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This is good. Glad to see men in the "public eye" who aren't afraid to stand up for morals and principals. There's a lot of "If it feels good, do it" and "There are no rules" thinking going on and I absolutely believe the men of each household will have to stand up for our society to stay great.
Most people don't include tolerance in a list like this. Usually tolerance is a result of understanding of one another. And when we understand each other I found people get along a lot better and we are all better for it. Thanks for this great video!
As a teacher, I have always been looking for a defined outline of values that I could make my class head towards. There have always been hints and ideas, of course, but this simple set here nails it in the exact way I have been looking for all the time. Thank you very much for this.
Great video Antonio. I love how transparent you are, that you're willing to put your reputation on the line for what you do, and that you live up to that reputation. You sir are a gentleman and a scholar!
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You've reminded an 22 year old of something that his family always taught him, but in this not-so-perfect world, sometimes we get lost in our ways. Thank you Antonio, you're a good man, and this is a great channel, greetings from Serbia!
Antonio, I follow so many channels here on TH-cam, but I always come back to yours. It is so informative, so pleasing, and I feel that you are a true family man, and you are so down to Earth. I have so much respect for you. Keep up the good work. Thanks for making us better men. Wish you good luck. Greetings from Slovakia. 😊
Well said Sir! Your children are lucky to have such a dedicated father. I think instilling respect is so important. My mother and father placed extreme importance on manners as well. It always shocks me when I go to an event or to someone’s home or restaurant and the children are rude or out of control. It makes the parents look horrible. I love the fact that you are so hands on as well. I mainly was raised by my governess. I was only brought in to see my mother once a day and we would have tea together. I rarely saw my father even though we lived under the same roof. I missed out on the closeness of a parent. I also love your value of instilling hard work. I made the mistake of not allowing my children to have a single chore because that was how I was raised. Your story about shoveling the driveway is amazing. I think a lot of parents make the mistake of skipping this step, but when you do that, children grow up to be incapable of doing anything for themselves. Kudos to you on doing the hard parenting work. You have a beautiful family! Also I am sorry to hear of your mother-in-law’s experience in the work camps. I lost several relatives in the concentration camps of Birkenau and Auschwitz. We must always remember life could be so much worse. Thank you for this reminder.
Sir, I would like to thank for sharing your very solid family values. I believe these values are extremely important in these turbulent times. We are in serious need of positive role models and you are setting a good example. Keep up the good work. Your work and information is appreciated.
1. Courage ( morale and physical ) 2. Commitment 3. Hard Work 4. Honesty ( with yourself and others ) 5. Initiative 6. Kindness ( help whose who can't help themselves ) 7. Leadership ( not boss ) 8. Passion ( in everything , love what you are doing ) 9. Postive Thinking 10. Respect ( be gentle with everyone ) 11. Tolerance 12. Thirft ( not being wasteful )
Something that has always captured me about this channel is that you consistently put our free informative information! I can truly say i can recommend you to any of my friends without a doubt. :)
Hello Antonio, I know I sometimes bash your videos, but I have to admit that you are not just releasing advertisement on this channel, and that's nice to see. One thing though, all your points are good, but have nothing to do with family. You can apply all of those irrespective of the fact that you have family or not.
Antonio, you hit it right on the point regarding hard work. Even the great Edison stated, "there is no substitute for hard work." Great video and message. Keep them coming!
Thanks Antonio that was very inspiring . I think I will start working on them before I start implementing them with my wife and step son. Thanks a lot. Keep up the good work.
I would have to say that 2 of the most important values that I have implemented in my life is discipline, determination and dedication. Very much important to what I have gone through and has hopefully shapen me well. It is also important for parents to instruct their children into a good path with a strong foundation
Thanks for this video, Antonio. It's good to think about values from time to time and find ways to implement them in our daily lives. I fear that values nowadays don't get the credit they deserve, but since they form our character and make us who we are, it's necessary to be aware of them and actively live them. Maybe you're familiar with stoic philosophy? They had a lot to say about that matter, too, and they always focused on the practical aspect.
Really inspiring Antonio! My (top) values are: Love, Freedom and Courage. I whas thinking about engraving these values into a ring so i would never forget what i stand for :)
Great video Antonio, this one, really opened my eyes to the good things in life and to the basic things that I can do with my parents while they are alive, that can be a great value, in the future, to me and to learn some lessons about life. And most important, to give value to the "little" things that sometimes doesn't come up in this society, nowadays. Thanks, Antonio. Compliments from an attentive 20 year old viewer, from Portugal.
Thank you very much for sharing such valuable information. While I was watching this video a strong feeling of excellence was rising within me. Thank you sir, All the best!
I agree with everything except tolerance. I think we have too much tolerance in the Western world today and it's a sign of weakness and lack of own ideology. Respect is good enough. "Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society" -Aristoteles
this is one of ur best video in fact the best video IMHO that breakfast chat with ur son i like that very much I'm gonna start the same thing with my son thanks a lot u taught me gr8 things
+ALEXANDER MAUGA Sounds like another topic for my next video - thanks! By the way, here are my book reviews on style books: www.realmenrealstyle.com/?s=book+review
I love the way you explained everything you had to say on this & your so right there's a lot of people that just don't have family values now that you explained it all the way you did. thank you for your video keep up the great work :>}
About Kindness... Helping people out is great, but what if you're constantly helping out a friend who won't help himself. There's gotta be a point where you just have to quit, right?
Thank you for this... my wife and I often talk to our kids about our family values, but we've never clearly stated them. This is something we will change immediately. How can we expect our kids to adhere to values that are not clearly defined?
A good list - you got 10 out of 12 right (83%). Three things - 1) when making list remember 10 items was enough for God, 2) just because someone said something a thousand years ago does not mean it is right, and 3) your respect is part of your soul, if you give respect away for nothing - you give your soul away. Many men have given their souls away (I know some of them), and to the best of my knowledge none of them ended up happy with the bargain.PS - A "bossy" girl or woman? I find that hard to believe (LOL).
Here in India the responsibility of creating values among children is mostly on the shoulders of mother s. Fathers are mostly there to entertain there children and have fun with them by eating out, spending money on them. In more plain words spoiling them
Tolerance is an interesting one. As a Christian I do not tolerate sin. I am quick to say when something is wrong. However, that does not mean you look down on anyone for holding any other beliefs. You always treat others with respect and love them as Christ first loved us. I will say this. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through him. Any religion that says otherwise is dead wrong. Going to adultery, any sex outside of marriage between one man and one woman is sexual perversion and is wrong. Disagree if you like, but I have no problem calling these things out for what they are. That does not mean, however, that I would treat any people of other religions, or homosexuals, or anyone else as inferior. We are all sinners.
Nowadays, the oldest man in the family is the LEAST valued and respected member of the family. An object of shame and ridicule, a contemptuous and bumbling fool, he must be swept aside and hopefully forgotten about. When he dies, his family will put on a long face and pretend he was loved and cherished. He wasn't. At the top of the family hierachy is the eldest teenage daughter, or if older, the youngest adult female. She is valued and respected as the smartest, most beautiful and wisest member of the family. She has the respect and love that she demands and she makes the final decisions on important matters. Those decisions that are beyond her interest or convenience, she appoints to her chosen family member. Even then, she gets to approve the outcome. If she disapproves, and the decision turns out to be wrong, full responsibility will be taken by the family member who made the decision. If the decision turns out to be right, she will demand to be given full appraisal and reap the just rewards. This is the world we live in today. And it's our fault for letting it happen. If you see it as a fault, that is.
I can agree with MGTOW's reasoning but not their actions for the most part. How do you plan to save society from itself if you don't repopulate? Isolating yourself from the group puts you lower on the hierarchy. Why not get out there, find a woman who isn't a feminist and isn't going to screw you over, and have a solid family instead of GIVING UP like a COWARD.
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This is good. Glad to see men in the "public eye" who aren't afraid to stand up for morals and principals. There's a lot of "If it feels good, do it" and "There are no rules" thinking going on and I absolutely believe the men of each household will have to stand up for our society to stay great.
+Jarrod Romine I couldn't agree with you more
Most people don't include tolerance in a list like this. Usually tolerance is a result of understanding of one another. And when we understand each other I found people get along a lot better and we are all better for it. Thanks for this great video!
+Fernando Herrera for sure
As a teacher, I have always been looking for a defined outline of values that I could make my class head towards. There have always been hints and ideas, of course, but this simple set here nails it in the exact way I have been looking for all the time. Thank you very much for this.
"A man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man." - Vito Corleone
+Eric Lee Agreed!
Great video Antonio. I love how transparent you are, that you're willing to put your reputation on the line for what you do, and that you live up to that reputation. You sir are a gentleman and a scholar!
You've reminded an 22 year old of something that his family always taught him, but in this not-so-perfect world, sometimes we get lost in our ways.
Thank you Antonio, you're a good man, and this is a great channel, greetings from Serbia!
+Bojan Božinoski solid comment! thank you
Antonio, I follow so many channels here on TH-cam, but I always come back to yours. It is so informative, so pleasing, and I feel that you are a true family man, and you are so down to Earth. I have so much respect for you. Keep up the good work. Thanks for making us better men. Wish you good luck. Greetings from Slovakia. 😊
+Jozef Gubka thank you for the kind words - Cheers Slovakia!
Well said Sir! Your children are lucky to have such a dedicated father. I think instilling respect is so important. My mother and father placed extreme importance on manners as well. It always shocks me when I go to an event or to someone’s home or restaurant and the children are rude or out of control. It makes the parents look horrible. I love the fact that you are so hands on as well. I mainly was raised by my governess. I was only brought in to see my mother once a day and we would have tea together. I rarely saw my father even though we lived under the same roof. I missed out on the closeness of a parent. I also love your value of instilling hard work. I made the mistake of not allowing my children to have a single chore because that was how I was raised. Your story about shoveling the driveway is amazing. I think a lot of parents make the mistake of skipping this step, but when you do that, children grow up to be incapable of doing anything for themselves. Kudos to you on doing the hard parenting work. You have a beautiful family! Also I am sorry to hear of your mother-in-law’s experience in the work camps. I lost several relatives in the concentration camps of Birkenau and Auschwitz. We must always remember life could be so much worse. Thank you for this reminder.
+Blanca W solid comment - thanks for the amazing feedback
When we don't stand for something, we'll fall for anything! Great video Antonio
+Rizal Vido Flores right on!
Sir, I would like to thank for sharing your very solid family values. I believe these values are extremely important in these turbulent times. We are in serious need of positive role models and you are setting a good example. Keep up the good work. Your work and information is appreciated.
+Phil Brackrog I highly appreciate your feedback - thank you!
1. Courage ( morale and physical )
2. Commitment
3. Hard Work
4. Honesty ( with yourself and others )
5. Initiative
6. Kindness ( help whose who can't help themselves )
7. Leadership ( not boss )
8. Passion ( in everything , love what you are doing )
9. Postive Thinking
10. Respect ( be gentle with everyone )
11. Tolerance
12. Thirft ( not being wasteful )
Something that has always captured me about this channel is that you consistently put our free informative information! I can truly say i can recommend you to any of my friends without a doubt. :)
+kevin palomo thank you - appreciate the awesome feedback
Along with mens style videos this kind of videos help to build strong personality.
Thanks man
+Satish Kumar Agreed - you're welcome!
Hello Antonio,
I know I sometimes bash your videos, but I have to admit that you are not just releasing advertisement on this channel, and that's nice to see.
One thing though, all your points are good, but have nothing to do with family. You can apply all of those irrespective of the fact that you have family or not.
+yoanizer appreciate the feedback
Antonio, you hit it right on the point regarding hard work. Even the great Edison stated, "there is no substitute for hard work."
Great video and message. Keep them coming!
+Eric Lee That's right!
Thanks Antonio that was very inspiring . I think I will start working on them before I start implementing them with my wife and step son. Thanks a lot. Keep up the good work.
+Kader Kone great to hear!
Adding the Real Men to Real Men Real Style. Appreciate it
+Malaquias Alfaro :)
Great video Antonio. Everyone should have these values in their lives. I'm a big fan from Brazil!
+Felipe Vidal Agreed! Cheers Brazil
Great video Antonio. Life Values are always important.
Love this! I think true confidence and worth comes from standing by these values and I feel like it makes a person more attractive.
Great values. Thank you sir for sharing these
I would have to say that 2 of the most important values that I have implemented in my life is discipline, determination and dedication. Very much important to what I have gone through and has hopefully shapen me well.
It is also important for parents to instruct their children into a good path with a strong foundation
+radiak55 exactly!
One word.Inspirational
Great words and advice as always.
Great video, Antonio!
Great format to teach your children......thanks for sharing...
+Jim D yes it is :)
Thanks for this video, Antonio. It's good to think about values from time to time and find ways to implement them in our daily lives. I fear that values nowadays don't get the credit they deserve, but since they form our character and make us who we are, it's necessary to be aware of them and actively live them. Maybe you're familiar with stoic philosophy? They had a lot to say about that matter, too, and they always focused on the practical aspect.
+Christian Schiller exactly!
Really inspiring Antonio! My (top) values are: Love, Freedom and Courage.
I whas thinking about engraving these values into a ring so i would never forget what i stand for :)
+Tim Jansen That's pretty cool!
Great video Antonio, this one, really opened my eyes to the good things in life and to the basic things that I can do with my parents while they are alive, that can be a great value, in the future, to me and to learn some lessons about life. And most important, to give value to the "little" things that sometimes doesn't come up in this society, nowadays. Thanks, Antonio. Compliments from an attentive 20 year old viewer, from Portugal.
+DarkF67 Solid point - Cheers Portugal
This video confirms why I will subscribe to your Channel. Good job. Bless You Sir.
I'm always a fan of a man of principle. Thanks for sharing.
+Vishal Mody cool! you're welcome
Fantastic commentary! Nice reinforcement for all of us. Thank you and nice job!
+jstein 12 great to hear
This is great indeed! Thanks
Excellent! Dittos on all of those traits.
+Brian Berghuis cool!
One of your best video Antanio
+Amol Ahire great to hear!
You seem like a great example to men all over the world
Great video and thank you for adding the saying by Socrates. There's a lot in that one statement.
+Rohit Sebastian Agreed - read that one 30 years ago!
Pretty good choice of family values. Keep it on and good luck to you and your family. :)
Antonio, great video! Truly inspiring👍 I completely plan on implementing this with my 3 kiddos
great video sir....u r family is very beautiful...thanks for the video sir it is really inspiring..
+harsha addepalli thank you!
My family value is Jesus Christ and desu.
Thoughts?
This is fantastic. Thank you for sharing this. That's a sharp sweater too.
+SpaceManSpiff20001 thank you!
Thank you very much for sharing such valuable information. While I was watching this video a strong feeling of excellence was rising within me.
Thank you sir,
All the best!
+Conilious “Brutus” Neequaye Awesome - thanks
Great video Antonio thank you for sharing this
+REVEREND DAVID HAMM you're welcome!
In my country to many 20 year olds are like 12 year olds. To protected, they do not want anything. Good video!
+Myrslokstok thank you!
Thanks for this video you have no idea how much I needed to hear this.
+joe rod great to hear!
Great values, great video 👍
another awesome advices. .thnx you
Great video, very motivational
+Nick Norton thanks!
I agree with everything except tolerance. I think we have too much tolerance in the Western world today and it's a sign of weakness and lack of own ideology. Respect is good enough.
"Tolerance and apathy are the last virtues of a dying society"
-Aristoteles
+[15th] Wismar point taken
Great video💗💗💗
I have nothing to add.
Because I have the same values.
And that good to see other people having the same values
+baillot maxime exactly!
Keep up the great work man!
+HonorFreeMusic thanks!
great one...liked you mentioned the grandmother time in Nazi's death camp
+Amit עמית thanks!
Good video. Spot on.
+tnetroP Appreciate it!
great video!
+Rafael Rub thanks!
i subbed.... nicely said sir... thank you
#respect ... keep posting such nice videos and i am going to share this on my timeline for sure :)
+vasu gupta thank you!
This is good sir.
!+Marcus Greene thanks
good video, get motivated
+arkadijxy agreed!
Right on mate!
+Alasdair Boyd great!
Good video bro, I appreciate it👍👍
+Clark Johnson You're welcome
I'm hal italian and half american. And my Italian uncles name is Santino. Do you have Italian origins? All nice videos man, very instructive
+Nicolas Clemente Howze Santino translated to english kinda means "Little Saint" Sant-ino.
One that is linked to respect is integrity becuase you cant be respectfull if you dont have self respect
+wolf that's right!
great video my favorite so far
+bigfig623 thanks!
Holy smokes... I feel like you were reading these from a book in my brain!
this is one of ur best video in fact the best video IMHO
that breakfast chat with ur son i like that very much I'm gonna start the same thing with my son
thanks a lot u taught me gr8 things
+Ritesh Rajput thanks! appreciate it
Antonio Would ever consider doing a book review on books you think that are insightful 😀
+ALEXANDER MAUGA Sounds like another topic for my next video - thanks! By the way, here are my book reviews on style books: www.realmenrealstyle.com/?s=book+review
wow, no wonder these values make great men out there.
Doing hard work isn't a moral issue, it's a scientific issue. Most people who work have better health and wellbeing.
very good video
+Ori Iancovici thank you!
Where can i get a template for my own family values
I love the way you explained everything you had to say on this & your so right
there's a lot of people that just don't have family values now that you explained
it all the way you did. thank you for your video keep up the great work :>}
Great value system
#7 "Good leader says forward but great leader says follow me " My college Professor.
+Mateusz Dobrzański true!
About Kindness... Helping people out is great, but what if you're constantly helping out a friend who won't help himself. There's gotta be a point where you just have to quit, right?
+edguiterrez perhaps...
Thank you for this... my wife and I often talk to our kids about our family values, but we've never clearly stated them. This is something we will change immediately. How can we expect our kids to adhere to values that are not clearly defined?
+Paul Ash I would say be the example to them
Can you make a video on how to survive a zombie apocalypse?
+Chino's Corner No experience with that one yet!
Soon ;D
A good list - you got 10 out of 12 right (83%). Three things - 1) when making list remember 10 items was enough for God, 2) just because someone said something a thousand years ago does not mean it is right, and 3) your respect is part of your soul, if you give respect away for nothing - you give your soul away. Many men have given their souls away (I know some of them), and to the best of my knowledge none of them ended up happy with the bargain.PS - A "bossy" girl or woman? I find that hard to believe (LOL).
+Icebreaaker solid point
Where is responsibility? This is the core of manhood and developing purpose and meaning to life.
Here in India the responsibility of creating values among children is mostly on the shoulders of mother s. Fathers are mostly there to entertain there children and have fun with them by eating out, spending money on them. In more plain words spoiling them
super album
"mind leads body" . . . a basic principle of Aikido.
+Pugad Lawin that's right!
Tolerance is an interesting one. As a Christian I do not tolerate sin. I am quick to say when something is wrong. However, that does not mean you look down on anyone for holding any other beliefs. You always treat others with respect and love them as Christ first loved us. I will say this. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father but through him. Any religion that says otherwise is dead wrong. Going to adultery, any sex outside of marriage between one man and one woman is sexual perversion and is wrong. Disagree if you like, but I have no problem calling these things out for what they are. That does not mean, however, that I would treat any people of other religions, or homosexuals, or anyone else as inferior. We are all sinners.
Nowadays, the oldest man in the family is the LEAST valued and respected member of the family. An object of shame and ridicule, a contemptuous and bumbling fool, he must be swept aside and hopefully forgotten about. When he dies, his family will put on a long face and pretend he was loved and cherished. He wasn't.
At the top of the family hierachy is the eldest teenage daughter, or if older, the youngest adult female.
She is valued and respected as the smartest, most beautiful and wisest member of the family. She has the respect and love that she demands and she makes the final decisions on important matters. Those decisions that are beyond her interest or convenience, she appoints to her chosen family member. Even then, she gets to approve the outcome. If she disapproves, and the decision turns out to be wrong, full responsibility will be taken by the family member who made the decision. If the decision turns out to be right, she will demand to be given full appraisal and reap the just rewards.
This is the world we live in today.
And it's our fault for letting it happen. If you see it as a fault, that is.
1:30 #family_goals
I swear I'm gonna fly over to Europe, find a nice traditional girl, settle down, and have... I dunno, 6-7 kids!
+JP Sheehan haha :)
You should run for president
+Sidki Kboubi Nah, I wouldn't be able to do anything without security then.
3 main women's family values:
1) Marriage
2) Divorce
3) Alimony
#MGTOW
I can agree with MGTOW's reasoning but not their actions for the most part. How do you plan to save society from itself if you don't repopulate? Isolating yourself from the group puts you lower on the hierarchy. Why not get out there, find a woman who isn't a feminist and isn't going to screw you over, and have a solid family instead of GIVING UP like a COWARD.
Must be nice to have time with your son
Do you have Russian wife?
Great video Antonio!
+Braeden Lukacs thanks!
Great values, great video 👍
Great values, great video 👍
+tallibnah thanks!