Why Kendrick Lamar's "u" is Heartbreaking

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  • @ScamboliReviews
    @ScamboliReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28329

    TH-cam tried to kill this video, but I want to let you know I found it in my recommended regardless

    • @raynjpg
      @raynjpg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      same here. also, what's up scam.

    • @identical.
      @identical. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Love yo vids bro

    • @sean269
      @sean269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Yo didn’t expect you on this video
      Actually you’re probably the only anime reviewer I would expect to see here because you have taste

    • @tscravenger7825
      @tscravenger7825 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Scamboli Reviews Same

    • @CesarLopez-zf2xx
      @CesarLopez-zf2xx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Recommendations sometimes be the best vids ngl

  • @menselv7142
    @menselv7142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9590

    The line “I’m fucked up, but not as fucked up as you” becomes almost paradoxical when you realize he’s talking to himself

    • @l.t.c8.1.46
      @l.t.c8.1.46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +434

      The fact that the song is called "u" is intended as a paradox

    • @AaronASMR04
      @AaronASMR04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +411

      Mannn when you struggle with depression negative thoughts will get into you in ways you wouldn't imagine. Since you convince yourself that the world hates you without any sort of evidence, you become this toxic voice, telling yourself all these things as if they came from someone else. That shit distorts your self-image so much that your own version of yourself is unrecognizable to other people.

    • @sittinonthegodamcornerdoindope
      @sittinonthegodamcornerdoindope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      @@AaronASMR04 I agree with what you said , except I would take it one step further in that some folks do have legitimate evidence of why people hate or dont fw them. That is no reason to remain in depression forever, but it does explain why it’s harder to escape.

    • @ashadownoonenoticed
      @ashadownoonenoticed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      I always took it as “im fucked up” (Kendrick saying he’s intoxicated) but i ain’t as fucked up as you” (Kendrick saying even at his intoxicated state he’s not as fucked up as Kendrick as a person)

    • @t-dog2474
      @t-dog2474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @UCSWV2lAgWqzXEDwnlY05cwA I know this might make me sound like a weak man 😭😞but this is how I feel everyday 😞...😞This comment hit me so hard 😭😞because I swear I feel everyone hates me and that I've failed in life and I'm only 20😞

  • @nickc4853
    @nickc4853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6763

    Man pours his soul out on a record and people think he's overrated SMH

    • @crystalrivera7313
      @crystalrivera7313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +288

      Fuuuuck yeah, I literally can’t stand people that hate in him he’s the realest rapper EVER, DEADASSS, he’s an ARTIST, and people are so focused on listening to music that promotes toxic masculinity.

    • @kickhoppa5891
      @kickhoppa5891 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@crystalrivera7313 kendrick don't promote toxic masculinity? lol

    • @snare4013
      @snare4013 2 ปีที่แล้ว +218

      @@kickhoppa5891 just read his comment again…

    • @emilj883
      @emilj883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kickhoppa5891 ??

    • @donathan2933
      @donathan2933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      ppl use the word "overrated" without proper context. Or maybe they just too stupid to understand the meaning of Kendrick's songs

  • @beinghonest6905
    @beinghonest6905 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1077

    Drake could never

    • @crem444
      @crem444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      His ghost writers (maybe) could 🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @idkwhatimdoing136
      @idkwhatimdoing136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      For real.

    • @__meilleur
      @__meilleur 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, “Drake could never be his number one fan”

    • @olivercharles2930
      @olivercharles2930 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@__meilleurwut

    • @LeBornMajes
      @LeBornMajes 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@__meilleur that line is directed at future

  • @theshowershow
    @theshowershow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10450

    Its actually heartbreaking that this video is age restricted being so well produced from a small channel

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +387

      yeahhh but i kinda get why it is based on the topic

    • @theshowershow
      @theshowershow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      @@kristiankbo aw shit didnt expect this i commented just for the algorithm

    • @oldjay8008
      @oldjay8008 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Very well put.

    • @soapyguy6483
      @soapyguy6483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      It wasn't age restricted for me. It just gave me a warning by TH-cam

    • @rocketleague2472
      @rocketleague2472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it should be IQ restricted, only for mediocre people

  • @HeavenStudiosOfficial
    @HeavenStudiosOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4161

    "U" breaks you into pieces so "I" can put you back together as a better version of yourself.

    • @AJRAOfficial
      @AJRAOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      Lovee this take its perfect

    • @benwise2874
      @benwise2874 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 #Dope

    • @MFKR696
      @MFKR696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's about the lamest Snowflake shit I've ever heard lol. You can't fix people. They have to do that themselves.

    • @loto7197
      @loto7197 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@MFKR696 I think that's a direct Kendrick quote, I've heard it somewhere before.

    • @MFKR696
      @MFKR696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@loto7197 It's not a "quote" at all. He might have said something along the lines of that, but he's not the one who came up with it. It's a well-known fact of life, and has been for a *very* long time now.
      Yet another reason why people need to stop treating their significant-others or friends as "improvement-projects." If they're not "good enough" as they are, they're not going to be.
      No external influence is going to change that. Until they come to the conclusion that what they're doing isn't working, they can't be helped. It's really that simple.

  • @Thelonl3y1
    @Thelonl3y1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +589

    When K.dot said : “ God himself will say you fucking failed U AINT TRY” gave me chills down the spine.

    • @Espiritdcore
      @Espiritdcore หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It sent cold shivers down my spine 😢😢😢

    • @Whatismypurpose
      @Whatismypurpose หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Here’s a Bible verse to cheer you up.
      John 3:16-17, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”

    • @blumgik
      @blumgik 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Whatismypurposethank you

  • @Joseph_Hamilton
    @Joseph_Hamilton ปีที่แล้ว +63

    “I can feel your vibe, and recognize that you’re ashamed of me. Yes I hate you too.”
    That one gets me every time.

  • @nathandem2860
    @nathandem2860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1414

    “You preached in front a hundred thousand, but never reached her”
    Still hits hard 6 years later

  • @msaldana678
    @msaldana678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2438

    The line that always stuck withe me was "I know your secrets, dont let me tell em to the world about that shit you thinking and that time you...." Heavily implying hes attempted suicide before.

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +180

      indeed, i get goosebumps everytime i hear it

    • @xavierslocombe4837
      @xavierslocombe4837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      BRUH

    • @iamhexoronii
      @iamhexoronii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Could of been that or
      Of something he’s done ,

    • @jakobirose714
      @jakobirose714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@iamhexoronii Fr. Could definitely be talking about something the industry introduced him too. Whenever I listen to his music I feel he knows something that he wants to tell but knows he can’t. And then him not dropping music scares me because I feel Kendrick is one of those artists that would run away from the industry shit on some Dave Chappelle shit

    • @dresalomon1072
      @dresalomon1072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      For me as well I was in a dark place for 3 yea and everytime I heard u I would breakdown everytime I heard this verse

  • @ajontebush6629
    @ajontebush6629 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1046

    This song is currently helping me through a depression right now. Shits real out here- spiritual warfare, violence, generational trauma....all that. Kendrick exists in a layer of reality, most can’t comprehend.

    • @NyiPyaeSone
      @NyiPyaeSone 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      S

    • @NormalFootyFan
      @NormalFootyFan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      O

    • @NormalFootyFan
      @NormalFootyFan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Y
      Man

    • @galliaxx0173
      @galliaxx0173 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hope your doing better now man

    • @ajontebush6629
      @ajontebush6629 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @galliaxx0173 You are a real one, G. Better than I was when I wrote this. But still have a long way to go. Difference is I finally embraced that process

  • @nikenshrestha1235
    @nikenshrestha1235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    You know shit's about to go down when youtube hits up them double warning.

  • @dashonaubrey1321
    @dashonaubrey1321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3048

    ‘u’ and ‘FEAR’ are the only rap songs to ever make me cry. They hit too close to home.

  • @noblepolygon8694
    @noblepolygon8694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1610

    This song literally saved my life. I was going through major life changes. Partner cheated on me, I couldn't find a job after the company started went under & I had to go back to living with my parents. I drank every night and was picking up different women. The night this album came out I was contemplating ending it and this song came out when I was in the shower. Hearing what he was saying somehow made me realize everyone goes through these hard times. Finally, Alright came on and it snapped me out of my thoughts. Thank you Kendrick,

    • @JelyMelo
      @JelyMelo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I had a very similar experience with this song and the transition into Alright

    • @sunnysteph_o
      @sunnysteph_o 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      It’s honestly a perfect transition. Everything really is gonna be alright.

    • @MiCHELLEannSPIRESmasterminedAO
      @MiCHELLEannSPIRESmasterminedAO 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hallelujah your still hanging in with us...me too, whew! Kendrick's Christ force brings out ours, Hell is no joke; calling it Earth was brilliant. The show the Good Place combined with my understanding of duality made me realize their is only Heaven and Hell, residing both in the same place. Ofcourse, one would truly have to be in Hell on Earth to know what Heaven in us could possibly feel and look like. Contrast, polarity is why their are two of us to make it possible to know that their is won. How blessed are we to KNOW that the world in US is far more real the one we perceive to be outside of us bc we were never in any immediate danger, but for us, the pain inside far exceeded the power of the 3d reality around us. That is a gift!!! Love that you stayed, I think I will too. Peace be with you always beloved brother.

    • @Joseph-qg3ir
      @Joseph-qg3ir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fr the transition is a life saver

    • @nekooTV
      @nekooTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hope you doing good now man!

  • @omarandkhaled9173
    @omarandkhaled9173 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Kendrick is a legend man no question ask king of rap is little to Kendrick

  • @bruhmoment-yc5zg
    @bruhmoment-yc5zg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +492

    This is why I love Kendrick. What he says is relatable to everyone, even some private school kid in Japan. Institutionalized and the final poem made me nearly cry because it reminded me of a good friend I once had.
    Great video dude!

    • @b0ss643
      @b0ss643 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I see that pfp. Good taste.

    • @an0rmalp3rson70
      @an0rmalp3rson70 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@b0ss643 says Mr. Epic PFP

  • @deimorenomusic9861
    @deimorenomusic9861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1115

    This bout to get very dark. So my theory about the house cleaning lady knocking on the door, and there being no answer to me was Kendrick dead in the hotel. So it was basically playing out this scene of no response, cause he is no longer there.

    • @distinguishedallureproduct879
      @distinguishedallureproduct879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      See I had the same thought of the video, is that he got so pissy drunk that he was passed out in a drunken slump probably in the bathroom, and the slowed-down music and rapping that comes after the knocking is Drunk Kendrick screaming at himself in his head for not being there for his friend

    • @thekid6278
      @thekid6278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i always thought the same actually.

    • @ethansprague2005
      @ethansprague2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      I always thought of it as him getting interrupted and letting the maid go away then the second part is the survivors guilt

    • @iamhexoronii
      @iamhexoronii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      It’s basically about him having a episode of all those emotions in a hotel room when he was drunk, I mean the poem played throughout the album talks about him “screaming inside the hotel room” .

    • @BOMNN
      @BOMNN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thankfully that didnt happen, Kendrick is with us still

  • @boogb6766
    @boogb6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +341

    "God himself would say you fucking failed, you ain't try" He really came down on himself man i can only imagine

  • @cn2299
    @cn2299 3 ปีที่แล้ว +216

    It’s a shame that this analysis of real emotion, struggle, and working through it is trying to be taken down. The message is really what people need, but it’s being censored…That, in itself, says a lot.

    • @_hi_pwr
      @_hi_pwr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ^ ON POINT

    • @loganlund6801
      @loganlund6801 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So real

  • @m00nl1ghtz9
    @m00nl1ghtz9 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This song is always in my playlist. It resonates something inside. I can relate because I hate myself sometime for absolutely horrible mistakes Ive made. I love Kendrick

    • @pagal83
      @pagal83 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I hope you find forgiveness, compassion, love, and healing. I struggle with a loss i feel I should have done more to prevent it. It's painful on more levels than just grief. There's a parable about the day Buddha didn't forgive. It's a good one :) ❤

  • @coolsonic411
    @coolsonic411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +823

    Maybe that’s why he hasn’t come out with an album in so long. It’s emotionally draining to do it in his perspective…. Maybe he feels as if he has no other things he needs to talk about.

    • @jiggydahoe2151
      @jiggydahoe2151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      i'm thinking the exact same thing. 'cause all these famous artists are currently on the charts and i'm thinking where's kendrick. i searched his songs and bumped to that muscle man cover and then to this. it made a lot more sense.

    • @greitasopelis5542
      @greitasopelis5542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Because kendrick raps from the soul, while the other rappers rap from the drugs

    • @jiggydahoe2151
      @jiggydahoe2151 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@greitasopelis5542 right. and doing that consistently and kendrick staying true to that makes it understandable if he needs to recharge and heal his soul. i bet when he's done resting it would be another legendary album.

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jiggydahoe2151 facts

  • @sonicx1298
    @sonicx1298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3308

    i only found this video because I was watching a video called U by Kendrick Lamar but it's muscleman singing and this video was in the recommend on the right side lol. but I really like your video on this song Kendrick have been the only person who made songs that literally scared me. the first song was Dying of Thrist (Specifically the 2nd part of the song, where the older ladie speaks to kendrick and his friends) as someone who grew up in church and thinks a lot about the judgement day and hell it REALLY scared me

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

      oh wow! sing about me, i'm dying of thirst is also an amazing yet haunting memorabilia from kendricks discography, love that song

    • @skejrbfkxjsnw6314
      @skejrbfkxjsnw6314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +155

      Wtf that’s exactly how I found it too lmao I was watching U but it’s muscleman

    • @FatShlime
      @FatShlime 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Colaws brought you here

    • @subway2297
      @subway2297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      fax just came from the muscleman remix lmaoo

    • @oddtoddlers47
      @oddtoddlers47 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      same lol

  • @AST-erisked
    @AST-erisked 2 ปีที่แล้ว +214

    I write songs as a hobbie, and im always trying to be a better lyricist, and when i hear artists like kendrick im just speachless... how can someone be so transparent and intimate about their emotions and insecurities?, of their dark thoughts and burdens... how can you not be afraid of being that vulnerable?, like, i feel uncomfortable saying im sad and he just opens his soul and then he let us take a look. Add the music, the delivery, the placing in the album and the overall story. An Artist.

  • @jwizdum2103
    @jwizdum2103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    To this day the 2nd half of “U” is one of the most powerfully delivered verses I’ve ever heard. The saxophone/drums mixed with his insanely true emotional voice will never not give me chills.

  • @Alexa-bp8rm
    @Alexa-bp8rm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1029

    I remember being in the car with my Dad a couple years ago when I just heard this song. I tried playing it to my dad to show him how good rap can be but he didn't get it at all. I couldn't help myself from crying from that. Its insane to me how people can't see rap as such a diverse and complex genre of music or not even considering rap as music at all. It always makes me happy to see that people really like and resonate with Kendrick's music and 'u' in particular because its just so thought-provoking and emotional. Also, I can tell that your music on your spotify was influenced by Kendrick :)

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      yeah! kendrick is an inspiration no doubt, thanks for checking it out :)

    • @barabara9855
      @barabara9855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      True. People that say rap isn't real music don't bother trying to understand it

    • @Black-vi3zg
      @Black-vi3zg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@barabara9855 I think rap the best genre how do some people not consider it real music

    • @punani_slayer4209
      @punani_slayer4209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Holy shit you're a baby

    • @rithvikr4785
      @rithvikr4785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@punani_slayer4209 bro shut up

  • @ScamboliReviews
    @ScamboliReviews 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3170

    Great video, I especially loved the little stuff like how stopped talking at 4:00 and the transition between chapter 1 and 2 at 6:55, really had a professional vibe.

    • @natiy.642
      @natiy.642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Next vid should have a TPAB instrumental in the background brodie

    • @iqbal1734
      @iqbal1734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      yoo scamboli what are you doing here

    • @DrAg0n3250
      @DrAg0n3250 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Goddamn bro. No wonder I like your vids. We watch the same stuff.

    • @5xwrldchmp
      @5xwrldchmp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love your vids

    • @GabrielXander
      @GabrielXander 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This nigga scamboli

  • @BobBobOnYouTube
    @BobBobOnYouTube 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    It’s too bad Kendrick doesn’t allow people to video his recording sessions. I would’ve loved to have seen the recording process for this song with Kendrick doing his vocals with the lights off.

    • @b_collins7846
      @b_collins7846 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bro I would watch every second if he recorded it

    • @loganlund6801
      @loganlund6801 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      There's probably a good reason for that. It probably wouldn't be what you expected. So seeing it in a video would be disappointing. He wants it to feel actually real and genuine. If there was a random recording it takes away from the powerfulness and the message of it and it makes it not hit as hard because you know it's just a song. He wanted to feel like a real atmosphere that actually happened which is cool so it actually makes sense

  • @jordanpruitt3500
    @jordanpruitt3500 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    He wrote this song so well that you’d understand exactly what he’s talking about after you listen enough

  • @owens.
    @owens. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    U is really an eye opener for many reasons: it really gives a reflection on your thoughts and emotions, and the sympathy you get towards Kendrick is helpless. Like, you can’t help yourself from wanting to help Kendrick, but he’s pretty much *helping* others by not helping himself. To get to that level of honesty and put yourself in that position of being recklessly emotional, not everyone can do that. It really hurts, but it heals at the same time.

  • @S3ssion
    @S3ssion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    The alcohol bit hits even more so when you realize bitch don’t kill my vibe is what blew him up

    • @michaelj4256
      @michaelj4256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Youre thinking of swimming pools

    • @kayhq
      @kayhq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@michaelj4256 I den grew up round some people living they life bottles

    • @droprelease4820
      @droprelease4820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      But even swimming pools is actually about how he got peer pressured to alcohol. Always ironic how people bop to it in parties while drunk but it’s actually a song against excess drinking

    • @changedmynamee
      @changedmynamee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@droprelease4820 yeah reminds me of the time my school played the song pumped up kicks
      funniest shit ever

    • @zaire7811
      @zaire7811 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@changedmynamee lol I always bring that up we was bopping to that on the school bus and everything

  • @753studios6
    @753studios6 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    U me of my severe depression while living in a group home,I stole,I was angry,and I was one step away from saying “FUCK IT.”
    Loving me was complicated but I learned we gon be alright,and that i love myself 🥳💃🏾

  • @sebastienbrusselletbe1243
    @sebastienbrusselletbe1243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Can we talk about the editing it’s well done and probably took forever

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      it took me a while hahaa

  • @ImThrowed4Life
    @ImThrowed4Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    You should do sing about me, I'm dying of thirst it's prolly Kendricks most beautiful song

    • @AlieInn
      @AlieInn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I seriously feel like that song was written about me 😭like it obviously wasn’t I was little when it came out but I went through just about everything he talked about in that song especially the first verse🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @plicool
      @plicool 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Factssss 😭😭

    • @VieraXXII
      @VieraXXII 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's my favorite song from him.

  • @bsutton6241
    @bsutton6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I seen a twitter poll that said "Kendricks most underrated song?" And this wasn't even there. Absolute joke, U is the hardest song ever!! you can literally feel this song.

    • @wholemilk6001
      @wholemilk6001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      this song ain't underrated tho

    • @bsutton6241
      @bsutton6241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If you think of king kunta, good kid maad city, be humble, swimming pools, alright, money trees. These are just some off the top of my head, there the songs everyone puts in their top 5/10 I know people who are life long kendrick fans and don't even know this song. 100% underrated "i" gets more recognition, and that's one of my least favourite kendrick songs

  • @JusKing4364
    @JusKing4364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    this song hits completely different after realizing he was talking about himself…

  • @ItsAJETT
    @ItsAJETT 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    U hits home for me personally because you don’t see many instances of black men expressing their vulnerability and weak mental health. To put that in a song that doubles as an internal monologue was powerful.

  • @BlackandWhite413
    @BlackandWhite413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    The algorithm has blessed

  • @K_low_7
    @K_low_7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    its important to note that he was truly crying when recording the verse

  • @wahl7837
    @wahl7837 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    "i fucking hate you i hope you embrace it" really denies any thought or pursuit of peace and shows a struggle accompiend by panic and sorrow

  • @DarkSector111
    @DarkSector111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This album taught me more about being a black man in America than anything I've ever heard. It's so underappreciated

  • @dawgstew
    @dawgstew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    maybe watching this after the muscleman cover wasn't the best choice.

    • @808mike
      @808mike 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell me bout it 😂

    • @emperorza5777
      @emperorza5777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmmm

  • @jakedo4577
    @jakedo4577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    The word “u” in itself, is a powerful euphemism for almost anything. Your struggle, situation, past, present, future…anything that conjure the human’s imagination. I believe that Kendrick know wholeheartedly about the word, and when he puts it into the music; it’s speak for itself.
    For me, personally, this whole song is a call to action. No matter who you are, where your from, what religion or ideology you believe in. It’s your responsibility to learn, to live and, to fight the evil. Whether it’s within you or the circumstance, it’s you who can uplift yourself to become better. And once you done that, then others will be inspired and be thankful.

    • @MegaTareq1
      @MegaTareq1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This was a great explanation….I’ve always been a firm believer that the biggest battle we avoid as humans is the battle against ourselves…no one wants to question the “U”

  • @michaelalexander8501
    @michaelalexander8501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Songs like "U" and "Blacker the Berry" are BRILLIANT! TPAB is such a masterpiece of an album. This video just made me appreciate the genius of "U" even more.

  • @Perks829
    @Perks829 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This video just made u my second favourite kendrick song because the first time I heard it i thought it was about a breakup but the song goes deeper when u find out he’s speaking in the second person

  • @ArnoutWG
    @ArnoutWG 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    So happy this came in my recommended never realized he was talking to his self.

    • @ohlookitsbryan
      @ohlookitsbryan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Nigga how

    • @donmarco4502
      @donmarco4502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i knew he was talking bout his self on like the 3rd listen.

    • @holden4010
      @holden4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i always saw this song as a conversation between kendrick and the devil and serves as kendrick acknowledging his own faults and the devil tempting him with thoughts of suicide which i feel sort of ties into the reoccurring theme of “lucy” wanting kendricks soul at all costs

    • @l.t.c8.1.46
      @l.t.c8.1.46 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@holden4010 nah he references a mirror a couple times

    • @holden4010
      @holden4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@l.t.c8.1.46 that’s true. i sorta just interpreted it as kendricks self hatred translating into him seeing the devil in the mirror if yk what i mean

  • @ZachNasonCantSwim
    @ZachNasonCantSwim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    The first time I heard the beat switch and the second verse, I was out riding my bike on a trail and I had to stop and cry. It broke my heart. And it really resonated with me. I will never forget that moment of pure emotion that just overwhelmed me.

    • @boogb6766
      @boogb6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      its so dope. First time i heard the beat switch, I though my headphones were shorting lol. We are so fortunate for KDot. Masterpiece after masterpiece.

  • @andresmonge5959
    @andresmonge5959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Dude don’t get unmotivated because this got age restricted. This video was great, I can see you getting a million subs one day

  • @Pdiaz69
    @Pdiaz69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I’m thinking of getting “u” tatted behind my left arm to signify it being the arm commonly used to slit the wrist, or by looking at scars that prevented a suicidal weakness, being the odd one out in society and being able to cope with the struggles, or like right now my left hand is holding my phone, when you look at yourself thru the camera, you’d think… U

    • @Pdiaz69
      @Pdiaz69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And on my right arm I want to tattoo “i” behind my arm to show that in the darkness times there’s a chance to turn that new leaf and accept your differences from others and whilst loving yourself, The right arm is the dominant arm used to raise your hand, therefore raising your hand to show you are part of something greater

    • @NiaKitti775
      @NiaKitti775 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Beautiful ❤

  • @donmarco4502
    @donmarco4502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    this is the ONLY song that’s ever made me cry.

  • @frameddonut1056
    @frameddonut1056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +774

    Just listened to U by Muscleman and it was as haunting as the original version, your vid was on the recommended section. Thx for helping me calm down =)

    • @thedopepope2250
      @thedopepope2250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same man same

    • @thedopepope2250
      @thedopepope2250 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      U can really hear muscleman's pain

    • @frameddonut1056
      @frameddonut1056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@thedopepope2250 There's something in his voice that gets your guard down and then sucker-punches you in the chorus. I was not ready for that lol

    • @savion29
      @savion29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thedopepope2250 The last verse still gave me goosebumps even in muscle mans voice😭

    • @extranosense9553
      @extranosense9553 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🥲

  • @omgitsmario7
    @omgitsmario7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I recently listened to “U” it gave me goosebumps I felt the emotion and started to cry, but not tears buy like a baby just crying. I listened to the lyrics and made me tear up again. U is more than a song. Its a story with so much emotion that is hard to understand. It was tough man

  • @j_lynsation
    @j_lynsation 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    I used to violently and silently cry on my way to high school when this song came out. I was denying some issues I was having with myself and for the life of me I couldn't fully understand why this song touched me so much for how deep I was in denial. I related. And it was painful.

  • @tmsphere
    @tmsphere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    This song is why I cant listen to TPAB in full very often.

    • @thekid6278
      @thekid6278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      it gets overwhelming?

    • @tmsphere
      @tmsphere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      @@thekid6278 hits too close to the bone.

    • @iamhexoronii
      @iamhexoronii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yea exactly , I went down the rabbit with this song , and I don’t regret it but I definitely don’t see a point in revisiting , it’s like revisiting the past , I embrace it and appreciate it but don’t see a point to always go back to it

    • @The1993pimp
      @The1993pimp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I cry every time I listen to it

    • @MerkTheVillain
      @MerkTheVillain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can only play TPAB. That's K Dot Magnum Opus. It make GKMC, DAMN and Section. 80 sound pop lol

  • @jonBoSouk
    @jonBoSouk หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This song saved my life during one of my darkest times. I take that back, the whole album saved me. But this song especially.

  • @mast3rNate
    @mast3rNate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    when the third verse kicks in, it’s hard to not have a lump in your throat and misty eyes.
    i think part of what got me is the fact if someone as big as Kendrick is feeling like this, i can’t begin to imagine who else is too.

  • @ChristianPA
    @ChristianPA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    One of Kendrick's most undervalued songs.
    "You FaceTimed the one time, that's unforgiven
    You even FaceTimed instead of a hospital visit
    Guess you thought he'd recover well
    Third surgery, they couldn't stop the bleeding for real
    Then he died, God himself will say, 'You fuckin' failed', you ain't try"

  • @TheGGH25
    @TheGGH25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    this is why i love him so much. he actually raps about life. real life. i connected with (& still do) his lyrics, especially with this song. and he makes the instrumental and lyrical aspects just collide so perfectly every time. kendrick lamar is by far my favorite human being.

  • @kncthesecond9479
    @kncthesecond9479 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was bumping this at work. I relate. Long live DOT

  • @FrankenSama
    @FrankenSama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    U has to be one of his most soul crushing songs. Every time I re listen to TPAB I tend to avoid it because of just how heavy it is + hearing Kendrick self-deprication is depressing. I love how important the track is to the core message of the album tho

  • @dictatorkenji
    @dictatorkenji 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I always thought U wasn't a bad song, but never was my favorite. After listening and hearing what it's about, it has to be my favorite song off of the album.

  • @jonathonparson7967
    @jonathonparson7967 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Seeing this 2 years later

  • @YaySilas
    @YaySilas 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Had to come and say this shit hit some different that the thing about Kdot I’m 24 now and his tracks are so relatable

    • @sludgepls
      @sludgepls 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am 24, approaching 25 and I recently had the same revelation. They hit so so much harder than they EVER have. Stay strong

  • @Twak08
    @Twak08 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Nice vid hope you get popular soon

  • @judetully3600
    @judetully3600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Plot twist his pc didn't crash and he just doesn't have any friends

  • @SevenSealLegend
    @SevenSealLegend 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The way I relate to this song so much and have myself drank inside of a hotel by myself and screamed at the walls is crazy. To think other people feel the same way as me and every other person just messes with my mind sometimes. I hope whoever has dealt with things like this, I hope you get through it as I will too.

  • @LaMontMartiaN
    @LaMontMartiaN 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I remember the first time I heard this song, I was battling paranoia/ psychosis. Dealing with a lot of personal issues, this one of the first steps of being able to truly look into the mirror

  • @realitysurff
    @realitysurff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    i was high and i was listening to “tpab” and u fr made me cry it was so overwhelming

  • @muaythai242
    @muaythai242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Also he says "loving you is complicated" which spells out L.U.C.Y . The Y comes from the high note he uses at the end.

  • @maestrohiphop
    @maestrohiphop 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Kinda random but the interview you use in the video is with rob markman who I think was a phenomenal interviewer and truly loves hip hop. He recently started doing his own TH-cam channel with just him talking about shit going on in the hip hop world. I would definitely recommend checking him out! We need to lift up the true hip hop journalists instead of click bait/gossip media

  • @wulfagent
    @wulfagent หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i was 16 when i first listened to TPAB in 2019. after hearing “u” for the first time, i was sad but told myself i would never let myself get to that point
    5 years later when i heard it again, i related too hard to every word he said there. the drinking problem, depression, self hate, hurting those around you, feeling like you failed your faith, everything. this song actually got me to stop drinking

  • @rumpleforeskin3528
    @rumpleforeskin3528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Been listening to TPAB since 2015 almost every month ever since it’s release and have connected to it ever since. Happy to finally see it get the acknowledgment on an artistic level it deserves.

  • @GooseToe2
    @GooseToe2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    The writing, delivery, editing and the overall pace of this video is great! Huge props for making a quality video and making it enjoyable, something I wasn't able to do with my first video essay (now deleted) loved the video :)

    • @kristiankbo
      @kristiankbo  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you so much!!!

  • @wistacks_fr
    @wistacks_fr ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love how the sample is called “Loving You Ain’t Complicated” and was produced by the same artist who wrote the song

  • @Raction_
    @Raction_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so beautifully made. I really love when people make greatly crafted analysis of art, in any form. Glad this was recommended.

  • @rickyrichreacts9667
    @rickyrichreacts9667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I LOVE this song. Such a masterpiece in every sense 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @bavingeter423
    @bavingeter423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The way I picture this song, it’s like the first part is him looking into a mirror, screaming all this venom at his own reflection until he runs out of energy. Once he’s broken and beaten, his reflection responds by kicking him when he’s down. This song is literally a bad trip in a song.

  • @thatjoshwright5577
    @thatjoshwright5577 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man I love Kendrick and the way he weaves messages into his songs without losing the flow. His lyricism is next to u matched up there with weezy. This song is VERY hard to listen to in an amazing way. I think a lot of people can relate to extreme guilt, regret, and not liking who you see when you look in the mirror but feeling as if you’re unable to change or that you’re too far gone. I’ve hit rock bottom so many times but Kendrick got me through those hard times. His impact in the culture is insane.

  • @DS-rg9wq
    @DS-rg9wq ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish I could like this video 100 times. It’s so well produced and furthermore directs the song in a very understandable manner. It’s nice to know other people appreciate music enough to do this. Much love for this video

  • @vybee6010
    @vybee6010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love Kendrick. Every time I hear that song it hurts, and pulls me to a place I hated in my life. I can’t. I pray for healing for everyone. God is with you. I pray for healing for Kendrick. Happy born day too.

  • @JihiTheMusicGeek
    @JihiTheMusicGeek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    To Pimp a Butterfly is an absolute MASTERPIECE.

  • @djDTOUR
    @djDTOUR 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song means a lot to me. I really appreciate you shedding light on it.

  • @Whooooooops
    @Whooooooops 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for making this video, it's one of my favorite songs of all time, this video really did it justice.

  • @erboch7124
    @erboch7124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +237

    I love how the acronyms on this record are all slightly off
    Loving U Is Complicated (L.U.I.C) -> Lucifer (LUCI)
    TPAB (Butterfly) -> 2PAB -> 2PAC (Caterpillar)

    • @RobertF-zj2rm
      @RobertF-zj2rm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      fun fact, kendrick was originally going to call the album “Tu Pimp A Caterpillar”, which could be written as Tu-PAC or as 2PAC as you showed. But yeah, this album has LAYERS.

    • @savion29
      @savion29 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@RobertF-zj2rm Oh my god that’s brilliant🤦🏾‍♂️I’m just learning this almost 6 years later

    • @AJRAOfficial
      @AJRAOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Am glad he did not cause its his album

    • @JoeTheGreat08
      @JoeTheGreat08 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What you said makes no sense….

  • @SynIMPFML666
    @SynIMPFML666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This song has made me put the gun down. Multiple times. I honestly hate being alive, I feel like I'll never be relevant as a musician, and I can feel where he coming from

    • @saltlickbeau
      @saltlickbeau 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i always struggle with relevancy and my importance on this world too i just want you to know you’re not alone. idk if it’ll mean anything but there are so many people who feel the same. i really hope that one day you get better

    • @emmamitchell6391
      @emmamitchell6391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      do you have a sound cloud

    • @fetacheeseyahmean
      @fetacheeseyahmean 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      we love you

    • @mrredwing619
      @mrredwing619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same. Fucking same. Please fight brother. I know the battle. It's hard. Don't give up. I love you if no one else does.

    • @SynIMPFML666
      @SynIMPFML666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I've gotten more support off this post than anything lately. I won't lie, today was hard. I'm still laying in bed depressed. One day I won't be able to fight through it

  • @donathan2933
    @donathan2933 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    how could TH-cam age restrict such a well analyzed video is beyond me. Such a great video

  • @Princefan046-1
    @Princefan046-1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent job Kristian ! I tried to tell friends he was talking about himself long ago and no one understood what I was talking about. You captured the meaning behind the lyrics. Thank you.

  • @swift1y
    @swift1y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've been using TH-cam for over a decade and I've never had a video give me THREE age restricted pop ups I had to press continue on in order to watch. No recommended videos on the page either. It's like this video is hidden in a back room somewhere.

  • @bigsmoke53
    @bigsmoke53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It makes me happy to see the next generation of hip hop fans appreciating real music...

  • @talithacoumi1590
    @talithacoumi1590 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I literally fell in love with his soul with U. I cried so hard when i heard this song. I would have fought through a hurricane and swam in a tsunami just to hold him. God works in mysterious ways. Has anybody prayed for him? Can you imagine what he was feeling? He spoke his heart and soul. God please cover Kendrick in the mighty name of Yeshua! Amen

  • @gxxnie
    @gxxnie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why did TH-cam try to hide this beauty
    Anyways, it doesnt matter bc were all here. And we all love it🖤

  • @essenel
    @essenel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    English isn't my first language, and as much as I try to understand the lyrics of musics I listen to, I love watching these "video essays", i learn so much more about what I listen to, about the artists I love. This hurt, but thanks. You did a wonderful job on this Kristian !

  • @pamelaverret1880
    @pamelaverret1880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Sad this was in my recommended feed, as this song has been one of my go tos when I need to scream and cry at myself or anyone really… Rap really is so much more than some give it credit for, and Kendrick is a master of the form… if he never puts out another album, I’d be okay with that, he’s given so much already

  • @Ravensregen
    @Ravensregen 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank U for making this video. Been feeling worthless and seeing all these comments about how U changed peoples lives has really lifted me mentally. I just pray for anyone going through any painful moment to remember it’s only temporary and you can get out of it! Love light and positivity God bless! ❤️🖤🩸

  • @Homixide900
    @Homixide900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    U has definitely been my favourite Kendrick song I have ever listened to just because of how deep and personal it gets. Great video btw your content is definitely top tier!

  • @BananatheCreator
    @BananatheCreator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Glad this was recommended to me. U never made me cry, but it hit home. I was depressed and suicidal for years, and u helped me realize even famous artists like Kendrick Lamar can be, too.

  • @masonluv314
    @masonluv314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You’re so good i cried literally, my love for Kendricks emotional release in music is unmatched

  • @MultiMobCast
    @MultiMobCast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was on the homepage for me even with the warning, you're doing something right for sure!

  • @africanpharaoh
    @africanpharaoh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally hit my recommendations, thank you for this masterpiece

  • @jayrob3
    @jayrob3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're on your path. I hardly meet people who listen to music and can speak with substance behind a song let alone an album. Thanks for the content.

  • @kingwafer209
    @kingwafer209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m glad someone understands how crazy this song is. Also you having the same thoughts after listening to it. Great video bro