I’m polite and respectful but I’m not as nice as I used to be. I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to call people out on their bull--. Folks are banking on you to let things slide …that only encourages them to keep being disrespectful.
Everytime I listen to you I see exactly the way I am and I am glad that nothing is actually wrong with me because people always complain that I am not like everyone else but I don't care and that has helped me to build solid structure in my business, family and life in general. Today I have been able to constantly grow and acquire more education, build more businesses, implement the Echo income, bought a property, built my own house using the principle of the Ant and so much more even without haven started listening to you yet. I am so thankful for the wisdom which you dispense. It validates my personal principles and wisdom. Thank you Sir!
In 2008, my mentor, a brilliant scholar, won a visa lottery and left Nigeria to join a university in New York as a post-doctoral fellow. He had earned his PhD from Reading University, showcasing his academic excellence. Despite his qualifications and potential, he faced a significant challenge at the university in New York. His supervisor, feeling threatened by my mentor's capabilities, warned him that any attempt to outshine him would result in being ousted from the university.
I wish I met this channel earlier ,i lost my business and ran into debt of more than 12million because i left my junior brother same father and mother to manage it, when i realize my mistake,he ran away with the goods in the shop to open a new shop for himself and after few months he bought himself a car and left me in debt.Family is wicked i swear
People most times become wiser after the events. Not good enough. One of the greatest mistakes we make as humans, is that we live and take decisions emotionally.
Glad to come to this platform. So true I wish I met you earlier. Now I am 62 having made so many mistakes. However, there is a lot to do now with my life. God bless you more to reach many people in younger age
I just love this my papa, I'm not Jesus Christ, only God can give his life 😂😂😂 not me, i was just being carried away by religion, and sometimes i over nice, my over niceness and philanthropy life once leads me to depression, because i was so broke, after i get back to my senses omo, i changed plans, i need to help my seld first before helping others, if you like cry a River.
The only thing is that is pulpit is the media and like honestly, i love it. Not someone who has not being called but called themself and there is no true power to see the proof of being called by God. Dr. You truly are indeed.
It was the HUSBAND who told the first lie. His wife followed him. That's why women should not say yes to everything their husbands suggest. It will cost your life. Be like Abigail with David. Use wisdom.
Were u opportuned to generational wealth assistant or acquired wealth. People do bad things for good reasons and people do good things for bad reasons (there’s a lot to this statement) but that doesn’t define the real self. Situations can make a man do what he detest the most. So judging by immediate action might not always be the good result. Even Jesus in the Bible before letting anyone cast a stone on the prostitute had to discern before letting them do the condemnation. I’m sorry sir but I think I might not be correct. I’ll love it if you can explain more of this to me… Maybe discernment might help to deciphering the truth. “
it is not often that you see or meet people who say what they mean and mean exactly what they say,you dr.apoki are from that rare lot who will not compromise under no circumstance.
i got ripped off so many times and treated really bad by ex's.. then one day a really tough guy who liked me because i was not after his set told me that i kept getting ripped off and treated really bad/cheated on etc because people did not fear any consequences of treating me bad i still try to be as good hearted as i can but I'm getting better at being assertive and making there be consequences for people if they treat me very badly (not necessarily violence but just things like that's the end of the relationship/friendship/business if people are even slightly disrespectful or abusive to me and i these days will stand firm in my higher and not tolerate abuse or bad treatment from people at all, where before i would forgive them and let them be in my life still, but they always hurt me more later if i let them be in my life after they proved they hurt me (i think it's like, "don't cast our pearls before swine lest they turn and rend us" .. we are best to keep our good safe from those who would deliberately hurt us.. if we let them keep on being near us they will hurt us again and maybe much more badly if we let them be near us so it is best to keep them away.. it is their choice not us to be bad.. Jesus didn't stay with people or let people be near him if he knew they were bad for him so we are not bad to keep bad for us people out of our life best wishes to you all from Rolland in Scotland if "Kevvy" who lived in Fallowfield in Manchester is known by any of you please ask him to get in touch with me as he had to leave quickly and i always hope he is ok
I loved the message. I am new here just found your content today Dr Charles, and I thank God for your life that I get to hear your educative content today. You are right, self-preservation is a must and you have done well to do it for yourself that's why you live to this day and I am privileged to hear your voice. I learnt that being nice without wisdom is dangerous because, in this generation with Satan leading the world, people do not have pure intentions as you are so if you are nice and naive, they will crush you! Once again, Thank you for the insights.
Thank you fo this message because I I am to nice but I am about to get ruthless. Because when nice you get no respect. I am 64. And Iam tired . thats me , they treat me like trush. From this day forward. . thank you ! God Bless you. 2/2024 from Pa.
This is interesting, this message is a matiral anyone can use to rebrand himself thank you sir I'm seriously learning from your message and I will not take them for granted thanks
Truly a “ Solid Word”! Sometimes and some people have to be taught how to respect your compassion! Otherwise, you’re casting your pearls to “ swine”! God bless you richly brother for the words you sow!
Thank you for your words of wisdom sir. These are the values i wish i was taught at sunday school decades ago, not all those shallow lessons about "loving your neighbors & enemies".
Your message here is so true. I live in the USA, many family members back home are “strangulating” their American people here. It’s so weird they (family members back home) will make you feel they will die if you don’t send them money right away.
Once anybody knows you are in the USA they believe that you are rich. You just came in and started sweep dollars from the ground. Same assumption in latinamerica. The true or reality is very different but people don't believe it.
I have been sending for various reasons, school fees, health feeding b7t 8t is getting worse by day, so after 30yrs and no results, even kids that are now adults graduated stil begging someone who is almost 60yrs old for support?....I stopped listening to you confirms my decision. There is no point to waste my hatd earned widows might on useless course@DrCharlesApoki
Fountain of Wisdom!!!!!! This is REALLY DEEP!!! Dr Charles well said and I admire your WISDOM!!!!! God bless you and age gracefully and graciously. God bless you SIR!!!!
The reference of nature as a means or teaching is not by accident, in Nigerian culture specific Yoruba everything around them was spoken in tales regarding the world around them that became a ethic of living, called IFA ODU's
What you said to an extent makes sense but I must tell you, you have anger issues. If someone tries to handle issues the way you are telling them, they must have problems. I had encountered these issues with people I helped even with some of my siblings but, will that stop me? No . What we need in life is WISDOM. Even yourself is not perfect. What you are practicing is not ruthlessness is wickedness.
You obviously just watched the video,but didn't grasp nor understand the message. You probably fit the description of the type of people he advised we handle with little to no mercy or sympathy.
Honestly, this bears rewatching and rewatching .. I really love ittttt. I agree with everything in it, oh... Except the one where you made your child redo year 1, personally I don't think it was necessary, but it's just a personal opinion. God bless you sir❤
for your own good I will advice you not to be afraid to loose friendship. sometimes you do not even have some of the friendships you think you have anybody who does not respect you is not your friend. period so if you are letting go of your personal values and loosing your self and probably doing the wrong things or suffering unnecessary pressures just to keep a friend then I am sorry you do not really have a friend so dont be afraid to loose something you do not have. if you really have a true friend you will not fear for one day to loose them because its going to be very real.
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out alk the demons finish which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out all the demons finish ,which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
Thanks alot sir for your words of wisdom. You are indeed an encouragement to me to stay strong. May God bless and keep you in good health for us the young generation. Amen
Wish i had a dad like you than my #selfish father who is self #centered and doesnt care about his children..no #advice, no #shelter, no #protection, always manipulating you to suit his benefit. Very Immature and always pulling u down just to fulfill his emotional validation...always acting nice to outsiders so they will think he is good but deep within he is toxic,monster and controlling when u are close to him..all he care about is him having money and he thinks thats all...no wonder, his own family members hate him
I’m polite and respectful but I’m not as nice as I used to be. I set boundaries and I’m not afraid to call people out on their bull--. Folks are banking on you to let things slide …that only encourages them to keep being disrespectful.
Everytime I listen to you I see exactly the way I am and I am glad that nothing is actually wrong with me because people always complain that I am not like everyone else but I don't care and that has helped me to build solid structure in my business, family and life in general.
Today I have been able to constantly grow and acquire more education, build more businesses, implement the Echo income, bought a property, built my own house using the principle of the Ant and so much more even without haven started listening to you yet.
I am so thankful for the wisdom which you dispense. It validates my personal principles and wisdom.
Thank you Sir!
Yh ur write up was indeed encouraging
This man is now my internet father 😊😊. I listen to him before I go to work.
Sir, in you I see my father and my secondary school principal. I than God I found you. May you remain in good health.
Being nice has a limit. If you go beyond that limit, people will definitely take advantage of you. Very true. Thank you sir.
🙏🏾
💯😌😌
I learned the hard way
Be kind instead, not nice
The riches of this content can't be measured. Thank you Dr Apoki
"Let profits fuel philanthropy and not capital."
Well understood sir.
Yes dont outshine your boss! That is one of the laws in the book “48 Laws”
It's the first law. Never outshine the master.
Still reading
In 2008, my mentor, a brilliant scholar, won a visa lottery and left Nigeria to join a university in New York as a post-doctoral fellow. He had earned his PhD from Reading University, showcasing his academic excellence.
Despite his qualifications and potential, he faced a significant challenge at the university in New York. His supervisor, feeling threatened by my mentor's capabilities, warned him that any attempt to outshine him would result in being ousted from the university.
@@adebayoolufemi2074 at least he told him.
So some people are meant to dim other people's light so theirs can shine brighter? Are you serious right now? Boss bosses.
If you comment here wrongly daddy will expel you… I love your message so much. You have a new follower from Ghana
I wish I met this channel earlier ,i lost my business and ran into debt of more than 12million because i left my junior brother same father and mother to manage it, when i realize my mistake,he ran away with the goods in the shop to open a new shop for himself and after few months he bought himself a car and left me in debt.Family is wicked i swear
Sorry Bro. Hope you learnt the lesson and you will never repeat it again.
People most times become wiser after the events. Not good enough. One of the greatest mistakes we make as humans, is that we live and take decisions emotionally.
They have destroyed the mangroves in Lagos. So it may be susceptible to Tsunami. . God save this nation.
You have added value to my life, by this message.
I love and respect your person especially your sound , constructive and educated mind. 💌.
You’re filled with wisdom.
You’re a very intelligent man. May the good Lord continue to preserve and strengthen you.
I can't stop laughing listening to you sir.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree! Especially 'I expelled them', I thank God I found uncle's channel 😂😂😂
@@jusdoingmethat line makes me spleen hurt 😂.
😂😂😂
I’m nice until I’m not nice, something I live by.
Glad to come to this platform. So true I wish I met you earlier. Now I am 62 having made so many mistakes. However, there is a lot to do now with my life. God bless you more to reach many people in younger age
The day is not completed if l didn't listen to Dr Charles
I just love this my papa, I'm not Jesus Christ, only God can give his life 😂😂😂 not me, i was just being carried away by religion, and sometimes i over nice, my over niceness and philanthropy life once leads me to depression, because i was so broke, after i get back to my senses omo, i changed plans, i need to help my seld first before helping others, if you like cry a River.
Chai people are on ticktok to see mess,
But see us. We are here Embracing the unimaginable
Greatness always comes with a price
Dr Charles Apoki is
Literally the Myles Munroe of our Time
The only thing is that is pulpit is the media and like honestly, i love it. Not someone who has not being called but called themself and there is no true power to see the proof of being called by God. Dr. You truly are indeed.
Just like water, it will quench your thirst, but it can also drown you and cause destruction.
That’s very good that u re standing against gay acts.that’s another deadly thing that is working against our society now
Dr your teaching is always reinforcing my beliefs and values. Thanks
I'm enlighten by this video, and I'm glad to hear this message now because I'm a business man and it will help me immensely. Thank you sir
Glad it was helpful! Please share with others.
It was the HUSBAND who told the first lie. His wife followed him. That's why women should not say yes to everything their husbands suggest. It will cost your life. Be like Abigail with David. Use wisdom.
I’m not a Christian but I really appreciate your message sir, I hope you live long to continue impacting your wisdom
Amen.
Were u opportuned to generational wealth assistant or acquired wealth.
People do bad things for good reasons and people do good things for bad reasons (there’s a lot to this statement) but that doesn’t define the real self. Situations can make a man do what he detest the most. So judging by immediate action might not always be the good result. Even Jesus in the Bible before letting anyone cast a stone on the prostitute had to discern before letting them do the condemnation. I’m sorry sir but I think I might not be correct. I’ll love it if you can explain more of this to me… Maybe discernment might help to deciphering the truth.
“
Thank you so much Dr,you are a gift to mankind, watching from Cameroon
You are very welcome
A wise man once said "be too nice and people will treat you like a dummy" RIP DOOM
This is my best program in quest FM Ughelli delta state with respect sir listen from Ibadan👍👍
Thanks
each time i watch a new video, i say "this is the best one yet".
@46:54 Kenyans Kikuyus are acknowledge here thumps up for Dr Apoki for that👏👏👏
kabisa.. but mimi ni mluhya
it is not often that you see or meet people who say what they mean and mean exactly what they say,you dr.apoki are from that rare lot who will not compromise under no circumstance.
Full of wisdom. Thank you so much. Indeed we tolerated stupidity a lot. Powerful teaching
i got ripped off so many times and treated really bad by ex's.. then one day a really tough guy who liked me because i was not after his set told me that i kept getting ripped off and treated really bad/cheated on etc because people did not fear any consequences of treating me bad
i still try to be as good hearted as i can but I'm getting better at being assertive and making there be consequences for people if they treat me very badly (not necessarily violence but just things like that's the end of the relationship/friendship/business if people are even slightly disrespectful or abusive to me and i these days will stand firm in my higher and not tolerate abuse or bad treatment from people at all, where before i would forgive them and let them be in my life still, but they always hurt me more later if i let them be in my life after they proved they hurt me (i think it's like, "don't cast our pearls before swine lest they turn and rend us" .. we are best to keep our good safe from those who would deliberately hurt us.. if we let them keep on being near us they will hurt us again and maybe much more badly if we let them be near us so it is best to keep them away.. it is their choice not us to be bad.. Jesus didn't stay with people or let people be near him if he knew they were bad for him so we are not bad to keep bad for us people out of our life
best wishes to you all
from Rolland in Scotland
if "Kevvy" who lived in Fallowfield in Manchester is known by any of you please ask him to get in touch with me as he had to leave quickly and i always hope he is ok
Seriously you earned my subscription..your are truely a wise man Nigerians needs you sir God bless you sir
I loved the message. I am new here just found your content today Dr Charles, and I thank God for your life that I get to hear your educative content today. You are right, self-preservation is a must and you have done well to do it for yourself that's why you live to this day and I am privileged to hear your voice. I learnt that being nice without wisdom is dangerous because, in this generation with Satan leading the world, people do not have pure intentions as you are so if you are nice and naive, they will crush you!
Once again, Thank you for the insights.
Thank you fo this message because I I am to nice but I am about to get ruthless. Because when nice you get no respect. I am 64. And Iam tired . thats me , they treat me like trush. From this day forward. . thank you ! God Bless you. 2/2024 from Pa.
You don't necessarily have to be ruthless, just have limits and draw that line.
Thanks daddy, i believe your messages will help me, to achieve great success in life. Watching from cameroon.👍
This man is wise, may God give him more years to live.
Amẹn 🙏 ooo
🙏
Amen
Thank you very much, Daddy . I really appreciate your talk.🙏🏽
This is interesting, this message is a matiral anyone can use to rebrand himself thank you sir I'm seriously learning from your message and I will not take them for granted thanks
Truly a “ Solid Word”! Sometimes and some people have to be taught how to respect your compassion! Otherwise, you’re casting your pearls to “ swine”! God bless you richly brother for the words you sow!
You teach what our fathers arr quiet to say
ALWAYS Relevant topics! Thnak you, Dr. Charles.
Very sincere, truthful, and practical.
God bless you, sir
Amen.
Thank you for your words of wisdom sir. These are the values i wish i was taught at sunday school decades ago, not all those shallow lessons about "loving your neighbors & enemies".
❤❤🎉
That's what I need and many pastors. That's what kills our sweet. Thank you daddy I love you from Kenya
Pst Chris I want to join you classes
Your message here is so true. I live in the USA, many family members back home are “strangulating” their American people here. It’s so weird they (family members back home) will make you feel they will die if you don’t send them money right away.
And they don't know how hard you work for your money and the sacrifices you make.
Once anybody knows you are in the USA they believe that you are rich. You just came in and started sweep dollars from the ground. Same assumption in latinamerica. The true or reality is very different but people don't believe it.
I have been sending for various reasons, school fees, health feeding b7t 8t is getting worse by day, so after 30yrs and no results, even kids that are now adults graduated stil begging someone who is almost 60yrs old for support?....I stopped listening to you confirms my decision. There is no point to waste my hatd earned widows might on useless course@DrCharlesApoki
Great epitome of knowledge
Thank you Dr.
Watching from Liberia
I am amazed, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. I am energized..
Thank you for the great advice doctor.
I am from uganda
I like the way u give us advice from a biblical perspective..thank God Christianity isn't dead.
Dr. Apoki needs to be elected president.
I love this man❤ God bless you, grandpa!
You are a Blessing Sir!
Are you saying that the scriptures killed her
Hi Dr Apoki. I enjoy listening to your teaching. Thanks sir🍎🍎
Fountain of Wisdom!!!!!! This is REALLY DEEP!!! Dr Charles well said and I admire your WISDOM!!!!! God bless you and age gracefully and graciously. God bless you SIR!!!!
Amen.
Chai thank you pastor, this is one of my weak point, too nice to people, I need more of this message
Having similar problem too nice to family and friends , time to change
Is he a Pastor?
Exactly 💯😂. I am over good to people. Infact I am learning a lot here. Thank you Dr. Apoki
I am not sure, he his, but baba has scriptural knowledge
Thank you so much for this epistle Dr. Apoki.
May God bless you sir.
Dr. Thank you so much. This is super wisdom
I haven't watched the video, but based on his previous videos I've watched, l know there'll be a lot of wisdom in this video
Well spoken, Thanks for this great message.☝️
All I can say is well done, Dr. The Lord keeps you .
Good to come across your video today. Very inspiring and interesting. Watching from united states 🇺🇸.
Sir, we need people like you in Nigerian politics/government.
Dr. Watching from Kenya…..you ooze wisdom
The reference of nature as a means or teaching is not by accident, in Nigerian culture specific Yoruba everything around them was spoken in tales regarding the world around them that became a ethic of living, called IFA ODU's
It's the case for all human cultures on earth. All.
you are my man.. Ruthless..love u
May God bless you Sir. How wish I was opportuned to sit under your tutelage some 30 years ago.
Encouraging and practical advice
Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us
God bless you 🙏
Thank you sir. This is seriously serious. God helping me.
My pleasure.
Thank you Doctor, you are a wise man sent to teach us lacking in knowledge.
May God continue to bless you as you instruct and enlighten us. Thank you sir.
Amen.
Thank you very much because I have been in that situation since I was a kid up to this point.
I thank God we still have Elders like this who choose to educate us With their WISDOM.
God bless you Sir 🙏🙏
Big up and respect from Soweto, JHB...
God bless you sir. I'm always thrilled by you're knowledge & wisdom. Thank you sir.
What you said to an extent makes sense but I must tell you, you have anger issues. If someone tries to handle issues the way you are telling them, they must have problems. I had encountered these issues with people I helped even with some of my siblings but, will that stop me? No . What we need in life is WISDOM. Even yourself is not perfect. What you are practicing is not ruthlessness is wickedness.
Take your time and listen to it again.
You obviously just watched the video,but didn't grasp nor understand the message. You probably fit the description of the type of people he advised we handle with little to no mercy or sympathy.
I'm real, not nice and it works for me.
Honestly, this bears rewatching and rewatching
.. I really love ittttt. I agree with everything in it, oh... Except the one where you made your child redo year 1, personally I don't think it was necessary, but it's just a personal opinion.
God bless you sir❤
Love it .Thank you again from a long time friend
Thank you too!
Can’t stop laughing at how you emphasis on your words😅
I will adopt some things but I am afraid to lose friendship.I am too gracious
for your own good I will advice you not to be afraid to loose friendship. sometimes you do not even have some of the friendships you think you have anybody who does not respect you is not your friend. period so if you are letting go of your personal values and loosing your self and probably doing the wrong things or suffering unnecessary pressures just to keep a friend then I am sorry you do not really have a friend so dont be afraid to loose something you do not have. if you really have a true friend you will not fear for one day to loose them because its going to be very real.
This video is fantastic Dr Apoki! People need to learn to establish boundaries, otherwise, they perish.
I just like you and the words of wisdom, I am just like you,my life is so fulfilled and accomplished ,keep the good works up.God continue helping you.
Wonderful sermon, I have learned something which have wrecked my life. Thank you bro.
When are you visiting Kenya
When you people plan a program and invite me.
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out alk the demons finish which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
Wise man
Lmao😂😂 Dr said if he cast out all the demons finish ,which ones will the next generation cast out😂😂. Wisdom is really profitable to direct. Dr is a balanced Christian
Thanks alot sir for your words of wisdom.
You are indeed an encouragement to me to stay strong.
May God bless and keep you in good health for us the young generation. Amen
May God continue to give you wisdom 🙏
Wish i had a dad like you than my #selfish father who is self #centered and doesnt care about his children..no #advice, no #shelter, no #protection, always manipulating you to suit his benefit. Very Immature and always pulling u down just to fulfill his emotional validation...always acting nice to outsiders so they will think he is good but deep within he is toxic,monster and controlling when u are close to him..all he care about is him having money and he thinks thats all...no wonder, his own family members hate him
Strong man
Sir, what is the name of your school and location. Is it boarding school
Petra Christian academy ugheli
Thank you DR may GODbless and your family ijn Amen
Thank you my friend the Dr full of wisdom
Thank you sir. How do I join the WhatsApp group sir
I love this message so much. You're so right!