In 2008, my mentor, a brilliant scholar, won a visa lottery and left Nigeria to join a university in New York as a post-doctoral fellow. He had earned his PhD from Reading University, showcasing his academic excellence. Despite his qualifications and potential, he faced a significant challenge at the university in New York. His supervisor, feeling threatened by my mentor's capabilities, warned him that any attempt to outshine him would result in being ousted from the university.
I’m polite and respectful but I’m not as nice as I used to be. I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to call people out on their bull--. Folks are banking on you to let things slide …that only encourages them to keep being disrespectful.
Everytime I listen to you I see exactly the way I am and I am glad that nothing is actually wrong with me because people always complain that I am not like everyone else but I don't care and that has helped me to build solid structure in my business, family and life in general. Today I have been able to constantly grow and acquire more education, build more businesses, implement the Echo income, bought a property, built my own house using the principle of the Ant and so much more even without haven started listening to you yet. I am so thankful for the wisdom which you dispense. It validates my personal principles and wisdom. Thank you Sir!
Glad to come to this platform. So true I wish I met you earlier. Now I am 62 having made so many mistakes. However, there is a lot to do now with my life. God bless you more to reach many people in younger age
The only thing is that is pulpit is the media and like honestly, i love it. Not someone who has not being called but called themself and there is no true power to see the proof of being called by God. Dr. You truly are indeed.
Truly a “ Solid Word”! Sometimes and some people have to be taught how to respect your compassion! Otherwise, you’re casting your pearls to “ swine”! God bless you richly brother for the words you sow!
Thank you fo this message because I I am to nice but I am about to get ruthless. Because when nice you get no respect. I am 64. And Iam tired . thats me , they treat me like trush. From this day forward. . thank you ! God Bless you. 2/2024 from Pa.
Your message here is so true. I live in the USA, many family members back home are “strangulating” their American people here. It’s so weird they (family members back home) will make you feel they will die if you don’t send them money right away.
Once anybody knows you are in the USA they believe that you are rich. You just came in and started sweep dollars from the ground. Same assumption in latinamerica. The true or reality is very different but people don't believe it.
I have been sending for various reasons, school fees, health feeding b7t 8t is getting worse by day, so after 30yrs and no results, even kids that are now adults graduated stil begging someone who is almost 60yrs old for support?....I stopped listening to you confirms my decision. There is no point to waste my hatd earned widows might on useless course@DrCharlesApoki
i got ripped off so many times and treated really bad by ex's.. then one day a really tough guy who liked me because i was not after his set told me that i kept getting ripped off and treated really bad/cheated on etc because people did not fear any consequences of treating me bad i still try to be as good hearted as i can but I'm getting better at being assertive and making there be consequences for people if they treat me very badly (not necessarily violence but just things like that's the end of the relationship/friendship/business if people are even slightly disrespectful or abusive to me and i these days will stand firm in my higher and not tolerate abuse or bad treatment from people at all, where before i would forgive them and let them be in my life still, but they always hurt me more later if i let them be in my life after they proved they hurt me (i think it's like, "don't cast our pearls before swine lest they turn and rend us" .. we are best to keep our good safe from those who would deliberately hurt us.. if we let them keep on being near us they will hurt us again and maybe much more badly if we let them be near us so it is best to keep them away.. it is their choice not us to be bad.. Jesus didn't stay with people or let people be near him if he knew they were bad for him so we are not bad to keep bad for us people out of our life best wishes to you all from Rolland in Scotland if "Kevvy" who lived in Fallowfield in Manchester is known by any of you please ask him to get in touch with me as he had to leave quickly and i always hope he is ok
it is not often that you see or meet people who say what they mean and mean exactly what they say,you dr.apoki are from that rare lot who will not compromise under no circumstance.
GOD BLESS YOU DR APOKI.THOSE WHO HAVE EARS WILL HEAR. PEOPLE ARE GETTING TIRED OF LEVIES ETC IN SOME DENOMINATIONS WHERE THE CHURCH RELiES HEAVILY ON THE LAITY.
Thanks Dr. Apoki, as always. Too much tolerance produces family and social problems. In the US public school system, kids who perform poorly don't repeat grades, rather they attend some weeks of summer school for extra work, and promoted to the next class. If you are a parent overworking and not paying attention to your children's school work, you are doomed because some of those students carried over to the next class will be in 5th grade and reading at kindergarten level. Chinese and Japanese are more strict and produce smart graduates. That's why Nigerians are tolerating bad governance, and things has really fallen apart, and the center can no longer hold according to our Chunua Achebe. I learn a lot from your speeches and videos. May God continue to increase your anointing 🙏
Fountain of Wisdom!!!!!! This is REALLY DEEP!!! Dr Charles well said and I admire your WISDOM!!!!! God bless you and age gracefully and graciously. God bless you SIR!!!!
Thank you for your words of wisdom sir. These are the values i wish i was taught at sunday school decades ago, not all those shallow lessons about "loving your neighbors & enemies".
I swear. A right word at the right time, how pleasant is it. Many of us out of sentiments and spirituality are being ripped by people with ulterior motive. May the Lord keep us wiser.
Raw and powerful teaching... i drew inspiration from this cuz i find myself helping people with the little resources I have but not recording any significance achievement for myself year in year out.
I wish I met this channel earlier ,i lost my business and ran into debt of more than 12million because i left my junior brother same father and mother to manage it, when i realize my mistake,he ran away with the goods in the shop to open a new shop for himself and after few months he bought himself a car and left me in debt.Family is wicked i swear
People most times become wiser after the events. Not good enough. One of the greatest mistakes we make as humans, is that we live and take decisions emotionally.
You are always imparting your knowledge and words of wisdom. I like your channel for this reason. You are a very intelligent man. Much respect and greetings from 🇺🇸 .
I just love this my papa, I'm not Jesus Christ, only God can give his life 😂😂😂 not me, i was just being carried away by religion, and sometimes i over nice, my over niceness and philanthropy life once leads me to depression, because i was so broke, after i get back to my senses omo, i changed plans, i need to help my seld first before helping others, if you like cry a River.
People's pleaser, not know how to say no & unable to set boundaries just in other to be a nice person always a disappointment at road end. Ask me reason why then I show you my scars & disappointment as results.
This is interesting, this message is a matiral anyone can use to rebrand himself thank you sir I'm seriously learning from your message and I will not take them for granted thanks
It was the HUSBAND who told the first lie. His wife followed him. That's why women should not say yes to everything their husbands suggest. It will cost your life. Be like Abigail with David. Use wisdom.
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out alk the demons finish which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
Yes dont outshine your boss! That is one of the laws in the book “48 Laws”
It's the first law. Never outshine the master.
Still reading
In 2008, my mentor, a brilliant scholar, won a visa lottery and left Nigeria to join a university in New York as a post-doctoral fellow. He had earned his PhD from Reading University, showcasing his academic excellence.
Despite his qualifications and potential, he faced a significant challenge at the university in New York. His supervisor, feeling threatened by my mentor's capabilities, warned him that any attempt to outshine him would result in being ousted from the university.
@@adebayoolufemi2074 at least he told him.
So some people are meant to dim other people's light so theirs can shine brighter? Are you serious right now? Boss bosses.
I can't stop laughing listening to you sir.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree! Especially 'I expelled them', I thank God I found uncle's channel 😂😂😂
@@jusdoingmethat line makes me spleen hurt 😂.
😂😂😂
I love "Burst you"😂😂😂❤
Same😂😂
I’m polite and respectful but I’m not as nice as I used to be. I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to call people out on their bull--. Folks are banking on you to let things slide …that only encourages them to keep being disrespectful.
Being nice has a limit. If you go beyond that limit, people will definitely take advantage of you. Very true. Thank you sir.
🙏🏾
💯😌😌
I learned the hard way
Be kind instead, not nice
This man is now my internet father 😊😊. I listen to him before I go to work.
Same here. I wish l can meet him now that am in Nigeria but l know he is quite busy.
Sir, in you I see my father and my secondary school principal. I than God I found you. May you remain in good health.
Mr Apoki is supposed to be in the National Assembly to guide this country to greatness.
Unfortunately during elections, Nigerians don't see clearly until after the process.
The riches of this content can't be measured. Thank you Dr Apoki
A taker does not have a limit, therefore a a giver must know their limit and draw the limit.
"I don't have mansions for people to come & occupy"😅
Guys send the super chats if you appreciate the message. This man must be honored rather than only told thank you!! This is beyond great truth🙏🏾
"Let profits fuel philanthropy and not capital."
Well understood sir.
This man is wise, may God give him more years to live.
Amẹn 🙏 ooo
🙏
Amen
Amen 🙏
The day is not completed if l didn't listen to Dr Charles
Everytime I listen to you I see exactly the way I am and I am glad that nothing is actually wrong with me because people always complain that I am not like everyone else but I don't care and that has helped me to build solid structure in my business, family and life in general.
Today I have been able to constantly grow and acquire more education, build more businesses, implement the Echo income, bought a property, built my own house using the principle of the Ant and so much more even without haven started listening to you yet.
I am so thankful for the wisdom which you dispense. It validates my personal principles and wisdom.
Thank you Sir!
Yh ur write up was indeed encouraging
Chai people are on ticktok to see mess,
But see us. We are here Embracing the unimaginable
Greatness always comes with a price
Tiktok can be a waste of time
Glad to come to this platform. So true I wish I met you earlier. Now I am 62 having made so many mistakes. However, there is a lot to do now with my life. God bless you more to reach many people in younger age
I’m not a Christian but I really appreciate your message sir, I hope you live long to continue impacting your wisdom
Amen.
Dr Charles Apoki is
Literally the Myles Munroe of our Time
The only thing is that is pulpit is the media and like honestly, i love it. Not someone who has not being called but called themself and there is no true power to see the proof of being called by God. Dr. You truly are indeed.
Truly a “ Solid Word”! Sometimes and some people have to be taught how to respect your compassion! Otherwise, you’re casting your pearls to “ swine”! God bless you richly brother for the words you sow!
If you comment here wrongly daddy will expel you… I love your message so much. You have a new follower from Ghana
😅
Thank you fo this message because I I am to nice but I am about to get ruthless. Because when nice you get no respect. I am 64. And Iam tired . thats me , they treat me like trush. From this day forward. . thank you ! God Bless you. 2/2024 from Pa.
You don't necessarily have to be ruthless, just have limits and draw that line.
Chai thank you pastor, this is one of my weak point, too nice to people, I need more of this message
Having similar problem too nice to family and friends , time to change
Is he a Pastor?
Exactly 💯😂. I am over good to people. Infact I am learning a lot here. Thank you Dr. Apoki
I am not sure, he his, but baba has scriptural knowledge
Your message here is so true. I live in the USA, many family members back home are “strangulating” their American people here. It’s so weird they (family members back home) will make you feel they will die if you don’t send them money right away.
And they don't know how hard you work for your money and the sacrifices you make.
Once anybody knows you are in the USA they believe that you are rich. You just came in and started sweep dollars from the ground. Same assumption in latinamerica. The true or reality is very different but people don't believe it.
I have been sending for various reasons, school fees, health feeding b7t 8t is getting worse by day, so after 30yrs and no results, even kids that are now adults graduated stil begging someone who is almost 60yrs old for support?....I stopped listening to you confirms my decision. There is no point to waste my hatd earned widows might on useless course@DrCharlesApoki
I’m nice until I’m not nice, something I live by.
This man is full of wisdom.
He speaks like a Capricorn ♑️ truthful and straight
He is a Taurus
@@markgeorge7426Taurus and Cap are both Earth signs.
Are scorpios straightforward?
The truth knows no signs
@@no_guarantees True
i got ripped off so many times and treated really bad by ex's.. then one day a really tough guy who liked me because i was not after his set told me that i kept getting ripped off and treated really bad/cheated on etc because people did not fear any consequences of treating me bad
i still try to be as good hearted as i can but I'm getting better at being assertive and making there be consequences for people if they treat me very badly (not necessarily violence but just things like that's the end of the relationship/friendship/business if people are even slightly disrespectful or abusive to me and i these days will stand firm in my higher and not tolerate abuse or bad treatment from people at all, where before i would forgive them and let them be in my life still, but they always hurt me more later if i let them be in my life after they proved they hurt me (i think it's like, "don't cast our pearls before swine lest they turn and rend us" .. we are best to keep our good safe from those who would deliberately hurt us.. if we let them keep on being near us they will hurt us again and maybe much more badly if we let them be near us so it is best to keep them away.. it is their choice not us to be bad.. Jesus didn't stay with people or let people be near him if he knew they were bad for him so we are not bad to keep bad for us people out of our life
best wishes to you all
from Rolland in Scotland
if "Kevvy" who lived in Fallowfield in Manchester is known by any of you please ask him to get in touch with me as he had to leave quickly and i always hope he is ok
it is not often that you see or meet people who say what they mean and mean exactly what they say,you dr.apoki are from that rare lot who will not compromise under no circumstance.
That’s very good that u re standing against gay acts.that’s another deadly thing that is working against our society now
Dr. Apoki needs to be elected president.
Thanks
You are clearly very disciplined. This is what Nigeria needs. Well done sir
Well done Sir. I love you. May God give you more grace to build a better stronger society.
Just like water, it will quench your thirst, but it can also drown you and cause destruction.
You teach what our fathers arr quiet to say
Truth most be said and stand with, then wisdom and prosperity follows.
GOD BLESS YOU DR APOKI.THOSE WHO HAVE EARS WILL HEAR. PEOPLE ARE GETTING TIRED OF LEVIES ETC IN SOME DENOMINATIONS WHERE THE CHURCH RELiES HEAVILY ON THE LAITY.
each time i watch a new video, i say "this is the best one yet".
This is my best program in quest FM Ughelli delta state with respect sir listen from Ibadan👍👍
Thanks
Thanks Dr. Apoki, as always. Too much tolerance produces family and social problems. In the US public school system, kids who perform poorly don't repeat grades, rather they attend some weeks of summer school for extra work, and promoted to the next class. If you are a parent overworking and not paying attention to your children's school work, you are doomed because some of those students carried over to the next class will be in 5th grade and reading at kindergarten level. Chinese and Japanese are more strict and produce smart graduates. That's why Nigerians are tolerating bad governance, and things has really fallen apart, and the center can no longer hold according to our Chunua Achebe. I learn a lot from your speeches and videos. May God continue to increase your anointing 🙏
I'm enlighten by this video, and I'm glad to hear this message now because I'm a business man and it will help me immensely. Thank you sir
Glad it was helpful! Please share with others.
I'm blessed to hear from you sir, thank you and God bless you.
What is learnt here so priceless.. May God keep blessing you Dr. Apoki🙏
Thank you so much Dr,you are a gift to mankind, watching from Cameroon
You are very welcome
Fountain of Wisdom!!!!!! This is REALLY DEEP!!! Dr Charles well said and I admire your WISDOM!!!!! God bless you and age gracefully and graciously. God bless you SIR!!!!
Amen.
Apoki the president of common sense
Thanks so much. Please where are you watching from.
@@drcharlesapoki please right here in Ghana I started watching only two weeks ago but I have learnt so much from your videos
Very sincere, truthful, and practical.
God bless you, sir
Amen.
You are a great man sir.
Thank God for expiring the teacher that gave anointing oil to the student, this could be something else Thank for being firm
Seriously you earned my subscription..your are truely a wise man Nigerians needs you sir God bless you sir
Full of wisdom. Thank you so much. Indeed we tolerated stupidity a lot. Powerful teaching
I am happy I found u online sir. Ur teaching gives me insight
Thank you for your words of wisdom sir. These are the values i wish i was taught at sunday school decades ago, not all those shallow lessons about "loving your neighbors & enemies".
❤❤🎉
@46:54 Kenyans Kikuyus are acknowledge here thumps up for Dr Apoki for that👏👏👏
kabisa.. but mimi ni mluhya
I truly love and admire Dr Apoki. I wish I can regularly chat with him
No "Daddy"....u will deaden me.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆...that line was funny.Ose...wan kill me with laff.
You are a Blessing Sir!
Yes Sir, I concur. Where there is no discipline, there is disorder. Disorder must be handled ruthlessly.
A message at the nick of time!
I swear. A right word at the right time, how pleasant is it. Many of us out of sentiments and spirituality are being ripped by people with ulterior motive. May the Lord keep us wiser.
Dr your teaching is always reinforcing my beliefs and values. Thanks
"Sometimes I am not nice." 😂
Me too 🖤
Indeed am happy i stumbled on this message.You are endowed sir with wisdom. God bless you
I love this man❤ God bless you, grandpa!
Sir, we need people like you in Nigerian politics/government.
Raw and powerful teaching... i drew inspiration from this cuz i find myself helping people with the little resources I have but not recording any significance achievement for myself year in year out.
You’re filled with wisdom.
You’re a very intelligent man. May the good Lord continue to preserve and strengthen you.
❤ Burst you!!!! 😂 I love the way you say it
Thank you sir. This is seriously serious. God helping me.
My pleasure.
This message came at the best time I needed it. Dr. Apoki, God bless you sir.
May God continue to bless you as you instruct and enlighten us. Thank you sir.
Amen.
I wish I met this channel earlier ,i lost my business and ran into debt of more than 12million because i left my junior brother same father and mother to manage it, when i realize my mistake,he ran away with the goods in the shop to open a new shop for himself and after few months he bought himself a car and left me in debt.Family is wicked i swear
Sorry Bro. Hope you learnt the lesson and you will never repeat it again.
People most times become wiser after the events. Not good enough. One of the greatest mistakes we make as humans, is that we live and take decisions emotionally.
They have destroyed the mangroves in Lagos. So it may be susceptible to Tsunami. . God save this nation.
You have added value to my life, by this message.
Sorry for the way your brother treated you, God will restore all you have lost 🙏
Dr Sir I always feel blessed and great listening to your gospel sir
You are always imparting your knowledge and words of wisdom. I like your channel for this reason. You are a very intelligent man. Much respect and greetings from 🇺🇸 .
I love and respect your person especially your sound , constructive and educated mind. 💌.
Thanks!
I just love this my papa, I'm not Jesus Christ, only God can give his life 😂😂😂 not me, i was just being carried away by religion, and sometimes i over nice, my over niceness and philanthropy life once leads me to depression, because i was so broke, after i get back to my senses omo, i changed plans, i need to help my seld first before helping others, if you like cry a River.
People's pleaser, not know how to say no & unable to set boundaries just in other to be a nice person always a disappointment at road end. Ask me reason why then I show you my scars & disappointment as results.
Why
This is interesting, this message is a matiral anyone can use to rebrand himself thank you sir I'm seriously learning from your message and I will not take them for granted thanks
Hi Dr Apoki. I enjoy listening to your teaching. Thanks sir🍎🍎
These are powerful words.More grace sir
It was the HUSBAND who told the first lie. His wife followed him. That's why women should not say yes to everything their husbands suggest. It will cost your life. Be like Abigail with David. Use wisdom.
Wisdom speaks.
Very truthful am a victim of this very dangerous
You are doing so well in truth Sir. Kerp it ip. Truth.is very much needed in the life of today snd it's a very scars comodity
Thank you Doctor, you are a wise man sent to teach us lacking in knowledge.
I can't get enough of you.. God keep blessing you with more wisdom sir
Amen.
I haven't watched the video, but based on his previous videos I've watched, l know there'll be a lot of wisdom in this video
That's what I need and many pastors. That's what kills our sweet. Thank you daddy I love you from Kenya
Pst Chris I want to join you classes
I am amazed, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. I am energized..
I like the way u give us advice from a biblical perspective..thank God Christianity isn't dead.
All I can say is well done, Dr. The Lord keeps you .
That is the truth
One thing i don't play with is my free time. I relax when it's time to relax
Well spoken, Thanks for this great message.☝️
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out alk the demons finish which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
The mentorship I needed
Thanks daddy, i believe your messages will help me, to achieve great success in life. Watching from cameroon.👍
May God continue to give you wisdom 🙏
Haba Doc, sake, sake, sake people. No one is perfect, give a second chance in some circumstances biko