Hey Steve: The Coworker’s Love Life || STEVE HARVEY
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 เม.ย. 2019
- She had a vibe with her coworker but just found out he’s in a relationship. How can she broach the topic without causing problems?
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You just back off.. he has a gf.. morals people. Morals.
Where were his morals when flirted with her. He could reject her
nothing more exciting than going against morals in pursuit of pleasure to most people
lavender sky true. He didn’t have his morals...hmm does not sound like a trustworthy guy
Ain't no ring on it go get it.
no one wow ... so if you’re friend has a bf & he’s flirting with you, you’ll go get it coz there’s no ring? No sisterhood , no respect, no morals?
I wouldn't want a guy that that flirts on the side when dating me... That shows his personality. I would back off.
If you've ever worked in particularly a male dominated work environment, you'd know that guys flirt all the time. In a work type situation, whether they're married or single, it happens and it's not done to "get" with someone, it's just a play on words and a little harmless fun, nothing else. This girl just has a crush and reading into it too much.
@@ProductiveChi my husband doesn't flirt and I know him pretty well. It is not an every guy thing.
@@mrsturner8532 Off course it's not an every guy thing. Unless you're with him 24/7, you would never really know though lol. People do it without realizing. Like I said I've only ever worked in male dominated places and from my personal experience, it happens a lot of the time and I never see it as a way of guys stepping out of their marriage. Never! It's harmless.
Maybe she mistook him. Maybe he was just being chivalrous.
@@ProductiveChi My husband works in a women dominated field and would get fired if he tried to play flirt. I was just stating that if a women doesn't want to be with a man that flirts with other women they are out there. Because it isn't something a wife has to deal with because "everybody does it".
If she ends up getting him she’ll lose him the same way, to another girl who thought he was cute and didn’t give a damn ☺️
Kezia-Priscilla Valentine not necessarily..a man is going to do right by a women that he wants..
Christi Wright but it depends on the man right for example as Steve said this guy could of been harmless flirting and that was it for him but then there are the guys who can be in a relationship with a girlfriend or a wife or have kids with that person and be attracted to other women but when they start pursuing these women it means something isn't right as far as I am concerned with the relationship. Pretty sure the one thing Steve always try's to say is if a man is still hunting whilst in a relationship it is cause he has not found the right one yet or of course the guy is just a twat and likes to cheat.
Exactly. Him flirting with her while he has a girlfriend is a red flag. It shows that this guy doesn't have the integrity to keep flirtation between him and the woman he chose as his girlfriend. Either that, or he has a bad habit of making women his girlfriend when he isn't really into them, while he flirts with other women, which is also a red flag. If he treats his current girlfriend with this kind of disloyalty, he will most likely treat his next girl the same way.
The way you get him is the way you list him. A lot of women say that.
thats what people always think, sometimes its just a bad couple,maybe the guy don't like the girlfriend 🤷, can't let a great guy go just cause you thinking you will lose him the same way you took him hahahahaha
thats jus me hy
Go ahead girl..... just be ready for karma
🤣
Beautifully said.... Karma is a slap hand of reality
Karma just sitting there rubbing its hand gettting ready for the slap.
That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. This chick is more than stupid, she's thirsty. So before thirsty chicks were fit and gorgeous now they're just basic.
🤣🤣🤣
“If you know she has a girlfriend, why are you in pursuit?” C’mon now, speak the truth.
He! Not she!
@@vivianavillarreal79 girl stfu you knew what she meant.
The gorgeous woman holding the microphone had the best reactions...
She's actually a single mother
@@omarshawish1059 what does that have to do with her beauty? Or her reactions?
@@M0chaJ0J0 Being a single mother? She overvalues herself because of looks and ends up with idiots for one.
The respectful thing to do would be to back off if he not 100% single
Why is she giggling when she is about to become a side piece if she follows through with this.
maybe she wants to be a side piece
@@himynameisandri yeah "loyal" until the right guy comes along and then it's my boyfriend wasn't treating me right 👍🏾 got it
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM well, your bitter self obviously doesn't need to worry about that every happening to you.
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM i dont have 10 dudes blowing up my inboxes...
She's probably just giggly because she's nervous to be on national tv.
YOU DO NOT! I repeat, YOU DO NOT get romantically involved with your colleagues
I think the bigger issue is the fact that he's already in a relationship.
So what's your story?
Stay away from him. If he doesn't approach it's better to stay away. If he's has a girlfriend stay very far away.
1:29 she is so immature to the point it's annoying.
Hahahaha
you look like her lol
@@ZaynahGreenfield You really think so? What do you look like? Oh that's right, you're playing online so you can't post a real photo of yourself.
@@Chaptersaudio what does me having a pic has anything to do that you look like her? i didn't mean it rude
Well she is young duuuuh
Why does she feel she is only worth someone else’s man? She is cute and nice enough to get her own!
I hate when men flirt while in a relationship. It's shows zero loyalty and respect. If you're not into your girl, break up with her.
I hate when women do it
Exactly dont entertain me. Keep it moving. Its a big turn off. An old coworker said if he wasn't dating his girlfriend he would date me. I said why to do the same thing. No thank you
I don't know why I have so much respect for others people relationships the moment I hear I am seeing someone that's my clue not to pursue things with that person.
It is the right thing..
@@saralampret9694 most definitely like whatever we do to others somebody else will also do the same with us
@@josephchalwes3517 very true. Respect by me :)
joseph chalwes Right! I distance myself the moment I hear that
this girl would do that to another girl but would be so upset if she was the one on the receiving end. SELFISH
I always say this to my friends, if he did that to his girlfriend, he will one day do to you.
“ bust his windows out” 🤣🤣🤣
Steve's suit color is just perfect 👌
And I'm a big fan of the lady holding the microphone's reactions 😂
But why flirt when you have a girlfriend🤷🏽♀️ these guys🤦🏽♀️
consistent cookie for breakfast lunch and dinner?
Lol....really???
They do it all the time
They all do it
Antoine Martin that’s as simple minded as saying all women are hoes that put out first night.
It’s not hard not to flirt when in a relationship, you just picked busted ass dudes. Don’t lump everyone for what you attract.
"He's cute" Well there's plenty of cute everywhere hunnay!
I love Steve s advice. He knows the way our twisted mind works when it comes to dating 🤣
We're hunters & we keep hunting till we find the one. When we do, the hunt is over!" I love how Steve explains stuff! 👌
Sounds like she wants to be the side chick 😂
Steve just gets it & don't apologize for it. This is why I love him SO!!! ❤❤💯
The guy behind her in the background is really cute.
He's been listening very careful too🤗.... #beensurgingforthiscomment
Wow she really likes this guy. He hid his relationship status from her and she is still interested in him. Wow. Girl he is not loyal.
She's crazy
"there's no law against flirting" - depending on your relationship. For me, absolutely NOT!! As a wife, it would be absolutely disgusting and despicable for me to flirt with another man, and I would feel the same way if my husband did that. There's no such thing as "innocent flirting" with anyone outside your relationship. It's disgusting and despicable and has no place in a committed relationship.
Listen to what he said again. He said in his own words that basically it’s ok to flirt if your not married.
Steve always has the keys to every lock. U are a 🌟
I've been friends with my coworker for 3 years. I'm just finding out he's had a gf of 5 years. I never knew he had a gf. I assumed he didn't because we always ate lunch together. So now I know and what am I going to do? Back off!
Ok clearly I don't know the in's and outs of things but if y'all are just having a lunch then the guy probably sees no harm in that, even if he flirts guys see's things differently to us so maybe to him it is just a harmless thing. For example I know someone he has a girlfriend he tried to pursue me but he did this within a short amount of time there was no messing around because regardless of the situation men know what they want, even if it just a sexual thing. For sure cheating is wrong etc but people cheat because they can get away with it and just do it for the thrill or there is something missing in the relationship and as Steve said guys are hunters. Sorry to hear about what happened to you. Sure the perfec guy is just waiting round he corner.
@@PixieLowe1Oh I have a bf now. Only been 5 months but so far it's good. But i was just considering his gf's feelings. I didn't think she'd be ok with her bf having lunch with me,especially when attraction was involved. They're actually getting married tomorrow. He just got back from Iraq in January after being gone 6 months. I told him I have a bf n he told me he was getting married. I was shocked because I never knew he had a gf. He said I could come to the wedding but I kindly declined.
Sorry late reply but I am so pleased you have some one in your life now. You know I think this goes to show when you detached from this guy you were then open to find another and you have done. I am sure things will work with you and this new guy. Lol I am not surprised you were shocked when you found out he was getting married I would of been the same way. Will be interesting I guess to see how everything goes for this guy who is getting married in the future but hey you just concentrate on you and your happy life with your man. I think you did the right thing by not going to the wedding. I think it would of also been weird for you seeing him getting married. Maybe he just didn't know what he wanted and now he feels like this who knows. Guys are strange at times.
The other co-worker could have been lying to throw you off the scent so she could pursue him herself, so I would just straight up ask him about "his girlfriend" and let his answer be your guide.
I love this women.i really fall in love with this women.her smile's took my hearts away from here and close of her noble act.
Guuurrrllll up here saying "if they're on their way out"😂😂😂😂😂😂
I loooooove all Shays reactions
It's always the quiet ones... She looks so sweet and innocent but she's still ready to sweep in and swipe him. Watch out girlie, some girl will come along and disregard you in the same way.
If he’s in a relationship and flirting with you, he gon flirt with other girls if he end up dating you
WALK-AWAY GIRL, JUST WALK-AWAY, FAR AWAY...RUN!!!
I love her energy! She heard through the grapevine that he has a gf. Steve's advice is spot on. 😀
ho energy
She’s so sweet 😂😂
Girlfriend shows up at restaurant to fight you. Now what? Woops.
She is crazy 😂
Luckily I never have a love life 😂
She thinks he's cute now . But some gfs will cut u if steal their bfs.
NO NO NO NO.... It doesn't matter if the guy is married or not.. He's still committed.. Don't just talk or flirt with men like that.. To show respect.. If he's mature enough, he will not do such thing.. And ladies, please know the background first before you mingle, coz sometimes if a man (Not all man) thinks you're hot , he's just gonna say, he just broke up with her or they're hanging by a thread or things are already complicated.. I've been there many times.. Not with only one man.. There's a lot of men with that thinking.. Coz if a man doesn't see you good looking even if you have the dopest body and clear skin, he'll say it right before you talk to him.. Just please don't flirt even though he's not married.. He's still committed though.. Back off.. Coz if that happens to you, you might kill the lady and your man.. Know your limits.. And act mature..
The good people are ALWAYS going to have someone. So when is the perfect opportunity?
thrilla72 there are lots of good people out there. For example there are lots of people that have also been in my situation been in long term relationships and you go your separate ways and then you meet someone again. The key is just to make sure you meet enough people for example look at Steve Harvey he met his wife when they were younger married x amount of years later, this type of thing I have heard happens a lot. I think it is all about our mindset don't believe that all the good people are taken but believe there are plenty good of out there and you will meet the right one for you.
@@SammieL80 Actually, I've heard many times that Steve met Marjorie whilst he was married...don't know how true that is though...?
@@SammieL80 I think that is rather sad to have met your perfect partner at a young age but not get together until much later. Simply because one or both were wasting time with someone else at the time. Much less heartache for everybody including the kids if they'd got together back then.
Literally just stop flirting with him. If he tries, shut it down!
where are the hunters steve keep mentioning them .I see no hunters what so ever.🙄
OOF
Nice 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Maybe he just told the other girl he had a girlfriend to be nice because he wasnt interested? Or the other girl could want him? It's not hard to just ask.
Exactly!
@@himynameisandri possibly.
u do just what u do..Just bust his windows out lmaoooooooooooo
You are cute girl,he is someboy's boyfriend and you are somebody's girlfriend,you haven't just,met the person yet.
I think she should pretend she doesn't know he has a girlfriend
Steve, just tell her to read the TH-cam comments for advice. But she is young. She gonna do what she wants. Sometimes that’s the only way ppl learn. 🔥🤦♀️🤷♀️
BUST THE WINDOW HAHA ☺
Back the hell up. I don't care if the relationship is on the way to ending or is solid. Stay away. How would she like it if she was dating and another girl did this to her boyfriend... I bet she wouldn't like it at all. Go find you own man sis and don't be trying to take someone else's man.
The definition of "she dont see a ring on it" 😂😂
Your asking the wrong one sweetie lmao
*theres only TWO RULES regarding this: Rule #1 don’t mess with nobody’s girl. Rule #2 nobody has a girl*
Intelligence level: 1000%
Nah it shouldn’t even matter if you’re married loyalty is loyalty ..
Like girl! Have some sense! He's flirting with u when he has a girlfriend. What makes u think he wouldn't do d same damn thing 2 ya??? Y do we create trouble 4 ourselves really? 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
she looks like she about to cry whenever she smiles
She’s going to pursue him even more knowing he has a girlfriend. Pre validation! Women would rather share a man who’s wanted.
That's smart 👏🏻
“Yeah, she a’ight”
Aww, she's so cute. But she needs to value herself more
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
She is a good girl.... She just lacks of self respect... She will get more mature and she will have a great relationship...
Thank You Steve Harvey for clearing for at least with me what the question about the girl friend, with me he didn’t say that he is married 👁👁🗣😮, like you told her that she didn’t👀 🗣ask 😮 he and and no it didn’t go to the nexts level 😓🙄🧳⛑👖👕🧦🧦👟👟🎒married 💍one is on the HUNT by HUNTING 2023🚨💔
Huh ? C'mon 😂😂😂😂😂
Oof! The “why are you in pursuit”, really embarrassing girl, sit down. 🤦🏽♀️
Its in his DNA
How do we know we are the one, even after marrying us, they may keep hunting 😢
Jerry Springer joined the chat . . .
girl have several seats. a lot a good cute men out there you value more than that. girl please.
thats the first time i consider what steve harvey is saying as Nonsense.
her question was valid and he goes in a complete different direction giving her a answer thats defends the dude but doesn't answer her question at all.
and no why should i directly ask? thats not a classy way to do it... you have to slip it in... sth like "so do u already know what are ur plans this weekend? gonna do sth special with yr friends or girlfriend?"
Don't Do It!
she is so cute
The fact that she started her sentence with, "I had my eye on this boy" tells me all I need to know. Immaturity's poster child.
Here we come lol
Girl, leave him alone! She is trying to see what he will put her first before she pursues anything!!
Steve: Chastises single woman for still pursuing committed man
Also Steve: Does not care that committed men may still pursue committed women
Steve, neither is right is in this situation, but pick a standard and stick to it. Nobody, regardless of sex, gender, or relationship status should be pursuing people in committed relationships. And people in relationships who aren't sure if they've found "the one" shouldn't be stringing partners along while they're still "hunting"; they should have the decency to break up with their partner, if they have doubts. Honestly...
Break up if they have doubts!? That is a silly move. A person will end up letting many great people go with that attitude. It depends what the issues are.
It’s called a double standard ...... and it’s goes without saying men different thing that we as women are expected to do and get criticized for it..... still doesn’t make it right but he did pick a side THE MEN SIDE!!!
She doesn't know ANYTHING! Did HE tell her? Maybe the person who told her is a hater.
Your a Taylor swift fan what would the person get out of lying and dont comment back
I thought about that. She needs to do like Steve said, and just ask him. His response will let her know what type of person he is.
@@fgchoom8176 what do they get out of lying...
Well for one she's now losing interest in him. So she may turn her attention elsewhere.
@@thrilla72 no
Her mentality and thinking is just like a 10th-passed kid. 🤣
If he cheats to be with you, he’s going to cheat on you
She's really thirsty, and it was pointless of her asking Steve because she wants this guy.
Ladies, take it from a guy, who you steal from others will eventually get stolen from you. If he is not single don't waste your time.
Look at d black guys in d audience 😂😂😂
Best way is not to ask him anything and wait
The main question should be why that guy, who is the one in a committed relationship, is doing all that flirting? I’ve met guys who mention their gf in passing during a conversation which shows they care, yet there are some who purposely don’t mention their gfs bc they don’t want other girls to know they’re committed or still want to act single..if you wanna act single, BE single 😅😅🙄
This the first time Steve actually gave some real man advice for once
lOl "real man advice" no. That is like, telling a person to chase after a person that is already in a relationship, like some thirsty beggar that can not leave those people alone. Real men does not get involved with that or try to chase anyone that is not single. neither does women do that. They can get single, but dumping someone for another is like so turn off that I would not care and tell them to go back to where they came from lol.
@Ace Anime facts
@@sannhetenskalseire8873 🗑
Ug that voice
How you get him is how you will lose him. Be careful girl. Karma is real
Just stay away from him 🤔
I ain’t lyin that’s how I am. Girl say she got a bf... I say “ and?” He poo lol
Here's another thing: Why are you in pursuit of a man who would freely flirt with another woman who is not his girlfriend? Because even if he were to break up with his current girlfriend, the fact that he would flirt with you is an indication of the type of man he is.
I'm just saying, my man is the type that if any woman were to come on to him, he's the type that will come out and say, "I have a girlfriend." Do you really want the type of man who will freely flirt with other girls? I know I wouldn't.
Yes a loyal man is the best man to have!! They are the keepers.
"He is cute tho"....What!!??, Are you kidding me?
Do not mix business with pleasure.
Not! Another! Beard! Now!
Exactly! You know he has a girlfriend yet you want to pursue. Girl sit yourself down. You're at the job to work.
Potential homewrecker alert 📢
Girl you so want to break them up and wanna hope right in
Before you flirt find out if the person is seeing anyone.
You should ask him. People don't always divulge all their business ...especially at work