Drug Addicted Mother and Son interview-Kelly and Shane
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- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Shane and his mother, Kelly, who are both drug addicts on Skid Row.
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This is shane and im not happy with any thing ive done in life so charge is on the way I'm going back to Oregon next week with out my mom time for me to fix my wrongs and do right by my kids and myself ill make a vid in 6 months and let yall no were im at in life .we all have the power to change anything in life you just have to try and you will succeed..... The past is the past lets make a better future... Love is the key...love your self never give up...
cowboy tech We’re rooting for you Shane! Believe in yourself and know that you CAN do it. You’ve done it before and you’ll do it again! Sending love and light to you ❤️
cowboy tech ~ I am sorry for your horrible childhood/upbringing. I know you both are good people born into a horrible situation/trauma/neglect no discipline or tough love. I hope nothing but the best for both you and your Mom. ♥️♥️
cowboy tech love is the key.. I wish you nothing but the best for you x
I’m proud of you. God bless !
First step is taking the first step..good luck bro..cant wait to see your update in 6 months 👌🏽
I see absolutely no guilt on this mother's face. She has lost all emotion.
Probably doesn't want to. I imagine the guilt and shame would be overwhelming, so turning to another high and shutting those emotions off is probably way easier.
Sarah M Labrasca Brainwashed her son
@Sarah M Labrasca Maybe taking responsibility would break her. She knows.
It is what it is
She looked a bit proud when he started talking about how much money he made selling drugs.
Never seen a mother sit and listen so comfortably to her child talk about what he is she takes no responsibility this is sad
Jade Baker come meet my mom. She’d sit there & do the same, while I’d blame myself. At least I would’ve been j was younger. I don’t anyone. I was also raised in Michigan.
You been near people high on crack before, luckily not. But this is their disfunctional lives, everything bit of their story is sad.
Well she looks proud and disassociated from her son during this video. I think she is sly.
He's grown, she doesnt need to take responsibility, she needs to take her s#!t and go. He needs to stop making excuses for why he decides to get high again and again its lame.
She’s a junkie not a fucking school teacher
When she said that people tell her she is a good mom I literally laughed out loud
She seriously thinks she's the cool mom. A legend in her own mind.
She meant kids thought she was a COOL mom for just letting them do thé Drugs. I don't think they meant she's a GOOD mom, even if she did think that's what they meant.
I had to rewind, she’s killed way too many brain cells and had no soul…ugh😢
Oh, she didn't say "good".... she said they say she's the "best" mom. Smh. So sad.
Mom. Why don't you grow up and show that pic son how to be an adult. Difficult for you as you've never grown up. Sarah and Rachel had aucky escape. Full of buckshot. Mom should be ashamed. Chewing like a old cow on child. No way anyone would stoop as low as yoj
I can't believe he is blaming himself for raising his younger sibling badly. It was not his task to do this, it was his parents'. He was a kid himself.
And what about how he’s been raising his own children? It’s the same thing. Everyone here is judging his mother, but what they fail to understand that if this was filmed 40 years ago, the mom would be sitting on the left and her father would be sitting on the right. It’s a vicious vicious cycle and all these people solely blaming Shane’s mom are a bunch of judgmental pricks. I feel sympathy for BOTH of them. They are trapped in a cycle of self abuse.
All I have to say is STOP HAVING KIDS!! if you choose to destroy your life at least have the decency to stop the cycle of abuse
Yana Churiy 100%
This! Its passed on generationally. Broken people creating more broken people. Yet, the reality is, these are the folks that have tons of kids.
@@SivaJivamukti 100% true. Fk knows why they think they'd be able to do a good job. Selfish fks
Yana Churiy absolutely 😊
Couldn’t agree more. You know your life is a disaster, it’s your prerogative to maintain this lifestyle but a child has no choice. It’s sad to see people that continue to have children and are not doing everything in their power to get clean.
He’s in love with his own drama and momma seems proud of the disaster she created. They seem content in their dysfunction.
He was not content. He has a TH-cam channel and hes changing his life for the better and moved away from his mom
Shit rolls down hill
@@hannahk6239 what is his youtube channel?
@@maridelpabroquez5493 cowboy tech
He made a comment on this video that's how I found it
Is it that hard for you to have sympathy for someone with a penis? She screwed him up, he is a victim.
Shame on you, you hag.
Shane doesn’t realize that the person who set him on his path to addiction is sitting right next to him.
Yup, and unfortunately he’s now no better than her because he’s perpetrating the same cycle on his own kids.
Whom ever did this interview needs to tell them how strange this dynamic is!!!!
Actually, I think he owns his choices. He's not a victim. He doesn't blame anyone. THAT, actually is refreshing in Victim Snowflake world we live in.
@@GP-kl3zp Acknowledging that people hurt you your whole life and put you in bad situations leading you to make bad decisions doesn’t make you a snowflake. The things you do to children affect how they grow into adults….
@@hotshopper1717 Hey, Amina, you are absolutely correct. There should have been a solidus between between Victim and Snowflake, as in Victim/Snowflake. Not all victims are snowflakes, but snowflakes not only seek out ways to be victims of just about anything they can, they actually try to seek offense and victimhood on behalf of other people. Ridiculous. Point is that these people in the interviews, with their hard lives, should be commended for being able to point out the source of their issues -- which is difficult enough to talk about, for sure -- but then they get on with life. That does not at all diminish what happened to them, but they don't walk around as if somebody owes them something for it, either. Totally agree that the things you do to children affect how they grow into adults -- take a look at the elementary school curriculum in many parts of the country, teaching little kids about "Sally has two mommies" and critical race theory at six and seven years old. Hitler said it best: "He alone who owns the youth, gains the future." Thank you, Left Progressives.
I started doing drugs since my teenage, got addicted to heroin. Spent my whole life fighting heroin addiction. Also suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. This is something that really need to be use globally to help people with related health challenges.
Amen God bless people. Save your health save your mind. Life is better without heroin, cocaine, alcohol and cigarettes. And you have more money in your pocket. God bless everyone who has rejected the devils intentions to be addicted to alcohol and cigarettes etc which can cause so much damage to health.
YES very sure of Dr.alishrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I'm really happy for you that your wife decided to help you...I hear about alot of family members or so called friends shutting an addict out of their life, which since most addicts do it to mask emotions to me is the worse thing someone can do to an addict.
How do I reach out to him? Is he on insta
Yes he's Dr.alishrooms. Shrooms to me is a natrual healer. I know a guy who has used mushrooms in the same way and they have really helped him. mah dudes have safe trips all.
My mother was on crack from the age of 18 and I never did it I been molested and abused and I turn out good I got three boys never did drugs my kids never been in the system I'm a professional hair stylist and medtech nurse I thank God I wanted better I was an orphan I was a foster child but I have a story to tell and I am a true child of God the stuff I been through this could've been my story😢🙏💞💞
Wow....a miracle!
Tamara Smith im a mom and a grama and i just want to say in case no one else has im really proud of you Tamara youre doing great sweety
You go girl. Praise God.
Tamara Smith Amen
@@girlraisedinthedirtysouth5065 thank you 🙏💖💞💞
His mom being proud of him for how many drugs he can do at once is so sad
It’s weird that they keep saying no one lets them see the kids.....like that’s a bad or unfair thing. Should they really see the kids? Let’s be real. Kids shouldn’t be anywhere near these people.
If I'm clean and doing the right thing I should be able to c my kids absolutely and that's exactly what's going to happen im not giving up lile my mom did I would rather die then give up on what's mime and my desirabilitys as a father that's y im on my way home to fix what I what I need to
@@shanestiffler4896 I hope you can stay clean and don't relapse luckily you have a kid and woman to get clean for hold onto that my sister has no one but me and my parents and we're not enough for her to kick it hope your life turns around for the better
@@ItsThatKidVurd I'm sorry for her if she needs some one to talk to im here some times that's all we need is someone in the same spot to talk and relate to soo im all ways here much love
You sound crazzy
PERIOD
Under 20 min and I am completely exhausted by this interview.
It's the never ending story
the life of an addict
Me too. Same story all the time. Kids lose in this scenario every time
Dude has 5 baby mothers, is addicted to drugs, and lives in a tent, yet still has a huge ego.. Conquer yourself.
He’s pathetic
Hahahaha what a funny comment
Apparently, he left his mother and went to go to rehab. His channel is cowboy tech. I’m glad he left her tho, she’s fucking disgusting.
He’s just out of rehab now
It goes both ways. be honest
As a recovering addict, I feel for these people. Their stories are truly heartbreaking. Unlike many of these people, I had a great childhood, with amazing parents who were married for more than 30 years. I got into a relationship that turned toxic. He beat me, I ended up in the hospital, he ended up in prison, and I was left with a lifetime of pain. Doctors started me on tramadol, then Vicodin, to Percocet, to morphine (the opiate epidemic is real). My tolerance level became so high that my dose just wasn't enough. I began to buy pills to add to my prescription, till someone introduced me to heroin because it was easier to get and cheaper. The drugs stopped helping with the pain, I wasn't doing it because I was getting a great high because I wasn't. It became necessary in order to function. I considered myself a functioning drug addict, until I lost everything. I lost my marriage, a new home, cars, a 13 year career, everything except my 2 children. As I was left with nothing, I refused to lose my kids and they deserved a better life, so I got my shit together. I have been clean for 5 years, I'm working on a bachelor's degree in Information Technology and Cyber security, my 16 year old daughter is working hard on a scholarship to the University of Arizona, and my 14 year old son is an honor roll student. I'm proud of how far I've come, but I'm also extremely disappointed in myself for letting my life get to where it was. The life I was living was disgusting and I was doing horrible things. All of it taught me so much, one thing being not to judge people, because we have no clue the battle a person is fighting. So many people don't make it out to the other side, and if it hadn't been for my children and a good support system, I wouldn't have either. I pray each of these people find the strength to survive and can one day find peace and happiness.
You should really be very proud of yourself and your kids
Wishing you continued success and many blessings
Your strong mama bear ,nothing in life is worth our kids.may God be with you in all of your steps.
J9 Collins this is about them, not you 🤣
Gmen pg she never said that it was, she wrote her story in the comment section to show that she understands the place that these two are in. Pretty simple to comprehend
Success story. Have you considered being a guest speaker at drug and alcohol rehab centers? Your story offers hope
I grew up being abused in all ways, I grew up partied , did drugs and drank. As soon as got pregnant and had my son, I left all drugs and drinking behind, the party life was over. I was still going through the pain from my traumatic childhood but instead of drugs I sought counseling. I wanted to give my son the best chance in life, I was not going to purposely do something to sabotage his chances of succeeding in his life. Today he is a wonderful smart successful 28yr old man. Please if you have children don’t be selfish and get into drugs and if you’re into drugs you shouldn’t have children
Thank GOD for people like you..Addiction happens and its always sourced in pain and the need to escape..but when a new life is in your hands, the game changes. I'm so proud of you for putting your son before you. I'm in a similar situation, I didn't do quite as well as you regards my addiction, but I didn't let it overtake the drive to raise my son right. Bet you beam with pride when you look at your son. And so you should. Best wishes to you Wizzy
You are amazing! You defied tremendous odds and stopped the cycle of abuse and addiction and this internet stranger is DAMN proud of you. You are a hero.
You should be very proud of yourself.. ❤
Thank you!!!!
You’re amazing
I know this is a interview, but I just can't stand how his mom is so relaxed. Tears would flow from all the pain if I put my son threw that situation. So sad....
I agree with you! She is void of emotion.
Yes, she seems so happy go lucky as if all is right in her world.
Why do you think she's still on drugs.
She isn't a real. Mom she is a pos I got two bm like her they r co dependent and toxic af
They are heathens.
That woman is a sad excuse for a mother.
That's not a mother. She's just a useless breeder.
Don't forget the useless fucktard of a father!!
How she sits there like a proud mom, as he sits there and tells his fucked up story is disgusting.
Bobby Fischer absolutely! She gave birth but she’s definitely not a mom.
Jazmyn Brown great
There is nothing more evil than a parent participating in their child's demise.
100% agree
Agreed! Makes me sick to my stomach.
Amen
Horrible. 😦
I don't think life and people are that simple though, what happened in her life for her to become that
Seriously reminds me of me and my mother. We used to use together she passed away 4 years ago and I found her dead the day after my 30th birthday I've been sober ever since. I miss her dearly and wish things could've been different but I honestly don't think I would've gotten sober if it wasn't for her passing. Hoping both of them can make it out of this alive. Sending love and prayers. 🙏🙏❤️❤️
Sorry for your loss but grateful there was a silver lining in that loss for you.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my dad while I was out there active. I found out on Facebook and started getting a ton of messages sent to me. I didn't know he was dying of cancer . I reached out to my family, no one reached back. My mother left me out of the obituary as well. I'm the oldest of 3 girls. That looked bad on Mom, not me.
I was disowned by my family as a result of my disease. Not supported at all. They were ashamed and judged me to the hilt. So yeah that really kept me sick.
One day. I had had enough. Ready to end my life. Had already done 4 rehab stints.
Long story short. March 21, 2015, my life changed forever. But for the Grace of God, there go I. Praying for the still suffering addicts and alcoholics out there today. 🙏 ❤
I'm sorry for your loss. I pray that things are better for you in Jesus' name. I PRAY YOUR STRENGTH IN THE LORD IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN.
I'm sorry for your loss & happy you are sober ❤
This dude is a legend in his own mind, n Mama is just so proud.... equally as sad as it is disgusting😔
Teri Gallegos lmao so glad someone said it
She's a very poor excuse for a mother.
We are all imbalanced in some way it is better to ask in which way are you imbalanced. I sense that Shane May suffer from delusions of grandeur and a bit narcissistic. The mother said the old lady died of an overdose Shane shut her up really quickly. Shane May like to steak of himself as being very moral but I sense a lot of what what said was indeed not completely true . Maybe I have trust issues
I dont feel bad for them at all. Dont here what there sayin they love this life. What i feel bad is for the people they came in contacted with and all the innocent babies.
Proud and happy to have this handsome young hunk by her side.
This is very tragic I went to school with Kelly! A few years ago she had sent me a card with money and a dream catcher to help out with my medical bills due to a double mastectomy. I had no idea she has been going through this......so judge not less you be judged we never know what people are going through..
Or what the family is put through due to their addiction
@@knuckleheadstreet4000 You too!
@@knuckleheadstreet4000 Thank you for saying that and I am still dealing with it to the tune of 13 reconstruction surgeries that failed...one boob that just wont happen but not giving up! Hugs
@@knuckleheadstreet4000 I wish I knew why....even the Dr does not know why....I had skin taken from my back and put over my chest and the left side
did well but the right side no kept breaking open.....Sigh still trying to have a right boob...harder than most people know.....Hard not to be depressed.....
@@knuckleheadstreet4000 LOL thank you for your for your feelings! It made me smile and laugh! Big Hugs to you my friend!
Nearly every video with more than one person in it, one of the two gets villianized in the comments. BOTH of these people are drug addicts, BOTH have lifelong stories of trauma, BOTH never had a fighting chance from the moment they were young. Both of these people are victims. The son is a victim of his mothers lifestyle the same way that his mother is a victim of her own childhood. No one is evil here, no one is “nasty” or “vile” or all the other words I found in these comments. Both of these human beings need serious, long-term, intensive care to cure this illness, and some compassion and empathy never hurt anyone.
I don’t get the mother .... just sitting there letting her son ... believe he messed up his brother .... she should say ... no son your not to blame I am you were a child ...
New Mexico BR BA She’s very irresponsible 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 not a good role model at all.Such a shame.
Based on the way that she didn’t say anything or make any type of gestures while he was talking almost made me wonder if they told her not to; to just let him speak when it’s his turn to speak & vice versa. So that they get their chance to speak without being interrupted. I could be wrong, just how it seemed to me.
You missed the part of the mom being an addict?!! She is his partner in crime, sad.
She never grew up..
You are watching addiction.
You shouldn't " get it".
Sadly he has become just like his mother...addicted to the drama. They were both just LOVIN retelling those stories! ☘️
Did they say they do meth, too? If so, that could be what has them talking so freely.
Right I thought the same thing
That were made up cause I’m like this timeline is insane
@@annabellebeckwith9283 the mom did meth, he was into heroin
Lotta heroin addicts do meth too to wake them up.
I had a similar dynamic, but my mother was a terminal cancer patient with a 2 year prognosis. I was 14. We were both so scared. We ultimately did use her pain medicine together, starting my addiction. (She never had an affliction For opioids until starting them for palliative care.) Sometimes the dynamic of Parents and children using isn't so cut and dry. I place absolutely NO blame on my mother for my habits. We were victims of a very, VERY rough, messy, turbulent, and unforgiving time. She and I were both consumed by the struggle of her cancer disease, and left with many questions about this journey called life.
God bless you and help you ❤
I really have a hard time when a Mother does drugs with her Son...A Mother is supposed to protect and keep her son away from drugs...I don't understand that at all...
This is a perfect example of “hurt people hurt people”. I hope they can muster up the will to break the cycle.
He is completely wrapped up in his own myth.
He is completely deluded.
Mommys so proud of his hussle. It feeds her habit.
@Zert Teyyy selling drugs
He needs to get far away from mom.
Sad.. really sad.
@@tsteinebach287 facts
She's discusting what a sorry excuse as a mother🤮🤢
17 children between these two humans. Lovely.
I'm sure one will be president some day
Literally the plot of Idiocracy coming true... Fuck
Future looks bright!!!
5 baby mamas 8 kids and a granddaughter? How????????
@@Divineearthangel777 well hes not the worst looking...
I think you’ve misunderstood depression for boredom.
Can you tell me the difference? Not to be rude because i myself probably confuse the 2 from time to time. I mean i could make somewhat of a definition but idk if i wanna say it
Kendra Lynn Yeah
I think I have some that a lot too but never realised
Kendra Lynn you are so right! And perhaps some adhd .... he could still turn it around.
man Depression can make you feel really really low and unwanted and make you feel like what your doing isn’t good enough. Depression can also make bad things seem like there making you feel better too. Boredom is like a kid in punishment like getting a game system taken away they don’t know what to do to occupy themselves boredom is like confusion and not know what to do. Depression is mental. Boredom has more to do with actions and restrictions like (not having social media to occupy time, not having a game system). Depression long term and mental illness type thing, boredom momentarily and solvable. I hope this made sense.
While he's telling everyone how much drugs he's able to do, the mother is looking at him chewing gum, nodding and thinking "that's my boy!"
I know right. So twisted.
Proud mama,
She definitely gave the impression of feeling pride instead of pity.
I think she thinks he’s lying or something too idk
This young man is very articulate. He's bright, very intelligent. He has so much to offer.
What fucking video did you watch? "He has a lot to offer"? To whom? Definitely not his kids that he has no contact with because of his own choices.
No offense momo lee, but he is a braggart and a bullshitter. He does absolutely nothing that a person in recovery is advised to do by those who maintain a program of sobriety and everything that those who fail to maintain such a program insist upon doing no matter how many times they end up back using and making life miserable for themselves and everyone else. But yeah, he talks the talk, but it’s all bullshit, big stories to make himself feel a little better and forget that he can’t get high...on any drug or alcohol.
He has a great deal to offer. He might not ever offer it though.
The Left Over She means he still speaks well and seems to have had schooling and a fair level of intelligence. She’s saying he has a lot of potential like he’s not too far gone. No need to be so rude towards this person.
Hayley S. Bro you can’t even spell
This guy is a prime example of the expression “switching seats on the titanic”. Every time he said he was clean, he was not clean, he just switch seats on the titanic to a different drug. He was going down regardless to where he was sitting.
His ego is out of control, he’s a legend in his own mind. He needs to be humbled hard
I think this is the best comment. Very wise and true.
I love this comment. How do u think he can help himself if he can't get help? I am talking generally not in this particular case. If he cant face no one. How can they help themself
Best comment, ego maniac but his upbringing caused it
@@sarahmahamid3031 He can't. The recovery rate for addicts is something like 1%. No way this guy will end up in that 1%. He'll likely be dead within the next 10 years.
Drugs turn people more narcissistic then they usually are… you start living off your ego more
Shane is NOT responsible for his little brother being exposed to bad things. Their MOTHER, the woman sitting there listening to what Shane's childhood was like, and doesn't even get upset, is responsible for everything that happened to those boys.
Yeah she also looks like she is having flashbacks, I mean she couldn't even protect herself from ass beatings, she definitely couldn't protect her sons like she should have, probably gave up on life a long time ago. She looks like she doesn't care much for anything.
Drugs tend to numb your pain. The fact that she continues to do them shows that’s on the long list of pain. Don’t judge people until you walked a mile in their shoes.
Absolutely, a journey of the soul. that young man loves his mom so much, missed her so much growing up and has lived his whole life (so far) trying to make his mom proud. Now landing in Skid Row he realizes he and his mom want different lives. Shoot, he makes ME proud with the strength of his determination when clean; working, saving, buying homes, etc. I was so happy to hear him say Oregon has everything that will make his life whole again and he is more than willing to do what it takes to make his family whole again in Oregon. He and his mom share a lot in their young life journeys. Yet, I think Kelly missed that relationship with her mom so as to not forming bonds with girls/women friends. Shane has a big heart and mentions several times (with emotion in his eyes) stories of "buddies" . Thank you, Mark In reading some comments their focus is solely on Shane and they seems to shun Kelly's life experience.
While Shane was bragging about making 5-10k a day selling coke and throwing thousands of dollars at strippers and his mother, buying cars and motorcycles, I kept waiting for him to say he sent even a dollar his kids way. But he never said it.
I thought about that. He did have kid items in the house before amanda failed her drug test. I wanna hear from the kids of his. He was never there for his kids.
Fckn loser thats why
@@ruthb3870 yeah he said "My kids were everything to me...they were my whole world" ummmm, no dude...I don't think so.
He has no idea how to parent. Hes using drugs w his mother in the video for God sakes.
I dont even believe that.. 5 to 10 k a day..gtfoh..
I was left to die at the age of 3 my mother left my father was a drunken I ate out the trash slip outside in the park age of three and life went on for me only went to the 8th grade and I had three children by the age of 17 but God bless me I never did drugs I was never molested and my children are fine and I have 9 grandchildren praise the Lord amen
💙💙🙏🙏
😍😍
We can't speak for our children. They're the only ones who can claim to be "fine".
@@Rebecca-hc5ju 😍😍👍👍🙏🙏
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YOU GOTTA DO A FOLLOW UP WITH THESE TOO. His will power is extraordinary. and I still see a bright future for him, with the proper love and support he can come back, he hasn't lost his mind yet, he still has a strong enough mind to come back from addiction a fully functional human. He is very smart, he can tell a story in full way, and he can see many sides of the story, he still has his mind!.. his mom on the other hand i'm not sure she still has her mind, but he definitely does. I have so much hope for him. and he is very attractive so i can see why he has so many baby momas.
Mother “I’m clean from crack but now I’m on meth “
She’s a lousy excuse for a mother
Yes she is
So much better
That is way better though.. Sadly both will kill you still, long-term meth withdrawal (we are talking YEARS after getting clean) can give heart attacks. So yeah, you can never escape either of them, crack fucks you up in just about every way and amphetamines will end your life even after you sort it out..
Well technically they are different 😂
Shane is quite the story teller. He Is the master of embellishing as well. Mom is something. Both are their own worst enemies.
Kelly and Shane proudly admit embezzling 100k out of "Paul" her "sugar daddy". I think they're thieves.
strangest mother son relationship ever. He talks ALLOT
omg yes!!
5:22 the finger-to-nostril sniffle, and lots of other signs, say he's high on cocaine during the interview. That'll make ya talk, lol.
He talked non stop the entire hour of this video. Wonder if he was high because high people talk a lot.
He's nervous heh high too
He never shuts up...really annoying. His relationship with his mother is so weird. She corroborates his stories!🤯
The mom did not get clean from drugs . SHE UPGRADED TO METH . WHAT A JOKE SHE IS !
Sadly, she's probably still doing heroin. Doing meth to keep herself up or to not be sick.
It’s crazy, the excuses people make for themselves to justify their decisions. And she probably genuinely feels like she’s “clean” from crack, like she didn’t just go out and find something better because crack wasn’t doing it for her anymore.
Betty Munroe she seemed proud she quit crack went to meth .....
yea she picked the cheaper drug lmao
Gabrielle Lisa crack not h
I wish Mark was making videos back in the 80's and 90's. Maybe he would've come across my missing uncle who was living on skid row at that time. Thank you for trying something different.
my father introduced me to cocaine, ecstasy and oxycodone when I was just turning 14 and we continued using together until I quit speaking to him in my mid 20's but im a father now and I'm separated from the mother of my son but I never stop trying to be a positive part of my son's life but I learned how to be a good father by having a bad one who always abused me but I always think to myself that if my son can have a good life and I can make sure the cycle stops with me then it will make all the pain I've gone thru and will go thru worth it.
That mother has dragged her son with her to the bottom of the barrel. A mother isn't supposed to do that. She isn't supposed to encourage her children to become addicted or criminals. She lacks basic morals and Principles.
I'm glad to hear Shane has taken some time off from his toxic mother. I pray for his recovery
Facts
She has no parent-child bond, she didn't raise him, he appears to be some dude she can use.
The look of adoration in Kelly's eyes as he speaks is crazy to me.
A great therapist once said not everyone should be a mother………Additionally this is the definition of codependency
His mother is a monster
Or a father... This guy has 8 kids with 5 different women himself and isn't a father to any of them. I feel like everyone is letting him off real lightly in the comments.
@Justin fr. He's an adult. They both need help and are old enough to seek it out
@@Jikkajikka123 and you know those kids are going to end up like him or his mom.
Irresponsible people stay having kids unfortunately.
Not for anything my wife is saying she’s in pain I’m calling doctor not the drug dealing neighbor to get heroin
Yeah most would. However I’d assume that they had given her pain medication after her c-section and then they blew through it in days. So they couldn’t call the Doctor.
My wife didn't have insurance for a while and I used to get pills for her illegally. She never got addicted or anything, but sometimes there's not much options. Xanax helped her a lot as well but again. No ins
@@texanstry2027 that sucks man I’m sorry to hear that
He is a hero in his own eyes. He is delusional.
The mom didn't grow up with a mother herself so she doesn't know how to be a mother to her children and her dad was an alcoholic.Her brothers infulenced her to do drugs at a young age. She grew up in a toxic environment just like most of the other people in these videos. You can't blame her for not showing guilt. She didn't get the love and nurture from a mother growing up. Not saying that what she has done is right..But you can't blame her. They're both in the wrong. I'm glad Shane is trying to fix his life after doing this video.
Elizabeth Garcia my mother was drunk my whole life. I wasn’t shown how to be a mother. I believe we have an instinct however drugs n drink destroy that my brothers n sisters are older my mom was a lady didn’t drink until she was 37 just before I was born she told me years later her and dad had to much money and partied till there was no job. I work from 15 while being a functioning alcoholic and drugs too.
Elizabeth Garcia i disagree. She could not think that being a drug addict and destroying her children is being a good mother. You don’t need a role model for that. Personal responsibility is paramount. You may be in California where personal responsibility is not a thing. It’s blame others always.
Elizabeth Garcia her mother died at 7 years old...who says that she didn’t get love before that.
I feel like I just watched a full mini-series.
He answered his own question...he need a new environment. Disgusting how proud and content she is with his story.
shane you're clearly so smart and logical, despite your substance abuse. you are worth and are capable of so much more than what you're going through (not sure where you are in life currently) i hope you make something good for yourself and your mother. god bless. you seem like a very good man, sincerely.
That lady makes me cringe.
She looks at him and touches him in a creepy way. Perverted.
The way she chews her gum 🤢🤭
She kind of looks like a nicely dressed zombie. 🙄
Stephen Magness nicely dressed is a stretch.
Selena Black But how far of a stretch? To the moon and back?
Prime example why everyone shouldn’t have kids or get fixed.
I totally agree. The poor kids are the ones who suffer. They are raped, sold as sex workers, abused and then grow up to be the same as what they came from. This has to stop. I'd be all for mandatory tubal ligation/vasectomies to stop reproducing.
I have been saying that forever.Ewwww stop breeding
Ur fat.
She sits there like thats her friend instead of her son.
He and his Mom have a codependent relationship. She’s very attached to him. He did end up leaving and going back to Oregon. I think his Mom may still be there. I hope things work out for them. It’s so sad how addiction cycles through bloodlines. I talked to him a couple of times on Messenger. He was clean and trying to get his life together.
So glad to hear that Shane was doing good. How is he doing now? It broke my heat to see what he has been through as a little boy. So heartbreaking. Praying for both of them. They were just so sick and lost their way…
That's good to hear
That's a blessing. I pray that things get better for her as well in Jesus' name.
Reminds me of my mother. She was dead at 41 from a heroin overdose. She had six kids and she could not keep custody of us. Running after that crack. This one hits home.
I'm very sorry for your loss. This is my biological mother and brother. Crazy to watch this and think if she never signed her rights away for me, I could be sitting right next to them in this interview. I wish they could get help.
Hope you're doing well buddy.
@@normajeanmarshall1725 you are so very strong. I hope you're doing well. Everything happens for a reason. Glad you're not in this video.
I hope you’re safe and in a better place! It’s never too late to make positive changes. Thank you for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you.
This guy reminds me of a narcissist heroin addict I once knew, their good looks and charms get them far but not far from the drugs
Story of my life
A narcissist heroin addict. By the time they are addicted all addicts are narcissists. They are so self centred and self absorbed. The world spins around them. Three years of working in rehab taught me this.
Good looks?
@fresh B yep!
butterygold he his def a narcissist
The worst kind of person you could be is one who uses drugs with their children. I have compassion for addicts. I don’t have any for mothers who ruin their childrens lives. This video made me cry. I hope somehow Shane finds his escape from his biggest poison. 😞
Whew.. I’m exhausted after this!
Mother of the year. I will never in my wildest dreams understand the thoughts of a woman who does drugs while she's pregnant. I cannot think of a more disgusting and selfish act.
I absolutely agree!! I myself am a recovering addict (6 years clean 🙌) amd during my active addiction one of my worst fears was getting pregnant because I KNEW it was game over with dope if I did. I understand addiction very well. I have been there BUT I have never understood how a "mother" could choose to continue using because she doesn't want to suffer the withdrawal and knowing that she's choosing for her innocent newborn baby to suffer what she is too weak to do. Smh it sickens me.
Don't get pregnant if your not gonna give that unborn baby a fair chance to a decent birth and be healthy.
@@CourBarone your really ignorant
@@aliekatsmom you are really ignorant. its not always that easy to just not get pregnant.
@@kaylasprettynails2848 another recovering addict here. While I understand where your coming from and I myself completely agree with you I have a 5 year old beautiful little girl 5 years clean and I couldn’t imagine using during pregnancy and/or with my child, you should also understand the harrowing effect addiction has on a person. Just saying. Especially one who refuses to get clean and I can remember being that person once. We’re the lucky ones
Praying for people dealing with addiction.
Man I’m a recovering addicted it blows my mind the delusion we get into. He keeps saying clean but he is never clean like he is drinking, smoking crack, ect. thats not clean. Ur disease is still active the obsession is still there because u are putting substances in ur body and setting off the phenomenon of craving it will always lead u eventually back to heroin
Everyone in the comments defending Shane and bad mouthing the mother as if Shane isn’t doing the exact same thing to his kids
The mom has a smile on her face when she talks about their warrants. As if she’s like a badass or something 🤢
shes proud of herself and her son selling drugs is one of her proudest moments. She smiles throughout the entire video. Shes disgusting!
Granny think she is the bad ass warrants and all.
Never judge.
Stop attacking his mom solely. He fathered 8 kids too. It's a cycle and it's not just her fault.
yeah the mom prob went thru the same shit he did atleast she dont lie on camera sayin she was a coke dealer with 4 cars lmao
His mom is a sad case and needs to be accountable period...fuckin crackhead
Omg! I can’t with this mother. I can’t wrap my mind around her sitting there next to her son talking about ‘he’s gonna do what he wants at least I get to be with him,” are you serious lady??? Had you put the pipe down when he was a baby you could’ve been with him and you’re other 8 children all the time then. We all come to a point in our lives where we can make the decision to break whatever shitty cycle we’re in. You blew it Kelly. You still have a chance Shane❤️
My thought exactly. That woman is evil!
. She’s NO mother. She’s an egg donor. He’s no father to 8 kids he’s a spark donor
Exactly!!!
Shane you need to drop the tough guy attitude and get humbled
You are in my prayers Shane!!! I am a mom and can't believe she seems proud of her sons actions.
90% Chatterbox/10000% ego-fueling stories..
That’s just about any addict. Especially in active addiction. Try not to judge and just listen. Hopefully 8 months later you’ve gained a little empathy.
For some reason...I couldn't follow the story. Not sure why. Its 44 min into the video and I've no idea who is who.
Even after a the first few secs of the interview, when you see the way the mother smiles, you can definitely see she is a very twisted person, she is a real piece of work. that poor son of her is her colateral victim . What kind of person enjoys having his own child in such situation ? that woman is really wicked. Ive seen a few of the author's video about drug addicts but that's the first time i see people being as toxic as that woman. Really nasty soul.
I like smiles, the world needs more of it, even tho beyond the smile may be nasty. I'd never say someone shouldn't smile, she made a social smile.
It's only your perception. You can't say according to ones smile on TH-cam that she is wicked. You hate junkies that is another thing. What I see is it's amazing that even addicted holding together mother and son.
@@91KP_SilentEchoes i agree,sometimes you smile and laugh as a defense mechanism almost,
it becomes to sad and soul crushing,that to stay normal and have a chance to get better,you NEED to see the humor in it,otherwise itll get worse by you beng unfunctional because your too sad,and laughing helps distract,
that becomes a quick function of the brain when done long enough,like muscle memory.
@RVC
@@GreedyOrange thank you
She acts like her being a drug buddy is acceptable, because she's a part of his life.....and she is so proud she stopped using crack....But b#@+h you are using meth...that is worse! And her occasional attempts at being a mother ...She gets a D for effort.
Aquablue 125 F+👎🏾
F for you Fucking it up b%#ch
These two are ridiculous. The way the "mom" sits there like she's proud of his struggles and stories. Neither one of them should be parents.
She thinks shes his girlfriend,
@Bo Mal Patriote my bad, it's your mother that thinks shes his girlfriend.
Fright night
My son is a recovering heroin addict and has told me a lot since getting clean about the drug. Several of my friends have heroin addict adult kids. We moms have learned much more than we ever wanted to know. And Shane, if you were putting "24 packs" in a spoon and shooting it, 1. you were using a soup ladle, not a spoon, because 24 packs would not fit into a spoon, and 2. You had some bs dope because I don't care WHO you are, or how addicted you are.. 24 packs of black tar heroin, would kill you! You are embellishing your story.
Yeah it was tar, Tar off the side of the road !!!!
This same thing caught my attention when he said 24 bags on a spoon. There is no way that he isn’t mega exaggerating that story.
Nothing worse than a drug addict who has fucked his like up, is an absent father, been in jail, lost everything, boasting about his drug stories. Loserville
He’s a disgusting clown
candice snapped😂😂 a soup ladle!!!
My mom was actively suicidal most of my life. When I was 15, she found about my suicide plan. She wasn’t proud. If I hadn’t been committed at the time, she probably would have made another attempt or had herself committed. She may not have given a shit about herself but she did the best she could for me.
His mom is dragging him down. She thinks it's funny its sad
I can't even get through this, he's so disorganized telling his story and then mom interjects her nonsense...she came from a family of 10 kids, she has 9 kids, the son has 8 kids with 5 baby mamas, good grief, does anybody give a damn about their kids? Just keep popping them out.
Shit is crazy
Yes she's bad news
Exactly! STOP BREEDING!
Yes there is more in the story. mainly his obsession with girls and fast money mixed with the drugs driving him to hell...then unique point about how he basically ....no surprise.... lost all his kids and the girlfriends/wives hate him and he can't see those kids
Crazy if you didn't make this comment I couldn't keep up that's alot of kids
This whole time the mother looked like she didn't even know anything. How are you with your son for two years and you don't even try to get to know your son.
How can you carry on having kids with different women after you failed to care for your first set of kids?
Nope. U did not do 26 packs of heroin at once. Cool story though
26 bags is probably 2 and a half grams so yah I doubt it
Can't fit that much into one spoon or one rig.
@@janewick1082 hahahaha
Dont forget it was Detroit dope..the best in the world!!!
Right?
i cant tell if his mom is listening to anything hes saying or just spaced out thinking about what shes doing after this interview LOL
I doubt shes taking it all in. Hes a brain drain and high why he can't stop talking.
She is not listening to a thing he is saying ....they both have their own hustle
Ik r
Dude is from Monroe MI it is smack dab in the middle of Detroit and Toledo. When he said so many people he knew has died from OD here he is being truthful. So many people I went to school with here have died its unbelievable. I wish the best for dude and remember him from around here. Good luck dude
I was so invested in Shane's story that I completely forgot the mother was even there..wow
That’s no mother!!!
Your profile pic 😭😭😭😭😭
@@ivademus9514 DHDHSJSNJA
Dude...these stories are legitimately better than anything Hollywood can come up with. Reality is the best antidote for bullshit.
I had to pause it and take a break. I thought that guy would never shut up. Lord have mercy.
And he is the best at everything. Being clean or being high. Give me a break
...? It's an interview with him...? Wtf?
@@ArizonaAkinTv I believe his mom could of spoke a little. Don't you???
AmyF Faranso Right on Amy.
L Coop it’s exhausting 😱
9 children's lives devastatingly tarnished by 1 mans choices. How sad!!!
This mother is shameless
He gives me anxiety and his mother nauseates me 🤢
She a dead soul dragging watz left of a piece of Shane to hell
This is emotionally incestuous, at the very least.
Definitely not a normal mother son relationship by any stretch of the imagination
@@elizabeth3064 - Well maybe by SOME stretch of the imagination.
Wow!!! I never have heard anything like that. Its so true.
Yup. Something fishy is happening here.
He gets what he needs with a partner (mom) to help. They both seem real proud of all the things to not be proud of.
This is so sad. I would feel so terrible if I was his mom. I want to give Shane a hug. Poor guy! Prayers for you bro!
Poor guy? He seems like an asshole
Imagine if Shane and his mom took all that energy and effort into getting a job? They'd be amazing. Mom is addicted to the nasty, gritty, hustle of the streets. Shane's desire to get clean has to be stronger than his mom's desire to stay addicted. He has no chance as long as he's with her.
The thing is, when he says he wants to get clean, he means he just wants to take a shower.
This is the longest story ever. Her story was my mom died dad tried to kill himself brother's got me on crack I had 9 kids gave thm all up and still on drugs until this day. Son story I raised my lil brother got on drugs had kids got my baby mama on drugs stop doing drugs got a house cars and money didn't want tht life anymore back on drugs beat drugs again got into drugs again decided to stop doing drugs became a drug dealer started doing drugs again moved in and became a caregiver for a lady who daughter was abusing her she died I laid in bed for 30days got back on drugs my sister got my kids my baby mama left me for a black guy I got off drugs again now I live in a tent an back on drugs
😂 wow! I guess you and I both heard the same things. That's all I heard too. LLLLOOOOOOOOOOONNNGG STORIES
That's about right... Long story...
Fucking cycle
It’s not funny but you made me lol
Them damn drugs 😳
It would be insightful to also interview the children/family who are effected by their parents addiction.
Naw we need to see a interview with a beautiful woman such as yourself
I could tell you the story of how it effects the kids and rest of the family. It sucks!!!
I love when dudes say they love a girl so much and cheat on her🤣wild to the max