My parents rejected my wife for reasons they never disclosed and somehow I didn't care. Her parents rejected me because they felt I was not stable enough to take their daughter. We have two beautiful daughters and my income improved significantly. And, since all our parents are still stubborn, we decided to have our home several kilometres away from home. I think we are doing just great.
This is the way to go as long as you truly love each other,, it's your life and no one should separate you from the person you love,,remember it's a lifetime thing and those people will leave, never to see them,, love should be between the two only💯
A man shall leave his parents and come join his wife and together they shall make a family. That's great continue honoring what God loves n surely favors will fall upon you.
This is one of those major topics in relationships that we must talk about. The role of parents greatly affect the quality of marriages especially in intermarriage.
Sadly but true, it is totally against God's plan, love and teachings hence cause curses to the fourth generation in the future. Way after they have and left the children in a very distressful situation. 27:37 a
I went through the same trauma... I left my beautiful girlfriend when we were about to get married.. My father threatened to disown me if I had to marry that kikuyu lady.. My most beautiful and most loving lady from Nyeri 😭😭 Miriam Wairimu.. I have never recovered from the pains of our separation..The most humble lady I've ever had... I can't even compare her love with that of my own wife today.. I always wish her the best.
This has broke my heart, until when will people stop this!!! My sister was rejected by her inlaws completely just because she is from a different tribe but I thank God her husband stood with her, He was disowned by his family but ,he went ahead n married her he fought for his love n they are now blessed with 3 kids .12 years down the line they have not stepped home( inlaws home) God has blessed them, owns a home here in Nairobi n they are happy.Its not an easy journey but they have conquered!! My advice is fight for your love n let them disown you God will hold your hand n no harm will befall you.To the lady be prayerful n cover your family with prayers it's good you now know how the parents are but don't leave this guy fight for your love.Shalom shalom.
Stivo, napenda when you give a handshake for seeing & recognising truth, sanity & good moral of openness. It's amazing that in immoral & deceptive society there's still some good quality human being of your kind bro. Napenda what you are doing bro.
Am a kikuyu got two brothers one has married a Samburu, the other one a kisii and we love and treat those ladies with much respect as our own daughters. Love knows no boundaries. Parents must learn to respect their kids choices.
In our family of 3 brothers and 1 sister no 1 is married to our tribe, and i thank God for my parents, they have never had a problem with that, my dad always said "God can place your rib anywhere"... and my mom loves her daughters in law very much...
The way this lady is beautiful and she genuinely loves the guy. The mother in law is lucky to have her as a daughter in law. I really love these two,Hadi mtu anakua tempted ku fall in love. We are in 2022 and still someone thinks theres a tribe that can't kill
Comment no. 2 from me: The man is in love for real, They have love but the mother. Personally, I thank God my mother supports me in every decision of my personal life as long it makes me achieve my goals. Some mothers are evil and control their children as if they sleep with them or have feelings for them, Andrew Kibe says if your mom has anything to do with you being a man cut her off immediately. Ladies leave your boys alone. Let them live the life they want. Life itself is already too tough. Men should be men and Not boys!!!!! The guy seems innocent and I love how he says HER MOTHER CAN DISOWN HER THE WAY THE DAD DID. Stevo hold them. This couple needs immediate attention. Have for the business. Even if TH-cam and we shall support them as Comrades, YES, he is disowned But he has Not disrespected any of the parents, I think the family has a problem. My brother married a Kikuyu and he is now a rich man. My anco married a Kikuyu and he desperately became poor due to his own alcoholism. The problem is the family itself. Stevo, help that young man marry the love of his life. If anyone is reading this, May love finds you. Sometimes we must refuse to be treated like babies for us to achieve greatness in life. His brothers disowned Joseph only to be the savior decades later. Subscribe to my channel for more th-cam.com/users/TheCharmlieProduction
In this day and age, it's totally outrageous, insanely prejudicial, and completely unacceptable for parents to reject or mistreat their potential sons-or daughters-in-law on the basis of their ethnic or racial backgrounds. Yes, we are obligated to listen to our parents' advise, but they must also be rational and reasonable in their demands.
Yet when it comes to elections, even majority of you as a youth- go back to tribal cocoons and only support your own! How then can you condemn the parents!? Let the youth be a voice of change ✨️
@@joanmiksabel3598 sasa siasa imetoka wapi hapa surely?? let's learn to address the matter on the table my good friend, politics do come and go so please don't relate this to politics....remember this is someone's marriage in a mess😔😔
But kulingana na VAR huyo boyz alifail kumaintain loyalty kwa dem wa nairobi..na pia hata kama ali-force-iwa angejulisha wife wake about this whole double life of his. That's why they don't deserve....though iyo VAR checking imetake long sana kuarrive kwa hiyo final decision
I've never felt disappointed in a parent as when i followed today's flavor... sometimes our parents can be pain in our lives especially in matters of life decisions
May tribalism stop!!! TOO SAD 💔💔💔💔💔. Parents we honor you but please when it's time for us to marry or getting married just sit home to welcome whoever our hearts would have loved ❤️🙏.
Your mum can't leave you bro, even though is threatening you one day she will look for you Just settled with the lady somewhere and whenever you got something like shopping do for your mum and continue praying bro
This is so touching, lakini some in laws though, I would urge this guy to follow his heart no matter what ,as we can see clearly his mom doesn't want happiness for his son, as an online in law I'm here to let you know that God will bless your marriage! Cause He already knows your fate, plus the wife is just so humble 😢,sometimes you don't have to listen to everyone, your mom had finished her part, lets you enjoy your part too. Even if your parents don't bless you it's OK, but,, God's blessings is enough.
Just make sure keeping the peace is not costing you your peace, and being patient with people is not wasting your life away. There's no point walking on eggshells because the people you're with overreact when questioned about their behaviour. If they won't change for the relationship, then you change yourself. You shift. And you don't need to sit around waiting for someone to become the person you want when they're not keen on changing themselves😊😊😊😊😥
Goodness .. This is just hard on both sides .. May God just see them through .. Just here to bless God for giving us good parents .. Personally I'm from a kamba family .. Married to a Kisii .. Our elder brother married from kisumu 2nd born from Uganda .. Na third born naona akienda China....its usually such a blessing and fun wen we all meet .. Mungu tu awaonekanie to win this
Gosh!!! This got me into tears!!! This lady she soo cuty!!! And yes she has a good heart you can tell by looking at her!! Am soo very much disappointed!!! I do real know what's she is going through raity now!!! Hii inaumiza kwa kwl!!! But, they say if they reject you, they dont deserve you!! May the lord give you strength to move on with your life, dont even think twice, God has a good one for you!!!
It hurts...it's 12yrs since I went to inlaws. My husband at some point turned his back against me but peace never befell him...we have four kids n I can for sure say God is faithful and we are going far together.
Be denied by in laws is a common problem in our African setting..if they love each other let them wok as team to build their relationship and avoid those negatives
This is common problem In our setting becoz of ignorance..ppl shd be accepted based on the qualities and values not tribal line .let them unite for good I think the parents are wrong and shd not be followed at times
The parent may seem right because during their generation, there were a lot of tribalism stereotyping, However we must recognize that times have changed and the youthful generation will overcome. The guy is on the wrong for not involving the wife on the issue to pray together to an extent of impregnating the alleged lady yet he knows he has a wife.
Stevo look for the parents even if it means kuenda Hadi home this guy will never be happy he really loves this lady, some of us have been married by the so called Kikuyus for over twenty years very happy no regrets. Many have married from their tribes and divorced. This guy has stayed with this lady for 7 years he knows her, he is marrying Diana as an individual not the so called Kikuyus as a tribe. To the jamaa pray and fast seriously mark you nothing is impossible with God if your destiny is this he will touch the hearts of your parents. Diana down on your knees don't rush to leave this guy he really loves.
I think we are living in a civilized generation where you can marry anyone you desire regardless of tribe, religion and culture. Yes, it's good to respect parents but they are not always right, at times you are right.So sad though!
@@wairimusimiyu7899 that is the impact of rotten society when the majority are toxic will you risk?Tuache kujidai hamnazo na ukweli upo wanawake wa wapi wrong number
It is painful to know the truth, but also, the truth you have so far known is not enough for you to spoil your relationship. The guy clarifies to his mum that you are the one being loved. You have to be proud of that, further more you'll be living with him and not his mum. Moreover, if you keep in mind whatever is said you'll definitely stress and hurt yourself. Just ignore her and continue with your love if at all you feel that the guy truly loves you.
Same thing happened to me in Kenya thank God I saw the red flags and didn't take them for granted I already had two kids with the guy but I packed my stuff back to my country and I don't regret it its never too late to start over a gain
I feel the pain she is going through...I was once a victim of that but thank God my hubby stood by my side till todate,they to follow the trend that it's me they son love
What a heartbreak 😭😭 but Diana don't leave your husband coz l feel a strong love between the 2 of you.Ebu mshikilie vizuri kabisa hao watu wao wa regret kujaribu kuwaachanisha.May God continue blessing your union msikubali kuingiza 3rd party
Never allow tribe to eliminate your decency and reasoning. My campus lover Nimo was told not to marry a Kalenjin. It was a blow to us but still went ahead with it. Now happily married with one kid and her parents are proud of their daughter and everything. It seems the decision their daughter made was the right one. I want to tell this lady never to feel bad or apologize for who she is or where she comes from. The communities that always wrapped their arms around you will continue to hold you up.
Comrade triplets, your own ‘wives’ keep saying “nimeambiwa nitarogwa na rafiki yangu... ni mkamba, ni mkisii” It is such words and characters which keep the tribal fire burning Steve. We are a totally new generation who shouldn’t allow political and social duels not settled by our forefathers passed to our parents control what we want in life. We are to blame for the continued tribalism now rooting inside love and relationships. It starts with YOU Steve!
This happened to me im a kamba I married a gikuyu and my mum never liked me to marry a gikuyu she wanted me to marry my ex gf kamba and my mum was to allow my ex to come home to cook for her so this same story for this man is my same story!🥲🥲but to me i stay with my wife who is a gikuyu but at different place where God blessed me with and we stay In Peace until my mum called me and apologized #comerades flavour talk to this boy to love this woman and not to listen 👂 her mums words when it comes in terms of 💕
Hahaaa karibu ifanane na yangu ako kadem kalikuwa kanachotea mother in-law maji na kumfulia, almost fifteen years nishamaliza kuzaa ndio anakubali na kulia nimsamehe I can't forget the pain na kulia huyo mama alinipitisha, but I have forgive her
The coolest lady. Tuache ukabila, I'm happy my my father told to make my own choice as long as I'm happy, he'll bless me and it happened. For my children wherever you want and that will be trend in my generation.
We will condemn this with contempt it deserves. But we aren't ready to do enough to overcome. The inter tribal insults on social media speaks it all. This is in our generation, NOT our parents.
God please give this partners strength and hope let there love bond strongly 🤞🤞🤞🤞❤️,, The boy is right to keep silent because those who are blaming him it's not easy to spill out what he is going through because it could have hurt his lover he is fighting and he must come out as a winner no matter what, 🙏🙏🙏 Shiro I hope u will understand the process because it is not easy to share such things .God bless your decision and your memories till death 🙏🙏🙏
Such a lovely lady. These two deserves each other. Nobody chose to be born into a certain tribe. Let the mother judge the lady by her character not by her tribe. BMS, to me this couple passed, and deserve the 6k reward
I think the guy loves the wife sana that's why he had problems with the dad hadi akamdisown and the messages proves That Pia he has fights with the mum it's only that he's trying to protect the mother's love and from being disowned by the mum too. But my Advice to him is he should fight for their love.This thing of tribalism is past this generation. You can mary the other one to please your parents but you lack peace of mind and that love. Your parents had their time.its your time, don't live according to how they want. Love comes naturally not by force.Just follow your heart bro. Mob love team comrades 💖
@@agnescharo678 juu hakuna vile ataniletea u-bulishit na yeye pia alifanya kuolewa hapa, ladies never allow mother in-laws to stand on your head and start crowling like a cork, never,
This is the same experience my cuzo underwent after marrying a kikuyu lady. This is after my uncle died due to depression after a kikuyu lady took all his property. Its time parents to understand that not all kikuyu ladies are bad.
Not kikuyus my uncle's Meru wife left with everything na their 2 daughters who were only 3 and 1 yrs .who are now grownups.almost 22yrs now.....ni character sio tribe!
I like the way the guy is telling his mum the truth about whom he loves the lady should understand that the guy has always been defending her even when forced to be with someone else...at this era we shouldn't be force to find happiness but let happiness find us in a genuine and uncontrolled way....bro big up for standing your grounds never let that beautiful girl go.
That guy, despite the theatrics by the mom and the other kid, genuinely loves this lady. I wish them all the best and I hope they can sort this and move forward together.
yaani even after mum's message he's stil dating a kikuyu..that means he loves her..young man.let them disown you.. ur not marrying for anybody.say no to tribalism.i feel for this young man..so sad 😭😭
@@agnescharo678 let no one lie to you Agnes, only God has power to allow curse to work,I met another friend of mine his father was a Muslim, so he decided to be a Christian and his father told him he will curse him and he will die till today nothing has happened, God is not for the wicked.
How? By sleeping with a wife that his mum arranged for him behind her back and on top of that having a kid and he has never told her??? If i was this girl, i will go and never look back.
People get enlightened through this platform. Mi niliambiwa nisilete mkamba na break up ilikuwa painful, especially kwa GF coz ilimpata unaware. I don't think this should be happening in this time and generation.
As a matter of fact TRIBALISM is the foundation and cornerstone of this colonial construct called Kenya, I have personally experienced it in both the public and private sectors in work places,promotions,sports,politix,churches,social circles....u name it! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
11yrs back my dad disowned me coz he did't want me to marry that man, for my love for him i said will follow my heart, the marriage lasted for 1yr 1month with and i was left with a new born baby girl of 4months for another woman claiming that our marriage is not blessed by my dad so it will never work, my daughter is now 10yrs old and we never set our eyes on her dad or heard from him
U are very lost my dear, how many couples accepted by both sides of parents are breaking this days, who tells you that the man your parents will accept, u can't break with him, u need to be real.
it's still cheating...you cannot hide a baby from your love...But he surely seems fixed by parents...but he should let the lady know..Just that he is scared of losing her.
This is the most painful I've ever watched..This is the situation where one can't be judgmental of the couple...I love this couple...may God secure your love 💕💕
To me it's not tribalism but stereotypes..i remember my parents cautioned me never to marry from siaya coz ni wachawi pia hawakai kwa ndoa.. Nyakach pia ni wachawi ni kichwa yao ni ngumu.. Then from central hawawezikaa nawe home when you retire or they run away with everything plus watoi ukikufa (saa hiyo most central girls are my potential girlfriends and wife).Then my kamba ladies Eti hawatulii kwa ndoa, eti they love sex mbaya sana (can't stay for long bila kufanywa) ..when it comes to marriage it's you and the type of person you want and not the tribe they want.
Weee Usinambie na vyenye my man is from siaya🙆♀️🙆♀️😂😂😂Mi Ata mtu akinambia nn hii stage tumefikia siwezi sikia every land Kuna wachawi so mm lazima nioleke siaya kama nitaenda kurogwa huko well and good 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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My parents rejected my wife for reasons they never disclosed and somehow I didn't care. Her parents rejected me because they felt I was not stable enough to take their daughter. We have two beautiful daughters and my income improved significantly. And, since all our parents are still stubborn, we decided to have our home several kilometres away from home. I think we are doing just great.
Big up💪💪👏👏👏
Wakati mwengine kisilo budi hutendwa
Kudoos
This is the way to go as long as you truly love each other,, it's your life and no one should separate you from the person you love,,remember it's a lifetime thing and those people will leave, never to see them,, love should be between the two only💯
A man shall leave his parents and come join his wife and together they shall make a family. That's great continue honoring what God loves n surely favors will fall upon you.
Wow... I like this lady's calmness.
She's so sweet. Bro, don't loose this 💎💎💎
You can tell this beautiful lady is humble and respectful...... This is so touching....😭😭😭They love each other. May they NOT separate
Very true
I pity the lady 😏😏😒, you can tell she's the real deal!
May nothing come between them.....they love each other
These couples deserve the best, give them that 6k big man.....and do a follow-up.
The lady is so sweet
totally
Soo soooo sweet
This is one of those major topics in relationships that we must talk about. The role of parents greatly affect the quality of marriages especially in intermarriage.
Walai it really hurts we need a serious talk about it
Realy inauma juu ya matamshi ya mzazi
True
Sadly but true, it is totally against God's plan, love and teachings hence cause curses to the fourth generation in the future. Way after they have and left the children in a very distressful situation. 27:37 a
I went through the same trauma... I left my beautiful girlfriend when we were about to get married.. My father threatened to disown me if I had to marry that kikuyu lady.. My most beautiful and most loving lady from Nyeri 😭😭 Miriam Wairimu.. I have never recovered from the pains of our separation..The most humble lady I've ever had... I can't even compare her love with that of my own wife today.. I always wish her the best.
This must have been a hard decision bro
😒😒🥺
😥😥😭😭😭
oh nooo..
then you must be a coward bro, if you loved her you couldn't let her go
The most touching loyalty test,,,,this one has made me shed tears,,,may God intervene and give them peace
Weeee so painful 😭😭😭
This has broke my heart, until when will people stop this!!! My sister was rejected by her inlaws completely just because she is from a different tribe but I thank God her husband stood with her, He was disowned by his family but ,he went ahead n married her he fought for his love n they are now blessed with 3 kids .12 years down the line they have not stepped home( inlaws home) God has blessed them, owns a home here in Nairobi n they are happy.Its not an easy journey but they have conquered!! My advice is fight for your love n let them disown you God will hold your hand n no harm will befall you.To the lady be prayerful n cover your family with prayers it's good you now know how the parents are but don't leave this guy fight for your love.Shalom shalom.
whaaat, this is so painful,why should the mum say that? that lady is so humble and nice. so touching.
Stivo, napenda when you give a handshake for seeing & recognising truth, sanity & good moral of openness. It's amazing that in immoral & deceptive society there's still some good quality human being of your kind bro.
Napenda what you are doing bro.
Am a kikuyu got two brothers one has married a Samburu, the other one a kisii and we love and treat those ladies with much respect as our own daughters. Love knows no boundaries. Parents must learn to respect their kids choices.
In our family of 3 brothers and 1 sister no 1 is married to our tribe, and i thank God for my parents, they have never had a problem with that, my dad always said "God can place your rib anywhere"... and my mom loves her daughters in law very much...
This lady is very very cute and humble, she's worth fighting for
The way this lady is beautiful and she genuinely loves the guy. The mother in law is lucky to have her as a daughter in law. I really love these two,Hadi mtu anakua tempted ku fall in love. We are in 2022 and still someone thinks theres a tribe that can't kill
Comment no. 2 from me: The man is in love for real, They have love but the mother. Personally, I thank God my mother supports me in every decision of my personal life as long it makes me achieve my goals. Some mothers are evil and control their children as if they sleep with them or have feelings for them, Andrew Kibe says if your mom has anything to do with you being a man cut her off immediately. Ladies leave your boys alone. Let them live the life they want. Life itself is already too tough. Men should be men and Not boys!!!!!
The guy seems innocent and I love how he says HER MOTHER CAN DISOWN HER THE WAY THE DAD DID. Stevo hold them. This couple needs immediate attention. Have for the business. Even if TH-cam and we shall support them as Comrades, YES, he is disowned But he has Not disrespected any of the parents, I think the family has a problem. My brother married a Kikuyu and he is now a rich man. My anco married a Kikuyu and he desperately became poor due to his own alcoholism. The problem is the family itself. Stevo, help that young man marry the love of his life. If anyone is reading this, May love finds you. Sometimes we must refuse to be treated like babies for us to achieve greatness in life. His brothers disowned Joseph only to be the savior decades later.
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Someone quoting Andrew Kibe!? Are you for real?
True it has happened to me but I had to be a man and marry the love of my life and life is good promotion and peaceful family.
He is the kind of weak men kibe talks about obeying the mum even when its wrong.he needs attend men coference
You have summarised everything.
@@bettymakena5365 how can your parents decide for you who to settle with not me.!🤔
In this day and age, it's totally outrageous, insanely prejudicial, and completely unacceptable for parents to reject or mistreat their potential sons-or daughters-in-law on the basis of their ethnic or racial backgrounds. Yes, we are obligated to listen to our parents' advise, but they must also be rational and reasonable in their demands.
Yet when it comes to elections, even majority of you as a youth- go back to tribal cocoons and only support your own! How then can you condemn the parents!? Let the youth be a voice of change ✨️
Boss there's past especially where such has happened...
@@joanmiksabel3598 sasa siasa imetoka wapi hapa surely?? let's learn to address the matter on the table my good friend, politics do come and go so please don't relate this to politics....remember this is someone's marriage in a mess😔😔
Yes your right
Well said nyathiwa
Stevo do a follow up and ensure this family stands.Love wins always😢
Yep na uyu jamaa acheat tuongee I ukweli
Kulingana na SMS anapenda huyu shiro na hajapewa 6k ????ama
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Follow please they look good togetha plus kuna reason hakumshow mybe
But kulingana na VAR huyo boyz alifail kumaintain loyalty kwa dem wa nairobi..na pia hata kama ali-force-iwa angejulisha wife wake about this whole double life of his. That's why they don't deserve....though iyo VAR checking imetake long sana kuarrive kwa hiyo final decision
This is a full package,a beautiful lady,a loyal lady with respect and a smart lady,,,Sasa mamako anatka umuache surely
Politically tribalism may come to end,but in matters of relationships,it might take another 2000 years.
I've never felt disappointed in a parent as when i followed today's flavor... sometimes our parents can be pain in our lives especially in matters of life decisions
May tribalism stop!!! TOO SAD 💔💔💔💔💔. Parents we honor you but please when it's time for us to marry or getting married just sit home to welcome whoever our hearts would have loved ❤️🙏.
Your mum can't leave you bro, even though is threatening you one day she will look for you
Just settled with the lady somewhere and whenever you got something like shopping do for your mum and continue praying bro
Stevo you need to make sure they stay together.... This two love each other.
Yep na jamaa apewe 6k acheat
@@davidmaingi383 6k ya nini na alilala na yule dem wa ushago? Si angekataa? He cheated!
She's an Angel one in a million. God bless you abundantly!
She is naturally beautiful
@@qwavihyn5812 natural beauty n she amazing voice too!
This is so touching, lakini some in laws though, I would urge this guy to follow his heart no matter what ,as we can see clearly his mom doesn't want happiness for his son, as an online in law I'm here to let you know that God will bless your marriage! Cause He already knows your fate, plus the wife is just so humble 😢,sometimes you don't have to listen to everyone, your mom had finished her part, lets you enjoy your part too. Even if your parents don't bless you it's OK, but,, God's blessings is enough.
Watu hawajui vile intermarriage huwa nzuri, proud luhya , married to kikuyu!13yrs and we bless the lord.let these guys move on and prove them wrong!
Amen msichana wetu woow i love these.
Just make sure keeping the peace is not costing you your peace, and being patient with people is not wasting your life away. There's no point walking on eggshells because the people you're with overreact when questioned about their behaviour. If they won't change for the relationship, then you change yourself. You shift. And you don't need to sit around waiting for someone to become the person you want when they're not keen on changing themselves😊😊😊😊😥
This one has really touched me into an extend of me shading tears
Plz our Kikuyu daughter learn .even me I will advice my daughter to stick to Kikuyu men.sitaki tribe ingine kwangu
Goodness .. This is just hard on both sides .. May God just see them through .. Just here to bless God for giving us good parents .. Personally I'm from a kamba family .. Married to a Kisii .. Our elder brother married from kisumu 2nd born from Uganda .. Na third born naona akienda China....its usually such a blessing and fun wen we all meet .. Mungu tu awaonekanie to win this
Stevo its pains 2 know the truth but in another side you are helping alots of people 2 know about their spouse more hiden secrets
I PREFER TO SWALLOW THE BITTER TRUTH TO HEAL
Gosh!!! This got me into tears!!! This lady she soo cuty!!! And yes she has a good heart you can tell by looking at her!! Am soo very much disappointed!!! I do real know what's she is going through raity now!!! Hii inaumiza kwa kwl!!! But, they say if they reject you, they dont deserve you!! May the lord give you strength to move on with your life, dont even think twice, God has a good one for you!!!
Me too, almost cried
It hurts...it's 12yrs since I went to inlaws.
My husband at some point turned his back against me but peace never befell him...we have four kids n I can for sure say God is faithful and we are going far together.
Wooi..I wish I can get in touch with you unipee hopes.. its 4 yrs since i got married and inlaws gave shown me hell
Be denied by in laws is a common problem in our African setting..if they love each other let them wok as team to build their relationship and avoid those negatives
I Support your sentiments 100%.. Im of the same Idea
Very true
True
They will haunt you trust me no need run for ur peace of mind
This is common problem In our setting becoz of ignorance..ppl shd be accepted based on the qualities and values not tribal line .let them unite for good I think the parents are wrong and shd not be followed at times
These two really love each other, may God help them
I like the maturity in both of them,,,, thanks fo sharing this 🙌
The parent may seem right because during their generation, there were a lot of tribalism stereotyping, However we must recognize that times have changed and the youthful generation will overcome. The guy is on the wrong for not involving the wife on the issue to pray together to an extent of impregnating the alleged lady yet he knows he has a wife.
Stevo look for the parents even if it means kuenda Hadi home this guy will never be happy he really loves this lady, some of us have been married by the so called Kikuyus for over twenty years very happy no regrets. Many have married from their tribes and divorced. This guy has stayed with this lady for 7 years he knows her, he is marrying Diana as an individual not the so called Kikuyus as a tribe. To the jamaa pray and fast seriously mark you nothing is impossible with God if your destiny is this he will touch the hearts of your parents. Diana down on your knees don't rush to leave this guy he really loves.
I think we are living in a civilized generation where you can marry anyone you desire regardless of tribe, religion and culture. Yes, it's good to respect parents but they are not always right, at times you are right.So sad though!
Say it loud my dia coz I'm a Christian married to a Muslim and our parents av no problem about our marriage
Wacha porojo.Tangu BMS aanze wanawake gani wamefanyia wanaume vituko.Tuache unafiki na inajulikana
Absolutely 💯
@@michaelrapando6658 ni uyu mwanamke ndo alikosea ama ni mwingine ????so mbona abebe msalaba ya wengine na ye si Yesu
@@wairimusimiyu7899 that is the impact of rotten society when the majority are toxic will you risk?Tuache kujidai hamnazo na ukweli upo wanawake wa wapi wrong number
the lady is very polite, kind, aki i feel sorry for her
OMG🤔🤔🤔🤔 7years is alot of time,,,,,,,,,, but Bora jamaa anapenda mrembo wake they can move on with life 💪💪💪💪💪
It hurts kukataliwa juu ya kabila,inaumaga mbaya sana walai,shiru take heart wakikuyu hamna mahali tunatakikanaga
My boyfriend dumped me for these reason and went a head to marry his own tribe aky wamaragoli mungu anawaona😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same way as kalenjins they marry from there tribe
Not all Maragolis do that my sister you fell for a mamas boy, on behalf of the Maragoli men i say sorry for that.
Bro, Congratulations for standing with your word to your mum. That's very good. Don't loose that charming, calm and humble soul.
Kasee Wenda kwikala utekiveti twaa mwikuyu. It's not prejudice but facts.
Kikuyu is kikuyu , never trust Kikuyu women
If that was the only red flag you found, please give them 6gs, they ain't cheating, mum ndo shida
True but let's wait we watch first before we judge
Thats not a cheating
@Koome254 20K yea only once
@Koome254 20K yes Kwa anto na josy are the only clean couples sanitized na BMS,they hv a TH-cam channel called Anto n jossy
Asipewe ashazaa mtoto jo
It is painful to know the truth, but also, the truth you have so far known is not enough for you to spoil your relationship. The guy clarifies to his mum that you are the one being loved. You have to be proud of that, further more you'll be living with him and not his mum. Moreover, if you keep in mind whatever is said you'll definitely stress and hurt yourself. Just ignore her and continue with your love if at all you feel that the guy truly loves you.
They have been together for 7 years and the guy has a son turning one. #Loveredefined.
But later they support their parents when time goes
Love has no boundaries..besides the gilr looks so sweet and innocent....you can love and marry who your heart choses
It's been a while since I saw a lady upset that much. She was really broken beyond words. ☹️☹️☹️
Same thing happened to me in Kenya thank God I saw the red flags and didn't take them for granted I already had two kids with the guy but I packed my stuff back to my country and I don't regret it its never too late to start over a gain
I feel the pain she is going through...I was once a victim of that but thank God my hubby stood by my side till todate,they to follow the trend that it's me they son love
What a heartbreak 😭😭 but Diana don't leave your husband coz l feel a strong love between the 2 of you.Ebu mshikilie vizuri kabisa hao watu wao wa regret kujaribu kuwaachanisha.May God continue blessing your union msikubali kuingiza 3rd party
Funny thing is that no parents can reject a mzungu to marry their kids😁😁😁
Exactly ! Sad!
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Yap aky pesa wewe
🤣🤣🤣 they believe the pocket is loaded mi hushindwa hadi akivaa bikini akam nayo home hataulizwa🤣🤣🤣
Very true, and he's not our tribe or Nationality, this very sad.
🤣🤣🤣Aki wakikuyu tulikosea wapi 😭😭🙆♀️🙄😭😭😭😭
Never allow tribe to eliminate your decency and reasoning. My campus lover Nimo was told not to marry a Kalenjin. It was a blow to us but still went ahead with it. Now happily married with one kid and her parents are proud of their daughter and everything. It seems the decision their daughter made was the right one. I want to tell this lady never to feel bad or apologize for who she is or where she comes from. The communities that always wrapped their arms around you will continue to hold you up.
nimo ni wa wapi?
@@munaelmimohamed9912 nimo is a Kikuyu name
@@munaelmimohamed9912 Nimo is Wairimu
Ambia wakale wenzako madem nao pia waoleke kwingine to follow your example 🤣
@@barygarcia3128 hahahaha
Comrade triplets, your own ‘wives’ keep saying “nimeambiwa nitarogwa na rafiki yangu... ni mkamba, ni mkisii” It is such words and characters which keep the tribal fire burning Steve. We are a totally new generation who shouldn’t allow political and social duels not settled by our forefathers passed to our parents control what we want in life. We are to blame for the continued tribalism now rooting inside love and relationships. It starts with YOU Steve!
True
@Erato actually i had been against this thing, i hate it with passion...Don't they have any other scripts to post??
Personally as a kamba ata sijui urogi ni nini..and i have friends from all almost all tribes...i dont entertain stereotype
Those fake wives 🤣🤣🤣
They deserve 6K coz they are faithful
This happened to me im a kamba I married a gikuyu and my mum never liked me to marry a gikuyu she wanted me to marry my ex gf kamba and my mum was to allow my ex to come home to cook for her so this same story for this man is my same story!🥲🥲but to me i stay with my wife who is a gikuyu but at different place where God blessed me with and we stay In Peace until my mum called me and apologized #comerades flavour talk to this boy to love this woman and not to listen 👂 her mums words when it comes in terms of 💕
Hahaaa karibu ifanane na yangu ako kadem kalikuwa kanachotea mother in-law maji na kumfulia, almost fifteen years nishamaliza kuzaa ndio anakubali na kulia nimsamehe I can't forget the pain na kulia huyo mama alinipitisha, but I have forgive her
@@anitacharles1985 sure haki it pains alot
The coolest lady.
Tuache ukabila, I'm happy my my father told to make my own choice as long as I'm happy, he'll bless me and it happened.
For my children wherever you want and that will be trend in my generation.
We will condemn this with contempt it deserves. But we aren't ready to do enough to overcome. The inter tribal insults on social media speaks it all. This is in our generation, NOT our parents.
And I don't see it ending anytime soon 😢I am victim
God please give this partners strength and hope let there love bond strongly 🤞🤞🤞🤞❤️,, The boy is right to keep silent because those who are blaming him it's not easy to spill out what he is going through because it could have hurt his lover he is fighting and he must come out as a winner no matter what, 🙏🙏🙏 Shiro I hope u will understand the process because it is not easy to share such things .God bless your decision and your memories till death 🙏🙏🙏
Such a lovely lady. These two deserves each other. Nobody chose to be born into a certain tribe. Let the mother judge the lady by her character not by her tribe. BMS, to me this couple passed, and deserve the 6k reward
Aki this is so touching, the is gentleman is very loyal to his wife but wasasi ndio shida , please stevo make a good follow-up.
I think the guy loves the wife sana that's why he had problems with the dad hadi akamdisown and the messages proves That Pia he has fights with the mum it's only that he's trying to protect the mother's love and from being disowned by the mum too. But my Advice to him is he should fight for their love.This thing of tribalism is past this generation. You can mary the other one to please your parents but you lack peace of mind and that love. Your parents had their time.its your time, don't live according to how they want. Love comes naturally not by force.Just follow your heart bro. Mob love team comrades 💖
God kindly I request you when you bless me with a husband just bless me with such a loving,kind and honest man .
sisi wakikuyu ndio tuko,,,#SAYNOTOTRIBALISM
Say it loudly.
this s lady is humble and sweet 💕
Mimi mambo na mother in-law,tuko with a very large gap, l don't do shit,akinletea shit,namurudishia ikiwa full package my friend 💯👌
Me too akii kumbe we r many,,wale mamas boy ndo wako na shida😔
@@agnescharo678 juu hakuna vile ataniletea u-bulishit na yeye pia alifanya kuolewa hapa, ladies never allow mother in-laws to stand on your head and start crowling like a cork, never,
This run through my nerves. Such humble souls can NEVER seperate, nomatter the cost.
The most painful loyalty test 💔 😪 bro stand with your wife and put God first everything itawork out
This is the same experience my cuzo underwent after marrying a kikuyu lady. This is after my uncle died due to depression after a kikuyu lady took all his property. Its time parents to understand that not all kikuyu ladies are bad.
Not kikuyus my uncle's Meru wife left with everything na their 2 daughters who were only 3 and 1 yrs .who are now grownups.almost 22yrs now.....ni character sio tribe!
But majority are just of the same character hawa huenda hadi na wajukuu
But my advice is that the guy should keep his wife
If they truly love each other
I like the way the guy is telling his mum the truth about whom he loves the lady should understand that the guy has always been defending her even when forced to be with someone else...at this era we shouldn't be force to find happiness but let happiness find us in a genuine and uncontrolled way....bro big up for standing your grounds never let that beautiful girl go.
I love this lady ❤
That guy, despite the theatrics by the mom and the other kid, genuinely loves this lady. I wish them all the best and I hope they can sort this and move forward together.
yaani even after mum's message he's stil dating a kikuyu..that means he loves her..young man.let them disown you.. ur not marrying for anybody.say no to tribalism.i feel for this young man..so sad 😭😭
Pamela it's not easy for the guy.remember the gal will meet this family members always and the memories trigger of unwanted me.
But they will curse him akii🥺😭
@@agnescharo678 True blessings za wazazi very important.
'I love you but my parent Wana resist hii relationship na siwezi kuoa mtu siwezi kupeleka Kwa wazazi wangu' nilambiwa hivyo but si ni life
@@agnescharo678 let no one lie to you Agnes, only God has power to allow curse to work,I met another friend of mine his father was a Muslim, so he decided to be a Christian and his father told him he will curse him and he will die till today nothing has happened, God is not for the wicked.
Good job Big man Stevo....@Thee Raf Show was here💪💪
There's True love here...parents shld not try separating them..
This man loves his woman, if they love each other let them ignore the parents and live their lives
How? By sleeping with a wife that his mum arranged for him behind her back and on top of that having a kid and he has never told her??? If i was this girl, i will go and never look back.
I would rather be disowned and seek refuge in Gods hands than leave the woman I love
The comment I was looking for
Wow that's true 💯
Thankyou,wee need a thousand people like you
People get enlightened through this platform. Mi niliambiwa nisilete mkamba na break up ilikuwa painful, especially kwa GF coz ilimpata unaware. I don't think this should be happening in this time and generation.
1st wife materials in sisi wakaba☺
Sijawahi ona wakamba wakikataliwa.. Infact we make the best wives around
Pole man, me I usually stand firm with my decisions whether they like it or not. How can parent dictate whom I should marry or how to live?
I couldn't hold my tears may the lord see them true,,,,,
This has really touched me.Till death do us part.Buried in a single grave.
KIKUYU LADIES ARE ALWAYS THE BEST FOR YOUR INFORMATION:- THAT'S WHY LUO MEN MARRY KIKUYU LADIES .... BECAUSE WAKO NA AKILI
This is touching! What we go through as men to be with who u love!
I THINK THESE COUPLE DESERVE THE 6K
Sure thy are not cheaters
These ones are clean, mums message doesn't mean they are cheating, lipa 6k
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Ukweli
I second you 🤣🤣
Stevo lipa oo,mama maybe has experience,,no one has cheated here
Yah wapewe doh
This lady is so humble haki..huu ukabila utaisha lini jameni?
This one is so teaching .Thank you man Steve for your good job .
I can't wait for follow up ya hii.
This one today has made me to cry😭😭woiye parents...why????!!!!
That woman MUST be watched coz she might get into depression. Apelekwe counselling ASAP.
Make mzuri ni mwenye tabia nzuri sio kabila.... We are very different in our own ways....
As a matter of fact TRIBALISM is the foundation and cornerstone of this colonial construct called Kenya, I have personally experienced it in both the public and private sectors in work places,promotions,sports,politix,churches,social circles....u name it! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I feel you
True the moment you start listening to your parents especially mum on which tribe you should Mary from then that's the end of you
Haki this is touching 😢...nmjipata nkilia woishe
God bless the lady 🙏 🙌
11yrs back my dad disowned me coz he did't want me to marry that man, for my love for him i said will follow my heart, the marriage lasted for 1yr 1month with and i was left with a new born baby girl of 4months for another woman claiming that our marriage is not blessed by my dad so it will never work, my daughter is now 10yrs old and we never set our eyes on her dad or heard from him
U are very lost my dear, how many couples accepted by both sides of parents are breaking this days, who tells you that the man your parents will accept, u can't break with him, u need to be real.
@@MAINA_THETHERE_1704 You misunderstood her,it's the man that claimed the marriage was doomed since the dad didn't bless it.
@@wachiraofficial7619 I got her message later, the man was a fool, he was looking for excuse to end the relationship
These is the kind of relationship l admire to have ,kindly God hear my prayers 🙏🙏
it's still cheating...you cannot hide a baby from your love...But he surely seems fixed by parents...but he should let the lady know..Just that he is scared of losing her.
This is the most painful I've ever watched..This is the situation where one can't be judgmental of the couple...I love this couple...may God secure your love 💕💕
To me it's not tribalism but stereotypes..i remember my parents cautioned me never to marry from siaya coz ni wachawi pia hawakai kwa ndoa.. Nyakach pia ni wachawi ni kichwa yao ni ngumu.. Then from central hawawezikaa nawe home when you retire or they run away with everything plus watoi ukikufa (saa hiyo most central girls are my potential girlfriends and wife).Then my kamba ladies Eti hawatulii kwa ndoa, eti they love sex mbaya sana (can't stay for long bila kufanywa) ..when it comes to marriage it's you and the type of person you want and not the tribe they want.
😄😄😄😄 ati
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Weee Usinambie na vyenye my man is from siaya🙆♀️🙆♀️😂😂😂Mi Ata mtu akinambia nn hii stage tumefikia siwezi sikia every land Kuna wachawi so mm lazima nioleke siaya kama nitaenda kurogwa huko well and good 😂😂😂😂😂😂
mrfixit apo kwa Wakamba nayo ni ukweli
@@fatimaabdulla6967 fast fast fast and pray
This is so personal and should be settled within the family. As long as they love each other