How to Put Yourself First (and Why It’s so Important) | Ed Mylett
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#EdMylett #Motivation
I love that you said 63 years YOUNG!
The timing of this is incredible. I just opened my company and wanted to go look at luxury things to goal set. I invited a friend and he didn’t want to come, rather than go home and wait until he wanted to go, I prioritized me and my need to dream and here I am doing what I wanted for me.
That's amazing! It takes courage to prioritize your own dreams, especially when others might not share the same vision. You've shown a powerful commitment to your goals by not waiting for someone else's approval or schedule.
That's exactly right too I am going to start working on putting my self first
Good for you!! Exactly the right decision!! My mom always wanted me to go places with her (I lived 3 hours away and had small children) and refused to go do things by herself. So sad because it limited her life and the friends she might have developed.
Drop the crap and never stop evaluating. Once you are consistent with that, the sky is the limit. ❤💯💯💯
There has been such a wave of self-care lately. What did we do last 50 years before "self-care" became a "thing"???
It's really important though to give ourselves what we need, especially when we have families. We cannot allow Ourselves to become run down or upset about being everyone's support person. Need to construct support for US!
Ed Mylett- you nailed it! So many of us mothers… give give give to our kids/husband and put ourselves on the back burner! I can personally tell you that I was that elephant… that mom. Stuck… and trying to feed everybody and forgetting about me. 20 years ago I started a book… I am putting me first and going to finish it! Dreaming… feeding…and filling my cup first before I fill others! This is vital for your soul and being true to you! Keep on keeping Ed Mylett! You are amazing! So appreciate you and your team! Thank you!
God did not give you another day because you need it, but because somebody needs you and it is the new version of you that they need.
Wow, thank you!!! Can't wait to come on your show! Thank you for this opportunity 🙏 ❤️🙌
2017 I was blessed with a do over. After seizures I couldn't remember how to use a fork now I dream big. The first time I drove after that, it felt like the first time. I am leaving what isn't working behind as I am living what I want for my new life at 63 years young.
Starting over with a history of success.
I am so proud of you my friend. I’m also living proof that it’s never too late to start over and have a new life. It’s stories like yours that make me smile and give me hope. Please never stop sharing your journey it’s a light force for me and others so we also can begin to truly live and believe that it can be done. Love n respect. ❤
This is the thing that holds me back the most, especially when cultural expectations are put in , you’re taught that putting yourself first is really selfish and frowned upon & I’m just so depleted and feel stagnant and not really happy with life. Sometimes I don’t know where to start , currently weighing up between moving to a completely new state where I know no one and really just focus on myself . Maybe this is a sign I need to do that ?
Putting yourself first is not selfish; it's essential for your well-being. Just like the instructions on an airplane to put your oxygen mask on first before assisting others, taking care of yourself enables you to better care for those around you.
Yes God first. You nailed it. ❤ I must fill my own cup
Living the Airplane Analogy is critical for showing up as our best authentic genuine version of yourself daily. Most of my clients put everyone else first.
Thanks for the reminder Ed. I can't serve from an empty cup. I need to wake up!
This is so timely for me. I wrestled for awhile the whole idea of loving me first. This is confirmation. God bless you Ed!! 🥰⚘️🙌🙌👍
Thanks Ed for the reminder not to stay where I don't belong
That’s why I’m at the gym this morning! I have a ton of work to do today but I come first💪🏼
How much work is a ton ?
This is soo good!! Yes, the timing was great!! It’s time to step up & keep that dream alive!! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!!
In every case, we decide if it is in our self-interest or not… to help or to do.
Everyone has different self-interests… Selfless doing is not possible, because we act after our self-interests! I remembered this discussion with my siblings, age 10 years… Most people do not even understand this… Because they are brainwashed.
I've been told throughout my life that it's all about association , association, and association.
Currently the best for my life right now is dissociation. I started with firing my doctor. I researched a top notch doctor. I chosed my current young femaile doctor after researching interviewing several. A couple were not taking on new patients.
I have not been this healthy, strong, energetic and happy in a long time. I no longer feel miserable my life no longer revolves around my doctor's regular appointments check-ups and tests. Most based on age and insurance policy not my level of health. During the
six months I evaluated my personal, professional and spiritual association. I finally learned how to say no to people, places and things that no longer bring value to my life.
The epiphany of whom helped your father brought me to tears. What an amazing revelation. Thank you for doing your show every week.
Thanks for being a beast in this space ED you and your content have helped me through some of my toughest days and challenges. I truly appreciate your hard work and dedication and your service. Guys keep watching and hit that like button and share the episodes. Let’s get ED to a million followers on this platform. At the time of me posting this he’s a little over 960 k followers. And before I get bashed in this comment section about caring for the numbers. I don’t care. Ed has earned every single one of his followers on this platform. So let’s help him get what he deserves. Let’s go everyone stay blessed and praise God and work hard
Ed, I want to say what a great episode. Just a few thoughts I grabbed from it. Keeping your guard up and protecting the temp of your interior is crucial. There will be people who come along family and friends that try to create chaos by breaking through borders you have setup. Don’t let them! Pray on it. 👍
This came right on time. Thank you! 🙏🏾
As a first responder and training instructor,
I learned how important PPE is, and now I have a new mental meaning: Peaceful
Positive
Enlightened
Emotional Triage :
Is it serving my Positive Peaceful Existence
Or are you caught on the Emotional roller-coaster.
I believe 🙏 I have found my purpose. I am fighting for myself. Psychoneuroimmunology
Is my new story built on my past successes.
This is so true! The only way I can add value to others is to be valuable myself! These broadcasts are so important to my own personal development. Thank you for take the time to produce such great content!
I so needed this message right now, 100% hit home. I’ve definitely got some work to do, starting Now! I’m making me a priority, once and for all, so I can be there for others… I want people to remember me in a positive light! Thank you so much for your inspiring words ❣️🙏🏻
Such a good man. I wish I had a father like him in my life but thats okay. I am going to live a new life.
Awesome podcast today. 👏
Thank you ❤ you...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
great man! you are just so inspiring! continue the journey.
I’m so glad that so many people have benefitted from your rant on the very basics.
Ed you have a GREAT impact in peolpes lives and you dont imagine. Just like me a 41 year old woman from Argentina. So grateful man!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼
Thank you Ed
I like your candid approach to life and telling people the way it is. Self care is not optional!
Thanks Ed, needed to hear this today, right now....
Life changing! Thank you
I see exactly what you’re saying.
On time👑
Great message Ed!
I so needed this today ❤ thank Ed.
Looking forward to this one
Thank you ❤
Nice call on the comment contest Ed!
12:06 you belong in your dreams: "I belong in my dreams"
12:49 Make it bigger, Dream big, think big thoughts, dreaming is free (Dream your life bigger).
13:39 "I" should be priority number #1 in my Life (after God).
16:23 External circumstances do not dictate the ultimate direction / destination of your life. It's You and your faith (God). This is called the "internal thermostat" of your life. Your thoughts, concepts & beliefs about yourself. No matter how hot/cold things get outside (circumstances), your own identity (thermostat) determines your life's thermostat.
1) 24:38 Add people to your circle (with a hotter
thermostat than yours: faith, business...)
2) 25:19 Shock your system. Behave differently
Raise your water-line.
28:54 Allgin your goals & identity.
Identity + Goals = Effort & Results
3) 29:13 Stop what's no longer needed (people, thoughts, behavior, emotion)
4) 30:37 Are you stuck in a story?
Evaluate who you are NOW.
Bonus:
37:26 Talk to yourself!
38:08 Don't believe every thought. Steer them...
40:13 Your mess does not disqualify you (God loves you)
Great video! Thank you!!
I love your content ed it’s powerful 🙏🏻
The concept of the 'empty or full cup' really puts personal capacity into perspective. For entrepreneurs, it's crucial to remember that nurturing your network can be like filling your cup. A quick tip: segment your contacts based on their interests and interaction levels, then tailor your follow-ups for higher engagement. This personalized approach often leads to more meaningful connections and opportunities.
Thank you so much edat you. Have me thinking and every video. I believe you are God favor.
Thank you👏👏👏
Wowzer!!
How did you know?
Thank you forJesus!!
Thank you Mr MyLett!
Love this! Exactly my why in organizing wellness retreats for Christian women. I struggled with this for years. ❤
Love your Solo episodes. In my opinion, they're the best. This one is truly exceptional. Thank you so much for your positive energy.
GREAT Tuesday Morning !! Thank YOU & AMEN
you helped me so much, i just received yiur book 10 minutes afo
oh wow you have joel on , hes another powerful game changer in my life , i listen to him almost every day as well
Thank you
Me again, this is the most profound insight that I have experienced. I hope everyone watches this video to the very end. I believe it can change lives!❤
Love this one ! !!!!
I echo all of this..at 51! So true! We minimize even the way we minimize our own needs. If we don’t practice what we preach the people we serve FEEL it and wow it’s a constant area of growth for me ❤thank you!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 this is why I love you!! Gotta put me first besides God. Period!
I've made so many comments, hopping you'd see them so you could feel how thankful I am for you Ed. Learning from you has been essential in the journey to love myself. I wanted to learn from the very best in self development. I love myself so much that nothing comes between US😁 I am a better human, wife, mother, woman because I listen and learn from you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me be the best version of myself. I'm Maxing Out!!!❤
Perfect timing Ed. I needed this because I put my relationship first and put myself last in goals, personal care, ect. It's left me feeling empty, behind in life, and unfulfilled
SOOOO GOOD!
how the hell can you read my mind ed? seriously freaky how you posted exactly what I needed today!❤
Thank you for inspiring me every single day MYLETT 😇😇 can’t wait to come to your show at Calgary 27-2024 🔥🔥🔥 #maxout
Love this Ed! Divine timing as always! Working on my identity now❤️
I know I’m the one in my family Ed. It is a gift and at the same time so incredibly painful and difficult and sad. What have you done to overcome as the one?? I know what’s Help me is listening to you.
I love you, Ed Mylett!!!! 💯❤️🔥
Great Stuff!!
Wow I love you my friend. Job well done my faithful servant. Keep up the good work. Diane from Detroit ❤🎉
I'm so teaching this too!!!
So excited to help people learn this ❤
This is made for me and it is just right on time. I love you,Ed! Thanks for bringing value to all of our lives.
Awesome!!!
100% make yourself #1
Thank you Ed! You are making a difference in my life!
Best Episode this year so far.
That's correct
This really speaks exactly to me! Thank you Ed!
This one hits hard. I preach about not having a victim mentality and I’m doing that exact thing 😮😂
This blessed me. Thank you very much coach Ed for this ❤
Make it bigger
❤️☀️🌙 thank you
Needed to hear this today 💪🏽🔥! Thank You 🙏🏽!
Happy Saturday! Thanks for the gift!
Bless You .... Ed Mylett 🙂
Super
Thank you ed for all the wisdom you’ve shared with us
This is so true, Ed! I remember someone asking me how I was and the first thing that just popped out of my mind was as well. The kids are OK, parents are OK.. I must be OK. I eventually learned that if I wasn’t looking after myself first, then I couldn’t look after them. BTW, when I wake up in the morning, there’s often a song playing in my head and today I realized the song playing in my head is the theme song to your show😂
Thank you again Ed. I always look forward to your real talk. I'm very grateful that you give so much back. You've really helped me to change my life for the better. Keep em coming. It's working
Great vid
Thank You For Your Time And Knowledge 💯🤝
Listen right now !❤
Love the advice Ed! #Maxout 💪🏼🙏🏼🫡
Great compilation, Ed. Perfect
I really appreciate you & what you do/say, thank you
Oh, gosh! I was thinking about this right now before going online.
unfortunately its correct Sir!very correct!
pure gold
Appreciate the offer thank you but I don't have the funds for shipping. ❤ Thanks though
Hi Ed, Love your work and enjoyed your The Power of One More! Please can you help me with your ~Maxout book free one :), tried the link for you book and I am assuming you don't delivery to the united kingdom, is that right ? take care Helen x
#MaxOut