you like (I have one that I prefer over any of my palette mirrors tbh). Anyway, I just think it's a silly thing to get upset by...most people don't prefer a mirror anyway because they never end up using it.
@@lastlove1985 I wasn't saying they do it for the environment but I know that is why some brands do.
Why do you put the foundation all over the eyebrows?
These are my favorite kind of videosss, I get so excited when I see the notification 🤗🤗🤗
Same!!!
I met my husband on a blind date and we just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary.
Oh wow! Congrats on your 20th!
Well good for you😒
I cant with all that rubbing 🥶 I'd suggest you switch to and oil cleanser or balm . Less wrinkles, less irritation
So she should change her whole routine just because you "can't with all that rubbing"?!?!? You do you and let her do her.
@@skaarup33 It will give her more wrinkles and may cause ingrown hairs. I dont want that for her. But obviously she can do whatever she want 🤷🏽♀️ it's obvious, so idk why u expect a comment on that
@@skaarup33 stand down this isn’t some slight 🙄 it’s hard to watch her remove her makeup, she is being extremely rough and that contributes to her puffy red eye skin she’s had for years, it’s also prematurely aging her skin, it is hard to watch someone hurt themselves unnecessarily so..
I love you Cassie but why oh why are you putting 3 layers of foundation on your forehead?? You don't need that much makeup!
I think she wears way too much of everything. I feel like less would be more in her case. And also it’s soooo pale between the foundation and powder it’s so light
I’ve made this same comment and it falls on deaf ears. I don’t understand how you can test a product fairly when you overuse it to the lengths she does.
each to their own
You would understand if you acne, I used to do the same
Juliana B. If you watch any videos with people with acne usually less is more. Caking it on isn’t going to help. You think it does but it makes it look worse. Samantha ravandahl is a perfect example of less is more
I was so sick and tired of guys my age not having motivation or drive to move forward in their lives and relationships. I happened to meet someone who is 17 years older than me and we hit it off. No games, we motivate each other to reach our goals, both want the same things. Now we’re married and have a little boy.
Don’t ever be afraid to step outside of your normal dating preferences, you might be surprised.
My husband is 18yrs older than me. We were acquaintance/buddies for 2yrs before our real 1st date. It's amazing how well it works for us.
I totally agree!!!
@ Christina Williams My husband is 16 years older than me and we’ve been married over 20 years! He’s my soulmate!!! I’m so blessed. Hang in there, Cassie!
@Christina Williams I agree with you.
@Christina Williams it's not for everyone, but love dgaf about age really. As long as it's consenting adults, of course.
My ex was 7 years older and acted younger than me. But he was a whole different type of "man" altogether! My current is 3 years older and acts way more mature than the previous. I think it's more about life experiences than age!
I'm almost 29 and never had a boyfriend. Never had a first anything. Sometimes I feel sad about it, especially during the holidays, but I have a lot of issues to work through, mentally, and I wouldn't want to drag someone I care about through that.
Mejor solo que mal acompañado💖
Your health & happiness comes first! Don’t worry, your time will come when you’re ready 💖
Bless you in Jesus' name!
Sarah same here ! I’m turning 27 and never had a boyfriend and never kissed anyone :( . I’ve had a lot of opportunities and have co workers that have asked me out but one I’m scared because I feel so old too be this inexperienced and I’m afraid of being a bad kissed and doing everything wrong and I’m only getting older 💀 but also I have so much to deal with mental and health wise that I always push every potential partner away. I do want to change that already though I just don’t know how. I wish both of us the best of luck ! And you sharing your comment goes to show that we’re not alone even when we think we are :)
@@KrisyKreme you’re so nice krystal your comment wasn’t even for me and it made me feel better lol
I haven't watched the whole video yet. I want to share that after a few bad experiences and a very bad view on guys, today the guy I met on a dating app asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes. I don't have many friends who are interested in hearing this so I'll share my joy here. I wish you the same Cassie, and reading the rest of the comments here I'm sure you'll find your mans ❤
I love to hear this! Congrats!!!
Aww happy for u 💖
I think if you went for a guy in his late thirties early forties you might find a guy with the same wants and needs as you. A guy in his twenties early thirties are usually not looking for serious some are but not many.
I was gonna say the same. Men a little bit older may be more open to something more serious.
Met my husband when he was in his mid 30s. He was the most polite and mature guy I dated. That’s why I kept him :)
Met on Match
Yes!! I was going to comment something similar. My husband is 10 years older then me something I never thought I’d go for back in my 20s but it was the best decision ( for me), we had more in common then not and very similar goals in a relationship etc... years later still the best decision I’ve ever made!😊
The first two problems in any relationship are:
Miscommunication
Lack of discussing financial issues (after dating or getting serious)
Two things that totally ruin any relationship.
Video chatting does not sound fun at all.
It is best to meet in person (when things are better in this world). It is also best to be straightforward honest from the “get go”. The words may sting for a moment or two but they are honest words.
The eye makeup removal was painful to watch. Gently treat this tender area a little better Cassie.
😎❤️💄Kathy
Cass just some skincare advice here: when you're removing your makeup please be much more gentle with the skin near your eyes! It's very thin and sensitive so to rub it like that will cause premature wrinkles and other damage. It might help to simply apply a makeup remover pad on the area and let it soak up the makeup. :)
Yes- I always cringe at how rough she is.
I physically cringed at that amount of foundation
oh yeah same
Me too and its too pale
@@B12AE she is pale to start with.
Criticize much?!?!?
@@skaarup33 There is nothing wrong with critic as long as it's not vicious.
Pleaaaaaaaase stop abusing your eyes 🙈 i get anxiety each time you take makeup off your eyes, it’s way too rough.
I know it’s a dating vid but the way you treat your eyes 👀 gives me anxiety 😫 I don’t say it to be mean I’m just so concerned with premature wrinkles.
I've been dating someone for 9 months now but before that I was dating off and on for over a decade and all of your experiences are SO relatable! This time last year I had given up on dating but my best friend set up an online profile for me. Turns out she knew what I needed better than I did!
I'm so grateful to have found a good one but sending you all of the positive vibes while you're in the trenches!
I personally would never do a video chat date. I know I would be awkward. I think it would be much harder to have a connection that way too (if you have never met in person). It just isn't the same.
Just focus on you and getting in shape and stuff. I did that for a while and the relationship stuff kinda fell into place
I wish she would take this advice
I feel you, Cassie. I just haven't bothered with dating apps during this whole pandemic lockdown thing. The dating scene is not what it used to be. Before my ex, dating was easy. And now that I'm back on the market almost 7 years after the breakup, things are way different than what I remember. So, I just keep to myself. The dating world is extremely daunting these days. Maybe once life returns to some semblance of normalcy, I can try dating again.
Hi Cassy! I also am dating but using the CMB app here in Singapore! Technically, while in dating phase we say it is different from going steady. Once going steady then when both breakup, we call it “breakup”. If dating phase, technically “breakup” I think we say it as “no longer meeting”
(Possible) Unpopular opinion: I think your level of emotion and calm is GOOD! Sometimes building up the relationship slowly is better. Less disappointment. My fingers are crossed for you!!!
Thank you for a sharing a glimpse into your love life- I can appreciate the courage it takes to be so open and forthright.
Hey Cass! 30ish year old here, single for 4 years, and recently decided to start dating again during this “love in the time of Covid” craziness. Ive been talking to a guy for the past 1.5 months and we’ve never met in real life yet. He only lives 20mins away and we will meet soon, but we’ve done all our dates via video chat so far. So I can relate. I thought it was pretty sh!tty that this guy stood you up on the 2nd attempt at a video date. I think that the first time the date plan fell thru was a genuine case of miscommunication (although I’m still sorta skeptical as to why this guy didn’t make sure to confirm the date/time 🙄) But the 2nd time when he postponed the date DAY OF because he decided other plans sounded better?! Come on!! First dates are still first dates, even if via video. Would you have accepted him ditching you the day-of your first in-person date because he wanted to go out with friends?? Being treated with respect and setting boundaries SHOULDNT CHANGE JUST BECAUSE OUR DATING LIVES CHANGED MEDIUMS!! Remember your worth, girl!!
I was thinking the same thing, lol.
I mean, it's not cool, but he tried to see if they could reschedule for later. He didn't just bail. I think that's worth something. I highly doubt it crossed his mind she may have gotten ready for the date. Guys just are clueless sometimes. I'm glad she still gave him a chance. 🤷🏼♀️
Sherry Tiller when are we going to stop saying “guys are clueless” he’s a grown ass man if you scheduled a date you’re going to expect the person you’re going on a date with to get ready
Greta M I totally agree with you Greta! We need to stop making excuses for these losers and hold them to the standards that we hold ourselves to! This man is in his 30s... by now he should know how to confirm a date (at least the morning-of at the latest!), and he should know that changing plans HOURS before the first date is inexcusable (except for legitimate reasons, like cases of emergency, which last minute plans of whirly-ball or disk-golf or whatever with the buddies doesn’t meet that threshold). The fact that he tried to “reschedule” the date to 10pm that same evening isn’t effort at all... it’s breadcrumbing... it’s selfish and it’s just him putting in the lowest form of effort to ensure he’s staying relevant to Cassie. And if he is a 30 year old “clueless” man (eye roll as I’m saying that), then fine... he should learn to get a clue, but not at another person’s time or expense.
Lejla I totally understand your point with this but it all depends on the kinds of guys you're going for. I've dated a lot of nerdy guys who just aren't experienced daters, not used to receiving much female attention. Some of these guys are the absolute sweetest men ever and will make the right girl super happy but I'm sorry to say, are clueless when it comes to how to impress girls and don't realize how to treat them differently than their bros. It's an immaturity issue for some guys not a deliberate act. Often, they need someone to explain to them how it affects the other person and then they feel like crap. Maybe this guy is a total tool. I'm just saying, I'm glad she didn't write him off immediately because of wanting to do both: talk to her and have fun with his friends.
Yay I’m happy your going on a date !! But I’m surprised because during your previous live you said you weren’t in the right state of mind to date right now. Has that changed?
About being married and in quarantine .. I think it’s crazy how much I hear about couples realizing how much their significant other drives them crazy and can’t stand to be with them 24/7. I married my best friend, we work together and spend 99% of our time together anyway. 😂 I can’t imagine marrying someone you can’t stand to be around all the time... lol
I agree. I’ve been married for 5 years and 3 kids later, and I love my husband more today than when we first met and fell in love. He always puts me and our kids first and worships the ground I walk on, and that’s how it should be.
YES! It really disheartens me to hear about all of these people who can't stand to spend any time with their significant others. I can't imagine not having my boyfriend around all of the time, we enjoy each other's company too much.
I’m glad I’m not the only one! Definitely marry / date someone you love being around 24/7 🙌🏻
this is a great look!! it came out awesome and your hair looks amazing too!
I love how open and honest you are (and the All-Might shirt. MHA is the best). You’re always so real and I’m so glad that you’re always up front with us. You’re my fave person to watch on TH-cam. Keep your head up! If you ever need to chat I’ve got you girl!
I love these videos! We’re all rooting for you to find your person! ❤️ I was almost 29 and was ready to give up until I met mine at the hospital I work at. I look at it as all the bad ones led me to the perfect one! Yours will come I know it! ❤️❤️❤️
I LOVE these videos. Like I want you to find someone who appreciates you and for you to be happy, but this videos are my favorites 💗 you just seem like the sweetest more genuine person. Never change.
I’m 65 and retired. Married 10 months now & it’s so much better than I imagined. Great guy I’d known a few years but it’s like we suddenly connected. Was alone many years, raised my family after a divorce years ago. So glad I waited.
Discouraging. That’s the best way to describe these last 8 yrs of dating. I’m burnt out. I don’t invest in anyone anymore. I don’t have much hope left in my reserves to go whole hog in to any single person anymore lol ur not alone tho, it’s frustrating but I keep telling myself - the surest way to end up alone forever is to stop trying.
The older I've gotten the more I've dated guys who are younger than me.... my current boyfriend is 2 and a half years younger than me and it's the best relationship I've ever had so age really has nothing to do with compatibility. But the guys who are using a dating app are definitely more likely to fall into stereotypes, I feel.
I like the half and half (brown to black) liner! Perhaps you've done that before, but I haven't been watching long. You have great eyeshadow skills and I enjoy listening to you talk. Hope you find your person soon.
You have such a beautiful smile, Cassie! It looks lovely. And despite all the comments on your foundation.. do what you love and do a lot of it. And if that means you love a lot of foundation on you face, then that's totally fine! Stay as you are and don't change for anyone. 💛 Love from Germany!
I know you said you’re iffy about a 10 year age difference but my man and I are 10 years apart (I’m 22 and he’s 32) and it’s the best, healthiest, happiest relationship we’ve both ever been in! You never know until you try :)
10pm to chat is too late. Cmon Cassie
I would not limit yourself to an age. 40 seems good in my opinion for you. What if the man of your dream is 39 and you are missing him because of a filter?
I thought the same thing.
Cassie you CRACKED ME UP this video!!! The very end clip, the “THIS ISNT ABOUT YOU PRESTON”, the clip about the puke bucket and glueing flowers on it at your hypothetical wedding, I LOVE U 🧡
These colors are amazing on you!!
Actually I think its good you said you didn’t want to talk later than originally planned. I don’t like that he tried to squeeze your video date in after his friends. Keep doing what you do and things fall into place 🌟✨🌟
I love how these videos end in your bed, I feel like we are at a sleep over dishing out all the 411 on what’s going on and such
Girlllllll I feel you. I was feelin pretty good about my world up until recently. Great bf, still have a job, etc... turns out my “great bf” of a year and a half.... has been cheating on me the entire time. So here I am, single again.
I’m one of your older viewers... and am in awe of your beautiful makeup talents! Any chance you have videos to show us older ladies how to pull off a similar, but more subtle, look?? I’m “makeup challenged” and need help!!
I feel like younger guys get a bad wrap, not all of them are awful and immature, my partner is 4 years younger, we're engaged, have a mortgage and are expecting a bub in October. You just never know.
In my bf’s culture the family like chooses some people and then they can pick from the options. Then there’s like a big family meeting type thing, so yes they meet before. This is in the Middle East.
One of my Saudi friend’s sister was secretly involved with someone and she ended up being one of his “options,” so they were able to get married for love but ALSO have it be arranged. The families were NOT happy when they found out after the wedding but since the families approved of them being together, they couldn’t do anything
How do you feel about this type of relationships ? I’ve always been curious
Haha. That's awesome. Good for them. 😄
So sad that these men and families have so much control over women’s love lives. Hope you find happiness and will be able to pick the one you love yourself ❤️
ForeverChiTonight I genuinely think it’s wrong despite understanding the rationale for it. My bf defends it but their culture has a different conception of love than ours. To them, love is more about stability, support, and strengthening family relations. There isn’t much “romantic love” and people don’t date unless they secretly date when they’re international students. It’s so odd to me that his parents were arranged, but they’re somehow so happy together
I love you so much Cassie. My love story- We knew eachother in High school, I never felt those special feelings towards him, then we reconnected after high school about 10 years later and we've been together almost 3 years now, sometimes you don't feel those feels at first. I do hope the best for you, you deserve love and happiness
Cassie, it's the first time you video chatted. My husband was my math tutor in college. I forgot to meet him, for him, to help me. We have been together for 24 years. We didn't connect at first. Keep an open mind. You're an extrovert it would seem. I am also. My other half is an introvert and was shy when we started to think more than him being my tutor. Chin up. Also, people throw off vibs. Maybe you just need to feel each other out. 😊
I'm just 22 and since some years ago I feel like I'm unable to love anyone or anything. It's really weird to remember how I used to be someone so passionate and all the beatiful things I was able to do thanks to it, but after a tremendous loss it's like my heart has become an iceberg.
I'm not desperate to date (loneliness isn't a problem for me) but I really do miss the past me because I used to be so alive... Sometimes I think about the possibility of a special someone "resurecting" myself but since I can't even feel atraction I don't wanna try and hurt somebody innocent.
It is normal to feel this way?
Also I had a panic attack and my hubby took me to the hospital on our second date and the next date he had an allergic reaction and broke out in hives😂We laugh so hard about that now!
On the second date with my husband I legit broke a tooth and he had to take me to an emergency dentist to get surgery. Talk about mortifying 🤣😂 But here we are 10 years later lol
That sounds like what happened in the movie hitch 😂
Haha Sarah, I got food poisoning very early in our relationship. It was awful I literally felt like I was dying on the way to the hospital. Still together and so so happy 15 years later! Talk about breaking the ice lmao!
Love first day get ready/unready videos.
I’m officially single as I broke up with my bf of 5 years, no worries I’m ok with it but we still live together so no dating for me til we have our separate places and I’m ok with that. I am more focused on me for once, and I’m definitely looking forward to just working on myself.
I’m sorry this date didn’t go as well, hopefully the next one is better! 😊
You got the best video idea!
I LOVEEEE this series 🥰🥰
Cassie, will you review the Nars Soft Matte foundation if you haven’t already? Really curious to see what you think!
You will find your person! I met my significant other on tinder...I was swiping out of boredom and had no expectations. He was really nervous on our first date so I thought the date was just OK but I gave him another chance. Here we are a year and a half later, we're engaged and bought a house together! Don't lose hope :)
Very sweet but only people who feel secure in their relationships say that. There is absolutely no guarantee that she will. Now I hope she does because she wants to. But it is honestly super cliche and sadly untrue. Keep in mind this is coming from a person who was with a man for 14 years and married to that same man for almost 9 when he left me. So perhaps I am bitter but I definitely do not believe in that hogwash anymore. Although for me it still led to a happy end. I now have a fulfilling relationship with me. And I can honestly say that its more of a relationship than I have ever had before.
The Maria I'm glad you found happiness in the end :)
Holly B thanks:) and also congrats on the engagement and home. I wish you happiness and health and no stupid covid.
I met my now hubby on plenty of fish 9 years ago! He was actually the only guy I met in person! 9 years later, married with 3 babies! He's out there girl, I promise you! You deserve all the happiness in the world! Love your videos and you!💕
I also met mine On POF, We just celebrated our 7th Anniversary ♥️ Congrats !!
@@jolex8131 that's so awesome! Thank you and Congrats to you as well!💕😀
The maturity level of a 24 year old male is like 16 yes u need to go up in age ..lol my husband is 7 years older and he still acts like a child they never grow up just a tip. Good luck on your date😊
My bf is 4 years younger. I think it just depends on the person. Some people just dont mature
Same, my boyfriend is 6 years older than me but acts like he's in his early 20's! 😂
My boyfriend and I are the same age and he’s more mature than me lol! In general I think you’re right though.
Lol! I was thinking that but didn't want to say it. I've always been with guys my age, and agree there was a definite maturity difference, which is kind of endearing ... at first! 😁😂😉 I then lived with a guy 7 years younger than me, and he was more mature than most. My mom's 2nd husband is a year younger than me and they were together over 25 years, until the day she died. He was also very mature and responsible, and everyone thought he was older than her, lol.
@@joannej_TH-cam I guess it just depends on the individual! It's interesting that there does seem to be a trend though, at least with quite a few guys!
Me and my boyfriend met through playing World of Warcraft together. First time we met late December last year. He lives in the UK and I'm in Sweden so you can imagine it hasn't been easy during this pandemic. We didn't see each other for 4 months. Now I'm planning on moving there. I'm so excited. Never been this sure before in my life. He really is my person :>
I zoned out and was thinking about how you were flicking us off when putting your concealer on 😂
Your hair looks so goos these days. I know it has been a journey for you. Keep trucking Cass. Hope you are doing well and staying safe and healthy.
Well said & Agree 👍
thank you so much Rachel!! I hope you're doing well and staying safe/healthy too
So goos???? What is that. Auto correct you done did me dirty again.
hahaha I knew what you meant, no worries XD
Rachel Frumkin I didn’t notice it said “goos” until I saw this comment. My mind automatically read it as good 😂🤣
Raise that age range to 42! Seriously, I'm almost 37, my husband is almost 40. Stereotype alert: men don't mature until at least 35 and honestly, closer to 40. These are stereotypes but if you were my friend, I would encourage you to be open to men in their late 30s and early 40s 💞 also I'm new to your channel, I don't even watch makeup channels honestly. I was just looking for a new foundation for older, dry skin and I ended up adoring your personality 🙏☺️
Ive taken a break from dating during this whole quarentine. I'm old fashioned I want to date in person face to face on our first date. great video girl!
I hope these dudes learn how to appreciate you more❤️ you’re beautiful
Sometimes the physical attraction can grow when his personality shines, but yeah there was a couple times I gave someone a chance, cause thats who I am, and it just didn't click. Well my attraction to the 2 guys didn't click. You try, but sometimes it just doesn't happen. And no I just said I wasn't ready yet and missed my single life.
In some cultures, families do let their betrothed children meet first in their getting to know phase. Usually with both families present. Which there will be the courtship phase as well, the guy bringing gifts, and other things to impress not just the girl but also the girl's family. In other cultures, the bride and groom do not see each other until the actual wedding ceremony or even their wedding night. The courtship was conducted by the respective families. So it varies.
Yeah, I was pretty positive my first date with my husband was a one night stand but now we're married and expecting our first baby 🤷♀️
I love these videos! I’m single and I’ve tried the dating apps and I just can’t get into it. I find it so weird and unnatural to me..I dont know why?? but I’m at the point where I’m basically done with the apps and if I find someone one day in life I would be happy either way. I get teased at work for it but I’m happy single and being an independent woman. 💁🏼♀️🤍
what are you going to do in daily life, to meet more men?
I haven't dated in over 16 years so I can't even imagine how hard it is these days. I love that you don't settle for less than you want or deserve. Also, broaden your horizons and try seeing what the older men have to offer. I'd suspect that an older man might be a good fit for you. You are an old soul and an older man can appreciate that. Good luck, girl! XOXO.
The best I can say is have your non-negotiables, but keep an open mind. Never did I think I’d be marrying someone 2 years younger than me, yet here we are. He was a smoker and I wasn’t a huge fan, but he quit for good with his kidney transplant thankfully. I was able to look past that and found someone who in every way is my perfect match and we just got engaged a few weeks ago. Wishing you nothing but the best Cassie, this is hard and you take a lot of flack putting this out there to everyone! Just know you’re not alone, I dated for 4 years after a huge breakup and I will be 36 when I’m married for the first time. Everyone has different goals and timelines, and you’ll forge your own path based on what’s right for you. 🖤
Omg this makeup was so beautiful Cassie 😯😯😯 also the half and half?!! Why did this NEVER occur to me?! I'm gonna try this look on myself it looks great 😍
Oh yay I love these get ready with me 🥰🥰🥰
These are my favvvvv videos thank you for sharing ❤️
i luv ur date grwm and i luv gettin ready with u 😭😭 feels like i have a girl to just chill with ❤️
Your match is out there. Like you said, just keep an open mind and see how things play out! Love you gorgeous!!😉
Lots of love and happiness to you...being Ur audience is something that I can't explain in words ..my best wishes to you...
I met my husband when I was 32. After years of being single, going on blind dates, trying online dating sites, etc I actually met him at work lol. We both taught at the same school, but I didn't give him the time of day because I thought he was 8 to 10 years younger and he really didn't seem to be my type. I finally decided to go on an outing, not a date, and was pleasantly surprised!!! He's 5 years younger, was ready to get married and have kids...I asked him all these questions on our first "non-date." We've been married for almost 7 years, we have 3 kids, and I rarely feel the age difference. I had to let go of all that I thought I wanted and see what I really needed.
I take it you are still staying at home. I live in Florida where they opened up too soon so no problem dating here. I am older with health issues so am still staying in most of the time. It sounds like you have a good attitude. I enjoyed your video.
Your first make up look was gorgeous!! ♥️
Hi Cassie!! These videos are so fun to watch, it's like I am with a friend💕
Honestly, I am super glad I have my husband to go through this weird time together. And I’ve been loving the extra time we get to spend together, I will definitely miss that part when it’s all over.
I always give guys 2 or 3 dates before stopping communication. Be open. You can’t Expect to know a person just after a couple hours of talking. I also am single and trying to navigate how to date during this time. It is very difficult because I am not really comfortable meeting up in person because it’s just not safe. I feel with the right guy I would maybe meet up distanced and masked outside and then if there’s really a connection I would almost suggest we both get tested and go from there
I'm in the middle of a break up. Thought he was the person but he switches his mind all the time and says things like if I decide to stay. I've grown tired of it. Currently sitting at my momma's house waiting for him to move from the house.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through that right now, but I'm also happy that you know that you deserve better. There IS someone (or two, or three, or more!!) out there that wants to give you the love, respect, and commitment that you deserve... don't give up hope
@@thriftthick Thank you, it's rough but I think I'm making the right decision.
Chucking him is DEFINITELY the right move. Stringing people along like You're describing is classic manipulation tactic. Hes bad news, trust me
Aw, I'm sorry, Cassie! Maybe he was just nervous and wasn't sure what to say. I know I'm like that with new people! Also, if it makes you feel any better, it was kinda awkward with my boyfriend and I when we first started talking for awhile too, and now, we've been dating for almost 4 years. The guy you're talking to may just not be the one, but it doesn't hurt to give him another chance. Good luck! I hope all goes well! ❤
I AM in the same situation as you are!! Trust me, dating after 55 is nothing but a shot in the dark & not in a good way. 🙃🙃🙃
Our first date was super awkward - I hadn’t dated in literally 10 years and I was bad at holding a conversation. We met online and went to dinner and a movie. Afterwards he got pulled over. He texted me that night and asked me on a second date, and it went much better. The third was even better. This was in 2013. We will have been married 5 years in October ☺️
Cassie, you'll find your someone when the time is right. I know you've probably heard that a thousand times but it really is true. I met my current husband (who is 7 years older but acts way younger) at a time in my life when I had given up on finding a match or happiness for that matter. I kept declining his marriage proposals (three times) but he never got discouraged. We've been together 20 years and married for 17 of those years. It's not always been easy but we worked through our difficulties because we are each other's person. Hang in there and just have fun in thr meanwhile.
On a side note, I can't believe how much your cleansing routine bothers/concerns people. I cleanse my eyes that way plenty and I have no peri orbital wrinkles whatsoever and I'm 46.
You are so beautiful. Please be kind to your skin when taking off your makeup like so many have said. Hugs to you.
These are my fav videos of yours ☺️
At least he made you laugh a couple of times!! But yeah, I believe chemistry should be felt within the first dates. It's always true that everyone deserves second chances because things may develop in unexpexted directions 😉
I love these videos! Thank you for sharing your Bumble journey with us! lol
Well.....the eye look was absolutely stunning
Cassie you should try out Hinge. In my opinion the men on there are more serious about wanting monogamous relationships than Bumble
I certainly feel for you both with online dating (I've never experienced it), and online dating during a pandemic! I think it was a good idea for you to consider dating older guys. If they have similar interests as regards having a family, you wouldn't lose that opportunity. You are more likely to find guys that are more interested in their careers, hobbies, finding someone to spend the rest of their lives with, and families rather than just guys looking for hook ups, I think (obviously, there are exceptions at any age...). I always prefered to date older guys, because I found them to be more mature, and I dated men thirteen to nineteen years older than I am. A friend introduced me to her brother who, although he looked older than he was, he was only three years older. Next year, we will be together for our twenty-fifth year together, so it seems to work out differently than expected sometimes! Loved your eyelook, Cassie; if you could only teach me how to do winged liner like you do! Canadian hugs, Sherrey🎀
How many first days have you had? I am loosing track 🤣
In Kuwait “arranged couples” are engaged for three months to one year max and then they get married if they like each other.
In Egypt, families will ask around for prospects, men or women. Then they do a family visit, if they first meeting goes well, they just keep talking and meeting until they decide go move forward with an engagement or break up. But yeah family is a huge part of it. A lot of people now have love marriages, though (two of my cousins and i have them) but like, you subconsciously choose someone you think your family will approve of 😂. I have known my husband since i was 15, we got married when i was 24.
I meet my husband on a blind date 38 years ago. He didn't call me for four days after our first date and then couldn't remember my name. It's makes for a funny story now. We are polar opposites in every way possible. I'm a home body and he's definitely not. That makes it more interesting though. We challenge each other...pull each other out of our comfort zones.