198: Q&A: Modesty, Tattoos, Baptism, Bed-Wetting, & Influencer Families

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ธ.ค. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 69

  • @cassidy1611
    @cassidy1611 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    on the topic of modesty, I heard this quote “Wear what you would want other women to wear around your husband” and it’s really stuck with me and it’s a great way to think when picking out your outfit !

    • @hartleyfamily5451
      @hartleyfamily5451 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES!! Love this comment ❤️❤️❤️

    • @chloepowers5233
      @chloepowers5233 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yess totally agree !! and an other quote I heard was « wear to bless not to impress ! » really love it

  • @bethanyrivera6432
    @bethanyrivera6432 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I often feel like me and my husband are only ones in the universe who don’t want a tattoo. This is very encouraging to me!!!!!! 🎉😊

  • @creativereindeer
    @creativereindeer ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for wrestling through the post pod ‘guilt’ of how things could have been ‘better’ - but honestly value hearing you folks humbly talk through questions in long form and have a chat about them. Big appreciations.

  • @paulanix7561
    @paulanix7561 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Okay. I don't want to be a drive by critic. THANK YOU for sharing your lives and faith. It's made a big difference in my life. I came to God and born again after 50. Praise God that he is so living and merciful. He instructed us in Leviticus 19:28 not to mark our skin.

    • @kimbystone
      @kimbystone ปีที่แล้ว

      Christians are under a new Covenant, so tattoos are a personal choice that doesn't affect our relationship with the Lord. Jesus has what can be seen as a tattoo in revelation 19. (It may be a tattoo or possibly on a sash)

    • @paulanix7561
      @paulanix7561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kimbystone Many people believe that but we must Iook to Jesus' words. Man shall not live by bread alone but by every word spoken by the mouth of God and he said he didnt come to do away with the law but to fulfil it. So Jesus keeps the law because he wants to do what's is pleasing to the Father. Be holy for I am holy.....lots of verses that support leaving our fleshly lusts and seeking God....the motive of the heart only God truly knows.

    • @potluck712
      @potluck712 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@paulanix7561 isn’t there a context about why they were getting tattoos? They were putting images of pagan gods or the dead on their skin as a form of worship. It seems like it was a form of divination in some way by worshipping the dead through marking them onto skin. Not sure but this is a tricky subject since that is the specific reason God said not to do it. If you are tattooing a scripture on your skin is it sinful? If you get a flower on your skin is it wrong? Idk

    • @paulanix7561
      @paulanix7561 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@potluck712 for all people who have tattoos, I love you. The first commandment says to worship God. Would tattoos be worshipping God or oneself? Each must be convinced in their own minds.

    • @cassidy1611
      @cassidy1611 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed! The Bible also says time and time again that our bodies are not ours, but they belong to God and so we should glorify God in our bodies and not mark them as it is the temple of the Holy Spirit!

  • @melodybyler1411
    @melodybyler1411 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hello! 🤗 Your discussions are very interesting (and I just recently found your channel)... So I thought I'd leave a bit of comment for y'all about the Baptism subject. First, I am a Christian in the conservative Mennonite culture. Secondly, this is the way I was taught, but also personally believe... Mennonites believe that young children's lives are safe in Jesus until we reach the "age of accountability." When a child reaches this age (no set age, but usually thinking 10+ and on into teen years even), and understands that they are a sinner in need of a Savior, and are willing to confess sins and commit to living a life of service to Jesus, because of redemption thru his blood; it is after this that we are Baptized. Baptism is symbolic of dying to the old life, and "burying" our sins; then being raised to a new life in Christ. It does not save us, but in a way it's like a seal on our commitment. Also, Jesus was/is our perfect example, so even tho' he didn't need to confess sins, he was baptized so that we could follow his example. And His Father God said, "Thou art my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased."🕊️ This is where we are taught that making a decision to follow Christ, and being baptized, are personal decisions that need to be understood by the new believer. That is why infant baptism doesn't hold importance to us, because while we know and believe that every child is born with a sinful nature and into a sinful world, they are still "safe in innocence" in Jesus' arms. Every person is called at a different time and age. Some are called and feel conviction in their lives earlier than others. Praise the Lord for his saving grace thru faith, to each one of us!
    I am really enjoying hearing your thoughts on so many life and spiritual topics! Y'all have many great perspectives. Keep looking up! 💕Thanks for the thought provoking content.
    I did not share to imply that you don't believe the right way - rather, I just thought maybe you'd like to hear our stand on the matter.

  • @danielabrown1783
    @danielabrown1783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I totally agree with you guys. We have 4 kids and we alway broght them to the service with us. My husband and I always wanted our kids to experience our faith together with the church. I have always been a teaching tool for us to gather together, sing together, the kids watched us take communion, etc. And they believe I wanted them to see the glory of God and his faithfulness. And they do! Is such a blessing. The promises of God are true. The more we get to know God, the closer to God we get, and our faith gets stronger. And our kids see that, and they are excited to be part of it.

  • @Ptly
    @Ptly ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would love to see more on baptism from you.

  • @patriciabellah9392
    @patriciabellah9392 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you live close it can become overwhelming and taken for granted so you don't have meaningful time. If you live far away you purpose to have that time because you don't know when you'll see them again.

  • @MeganFoxUnlocked
    @MeganFoxUnlocked ปีที่แล้ว +20

    What verses would your parents' church use for not baptizing at all?

    • @abbeyrosegreen
      @abbeyrosegreen ปีที่แล้ว +4

      In the comments for this question! I’ve never heard of a tradition that didn’t baptize so my curiosity was piqued. Would love to hear more explanation!♥️

    • @lisastahl6603
      @lisastahl6603 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wondering too 😊

    • @beccacarson116
      @beccacarson116 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Respectfully wondering too. One year out from being baptized and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made.

    • @shiftingbabe3947
      @shiftingbabe3947 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ephesians 1:13-14
      In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory
      John 3:16
      Ephesians 2:8
      Just Google bible verses about how to be saved. Be blessed ❤️

  • @chelseacollins4723
    @chelseacollins4723 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It is hard to find like-minded, reformed-ish, young couples who have the same goals as my husband and I have. You both seem to be so similar to my husband and I, and parent similarly; I really appreciate and enjoy your TH-cam channel and podcast! Thanks for sharing!

    • @chelseacollins4723
      @chelseacollins4723 ปีที่แล้ว

      Edit to add: Sovereign Grace Music, Shane and Shane, Cityalight etc, Slugs and Bugs…the only music we play!

  • @ABeautifulHorizonTV
    @ABeautifulHorizonTV ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for talking about children's church and baptism. I enjoyed hearing your thoughts, as I have been thinking about these topics as well. 💖

  • @wolf_bridge5114
    @wolf_bridge5114 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your realness and how you want to learn and grow in Christ. Seems to be a rare quality where we live. Wish you guys lived near us. Your channels are so encouraging and helpful!! God bless you and also give you wisdom in regard to protecting your beautiful little ones on the internet and when to exit them from utube! Xxx❤

  • @cassidy1611
    @cassidy1611 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On the topic of modesty, I think a lot of christian’s and even pastors talk a lot about how we should dress modestly, but what goes hand and hand with that is that we need to cover our nakedness and that isn’t common to talk about, but the bible says it’s a sin to look on someone’s nakedness and nakedness in the bible is defined as your loins to your knees and that is very important that we dress and cover that skin!!

  • @Clutterfreecarli
    @Clutterfreecarli ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you guys so very much for all you do! Honestly, the Lord has used you both in such a big way. I feel He has challenged me so much in my own walk and spurred me on in my faith! I will go leave a review on the podcast too! ❤

  • @katie8325
    @katie8325 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Feminism isn’t about asking women to do double duty of anything. It’s about choice. It’s thanks to feminism that Katie is able to sit up there with a microphone and freely express her opinion.

  • @aliciawarren257
    @aliciawarren257 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m thankful for you guys. Talking about being away from family hit at home for me as those feelings of needing quality time in my relationships and I come from a big family too. I need that but I don’t get that.

  • @annamariedenny
    @annamariedenny ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A few months back one of your videos popped up, so occasionally I’ll check them out! Then I heard in this one that you all are in north Idaho…my husband and our 4 kids moved to the Post Falls/Coeur d’alene area in 2021. We are traditional Catholics. I’m sure we’d have some very interesting conversations about religion. 😅 But I love your focus on the family!

    • @Maverick-zy7yu
      @Maverick-zy7yu ปีที่แล้ว

      Traditional Catholic here too 🤍

  • @erikacook3056
    @erikacook3056 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Entire families were baptized in scripture. “This promise is for you and your children” Acts 2:39
    If babies were welcomed into the old covenant, I gotta believe they are still welcomed into the new, since the new includes more people.
    I love your podcast!

    • @hartleyfamily5451
      @hartleyfamily5451 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Erika Cook: I absolutely agree with you that children are welcomed in the new covenant. If people disagree, I mention that- as defined by the Bible- God is love,” and rejecting children would not be love. Our kids are memorizing Acts 2:38-39 right now (so I’ve been hearing it on repeat, lol), and I wanted to respond to your comment. Acts 2:39 is the answer (because it begins with the word “for”) to Acts 2:38. What is the promise? That if a person repents and is baptized in Jesus’ name they “shall” receive the gift of the Holy Ghost which is evidenced by speaking in tongues. Many people today believe that speaking in tongues is one of the gifts of the Spirit or that it was only for the New Testament believers but Acts 2:39 is absolutely clear that this promise is for everyone, generation after generation, etc. I’m so thankful! 🙌

    • @erikacook3056
      @erikacook3056 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am just getting around to seeing your comment. It is hard to wrap my mind around the idea of speaking in tongues not being a gift that the Spirit just decided we didn’t need anymore! I love that your kids are memorizing scripture !

  • @Kimabsher
    @Kimabsher ปีที่แล้ว

    Recently found your channel. Sent it over to my kids that have kiddos. 💕 I love how y’all talk about taking everything you believe back to Gods word… but I got confused today with how you believe in Baptism & wanting to baptize babies or children that haven’t come to the knowledge of needing a Saviour. Please read Acts 8:35-38 This man wanted to be baptized but it was only AFTER he believed with all his heart. Please continue studying this out as I think you will. Praying Gods word will bring clarity to you. ❤

  • @miltoes58
    @miltoes58 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When my children were young, if they wet the bed, we would take them to my brother who is a chiropractor. He would give them an adjustment and that would take care of the problem. He told us that if they had a joint out of place, that was affecting a nerve, that could lead to bed wetting.

  • @katrinasimmons9288
    @katrinasimmons9288 ปีที่แล้ว

    Podcast review completed ✅ I meant to do it a long time ago and kept forgetting. Thanks for the reminder.

  • @Ptly
    @Ptly ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What type of Church do you consider yourselves to be part of? Or is it non-denominational? What about each of your families?

  • @katiem4185
    @katiem4185 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys might like the band Liturgical Folk. Reformed folk music basically. I get their albums on Bandcamp.

  • @kated4359
    @kated4359 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, would you be willing to share where you meet for the Lord’s Day? It sounds like a great church.

  • @erical.k.8858
    @erical.k.8858 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a really good question.. if you treat your children as Christian, then do you allow them to participate in communion? Me and my husband are currently having an ongoing conversation about that.

  • @patriciabellah9392
    @patriciabellah9392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baptism is the first righous work you can do.

  • @keelyokeefe5270
    @keelyokeefe5270 ปีที่แล้ว

    PSA Nickel Creek is putting out new music!!!!

  • @lauralogan3046
    @lauralogan3046 ปีที่แล้ว

    It sounds like you guys could be Anglicans - we baptize infants & kids have children’s church for the first part of the service, but then they join the adults after the Peace for communion ❤️

  • @mattjohnson5489
    @mattjohnson5489 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her braids.

  • @lisajohnson6893
    @lisajohnson6893 ปีที่แล้ว

    I enjoy how you both are open to conversation from different viewpoints of Christianity in order to seek real Truth. Because with God, there is only one Truth, and if it is not true, it is false. “Faith and Reason are like two wings of the human spirit by which it soars to truth.”
    From the very day of Pentecost, the church has celebrated and administered holy baptism. Indeed Peter declares to the crowd, astounded by his preaching “repent, and be baptized EVERY ONE of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you shall receive the GIFT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT.” The apostles & their collaborators offered baptism to anyone who believed in Jesus. Always baptism is seen as connected with faith: believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved you AND your household, Paul declared to his jailer in Filippi. The jailer was baptized at once, with all his family.
    Katie, I believe you’re right you are not saved only by baptism. But it is an initiation into the Christian life. To deny children, the gift of baptism, we deny them gifts of the Holy Spirit. Which leads to contemplation of why our world is in so much pain…have we as parents refused the right to so many souls gifts of the Holy Spirit for several decades because of lack of baptism of infants and children (the idea of not baptizing infants is a modern ideology) . So many have grown up, and as a consequence, never have been baptized into the Christian life….Anyway, like you both said, this topic is so rich it could go on forever. I have been enjoying your account. Where I am weak, I take little tidbits from your strengths to better me as a homeschool momma of 5. God Bless you both. 💕🙏🏼

  • @actmrhata5079
    @actmrhata5079 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol I live 2 blocks from my parents. My child is 4 years old and I’ve probably left her with them for less than a total of 30 hours in her entire life. All combined.
    We just take her everywhere with us, with few exceptions

  • @annielouise5048
    @annielouise5048 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is random but I love that pink robe you’ve worn in several photos! I’m pregnant with baby #5 and would love a warm cozy robe for nighttime feedings . Would love to know where you got that one and a quality maternity clothes store! I figure with your family experience you’d know a few !

  • @mariaL307
    @mariaL307 ปีที่แล้ว

    What were some of the questions the pastor asked your son? Id like to probe some of those questions with my own kiddos!

  • @patriciabellah9392
    @patriciabellah9392 ปีที่แล้ว

    A man came home from work and found his three children outside, still in their pajamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn all around the front yard. The door of his wife’s car was open, as was the front door to the house and there was no sign of the dog.
    Proceeding into the entry, he found an even bigger mess. A lamp had been knocked over, and the throw rug was wadded against one wall. In the front room the TV was loudly blaring a cartoon channel, and the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing. In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door.
    He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened. He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door. As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls.
    As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pajamas, reading a novel. She looked up at him, smiled, and asked how his day went. He looked at her bewildered and asked, ‘What happened here today?’
    She again smiled and answered, “You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world I do all day?”
    “Yes,” was his incredulous reply.
    She answered, “Well, today I didn’t do it." 😁
    Follow us The Astonishing Planet Earth

  • @potluck712
    @potluck712 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don’t know how old you guys are but I’d imagine around 26-30ish? I still just don’t understand how Katie has had so many children and looks so amazing. She’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen. I’m a lady, not a man trying to hit on her btw 🤣 her genetics must be amazing!

    • @erikacook3056
      @erikacook3056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s beautiful! Have you seen her parents? She’s got great genes and takes care of herself. It’s inspiring! It helps motivate me lol

  • @MelissaJohnson212
    @MelissaJohnson212 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where do u get the songs Classical Conversations? I've been trying to find them.

  • @paulanix7561
    @paulanix7561 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Would Jesus get a tattoo?

  • @americathebeautiful9613
    @americathebeautiful9613 ปีที่แล้ว

    You may find this interesting with the baptism topic LOL my faith as a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints ( probably some of those in Northern Idaho haha) We do some of our worship in temples -- we get married in them (sealed for eternity (our doctrine is that God - Heavenly Father and Heavenly Mother are the literal parents of our spirits and we are all literal spirit brothers and sisters -- we only pray to Heavenly Father though) and through Christ and as a married couple we have potential to eventually become like our Heavenly Parents. Anyway we get married in the temples but also perform baptisms for the dead acting as a proxy for people who have died without knowing Christ can then be taught in the spirit realm and have the opportunity to accept Christ BEFORE Judgement day so we believe spirits of our dead brothers and sister who did not get the opportunity to receive Christ while in the flesh get that opportunity in the spirit realm before judgement day. The Millenium we believe will be filled with this type of work b4 judgement. Anyway I agree and love Katie's perspective that it is Christ and not the act of baptism that saves us I also think Christ is showing us to get baptized by his example when he was baptized and we believe everyone will have that opportunity to accept Him and His gospel b4 judgement -- equal opportunity not equal outcome . (people who already accept Christ in the flesh and then die become missionaries in the spirit realm and teach those you never had that chance)

  • @letthewordspeakministries888
    @letthewordspeakministries888 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Read Leviticus 19:28 and consider we are made in His image. We are the temple of the Holy Spirit do we want graffiti on our church buildings? Read 1 Corinthians 3:16-17. Remember WWJD what would Jesus do? Would He get a tattoo?

    • @claudia_christianmommy
      @claudia_christianmommy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe Jesus would to make a point if it meant that people were teaching Christians that getting a tattoo means your going to hell.

    • @millennial_homestead
      @millennial_homestead ปีที่แล้ว

      @@claudia_christianmommy absolutely. I have a tattoo, 1, and Jesus doesn’t love me any less. I think it’s silly that some condemn and judge people for things like tattoos when Jesus wouldn’t.

  • @kaynabrogden8149
    @kaynabrogden8149 ปีที่แล้ว

    Baptism is the outward expression of an inward choice. I've heard it said as a coming out as a Christian.
    1Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14

  • @bethany3914
    @bethany3914 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do you feel like your 6 year is accountable for his sin, though? 6 year olds are so changeable...

    • @cassidy1611
      @cassidy1611 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My pastor has a really good analogy on when you can tell your child is at the age of accountability. If you have children, you know that at bath time or whenever they don’t have clothes on, they have no shame to run around naked or aren’t ashamed if mom or dad or anybody sees them like that. When they realize their nakedness, that’s a good indicator that they’re at the age of accountability. It also mirrors the story or Adam and Eve and they knew they were naked once they ate of the fruit of the tree! So it’s really different for all children, but I would say some, if not most 6 year olds are hitting the age of accountability.

  • @glendaakers7528
    @glendaakers7528 ปีที่แล้ว

    Our bodies are Holy unto the Lord. Tattoos are taboo for a Christian.

  • @HB-wn4mb
    @HB-wn4mb ปีที่แล้ว

    It's weird that a Bible believing church wouldn't baptize when the Bible says it's the first step of obedience.

  • @lindseybast2888
    @lindseybast2888 ปีที่แล้ว

    She is obviously so hungry and not into this at all 😂