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  • @emmacuello8882
    @emmacuello8882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    DJ Lala kahit ang bata mo pa ang galing mo mag advice, you are gifted you are smart.

  • @martincabrera1713
    @martincabrera1713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "It's not strength kapag pinapakita mong okay ka kahit hindi na okay, What's stronger is when you try to accept na everything is not okay but you'll try to fix it." DJ Lala. Start admiring her. Very smart girl!!

  • @hanzartango7988
    @hanzartango7988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I can understand Maggie why she felt that way. I was once on her shoes. The only thing with her is when she started doubting herself. Doubt can even bring the mightiest of the mighty down in an instant. And even those who are very successful when they started doubting, their view is shrouded with the cloud of failure. But all of these stuff are just monsters our mind created for ourselves. Maybe it's not yet the right time for her to call the hotline and talk about it. 1: DJ Lala has a limited time for her to talk about it, I know base on experience that once we're hurt, we tend to keep on talking about the hurt, pain, doubt, and everything that brings us down. Trust me, I had my fair share of friends and myself who did the same thing. Maybe for now, she'll still feel that way. But there will come a time that she'll get enough of it and start picking herself up. As the saying goes: "Time DOES NOT heal any wounds, instead; IT MAKES US NUMB". Once she wont feel a thing, that's when she starts picking herself up. And it will take time. So kudos to DJ Lala whom we know was at the edge of her breaking point, but still was sane enough not do so. Good day everyone.

  • @emilyraising6834
    @emilyraising6834 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mahal nya subra asawa nya kaya marter. She accept what his husband did even it's wrong. Pray to God everything okay

  • @gemmamabeza1837
    @gemmamabeza1837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haizttt
    Pati aq napagod mkinig, puro mahal oo ate nauunawaan nmin mahal mu asawa mu at family mu.... Pero te khit anong gawin mu f ayw na sau asawa mu wala knang mggawa, lahat nman tau ng mamahal eh, hhingi ng payo pero ayw tanggapin ung sinasabi ng dj😔😢😔

  • @dorescardino3837
    @dorescardino3837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wag ka ng magpakatanga ma'am you're not alone in you're situation ,if you don't need you let him go don't hold on with someone who don't need you anymore ,love youre self and respect yourself also,just turned to another page of you're life that they he is not part of it ,just focus on you're children.

  • @sugabb8109
    @sugabb8109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Giving up your marriage ain't easy dear. Nangako kayo sa altar sa hirap at ginhawa, Just pray and seek Lord for guidance. I hope you will be okay soon.

  • @rudyjavier2623
    @rudyjavier2623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hats off ako sa iyo Dj Lala.
    more power!

  • @jonahhern
    @jonahhern 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very good advice dj lala👍👍👍👍

  • @jewellyatasorii7438
    @jewellyatasorii7438 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    salute DJ lala❤️
    napakagaling mo mag advice thanks for being there for us dj lala!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @divinebaruela4239
    @divinebaruela4239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sobrang ramdam na ramdam ko yung hirap, sakit at pagod 💔💔😭😭 Sobra akong naiyak ko 😭💔 Sakit sakit 💔💔😭😭😭

  • @josephinelagunzad2030
    @josephinelagunzad2030 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    huh..buti na lang pinakinggan pa rin ni dj...God bless you dj...God bless also to all listeners.

  • @teofistolllpaglinawan2694
    @teofistolllpaglinawan2694 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    DJ Lala.. Beast Mode ka na Naman.. take care po..

  • @shancailoyola6106
    @shancailoyola6106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ate Maggie sa ngayong marami na po naghihiwalay ate ipaliwanag mo ng mabuti sa mga anak mo na maghihiwalay kayo ng asawa mo na dina kayo magkakasundo kase nga may iba na siya mahal my babae . ate maggie wag mo sisihin sarili mo wala kang mali . ang asawa mo ang masama ugali kase nga manloloko siya at may babae siya. Ate maggie hiwalayan mo na yan asawa mo . tapos mag pa gamot ka magpa Doctor ka. ate Maggie kailangan mo magkipag hiwalay sa asawa mo . ate kainlangan mo ng Doctor at mga anak mo kailangan mo magamot pati mga anak mo. ate mahalin mo sarili mo at anak mo God is Good .

  • @letstalk417
    @letstalk417 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lala sana maranasan mo ang naranasan niya para ma intindihan mo si Maggie. Lala naghanap lang si Maggie na may makignig sa kanya. Sana, sana mangyari yan sayo Lala. Para Maka ganti si Maggie sayo. Sa totoo lang Lala you sound so sarcastic. Lala the way you carry on it's you who is so unprofessional. You don't raise your voice.

  • @fattyvillanueva8955
    @fattyvillanueva8955 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hay i feel u Maggie, un husband ko nkpghiwalay skn last Jan 2019, snb nia wl n cia pgmmhl skn pero sinave ko cia pra s fmly..so pinagbgyn ko 5 months wl km commuincations, after that nangumst cia, June 30 inistalk ko cia s fb eh d lumabas my bbae cia ky pl nkpghwly skn, tpz ngrereach out cia tumtwag d ko cnsgot, pero lately kinausap ko, ako pa sinisisi kung bakit nangryi sa knya un, lm ko pgkukulang ako at pgkkmali pero un infidelity nia pinili nia un, he doesnt love our family..tpz gst nia mkpg kaibgn pra s kids, no way ang sagot ko.. oky na ako msy nko ksm mga kids, my kny kny n km lyf.. Di ba lyf must go on, ramdam mo sa asawa mo kpg wl na love dahil my bbae na sa abroad, i let go na lng..

  • @stephennovero8154
    @stephennovero8154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    maggie, i know it's really painful !!! you need to let go, u have a life... It's really clear that he doesn't love you anymore. dont use your kids to justify your husband's wrong doing or u still want to live a miserable life

  • @rose9936
    @rose9936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Princess Montano
    We are not able to think what's the best thing to do when we are in trouble. Maggie is not sure what she has to do although she was thinking to move on with her kids. She needed someone like DJ Lala just to do the first move because the situation has weakened her. Lawyer and psychiatrist will come later.

  • @agnescurrie697
    @agnescurrie697 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Go to mr Tulfo for help, hiwalayan mo c mr pero ma obliga sya na magbayan ng child support para education ng mga anak mo. Tama c dj lala pinoy parin tayo your marriage is still cover by Philippine law, tapang c mr pero tingnan natin kung katapat c Mr Tulfo, but make sure maggie all your reasons are valid kung magcomplain ka kay mr Tulfo, lilipas din yan, you are not only the family like that, maraming magulo ngayun.

  • @mariesoledad8122
    @mariesoledad8122 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    good advice po

  • @marlenapumpa8554
    @marlenapumpa8554 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi dj.lala always watching ur program..hehehe natatawa ako sa face mo ds.segment...hehehe thank u sa pag unawa mo ni maggie..hirap talaga yong pinag daanan niya..inhale exhale...pupunta ka sa church lagi kausapin mo si God..kung ano man ang kalabasan ng decision mo..if hiwalay..hopefully maka recover...ka..God bless more sa program mo dj lala...watching from C..New Zealand..

  • @davidw3603
    @davidw3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You need to pray hard for His guidance so you can decide well and be stronger mom for your children You are the only one your children Have now learn to love yourself

  • @gayaserafina4455
    @gayaserafina4455 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Maggie as if u are living in the jungle,,nasa ibang bansa ka na at alam mo HOW-WHAT'S life sa kinalalagyan mo,,hahahhaha

  • @winertv9529
    @winertv9529 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love u dj lala ur the best sa programa na ldr.... lodi kita... mwahhhh...

  • @emmacuello8882
    @emmacuello8882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He cheated you Maggi it means he is not inlove with you anymore let him go, huwag kang tanga maghiwalay na kayo, ang mga bata ngayon very smart and they understand sooner or later.

  • @jeansibayan8814
    @jeansibayan8814 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    ate maggie hindi na uso martika sa panahon ngaun ikw nlang ata nakita masyado marter omg kaya mo yan laban lang ng lavan ate maggie wag ka susuko para sa mga anak mo

  • @marjialmasan524
    @marjialmasan524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ireport mo yong asawa mo sa opis nila pti na rin ung girl pra matangal cla sa work..

  • @bhabesbhabes1752
    @bhabesbhabes1752 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good dj

  • @ramilcadayongarmi7435
    @ramilcadayongarmi7435 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning my dj love 🌷🌷🌷💋💕🤴

  • @mariasandmeier5824
    @mariasandmeier5824 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow....

  • @annekulitvlog1495
    @annekulitvlog1495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First love kasi ni Maggie... 😅😅😅 kahit herap na herap na sya at mga anak niya ...ok lng.. baka wait niya pa isa sknila mag suicide dahil sa tatay na makati🙄🙄🙄

  • @victoriamalonzo1788
    @victoriamalonzo1788 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    MAINIT NA ULO NI DJ LALA SA CALLER NA NANGHIHINGI ADVISE PERO SARILI DIN NYA PINAKIKINGGAN😂😂😂

  • @thevoiceofnature6517
    @thevoiceofnature6517 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mrs. alam kung mahirap dahil complicated ang situation mo.. pero kailangan mo pa ring mag ddecision para hindi ka magkakasakit at matulungan mo ang sarili mo. Alam kung wala ako sa lugar mo pero hindi habang buhay na ganyan ka nlang palagi. Kausapin mo ang mga anak mo ng maayos at kung ano ang naramdaman mo huwag mong itago dahil sigurado ako na maiitindihan ka nila at sigurado ako na kapag maiitindihan ka nila mas lumakas pa ang kalooban mo para mag ddicision. At kung pwedi magpunta ka sa isang marriage counselor or sa isang doctor magpatulong ka! at syempre huwag kalimutan magdasal kay God. Psalm 55:22 Throw your burden on GOD, And he will sustain you.Never will he allow the righteous one to fall.

  • @meldyansale4105
    @meldyansale4105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    SIMPLE SOLUTION..IPA DEPORT NA YN...AT MAG UWIAN N KYO SA PINAS PRA MAWALA NA PROBL3MA NYO.OR I LET GO MUNA UNG HUSBAND MO DEN GO ON UR WAY WITH UR KIDS...JUST MOVED ON ND WORK U GIRL FIR UR KIDS....BE PTACTICAL GIRL....DATS SIMPLE PROBLEM DO UR BEST FOR UR KIDS GIRL..

  • @joyaringo3613
    @joyaringo3613 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Parang kelangan lng ni maggie ng my makikinig sa kanya kc parang wala syang mapagsabihan ng mga problema ramdam q ung bigat sa dibdib mo.. iba tlga pg nanay kn..laht ng mga decision mo sa buhay kelanga tlga pg icpan kc marami ang maapektuhan.. ramdam kita.

  • @rain-vh8lq
    @rain-vh8lq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dapat di na tumawag si maggie sa LDR haha kasi di naman pala sya nakkinig.. naalala ko to sa show ng bubble gang ano tawag daw sa mga taong nangghingi ng advise pero after makakuha ng advise hndi naman susundin ang advise - ASK-HOLE 😂

  • @ramilcadayongarmi7435
    @ramilcadayongarmi7435 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi... my dj love 🌷🌷🌷💋💕🤴

  • @joeSmith-us4jf
    @joeSmith-us4jf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This could be a case of certain dependency of the mother on the husband (not necessarily financially) and her fear of the unknown why she clings on a dysfunctional marriage.

  • @stephennovero8154
    @stephennovero8154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    maggie if u want to talk to somebody let me know, I can explain to you how to accept the situation that u r going through!

  • @Titajeninseattle
    @Titajeninseattle 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    😁 ate naman
    Maganda ka nmn sabi ng kid mo

  • @dyskwento4184
    @dyskwento4184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ewan ko sayo Maggie! Nalilibog ako sayo eh!!! 😥😥😥

  • @aimeelim5359
    @aimeelim5359 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    yung uminit na ang ulo ni DJ Lala! hahaha

  • @Hulyanah
    @Hulyanah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nilaglag mo na ang asawa mo bakit mo pinagtatakpan ngayon? I don't know what is the feeling to be a martyr. She's not beeing sarcastic the way dj react, dahil ang mga tulog mantika kailangan saktan para magising, that's how dj did.

  • @adelaidadelacruz8314
    @adelaidadelacruz8314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Layla napaka tiyaga mo Kausa hiding

  • @leysantosaa5605
    @leysantosaa5605 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    maggie u need a psychiatrist and. lawyer..not a dj..kc emotionally and psychologically wasak ka sa ginawang cheating ng mister mo...wala kang kasalanan..u dont need a marriage counselor,,kailangan mo ng doctor, pra makabangon ka ulit pra sa mga anak mo

  • @rain-vh8lq
    @rain-vh8lq 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maggie. Be strong for your kids. Dont start off talking with your kids na weak ka kasi lalo hndi sila makkinig sa plano nyo na bumalik ng pinas.. explain to them malungkot for now pero doesnt mean hndi na kyo sasaya na kyong 3 lng without your makating husband. Remember usually once a cheater always a cheater.. makinig ka naman kung tlgang gusto mo ng betterment sa situation nyo ng mga anak mo. And exactly who cares what your husband thinks. To hell with him!

  • @jeansibayan8814
    @jeansibayan8814 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    tama si dj lala nakakairita kna ate maggie

  • @bhingabaoag9718
    @bhingabaoag9718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Walang Mali say Maggie ,,only na fall out of love na Ung asawa mo....explain to your kids the real happening,,malalaki na sila,,stand firm being as a mother...your husband only there bec of your kids,and not for you no matter what you felt, she ignore your feeling... Go separate ways...

  • @hungry0ungp0etmo40
    @hungry0ungp0etmo40 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Be elsa...let it go

  • @sweetyzelaialbarico6971
    @sweetyzelaialbarico6971 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sakit ulo q ni maggie hahaha.. Kinawawa lng srili nya.. Kaya amn nya maging matapang for her kids

  • @dexgonsalez8147
    @dexgonsalez8147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Maggie napagago Ang asawa mo NG Dahil Lang Sa isang babae nasira Ang family mo.

  • @coneydumpit
    @coneydumpit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hayyyyyy naku lala buti nalang nanjan ka hinde ka rin pakikinggan yan eh!

    • @cynthiagrayon7173
      @cynthiagrayon7173 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That caller is weak. Is she in the US? She's full of it

  • @user-iw6ks8xo2g
    @user-iw6ks8xo2g 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ano ba gusto mo marinig ateng.....

  • @rosegonzales862
    @rosegonzales862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ano ba yan siya ?
    Martyr at ma drama..

  • @laniegarcia652
    @laniegarcia652 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    para kc dk nabubuhay ng walang lalaki magie alm mona ginagago kau ng asawa mo bakit dmo maiwan iwan kung iwan mo asawa mo saka lng maramdaman ng asawa mo kung ano pagkakamali nya...

  • @agnescurrie697
    @agnescurrie697 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tough c dj lala, magtapangtapangan yung asawa ha, maggie pauwiin sila kaya pati asawa, cguro ang pinoprotektahan ni maggie ang family emage nila, wala ngayun yan, nasasaktan kalang, kaya mo yan maggie, hiwalay nalang para maka get over ka.

  • @davidw3603
    @davidw3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Walang guts to be a good mother to her children wake up to reality Take of your children

  • @memosama.lourdesita4009
    @memosama.lourdesita4009 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wag kang umiyak ano ba yan

  • @sweetyzelaialbarico6971
    @sweetyzelaialbarico6971 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tigas nang ulo ni ate haha

  • @jonelmariano1950
    @jonelmariano1950 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ang boberls ni dj syempre na strees siya so need niya more supporrt kaya ganun ang bata

  • @gracemoreno2061
    @gracemoreno2061 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kaká stress Si ate 😑😑😑

  • @meldyansale4105
    @meldyansale4105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    BASTOS KC UNG AMA KYA PIBARARAMDAM DIN NI ANAK N BASTUSIN UNG AMA NYA...PRA MLMAN NI AMA NA SINASAKTAN NYA FAMILY NYA SPECIALLY KIDS NYA. DPAT NAG STOPED N C AMA NILA SA KALANDIAN PRA MAAYOS AT MABALIK RESPETO SA AMA NYA...KASO WLA SA HULOG UNG AMA KYA UN DI NAAAYOS UNG FAMILY NYA

  • @gayaserafina4455
    @gayaserafina4455 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ang HINA ni madam Magie,,GET OUT MY DEAR SA ASAWA MO

  • @Forbidden0102
    @Forbidden0102 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    kaloka si ate, aate malaki na anak mo explain mo maigi sa kanya bakit kayo maghhwalay ng asawa mo at i think kaya mo nmn palakihin anak mo na wala ama nia. isipin mo nararamdaman ng anak mo hindi lng ung nararamdaman mo kasi baka pati anak mo mawala :) just saying

  • @zielbenaldez2853
    @zielbenaldez2853 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ate wagkng mgpa ka marter...

  • @Imbugoy
    @Imbugoy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Narcisstic husband makes a broken wife

  • @loniepaglicawan9525
    @loniepaglicawan9525 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Maggie masyado ka focus sa asawa mo. Di mo n alam age ng anak mo haha

  • @crisantanicolepulusan4323
    @crisantanicolepulusan4323 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feeling ng dj na'to abogado sya the way you speak dj, kailagan nya po ng advice yes but in a nice way or deliver your words to her in a nice way. Hindi yung sumisigawsigaw ka po dyan😔
    Love From mexico❤✌

  • @leysantosaa5605
    @leysantosaa5605 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    pag MAY ANAK NA INVOLVE AT MAY NANGYARING CHEATING...KAILANGAN MAG EXPLAIN ANG CHEATER SA ANAK,BAKIT? pra makuha mo ang respeto ng anak mo ulit. .at saka kc d lang nagtaksil ang cheater sa asawa,KUNDI NAGTAKSIL KA DIN SA ANAK MO..Hindi dpat maisip ng anak na ANG CHEATING IS ACCEPTABLE AT MADALING MAPATAWAD...TLGANG NKAKAWALANG RESPETO ANG CHEATING..kc dadalhin ng bata yan hanggang pagtanda ng bata at mgiging biktima din sya ng mga lalake na cheaters or mgiging man hater yan

    • @rosieviloria5213
      @rosieviloria5213 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      DJ needs to correct her grammar sometimes

    • @leysantosaa5605
      @leysantosaa5605 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosieviloria5213 wag ka dito mag comment about grammar....d ito subject 😁

  • @daisytorres1340
    @daisytorres1340 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tigas ng ulo mo ate. Maiyak iyak kpa pero dika marunong makinig. Kaumay pakinggan paliwanag mo

  • @davidw3603
    @davidw3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Learn to earn your own money nothing to be save in your relationship leave that womanizer husband respect yourself so your children will respect you crazy woman wake up your children acting that way coz you are very weak mom

  • @davidw3603
    @davidw3603 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can you think straight when you keep on bringing your womanizer husband truth always hurts accept he's gone then separate now stop being weak