How The Internet Ruined Friendship

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  • @cat384uef
    @cat384uef 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +23

    every "friend" in my life has treated me differently and started to ghost me since I deleted social media. It is like I disappear from their world if I don't show up on their feed.

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yes🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @ProLaytonxPhoenix
      @ProLaytonxPhoenix 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@turtleanton6539 your comments are worthless

    • @abhijitprajapati3764
      @abhijitprajapati3764 59 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

      It's sad, I deleted social media too but Im lucky to have friends that see me as more than my Instagram account

    • @obscured.by.clouds.
      @obscured.by.clouds. 59 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ProLaytonxPhoenixall our comments and humanity are worthless or waiting for demonetization , or unloving, so we can join then “unalived” because we’re too cowardly to discuss then talk probably. because this is the void we’ve ensnared ourselves into and where we are forever trapped.

    • @obscured.by.clouds.
      @obscured.by.clouds. 55 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      @@abhijitprajapati3764you’re worth so much more than what your social media dictates. Keep your head up

  • @aguadoll8162
    @aguadoll8162 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +15

    Love itself, is ruined I’m afraid, but there’s hope in cultivating a new kind of love that values individuality, compromise, empathy, and trust.

    • @deathbycognitivedissonance5036
      @deathbycognitivedissonance5036 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lol, lmao

    • @aguadoll8162
      @aguadoll8162 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      thx for the 6 likes already (i like that number) i haven’t even watched the whole damn video yet 😭🙅🏻‍♀️

    • @azmalguthek4502
      @azmalguthek4502 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      you watch too much shit on the internet it's not hard to date

  • @Lost_Delos
    @Lost_Delos ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    In my experience, which may very well differ from the majority... in school, WE did make mistakes, but we respected each other enough to not share them online. I'm glad I don't have fake friends.

  • @shalxnda
    @shalxnda ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    It’s crazy how everything is so accessible for us and we are still so disconnected 😭

  • @jemalo-cszweitausend
    @jemalo-cszweitausend 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    I just saw a person I really care for on a dating app this week, however we didn’t interact with each other, nor did we interact when we had eye contact on campus.. something about us both being trapped in finding smt we don’t know how to achieve.

  • @Someone_wrf
    @Someone_wrf 54 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    No amount of technology is equivalent to a real-life relationship, ya know

  • @syndrfox
    @syndrfox ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

    I haven’t used social media in years
    meanwhile my irl friends can’t do anything without taking a selfie and posting it
    I honestly consider social media akin to a mental illness fr
    it’s like most people can’t just live in the moment anymore

    • @shalxnda
      @shalxnda ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Yup it’s because it’s an addiction this is why everyone’s screen time is up to 13 hours a day.

  • @pixbunni
    @pixbunni 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    The internet has changed friendship by focusing on quantity over quality, with relationships reduced to likes and follower counts. Social media encourages comparison and envy, making real connections harder. Face-to-face time is often replaced by online chats, which lack emotional depth. Misunderstandings are more common because texts don’t show tone or context. Algorithms also push people toward performative or divisive behavior, creating distance between friends. While the internet helps people stay in touch, it often weakens the closeness and trust that real friendships need.

  • @theehans
    @theehans 27 นาทีที่ผ่านมา +1

    The internet didn't ruin friendships, memes did. Memes are a way for people to bully each other using pictures instead of words.

  • @aguadoll8162
    @aguadoll8162 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    oh we also just- need to CHOOSE AND CHANGE our experiences, we have that whole toolbox of change and adaptations as artists and creators, whether ur helping ur country or ur middle friends that turned into a subculture, do it w ur everything, do it w the trust that those ppl are a part of ur everything 💙✨💙😊

  • @The_RC_Guru
    @The_RC_Guru 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

    Plot twist, I despise people trying to interact with me when I’m out anywhere. Today’s tech lets me go out while everyone else is mentally absent and not really there. Unfortunately they drive like that on the roads too though and autopilot isn’t up to par yet to babysit them. We are truly headed for a Wall-e movie type future.

  • @atraingamerbosscodm1995
    @atraingamerbosscodm1995 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    first quote goes hard

  • @obscured.by.clouds.
    @obscured.by.clouds. ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That fact that the internet exists as a self serving entity to analyze every little detail of your life to whittle it down to your absolute core sales potential above all other sense of meaning, and the shove it in mercilessly in our faces for this lowest common dominator makes me realize the only value in life is suicide. Demonetization . Emptiness. Fuck this shit I’m
    So so tired of it all anymore. Dead end after dead end. Just like you said.

  • @Someone_wrf
    @Someone_wrf 53 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    For some, technology _is_ their very best friend, considerably

  • @fideldisalvo
    @fideldisalvo 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    Love was do beautiful once, what happened

    • @IvoryTowerInsights
      @IvoryTowerInsights 47 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Your mind lost-or has not found love’s frequency-it’s very much here-and alive.

  • @NeurotizismusDoodle
    @NeurotizismusDoodle ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

  • @austiinos
    @austiinos 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    bo burnham called this out when he became "youtube famous" and it somehow got much worse

    • @Whytedebil
      @Whytedebil ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      The self loathing tortured artist thing is a tired played out trope as much as the rest of them he points out. That said he is a genius and too smart and creative for his own mental health not to suffer from it. Love me some Bo. Hope he’s found happiness.

  • @MrRobot-jb5tI
    @MrRobot-jb5tI 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +12

    The internet didn’t ruin friendship, it only revealed how shallow it always was.

    • @rontom3405
      @rontom3405 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      it meaning humanity?

    • @dillonc2419
      @dillonc2419 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      lol you've clearly never had real friends.

    • @deathbycognitivedissonance5036
      @deathbycognitivedissonance5036 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Nah. There were stronger bonds preinternet. This is cope.

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Indeed 🎉🎉

    • @ProLaytonxPhoenix
      @ProLaytonxPhoenix 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wrong

  • @fraser5032
    @fraser5032 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Truth hurts.

  • @zarimughalrose353
    @zarimughalrose353 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    👍

  • @fossil_killer8022
    @fossil_killer8022 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Bleh

  • @turtleanton6539
    @turtleanton6539 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yeeh

  • @ObiWanCannabi
    @ObiWanCannabi ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    nah, you just got old, friends gained their own lives..

    • @IvoryTowerInsights
      @IvoryTowerInsights 49 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      This is exactly it!

    • @Smethells2023
      @Smethells2023 29 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Nope, that’s cope. I have friends who have “their own lives”, and we still make time almost every weekend for each other. That USED to be the norm…🤷‍♂️