The biggest mistake women make in life is to get married in a family that dislike or do not approve of you. Women also get married to man that remain toddlers in the eyes of their parents eyes even when they are as old as Modimolle mountain. This is an indication that his family has been unexcepting of the Ancestral gift of this women from the beginning because her gift disturbed their dictatorship behavior in her life and that made it hard for them to take control of their sons life and his family. Why do i say this? This mans Ancestors approached a spirit of a man who wronged the mother of this women, i cote the words of her fathers spirit when he said "i have nothing on top of you but your my blood". This is clear that this man didn't raise this women and its also possible that he didn't do right by her mother, yes his spirit will agree with the spirits of the husbands spirits because he is a weakling that's why he was approached by the husbands spirits. We need to understand that in-laws don't want a strong willed women to be their daughter in law because now they won't be able to control her. In this case is this women who is strong and she was made that way by God through her Ancestors. This is what they mean when they say the light in me irritates your demons. Listen to how his parents call him "umfana not indoda" which makes it obvious this women is married to a boy in a body of a man. The poor women was expected to see that her son has an internal bleeding when the father didn't see that as well. This in laws are just bad spirits just like the spirit of her father who came in just to discredit her mother. The spirits of this mans parents are even refusing that they knew that she had a gift/Ancestral calling when they married her into their family, because they underestimated the strength of her Ancestors. Lets stop here or else ill write 20 pages of a comment. That's my take on this episode
Means we doing wrong and they are angry thats why the world of today is like this…The generation of today has become ignorant and arrogant towards our tradition…
This is a tough and heart breaking session. This old mama is accused for all things that are going wrong in her family life. How on earth is this possible? 'Me o tsoara thipa ka bohaleng. Clearly, their ancestors are NOT getting along. 😌
Kaloku she's married to this Family she's suppossed to obey the rules, and respect her in laws ancestors thats how it is when you are married. Many people thing Marriage its easy No its not easy 😭😭.
You can't come into a man's family and try to control them and lay down the law. A wife does as the in laws do. Not what her mom tells her. And you can tell she has no respect for this man and has taught the kids the same. Even now she undermines everything she says and does not hear him. How can a man lead when you're always trying to overtake him. Eventually he's gonna get tired of fighting you for the crown and let you wear it and do as you please. Then you wanna come and blame him when the shit hits the fan. No one with a real calling hops from one gobela sto another.. This one went out there and brought this mess into the family.. The mother in law is right. If she's the real deal why didn't she see that her own child was dying.
And right at the end, her-true-self is revealed. "Oupa a ntella", attention ladies: NO WOMEN SHOULD EVER UTTER SUCH WORDS TO HER HUSBAND... NEVER... EVER! This lady o loya dae tyma and "I don't care who says what"!
Aybo guys even her own father told her she was wrong; women want to lead us men basigibele emakhanda telling us things have changed total nonsense. That's why her husband started drinking because he has no say about his family; lomfazi is the head of the family. Even her own father condems her behavior.
The father who was a nonsense parent when he was alive no damages nothing…a man must lead but his wife can make him an alcoholic?? Obviously he’s weak who’d let a weak man lead
@@namisazulu1372 Aowa mara her father's absence doesn't condone her behaviour regardless(Ebanna is it the husband's fault she didn't grow up with a father), nkinga when we are being told not to do thing we usually focus on who is telling us what to do and what is it that they did for us instead of looking towards the fruits & thorns of what is given to you. If she has a problem with her husbands disrespecting her why asa betsa bagolo and tell them gore no motho o dira so le so eseng nthwe ae dirang, it will not work.UMSHADO LENTO🤣 In all honesty do you think her behaviour would work in another relationship(I don't think so), whether we like it or not she is married and on top of there are certain things as a mme wa lelapa she can't address or handle di nyaka tlhogo ya lelapa simple ezinye izinto is just rendering yourself a useless person towards building your home.
if even her father is calling out & reprimanding her behavior, then she's the issue. simple. a man leads in marriage. easy as that, there's no other way around it. if you disagree with this then you don't understand the concept of it or you were rasied in a single parent household
Not actually, that just shows that this is much deeper,they have serious marriage problems that they have to address,besides the other challenges they're facing.Luckily they've knocked at the right door.I really believe in Thembi.
@@russellsephi281 But how do you let an alcoholic man who is never in the house lead you? The man also has to get his act together if he wants the wife to submit to him.
@@raydanielz9408 doesn't mean that dlozi's are always right.. They ain't God. Even if she'd spiritually divorce him, I doubt his life will improve. They just want someone to blame.
@@namisazulu1372nope. Idlozi see's the disrespect and a woman who Is musculine and thinks she's the man in a relationship. Idlozi see's a disgraceful woman finish and klaar... Amadlozi ain't God we all know that but they know better than us. That man must just divorce that piece of sh...t, and he'll find peace afterwards.
eih kunzima esikhathini esiningi idlozi lesilisa alizwani nokuphuma ungena ulanda ogobela kuworse thole kuthi kwakuthandazwa kuphela kuleyo family lapho akudingeki muthi basics are very importants and ilifestyle yaloyo muzi yazi if bekuhanjwa isonto visit church once in while
Seriti sa batho se kae ge mosadi a bontsha disrespect in front of not only camera but her badimo ba gage. Ke mo utlwela botlhoko and yet her behaviour is going to affect her husband and children. Ntate ona ga ana mosadi at all.
With all due respect to you viewers,may you please assist me to connect with sister Thembi Nyathi?my siblings are dying mysteriously in fatal car accidents 😢
This woman shows no respect for her husband at all. She's even pointing at him belittling him in front of the camera. I don't blame the husband if he leaves her. Akuhlaleki naye
I don't think she is controlling, the problem here is dictatorship from the dlozis of a man. I also feel the man when he is advised by his wife he becomes offended that it was not his idea. And some times man are intimidated by the commanding spirit God and our Ancestors give to women and they start feeling inferior, in this case is sad because the spirit of her father who wronged her mother is in agreement with the spirits of her in-laws, who are doing their level best to still parent their son who is now a man who can't man up.
The biggest mistake women make in life is to get married in a family that dislike or do not approve of you. Women also get married to man that remain toddlers in the eyes of their parents eyes even when they are as old as Modimolle mountain.
This is an indication that his family has been unexcepting of the Ancestral gift of this women from the beginning because her gift disturbed their dictatorship behavior in her life and that made it hard for them to take control of their sons life and his family. Why do i say this? This mans Ancestors approached a spirit of a man who wronged the mother of this women, i cote the words of her fathers spirit when he said "i have nothing on top of you but your my blood". This is clear that this man didn't raise this women and its also possible that he didn't do right by her mother, yes his spirit will agree with the spirits of the husbands spirits because he is a weakling that's why he was approached by the husbands spirits.
We need to understand that in-laws don't want a strong willed women to be their daughter in law because now they won't be able to control her. In this case is this women who is strong and she was made that way by God through her Ancestors. This is what they mean when they say the light in me irritates your demons. Listen to how his parents call him "umfana not indoda" which makes it obvious this women is married to a boy in a body of a man.
The poor women was expected to see that her son has an internal bleeding when the father didn't see that as well. This in laws are just bad spirits just like the spirit of her father who came in just to discredit her mother. The spirits of this mans parents are even refusing that they knew that she had a gift/Ancestral calling when they married her into their family, because they underestimated the strength of her Ancestors.
Lets stop here or else ill write 20 pages of a comment. That's my take on this episode
😮😮
True to add those ancestors are bias& cruel even in death nxa
Ur awesome
True😢
Uyahlola yena ngempela 🤞 uMakhosi 🙌 uyazixazulula izinkinga zabantu akafuniseli into ayishoyo uba ne sure yayo
Ancestors are always angry. They don't even compliment always looking for wrongs and no one is perfect
Means we doing wrong and they are angry thats why the world of today is like this…The generation of today has become ignorant and arrogant towards our tradition…
I think it's maybe they can see what we don't see.Not always easy neh.
This is a tough and heart breaking session. This old mama is accused for all things that are going wrong in her family life. How on earth is this possible? 'Me o tsoara thipa ka bohaleng. Clearly, their ancestors are NOT getting along. 😌
Yeah they are blaming everything on her it's unfair. You can tell this man has flaws too😢
Kaloku she's married to this Family she's suppossed to obey the rules, and respect her in laws ancestors thats how it is when you are married. Many people thing Marriage its easy No its not easy 😭😭.
You can't come into a man's family and try to control them and lay down the law. A wife does as the in laws do. Not what her mom tells her. And you can tell she has no respect for this man and has taught the kids the same. Even now she undermines everything she says and does not hear him. How can a man lead when you're always trying to overtake him. Eventually he's gonna get tired of fighting you for the crown and let you wear it and do as you please. Then you wanna come and blame him when the shit hits the fan. No one with a real calling hops from one gobela sto another.. This one went out there and brought this mess into the family.. The mother in law is right. If she's the real deal why didn't she see that her own child was dying.
@@mmapuleramotlhale6999Same way doctors can’t heal themselves either despite all their years of studying and expertise. She’s not God.
Eish image when you think the problem is next door yet you are the problem
Yoh,DIFICULT neh.
This woman she has a lot of secrets
Very important when you get married into a family, try by all means to learn and do things as they do it So you don't offend them in anyway.
You can see that uGogo was hot in her days. They are a beautiful pair who've been though life i hope they resolve this. Very enlightening episode.
And right at the end, her-true-self is revealed. "Oupa a ntella", attention ladies: NO WOMEN SHOULD EVER UTTER SUCH WORDS TO HER HUSBAND... NEVER... EVER!
This lady o loya dae tyma and "I don't care who says what"!
Don't forget to increase volume when you record something because we are suffering to hear words
😂😂😂😂....indeed
After many initiations she was never told anything constructive especially regarding her marriage.
Big up Thembi,ungumqhaqhi wezinkinga shame,ingakho kunzima ukuxhumana nawe yho
Aybo guys even her own father told her she was wrong; women want to lead us men basigibele emakhanda telling us things have changed total nonsense. That's why her husband started drinking because he has no say about his family; lomfazi is the head of the family.
Even her own father condems her behavior.
The father who was a nonsense parent when he was alive no damages nothing…a man must lead but his wife can make him an alcoholic?? Obviously he’s weak who’d let a weak man lead
Her father doesn't have rights over her. He's was an absent parent when he was alive. He didn't even pay damages for her.
@@namisazulu1372 Aowa mara her father's absence doesn't condone her behaviour regardless(Ebanna is it the husband's fault she didn't grow up with a father), nkinga when we are being told not to do thing we usually focus on who is telling us what to do and what is it that they did for us instead of looking towards the fruits & thorns of what is given to you. If she has a problem with her husbands disrespecting her why asa betsa bagolo and tell them gore no motho o dira so le so eseng nthwe ae dirang, it will not work.UMSHADO LENTO🤣
In all honesty do you think her behaviour would work in another relationship(I don't think so), whether we like it or not she is married and on top of there are certain things as a mme wa lelapa she can't address or handle di nyaka tlhogo ya lelapa simple ezinye izinto is just rendering yourself a useless person towards building your home.
if even her father is calling out & reprimanding her behavior, then she's the issue. simple. a man leads in marriage. easy as that, there's no other way around it. if you disagree with this then you don't understand the concept of it or you were rasied in a single parent household
This woman 😮😢 hayi boo
I feel sorry for the woman bcos her ancestors are using her to do their filthy disgusting works😭😭
Usile lo mama... are Oupa wantella infront of bana😢
Not actually, that just shows that this is much deeper,they have serious marriage problems that they have to address,besides the other challenges they're facing.Luckily they've knocked at the right door.I really believe in Thembi.
Volume please ...next re ugrade ka volume skat❤
This is painfully. Their marriage will not be the same after this consultation
the marriage was already falling apart but the wife needed to let the husband be the lead,, She seemed a bit stubborn
@@russellsephi281 But how do you let an alcoholic man who is never in the house lead you? The man also has to get his act together if he wants the wife to submit to him.
@@lekis5975badimo are saying he's was not like this meaning he became a alcoholic coz of the muthi the wife is using is bad for him.
@@lekis5975😢😢😢
A lot was said. I'm not even sure how they will get pass all that has occurred yooo😢.
How can I get help frm u sisi Thembi, I tried b4 but stopped by scarmers😢
His dlozi's are unfair. They are ganging up on her. They are not holding their son accountable for anything 😢
Idlozi don't subscribe to the "strong, independent successful woman" thing. To them it is the way things should be, klaar. It's all or nothing 😂😂😂
Kanti who married who here? Maybe we don't understand our ways of life
@@raydanielz9408 doesn't mean that dlozi's are always right.. They ain't God. Even if she'd spiritually divorce him, I doubt his life will improve. They just want someone to blame.
she should obey the man's marriage. that's what marriage means. learn that
@@namisazulu1372nope. Idlozi see's the disrespect and a woman who Is musculine and thinks she's the man in a relationship. Idlozi see's a disgraceful woman finish and klaar... Amadlozi ain't God we all know that but they know better than us. That man must just divorce that piece of sh...t, and he'll find peace afterwards.
Sis THEMBI please how can we connect with you ,please please please I really need you sisi
Sisi ngicela usiphe amanamba akho isidinga usizo lwakho
where did you originally watch/record this
Thanks for uploading but plss buy a ring the screen is moving too much
I pray and wish to meet
Thembi to help us🙏🙏🙏🙏
How can i reach sister Thembi please help😢😢😢 i need help😢
I will wait with u
Ngiyayidinga number ka Sisi Thembi please help guys please
😢me tooo hey I hear all of them saying they wrote
Sisi Thembi ngicela inumber yakho
Joooh!So rude ma oulady.Daddy be good nawe.
Hi guys...how do we connect no Thembi
A re it ends there he.e lona😂.... nna I see what they are saying
Hello, how to get connected with ses Thembi
eih kunzima esikhathini esiningi idlozi lesilisa alizwani nokuphuma ungena ulanda ogobela kuworse thole kuthi kwakuthandazwa kuphela kuleyo family lapho akudingeki muthi basics are very importants and ilifestyle yaloyo muzi yazi if bekuhanjwa isonto visit church once in while
no. this is nonsense, no sangoma should be churchgoing, those are conflicting.
@@ndimumnini5894 what a one dimensional way of thinking you have.
You can't get married and control your husband..
Seriti sa batho se kae ge mosadi a bontsha disrespect in front of not only camera but her badimo ba gage. Ke mo utlwela botlhoko and yet her behaviour is going to affect her husband and children. Ntate ona ga ana mosadi at all.
Mme Ona hlena
This mother is so disrespectful ,,,fake tears mthakathi
With all due respect to you viewers,may you please assist me to connect with sister Thembi Nyathi?my siblings are dying mysteriously in fatal car accidents 😢
Apparently she has a website.
Search Thembi Nyathi's website it'll probably appear.
😂😂😂mama nurse
This woman denies everything and she just sulk and explain something out of the questions
Cela abantu ba subscribe please
Ok will do ❤..
Done😊
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where did you originally watch this
Fear women
This woman shows no respect for her husband at all. She's even pointing at him belittling him in front of the camera. I don't blame the husband if he leaves her. Akuhlaleki naye
Number plz for dlozi Lami
Isaac ke malome? Yoo
Dankie for loading it
This woman she is controlling
True
I don't think she is controlling, the problem here is dictatorship from the dlozis of a man. I also feel the man when he is advised by his wife he becomes offended that it was not his idea. And some times man are intimidated by the commanding spirit God and our Ancestors give to women and they start feeling inferior, in this case is sad because the spirit of her father who wronged her mother is in agreement with the spirits of her in-laws, who are doing their level best to still parent their son who is now a man who can't man up.
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