Hi Amanda, been following you for quite a while now and I identify with you on a lot of your experiences. I parented my daughter with the help of my family while the father has been absent since 2016. My daughter passed at the age of 10 this year, what a beautiful soul she was. Today, the 23rd September is her first birthday in her absence and it is just so hard. She would have been turning 11, I'm beyond heart broken, the pain is just unbearable. The father is trying to make his way back and I know even if I tried to go back it would never make sense why only now and will never work out, it is too late. I needed him when my daughter was alive as a sick child living with a chronic illness. We have another daughter (8) together but that's just it for me. There is a lot maan, I am triggered. My vent for now. You're much younger than me but I always look forward to your content. Keep pushing my love, I really enjoy your content.
lol pls why do we live the same life? Two girls, two baby daddies, baby daddy issues, left corporate coz I don’t play with my mental health 😂. Love you so much Mandy you’re an inspiration and I’m always rooting for you!❤️
I just laughed when you started preaching about “cheating” in relationships coz that’s so me 😅. I’m being told that I say I will leave as soon as I find out my partner is cheating because I’ve never found someone that I truly love. And my response would always be “then I guess I’ll never find that kind of person because that would imply going against putting myself first”. I can’t be praying everyday to God asking for a peaceful life and still actively put myself in situations that take away the very peace I’m praying for. I’m trying to meet God halfway here 😂.
❤❤❤you know, every time I watch your channel,I learn something, the embarrassing part. I'm older, sis, in my 40s, 3 kids age(21,11,3), and different dads, but fortunately, I'm still together with the 3rd dads, and he ❤my kids 😊😊😊
Thank you for being you. Thank you for sharing your story and journey. As a fellow single mother of two with no financial support from their dad, i appreciate you more than you know. Thank you for being vocal on our behalf. You are speaking life into a million of us single moms out here.
I relate so much. I also left my corporate job because of that inward feeling that I should be living life a different way. I am not making money formally but I am constantly assured that I will be alright, through sufficient provision and abundance. Always getting what I need when I need it. At the same time, I am constantly and eagerly asking God & my ancestors to get me moving on my desired life based on my given purpose. It feels like it’s taking forever to get there but at the same time it feels like I am already living in it.
Your vlogs are my go-to relaxation after a long day of dissertation writing - can't wait to unwind! You have no idea how much I've missed them. However, I commend you for taking time to yourself. You look like you're in a much better space 😊
You know what? I see myself in you so much. An older version of myself... I watch you and sometimes feel like I'm asking my older self questions and you answer them. I laughed, got emotional and said Amen more than I can count. I love you so much. Continue doing what you're doing, Lord put you on this platform for a reason. You're right, God wouldn't put you where you are right now and not provide. Literally, YOU ARE DOING A BEAUTIFUL JOB!!! You are doing a gorgeous job.
Welcome back Mandy, missed you. All will be the well. The God that created us has good plans for us and he knows our tears. At the right time God will make everything beautiful.
Hey Mands!❤Nice to see you’re doing well and continuing to young moms like myself to do nothing less than the best for our little ones 😅. You mentioned how you’re not applying actively because you’re intentional about the companies you want to work for And I was thinking maybe you should do a video on that, young people just send 100 applications in a day that aren’t intentional and chances that you’ll get that job when you send one CV and one cover letter to different roles. One or two applications a week should be enough if you’re focusing on it and prepping your CV to fit that specific role. It’s a lot of work and I think we need that guidance from someone like you who’s been in corporate for so long🫂✨
Thank you Mandz for choosing to stand by your truth. There's so much to learn from your personality and spirit. Ungaphel'umoya dear Sis. God's got you 🙏 ❤
The way you fondly speak about Lucia when she comes up? You are absolutely amazing. The end of a friendship doesn’t have to signal hostility. I love how you still mention the good she has done even though you guys decided to part ways❤️
Im sure if Mandy had a problem with the question she wouldn’t have addressed it and she would have said that it not be asked in future your boundaries are not someone else’s boundaries .
Hey Mama, I am a silent subbie, your content gives me hope & faith being unemployed and a single mom. You are glowing and always remember to take of self first❤❤
Love your content so much as a single mom to an 8yrs old boy. I have just recommended your channel to my friend who is a single mom to 2 girls , almost the same ages as your girls. I know she will relate a lot to you. Your content is healing.
Sjoooeee 🥺🥺😭😭 Akena mantsoe hle, Momma... Your ability to be so transparent and intentional with it too in hoping it heals the next, is a super power that God has blessed you with🥹❤️ Mandy, we appreciate the work you do and I pray for God's provision over your life
You glowing mama ❤❤❤love it for youu. I feel you on unemployment part, I was unemployed for almost 4 months as well, I am finally employed. Your time will come, I love that you are trusting God and the process ❤❤
So much pain that you bear ,but so much strength through the pain,you are inspirational mommy,keep going,May God continue to heal you with time,cause you are such an awesome soul.❤❤❤
I was so sad when I didn’t get accepted for Journalism at TUT in 2015 and I totally agree with you Mandy. I ended up studying at Rosebank doing Public Relations. I probably could’ve opted for Communication Science or International Relations at Unisa but yooh I was not ready for Unisa honestly.
Hahaaaaaaaha Mandy yes there's such a village but I dunno if you'll hack it there....honestly 😂😂😂You can actually just come to kenya there's loads of stuff to see... I'm sure you'd love it here coz your vibe is vibing!!!!! Tuna kupenda sana ❤🇰🇪
Hey Mandy. Love from Kenya ❤. Sure there is such a village in Kenya. It's called the UMOJA village. Umoja means Unity. It's in Samburu. Welcome to Kenya ❤.
Owamie was judge by women for divorcing her husband for cheating and you saying all the points she told thanks mandy it shows that thwre are women who stand by their truth ❤
onething about u Strongest women, inspiration to black women u aren't scared to address the elephant head on!i love u so much mandy continue living your truth u have no idea how u inspire me 😢All the best mama the Lord sees and hears u ❤ u got this❤❤❤
Speaking about cheating oh my goodness my ex fiancé yooh na namhlanje it pains my heart everyday when I think about having kids I am.just focusing on my degree and getting a job and just trusting in the process maybe I will adopt a kid someday and now I find it hard to be in a relationship but I believe God will come through for me my life it's just a roller-coaster and I am only at my early twenties , a hug from my momma would do kodwa ndi sheke ndindedwa my sperm donor after my mom's funeral he disappeared 😂😂😂 anyway I am so sorry for my mini venting Love you sis Mandy I can't wait for your sit down with wawa wish all the best mommy inkosi ik'busise❤❤❤
Hey Mama you are so beautiful never forget that and such an inspiration and your kids are truly blessed and Thank you for opening your heart to us I love you gal
Hi, with regards to jobs have you looked at Communications/Knowledge Manager/Advocacy roles in NGO's? I have noticed they always looking for people with journalism/media qualification or experience...🇺🇬
Hi Amanda, been following you for quite a while now and I identify with you on a lot of your experiences. I parented my daughter with the help of my family while the father has been absent since 2016. My daughter passed at the age of 10 this year, what a beautiful soul she was. Today, the 23rd September is her first birthday in her absence and it is just so hard. She would have been turning 11, I'm beyond heart broken, the pain is just unbearable. The father is trying to make his way back and I know even if I tried to go back it would never make sense why only now and will never work out, it is too late. I needed him when my daughter was alive as a sick child living with a chronic illness. We have another daughter (8) together but that's just it for me. There is a lot maan, I am triggered. My vent for now. You're much younger than me but I always look forward to your content. Keep pushing my love, I really enjoy your content.
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I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. As a mom, I cannot imagine the pain you must be going through.
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Guys it’s ME, I’m Minenhle Maphanga 😂😂😂😂❤❤😊. Been here since 2021. Love it here ke sana.
I love you so much ❤
Same 😭 been an OG since 2021. Literally the best place 🔥❤️
@@sibusiledlamini2653 I appreciate you so much babe 🥹🥹❤️❤️❤️
Been here too since her first vlog and I have never missed any since.Love love her 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 ❤❤
Kenyans lets gather here😅we love you mandy❤
I enjoyed the Q&A.... looking forward to part 2...🇰🇪🇰🇪 TH-cam is not TH-cam without your content.
lol pls why do we live the same life? Two girls, two baby daddies, baby daddy issues, left corporate coz I don’t play with my mental health 😂. Love you so much Mandy you’re an inspiration and I’m always rooting for you!❤️
Twin 😅😅😅
I just laughed when you started preaching about “cheating” in relationships coz that’s so me 😅. I’m being told that I say I will leave as soon as I find out my partner is cheating because I’ve never found someone that I truly love. And my response would always be “then I guess I’ll never find that kind of person because that would imply going against putting myself first”. I can’t be praying everyday to God asking for a peaceful life and still actively put myself in situations that take away the very peace I’m praying for. I’m trying to meet God halfway here 😂.
This is the post✌🏾
I am a childfree Kenyan woman, but I love you 🎉 and enjoy your content very much ❤️. We've missed you girl.
Thank you for sharing your motherhood journey Mandy. You have community of women all around the world now. Love from Canada❤
And you’ve been here for some time. Thank you so much babe 🥹🥹🥹❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤you know, every time I watch your channel,I learn something, the embarrassing part. I'm older, sis, in my 40s, 3 kids age(21,11,3), and different dads, but fortunately, I'm still together with the 3rd dads, and he ❤my kids 😊😊😊
You and I, same whatsapp group 😅❤
The only person who has taught me that its okay to not be okay..❤❤
Mandy looking at your beauty is radiating, oh nkosi yam your skin, another skincare routine would be nice🤭
It’s raining and class just got canceled so there’s no better reason to be in bed🤭.Thank you mama😊
Thank you for being you. Thank you for sharing your story and journey. As a fellow single mother of two with no financial support from their dad, i appreciate you more than you know. Thank you for being vocal on our behalf. You are speaking life into a million of us single moms out here.
I relate so much. I also left my corporate job because of that inward feeling that I should be living life a different way. I am not making money formally but I am constantly assured that I will be alright, through sufficient provision and abundance. Always getting what I need when I need it.
At the same time, I am constantly and eagerly asking God & my ancestors to get me moving on my desired life based on my given purpose. It feels like it’s taking forever to get there but at the same time it feels like I am already living in it.
The last sentence 🥹🥹🥹. You might really already be living it babe.
@@TheMillennialMom1🙏🏽
Your vlogs are my go-to relaxation after a long day of dissertation writing - can't wait to unwind! You have no idea how much I've missed them. However, I commend you for taking time to yourself. You look like you're in a much better space 😊
Karibu Kenya. An OG subbie here. We definitely got much love for you!
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@@TheMillennialMom1i ❤you mandy from kenya to me you are my favourite SA youtuber
Ngathi ngiyiphara elithole iwhoonga yalo. The moment I saw this update I closed my laptop and decided to indulge. Thank you for coming back
🤣🤣🤣The withdrawal symptoms were massive! 😭😭😭😭
@@khumikayi5307 you can say that again😂
You know what? I see myself in you so much. An older version of myself... I watch you and sometimes feel like I'm asking my older self questions and you answer them. I laughed, got emotional and said Amen more than I can count.
I love you so much. Continue doing what you're doing, Lord put you on this platform for a reason. You're right, God wouldn't put you where you are right now and not provide.
Literally, YOU ARE DOING A BEAUTIFUL JOB!!! You are doing a gorgeous job.
Welcome back Mandy, missed you. All will be the well. The God that created us has good plans for us and he knows our tears. At the right time God will make everything beautiful.
I have been feeling so low and my mind was like I wish Mandy would post weekend vlog to cheer me up then walla!❤❤❤❤ I'm so happy to see you back
Hey Mands!❤Nice to see you’re doing well and continuing to young moms like myself to do nothing less than the best for our little ones 😅.
You mentioned how you’re not applying actively because you’re intentional about the companies you want to work for And I was thinking maybe you should do a video on that, young people just send 100 applications in a day that aren’t intentional and chances that you’ll get that job when you send one CV and one cover letter to different roles. One or two applications a week should be enough if you’re focusing on it and prepping your CV to fit that specific role. It’s a lot of work and I think we need that guidance from someone like you who’s been in corporate for so long🫂✨
Thank you Mandz for choosing to stand by your truth. There's so much to learn from your personality and spirit. Ungaphel'umoya dear Sis.
God's got you 🙏 ❤
As much as Mandy is very open,can we respect boundaries guys.Yoooh that sexuality question was sooo cringe.
It's called Umoja village in samburu.... You can visit though when you actually come to kenya!!!! Karibu sana!!!!
Hayaaaa,for real didn't know that.
The way you fondly speak about Lucia when she comes up? You are absolutely amazing. The end of a friendship doesn’t have to signal hostility. I love how you still mention the good she has done even though you guys decided to part ways❤️
The question on Lwalwa's sexuality was uncalled for. Really, people need to have boundaries. 🙄
Im sure if Mandy had a problem with the question she wouldn’t have addressed it and she would have said that it not be asked in future your boundaries are not someone else’s boundaries .
@@nontobekohlongwa9142 And that right there is the problem.
Oh Mandy you are looking good.its always good to see your face.your set down are really wonderful.and they hill me and make me strng .❤❤❤❤
Hey Mama, I am a silent subbie, your content gives me hope & faith being unemployed and a single mom. You are glowing and always remember to take of self first❤❤
We even have a new intro💃.Thank you for the update,we missed you mama❤
I just love your resilience Mandy. I'm a few years older than you but I have learned so much from you. Avengikuthanda bo❤ your strength wow❤
I am so happy you're happy 😊🥰 I would definitely buy a headband wig, especially curly or Afro hair.
Love your content so much as a single mom to an 8yrs old boy. I have just recommended your channel to my friend who is a single mom to 2 girls , almost the same ages as your girls. I know she will relate a lot to you. Your content is healing.
@@Busi_Mbasa mommy 🥹🥹. Thank you so much ❤️
"There are men who don't cheat" 🙌
Awwww Mandy thanks for the Shout out 🎉🎉 had to call my kids to come listen ❤ I love you
Loving the FNB unit trust info! And the Discovery! Thanks so very much!
“I’m not Vuyo, I’m not a big dreamer” sent me!🤣❤️
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Good to have you back and for sure noooone does vlogtober like you do!!!
Yeeeeessss ❤❤❤🎉 patiently waiting on your arrival 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦💓💓💓💓
you are looking beautiful sisi, welcome back
Thank you babe 😅😅
Yesssss...the thing about people know what they are doing is soooo true. I dnt explain myself as much as I used to. Nor do I explain things too much
Please visit Kenya,we love you we will be so happy to have you around but there's no village that only women live😂😂😂
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There is a village in Samburu where men are not allowed. It was started by a woman to stop Fgm
I was surprised to hear that....🇰🇪🇰🇪
There is I watched it on documentary❤😅I’m from Namibia. I love it
There is such a village, it's called Umoja Village in Samburu
You really are the queen of Vlogtober
Looking gorgeous Mandy, welcome back!❤
Sjoooeee 🥺🥺😭😭
Akena mantsoe hle, Momma...
Your ability to be so transparent and intentional with it too in hoping it heals the next, is a super power that God has blessed you with🥹❤️
Mandy, we appreciate the work you do and I pray for God's provision over your life
New intro?…I don’t remember seeing it 🤔 love it
It’s new mama ❤❤❤😅😅😅
You are looking so scrumptious Amanda ❤
Welcome back big Sis Mandy ❤❤❤
We are here💃🏾❤️❤️❤️
It's sooo good to see you Mandy🥹🌼
that Question about Alwande's Sexuality😬😬😬🙄🙄🙄 was unnecessary...can we just leave the child alone
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Exactly this is not Alwande's channel yhuuuu ay.
Very unnecessary,I cringed.
I saw ur comment before the question n I was like "yhoo people really do feel entitled to even ask such question about a kid😏"
Very unnecessary
You glowing mama ❤❤❤love it for youu. I feel you on unemployment part, I was unemployed for almost 4 months as well, I am finally employed. Your time will come, I love that you are trusting God and the process ❤❤
Signing in to my favorite YT channel 🖤
Hey Mandy, Namibia is more than waiting for you sisy, been long overdue. Personally can't wait ma'am 💃👌
Welcome back Mandy, We missed you so much 🎉
Your skin is giving while im watching this vlog, ndibuka i skin sakho ❤ .
The channel that keeps me going as a single mother of 2..❤❤
I know I don't relate to the content, but your channel helped through my parents divorce.
So much pain that you bear ,but so much strength through the pain,you are inspirational mommy,keep going,May God continue to heal you with time,cause you are such an awesome soul.❤❤❤
welcome back mama, with love😘
I was so sad when I didn’t get accepted for Journalism at TUT in 2015 and I totally agree with you Mandy. I ended up studying at Rosebank doing Public Relations. I probably could’ve opted for Communication Science or International Relations at Unisa but yooh I was not ready for Unisa honestly.
Love together Manda,you are such a breath of fresh air noma ugowisha but still you are able to pick yourself up and pick us up too.Praying for you❤
Hahaaaaaaaha Mandy yes there's such a village but I dunno if you'll hack it there....honestly 😂😂😂You can actually just come to kenya there's loads of stuff to see... I'm sure you'd love it here coz your vibe is vibing!!!!! Tuna kupenda sana ❤🇰🇪
Ohhh Mandy😍😍😍😍😍😍thank you so much for coming back ❤❤
Hey Mandy. Love from Kenya ❤. Sure there is such a village in Kenya. It's called the UMOJA village. Umoja means Unity. It's in Samburu. Welcome to Kenya ❤.
Owamie was judge by women for divorcing her husband for cheating and you saying all the points she told thanks mandy it shows that thwre are women who stand by their truth ❤
Welcome back mommy ❤missed you ...Have Faith sisi you will pull through
Love it here and can't wait for that meet and greet in Kenya. You are phenomenal and i love the way you live life boldly.
Preach!!!! The cheating part??? I totally agree!
Glad you read mine today 💃💃I love you Manda ☺️☺️
Also Mandy can we have a tutorial on this hairdo you have, it's so stunning
Glad to see you back on this red app ❤❤
Welcome back Mandy… ❤
Mandy karibu Kenya🇰🇪... I guess we lead in single motherhood 😅 most of us parent under your mentorship. Much love❤❤
onething about u Strongest women, inspiration to black women u aren't scared to address the elephant head on!i love u so much mandy continue living your truth u have no idea how u inspire me 😢All the best mama the Lord sees and hears u ❤ u got this❤❤❤
Ubuhle obungaka❤
Hi, thank you for let us in your vulnerable space. Love and prosperity in your life❣
Welcome back mama❤❤
Thanks for the reminder, that things always work out ❤
Always ❤
We are back and we are loving it here ❤❤❤new intro new intro love it ❤
Queen of Vlogtober❤
Speaking about cheating oh my goodness my ex fiancé yooh na namhlanje it pains my heart everyday when I think about having kids I am.just focusing on my degree and getting a job and just trusting in the process maybe I will adopt a kid someday and now I find it hard to be in a relationship but I believe God will come through for me my life it's just a roller-coaster and I am only at my early twenties , a hug from my momma would do kodwa ndi sheke ndindedwa my sperm donor after my mom's funeral he disappeared 😂😂😂 anyway I am so sorry for my mini venting
Love you sis Mandy I can't wait for your sit down with wawa wish all the best mommy inkosi ik'busise❤❤❤
Sending you lots of hugs 🫂 ❤
Hey Mama you are so beautiful never forget that and such an inspiration and your kids are truly blessed and Thank you for opening your heart to us I love you gal
55:43 Shout out to you Mandy❤ you are the realest💐
Team Namibia🇳🇦❤
We love you Mandy❤
Welcome back mommy❤❤❤can't wait for part 2
Love you lots
Old media is shutting down and people should focus on how to grow and be successful in social media lento yokfunda isiyaphela to be honest!
Mandy, please upload part 2 today, just finished part 1...please😪
Hi, with regards to jobs have you looked at Communications/Knowledge Manager/Advocacy roles in NGO's? I have noticed they always looking for people with journalism/media qualification or experience...🇺🇬
Loving the intro❤❤❤ and you look so good, we can’t wait for vlogtober, totally enjoyed it❤
You look beautiful and refreshed sis
Mandy mommy ❤❤❤ thanks for blessing us 🙏
I'm so happy you are doing great sisi...keep going this life thing is never easy but we trust God ❤
Welcome back mommy ❤
Vloogtober sisi ❤❤❤, can't wait.much love from Kenya ❤❤.
Welcome back mami❤❤❤❤😊😊😊besesi gowa 😂😢
You are my inspiration mama may God bless you and protect you all the time in life ❤❤
I just enjoy your videos ,with love from Zambia 🇿🇲
MaNdlangisa!!!! NakaMilani🎉
Sis thank you for your return, kunini ndikukhumbula❤❤
Hi mama Mandy long time❤😊I missed you. We love you from Namibia, you’re welcome here❤❤❤
I missed you so much sana Ntombi ❤❤❤
Looking gorgeous Miss Mamas! ❤