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  • @hollygustin
    @hollygustin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    “‘Mom dad and Jimmy please click out” i love it 🤣🤣

  • @terajones3585
    @terajones3585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    "I've used Handcuffs" Well. Larry was a police officer 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ashleykinney4961
    @ashleykinney4961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Morning mindy!! My dad raised me and I had my period and he didn’t make it awkward at all. Praise all the single dads dealing with that phase. Xoxo love you!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      This melts my heart! Xoxo and love you too!

    • @roxanaconception
      @roxanaconception 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree... same with me....I miss my dad.

    • @Iwouldloveavacation
      @Iwouldloveavacation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My dad would ALWAYS go to the store and get me supplies when I needed them, I NEVER felt weird talking with my dad.

    • @adelakrso1568
      @adelakrso1568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Iwouldloveavacation same here. He used to buy me pads… and it wasn’t awkward at all. 😊

  • @thebookwormteacher
    @thebookwormteacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I teared up when Larry said the analogy of your most precious thing. I was in a very mentally, emotionally abusive marriage for 10+ years (which Jesus helped me through and got me out of) and I dream of having a husband like Larry. He doesn’t have a single brother/carbon copy somewhere, does he?
    Please Jesus, send me Larry 2.0!

    • @thebookwormteacher
      @thebookwormteacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@harper_anne2089 what a sweetheart you are! Thank you for the prayers! God is amazing and I know He will bring me someone wonderful if it’s His will that I remarry :)

    • @jclaireable
      @jclaireable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just reaching out to let you know you're not alone.

    • @thebookwormteacher
      @thebookwormteacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jclaireable you’re very kind ❤️

    • @thebookwormteacher
      @thebookwormteacher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Kitnmitns thank you sweetheart!

    • @candacemorrison1204
      @candacemorrison1204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I hope you find your “ Larry” 💕

  • @christineo7930
    @christineo7930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

    Boyfriends demanding sex can and will hurt your sexlife down the road, nothing kills libido as much as preassure 🤯. With that said, in a loving and accepting relationsship, the lust comes and goes and that’s NORMAL! Thanks for talking about this stuff! ❤️❤️

    • @cjanderson6941
      @cjanderson6941 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true!

    • @Tootsie-yj1rz
      @Tootsie-yj1rz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes and it’s more of a chore than an enjoyable experience.

  • @ashtonsplan
    @ashtonsplan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    So is Larry on call for dad/daughter advice! Speaking as someone who doesn’t have communication with their dad... that advice was heartfelt! 🥰🥰 you got a good one Mindy!

  • @annetterennee5617
    @annetterennee5617 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Hearing one of my favorite youtubers talk about having a low sex drive makes me feel so much less alone!! I’m 27 and question all the time what is wrong with me. I hate the stigma with it. Seriously you aren’t alone in struggling with it and it’s awesome that you’re opening up about it!!

    • @alundriaswelt2806
      @alundriaswelt2806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      maybe you havent enough sexual hormons. bioidentical progesterone can maybe help you :)

  • @kaylarose9446
    @kaylarose9446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Also, I’m a 33 year old woman, married with three kids. I love Jesus, but I was raised to think sexy topics were so wrong. I cannot praise you enough for making this.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Aw thank you darling. I'm hoping this video will help many people ❤️

    • @lisapitts2011
      @lisapitts2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      bring up and communicating those thoughts wi l l and does help make your marriage stronger and can bring you closer =)

    • @bambio9686
      @bambio9686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's too bad the bible says the bed is Undefiled meaning nothing is off limits😅
      ( between married couples )
      have fun 😀

  • @amyj5607
    @amyj5607 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I died laughing when Larry came and started giving advice on being pressured. Such great advice and I agree , Mindy , He would make an awesome gril dad but I laughed out loud cause all we could see was his waist down....lol

    • @annahughes5631
      @annahughes5631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agree! Loved how he had his hands on his hips too, so matter of fact. Such a genuine person ☺️ We love you Larry!! 🙌🏻

  • @erikao3982
    @erikao3982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Larry’s advice!! I am crying, he is so sweet!! 🥺

  • @BeverlyHostetler
    @BeverlyHostetler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love Larry’s advice to girls about not being pressured, he used such a great analogy! Also his input about stretch marks was so sweet. You two make a cute couple!

  • @OhLatte
    @OhLatte 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I feel like everyone in this channel is a mom to me lol Im 16 and I only have my dad, I feel comfy with him but it’s just not the same you know?

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Aw bless your heart, I'm so happy you have your Dad I am sure he's doing an amazing job. I'm glad you have us on this channel to go to as well. hugs to you my love 🤗

    • @444_Butterfly
      @444_Butterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I’m here too if you need someone!

    • @juliemiller4288
      @juliemiller4288 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Feel free to message me to if you need any advice or questions 🥰🥰

    • @Latvian07
      @Latvian07 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Feel free to talk to me too

    • @tiffanymcgowen3756
      @tiffanymcgowen3756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Awe sweetie I have 3 daughters if you have any questions reach out. We got you. Call us virtual TH-cam moms lol

  • @laurawalker9968
    @laurawalker9968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Never used the cup, but a friend told me it’s an absolute mess. Don’t have to change it much but when she did it had to be in the shower.
    And Larry, join us next time! Those moments you came over, you had some great words to offer🥰

    • @elizabethg2062
      @elizabethg2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just started using one about 3 months ago and I love it, but I only use it at home and not when I'm out running errands. There is a learning curve with the cup, but once you figure it out it's a dream. No unnecessary waste and you end up saving a lot of money

    • @megalopolis2015
      @megalopolis2015 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Squatting over the toilet is the way to go with those.

    • @jenpicou77
      @jenpicou77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I only use a cup exclusively...you need to learn the best way to insert and remove for you...but once you figure it out...they are fantastic!

    • @elizabethg2062
      @elizabethg2062 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jenpicou77 I just find it a pain when using public restrooms, because pf a shared sink outside of the stalls. However I've heard of keeping a bottle of water in your purse to rinse it off or even baby wipes. If you don't mind me asking, how do you clean yours in public? I would love use mine exclusively.

    • @jenpicou77
      @jenpicou77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elizabethg2062 honestly I've only had to empty it once in public...I find that I can go 8-10 hours without emptying it...the one time I had to, I just wiped it with a baby wipe.

  • @weatherholtzrobyn
    @weatherholtzrobyn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Awww you guys are going to be amazing parents! Larry’s advice at the end was the sweetest thing ever!! ❤️

  • @terajones3585
    @terajones3585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Larry's remark is what my husband has said. Made me tear up. We all love you Larry!

  • @jessicamullins7815
    @jessicamullins7815 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok, loved this video. As a 44 yr old, married, mom of 3, your example of what a husband/boyfriend should be is on point! So open, and non judgemental, on all fronts. FABULOUS!❤

  • @elisapereira1637
    @elisapereira1637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hi Mindy I'm glad the low sex drive came up. I'm going to be 39 this July and my sex drive has been pretty much non-existent since I was about 25. It does fluctuate but, most of the time I have no will. I have spoken to my Dr about it she did say it could be my medications as well as my age😩 luckily my guy is like Larry, he doesn't pressure me. This feels like talking to a friend!

  • @Niqueena1
    @Niqueena1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I wish menstrual cups were more commonly talked about. They're life changing imo! I've been using them for about 5 years. I recently found the June cup. Way less expensive, but just as effective as the diva cup! I'm Super heavy! I would go through a dozen tampons in a day. I'm a huge advocate for them! A little bit of a learning curve, but so worth it! Great video!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I need to try!!!!! Thank you for sharing!

    • @hayleypollard2974
      @hayleypollard2974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have been saying for years im going to try one. I must put this on my to do list

    • @melaniegriesemer
      @melaniegriesemer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YES I started using a diva cup last year and I was SO grateful to be working from home to get through that learning curve, it’s so worth it now that I’m used to it I cannot recommend it enough!

    • @azucenavarin4504
      @azucenavarin4504 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been using Saalt for almost a year and I agree they are great! 👍🏼👍🏼

    • @tjc2121
      @tjc2121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I just got the june cups. They are on sale now for $6. Haven't tried them out yet....I'm nervous about it being uncomfy/leaking. But on my next period I'm gonna woman up and try them bc I hear how so many people love them and say they are the best thing out there.

  • @kissofdeathbeckajoybells9187
    @kissofdeathbeckajoybells9187 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gosh I'm speechless, totally cried Larry is so sweet he's going to make such a good daddy such best advice~
    Love you Mindy & Larry!

  • @lindsaymiller6361
    @lindsaymiller6361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    When you held up the Dove soap bar I was like "omg we are the same!" LOL. I thought I was the only one who used that stuff. But years ago my OBGYN told me just warm water should be all you need but if I do feel better using soap she recommended the Dove soap bar and a few others I can't remember now but yeah. The Dove bar is very safe and gentle and does the job. I also use it to lather up before I shave.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s the best!!!

  • @olgapolygalova5369
    @olgapolygalova5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I use sugar for brazilian)))! no ingrowth hair, no irritation! its painful for the first 2-3 times, than its ok. Just make sure to do that regular. After 2-3 years you will have twice less hair. By the way: i do it myself!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks for sharing love 🤗

    • @Ashley-ih2ym
      @Ashley-ih2ym 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      where do you get the stuff to do it yourself???

    • @olgapolygalova5369
      @olgapolygalova5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Ashley-ih2ym i am from russia so i can get in a store for cosmetologist, hairdressers, etc like professional stuff. You can find in on amazon in US or maybe in the same type of store.

    • @olgapolygalova5369
      @olgapolygalova5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jesssnlee you are right! A lot of my friends do but... They keep doing it on regular basis 2-3 times a year and they pay like 200$. They still have some hair and use razor. I am not sure we have high quality razors in russia. As sugaring:
      1. Jar costs 25$ small amount and it lasts longer than a year!
      2. I hate razors... I shaved bikini zone once in my life and it was horrible! I got sooo itchy. But that is what you have to do before lasor

    • @hannahtanner6719
      @hannahtanner6719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I second the Sugar wax!! There is a difference in the sugar and hard wax! It doesn't make it painless, but a lot less pain with sugar! I love it!

  • @morganwilliams2472
    @morganwilliams2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I remember going into a empty classroom while at school and laying in the floor with my cramps. 😭 Thankfully having a baby has helped a lot with my cramps.

  • @lenableacher2274
    @lenableacher2274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On the coconut oil, YES!!! Since my hysterectomy we I have had horrible pain so my dr said to use coconut oil NOT regular store lubricants. It’s natural and works so much better for us!🙂

  • @lauramatus5874
    @lauramatus5874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mindy what a great job you have done. Growing up, all of these topics would have been considered a taboo in my house. Like you I used to suffer horrible periods. I would go up to four months of not getting a period, but when it arrived watch out. I would roll all over the bed in pain, throw-up, suffer from diarrhea, blood clots, horrible migraines and on a couple of occasions I even passed out from the pain. When my mom took me to the doctor he suggested “the pill”. My mom told me no. She said good girls don’t take the pill. When I turned 19 I went on my own and got myself on the pill. My mom found them and called me a whore. Our relationship was never the same.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aw Laura this breaks my heart🥺 I think bringing these topics to light is extremely important for this reason. There is a huge misconception on why women take birth control and it’s only to prevent pregnancy but it’s not. We take it for acne & to improve our period pain, however if we choose to take birth control to prevent pregnancy that is our personal choice and we are right to do so and nobody should be shamed for that.
      Sending you love & hugs❤️

  • @angelahenning3467
    @angelahenning3467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mindy I just love you. I love how sweet and sincere you are and how upfront and honest you are! I have watched TH-cam for many years and you are definitely one of the few more real youtubers out there. You're very relatable and listening to you feels like listening to a friend. Lary is so a great guy. What he said about giving yourself away was so sweet and such great advice to all the young women watching. Thank you both for being such great people and a great source for advice and encouragement!

  • @MsAmanda778
    @MsAmanda778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I trust your advice 100% ! I never really had those talks with anyone it was always so taboo. You and Larry will be the most amazing supportive parents!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aw thank you 🤗

  • @fannytan3429
    @fannytan3429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    i've always preferred pads for me tbh, never bothered with a tampon. just depends on what the person prefers! :DDD
    thank you for this chit chat mindy! i hope you all are doing well :DD

  • @CestLeVie33
    @CestLeVie33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love this vlog!! We need more public figures/influencers to normalize talking about these types of topics. We all deal with these things and shouldn’t be embarrassed to discuss and share tips!Awesome job!! ❤️

  • @KellieJo93
    @KellieJo93 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Morning Minxers. This vlog is great. I don't talk to my mom about this stuff. Thanks for being the person that is not ashamed to touch these topics.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aw you're very welcome my love, here for you 🤗

  • @audrygaddis2293
    @audrygaddis2293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how Larry came in at the perfect moments to give the perfect advice to people so many women should see this especially younger women like teenagers I hope a lot of people come across this video cuz you gave so much good advice

  • @cindywinn
    @cindywinn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Menstrual cups are amazing!! I've been using mine for over three years and have not bought any pads or tampons since then. They do come in different sizes if you tend to have a heavier flow. I absolutely love mine, and it can be inserted up to 12 hours a day which makes things so much easier. Yes, you just fold the cup and insert it in. It's going to be a little weird or uncomfortable the first few times using it but once you know what works for you.. you're going to love it! I highly recommened. I put a couple of friends on it and they never went back! I purchased the Lena Cup from Amazon! I hope that helps 😊
    Love your videos Mindy!!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for sharing, this is very insightful!

    • @chelseyweber8089
      @chelseyweber8089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for saying it's uncomfortable the first few times. I tried one for the first time last night and it was so uncomfortable! This gives me hope it'll get better eventually!

    • @RavenclawsUnite
      @RavenclawsUnite 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chelseyweber8089 it takes time for your body to get used to it, but it if continues to be uncomfortable you may have too large of a size in. If you haven't yet, look up June brand. They sell their cups at cost, so around $6-9 each which makes it easier to purchase multiple sizes to try out. It can depend on the height of your cervix mid cycle too, i always have a day or 2 where my cervix is super low and makes the cup too uncomfortable to wear. But the other days are super comfortable with no issues.

  • @ABA-zv7xb
    @ABA-zv7xb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have a genetic blood clotting disorder, where the protein that helps stop your blood from clotting just doesn’t work well, so I have INSANE clotting during my periods. I can’t use tampons at all or I will have an accident on my pants. I feel you on the clotting thing. It also makes your cramps more intense because your crevix is having to dilate more to pass it. ❤️

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for sharing, I felt the same way with my periods, tampons will be a catastrophe for my pants so pads it is. I'm sorry your periods are so painful, I know its not fun. Hugs 🤗

  • @lturnage09
    @lturnage09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve never felt so close to a person that I don’t even know! I’ve watched you for years and absolutely adore you. You’re amazing and keep bringing us this great content💗💗

  • @twitch.0230
    @twitch.0230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly it was nice to hear someone else openly talk about their periods and cramps. I had to get my periods blocked using hormones because mine got so bad that I was being sick from pain and I know exactly how you feel rolling around uncontrollably in agony. It’s been 4 years since starting my period blocker and I’ve decided to stop them, I don’t think it’s something I want to be on long term and I also want to start the process of getting my fertility back and starting to think about a family so I’m praying they are more manageable now

  • @andreasummers1955
    @andreasummers1955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    THANK YOU for being so honest! I’m 28 and I have a low sex drive. I usually blame it on being tired since I’m a preschool teacher but it’s nice to know that I am not alone!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You're not alone my love 🤗

    • @theresa9925
      @theresa9925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is nice to know we are not alone! FYI... I heard that a woman's largest sex organ is her brain...that explained so much to me! It is so hard for women to turn the brains off!

  • @ashleytextor7347
    @ashleytextor7347 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 22 and my husband is 54 we have 2 beautiful girls together, a 3 year old and a 3 month old. Ever since we’ve been together his sex drive it just off the charts I’m talking every day sometimes twice a day he had a stroke back in 2019 and he is paralyzed on his left side of the body but his sex drive is still the SAME! But mine is VERY low. But thank goodness he is very understanding and doesn’t demand! Please continue to do these types of videos, they are helpful to me since I’m in an age capped relationship as well.

  • @meagancurlz
    @meagancurlz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Yay so excited about this thanks for being so comfortable enough to answer these(: Love you mindy 😊💜

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love you too!

  • @TheDisneyLibra
    @TheDisneyLibra 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Can you please make another video like this?? I didn’t know how deep you were going to get and didn’t ask more because I didn’t think it would be this real! 💕💕💕

  • @susanclasen9706
    @susanclasen9706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mindy, you have no idea how much I enjoyed this girl talk! As an only girl with 7 brothers and an " old school mom" who was a farm wife. So not a lot of female questions were answered with the soft touch like you! I'm 55 but still learning. Thank you!

  • @melindacassady8317
    @melindacassady8317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love that you did this video ! I know as a young women I had questions and no one to talk to so this is amazing for young women or older women , maybe just curious women that really don’t feel comfortable talking to someone they know ! You are an amazing young women Mindy and you are appreciated! Sending love ❤️

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You made my day, thank you so much ❤️

    • @melindacassady8317
      @melindacassady8317 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MindyMinx you are more than welcome , your such a giving , loving , caring person ! I’m so glad I found you on here you often make my days and give me motivation to keep pushing , you have no idea ! My husband is 21 years older than me and we have made it through some tough times with your advice and help ! You are truly appreciated!

  • @kerrydrinkuth0216
    @kerrydrinkuth0216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mindy you are an incredible woman and human. Going online to be vulnerable like this just to help other girls and women who have questions or may not be comfortable asking someone they know these things. I am older than you but still look up to you as a person and woman. You are beautiful inside and out. Much love to you and your incredibly kind sweet husband Larry.

  • @JailynnA-qe9ge
    @JailynnA-qe9ge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So excited for this vlog!! You are the best Mindy!!

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks lovely!

  • @nicolespear7446
    @nicolespear7446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Use organic tampons! The chemicals in your body from regular tampons can mess up fertility and increase cramps 😞

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you for sharing, I was unaware of this 🤗

    • @squarek27
      @squarek27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They're are some bad/deadly reactions some people have had from organic tampons! I seen a girl talk about her experience on TH-cam....I would be careful

    • @BhappyD
      @BhappyD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@squarek27 I’ve seen/heard that as well. Makes me nervous to try the organic ones. I’m already not the biggest fan of tampons anyway, and only use them maybe once or twice each cycle, if at all. My body is super sensitive to them, and I’ll start getting light headed if I don’t take it out before the 5-6 hour mark. I don’t really understand why it happens to me, as I’ve never heard other women talk about it. It’s never developed into TSS, so it’s not that there’s an infection. Soon as I take it out, the light headedness fades away. Just my body being weird, sensitive and difficult, per usual lol.

    • @squarek27
      @squarek27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BhappyD I used to use regular tampons as well but never liked them and yes hearing about TSS and stuff made me really not like them....I use the Lunette menstrual cup for yrs now and it's so much better! If you try a cup and get used to inserting it and removing it you won't ever go back! I did a lot of research yrs ago and cups are pretty safe... I've not had any issues and I am sensitive to things to.

    • @kynsey1435
      @kynsey1435 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second this! Once I switched to organic tampons I had significantly less cramping & lighter flow! So crazy

  • @kerriannefudge3269
    @kerriannefudge3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video. I'm 50 and was so glad to hear that others also have a low sex drive that are much younger than me. I thought I was just weird because I've been like this for many years. Larry would make a great girl dad. I also feel stretch marks are natural and beautiful no matter if it is from having children or not. Love all the great advice. ❤

  • @andreamai6286
    @andreamai6286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mindy!! Have you looked into having a short luteal phase?? You mentioned that your cycles were only 3 weeks long - while that is fairly normal, it *could* mean that your luteal phase (period of time between ovulation and the beginning of your next cycle) is too short. It can affect your ability to get pregnant! I have a short luteal phase and I definitely think it was a reason for my difficulty of getting pregnant. There are things you can do to extend it. Just a thought :) thanks for another great video!

    • @alundriaswelt2806
      @alundriaswelt2806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right. Progesterone is very important if you want to be pregnant. There are good books, that can help to understand, how it works. What i mean is bioidentical progesterone. Not synthetic. :)

  • @heatherk1321
    @heatherk1321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thought I had a low sex drive for years. To where I thought I could go the rest of my life without it. Now looking back I think it was all due to my environment, and mental health. Now that I’m with an amazing partner (I’m also in a 28 year age gap) and my mental health has improved tremendously my sex drive is through the freakin roof! Which is completely new to me. 💛

    • @heatherk1321
      @heatherk1321 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also I’m about to be 26 and was with a boyfriend from like 20-22 and I HATED the idea of sex, when a lot of girls my age were going crazy.

  • @Debra072
    @Debra072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh lord you had me laughing when you showed how to shave lol 😂

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Gotta get that visual in my younger viewers that are trying to shave🤗

  • @jennawoodard893
    @jennawoodard893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved Larry popping in at the end. He’s such a great man! You’re right mindy he’d be the BEST girl dad!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Why19501
    @Why19501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awww thank Larry for the great advice! I’m 43 and guys still put pressure on me. It never ends, dating is awful. I do the Steve Harvey 90 day rule-I’ll probably be single forever

  • @faithfulhouse
    @faithfulhouse 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Totally TMI but I'm going to put it all out there... In the past I myself have waxed my husband downstairs because he wanted it done but felt awkward getting it done by a stranger & he once took out my IUD because I was bleeding horribly & my dr wanted me to keep it in another 2 month's to see if it calmed down. Umm no thank you! I will also stress this to you. DO NOT DO A MEDICAL PROCEDURE AT HOME. Please go yo your dr or find a dr that's willing to help you out. Communication is KEY in any relationship. You NEED to be open, honest, & communicate to keep your relationship strong & healthy. Awesome video!

  • @cassandrak9890
    @cassandrak9890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have tried 3 different cups…. Diva cup, saalt cup, and now finally the Flex cup. The flex is by far the best. They have an actual pull tab that breaks the seal in the cup, makes it soooo much easier to remove and less stress/freaking out that it won’t come out 😭
    Also read the directions & follow them as best you can. Make sure the cup is fully opened inside as well! The tip of running your finger along the outside of the cup inside you to make sure it’s sealed was so so helpful!!

  • @daniellesmith1061
    @daniellesmith1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love how open and honest you are ❤ I have always had horrible periods. Since about 13 I was on birth control to try and control them. My mid twenties they became unbearable. Huge blood clots...could feel them detaching. Just awful. At one point I bled for 6 months some days very light some days not so much. I ended up needed a blood transfusion. I've since had an IUD. And it has literally saved me. I think it's so important for us women to share our stories and experiences!

  • @kenzaplenty
    @kenzaplenty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I love headless Larry giving his advice 😂 good morning!

  • @LP-km7gj
    @LP-km7gj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I struggle a lot with my body image. Until my mid 20s I was very thin 5’6” 125 lbs. I gained 60 pounds at times more than 60. I have been living carb and sugar free since January and I have lost 20 pounds but I still have a LOT of cellulite on the front and back of my legs. Ugh stresses me out. If it was just the back of my legs I wouldn’t care but the front of my legs really bothers me. I made the mistake of placing a lot of my worth on my looks when I was younger and as an almost 35 year old woman who is starting to show signs of aging, it really takes a toll on me. Younger women PLEASE don’t make this mistake because you are so much more than a pretty face. Btw love this real and juicy vlog!!!!

  • @northernandrea
    @northernandrea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The world needs more Larrys!! 🥺

  • @jessicadonato887
    @jessicadonato887 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wujuuu....we definitely need a Part 2, 3, 4 and so on 😂♥️😂😂

  • @stephaniew7330
    @stephaniew7330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good Morning Mindy. Sending so much love from AZ. Larry had the best advice. I feel like sometimes parents don't have that talk with boys about boundaries. We need to respect and love our bodies as women.

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good Morning!

  • @hannahwatts914
    @hannahwatts914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You are so open and honest! I love you

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Always, Love you too!

  • @petra2366
    @petra2366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I put off trying me new cup for almost a year. But I have used it for my last two periods, and it is amazing. No leaks, easy to remove, really comfortable, and has never moved up from where I'd put it in. This cup truly is amazing! I used to use tempons during the day and pads at night. I'd still get leaks at night sometimes, even with extra long over night pads with wings. And then you have to keep tempons in your purse and change them during the day, and make sure you haven't forgotten to carry them or used up the last ones in the cupboard last month. So much easier now. No leaks and having to get blood stains out of sheets and clothes, no remembering to buy/bring tempons, no taking up half the bathroom cupboard with all different things I used - liners, light pads, overnight pads, super tempons, regular tempons - Now I just have liners and my cup - no gross, smelly used pads/tempons to dispose of, way less waste throwing away all that plastic and plastic packaging. And cups are really discreet. No need to have period products in your bag, bathroom or bin. Great for being intimate with your partner at that time of the month too - you don't have pads stuck to your underwear or a string there. So you can get naked and play around, then take the cup out if you want to make space for something else!

  • @maar8314
    @maar8314 ปีที่แล้ว

    What Larry said at the end of this, wow. Truly amazing to have people like him in this world!

  • @makailadesiree8139
    @makailadesiree8139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love You Mindy ,I always look forward to every upload 💕☺️

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love you too Sis!

  • @kaylarose9446
    @kaylarose9446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Last comment I promise 🤣🤣🤣 my degree is in therapy, so I’m all about topics like this LOL. Thank you for also using the word vagina, because that is so important to teach children what their body parts are actually called and that they are not dirty words. So many people teach that it is so dirty to use the correct words, mind you I was raised in the Bible Belt. Again, I love Jesus, but I think that so many issues occur when these topics are considered taboo. The end lol. Love to you and Larry!!! Xoxox. ❤️

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for this comment!!!! 🤗 ❤️

  • @dominiquebates7366
    @dominiquebates7366 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have pcos and it's by far the worst. I can go months without a period, but when I do omg they are horrible. I can have the worst cramps and not have a period. I will say I'm thankful to be blessed with three kids. My last pregnancy I didn't know I was pregnant because of the no period thing. She is our first baby girl in October she will be 1. Praying for you and Larry on baby journey!!! Have a great weekend. 😊

  • @MandaFandaa
    @MandaFandaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve been watching y’all for so long that when you mention the age gap I’m like oh I forgot about that. 😂

  • @cheesychickensmile
    @cheesychickensmile 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lot of people have already said it so I will add mine to theirs, Larry's advice was perfect and tear jerking and sweet. I also wanted to say thank you for being so real and honest and not adding any sponsers to this video, like you can tell you legit use those products. There are so many videos of this is what i use and then bam it is a brand new bottle and what you know they're sponsoring the video too! So thank you for being so genuine and for discussing all these topics!!

  • @elisemarinella8035
    @elisemarinella8035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I appreciate how real you are! your videos make me so very happy 🥰

    • @MindyMinx
      @MindyMinx  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks lovely 🤗

  • @sherylgreen1251
    @sherylgreen1251 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im 50 years old and I have been learning to love myself and im still learning to love myself after 30years I have been single and I have finally found myself a wonderful man who loves me for myself i have a road map of stretch marks on my body parts im proud of them and Larry is right thank you Larry and Mindy

  • @lisavallejo9375
    @lisavallejo9375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Larry is going to be such an amazing dad (again) 🥰 thank you for your input and thank you for being open, both of you!!

  • @melaniegriesemer
    @melaniegriesemer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the “family, please click out of this video” message at the beginning 😂😂😂

  • @marymartin6719
    @marymartin6719 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who also has super heavy periods, the menstrual cup is honestly a godsend! I use the lunette cup because they have different two sizes and I bought the larger one. You can keep it in for up to 12 hours (but I usually have to empty it more frequently on my heavy flow days) and reuse it over and over! I’ve had mine now for over 5 years and I can’t believe I used so many tampons before. I strongly recommend it!!!

  • @thatVEGANmama
    @thatVEGANmama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aww Larry i just want to give you a big hug 😍
    What such wonderful advice to everyone out there ❤
    He would make a fantastic life coach x

  • @Maverick-zy7yu
    @Maverick-zy7yu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I resorted to organic pads to let my body do it’s thing properly, I also cut out refined sugar and carbs and boy was it life changing! No more excruciating cramps at all! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @SoCalCaitlin14
    @SoCalCaitlin14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Menstrual cups are the best! Mine cost $30 and I’ve used it for at least 5 cycles now and it’s paid for itself. It holds way more blood so you don’t have to constantly change it. I personally always change a tampon when I pee, but with a silicon menstrual cup it doesn’t need to be changed as far as it getting soiled. You wipe the little bit that hangs down. The first cycle you need to get used to it, but after that it’s second nature. Some companies also make different sized cups to fit you more naturally. Only “bad” side is you will probably get some blood on your fingers, but that’s what soap and water is for. Hope that helps. Watch a TH-cam tutorial if you need more help.

    • @SoCalCaitlin14
      @SoCalCaitlin14 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Also sometimes I take it out standing in the shower so I can clean myself after. And easy cleanup.

  • @salinayabramyan5709
    @salinayabramyan5709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For really bad cramps, a week before my period I drink one cup raspberry leaf tea and when my period starts I drink two cups and it helps the cramps tremendously! It has no caffeine as well(:

  • @moviemelody2210
    @moviemelody2210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Mindy Minx I know this is super late but for anyone who wants to know: coconut oil is apparently safe to use in place of natural lubricant. I got this information from another TH-camr’s (as well as professional family doctor’s) channel called Dr. Mike where he did a video doing “curbside consultations” (walking up to random strangers and asking them if they had any medical questions) and a woman asked this same question. That being said, I agree with Mindy to double check with your doctor! Anyway, I hope that helps! So happy for you and Larry on your little one Mindy, I know you will be a fantastic mother

  • @emilyhammonds35
    @emilyhammonds35 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have had several Brazilians. My tips are, exfoliate area the night before and day of appointment, make sure you take ibuprofen before your appointment, no caffeine the day of appointment (otherwise it can increase the pain levels) first time will hurt but it's over very quickly, results are worth it!! After each session, the gets better if not very minimal.

  • @crazylicious85
    @crazylicious85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have to use overnight pads the first 3-4 days & take ibuprofen or even NyQuil when cramps are really bad. Occasionally I will get extremely nauseous & sweaty/sick from the pain, but fortunately it’s only every few months that I have really bad cramps like that. I get mine every 28 days…almost exactly most times. Thank you for this video!

  • @kristincapobianco8529
    @kristincapobianco8529 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok. I watch all your videos and love them all but do not usually leave a comment. THIS however deserves one. 👏 Thank you for being a role model to girls and a sister and friend to women. This is real,genuine,and relatable content. You are a wonderful human. ❤ LARRY! WOW! I don't know if it is hormones or Father's Day or what but when you came in with the teddy bear and said what ALL women and girls need to hear....I was crying. That truly touched my heart. Thank you for your service as a police officer and thank you for being a stand up guy. I wish you both all the best in your journey to become parents. Xo

  • @jessicaploss8381
    @jessicaploss8381 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Low libedo here too 🙋🏼‍♀️ I also struggle with terrible cramps on my period to the point that I had to go on birth control originally just to be able to not miss school and work. I also just got my first Brazilian wax this past week. Let me tell you, hurt VERY badly in the moment, but worth it A) because I feel cleaner B) I feel more confident and C) it will help me have less ingrown hairs and the hair will be less coarse over time. 4 days in and it was definitely worth the initial torture.
    THANK YOU for this fantastic video. You are the greatest.

  • @claudiavictorino13
    @claudiavictorino13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mindy I loved this video!! I ❤️ that you’re so honest w/ us & tell us what you’ve been through. So we know we’re not alone about some of the things you talked about! Please do more videos like this!❤️🥰
    Loved when Larry came at the end & said don’t let no one pressure you to do nothing you don’t want to do! Larry is the best! Mindy you got yourself a GREAT HUSBAND!! Also Larry is lucky to have such a sweet wife like you! ❤️🥰

  • @countessofnidaros
    @countessofnidaros 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mindy for being so matter of fact and straightforward on all of these topics. There should never be any shame or judgement in asking the questions and discussing the answers. Thank you for a good old fashioned girl chat!

  • @elainesunflowermbraece
    @elainesunflowermbraece 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I get my Brazilians every 5-6 weeks, it’s the best thing EVERRR! Make sure to get sugaring instead of wax since the results last longer and it leaves you smoother longer. I even get my underarms sugared and also my stomach. I freaking love it! Yes the first time is a bit painful but it gets so much better after! And make sure you’re getting it after your period, before your period it makes it more painful.

  • @lisaann3108
    @lisaann3108 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVED today’s video. Please do another. You have no idea how much it helps to know your not alone with your feelings on many subjects. I literally choked back tears hearing Larry’s ending comment.😢 Much love to both.❤️

  • @kimberlykirby8093
    @kimberlykirby8093 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Larry's advice was so sweet. He is such a great example of how a man should treat a lady❤ And yes loved this whole video.

  • @ellierab5473
    @ellierab5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Laser hair removal literally changed my life! Especially Brazilian and underarms. It’s the best!! It’s also a lot more affordable now then when I did it 10 years ago.
    PS - silicone lube is an absolute game changer!! Way better than coconut oil and other lubes and it doesn’t irritate me at all ( im super sensitive)

  • @brie93
    @brie93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The low libido talk was so comforting. Watched another video where the mom asked what was wrong with her daughter's relationship because they only had sex once a week. Have always felt like something was wrong with me. So thanks for talking about it.

  • @beckybaur7064
    @beckybaur7064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have you ever thought that maybe this is TMI? I do. I don't like the direction you have been going with your channel. This is the kind of stuff you discuss privately, not in a public format. I hope your future child isn't horribly embarrassed by it. I would be.

    • @Alarank
      @Alarank 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you. I love her, but with this video it feels as if she is trying to follow the crowd. The main reason why I enjoy her channel is because she keeps it classy, but this video took it down a notch tbh. Maybe it’s an American thing, but in our culture we keep that stuff private and for good reason, Americans expose way too much and this is why the East thinks of their culture as lacking in morals, and kinda trashy at times.

  • @TabithaCortney
    @TabithaCortney 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who was pressured many times, you regret it down the road. So please don’t let someone talk you into it if you’re not ready! And girl my periods are also SUPER heavy and tampons actually make me cramp more. I was always so insecure about using pads but as I got older I just don’t care what anyone else thinks about it. Loved this video and think you should totally do a “confessions” video or more q&a girl talks.

  • @ej5131
    @ej5131 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it, Mindy! To teenagers.. please take Mindy and Larry's advise; say NO if you do not want to. 1, 2, 3, 4., ect months with someone who is pressuring you is not the reason to say yes. You want that time to be memorable and enjoyable, not looking back and remembering you had a mental breakdown afterwards because of lack of knowledge and preparedness (as I did too).

  • @caitlyn4910
    @caitlyn4910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been using the cup for years, im on my second cup actually, its been more than 5 years then. I know you can get them at places like Whole foods or some pharmacy stores like CVS. I love it, I don't spend as much money and I always have something on hand. I'd say learning curve to feel confident is about 6 months of periods. I also exclusively wore pads beforehand because I never was able to feel comfortable with tampons. A heavy period could mean having to change it more than once every 12 hours.

  • @gypsiekera
    @gypsiekera 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a great candid video! Larry would make an amazing girl dad! You can tell he truly respects women. That being said, he would also be a great example for a son as well. ☺️💖

  • @meganwagers3579
    @meganwagers3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have suffered from excruciating cramps for a long time due to a fibroid. I tried everything under the sun. My OB prescribed me 500mg of naproxen and for some reason it works better than anything else I’ve taken. Please try if you suffer from bad cramps!

  • @tracyherndon2487
    @tracyherndon2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just got my coffee and blanket, ready for some girl talk ❤️❤️

  • @christinawilliams1565
    @christinawilliams1565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awwww i love how larry speaks to you and others. My husband is 17 years older than me ❤️

  • @marydavis2946
    @marydavis2946 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is great that you are open and honest about these personal topics that can be very taboo. It will help a lot of people, younger, older. men, women. Always love your content! Thanks Mindy and Larry 👍🏽💜

  • @terrybonfiglio-lopez4936
    @terrybonfiglio-lopez4936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mindy, I’ve been researching low Magnesium and affects on body function (for myself!). So many of your symptoms may be related to low Magnesium. Most Americans are deficient! Definitely worth checking into as I’m doing for myself. . Love your sharing video! Larry is the BEST! ❤️

    • @juliaivanitskiy269
      @juliaivanitskiy269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've read that too, along with low vitamin D as well.

  • @theresa9925
    @theresa9925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish someone had shared all of this with me when I was younger. Thank you for being so open and brave! Larry...Wow...you always give the BEST advise. God bless you both! :)

  • @Britt_Betch
    @Britt_Betch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the most open and honest video ever!! And I’m going through a lot of these same things!! Good to know I’m not alone and nothing is wrong. Totally normal

  • @nataliewingate6475
    @nataliewingate6475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hiiieee!! You are a great public speaker. Great conversation with us this Saturday morning. Great and informative. I love these talks with us!!!! Thank you!!!

  • @Herekittykittykatkat
    @Herekittykittykatkat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm only halfway through this video but wanted to say thank you. I'm sitting in my car crying because I thought I was the only one with a certain issue. It helps to know it's not just me and I'm just really thankful for you and this video. ❤