Emir, please hear what your wife fears. It is not good to work with your ex. You also called your ex your friend a few moments after making up with your wife, whom you hurt very badly. She is trying to find her position in your life as your wife. So far you haven’t really given it to her apart from telling her that you love her. You don’t show that you understand her feelings, her fears. You are just saying she should not fear. She should not feel how she feels. Why should she believe you? You cannot take away her fear if you act in ways that only meet your emotional needs. Your fears, your sense of truths, your sense of justice, your need to beat your dad, your friendships. She is a human being too and her fears need to be addressed in ways that she can cope with. At 1:36:04, Emir is definitely not keeping Feriha’s fears and needs and wants in mind. He only does what he wants with his life without considering the fact that Feriha is also in his life. What he chooses to do affects Feriha too. It is not enough for a husband to only be faithful to the wife. He has to consider the correct place for her in his life. Feriha wants to be next to him. Emir expects her to just tag along with his decisions as a husband. He works with his ex without telling her. He consummates their marriage without telling her one of his ex’s is pregnant with a baby that could potentially be his, he doesn’t protect her properly from his friends. He refuses an offer from his father that could have meant that he has some time with his wife. They are newly married and hardly spent a few nights together. He is an inadequate husband. Not because he doesn’t have money, not because he doesn’t love her, but because he doesn’t properly listen to her. He pretends that her concerns are not really things to be concerned about. In other words he doesn’t consider her judgements about what is good and not good for their marriage as worthy of consideration. That is a very serious problem. Love is fine, but it cannot carry a flaw like that.
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Emir, please hear what your wife fears. It is not good to work with your ex. You also called your ex your friend a few moments after making up with your wife, whom you hurt very badly. She is trying to find her position in your life as your wife. So far you haven’t really given it to her apart from telling her that you love her. You don’t show that you understand her feelings, her fears. You are just saying she should not fear. She should not feel how she feels. Why should she believe you? You cannot take away her fear if you act in ways that only meet your emotional needs. Your fears, your sense of truths, your sense of justice, your need to beat your dad, your friendships. She is a human being too and her fears need to be addressed in ways that she can cope with.
At 1:36:04, Emir is definitely not keeping Feriha’s fears and needs and wants in mind. He only does what he wants with his life without considering the fact that Feriha is also in his life. What he chooses to do affects Feriha too. It is not enough for a husband to only be faithful to the wife. He has to consider the correct place for her in his life. Feriha wants to be next to him. Emir expects her to just tag along with his decisions as a husband. He works with his ex without telling her. He consummates their marriage without telling her one of his ex’s is pregnant with a baby that could potentially be his, he doesn’t protect her properly from his friends. He refuses an offer from his father that could have meant that he has some time with his wife. They are newly married and hardly spent a few nights together. He is an inadequate husband. Not because he doesn’t have money, not because he doesn’t love her, but because he doesn’t properly listen to her. He pretends that her concerns are not really things to be concerned about. In other words he doesn’t consider her judgements about what is good and not good for their marriage as worthy of consideration. That is a very serious problem. Love is fine, but it cannot carry a flaw like that.