My base is in Playa del carmen Mexico but I'm currently living in Medellin and I was telling my friends how Mexico has truly spoiled me with their hospitality, flavorful food and amazing people. I really miss it and can't wait to go back once my visa here expires. Mexico is home! Viva Mexico
@@Nomadic_Wanderlust_Adventures Cancún, or Playa del Carmen are pretty good. I've been there about 2 years. The cost of living is relatively affordable in both places but I have noticed it's more affordable in Medellín Colombia in terms of food, and clothing, entertainment. The rent in Medellín has increased drastically and the locals are complaining, which I totally understand.
I’ve lived off and on in Mexico for the last five years and it’s an amazing country with amazing people. And I’m as gringo as it gets and their hospitality is unmatched. ❤
Been to over 60 countries, Mexico hands down have some of the friendliest people and coolest culture around. Very open and accepting. So much so, that I generally spend half the year living here. Viva Mexico.
100% agree, Mexicans overall, are extremely hospitable, warm and heartfelt, sometimes they sing, they dance, doing menial jobs, they love Jesus, they eat well, they connect with 'strangers' very easily.
I believe it. We went to Mexico and not only our family but other people in town who knew we went to visit made all kinds of food for us and we went to several houses and they made food for us but we didn’t even know them. I wish us Americans treated Mexicans like that when they come to U.S. but unfortunately they don’t.
Hi Dave. Glad to hear everything is working out well for you there in Mexico and your new job. I am a retired American living here in Medellin for about seven years now. And to my unfortunate suprise i have discovered that alot of tje Colombians here in this area can be quit rude and self-entitled....not all but a large majority i have found to be quit rude and would never say "Mi casa, su casa", let alone invite someone to there home. So much so that i seruously considering relicating back to the U.S. or another different country. Sad, but true!
I worked for several years in the valley around mission, Edinburgh on both sides of the border. It was one of the best times of my life. I love the Mexicans.
Hi David, I can also confirm your experience. I have never been in Mexiko but I met several people from Monterrey - and I almost never met such friendly, open and kind people!
when I was a young guy I lived in colombia and have worked and now partially retired in Mexico now... Mexicans for the most part are sincerelymore warmer people than Colombians.
Completely agree, I live in San Diego and go to Baja/TJ all the time. The people (and food) are amazing. So many gringos in SD are scared to go to Baja but they're missing out, it's worth the risk. The hospitality is better than SD because it's genuine and a sort of warmth you can't describe to people that don't go. I'd live there if I didn't work on this side of the border.
I completely agree I’m from the uk but grew up in Mexico and my wife and Children are Colombian so we spend a lot of time in both Countries, Mexico just feels more sincere and safer than Colombia.
Im ashamed to admit I believed all the stupid media in NA that painted Mexico as this "Midnight Express" type place. Until 2019 that is. I went to Yucatan and fell in love w the place, food, attitude, esthetics, culture, history, and most of all the people. I truly love Mexico. I bought a DVD set called "The Wonders of Mexico" done by PBS and I actually cried 😅 I was so moved and highly suggest others buy the dvds or download it. The physical beauty of Mexico is unparalleled. Their hospitality puts many other countries to shame. I'll be back in October and cannot wait 🙏🏻 I stay w friends (Mexican) and I am always sad in my heart when I leave them. Alas, it is only a 4 hr flight from Toronto! Take care, David. 😊
So I wasn't just imagining it! I love Colombia and have spent a lot of my life there but I always feel more content in Mexico. I never could put my finger on it, until now. Thanks for the perspective.
Mexico is beautiful retirement country..but prices went way up the last 10 years. I would know..I live in San Diego & Mexico is 20 minutes drive south of my house.
So true about the prices, I haven't been back in a lttle over year and I must say, I was shocked at how much the cost of living here has increased, it isn't any where near the bargain it used to be. It is still more affordable than the US, but, along with rise in prices, the dollar's value compared to the Peso, makes it sting so much more.
When you say hope the gringos don’t ruin it. You better mean California (Los Angeles, San Francisco-Sillicon Valley-Oakland Bay Area, and San Diego) and NYC area, Chicagoland, Atlanta, and Miami gringos.
I've never been to our neighbors directly to the South. It's interesting to hear how it compares to the US and to Colombia. Great video. Thanks for sharing.
Mexican culture is more hospitable yes…. I’m not Mexican but would go even further to say that genuine RESPECT and strong family values are deeply ingrained into Mexican culture. More so than all other Latin cultures.
What up Dave??? Man, my Mexican experience is phony because both times I went was on a cruise out of New Orleans. I know the places I went was all touristy, so I don't count that. I will visit a true Mexican city when I retire though. I hope the job is going well!!😊
If I had to guess on his whereabouts just from the heat index that he described he's gotta be in either Mérida or somewhere close by in the Yucatan. I was there 6 months ago so I can relate to the heat. I've been to Cabo in Baja California Sur, Puerto Vallarta over in Jalisco and Cancun in Quintana Roo and none of those places can touch the heat index and humidity of the Yucatan.
I just moved to Mexico this year from the US and I can confirm you are totally right about the Mexican hospitality. We've met a ton of wonderful people that immediately invited us to their houses and get-togethers and genuinely want to get to know you.
I have traveled extensively to both countries Mexico and Colombia. The people are definitely different. I felt more welcomed in Colombia. I am a Mexican American and in Mexico I felt as if I had to prove my Mexican authenticity to the locals. However, both countries have great people.
Not to be opositional but i've had the oposite effect when i went to colombia and mexico. In colombia i get invited to fincas and family dinners by strangers sll the time..in mexico they were polite but from a distance and never received the ssme treatment... ..not that there is anything wrong..both cultures are welcoming but i think you get a warmer reception in mexico because you are mexican descent and i get more in colombia brcause im colombian descent. Generally your own will trust you more. That imho
Mayan Riviera is hot as all get out this time of year Good luck with the weather. The weather start cooling off in October. I've actually been to a BBQ cookout that started at 3:00 a.m. Yes 3:00 a.m. people in Mexico love their cookouts. I won't hold it against you that you attend Tech 😜. Tigres for life.
In general I had great experiences with Mexicans in Mexico City, Cancun, La Paz, and Veracruz. I like their politeness and formality. They are generally humble in my experieince. "They have the mentality of the pueblo" my Mexican friend told me. At the same time, another friend told me they are nice to foreigners but they will screw their fellow Mexican any chance they get. So maybe it helps to be an extranjero. The bad experiences I had were rare and minor. In most cases it had to do with their impatience around my spanish. I could see their eyes glaze over or they would look down at their nails as I tried to form a more complicated sentence. (Where I'm from, people are more patient with people who struggle with english). I have been learning spanish for several years and I just have a mental block that prevents me from becoming fluent but I can still express myself mas o menos. For the most part, the people I had problems with in Mexico were expats. Younger men (25-30) I met from Canada and the US were far more spoiled, entitlted and narcissistic than their Mexican counterparts. I think it has to do with family breakdown and poor child rearing in those 2 anglo countries, whereas in Mexico I think the family unit is still comparatively strong. USA/Can are very wealthy countries and people can become spoiled by that wealth bc they are used to everything working and to getting a minimum level of service and quality. Time-pressured Type A personality behavior is much more common with anglos than with Mexicans. It can come across as rude to Latin Americans I think.
Plan to retire to Valladolid MX as soon as I can! Not a beach gal…but I can see why many head there for retirement. The Mexicans took wonderful care of me, I felt incredibly safe as a solo traveler. The town and hospitality is something you just want more of❤️🇲🇽
And when they're in your city, they'll expect the same treatment from you. This is why I don't accept offers to stay at people's houses unless I'm willing to return the favour.
bullshitt !!! this is not true …. that’s just your mind thinking the total opposite… just because you’re not an inviting person doesn’t mean other people aren’t … you’re not mexican you wouldn’t understand !
If can pinpoint the basic differences between Mexico and Colombia, Colombia to me means gorgeous women, great futbol and good friends. Mexico means warmth, amazing food, frequent get togethers and family.
I would say that Mexico has been relatively stable socially the last 100 years. You can't say that about most Latin American countries, especially Colombia. You'd have to earn their trust first and I noticed that about Central Americans as well. The easiest country to make friends in though, is Cuba. Especially if you're a foreigner. Sure, it's transactional sometimes but once you've made a real friend in Cuba, it's for life.
Hi David, you've reminded me why I love this country, I am on my fourth or fith visit since 2019. I do plan to go back for another stay in Colombian, either this or next year, but, Mexico, will always own a piece of my heart. Right now, I am staying in one of the most local Mexican communities, very rare to see a gringo of any sort over in this part of town and I'm loving it. BTW, I'm a black American and I had to laugh, when last night, my Rappi driver pointed to his hair and was telling me I looked like his mother; the guy was so sweet and handsom with beautiful wavy hair. Also, I only speak a few words of Spanish, but, the people are always directing me and assisting me whenever I need help with understanding things.
I think the weather deeply influences human behavior on a broad social level. If it is sunny and nice Ensenada/San Diego weather it makes people happier, life easier than constant cloudy rainy weather... Rain translates to tears and sadness, sunshine to happiness and joy. Heaven is not a rainy place but a place full of sunshine when people think of it, also there is no marriage and no mosquitoes in it :)
I’m from Zacatecas! Crazy you mentioned it.. but yeah us Mexicans are very welcoming. I’ve grown up in the US, but yeah we’re very friendly and not accepting an invite is kinda like an insult. Enjoy the food! Traveling to Mexico next month! I visit every year.. :) just for the food.
Absolutely. I love the Mexican people. However I am a gringo. As much as I love them…I can’t blend in like I want. I speak broken Spanish but I try. I probably sound like a child in terms of language skills. That’s not the problem…..not blending in and accidentally finding myself in a location that’s not healthy for me ? That’s what makes me uncomfortable. The Mexicanos? Love them and their kindness and love for God. Much respect.
Been in Colombia , Medellin to be exact. I can see where you are coming from. The people can be warm and friendly but you are now getting those “go home gringo” looks. Colombians in Medellin are clicky and are not so welcoming to outsiders I think. Not to mention I want to close line the next moto that flies around the corner up my ass or people that cut you off in the metro or anywhere in general. At 6’3 I’m going to start running over these small dudes and not giving a dang. Still a great place but I will definitely compare Manizales, Cali, and Santa Marta. The costs in Medellin are getting absurd. I doubt this is the place like all the people make it out to be on TH-cam . Lastly, my mom is Mexican and I do have a Mexican Passport, I’ve only been to touristy beach or border spots, so I may look into this further. Thanks bro!
Colombia is western culture, it's in the western hemisphere and was colonized by Catholics. I don't think you can blame foreigners for Colombia not being as good as before. Mexico has had gringo tourists/expats for decades and they still open their doors and keep their culture intact. Colombia just wasn't prepared for a influx of foreigners in a short period of time and ones that plan on staying long term. Boom and bust.
I have been living in North America(US/Canada) for the last 15 years and let me tell you that people here have very little hospitality with foreigners. But this is just my experience and point of view. It is always nice that you appreciate that Latin Americans are very welcoming.
Just remember this: you cannot call anyone amor (women) like they do in Colombia. It’s only for boyfriends or family. Mexican women will be very offended and their boyfriends angry if you do…
Hey bro I know you are busy with your new life but since you lived in Colombia for a few years maybe you can help me in this regard: I am thinking to open a pub/bar with dance floor in Santa Marta. Can you give me some advice, etc? Thanks bro.
There are 30 states and the people, food, and culture can vary greatly from place to place. If I share an insight about "Americans" in rural Alabama, how does that apply to people in Downtown Oakland? Let us not forget to mention there is an ongoing civil war in Mexico, for about the last 25-30 years. Conservative estimates put the number of civilian (non combatant) deaths around 300,000 people in that timeframe. Some areas are totally controlled by various cartels and have no meaningful government oversight. Entire legitimate industries have even been highjacked by some cartels. Of course, the legitimacy of the controlling faction does not always correlate to the safety of a particular area. Some of the most toxic people I ever met in Mexico were wearing government uniforms. Municipal, State, and even sometimes Federal authorities in certain areas act badly. I just encourage people to research carefully the areas they will choose to visit. I recommend making friends before you go. And don't be afraid of hiring a savvy local guide to show you the region. You may be surprised how affordable this idea is if you have not tried this before. Many entire regions are definitely "no-go" for the average traveler and at a local level, certain blocks in any large city may be off limits even if you have a guide. Have fun and travel safe.
I am a adventure motorcycle rider I have traveled from USA, Maryland to Panama. Mexico was the only country I felt uncomfortable with my safety. The corruption runs deep. It's all about who you know and who they are connected to. I now travel in Colombia by motorcycle and I yet to feel unsafe. Medellin is my launching point for my trips. I cover about 85% of the country so far. And have been doing it for 10 plus years. I am not saying Mexican people are bad but their is a underlying issue that effects everything
I'm from Germany, I spent 4 weeks in Mexico traveling the Yucatan Peninsula and I really liked the food and landscape. I don't speak Spanish, so I assume that to be the reason for not connecting to people. I visited Merida, Campeche, Progresso, Rio Lagartos, Tulum, Playa del Carmen & Cozumel. As a single guy, it was a lonesome but culturally interesting trip, but meeting Mexicans just did not happen (other than than hotel staff, waiters, tour guides etc).
You did not try hard enough! Check out German ex-pats that did not know a word of Spanish and now they have their own youtube channels and married to Mexican women. :1. Que Rico No Manches 2. XoqueKultural 3. Werowerotv
Somebody gives me food one time and they become SOO FRIENDLY xD. "This culture is so GREAT, much better than my own." I have traveled a fair bit and fallen in the same trap. Then people from other countries reported to me they experienced this too while visiting my native Germany. There is usually a big difference between being a visitor somewhere, even if is in the same country, and actually living there. Visitors are usually treated differently and better, but they do not experience the normal difficult life with all the traps, hardships, grind of the daily life and dark facets of that culture.
Does it make you feel like you want to move to Mexico to Colombia? If not why do you prefer Colombia, or is it more that your life is just there already?
I feel sad in Babylon USA 🇺🇸. 🇺🇸. Both Babylon USA 🇺🇸 and Burma 🇲🇲 were disgusting places. I like Mexico 🇲🇽 a lot. Lots of good things about Mexico 🇲🇽. 🇲🇽. Enjoy life. Life is short.
thats true, americans always fake like aww we should do this do that. in mexico within 5 minutes of meeting someone they want you to come to their house in the campo.
I think Medellin people aren't inviting you straight to their homes because of its past history. Also, it is still a city that attracts the world's biggest drug dealers. So it does make sense
Can anybody answer this question for me, I was in Colombia for about 2 months I know I am only able to stay as a tourist for 90 days can I go back for the remainder of those 90 days and also can I extended?
They are like that in Medellin because of the crimes that happened there and the kidnapping, so they have to feel you out. In Mexico, they are genuine. They don't worry about that
The more you learn how warm and friendly the Mexican people are, the more it makes you angry that the government doesn’t do more to protect the people from criminal violence in certain areas of the country. They deserve better.
My base is in Playa del carmen Mexico but I'm currently living in Medellin and I was telling my friends how Mexico has truly spoiled me with their hospitality, flavorful food and amazing people. I really miss it and can't wait to go back once my visa here expires. Mexico is home! Viva Mexico
Well medellin and bogota get poked fun of by other colombians for having bland food..try the pacific that has a heavier african influence.
I've been to Cali and Santa Marta. Their food is very good especially Santa Marta. I also felt safer in Santa Marta
@@Nomadic_Wanderlust_Adventures Cancún, or Playa del Carmen are pretty good. I've been there about 2 years. The cost of living is relatively affordable in both places but I have noticed it's more affordable in Medellín Colombia in terms of food, and clothing, entertainment. The rent in Medellín has increased drastically and the locals are complaining, which I totally understand.
I’ve lived off and on in Mexico for the last five years and it’s an amazing country with amazing people. And I’m as gringo as it gets and their hospitality is unmatched. ❤
Are the police that corrupt? Any run ins?
@@Black-CircleI think too much is made of that. If you’re unlucky, you might get shaken down for $100 bucks or something
thanks @@superstringsbro
Depends which part of Mexico …not everyone has great hospitality…especially the places that are filled with gringos
Been to over 60 countries, Mexico hands down have some of the friendliest people and coolest culture around. Very open and accepting. So much so, that I generally spend half the year living here. Viva Mexico.
I’ve been to both Mexico and Colombia several times an the Mexico people are just more open/friendly than Colombia people.
Mexican culture is amazing... especially when compared to Columbian culture. Way friendlier and they respect tourism/tourists.
Y tambien a algunos los mandan en un ataul a sus paises
Im in colombia 5 years and nobody invite me EVER... SO YOU ARE TOO RIGHT DAVID . 😊
100% agree, Mexicans overall, are extremely hospitable, warm and heartfelt, sometimes they sing, they dance, doing menial jobs, they love Jesus, they eat well, they connect with 'strangers' very easily.
Yeah they are very confident people
David you are 100% correct of the Mexican and Filipino hospitality!! Just genuine
I live in the Dominican Republic, and I prefer Mexican culture. I would like to live in Mexico eventually.
enserio q tu opinas y cuales son las diferencias mas notadas. ? y los precios de casas aspartamentos, condominio etc
I believe it. We went to Mexico and not only our family but other people in town who knew we went to visit made all kinds of food for us and we went to several houses and they made food for us but we didn’t even know them.
I wish us Americans treated Mexicans like that when they come to U.S. but unfortunately they don’t.
Hi Dave. Glad to hear everything is working out well for you there in Mexico and your new job.
I am a retired American living here in Medellin for about seven years now. And to my unfortunate suprise i have discovered that alot of tje Colombians here in this area can be quit rude and self-entitled....not all but a large majority i have found to be quit rude and would never say "Mi casa, su casa", let alone invite someone to there home. So much so that i seruously considering relicating back to the U.S. or another different country. Sad, but true!
Colombia and colombians are super over rated
Oh boy!
@@Yalboudid not get what you want?
Let me guess, you learn Spanish the same level you guys expect Latinos to speak. Good luck finding heaven with your pensionado income.
Mexican hospitality is on another level compared to the rest of Latin America. I agree
Si claro jaja
That has 100% been my experience too. People want you to feel welcome and they'll give you the shirt off their back!
I worked for several years in the valley around mission, Edinburgh on both sides of the border. It was one of the best times of my life. I love the Mexicans.
Hi David, I can also confirm your experience. I have never been in Mexiko but I met several people from Monterrey - and I almost never met such friendly, open and kind people!
when I was a young guy I lived in colombia and have worked and now partially retired in Mexico now... Mexicans for the most part are sincerelymore warmer people than Colombians.
Lo felicito quedese alla
@@luzmayelyleonosorio9566 You just proved his point haha
I always tell people that I like being in Colombia and the lifestyle in Colombia better than Mexico, but that I prefer the people in Mexico haha
Completely agree, I live in San Diego and go to Baja/TJ all the time. The people (and food) are amazing. So many gringos in SD are scared to go to Baja but they're missing out, it's worth the risk. The hospitality is better than SD because it's genuine and a sort of warmth you can't describe to people that don't go. I'd live there if I didn't work on this side of the border.
Thank you for sharing. Mexican people are wonderful people. ❤
I prefer mexico to Colombia for that exact reason. And I felt way safer in Mexico.
I completely agree I’m from the uk but grew up in Mexico and my wife and Children are Colombian so we spend a lot of time in both Countries, Mexico just feels more sincere and safer than Colombia.
@@salvaxicancolombia7278 claro seguro como no
Im ashamed to admit I believed all the stupid media in NA that painted Mexico as this "Midnight Express" type place. Until 2019 that is. I went to Yucatan and fell in love w the place, food, attitude, esthetics, culture, history, and most of all the people. I truly love Mexico. I bought a DVD set called "The Wonders of Mexico" done by PBS and I actually cried 😅 I was so moved and highly suggest others buy the dvds or download it. The physical beauty of Mexico is unparalleled. Their hospitality puts many other countries to shame. I'll be back in October and cannot wait 🙏🏻 I stay w friends (Mexican) and I am always sad in my heart when I leave them. Alas, it is only a 4 hr flight from Toronto! Take care, David. 😊
You are aware Mexico is in North America, right?
MEXICO LOVES COLOMBIA 🇨🇴 ❤️ 💙 ♥️ 100
So I wasn't just imagining it! I love Colombia and have spent a lot of my life there but I always feel more content in Mexico. I never could put my finger on it, until now. Thanks for the perspective.
IVE NEVER MET 1 MEXICAN THAT BEEN TO COLOMBIA THAT DIDNT FALL IN LOVE AND SAID IT REMINDED THEM OF MEXICO TOO❤❤
Mexico sounds great. Wish I spoke the language. Enjoy the culture!
Mexico is beautiful retirement country..but prices went way up the last 10 years. I would know..I live in San Diego & Mexico is 20 minutes drive south of my house.
This is very true
So true about the prices, I haven't been back in a lttle over year and I must say, I was shocked at how much the cost of living here has increased, it isn't any where near the bargain it used to be. It is still more affordable than the US, but, along with rise in prices, the dollar's value compared to the Peso, makes it sting so much more.
In 6 days I have an appointment at the Mexican consulate at 9am to get my Mexican Permanent Resident Visa. Mexico is my future home.
México is an underrated country in my opinion. Hope the gringos don't ruin it
Underrated? It was voted #1 lol
God no! I'll do it
And you pretty boy are not Gringo? 😂
When you say hope the gringos don’t ruin it. You better mean California (Los Angeles, San Francisco-Sillicon Valley-Oakland Bay Area, and San Diego) and NYC area, Chicagoland, Atlanta, and Miami gringos.
The gringos are ruining it. They came and set up their shops and do not want to integrate. They want Mexicans to adapt to them.
I love Mexican hospitality in Mexico. I had the same experience there many years ago. Viva Mexico.
Mexican gastronomy is just too good. I believe better than Colombian 😁
💯 regarding the cuisine…but all other aspects Colombia is better😜
Leagues better
I've never been to our neighbors directly to the South. It's interesting to hear how it compares to the US and to Colombia. Great video. Thanks for sharing.
I’m glad you will be in Mexico to experience Mexican Independence Day @David it’s such an important day and just so culturally rich !
Mexican culture is more hospitable yes…. I’m not Mexican but would go even further to say that genuine RESPECT and strong family values are deeply ingrained into Mexican culture. More so than all other Latin cultures.
This is true. I was never really able to articulate what you have just said. Very warm and genuine people to strangers.
What up Dave???
Man, my Mexican experience is phony because both times I went was on a cruise out of New Orleans. I know the places I went was all touristy, so I don't count that.
I will visit a true Mexican city when I retire though.
I hope the job is going well!!😊
If I had to guess on his whereabouts just from the heat index that he described he's gotta be in either Mérida or somewhere close by in the Yucatan. I was there 6 months ago so I can relate to the heat. I've been to Cabo in Baja California Sur, Puerto Vallarta over in Jalisco and Cancun in Quintana Roo and none of those places can touch the heat index and humidity of the Yucatan.
Facts so true what David is saying,the people ,culture,hospitality are awesome
I just moved to Mexico this year from the US and I can confirm you are totally right about the Mexican hospitality. We've met a ton of wonderful people that immediately invited us to their houses and get-togethers and genuinely want to get to know you.
You are correct, most people are kind but the danger that the cartels pose are also real.
Viva Mexico 🇲🇽
When one makes to many friends too quick, that's suspicious and it might be dangerous.
Dude is always nice to see you videos you Rock dude
Can't beat Middle Eastern hospitality, specifically Iranians and Afghans. It is beyond anything else and shocking to most westerners
I have traveled extensively to both countries Mexico and Colombia. The people are definitely different. I felt more welcomed in Colombia. I am a Mexican American and in Mexico I felt as if I had to prove my Mexican authenticity to the locals. However, both countries have great people.
Not to be opositional but i've had the oposite effect when i went to colombia and mexico.
In colombia i get invited to fincas and family dinners by strangers sll the time..in mexico they were polite but from a distance and never received the ssme treatment...
..not that there is anything wrong..both cultures are welcoming but i think you get a warmer reception in mexico because you are mexican descent and i get more in colombia brcause im colombian descent.
Generally your own will trust you more. That imho
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Mayan Riviera is hot as all get out this time of year Good luck with the weather. The weather start cooling off in October. I've actually been to a BBQ cookout that started at 3:00 a.m. Yes 3:00 a.m. people in Mexico love their cookouts. I won't hold it against you that you attend Tech 😜. Tigres for life.
In general I had great experiences with Mexicans in Mexico City, Cancun, La Paz, and Veracruz. I like their politeness and formality. They are generally humble in my experieince. "They have the mentality of the pueblo" my Mexican friend told me. At the same time, another friend told me they are nice to foreigners but they will screw their fellow Mexican any chance they get. So maybe it helps to be an extranjero. The bad experiences I had were rare and minor. In most cases it had to do with their impatience around my spanish. I could see their eyes glaze over or they would look down at their nails as I tried to form a more complicated sentence. (Where I'm from, people are more patient with people who struggle with english). I have been learning spanish for several years and I just have a mental block that prevents me from becoming fluent but I can still express myself mas o menos. For the most part, the people I had problems with in Mexico were expats. Younger men (25-30) I met from Canada and the US were far more spoiled, entitlted and narcissistic than their Mexican counterparts. I think it has to do with family breakdown and poor child rearing in those 2 anglo countries, whereas in Mexico I think the family unit is still comparatively strong.
USA/Can are very wealthy countries and people can become spoiled by that wealth bc they are used to everything working and to getting a minimum level of service and quality. Time-pressured Type A personality behavior is much more common with anglos than with Mexicans. It can come across as rude to Latin Americans I think.
Mexican food is the best in all south America
I don't know about that, I enjoy Mexican food, but, I lovvvvvvve the food in Peru, espeically the fushion dishes.
Mexico is not in South America. I prefer food from Venezuela, but the country sux.
@rosaglem1905 That's not authentic peruvian food, it's taken from the Japanese. So not sure how much credit one can give them
Duh, do you know what fusion is?@@rumcho
True,@@johnnytx45
Nice video David! I agree with you! Im going to Puerto Vallarta soon, cant wait to enjoy the beach and the tacos!
I've been eating a lot of tacos haha
I’m an engineer from immigrants in California from Zacatecas and I loved the city and would love to invest back into the people of the country !
Plan to retire to Valladolid MX as soon as I can! Not a beach gal…but I can see why many head there for retirement. The Mexicans took wonderful care of me, I felt incredibly safe as a solo traveler. The town and hospitality is something you just want more of❤️🇲🇽
That heat is a killer though
Guess who's not going back to Colombia 😁
Interesting. And consistent with my 4 months I spent in CDMX. Very consistent
And when they're in your city, they'll expect the same treatment from you. This is why I don't accept offers to stay at people's houses unless I'm willing to return the favour.
This is very true
bullshitt !!! this is not true …. that’s just your mind thinking the total opposite… just because you’re not an inviting person doesn’t mean other people aren’t … you’re not mexican you wouldn’t understand !
I love Monterrey I go once a month I live in ATX
If can pinpoint the basic differences between Mexico and Colombia, Colombia to me means gorgeous women, great futbol and good friends. Mexico means warmth, amazing food, frequent get togethers and family.
Gratis fútbol! , they never won anything. 😂😂
“great football" Lmao.
Glad to see you post... I was wondering how things were going with your new job
Great job on the video, all accurate info!
I would say that Mexico has been relatively stable socially the last 100 years. You can't say that about most Latin American countries, especially Colombia. You'd have to earn their trust first and I noticed that about Central Americans as well. The easiest country to make friends in though, is Cuba. Especially if you're a foreigner. Sure, it's transactional sometimes but once you've made a real friend in Cuba, it's for life.
Best country on earth, hands down
Mexicans are the nicer friendly people in the planet when you speak Spanish
You will really understand
Raza are unique. No doubt about it. Just don't get on anyone's bad side. No need to go into any details. Stay on point and be safe down there.
Hi David, you've reminded me why I love this country, I am on my fourth or fith visit since 2019. I do plan to go back for another stay in Colombian, either this or next year, but, Mexico, will always own a piece of my heart. Right now, I am staying in one of the most local Mexican communities, very rare to see a gringo of any sort over in this part of town and I'm loving it. BTW, I'm a black American and I had to laugh, when last night, my Rappi driver pointed to his hair and was telling me I looked like his mother; the guy was so sweet and handsom with beautiful wavy hair. Also, I only speak a few words of Spanish, but, the people are always directing me and assisting me whenever I need help with understanding things.
I think the weather deeply influences human behavior on a broad social level. If it is sunny and nice Ensenada/San Diego weather it makes people happier, life easier than constant cloudy rainy weather... Rain translates to tears and sadness, sunshine to happiness and joy. Heaven is not a rainy place but a place full of sunshine when people think of it, also there is no marriage and no mosquitoes in it :)
I’m from Zacatecas! Crazy you mentioned it.. but yeah us Mexicans are very welcoming. I’ve grown up in the US, but yeah we’re very friendly and not accepting an invite is kinda like an insult. Enjoy the food! Traveling to Mexico next month! I visit every year.. :) just for the food.
Food has been great
That MEX-TREATMENT IS THAT NEXT-TREATMENT
Absolutely. I love the Mexican people. However I am a gringo. As much as I love them…I can’t blend in like I want. I speak broken Spanish but I try. I probably sound like a child in terms of language skills. That’s not the problem…..not blending in and accidentally finding myself in a location that’s not healthy for me ? That’s what makes me uncomfortable. The Mexicanos? Love them and their kindness and love for God. Much respect.
Been in Colombia , Medellin to be exact. I can see where you are coming from. The people can be warm and friendly but you are now getting those “go home gringo” looks. Colombians in Medellin are clicky and are not so welcoming to outsiders I think. Not to mention I want to close line the next moto that flies around the corner up my ass or people that cut you off in the metro or anywhere in general. At 6’3 I’m going to start running over these small dudes and not giving a dang.
Still a great place but I will definitely compare Manizales, Cali, and Santa Marta. The costs in Medellin are getting absurd. I doubt this is the place like all the people make it out to be on TH-cam .
Lastly, my mom is Mexican and I do have a Mexican Passport, I’ve only been to touristy beach or border spots, so I may look into this further. Thanks bro!
Colombia especially Antioquia had this type of hospitality 15 years ago, but it has been corrupted by western culture these past 10 years
Colombia is western culture, it's in the western hemisphere and was colonized by Catholics. I don't think you can blame foreigners for Colombia not being as good as before. Mexico has had gringo tourists/expats for decades and they still open their doors and keep their culture intact. Colombia just wasn't prepared for a influx of foreigners in a short period of time and ones that plan on staying long term. Boom and bust.
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I have been living in North America(US/Canada) for the last 15 years and let me tell you that people here have very little hospitality with foreigners. But this is just my experience and point of view. It is always nice that you appreciate that Latin Americans are very welcoming.
Just remember this: you cannot call anyone amor (women) like they do in Colombia. It’s only for boyfriends or family. Mexican women will be very offended and their boyfriends angry if you do…
In most of Colombia that’s also weird for the most part
Glad to see you’re enjoying your time in Mexico. Hope you get to visit your friend and go to the boss’ mother’s ranch.
Don’t work too hard 😉
Hey bro I know you are busy with your new life but since you lived in Colombia for a few years maybe you can help me in this regard:
I am thinking to open a pub/bar with dance floor in Santa Marta. Can you give me some advice, etc?
Thanks bro.
Great video. Keep on going. By the way Filipinos are super hospitable abroad. PI not so much
Is that why Philppines have many relations to Mexico? or any other countrys in South America? Haha.
Mexicanos take Mi Casa es TU casa literally. Never heard of anyone getting scoped in Mex 😂
There are 30 states and the people, food, and culture can vary greatly from place to place. If I share an insight about "Americans" in rural Alabama, how does that apply to people in Downtown Oakland?
Let us not forget to mention there is an ongoing civil war in Mexico, for about the last 25-30 years. Conservative estimates put the number of civilian (non combatant) deaths around 300,000 people in that timeframe. Some areas are totally controlled by various cartels and have no meaningful government oversight. Entire legitimate industries have even been highjacked by some cartels.
Of course, the legitimacy of the controlling faction does not always correlate to the safety of a particular area. Some of the most toxic people I ever met in Mexico were wearing government uniforms. Municipal, State, and even sometimes Federal authorities in certain areas act badly.
I just encourage people to research carefully the areas they will choose to visit. I recommend making friends before you go. And don't be afraid of hiring a savvy local guide to show you the region. You may be surprised how affordable this idea is if you have not tried this before. Many entire regions are definitely "no-go" for the average traveler and at a local level, certain blocks in any large city may be off limits even if you have a guide.
Have fun and travel safe.
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I am a adventure motorcycle rider I have traveled from USA, Maryland to Panama. Mexico was the only country I felt uncomfortable with my safety. The corruption runs deep. It's all about who you know and who they are connected to. I now travel in Colombia by motorcycle and I yet to feel unsafe. Medellin is my launching point for my trips. I cover about 85% of the country so far. And have been doing it for 10 plus years. I am not saying Mexican people are bad but their is a underlying issue that effects everything
Gringos are not bad they just murdered and enslaved "Colored People"
I'm from Germany, I spent 4 weeks in Mexico traveling the Yucatan Peninsula and I really liked the food and landscape.
I don't speak Spanish, so I assume that to be the reason for not connecting to people.
I visited Merida, Campeche, Progresso, Rio Lagartos, Tulum, Playa del Carmen & Cozumel. As a single guy, it was a lonesome but culturally interesting trip, but meeting Mexicans just did not happen (other than than hotel staff, waiters, tour guides etc).
Learning Spanish would enhance your experience. Without German, it's also difficult for foreigners to make real local connections in Germany.
You did not try hard enough! Check out German ex-pats that did not know a word of Spanish and now they have their own youtube channels and married to Mexican women.
:1. Que Rico No Manches
2. XoqueKultural 3. Werowerotv
uh -oh Colombia has come competition with Mexico.
Somebody gives me food one time and they become SOO FRIENDLY xD. "This culture is so GREAT, much better than my own." I have traveled a fair bit and fallen in the same trap. Then people from other countries reported to me they experienced this too while visiting my native Germany. There is usually a big difference between being a visitor somewhere, even if is in the same country, and actually living there. Visitors are usually treated differently and better, but they do not experience the normal difficult life with all the traps, hardships, grind of the daily life and dark facets of that culture.
Does it make you feel like you want to move to Mexico to Colombia? If not why do you prefer Colombia, or is it more that your life is just there already?
His GF is Colombiana ❤
Busted Dave! :) I know your location. Cabo or Cancun or somewhere in Yucatán.
Glad to hear you are okay David
Clombians pretend to be friendly, but they are not. I had a social experience in Colombia, and the result was awful
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I feel sad in Babylon USA 🇺🇸. 🇺🇸. Both Babylon USA 🇺🇸 and Burma 🇲🇲 were disgusting places. I like Mexico 🇲🇽 a lot. Lots of good things about Mexico 🇲🇽. 🇲🇽. Enjoy life. Life is short.
My guess is that you are in Hermosillo Sonora :)
120 degrees and TEC de monterrey?! that's hermosillo!! jaja
Helloo David.
thats true, americans always fake like aww we should do this do that. in mexico within 5 minutes of meeting someone they want you to come to their house in the campo.
I think Medellin people aren't inviting you straight to their homes because of its past history. Also, it is still a city that attracts the world's biggest drug dealers. So it does make sense
@lifewithdavid do you feel safer in Mexico than Colombia ?
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This has not been my experience living in Monterrey. Regios are so stingy, there's even a symbol you make for them with your elbow codos.
Can anybody answer this question for me, I was in Colombia for about 2 months I know I am only able to stay as a tourist for 90 days can I go back for the remainder of those 90 days and also can I extended?
Google it bro cmon
They are like that in Medellin because of the crimes that happened there and the kidnapping, so they have to feel you out. In Mexico, they are genuine. They don't worry about that
Have you taken into account the Cartel violence in mexico? Mexico is still far more friendly, better customer service, and wayyyyy better food.
The more you learn how warm and friendly the Mexican people are, the more it makes you angry that the government doesn’t do more to protect the people from criminal violence in certain areas of the country. They deserve better.
Agree.
Progreso?
Dave, I thought you were Mexican-American, no?
I am. I just like observing differences in cultures