A Letter to Our Daughter After Finding Out Mom Has Cancer While Pregnant

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  • After finding out about my cancer diagnosis while pregnant we started a little video letter to our baby, who we would later find out was a little girl. Sharing it here so she can always find it to look back on and so we have the memories too. It has been one heck of a journey the last few months and it is all kind of a blur so having these snippets to look back to is good.
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  • @Yorkielover14
    @Yorkielover14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Beautiful video between mother and daughter a bond that lasts forever. Keeping you all in my prayers.

  • @E.T.N.A
    @E.T.N.A 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Melanie, you have already taught your daughter the most important life lesson; You taught her the power of love.
    Sending you all my love from Greece 🇬🇷💖

    • @hydie0079
      @hydie0079 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Absolutely! Melanie is going to be the best mommy ever! ❤ I how she talks to her baby girl...❤

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You’re not alone dad! The Mel squad will be here

  • @kellykennedy1165
    @kellykennedy1165 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That sweet girl came when she did to save your life…. There is a plan for everything in life❤️ beautiful family❤️ so much love to y’all ❤

  • @debbiedowdy3612
    @debbiedowdy3612 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She so beautiful like her mommy Daddy going be the best daddy praying for you all

  • @lucyfritz3232
    @lucyfritz3232 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    What a wonderful video. I think most of us would love to have a video like this to see how things were the day we were born. She’s precious and as strong as you are. Praying for continued and sustained healing!! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @debbiedusterhoft2870
      @debbiedusterhoft2870 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This will be beautiful gift to your sweet baby girl that you can share. Take care.

  • @Bebs995
    @Bebs995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your daughter won't care what's going on 😮 fun family laughs love is all needed, you are a loving lady who's juggling so many balls ,rest is good..car seat needed defo..❤❤ love to all

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So very true ❤ lovely comment.

  • @janaesvagera1668
    @janaesvagera1668 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    this is so sweet... she will cherish this

  • @pollyrichmond7957
    @pollyrichmond7957 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She is absolutly beautiful.....some days just breath...and enjoy your little one...always in my prayers....

  • @debbieschultz106
    @debbieschultz106 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sorry you're going through all of this. Prayers for healing.

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ok she will crack up at the word bootie over and over! 😊

  • @JanetOffutt-qg4tl
    @JanetOffutt-qg4tl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    What sweet words to your sweet baby, soon she will have her first Christmas!❤

  • @lorileewalters2018
    @lorileewalters2018 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m sending love, hugs and lots of prayers to you ♥️🥰♥️🙏🏼♥️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @karenkirwan123
    @karenkirwan123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    That was so lovely. Your daughter will love seeing that in the future. Here’s to you all having lots of memories together🫶🫶❤️💪🤞⭐️

  • @lester2730
    @lester2730 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is Cheryl. I'm using my husband's phone that's why his name is showing.
    I admire you so very much! You are such a strong positive woman. I do have to say that when I first turned this video on, I started to cry bc I was upset that u sounded all stuffed up again and then I realized it was B4 baby girl was here and treatment was already started!
    Love your videos for baby girl. What a smart thing to do.
    Hope things continue to improve for you all. What a beautiful family❤ you have.
    Happy holidays❤❤

  • @user-hv8lc7xd5d
    @user-hv8lc7xd5d 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Aww Mel, I'm so sorry things are going wonky rate now but with love and prayer look at all things positive. Also try to remain faithful in our heavenly father who will see you thru. Loving and praying for you both and baby girl. One step at a time ! ❤🙏🌹🙏

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love the mural Melanie 😊 perfect for your love of nature.

  • @Ellie0502
    @Ellie0502 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Oh Melanie, I can't begin to understand what you're going through. Please keep up your trust that your doctors and medical teams will do everything they can for you and your faith will keep you strong.
    Your plans for Christmas are wonderful. Be sure to enjoy every single minute.
    Love Ellie from Scotland xx

  • @vancekershaw6876
    @vancekershaw6876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Melanie you are in my thoughts and prayers and all things are possible with God because he's taken care of me for the 6 years I have been living with heart disease and he will do the same for you and I'm saying this to let you know that you are not alone and my prayers that everything goes well for you ❤️ ♥️

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Thinking of you on your own journey. He can do big things and I’m praying for both of us!

  • @avarismimi
    @avarismimi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All your sweet child will need is its beautiful mother. This is so sweet & a wonderful video message. You are a kind and loving mama. You remind me of my mom. She was so kind & strong and I miss her sweetness. My baby weighed 4 pounds & did wonderful. He’s 46 years old now & so healthy with 3 kids of his own. ❤ you & your husband are so calm & dedicated ❤ beautiful beautiful! Thanks for sharing this. It brought tears to my eyes to see what deep love lives in our hearts. The baby is so precious. ❤❤❤ well done parents 😊

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww thank you for sharing this! I am so sorry to hear about your mom, but know that you carry her with you always. And thank you for the encouragement on your son, gives me hope for her growth!

    • @avarismimi
      @avarismimi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@melaniefostersnavely you are so welcome 🙏🏼 ❤️🥰

  • @MarlaSims-xj9jm
    @MarlaSims-xj9jm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wonderful!! She will love that she has this one day! Well done mom, we’ll done!🩷

  • @donnataylor400
    @donnataylor400 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just got notification of this video. I had to watch it. Very beautiful tribute for baby. You are a very strong woman. God bless you and your family. I saw your video where you had 2 rounds of chemo. About to start radiation. I hope and pray they get all that “ C”. Thanks for sharing.

  • @patriciaschneider7966
    @patriciaschneider7966 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Melanie this video is precious, priceless and perfect!
    It made me smile almost all the way through it!
    You, your husband and all your family are so blest! As a BC Survivor of 23+ years…stay strong…GOD Is walking right beside you holding your hand…hold tight HE will guide you all the way!🙏💖🙏

  • @Kristen10-22
    @Kristen10-22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow! I’m not sure I can watch all of it in one sitting.
    Thank you for showing me true love between a Mom & Daughter…As a kiddo who grew up in a scary environment, you showed me what it’s like to truly love. I know who & what type of mom I wanted to be for our son. He is now 19 & I must say he I turned out so far awesome.
    I turned out the opposite of my mom. ❤
    Anyway the little one in me heard you!
    God Bless and what a beautiful video for your little one.
    Thank you for sharing ❤

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am so sorry to hear about your scary situation growing up, but so glad you made the change for your son. We are all doing the best we can with what we have where we are.

    • @Kristen10-22
      @Kristen10-22 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@melaniefostersnavely oh Mel it’s ok. Thank you though you are too kind. I have a different outlook now.
      I view the past as a blessing in a way. We are tough cookies & Im a better mama for our guy. Promise to watch it in bits. Lol! Praying for yall. 🩷🩷

  • @kimtongo3533
    @kimtongo3533 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautiful and sweet video!!!! 😅🙏☀️🙏☀️🙏🌲☀️🎄🙏☀️

  • @cindiegrimm5983
    @cindiegrimm5983 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's absolutely beautiful!!!

  • @jennifermoyer9419
    @jennifermoyer9419 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautifully done message for her to watch as she gets older. Capturing your essence and Love with such a good ❤️

  • @BondiNZ
    @BondiNZ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Absolutely beautiful ❤❤

  • @cindywisdom6385
    @cindywisdom6385 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is a beautiful baby tale.❤

  • @lnewbury1
    @lnewbury1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are not alone Melanie. I live in organized chaos too. I know where everything is but no one else does. 😂 As a matter of fact, I am purging some overstuffed closets today and donating to those who need all the things. I continue to pray for you and your precious family daily. I have come to love you all. Let me know if I can help you. I’m in Austin, TX. And dad is so right….God is good!
    Precious video to share with that sweet baby when she is older. You are all so brave and lovely.

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Haha, glad to know I’m not alone!! You should see our bedroom right now. I already have a pile of clothes to donate as she’s outgrown her preemie clothes already. The hospital said they don’t get a lot of clothes for the preemies so we’re going to drop them there for other littles to use. Thank you for your continued support! It means so much

    • @lnewbury1
      @lnewbury1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@melaniefostersnavely so kind of you to donate to the hospital. I know they will appreciate it. May it return to you tenfold.

  • @Mari-B
    @Mari-B 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so beautiful! A treasure! I'm praying for you all!! 🩷🩷💙

  • @slay2483
    @slay2483 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations, she's beautiful!!! Praying for your family.

  • @jennygidluck5497
    @jennygidluck5497 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful baby girl!❤

  • @gooby2doobydo725
    @gooby2doobydo725 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very heartwarming video to your daughter. ❤

  • @Tomas-major
    @Tomas-major 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Dear Melanie, this was so touching to watch xx
    Continued thoughts and healing prayers xxx

  • @donnabankstahl2457
    @donnabankstahl2457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Melanie she is absolutely beautiful 💞💞Congratulations to you and your husband on your daughters safe arrival. Hugs and prayers💞💞🙏🙏😘🥰

  • @maggiemessenger7921
    @maggiemessenger7921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Well done mum and blessings to your beautiful family. I can't imagine what you must be going through. I pray for a healthy outcome for you. Love from New Zealand. ❤❤

  • @plantsbythemoon9049
    @plantsbythemoon9049 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great idea. Hope you film more chronicles of her life with both of you. A treasure for every child for sure. Continued prayers for you.

  • @cathymarble3283
    @cathymarble3283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a beautiful video welcoming baby.
    Keep strong, Melanie❤

  • @lisak7633
    @lisak7633 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    hugs Melanie beautiful Mommy, Daddy and your precious baby girl , praying in Iowa!

  • @marshabailey1121
    @marshabailey1121 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love this. Such a gift for your littlr girl

  • @wishingyoupeace
    @wishingyoupeace 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She’s a lucky baby girl to have you two!

  • @allyssumrose
    @allyssumrose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was so beautiful doing this video letter to your beautiful baby girl!! I love how positive you are in giving life lessons to her!! Your daughter is truly blessed to have you and your husband for her mommy and daddy!! I'm still praying for you and wishing you lots of love 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️. Prayers & Wishes Lisa Hampton 🙂

  • @Moopotsmum
    @Moopotsmum 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful ❤❤

  • @gerryryan1372
    @gerryryan1372 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ahhhh a wonderful thoughtful vlog, tears for me again xx

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sooo proud of you both.

  • @melindataljaard2753
    @melindataljaard2753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Awe, how heartbreaking 😔. It is such a wonderful idea to be able to make videos and know that someday she will be able to look back and know her mother. It will be very precious. You and your family are in our prayers. 🙏🏻
    Be strong

  • @frokengron
    @frokengron 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The video to your baby girl welcoming her to the world is very beautiful sweet. I teared up a bit when your husband and you got to hold her in your arms for the first time. A heartwarming and precious moment. Sending love,peace and comfort to your family. xx

  • @karinasanchez3285
    @karinasanchez3285 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awww sweet Mel 🥰✨💛, you were really getting ready for little girly baby’s arrival 😍💕

  • @lindafero4720
    @lindafero4720 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What memories to cherish ❤❤❤

  • @hydie0079
    @hydie0079 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello Melanie, I'm sorry I'm a little late. How special is this video! Melanie, you are one of the sweetest,kindest human beings I've ever seen ❤ She is absolutely precious, and I'm so happy she's healthy and happy! Her little face is gorgeous! Y'all are going to be the best parents ever...I'm sending you a big hug and just know you are not alone, you have an awesome husband who absolutely loves and adores you, the sweetest baby,your family and all of us are sending prayers and we are here anytime you need to talk or vent I will always listen and cheer you on through everything you're going through ❤ we love and care about you! I have to be honest, I literally cried when I saw you holding your baby girl.. There's nothing more beautiful than that...❤ Thank you for sharing her with us! 😊 Take care and see you soon! xx hydie

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for this sweet heartfelt message. It means a lot! Especially your words on parenting. It seems like a lot and that I can’t give her all of me sometimes, but so grateful her daddy can fill in the gaps. We’re getting there slowly but surely.

  • @user-rc6oq1vu1v
    @user-rc6oq1vu1v 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you pray for you

  • @jodeming5088
    @jodeming5088 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What a beautiful, heartfelt video to your daughter. I will admit I totally cried listening to you. When she’s old enough to understand she will so appreciate this. The way you both said hi baby is precious. Thank you for sharing with us. Sending the 3,of you much love, hugs, and prayers. It’s awesome to see how much the swelling has come down. Happy Holidays to you all. Can’t wait to see her in her Christmas outfit.

  • @stefanimcgehee5140
    @stefanimcgehee5140 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am so happy and proud for you guys. You have a long road ahead, but all will be okay...as you said sometimes you just gotta roll with the punches. I just have spent the last two years fighting lung cancer and doing very well. They say it is gone...tests and doctors all the time, but treatments are over. God Bless you guys!!

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m so sorry to hear about your own battle but so glad to hear you are in remission and pray it stays that way! It gives me hope 💛

  • @immasista6537
    @immasista6537 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautyful baby! God Bless Ya'll 🙏🏻

  • @Kathleensailorgirl
    @Kathleensailorgirl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such a beautiful heartwarming video that your daughter will cherish . Prayers continue for a complete recovery and remission 🙏🙏🙏🥰🥰

    • @bobs1356
      @bobs1356 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It got be hard to know that the happiest moment having the baby knowing u got to deal with cancer. What a kick in the chops.

  • @Yt-hb4wh
    @Yt-hb4wh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just beautiful.

  • @wishingyoupeace
    @wishingyoupeace 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m learning so much from these talks. So inspiring. Thank you Melanie.

  • @janinecarlson6118
    @janinecarlson6118 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Melanie, your daughter is beautiful!!! ❤

  • @dboley1950
    @dboley1950 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She's absolutely gorgeous

  • @theresawebb8064
    @theresawebb8064 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes I would love to have had video like that for my now grown boys..so precious, she is a beautiful baby❤

  • @RedemptionRidgeHomestead
    @RedemptionRidgeHomestead 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shes beautiful guys! Im praying for you so much today!

  • @wishingyoupeace
    @wishingyoupeace 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sweet! Heartfelt.

  • @bumpymoon5416
    @bumpymoon5416 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤

  • @karlaharvey2623
    @karlaharvey2623 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a beautiful video for your precious little girl to watch over and over and over again. What a precious gift to make for her. Prayers continue

  • @connieowens3543
    @connieowens3543 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are beautiful on the inside and outside.. stay strong sweet lady. Prayers for you always

  • @marylevin9262
    @marylevin9262 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    💜

  • @wishingyoupeace
    @wishingyoupeace 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg she’s so beautiful!

  • @alketastruga7288
    @alketastruga7288 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh my goodness your baby girl is gorgeous sweet ❤❤little Princess you are so strong mom God bless ❤

  • @sandrahartigan5335
    @sandrahartigan5335 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God bless your beautiful family 🙏🙏

  • @user-km5yt9tl3r
    @user-km5yt9tl3r 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God Bless you and your family. May u come out healthy and great lungs

  • @CoolInOlympia
    @CoolInOlympia 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awwww how precious!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dionnetoal3444
    @dionnetoal3444 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This so beautiful 💜 I'm so sorry those beautiful precious moments were tinged with some scary and uncertain times. Congratulations to you all and I pray you get through your recovery now as painless as possible, your little girl is a little warrior, same as her beautiful mum 💜

  • @vikkimikkola5957
    @vikkimikkola5957 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

  • @juliehatchett6613
    @juliehatchett6613 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sweet.

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    …..AND GUESS WHAT BABY GIRL? WHEN I SHARED OUR STORY, 1,444 PEOPLE READ IT IN THE FIRST 4 HOURS AND WELCOMED US IN WELCOMING YOU!!!! 🎉

  • @Tiggus1292
    @Tiggus1292 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Oh man I’m so sorry

  • @saharaservin4863
    @saharaservin4863 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💕

  • @dboley1950
    @dboley1950 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Baby girl🎉❤

  • @suebean3873
    @suebean3873 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry, how big was the baby? I can’t see anywhere if you’ve told us. She’s a beautiful baby girl. Congratulations.

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dads have great hair days tho 😂

  • @AARJC1112
    @AARJC1112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just ❤️

  • @hammettgirl
    @hammettgirl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @RABPWarrior
    @RABPWarrior 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We moms have bad hair lives during the first 18 years

  • @patriciaanzelc5386
    @patriciaanzelc5386 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Aren’t you concerned about having the cat near a preemie? I hope you got the doctors ok. Not trying to be critical just a nervous old lady.❤️

    • @melaniefostersnavely
      @melaniefostersnavely  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That was as close as she got, didn’t actually touch her or anything. The doctors said she’s doing really good. Surpassing all her milestones and breathing well. Thank you for your concern!

  • @killroy1367
    @killroy1367 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How much did she weigh?

  • @dboley1950
    @dboley1950 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How many lbs?

  • @Grahamt978
    @Grahamt978 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hate cancer

  • @paulinewong5906
    @paulinewong5906 6 หลายเดือนก่อน