AA has an abysmal 83-95% failure rate, and is actually retraumatizing, especially the 4th, 9th steps. It's no coincidence that people regularly relapse at those steps. I'm disappointed that Ross is telling people that AA is a valid "treatment".
He has clearly never felt the fear of annihilation that can push people to cut. Emotional pain from severe abuse in which fear of being killed was real, isn't "lousy bad feelings." Without strategies to address that degree of pain, no one will agree to avoid cutting.
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Please keep this uploaded. I love to listen to Dr colin ross' lectures or words
Window of intolerance, brilliant!
I love Colin Ross.
He is describing what fairbarn discovered and called "Attachment to the bad object"
Wonderful, thank you for uploading! The spreading and sharing of this type of information is much needed. ☀
Does anybody know when this lecture was given?
AA has an abysmal 83-95% failure rate, and is actually retraumatizing, especially the 4th, 9th steps. It's no coincidence that people regularly relapse at those steps. I'm disappointed that Ross is telling people that AA is a valid "treatment".
He has clearly never felt the fear of annihilation that can push people to cut. Emotional pain from severe abuse in which fear of being killed was real, isn't "lousy bad feelings." Without strategies to address that degree of pain, no one will agree to avoid cutting.
Check out Janina Fischer and her approach...curiosity empathy and internal family systems...🌅