I can definitely relate to feeling like nobody cares about how I feel. I often don’t say how I feel & distance myself from others, because I feel like nobody will care or understand
I’m a cancer rising but I feel like yes this Chiron cancer is spot on with how I move through life and I do feel abandoned by everyone lol 😂 but I’m the best hype man overly hype.
Omg, sameee! I love making ppl feel how I used to wish they cared to make me feel but now, in my shell & inner focused on relearning how to give mycellf that same loving energy I always naturally give out. I have Chiron Cancer in 1st so it's been many lessons for me to reconcile with the archetypal mother that resides within me. Your comment resonated for me ❤️
I'm chiron in ♋, I was traumatised by my mum at 6.i have ptsd / impotence /sexual dysfunction/ no sexual relationships (now in my 30's) /psychosis . Haven't worked full time for ages.always struggled academically. Grew up with huge body-anxiety, didn't feel physically safe everynight ,constant flight/flight being triggered. Sexual dysfunction/impotence leads to isolation to. Interesting comment about validating own emotions, and somehow developing self emotional support.
I have this placement and you either turn off your well needed emotions or it comes back and hits in face like yeah you're not some cold emotionless person you thought you are! I have this in the 8th with Chiron and Vertex conjunct in Jupiter, it's a doozie my relationship with my Mother is touch and go. Thank you!
Ah! I feel your struggle 😂 I'm a Moon, Venus, Chiron Cancer w/Mercury in 4th house (Cancer). I too feel like a walking ball of emotions 😭😂in fact, they said in my chart I'm a walking barometer 😩🥴 the struggle in these cosmic streets be real when we gain more innerstanding to the depths of our beings. Anywho, we definitely carry the gift of sensitivity. I call a gift & a damn curse 😂 🙏much love babes, trust I feels your pain 😂
What if you try to be emotionally vulnerable and you get shut out and not validated? I'm a cancer moon, south node and chiron. I have dealt with people telling me they don't want to hear how I feel for a long time, starting with my mom and basically every intimate relationship I've been in. I understand self healing but that will never negate the social need for a support system outside of yourself.
I can see how Chiron in Cancer would manifest that way. I think it's a combination of self-validation + creating relationships that value emotional support.
@@Saorlaithelka8 It's the exact same for me not to mention I have also have Cancer in my Venus & 4th house in my Sun & Mercury as well. As a student/teacher of Astrology, I would advise to look a little deeper into your house placements which will reveal the area that the cancerian, nurturing energy is placed which will give you deeper insight & clarity into finding out how to go about healing that energy. Also, the aspects will have a great impact on just how much the energy may be in harmony, making it an easier placement or if there are clashes, etc within the specific energy. ❤️
@@Saorlaithelka8 Oh cool, Us Venus in Cancers are very nurturing in our relationships. We love to cook, eat 😂and overall take care of those we love. I have this placement in the 2nd house. I am learning to not victimized mycellf from the pain I've felt in relationships when it comes to feeling equally cared for. Now, I'm learning to take all that love and turn it inward as well as not expect others to be as nurturing as me which helps to create the necessary healthy boundaries within these relationship dynamics. I know you're a sweet soul and I love this placement ❤️
Crazy how accurate this is. So it was my karma to incarnate with the relationship I had with my mother and the subsequent relationshipd after. It was written in the stars.
Yessss. So much yes. I am Chiron in Cancer. Cancer Sun and Capricorn Moon! Constantly battling having distant and stoic reactions and relationships with overly dramatic expressions and words. It's a roller coaster of wanting to pour into others and then being a hermit and dealing with my own emotions for awhile. I relate to everything said in this video. Thank you for presenting it in such a beautiful way!
Thank you for the video, I relate quite well. Chiron in Gemini in the 4th house: having troubles communicating my needs and emotions, and finding a sense of emotional security. Feeling literally paralyzed around dealing with/communicating/resolving difficult emotions. I've been through all stages: avoiding intimacy all together, becoming the archetypal mother of all wounded whilst not allowing anyone to support me, becoming incredibly skilled in dealing with people's traumas and emotional crisis substituting for my own need for support, and when finally breaking down, feeling excessively needy, and having literally no one there to be able to support me. It's a really tough placement, and the lived experience and feedback isn't exactly encouraging for vulnerability and sharing. I am really struggling to heal and integrate the consequences of these placements
😢😢😢yes this is very accurate reading.... I always nurture others but people don't nurture me back.... I always think that's I'm the only one who is facing this but now only I knew there's many people out there like me... People use me because I give them more than what other needs
This makes sense as A cancer sun it's a double wamy ...god I didn't realize this is a big place to heal ..I thought my chiron was Aries so I re looked it up today and showed Cancer so it makes more sense.
It resonates a lot ! Moon and chiron conjunct in cancer. It explain why I don't feel supported even from my family ! I remember when I was a child, I cried and said to myself that it's useless to explain why I am crying for because nobody can understand why even the reason was obvious ans simple for me. Even my own mother. Saturn in opposite, I though for a long time that emotion had nothing to bring me "it's not adult/professional to feel something". Now I'm learning to immerge into the cancer energy and it's a big relief. Thank you for your work !
I have cancer in Chiron 3rd house (communication). I also have cancer on moon and mars and this is challenging to me. I’m 34 and still have troubles communicating feelings
Oh my this bad placement for me why I have to have this but this video explains a lot to be honest I really wanna switch this placement with another one that’s much better I notice people can easily tell how I’m feeling off the back sometimes, or do things to get a reaction that is the thing that drives me crazy. Any recommendations on how can people with this placement get better at love or abandonment issues?
Mine is in later degree of Cancer conjunct Leo South Node, both in otherwise empty 7th house. Am I even allowed to have a relationship? Or will badness only follow? =(
Same. Chiron in cancer 7th house. If you figure this sh*t out let me know. Until then ride that lone wolf wave like nobody’s business. Self love self care self self self. Until someone worthy comes along that deserves the love we actually have to give. On the bright side. We get to focus on our goals and not be in the position of having to compromise. I suppose you can say what I say, “There are worse things than being alone.”
🌺GREETINGS EVERYONE 🌿 🙏🏽Gratitude 🌻 when i get my finances right i am coming to you because you said if a lot of planets surround this there's a story i have to know. Dee♍♎♏
In my natal chart; Asc Cancer conjuncts Chiron in Cancer in the 1st h, opposition w Saturn in the 7th which conjuncts Uranus. The moon in Gemini at 9 degree in the 12th parallels w Aldebaran. Imo such a hard position😐 Thank you for all the info shared 💜🙏🏻
Wow, we have similar sign placements. I'm a fellow Moon & Chiron Cancer. I have Mercury in Cancer in the 7th & Saturn Sagittarius 7th. Not to mention I'm a Gemini rising. 🙏 I know you mentioned moreso of your aspects but I can relate to the energy itself.
I can definitely relate to feeling like nobody cares about how I feel. I often don’t say how I feel & distance myself from others, because I feel like nobody will care or understand
Same!! Most people don't care tho' so it's important to practice discernment & identify potentially toxic relationships.
I’m a cancer rising but I feel like yes this Chiron cancer is spot on with how I move through life and I do feel abandoned by everyone lol 😂 but I’m the best hype man overly hype.
Omg, sameee! I love making ppl feel how I used to wish they cared to make me feel but now, in my shell & inner focused on relearning how to give mycellf that same loving energy I always naturally give out. I have Chiron Cancer in 1st so it's been many lessons for me to reconcile with the archetypal mother that resides within me. Your comment resonated for me ❤️
I'm chiron in ♋, I was traumatised by my mum at 6.i have ptsd / impotence /sexual dysfunction/ no sexual relationships (now in my 30's) /psychosis . Haven't worked full time for ages.always struggled academically.
Grew up with huge body-anxiety, didn't feel physically safe everynight ,constant flight/flight being triggered.
Sexual dysfunction/impotence leads to isolation to.
Interesting comment about validating own emotions, and somehow developing self emotional support.
Thank you for sharing.
I have this placement and you either turn off your well needed emotions or it comes back and hits in face like yeah you're not some cold emotionless person you thought you are! I have this in the 8th with Chiron and Vertex conjunct in Jupiter, it's a doozie my relationship with my Mother is touch and go. Thank you!
Chiron In cancer in my 8th house with my moon and Jupiter. Moon was full, out of bounds and opposite my sun in Cap when i was born lol. Emotionssss
Ah! I feel your struggle 😂 I'm a Moon, Venus, Chiron Cancer w/Mercury in 4th house (Cancer). I too feel like a walking ball of emotions 😭😂in fact, they said in my chart I'm a walking barometer 😩🥴 the struggle in these cosmic streets be real when we gain more innerstanding to the depths of our beings. Anywho, we definitely carry the gift of sensitivity. I call a gift & a damn curse 😂 🙏much love babes, trust I feels your pain 😂
Btw, I'm a fellow 🌎 Sun Virgo in the 4th👀😭im tired of feeling at this point 😂
Chiron in cancer, Venus is in cancer 8th house. I don't like it here.
What if you try to be emotionally vulnerable and you get shut out and not validated? I'm a cancer moon, south node and chiron. I have dealt with people telling me they don't want to hear how I feel for a long time, starting with my mom and basically every intimate relationship I've been in. I understand self healing but that will never negate the social need for a support system outside of yourself.
I can see how Chiron in Cancer would manifest that way. I think it's a combination of self-validation + creating relationships that value emotional support.
I would be inclined to ask myself why I am so dependent on the validation and support of others. I am cancer moon and Chiron too.
@@Saorlaithelka8 It's the exact same for me not to mention I have also have Cancer in my Venus & 4th house in my Sun & Mercury as well.
As a student/teacher of Astrology, I would advise to look a little deeper into your house placements which will reveal the area that the cancerian, nurturing energy is placed which will give you deeper insight & clarity into finding out how to go about healing that energy. Also, the aspects will have a great impact on just how much the energy may be in harmony, making it an easier placement or if there are clashes, etc within the specific energy. ❤️
@@conjurncraftstarot I have cancer Venus too ❤️✨
@@Saorlaithelka8 Oh cool, Us Venus in Cancers are very nurturing in our relationships. We love to cook, eat 😂and overall take care of those we love. I have this placement in the 2nd house. I am learning to not victimized mycellf from the pain I've felt in relationships when it comes to feeling equally cared for. Now, I'm learning to take all that love and turn it inward as well as not expect others to be as nurturing as me which helps to create the necessary healthy boundaries within these relationship dynamics. I know you're a sweet soul and I love this placement ❤️
Crazy how accurate this is. So it was my karma to incarnate with the relationship I had with my mother and the subsequent relationshipd after. It was written in the stars.
Yessss. So much yes. I am Chiron in Cancer. Cancer Sun and Capricorn Moon! Constantly battling having distant and stoic reactions and relationships with overly dramatic expressions and words. It's a roller coaster of wanting to pour into others and then being a hermit and dealing with my own emotions for awhile. I relate to everything said in this video. Thank you for presenting it in such a beautiful way!
Thank you for this comment. Glad to hear you could relate to it and I appreciate your compliment. 💗
Cap Moon as well... good god does these two energies suck major balls.
This was beautifully done thanks
Thank you for the video, I relate quite well. Chiron in Gemini in the 4th house: having troubles communicating my needs and emotions, and finding a sense of emotional security. Feeling literally paralyzed around dealing with/communicating/resolving difficult emotions. I've been through all stages: avoiding intimacy all together, becoming the archetypal mother of all wounded whilst not allowing anyone to support me, becoming incredibly skilled in dealing with people's traumas and emotional crisis substituting for my own need for support, and when finally breaking down, feeling excessively needy, and having literally no one there to be able to support me. It's a really tough placement, and the lived experience and feedback isn't exactly encouraging for vulnerability and sharing. I am really struggling to heal and integrate the consequences of these placements
Me too
My Chiron is in Cancer.. THIS is the key i've needed. Thank you.
I'm so happy to hear that 💗
😢😢😢yes this is very accurate reading.... I always nurture others but people don't nurture me back.... I always think that's I'm the only one who is facing this but now only I knew there's many people out there like me... People use me because I give them more than what other needs
It talk to me
I have Chiron in cancer in the 9th house
Would have been so useful to knew, but I guess life has put me in a healing path, now I can do it more consciously. Wow, thanks a lot
I have this placement but rx in the 11th house i totally relate
Glad to hear that.
Oh no. I have a baby with this placement!! I love him with all that i am and will make sure he always know and feels that. 💓
Good on you cuz this placement sucks like you can’t believe.
Very profound analysis that rings true. Thank you
I'm a Scorpio sun, Pisces moon and Cancer chiron. Where do I even begin...
Emotional wreck. My traumas only play out in romantic relationships and my relationship with my family. Everything else is very good.
@@throwawayjtpI relate 🫂
Dream on sassy bit** 🤣
Great heartfelt sound
Chiron in cancer as a man is brutal. It feels impossible.
This makes sense as A cancer sun it's a double wamy ...god I didn't realize this is a big place to heal ..I thought my chiron was Aries so I re looked it up today and showed Cancer so it makes more sense.
Spot on.
It resonates a lot ! Moon and chiron conjunct in cancer. It explain why I don't feel supported even from my family ! I remember when I was a child, I cried and said to myself that it's useless to explain why I am crying for because nobody can understand why even the reason was obvious ans simple for me. Even my own mother. Saturn in opposite, I though for a long time that emotion had nothing to bring me "it's not adult/professional to feel something". Now I'm learning to immerge into the cancer energy and it's a big relief. Thank you for your work !
Wow this really resonates I needed this thank yoooou!!!
Thank you for this video, very helpful!
😱 it’s all true!
thank you :)
I have cancer in Chiron 3rd house (communication). I also have cancer on moon and mars and this is challenging to me. I’m 34 and still have troubles communicating feelings
Oh my this bad placement for me why I have to have this but this video explains a lot to be honest I really wanna switch this placement with another one that’s much better I notice people can easily tell how I’m feeling off the back sometimes, or do things to get a reaction that is the thing that drives me crazy. Any recommendations on how can people with this placement get better at love or abandonment issues?
Great , spot on. Thanks 🙏
You’re welcome 😊
I have Chiron in the 11th house cancer BUT I have Jupiter in that house conjunct Chiron
Mine is in later degree of Cancer conjunct Leo South Node, both in otherwise empty 7th house. Am I even allowed to have a relationship? Or will badness only follow? =(
Same. Chiron in cancer 7th house. If you figure this sh*t out let me know. Until then ride that lone wolf wave like nobody’s business. Self love self care self self self. Until someone worthy comes along that deserves the love we actually have to give. On the bright side. We get to focus on our goals and not be in the position of having to compromise. I suppose you can say what I say, “There are worse things than being alone.”
I am psychotically independent. I would rather suffer in silence than ask for help.
Thank you 💞
You're Welcome!
Very true
Thanks!
With Chiron in the 11th house of cancer, could this represent a challenge forming bonds / trusting with female friends? Or feeling valued by women?
🌺GREETINGS EVERYONE 🌿
🙏🏽Gratitude 🌻 when i get my finances right i am coming to you because you said if a lot of planets surround this there's a story i have to know.
Dee♍♎♏
I look forward to that day 💗
In my natal chart;
Asc Cancer conjuncts Chiron in Cancer in the 1st h, opposition w Saturn in the 7th which conjuncts Uranus. The moon in Gemini at 9 degree in the 12th parallels w Aldebaran. Imo such a hard position😐
Thank you for all the info shared 💜🙏🏻
That would be an interesting placement for the moon. I talk about Aldabaran in my New Moon in Gemini video.
Wow, we have similar sign placements. I'm a fellow Moon & Chiron Cancer. I have Mercury in Cancer in the 7th & Saturn Sagittarius 7th. Not to mention I'm a Gemini rising. 🙏 I know you mentioned moreso of your aspects but I can relate to the energy itself.
@@conjurncraftstarot i can feel so well of chiron cancers.💜 sending you lots of love and good energies💜💜💜💜