Lisa Niemi Swayze: Worth Fighting For

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  • In this heartfelt talk, actor Patrick Swayze's wife, Lisa Niemi Swayze, share her husband's fierce battle with terminal pancreatic cancer. As she walks through moments from their journey -- the moment of diagnosis, the decision to fight it, and ultimately, the decision to let go -- she reminds us how to love and live bravely, cherishing each moment like it may be our last.
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  • @urvasiulrike7740
    @urvasiulrike7740 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    It is the living who close the eyes of the dead, and the dead who open the eyes of the living.
    Let s be truly alive!
    Thank you, Lisa!
    Thank you, Patrick!
    Love and Light

  • @OneTruthInc
    @OneTruthInc 9 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I just want to say ... Why does it feel like Im a part of Patrick Swayze ... lol I can see myself dancing with him... what a wonderful spirit of a man .... !

    • @sarahmiller7903
      @sarahmiller7903 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You arent the only one...he was something special!!!

    • @mariarisi3993
      @mariarisi3993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel the same,and I don't know why! Such a special man

    • @exposingliars9824
      @exposingliars9824 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because every single woman wanted to marry a man like that.

    • @SJGore-jp3lq
      @SJGore-jp3lq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Have we learned anything from him being here on Earth? For me, the gifts he gave, and the life he lived....was his gifts to us all.
      Here are some of his qualities...that moved me: Fearlessness, Empathy and Down to Earth. Went to young....but won't be forgotten 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

    • @theresamarkiewicz2545
      @theresamarkiewicz2545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      THAT was amazing. I know how hard that must of been to open up to everyone and talk personally about the journey you had to go thru with Patrick.Thank you for sharing and Bless both of you.

  • @tinalovesmovies5464
    @tinalovesmovies5464 10 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    The brave doesn't live forever but the cautious doesn't live at all. Start living rather than existing.

  • @lisagrace7287
    @lisagrace7287 9 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Thank you Lisa for sharing. I've got cancer, and it really helped me so very much with my end game. Thank you

    • @autumnrene807
      @autumnrene807 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm pray you're doing ok... God bless you

  • @Duttsa
    @Duttsa 9 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    RIP Patrick!You was loved from all us and God to,bcz it he took you early .. Patrick you will remain always in our memory !

  • @Davidinnweb3world
    @Davidinnweb3world 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My dad was 59 when diagnosed and died 6 months after. I saw what pancreatic cancer does to people, what it did to my dad and I can't stop crying..Will be soon 2 years.

  • @sarameitner6770
    @sarameitner6770 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yes, "I love you" is never wasted.

  • @angelablevins9922
    @angelablevins9922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Patrick was an awesome man. He is greatly missed. I so understand your journey. I went through the same thing with my husband. He wanted to be home to pass. He passed 2/22/2020. I still have moments after a year and a half where I feel lost. Prayers for you.

  • @jessicat5500
    @jessicat5500 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That was beautiful and so intimate. Thank you, Lisa.

  • @joankielly4543
    @joankielly4543 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always loved Patrick. Losing someone so close to you is like having a limb missing. Part os you is gone. Thanks for sharing Lisa. You must have so many beautiful memories to take forward with you. God bless and be happy. That is what Patrick would want for you. ❤

  • @yvonnestaley3564
    @yvonnestaley3564 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    He was awesome

  • @HDeLisser
    @HDeLisser 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can relate to some of her experiences when my husband passed. Parting is "such sweet sorrow" and when you both become one, to me, that's when you understand the meaning of love and life. God bless you widow Swayze, may He guide you always until your purpose here on earth is ended.🙏

  • @JelloTypeR
    @JelloTypeR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've just watched Roadhouse for approximately the 498th time. Seeing Patrick in his adonis like prime, he was a truly beautiful man and a beautiful human being. The world is a dimmer place with his light shining upon it. RIP Patrick.

  • @tonyb1984
    @tonyb1984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wow! This brought just about every emotion out of me. Very, very touching. Thoughts and prayers are with you and Patrick ALWAYS 🙏❤️

  • @53Carolp
    @53Carolp 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is such a brave woman. She stuck with him through the good, bad and the ugly. She is right how he was fearless and was never afraid to try anything. He was so handsome, awesome actor and a wonderful husband. Her and Patricks's DVD before his passing they were going to have a baby and she was pregnant but lost the baby and never tried again and they were both devastated. They were team and a strong couple and fought the devil. She is such an amazing woman after 4 years after his passing.

  • @windspirit1954
    @windspirit1954 9 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    God Bless you Lisa....You were definitely His Angel

    • @lindaknight6454
      @lindaknight6454 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      windspirit1954 yes she is smart he left her everything nothing to his family she saw to that she is scum bucket

  • @wendywatkins628
    @wendywatkins628 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patrick was a gift to us all. Thank you for sharing him with us. He was the kind of man we wish every man was. We are fortunate to have him on film, so he will virtually never be gone. I wish you well as you continue through lifes journey.

  • @marykemmer8083
    @marykemmer8083 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My husband lost his battle with this deadly beast 6 months ago and he faught it from November 2012. And just like Patrick they gave him 6 months but he was never going to give and he faught all the way to his last breathe. He was and always will be the love of my life'

  • @Angelsofia
    @Angelsofia 10 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So 30+ years of marriage isn't enough? She doesn't have to prove anything to anyone. She deserves to be happy. Whether she found love love one year of three after his death, that doesn't diminish what they had in any way, shape or form. They spent a lifetime together...how many couples get divorce within the first few years of their marriage, if they make it that far? They were a beautiful couple, but I'm sure he would want her to be happy; if you really love someone, you want them to be happy..so good for her. I adore Patrick Swayze. He was an amazing actor and multitalented too.

  • @bethelshiloh
    @bethelshiloh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You put it very well. I lost a husband as well. Grief is like waves. If it all came in one big tsunami, it would kill us.

  • @victoriamarrero5579
    @victoriamarrero5579 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your post thank you for sharing of the passing of your husband thank you thank you thank you I lost my mom a year ago she was in hospice I took care of her and it's been very hard so thank you so much for those words for your story may God bless you always

  • @cskiles318
    @cskiles318 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Telling the journey is comfort to so many. Thank you

  • @emm1694
    @emm1694 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    that was amazing. she is a very strong and brave woman!

  • @patsychapman7169
    @patsychapman7169 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To me Patrick and Lisa were a match made in Heaven! You can still see the pain in her ❤️❤️ Heart and I feel some of her pain I've lost a husband too! Lisa is a very brave Woman and I wish her the best of everything in her moving forward cause that's a lot to endure! R.i.p.Patrick you will always be in Our ❤️❤️ Heart's!

  • @johnsepulveda443
    @johnsepulveda443 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    yep the pain of losing someone you love never goes away but with time it gets easier to bear.

  • @vg2binkey884
    @vg2binkey884 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i think its sweet that shes honoring him this way thru her and to us:')

  • @suzannederusha
    @suzannederusha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Beautiful! Bless her.

  • @susanwallace4564
    @susanwallace4564 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such true words, thank you for sharing and loving him and helping him get his Angel wings XO

  • @BflyMom_212
    @BflyMom_212 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Lisa for your insight & sharing Patrick's journey, and yours. He was very lucky to have you with him and as someone else said You were his "Angel". R.I.P. PATRICK.

  • @dmc31405
    @dmc31405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing yours and Patrick’s story. Patrick was one of my favorite actors. You answered my assumption, as I got the impression that he was a fearless warrior class personality. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself Lisa, and May God Bless and Keep you safe.

    • @mariaceciliapinto8998
      @mariaceciliapinto8998 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No has respetado su intimidad. Te demoraste poco en traicionar su confianza. Contaste todos sus secretos y debilidades. Y por dinero además. Nunca fuiste una éxito en lo artístico. Solo la esposa de patrick. Espero que tu nuevo esposo no sufra de tus bajezas

  • @TuTuFox
    @TuTuFox 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had spent a weekend with my cousin & he was totally fine. A mo later he told me he was just diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer, I was WHAT⁉️⁉️ Well 3 mo later he was gone. Pancreatic cancer is a bad one. All cancer is but boy oh boy it takes u out fast. I guess its because its a silent cancer. By the time u r diagnosed its far advanced. My cousin had just turned 60. He was one of the kindest person u could ever know. I sure miss him💔

  • @sharonblount7238
    @sharonblount7238 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for letting us get to know you! Patrick Swayze is still in our hearts.... Your honesty and hearing your dedication to each other is beyond words! For me it isn't now just losing an icon... But a heartbreak unimaginable for for the love you still have for your husband. You are an amazing lady that truly found her soul mate... As well as he!!! Thank you for sharing... May God always bless you! And give you strength and comfort and faith!!!

  • @brett9633
    @brett9633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Just watched this for the first time and omg Lisa, you are unbelievably brave to stand on stage and tell your story and love that you had for Patrick. You were blessed to be such a huge part of his life and he was to be part of yours. I can hear how much you loved him and I hope you can feel our love for you. X

    • @carolwatson988
      @carolwatson988 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lady I really do believe you're serious, but really think about it she's doing this on Patrick's coattails she doesn't want you to think that so that's why she starts all saying all the things she is and can do and is known for and this good at and to me when somebody starts to talkin like that
      It's all about her her and how wonderful she is well if she's wonderful, she is because of her husband whom we all loved and he was never on stage doing what she's doing. I guess she has a right and I think I have a right to my own reaction and response because I never liked her. I think she is in was a cold fish! But she was right about one thing she was married to the sexiest man alive, until she wasn't

    • @robynalvin2849
      @robynalvin2849 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carolwatson988
      Who cares if you like Patrick Swayze’s wife? You don’t even know her. Never met her. Never were friends with her. Never worked with her. You get an impression of this or that. Leave the poor woman alone. You don’t know anything really about their relationship.

  • @k.f.8722
    @k.f.8722 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are an incredibly brave woman and so blessed to have had a love for all those years. God bless you and thanks so much for sharing with the world.

  • @mariarosario1715
    @mariarosario1715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Patrick Swayze you are gone😥but you will never be forgotten🙏you will forever be remembered and in our HEARTS💖we love you Patrick R.I.P.🙏💖🕊🕊🙏

  • @zelda401
    @zelda401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried mnear the end but I got some strength from her. Thank you

  • @wandamundy2990
    @wandamundy2990 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Well done, Lisa. You have said that Patrick encouraged you to be the best version of yourself that you could be. So it's clear that he would not have wanted you to collapse and disappear into yourself after his passing. He would have known that your CONTINUING to become the best version of yourself possible - would be a much better legacy of what the two of you had - than that his passing would have diminished you to the vanishing point.
    Bless you for your courage in sharing that with all of us. The day may come when any one of us may need to reach for that same state of grace and graciousness that you both have shown can lift us above. It doesn't change the outcome - but it changes how we get there . . . And that can't be a bad thing.

  • @jocelyngarvin188
    @jocelyngarvin188 ปีที่แล้ว

    Holy cow. Lisa, right before I watched your story, I watched the video of you and Patrick dancing in 1984. You are an amazing woman, and Patrick is watching over you, and will always be with you. Much ❤️ and prayers for you.

  • @lindajensen9222
    @lindajensen9222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Dad and Sister Died from Cancer, Meryleen had Pancreatic Cancer, it was the most heart breaking thing, she had money and wanted a new Couch and Chair I told her it's your money get what you want, after they were delivered she said I finally have what I want and i'm not going to be here to enjoy it, it was terrible Patric got around much better than she did, Lisa has been through the mill, I see people judging her for selling his things , where is it written she should live in a Shrine for the rest of her life? it's her things he's never going to use them it's painful to have those things as a constant reminder he lived and he is gone, so let her do it her way, she found someone to care about and share the rest of her life with, it will never be the same but it's what she needs for now, sorry for her loss

    • @darlenemcdugle9081
      @darlenemcdugle9081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lisa could have given his only son some of his Dad 's stuff just because you did birth his son doesn't mean you have to be cold .he had a DNA test and proved it but you have to be GREEDY MONEY

    • @darlenemcdugle9081
      @darlenemcdugle9081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      HUNGRY.

  • @tameikabrown
    @tameikabrown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Luv U Miss Lisa Niemi Swayze U Keep UR Head Up Girl Cause U Know Patrick Swayze Is Definitely 👀Over U All Day Everyday RIP 🪦 God Rest His Soul 😥😭😢🥺😩

  • @vutjeberg3581
    @vutjeberg3581 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    her voice sais it all! amazing how brave she is standing there

  • @kristinejames9812
    @kristinejames9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How dare any 1 person on this planet say anything disrespectful about Lisa!!! Very very strong woman,who obviously Lost The Love Of Her Life!!!🥰

  • @Sonneteer1
    @Sonneteer1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It’s horrendous! This disgusting, insidious disease robbing us of our loved ones. Watching as they remain optimistic whilst, before your eyes, wasting away. Praying to God to save them. Offering your own life in return. A feeling of helplessness. A desperation so deep of not to let go.
    Finally, your prayers revert from “let him live” to “please God take him home. No more suffering. No more pain. Please, take him home”.
    The pain the emptiness and sorrow leaves a broken heart.
    We travel through the remainder of our lives with wonderful memories in store.
    We think of our loved one day after day, amidst smiles and tears galore.
    However, we know that there shall come a time when, once more we shall stand side by side. For there in the glory of heaven, is our loved one, arms opened wide.
    No more pain or sorrow . No more suffering. Just love and peace with the one you love. Together in God’s holiness.

    • @forreal245
      @forreal245 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      May God bless, comfort & protect you.

    • @deborah9775
      @deborah9775 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You truly know the pain of this horrible disease and cancers of any kind. You describe what truly happens. I wish good karma for you and May God bless you each and everyday and help you with your pain. You should of written the book at least it wiuld of been honest not from reading others and trying to write from there.

  • @darlajclemons
    @darlajclemons 10 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Patrick most likely told her to "move on" and be happy. There is nothing wrong with her finding love again. She is honoring his wishes and his memory. Everyone who is dissing her because of her new life should get real and stop tossing hate into her direction. Mind your own life choices and dont worry about what someone else is up to. Get a life and keep it real people. For those who are defending her, you understand. Life is too short to be so passionate against good things like love and finding it.....whatever the reason. Take care people.

    • @pps1fan
      @pps1fan 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Beautifully said...it is clear how deeply she loved Patrick Swayze 37 years together even if she remarries she will never forget or lose the love she had for him...and I am sure he wouldn't want her to be lonely and would be happy to know she's found someone to share life with and not be sad...life is too short. I am a cancer survivor so think all she's said here is so true and she's given a voice to those out there who haven't a voice to explain what it really is like to go through it. Chemo is awful it is hell on wheels...people seriously need to stop disrespecting this lovely woman...it's clear the pain is still raw!

    • @bethbacellar3187
      @bethbacellar3187 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think if she had loved him for real, after 34 years, married to him, and she has lost him the sad way she lost him, she would not think of marrying again with so happiness "She said in an interview, when she became engaged, that she was too excited to be back in a married woman !! I think she missed most of the marriage than him!

    • @blrr5blrr
      @blrr5blrr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I totally agree with you . Everyone says "oh she deserves to find happiness and its up to her etc etc" and yes all that is true. But it was so shocking that she could move on so fast. she is obviously just built from different stuff to most people and is a very tough woman. I would wear my widows weeds forever, if id been married to Patrick and would just thank god for the years of happiness that I did have, and not go out searching for more happiness - as it tarnishes the memory of her husband

    • @charleskerr3664
      @charleskerr3664 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Darla Clemons if lisa loved patrick so much,then why is she being so offensive toward patricks family ! If patrick was alive 2 day ,I would gaurantee he would not take this crap from no 1 ! 2 whomever disagrees ,then you have a problem ,just remember , " Blood is thicker than water " ! Just watch the movie patrick swayze was in with Bill Paxton and Liam Nelson ! You never want 2 go through that ! : !

    • @darlajclemons
      @darlajclemons 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I guess I have a problem because I don't believe "blood is thicker than water". A family is what you make, who you choose to surround yourself with, not what you are born into. I was born into a "family" with secrets and denials, of supporters of a monster and those who ostracized a victim to the point that she walked away from all of them. Me, I did. I wouldn't stand with many of them. I believe you make your family as you go along in life. I have more family than I have blood relatives. And that is the healthiest option for me.

  • @mariarosario1715
    @mariarosario1715 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omg I understand, I'm a cancel survivor myself thanks to God🙏but I've lost family members & friends to all different kinds of cancel🕊it really hurts😥😢I'm sorry. Patrick will never be forgotten🙏he will forever be remembered and always in our HEARTS💖we love you Patrick R.I.P. you are and always will be missed😢🙏🙏🕊🕊🙏🙏

  • @fabioalmonte660
    @fabioalmonte660 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    una excelente mujer,buenas esposa bendiciones para ti y uno de favorito patrick swayze

  • @marsol1979
    @marsol1979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re such an amazing woman. All the best of all times in your life.

  • @gayeblinman5055
    @gayeblinman5055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW What A WOMAN ✅ Wonderful Talk - Magical Fantastic Love 💕

  • @dianalester1351
    @dianalester1351 ปีที่แล้ว

    He was an amazing Actor and Dancer!

  • @lyndabailey3659
    @lyndabailey3659 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that was just beautiful tears are rolling down my cheeks bless you lisa i feel like i have more understanding now xxx

  • @Cr7_edits.aep1
    @Cr7_edits.aep1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lisa..you will always be loved

  • @frantucker608
    @frantucker608 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    What an amazing woman. No wonder that Patrick Swayze loved her so.

  • @laracatherineg
    @laracatherineg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thought it was really courageous and lovely that you did this talk. Your jokes and lightness you brought while sharing this most painful time in your life was really sweet. I have just finished reading Time of My Life yesterday and am now onto your book Worth Fighting For. I'm appreciative you wrote both books, I found the first and so far the 2nd book to bring much insight and inspiration where my healing work is concerned. All the best to you Lisa, may your days be filled with love, light and joy, Lara Catherine

  • @hdjohnson7951
    @hdjohnson7951 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    she is a great woman love her Heart xoxoxoxo

  • @emmc1022
    @emmc1022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is very hard to hear the sadness in your voice Lisa. I lost my husband 11 months ago, 8 months after diagnosis. I was lucky that we worked together in our own business, but he didn’t dance. I miss his face and silly sense of humour. I don’t like thinking of each day to come without him. It’s hard ....

  • @belmac7102
    @belmac7102 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Partick swayze. ... you are one he'll of a guy. ....

  • @lin_mrachek
    @lin_mrachek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In 1975 my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and was given 6 months.
    He lasted 6 months..
    In those days they were just starting to use chemo. Amazing I was told to put it in his orange juice! He had no radiation and no surgery.
    Sadly this cancer, out of all the cancers, has seen little progress.
    Not major advances like breast cancer.

  • @janhutt288
    @janhutt288 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patrick Was. A Brave. Man I. Love him 💜💜🇦🇺🇦🇺 l cryed and cried so. Long Liza my best. To. You lm. Glad your. In. Love again all the best 💜🇦🇺💜🇦🇺 you.

  • @donnarowland7637
    @donnarowland7637 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God bless you

  • @chareensouth5586
    @chareensouth5586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She so strong to hold back the tears😢💗

  • @bretsfallenangel1
    @bretsfallenangel1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My father died from the same cancer only a month after his diagnoses.

  • @MsTJPink
    @MsTJPink 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My hand, on your heart Lisa x

  • @shoegal3669
    @shoegal3669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my partner from lung cancer (a non small cell cancer). It was so aggressive that he died within the first year. Listening to LIsa speak is painful: clearly she is not comfortable with public speaking but primarily because it is extremely painful to watch someone you love, die day by day and that is very evident in her voice. If I could give her one piece of advice, it would be to put it all behind her and get on with the business of living.

  • @lindamiscandlon7479
    @lindamiscandlon7479 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Her new life Lisa knows she won't love anyone like she loved Patrick but she doesn't want to be lonely bear in mind with both their careers they didn't have children everyone needs someone a companion Lisa probably thought no it won't happen you don't know in the spirit realm Patrick may have guided her to someone ❤️

    • @deborah9775
      @deborah9775 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      She chose to not have or adopt kids she had her horses and she even got rid of them so...I don't feel sorry for herat all I feel sorry for Patrick for what she put him through esp during his last two years. She is cold hearted and abusive

    • @joannspencer1094
      @joannspencer1094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Deborah Wolfe...you continue to make the comment that she abused Patrick horribly, can you please explain because I havent heard and as well I would kindly ask you to not use ‘karma’ & ‘God’ in the same sentence! If you believe in God, and the Bible, you would be aware that there is no such thing as karma so please use one or the other. God is with the Bible, karma is with the devil!!

    • @idonotanswerquestions5110
      @idonotanswerquestions5110 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ummm he's also a billionaire. She's a money ho gold digger.

  • @littllow54
    @littllow54 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would love to talk to you Lisa. I went through this a few years after you lost Patrick. I lost my husband. My husband was born in 1951 and I was born in 1957. We are very close in age and have experienced many of the same things through death and grief. I enjoyed your book and also the one you and Patrick wrote. I enjoyed your speech here also. Thank you for how you talk about grief. You are right, no one ever told us how bad dealing with grief would be. I can only say prayer has gotten me through the long days and nights. God bless you.

  • @debblackmore7460
    @debblackmore7460 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Patrick loved lisa that's why spent 34 years 2 gether there love was real pain both went through why shouldnt lisa remarry dont troll her she was amazing so strong Patrick figured dirty cancer but we all know cancer wins it's a dirty decease so proud of her and Patrick Patrick died 14th September 2009 I will always remember that day I spent weeks in coma hypoxia spent months in rehab should been a great day getting out hospital which it was but a sad day cause Patrick died so I will always remember that day also mj died while in there both my legends RIP buddies xx

  • @teensyful
    @teensyful 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    god love ya' Lisa .....

  • @stella82003
    @stella82003 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a brave woman.I've read the book,it was hard way for him and her at this sad part of their life.

  • @daviddouglas7612
    @daviddouglas7612 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She did him dirty in the end .

    • @rski1036
      @rski1036 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How do you know that ?

  • @sailinmo
    @sailinmo 10 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow, it's like the ones with the negative comments didn't hear a word she said.

    • @Lady-Carmakazi
      @Lady-Carmakazi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      One thing I'm sure of is Patrick loved her and he'd be very disgusted with anyone treating her poorly. He'd want her healthy, happy and treated with respect.
      Anyone being hateful to her is also disrespecting him.
      Love your comment

  • @saundrajohnson1571
    @saundrajohnson1571 ปีที่แล้ว

    My mother had breast cancer. She decided on having a full radical mastectomy of both breasts, even though the cancer was initially found only in the right breast. To her horror, after surgery, the doctors discovered the left breast full of cancer they had not seen.
    Afterwards, my mother went through months of full rounds of chemo and radiation therapies. They wore on her badly. But after dealing with all of that, she thankfully went into remission for 18 blissful years.
    Then it returned.
    The cancer came back with a vengeance. It metasticed (sic) into her bones and stole her from me less than a year later. Yet, one positive thing through all of this horrible war raging in her body, was that she never lost her hair. She kept her soft, chestnut brown hair until her body could fight no more.
    That meant so much. A woman's hair is her crowning glory. My mother fought so long and so hard to survive. The thought of her losing her hair too, would have just been too much.
    You don't see what cancer is doing to you inside your body. But seeing yourself in the mirror, no longer having the hair that was one of your best features? That might have broken her, emotionally.
    It's hard to put any kind of positive spin on cancer, especially when it's terminal. But if you look really hard for any kind of blessing, that blessing gives you strength. My mom, being one of the rare ones able to keep a full head of hair, found a blessing in that. And for that, I too am grateful. 🙏🏻

  • @donnarowland7637
    @donnarowland7637 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @mapleblackdrums
    @mapleblackdrums 11 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Patrick had great taste.

  • @cavdragoon
    @cavdragoon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This woman is a disgrace. First there are the well known stories of abuse, both when he was sick and throughout their marriage. Stories substantiated by his brother, caretakers and house staff. Then there are the stories of infidelity, on her part alone. In fact many close to Patrick told him that due to his popularity he could easily pay her back. Yet he refused to. Then the selling off of most of his personal possessions. Last but not least the sale of his beloved ranch and horses. Now I understand people deal with grief differently but this ranch was the one that Patrick's ashes were spread on. Pitiful. Karma is a bitch and her time will come.

    • @sophiedavies5104
      @sophiedavies5104 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      cavdragoon wow that is a bit over the top,as the saying goes if you weren’t there to see it with your own eyes or hear it with your own ears then it’s best to say nothing,what you are saying is just hearsay.
      Any of these people could have made up these stories to be fair

    • @cavdragoon
      @cavdragoon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sophiedavies5104 actions also speak volumes about ones character. Did she sell off the ranch where his remains are scattered? Did she sell off his horses? Did she sell off his personal possessions? There is no making up those facts. You're also telling me his brother who was with him till the end and the Swayze family must be lying.

  • @elainesiqueira4094
    @elainesiqueira4094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pena que ainda não pensaram em colicar tradução!

  • @debrakaydebihoppersuing-x-3743
    @debrakaydebihoppersuing-x-3743 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    We Miss You, Patrick. You're Dancing in Heaven, Pain Free, Eternally. Baillamos con DIOS.
    Respectfully, Debra Debi Kay HOPPER-Suing. JMHS, NISD, '79. UTSA "88. Such a Fan & Admirer! .
    🌹😊 🌹

  • @UtopiaBlue68
    @UtopiaBlue68 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    People who are saying such cruel and discriminating things against Lisa should be ashamed of themselves it's quite evident that these people have never been married or truly in love with a soul partner having shared such a quality relationship over a period of decades. You cannot put a value on such love Lisa and Patrick shared such an amazing life we will never know the love shared between a couple behind closed doors unless we are close and have the privilege to do so as a friend or member of the family.

  • @bonniegilland5566
    @bonniegilland5566 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful people you are

  • @AshleyNewman201
    @AshleyNewman201 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Getting rid of all of his things was so heart wrenching to see them being sold on EBAY of all places... Just don't want to hear from her anymore! I'm out............Thumbs down Lisa!

    • @Sammy-mp9xn
      @Sammy-mp9xn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I Agree, I would have never done that!!!

    • @usfanlovesjiwoo1978
      @usfanlovesjiwoo1978 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was pathetic.

    • @deborah9775
      @deborah9775 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      As I already said she is a beast and on,y out to mak money off of his memories and his dying. She abused him horribly esp his last two yrs and rhen to pretend she cared is outrageous. I could write a book too if I took the infofrom other books and pieced it together and had another write it for me. Be aware do not fall for her lies and do not spend anymore money on her. Patrick deserves better May he be dan ing with amgels he deserves it.

    • @cindymcdonald3637
      @cindymcdonald3637 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I couldn't agree even more! His niece tried to stop her from selling it and even posted a petition for it to be canceled said his belongings should be with his family.

    • @pausmith2785
      @pausmith2785 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Patrick Swayze. Descansa en paz.Siempre te recordaremos por tus hermosas películas.Santiago de Chile, abril 2019.

  • @BedfordFalls7
    @BedfordFalls7 11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have to say I was very surprised when I heard that she was dating a guy and real happy. I thought that since they had been together for so long and in love, that she wouldn't want anyone else after Patrick's death. Or at least it be a long time before she would be ready or want that. Robert Urich's wife never dated again and Bobby Kennedy's wife never did and so many more. They have said that their love was too good to ever marry anyone else. I thought that this was how these two were.

    • @Jadwiga91
      @Jadwiga91 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nie mamy prawa osądzać decyzji Lisy , ani nikogo innego.. Jestem pełna podziwu dla Niej. Dała Patrickowi więcej niż ktokolwiek inny. Teraz ma prawo żyć dla siebie i wybrać to co dla niej najlepsze. Jak najbardziej zasługuje na miłość.

    • @samanthapickering815
      @samanthapickering815 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Melinda Smith, my husband passed away a year-and-a-half ago from colon cancer, and liver cancer. and I feel the same way I can never marry again.. my love is too good.. our love we had was just too good I can't find anyone to replace him it's not the same no one could be like him. not that I'm expecting that, but the only thing I know is that The Love Inside you take.. you take it with you and I carry it and that's what gets me by

    • @redsloane879
      @redsloane879 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ethel was pregnant with baby #11 at the time of Bobby's death....I'm sure she had her hands full! Who are we to judge someone else's happiness?!

  • @backtobasics1213
    @backtobasics1213 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It gets me really upset to hear he was working so hard. Just so mad he didnt need to work he had to be resting. :(

  • @linapagliari8003
    @linapagliari8003 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A lovely classy lady here Lisa ur great😂🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

  • @melanie.l6282
    @melanie.l6282 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ACTRESS? WHICH MOVIES?

  • @gesunyoo
    @gesunyoo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    34 years marriage !

  • @johnmoreno5965
    @johnmoreno5965 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    😍 who's that lady?

  • @adrianwarren9137
    @adrianwarren9137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Read what house keeper said about her

  • @donnabooboo3000
    @donnabooboo3000 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    for sharing! has to be the hardest thing in the world to do. RI{ Patrick!

  • @sophiedavies5104
    @sophiedavies5104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I can’t believe some of the most nasty comments on here about this lady,none of you know what went on you were not there so unless you have 100% proof I think you should all keep your opinions to yourself.

    • @paulineburns2042
      @paulineburns2042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Pics of them speak for them self and I know he wants her happy he said that and get 5 years then she did I know her heart always his her first but a second can sooth take the loneliness away

    • @nancyprohira2571
      @nancyprohira2571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marielabonete3782 see

    • @eileenparslow2060
      @eileenparslow2060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you for saying that. People in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones.

    • @gwentapia8844
      @gwentapia8844 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your a very strong and beautiful women.

  • @simonemuzi4571
    @simonemuzi4571 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @ollief.norals3623
    @ollief.norals3623 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Actor, singer, dancer and so much more. A life well lived. Thanks Patrick for sharing the time of your life. Gone too soon. Rest in peace. Forever missed.

  • @monicaestes8503
    @monicaestes8503 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    So eloquently said. Thank you for reminding us of this gift called life.

  • @Wotan-Born
    @Wotan-Born 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This woman is a brave and kind soul, most definitely Patrick is standing next to her. Smiling. #Bodhi #speedstar #pointbreak

    • @emeryryan2415
      @emeryryan2415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      instablaster

    • @darlenemcdugle9081
      @darlenemcdugle9081 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe if Patrick swayze had of known he had a son he would of put him in his will . I think Lisa swayze is COLD HARDED to knot want to give his only son ANYTHING knowing his hearts desire was to have a child.

    • @darlenemcdugle9081
      @darlenemcdugle9081 ปีที่แล้ว

      I HOPE Lisa gets to see this.

  • @mariarosario1715
    @mariarosario1715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Omg you can here the pain in her voice when she talks, that's so sad☹🙏she loved Patrick Swayze more then ya can imagine. They had an amazing marriage. I know the hardest part was to go on with her life. But she had to go on, Patrick would want her to keep going. She will always remember Patrick forever. Hes gone but he will never be forgotten🙏Patrick will always be in our HEARTS💖and will never be forgotten. R.I.P. Patrick your with God's angels🕊🕊💖💖❤❤🙏🙏

    • @mariaceciliapinto8998
      @mariaceciliapinto8998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No le creo nada
      Solo esperaba la herencia. y se casó ahora con un millonario. Lo único que le interesa es el dinero

    • @jenniferwells9032
      @jenniferwells9032 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he is ❤️💜💜🙏

  • @jenniferbeasley2397
    @jenniferbeasley2397 6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    He was the sextet man alive and very talented

  • @karenkeese2057
    @karenkeese2057 9 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    Thank you lisa. My husband also died from pancreatic cancer in sept. Of 2013. We had been married 35 years. He was loosing muscle and couldn't get diagnosed and so he made me go on a wonderful vacation to DC for a week. We got back and he was finally diagnosed and was gone 5 months later. He too worked almost until the end and yes it was beautiful and oh so intimate! He died with a smile on his face. He used to say if you die first I'm going to get you stuffed and put you in the corner. I would smile and say nobody puts baby in the corner and then we would have a beautiful roll in the hay! Thanks again lisa, god bless.

    • @cherikirby5014
      @cherikirby5014 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My heart truly breaks for you having lost your husband of 35 years. Using "God" in this context should be capitalized.

    • @susiewiggins502
      @susiewiggins502 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know she always have him in her heart. He want her to be happy. He with God now and life goes on for her

    • @deborah9775
      @deborah9775 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am sorry for your loss you truly seem to still be in pain i am glad you were there for each other and that you have wonderful life with each other and memories of those. Lisa coes not in any way represent anyone who has losta spouse or loved one to this horrible disease. Please do not Lisa speak for you she is a bald face liar who is using Patrick to this day to make money off of him her new husband wants more money and they can continue the abuse she put him through esp during the last few years. Do not fall for her lies and manipulation. You deserve better. SHare your story seperate of her please May good karma and blessings from God carry you through the rest of your life. Good luck

    • @joannspencer1094
      @joannspencer1094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Deborah Wolfe...how can you use ‘karma’ & ‘God’ in the same sentence?? If you truly believe in God you also are aware there is no such thing as karma! Never should these be put together!!!

    • @Leeh1945
      @Leeh1945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joannspencer1094What is wrong with the world, is everyone is too critical of others!

  • @johnhenrymcmahon6878
    @johnhenrymcmahon6878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    So wonderful and moving to see this. Lisa's braveness and courage to share her story with Patrick is heartbreaking but ultimately very inspiring. Thank you.

    • @stefaniedarabi2601
      @stefaniedarabi2601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is not heartbraking, what is heartbraking is that she sold everything he ever worked hard for ! And she got the nerve to stand up there lecturing other people about cancer and relationship ..just to get some attention..a clown if you ask me

    • @Quaker-tc8ue
      @Quaker-tc8ue ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stefaniedarabi2601 are you ignoring or choosing to forget that Patrick became an alcoholic after his father died?
      As much as Lisa loved him, she moved out, but checked on him daily.
      You are the one looking a clown, if you ask me.

  • @1888starz
    @1888starz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Patrick's dancing with angels & riding wild horses. RIP SWEET MAN.

  • @Leeh1945
    @Leeh1945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I have walked in your shoes, Mrs. Swayze, and it isn't easy. I know you miss him very much. You guys had something very special together. To let someone go is hard, but we all have to sooner or later....and they will have to let us go, too. God bless you and rest in peace, Patrick...such a tall fresh drink of water, that man was.

  • @gratefultobeonearth5434
    @gratefultobeonearth5434 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    My sister is over fifteen years Pancreatic cancer survivor. No chemo, no surgery, do drugs. Lots of prayers, emotional healing, all vegan diet, and she is still with us today. The lord had another plan for her. She had a 2.5 centimeter by 2.5 centimeter tumor in her pancreas , it shrunk. My sister is one of the few. I am so thankful to the lord that she is still alive. Now my sister helps people with cancer, she is a cancer coach, and working on her book as she calls it; about her cancer "journey".

    • @audreycallaway5862
      @audreycallaway5862 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is amazing and Thank you for sharing your Sister's story ❤️ So many people Blame God for these Devastating Diseases, Sicknesses and illnesses. When God did not afflict Us with these or the other bad things we face. But he will be there for anyone who cries out to him for Healing or he will have his arms wide open when it's time. Thankful for those who Pray and call upon God for Us 🙏❤🙏

    • @rusminsoedjadi9691
      @rusminsoedjadi9691 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do not let your hearts be troubled, trust in God trust also in Jesus. 100% right, lots of prayers. God Bless.

  • @heavensangel952
    @heavensangel952 8 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    God bless you Lisa Swayze! I was an extra dancer n Dirty Dancing,dated David Swayze and his uncle,Dr Swayze was my physician in Nacogdoches,Texas.Patrick was such an inspiration to me and others,as well as you.But as Patrick had told me once,"When things get tough&u feel like u want to give up,DANCE!"Keep on dancing u beautiful lady!U make us proud!

    • @laureng.2322
      @laureng.2322 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Angel of heaven : which scene were you in

    • @DisneyMomX35
      @DisneyMomX35 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yea Which One? We Would All LoVe 2 Kno!!!

    • @mistymitchell2790
      @mistymitchell2790 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL probably not true

    • @goodbye5030
      @goodbye5030 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that really true?

    • @ronnymoran3892
      @ronnymoran3892 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DisneyMomX35 6