my life is like a movie
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- In the lush landscape of northern Ghana, a couple strives to work out their cultural differences whilst cultivating a homestead; eventually finding a better outcome through effective communication.
my life is like a movie
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Monki Du needs a job.
They say the internet is undefeated when it comes to jokes this is definitely a good one! Lol 😂
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I totally agree! Monki Du is very intelligent and he needs toys and manilatives to stimulate his intelligence😊
Thank you very much for continuing to grow and prosper, 😊you are my inspiration.🙏🏾❤ And as far as your haters, I'm sure you know.. not everyone was meant to evolve. History has shown there have been beings here before us that didn't evolve .. they did not stop the evolution of others and their type will eventually perish. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
No matter what we know or don’t know, we do not rejoice at the idea of the ending of a relationship. ALL THE BEST
I noticed many women and men in Ghana are concerned with the wrong thing…issues concerning health, environment and togetherness don’t seem to be of interest. But who got more money and cars very important topic 🤦🏾♀️I haven’t been all over but this is what I noticed so far being in Accra. I’m still love it here and I’m staying 🥰
This IS the "stuff" of life. Life is fun, messy, confusing, spiritual, hard, enlightening, engaging, soft, lonely, simple, complicated, etc... If we allow ourselves to fully experience The Experience without allowing others judgments to dictate our movement through it, we are often the better for it! May you and Vin Man continue to evolve in love and life!!! Thank you both for sharing!!!
ES you are living a LIFE and Lifestyle that thousands if not millions of women would love to trade with U. Who says that Paradise has to be perfect ?
Count your blessings and then make your blessings count.
I agree because I am one of them. I love this farm.
One thing to remember, do not expect the motherland and its people to be ready for you, instead you have to be ready to navigate the people and culture.
Let's hear your husband side of the story.
I agree with you 100% sis on this. We need to speak out on what we want from our partners otherwise things won't change in our relationships.
Sending you lots of love, hugs, prayers and protection ES! You give your heart and soul in all that you do and deserve nothing but the best! 🙏
Sending you & Vin Man an abundance of Love & Positive Energy ❤☀️🌟🥰
Thank you my sweet
ES anyone can see that you’re a born creative person and, you’ll create a beautiful and tranquil space where ever you go. Take a break whether at home in America or some other country in Africa to relax, release, regenerate and clear/rejuvenate your mind body and spirit. Love light and blessings!!!
You had me crying. I been married twice to the same person 40 years. Its not easy it didn't come with a book 📖 its every situations and how you handle it all.
Two different people came together as one. I live in the USA and people think that because you from the Caribbean everyone is the same too. Its all different. A woman have special needs thats they wants from their husband. sometimes it how the man was raised. Lock of affection love from father or family been rough, sexual abuse and not telling anyone. its a lot and you cant reach them because they been acting out si long, now its out of control. I feel your pain and understanding your long just to be hold or touch in a special way. People just dont understand what you are going through. You need your time and space to regroup. As a older woman i will never disrespect or put you down. Its comes a time when its all about you and thats growth as you get older. Finding your inner self the spirit speaks on how the energy is moving. You Sense and feel things other people don't. How and when to move. I am blessed to see you grown into the beautiful mature lady in the space of nature listening to wind and the sounds
Thank you❤I personally connected with a lot in the video yesterday and today. I am from Iceland married to a man from Uganda,its just a lot to understand and learn coming from 2 completely different continents.Love is not the problem its cultural differences,but now 6 years later we are getting there,understanding one another better and meeting in the middle❤ Good luck and life to both of you❤️
Hey my girl. If you want to come back to America and chill out for a few months and just do nothing but self reconstruction - I can host you. I live alone in a 4 bedroom house.in FL. I am Jamaican and a Christian. I love Jesus he made me whole and put joy in my soul. I won't bother you and you can stay on one side of the house. I am an introvert so I can't deal with lots of people around me. Hard work is not easy and you need a break. You can come with your husband.
You're an amazing person.
@@shoshannanina5359 you should start a bed and breakfast. I could use this.
@@IndicesproptraderGod bless you Sister ❤
Thank you!! What a beautiful offer!
Sorry to see the sadness in your face SisSstar! I know that look all to well my dear! I pray for your healing and happiness!
I’m not sad anymore. The issue was heard and nipped in the bud quickly. The earthquake cured us.
@@DIYHOUSEANDFARM Awesome wonderful to know! Continue to be blessed and loved! You deserve it! Please pray for my healing and happiness! I know it's coming because I deserve it as well!! Your content is soothing....I enjoy watching you guys!!
I got cha. Thank you for your prayers.
Just sending so much love, positivity, and encouragement ❤️. Whatever you are going through it to shall pass and the most important message is for women to speak up on what they want that's how I have been living in my truth for a couple of years and boy does it make a huge difference. The video was Chef Kiss as usual.
I have experience an African man who does not know how to give affection. I called him a cold, wet fish. When he attempts I know he wants to do the do. We are no longer together. I can't live without affection from a man. This is no longer a problem. I had to move on to one who could easily touch, hug, hold with no expectation for further intimacy.
I have heard other sisters say the same thing . In order to be really turned on sexually, emotional intimacy is a prerequisite and it has to begin way before the bedroom games begiin. That is how I roll, and I imagine all women roll. Everything is mental.
Bill Withes has a song. If I can remember correctly, it's called Make Love To My Mind Before You Make Love To My Body.
A strong intimate connection is a must!! Cold wet fish, yikes. 😫 I could never. So glad you stood up for what is right!
Your greenspace is so beautiful! What a peaceful place to meditate and reflect.
I would love a life you live. I know it’s hard sometimes but look at the peace and quiet nature that you have to look forward to every day of your life. Much love to you and your Hubby ❤🇺🇸
Es I am so proud of you for standing up for your feelings. And always remember that your feelings are very valid in any situation, no matter where you are at. I was always told that communication rules the nation and if you never communicate your feelings, then how will someone know that you're hurt? Never let anyone make you feel like your feelings are invalid or not important. Because they are no matter what culture you are from. You have feelings just like anyone else and never let anyone walk over your feelings. I'm going to keep you and your family in prayer that the MOST HIGH grant you peace love and happiness because everyone deserves that let your haters hate that's what they do and they know Envy is a sin and I'm going to pray that NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER so keep her head up from your sister from another mother in the USA And they know whether they're Muslim or Christian, that they should not be trying to covenant another woman's husband that's in the Bible and the Quran
Green is definitely one of your colors No surprise there since green represents nature, peace, balance and new beginnings. Your home and garden are definitely giving high vibrational vibes.
I really appreciate how you conduct/express yourself during whatever you’re going through. Though, I have never seen you like this. Whatever you’re going through must be tough. Honestly, you’re a strong woman! My sister, depression is real, please take good care of yourself. You nearly made me cry. Remember, hundreds of people you have impacted through your channel.
I 💯 support this message it’s not wrong for saying what we need
Definitely. Protect your safety and mental health please.
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I just saw your video that is now members only where you are thinking of going back home. I could tell that you went through allot and I know exactly what you are going through, it messes with your mind. Your are a strong, analytical and smart lady and with all that is going on it could be overwhelming. It's ok to be vulnerable. My advice is to go back home for a few months to an environment your familiar with it will help. Reassess, learn from your mistakes and try something new. Personally I think the nature bit was brilliant, your spiritual journey is great. Remember this, if you don't make mistakes you don't learn, you are better off now. Believe me you're blessed and you're a queen, don't let know tell you otherwise.
A child does not make things better. A child definitely picks up on energy.
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@DIYHOUSEANDFARM you know, sis. I've been watching you for years and I see YOU! You come 1st.😉
I don't normally comment, but from one African American sister to another, live your life beautiful!! Don't let the haters deter or affect you, they are miserable!!
I have been married to an African a Nigerian nearly 30 years.i have had to tell him. We must communicate tell me how you feel. Good man he is. However he can do better
You're so talented and gifted. You have lot wonderful qualities. Peace & Love in all your endeavors.
I will say this again. You are so BRAVE. I am originally from the continent. Been living in the USA for a while. I understand you perfectly. Please keep speaking. Never stop. You are chaning lives.
@@immyemmy7058 I love when other brothers and sisters can see both sides and understand where we are coming and not be offended or judgmental Be blessed
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I see that things at the homestead have changed a lot. Just know that joy comes from the inside, and not from the outside, inward. My love goes out to you both. ❤❤❤😊😊😊
I just started following you and watching your videos from a tiny island in the Caribbean. You strike me as a strong intelligent lady who is true to herself, trust your gut feelings, and look after you❤❤
Life happens and you have to continue to live. Many blessings to you and hubby. ❤✌🏽
I agree that you should be able to talk to ur mate about anything..
Thanks for the clarification. Remember you are here to fulfill your purpose. Everyday there are challenges. Continue in strength. You are so talented and worthy. Be blessed❤
The Light is at the end of the tunnel but happiness is part of the roller coaster ride, U will be great. The experience is all about finding that other version of yourself & it happened. U & U are already there. Breath...... B Safe & Happy Journey!
Like My Ghanaian Lover tells Me ALL THE TIME... CREATE THE RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU WANT! No One else can or Will!!! 🇺🇸 ❤🇬🇭 PRAYERS GOING 🆙 OVER YOU ✌'s STABLE FOUNDATION!!!🙂
My wife sent me your video yesterday and watched it this morning. I couldn't finish watching it because I was soo down and I cried when you're crying or weeping. Please come back when you leave back to America. You're very strong woman.May God bless you.
I get you, I see you, I OVERSTAND
You!!!!!! Love to you both. You are only trying to raise the frequency and the vibration of man and women.
This is really beautiful ES. I adore what you and Vinman have created for yourselves here.
😊 Yes They Are Beautifully Talent People, Putting Their Love & Respect For Nature In The Natural Environment, And; Like Magic, The Environment Beautifully Gives Back! Wow, Just Look At How Well Loved Ma Nature LOVES This Wonderful Couple. 👍😊
Our girl is back!!! ❤❤❤💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Alot of people try to speak on things they have NO CLUE about!!!
PERIOD -LOVE HOW YOU CLARIFIED to the unchurched.
THE PURPOSE OF MATES SPEAKING LIFE AND THE TRUTH IN expressing your love to gain understanding in RELATIONSHIPS
I wanna here the husband side of the story
ES as an African woman in her mid 30s one thing I can relate to is the older I get the less I want to conform to societies expectations & norms. Living a fulfilled path means forging your own path which most people will only come to understand when they get enlightened as well. But it’s not for everyone to understand or accommodate & that’s ok. We love you & support you. You speak for women not just African American but also African can relate & also go through the same challenges. ❤stay strong, love and peace to you ❤both
all i can say is you make good content
You have a way with words I wise had speak your truth my sista some people need to hear it so Thank you
Ppl on here can be mean ass hell🤔
Women on here can be wicked and deceitful as hell.
Don’t worry. They’ve all been blocked. They do not matter here.
The real real is beautiful. I am taking notes. Thank you for sharing yourself with me.
It is kinda scary how AI gets what you were saying more than human beings! Now I see how this AI will be a threat to us in the future! Wow!
The Ai captured the essence more than the people. Epic and very scary.
I enjoy learning from your cooking. Red onions only from now on!😊 Also, lots of fish, ( omega 3) the reason why your skin is so beautiful!
I am very impressed of what you and your hubby have been able to achieve. I am from continent. I know how hard it is to adapt but mother africa is beautiful.
Thank you
You all just dropped another banger!!
Everything you made on video today was 100% organic this should be sustained because yo wouldn't believe some of the toxic ingredients of processed foods in Africa.
Sunflower has certain properties (it absorbs nuclear particles from atmosphere) that could make it a health risk .
One of the certainties in life is change all we have be is adaptable, we only have one life and must boldly lives the best way we can.
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This is your life and only you can determine how it ought to be lived so you can draw the deepest joy and satisfaction from it.
You will land on your feet because you know how....the ups and downs are universal...and you are sensible as well as wise, whatever the situation.
I'm still here.
Next time.💜💜💜
It's sad when you have to explain yourself to these narcissistic individuals who watch you and just want to know every step of your life, is this the world we're living in today, it's your business your life, do you and whatever makes you happy
The music is dope
Greetings ES .
Yesterday I watched ur vlog and when you cried I cried. I feel better after crying, releasing negative energy, learning from my mistakes as well as successes. Acknowledging that I'm doing my best with the blessings I'm given each and every day. The Most High created me as I am, and he sees me perfect. ( flaws and all ) He doesn't make mistakes. So, for me to be upset with the haters is a waste of my energy. They're really upset with the Most High because he's my creator. Let them complain to him. I hope you can relate to what I'm saying.
Little Sis you put in a lot of work in your Beautiful place.
That's why I hate to see her leave it. Nobody else should be there if she can't 😡.
@@vickieadams6648who said she was leaving her farm her home 🏡 no she's not leaving what she done put so much of her hard work nd hands into building her empire... us women may hurt for a minute but we pulls it together 💯❤🙏💫 stay tuned she'll stay right there on the MOTHERLAND AFRICA
To understand you've hav to experience it, what she's been through... ijs...
Hey, been watching your channel, off and on and most recently on. Thanks for your honesty and realness
I am over in Tanzania,for almost 4 years. I understand some of those issues. You know some Caribbean men need some help to understand the various aspects of intimacy within relationships (;in reference to previous videos). Loving persistence in communicating about this with your partner is important. Just do your thing and hang on in there.❤. By the way, I am from UK and was once married to a Ghanaian in the UK.
Calm down mama
Life’s a roller coaster anywhere
Yaaasssss!!!! Preach my fellow African American Sister ❤ Sometimes you gotta speak the truth, even if it steps on some toes!
I'm not easily impressed. I must say your homestead is very well put together. It's not only tasteful but has a natural flow with It's beauty. From one homesteader to another l, keep on with the keeping on! Cheers.
People are crazy in their minds.that’s why most of us are so poor as a nation.children don’t make you rich or happier in life that’s your creativity and goals to achieve and the result of it. I Wish you both luck in your journey together ❤
When Both Spouses live by this formula DAILY their marriage is a blessed one!
(Husband = Wife) +
(100% = 100%) +
(Love = Sacrifice) +
(Giving = Receiving) +
(Honesty = Harmony) +
(Vulnerability = Strength) +
(Perseverance = Success)
God said it is not good for the man to be alone. He said this because it's men who need that reminder from time to time.
If a man can receive the above wisdom and order his life according to the formula, he is worthy of a wife and will be a blessing to her and his children.
When a man is distracted by other things in his mind he needs a STRONG reminder. An Earthquake will do 😉
Through the eyes of the creator: He who finds a wife finds a good thing
Blessings
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Absolutely Gorgeous ES. 🌹👑
I pray 🙏🙏🙏 now you hear the right voice and make all the moves for the next level know one but you have it. The most high is in control but you have to do work. Don't worried about the people saying. My grandma say once people mouth open them ago talk, so uf you dont have anything good to say nay say nothing at all. Peace my sister now your real journey begins and i cant wait to see how you handle the message. It took a while, you were in class all this time not knowing it was a lesson. Your husband was send to help carry you into the time line. There a time for everything. I love how you talk about it, but some people dont understand what you are saying. Me mama got it and thank you for sharing. Pray 🙏🙏🙏 cry out before you go there is another chapter, please be still and listen. Stop talking and walk the good walk. Shalom
*5:50**/**13:03** ❤WILL MAKE ROOM❣️ PERFECT TIME FOR 🎶BREAK TO REFLECT ON THAT POWERFUL POINT❣️*
So happy for you. It’s a journey without a road map
Sending prayers to you Sis. Been There and Done that.
We do all we know to do and if it doesnt work, we move forward. No shame or Failure in this. Ignore the haters, the experience of Africa can ONLY be understood if you have walked in it.
Thanks u much love on your channel 😢😮
Above all else , Guard your Heart, for everything you do flows from it...(guarding the Heart is necessary because it is valuable.
Awwwwww very moved by your emotional hiccups. Keep faith alive and stay strong.
E.S. You will be just fine ❤
ES You are a wonderful inspiration. If You need time to look after “YOU”, that is exactly what You should do. You do alot, and You have learned alot; have contributed to the beauty of Your House and farm. Whatever Your decision
know that it is fine.
You and Vín Man hold ón to LOVE fiercely, but speak the things that You need. Speak the things that you find difficult. One thing I know is that you have done sooooo very múch, learned so very much. Hang in there ES. We Love You❣️♥️♥️♥️🛐🙏🏾
I really hope you are doing well.
Sending love ❤.
Stay strong and safe 🙏🏽
Your channel is the best on TH-cam. Very calming, relaxing and meditative. Love the animals. I agree with you and black men not knowing how to communicate. Cost me my marriage of 22years. Lack of communication.
These are topics for discussions. To draw people. True feelings being aired, yes. That I believe, also.
My dear sister looking at this beautiful oasis and thinking the hands of a black woman and man created this..that brought me joy..as I'm currently in the hospital, macadu made me laugh with that simple joy...thank you for this gift...I know its not without sacrifices. Namaste❤❤❤❤
Keep them in awe of you..❤
You've built something extraordinary here. But your mental health comes first.
I agree with you Sister, Sometimes we don’t want to hurt our spouse feelings but being honest ourselves is healing for us. I’m glad that you’re back home and safe! I was very concerned about you being by yourself , I,m happy to see your face 🌹🫀
I think the video is firepower
Pray about it and let your husband know what you want!
Love this podcast/show of serenity,keep up the great content,much respect.
I think you need a vacation away from the continent to rejuvenate your mental state and recharge your spirit. I am also from that place and I know how things are on the continent.
I want to get my projects done
@DIYHOUSEANDFARM OK, but the moment you fill drained, drop and go.
You spoke your truth and now you guys are back to normal. Why are people still thinking you want to come to America? Come on people she had a moment, and within that moment she shared an thought us a lot. Who needed to hear it heard it. Now can we move pass it?
You will be surprised once you speak out and leave. They start thinking about everything you've always voiced to them happened to me. I left for 6 months. Best thing every. Alllll my needs and concerns are now being met.
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Agree 👍 I did the same
Heyyy hey ayyye speak QUEEN that’s right sis “ if you enjoy my company. You got to make room for me “ hey heyyy hey say it again sis I hear u I know that’s right huh ahhh the QUEEN has spoken for her an millions of other women talk to to us sis I got chills I feel u love you girl you keep on keeping and GOD will rain Down on you in a most positive way heyyy 😇🙏🌎🇺🇸👍🏾♥️♥️♥️
Sending Love and Support Sis from NYC.
The world is a stage for sure. The best to you and your family.
I agree that people don’t have to have children to complete the relationship….they may want to just enjoy their lives together and that’s enough. Children are a lot of responsibility. To many people bring children into relationships that aren’t whole already.
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Bill Shakespeare said, "To Thine own self be true." The most important decisions that need be made must be made individually not corporately. A two-fold cord may very well be stronger than a single thread, but no cord, couple or group of people can come together lest they agree or is compatible.
You are magical
For good morning s those shines makes everything ok.
Beautiful! Sending you love always.❤
Y’all house / land is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you my sweet. 🙏
It’s Beautiful to Express your feelings.. God Has Your Back Sis.. You will be Fine In Jesus might might name,,❤
You look so beautiful!❤
Stay focused, and E things are going to work out.Im still coming to Africa. I hope I see you there, but it won't be Ghana.
Ok 👌
Thanks for sharing.
I dived into the like button 😂❤
Keep strong sister...hold fast what is most important. Your struggles are the struggles of a caring spirit.
Stay beautiful.